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October 27, 2025 13 mins
 “Why don’t guys ever ask for the details?” That’s the question that kicks off this laugh-out-loud episode of The JB and Sandy Show, where Sandy, JB, and Trisha dive deep into the hilarious differences between how men and women communicate—and what those differences reveal about us all. From Sandy’s viral Instagram clip about men’s “need-to-know” approach to life, to Trisha’s passionate plea for more curiosity, the hosts unpack why guys seem content with headlines while women crave the full story. JB shares his own experience of catching up with old friends, joking that he needs AI to summarize their conversations because, “We just cover 30 topics in an hour, but never the details!” The episode takes a playful turn as the trio launches into their signature segment: “That’s All I Need to Know About You.” Listeners will love the rapid-fire judgments—like JB’s take on people who leave grocery carts in the parking lot (“Society would collapse if everyone was like you!”), Trisha’s ban on truck nuts and Calvin stickers, and Sandy’s hilarious observations about man buns, gym selfies, and specialty license plates.

Memorable Quotes & Moments:
  • “Girls read the whole article. Guys just want the summary.”
  • “If you purposely make your car crazy loud, I need you to go away.”
  • “Anytime someone says ‘You got it, boss,’ I hear that. He’s been in the penitentiary.”
  • “If you’ve got more than three bumper stickers, I know everything I need to know about you.”
 Why Listen?
If you’ve ever wondered why your partner doesn’t ask follow-up questions, or if you secretly judge people by their bumper stickers, this episode is for you. It’s relatable, witty, and packed with moments that will have you nodding along—or laughing out loud. Call to Action:
Loved this episode? Don’t miss out—subscribe to The JB and Sandy Show, leave us a review, and share your own “That’s All I Need to Know About You” moments on social media! Your story might just make it into our next episode.


 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, thanks for being with us. My name is Sandy,
This is JB. Hello, and Tricia's here too. Hi everybody,
and away.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
We go, and I'm want to start out.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
This is a really funny but incredibly relatable clip that
I got off of Instagram. And I think every guy
has had a conversation really similar to this with his wife.
I know Tricia and I have, and she's pointed it
out a couple times about how guys just don't get
all the details of things that are going on when

(00:28):
they come back and tell their wives.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Here's a great example of it.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
I told my wife. I'm like, hey, my buddy Jordan
got engaged. And she goes, oh my gosh, tell me
everything I just did. I told you everything that I
learned from that conversation. And she's like, no, Like, how
did they get engaged? How did he propose?

Speaker 2 (00:47):
I didn't ask We don't ask each other those questions.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
I don't even know how old he is, And she goes,
why don't guys ask each other more questions?

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Like we do? You know? Like I asked him. I
was like, hey, are you sure? Now?

Speaker 3 (01:03):
As far as that conversation, I learned what I needed
to learn number one, he's engaged, number two, the date
of the bachelor party. I want to need to know
basis and if Jordan's not going to volunteer that information
to me, which he didn't, Thank god, I don't need
to know, So okay.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
Thanks by. It's great to know. Guys, we're not alone
in this.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
We're not alone in this because I've gone through this
with Trisha more than once.

Speaker 4 (01:29):
I just don't understand why is there no curiosity about
Like the biggest example is when you're like, yeah, so
and so had their baby. They had their baby, go,
oh my god, what was it? And you're like, I
don't know. I didn't ask, And I'm like, oh my god,
that's the number one question, And I don't know how

(01:51):
your brain isn't interested in that information.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
Short attention spans, that's why, because it's probably from talking
to the whoever having a baby to the fact that
the Dallas Stars won last night.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
You know what I mean. It's just like that fast
it happens. JB. I know you've gone through the same thing. Oh,
I know. It's it's funny.

Speaker 5 (02:09):
I joke that now if I'm catching up with someone,
I need to just record it from right and then
I have AI do a summary. But it's like a
couple of my old college buddies and I got together
last fall and we took a trip up to Palladero
Canyon and my wife's like, what do you guys talk about?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
And I'm like, nothing, really.

Speaker 5 (02:33):
You you spend about the first five minutes catching up,
you know, and it's not much. It's it's more of
a courtesy, like how the kids. Yeah, we don't even
ask how the spouses are doing, you know.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
What, Jami, I think I'm sorry. I think this is
a great example. Like guys. Let's say guys spend an
hour together, right, guys will have in one hour, they
will cover thirty different topics of what's going on.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
What they're talking about.

