June 17, 2025 • 22 mins
Rachel needs help when it comes to dating. Is age more important than life experiences?
Sara's son finally asked her to hang out but it's causing a dilemma.
Mika did a knockout job on How Country Are Ya but couldn't find a story about her clothes!
What country singer said Morgan Wallen would be a good babysitter?
Kane Brown was kicked out of Walmart for doing something Spencer has done numerous times!
Sara's son finally asked her to hang out but it's causing a dilemma.
Mika did a knockout job on How Country Are Ya but couldn't find a story about her clothes!
What country singer said Morgan Wallen would be a good babysitter?
Kane Brown was kicked out of Walmart for doing something Spencer has done numerous times!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Rachel listens to us on the iHeart radio app. She
shot us at talkback that's when you click the little
red microphone.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Okay, So I need some advice from some other women
that are in their thirties that are dating right now,
because these young bucks are all about them some women
in their thirties, and I don't know what the rule is.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
So I'll be thirty three this year, and I'm okay
with dating like a decent amount older, so I don't know,
forty ish, But whenever it comes to dating younger, like,
what's the call off? Because I feel like I have
lived a lot of life in my thirty three years.
You know, I have been married, divorce, I have a child,
I run a company. I'm very much like established, even
though I'm kind of a mess at the same time,
(00:43):
but I have gone through a lot of healing. I
am very mature emotionally and just in life in general.
So I'm a little scared to go younger because do
these guys really know what it takes to have like
a good, healthy, lasting marriage, Like is that going to
be unbalanced?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
What opinion would you give Rachel about dating younger men
at the age of thirty three.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I think to each their own.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
And what I mean by that is, if this is
something that you can get past mentally and you want
to do that, then go right ahead. It would be
so backwards for me to have an opinion of, oh, no,
you don't need to do this. I will say, I
think all of your concerns, Rachel, are valid and that
we all know. I mean, it's been told to us
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our entire lives that men mature slower than women. And
so if your concern is already out the gate, like hey,
are they going to be able to meet me where
I'm at? And she made the comment that she's lived
a lot of life. I do think life experience definitely
plays a role into like what age range that you
want to date and kind of experiment in and that
(01:50):
kind of thing. So if she can get past the
mental of like, oh, they're younger than me, then.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Go for it.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
If you can't get past that, it's not fair to
the other person, like to continue to drag them along.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Rachel. Don't let Blair fool you. She heard you say
you date guys older at forty or forty two, She's like,
shoot on up into the sixties.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Girl, I mean, I think the biggest thing is.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
I'm so so, so so so thankful that I'm not
in the dating game anymore, because I have friends that
are in their thirties that talk about how hard it is,
and if you are a person who has gone through
a lot, somebody that hasn't, that's in their twenties is
going to have a hard time relating regardless.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You brought up a very valid part of this though,
it's you need to date people who have had similar
life experiences as you. So she owns the company, she
obviously does well in her profession, she's been married, she's divorced,
she has a kid. There's no way that you could
possibly date somebody younger that has never reached any of
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those levels because they're not going to be yoked with you.
They're not going to be looking at the same thing, right,
So you need to worry less about the age and
more about the experiences that that person has gone through.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
For sure.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
And you know she touched on her personal history, but
I know, like for me in my life, it was
just about what my family had gone through. And there
are certain life things that happened that I believe make
you more mature quicker, you know, And so somebody that's
twenty one to twenty two years old, getting out of college