Speaker 6 (03:01):
Girls one, y'all are head one girl headliner one.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Yeah, that's what it is. Y'all just read the headlines.
Girls read the whole article.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yeah, we'll just cover thirty things that have happened, or
thirty different conversations.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
And the girls will.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
Have one is there ever a and then he said
this to me, and then somebody else goes and then
what did you say? And then the other person that's
what a whole girl's conversation is and then he said
what and then who said that? Like, we have to
like get the whole picture. Y'all just want the summary,
don't you.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
Yeah, we do.

Speaker 6 (03:34):
I think that's so weird.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
I mean we are we are ex and you are novels.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
That's wheah. It is right, You're right just the way
that it is so. But we're not going to change.
But when I saw that clip, I was like, I'm
glad it's not just me, right, And now I try
to Maybe I'll make an effort. When I'm talking to
someone and they tell me that they someone's having a baby,
I'll find out if it.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
Was a boy or girl.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
When you're talking about babies, I need to know if
there's a boy or girl, and I need to know
the name. And also with dogs, I need to know
the dog's names. Very important information for me.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
That's funny.

Speaker 5 (04:08):
If I go to get coffee, like with my wife,
we'll walk down to South Congress and I'll bump into
people that I see all the time at the coffee
shop and I only know I don't know their names.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
I just know what kind of motorcycle or car they drive.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
The pet and my wife will be real curious because
I'll be like, you know, I'll say hi to someone
and she'll be like, who's that I go, I don't
know his name.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
He has a really cool Dakati motorcycle.

Speaker 5 (04:37):
That's how you know. That's we just live on this
surface level and yeah, and life. It's easier that way.
And it's the same way with me. When I walk
on the Brushy Creek trail, I know people. I see
the same people and know they're they're dogs names, but
I don't know by the way, Triss I ran into Mini.

Speaker 6 (04:56):
Oh is she fine?

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Cancer?

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Oh she's a little He's a dog many Australian shepherd
that we see on the walk all the time, and
she's been going back and forth to College Station to
go to get her cancer treatments there.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
They're the best boy. And that's the truth. That's when
you love your aggies. When your dogs are sick.

Speaker 6 (05:15):
Yeah, right, the animals are sick, you put all all.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
Prejudice aside.

Speaker 5 (05:22):
I think even when Bevo's sick, they've gone to College Station.
Do you no, really, I don't quote me on that,
but I think I mean odds are yeah. A large
animal veterinarian in Texas is going to be an aggie. Yeah, yeah,
I think I think that long Arms even put their
pride side in that scenario.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (05:44):
I think that's amazing. I love that they're like, nope,
that's an animal involved. Everybody just step back.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
And all the aggies when they need dental work, they
come to you.

Speaker 6 (05:57):
Neat extra cash in your life.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
The thousand dollars payded.

Speaker 6 (06:00):
He is back this morning at nine.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
All right, just just a little heads up here. We're
gonna be a little judge. But it's all in fun.
It's all done with love, except for maybe Tricia because
she really enjoys being judge. But you know, you can
just sum someone up with one thing, like one snapshot
of somebody if they're doing a certain thing, that's all
I need to know about you, right, Yes, that's everything

(06:26):
that I need to know. I'll give you a really
really good, good example for me. If I see a
dude in a man bun and no other grooming effort
at all, that's all I need to know about that guy.
That's everything I need to know. When I see him,
I'm done. I know everything. I'm not saying it's good,

(06:47):
I'm not saying it's bad. But I know everything I
need to know about that guy, JB.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Do you have one? When I see someone leave a
grocery cart in the middle of the parking lot, Ah,
that helps me all I need to know.

Speaker 7 (06:59):
You terrible, more important than anybody else, better than everybody else.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
You don't have to play by the rules.

Speaker 7 (07:06):
Yep.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Yes, society would fail everywhere if everyone was.

Speaker 6 (07:11):
Like you right their mama did not raise them right.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Society would collapse right right. It would not worktricity, you
got one.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
I do, and I think this one is the most
glaring one. This might even be what started the whole.
That's all I need to know about you. Truck nuts,
trucks apps immediately know. I cannot look at you, be
your friend nothing if you think those are cool.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
There was a state that banned them. I think Oregon
or Washington, one of those Northwest states. They passed a
law that you can't nut up your truck anywhere.

Speaker 4 (07:50):
Also, though hand in hand with somebody who has truck nuts,
more than likely they will also have a sticker in
the back window of Calvin peeing on something. Another thing
that I cannot tolerate.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Very forward versus chevy kind of thing going on.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Hey, if I see you rock and tivas with socks,
that's all I need to know about you.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
And he threw a fanny pack on too, That's everything
I need to know about you.

Speaker 5 (08:17):
If I see you taking selfies at the gym during
your work, all I need to know about you.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
Stop now.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
I see so many of those people on Instagram and
I'm like, I couldn't do that. I'd be so uncomfortable
doing that, you know what I mean. And they have
to set up a camera. Do they bring a tripod
in with them right to do it? I guess they
do with lights the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
My friend Sean visited Auschwitz and people were taking selfies
in front of Auschwitz and.

Speaker 6 (08:51):
Horrible people, horrible, horrible.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
I remember getting a text message from my buddy Marlin
that said, I'm just here at the Love waiting in
line to get a selfie with the Mona Lisa, like
every other a hole in the world, a selfie with
the Mona Lisa. Come on, really, what's your stress?

Speaker 6 (09:13):
Anybody who is in public talking on their speaker phone?

Speaker 2 (09:16):
I hate you.

Speaker 6 (09:16):
Oh, that's all I need to know.

Speaker 4 (09:19):
You're the same person who leaves your card in the
parking lot or stops in the middle of the grocery store.

Speaker 7 (09:24):
Lane.

Speaker 6 (09:25):
I cannot stand it when people do that. It's all
I need to know I have.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
Yeah, I give a little bit of grace if it's
an older if it's a senior citizen, I give them
a little bit of a break. But if you're a
young person even just watching videos on your phone last week,
your phone, Yes, it's so annoying you carry a dog
in a purse that I know everything I need to

(09:50):
know about you when I see that.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
But it depends on how cute that dog is. Because
if that's a super cute dog purse purse rightteness factor.
I see that all the time at Whole Foods downtown.
Oh yeah, yeah, uh you know what tells me all
I need to know that?

Speaker 7 (10:07):
It's usually guy the kind of guy that refers to
the weight staff is either boss or chief.

Speaker 2 (10:14):
That always tells me that guy's been in prison anytime.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
So I say, you got a boss, I hear that
that's something he'd been in the penitentiary. That's where he
learned that for sure. Tris do you have one?

Speaker 6 (10:29):
I have another one. If you purposely make your car
crazy loud, or your motorcycle super loud. I can't know that,
guy O JB. Like when you were young.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
Yeah, I liked it.

Speaker 6 (10:46):
Oh but I mean if if it makes you jump,
if it startles you, you can hear it blocks and
blocks and blocks away.

Speaker 7 (10:52):
I have a huge problem with that pipe Saved Lives
Trician pipe sah, Hey, I've got one, I think, JB.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
I think I may be insulting your daughter a little
bit on this, But forgive me because I think she's
a bumper sticker girl.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
Oh yeah she is.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
But if you've got more than three bumper stickers on
your car, she does everything I need to know about you,
especially if you've got if you've got these two on it,
if you've got nine to eleven was an inside job,
and the and the coexist one on your car, different symbols,
I know everything I need to know about you.

Speaker 2 (11:29):
So what kind of stickers is Raleigh sticking on her car?

Speaker 5 (11:34):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (11:34):
They're mostly surfy stuff, okay, non political, lake no nothing,
no lake, lake kind of stuff, surf kind of vibes, beaches,
all white stuff.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Yeah, that kind of stuff. Yeah, she she lives that lifestyle, right.

Speaker 6 (11:50):
Yeah, I feel like that's kind of different. I don't know.
Then people just put random stuff and then you don't
even know what they are.

Speaker 4 (11:56):
You don't know what they stand for, what they mean.
So I feel like a bumper sticker is trying to
can band message. But then you see one and you
have no idea what it means.

Speaker 2 (12:04):
Yeah, like you're missing something, right, Yeah, all right, last call?
Anybody got any more?

Speaker 7 (12:10):
I don't know people with pony cute uh uh? Specialty
license plates? Oh, the vanity plates. Yeah, like the people
in electric that liked, you know, putt like no gas
and stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
The Tesla one with zero gas. I've seen that. Yeah,
stuff like that, bragging about it being electric.

Speaker 5 (12:34):
And then you get the same thing you get to
people that like no plug, like I burned gas.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
It's very funny.

Speaker 6 (12:41):
It's a weird war between the two, isn't it really?
Very passive aggressive?

Speaker 1 (12:46):
And I don't know why I feel this way, but
I mean, anybody with a fedora, I mean not a fedora,
I get the word, what's the long feather thing?

Speaker 4 (12:56):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (12:57):
Boa? You wearn't a boa? A feather boa? That's all
I need to know about you.

Speaker 4 (13:02):
I was gonna say that fedora is fine as long
as it's on a little peepole shuffling around.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
That's okay then, especially a gay dude with a fedora,
I mean a boa. I'm gonna stop right here with us.
My goodness, let's punch out of this.

Speaker 6 (13:16):
Need extra cash in your life.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
The thousand dollars pay day is back this morning at
nine
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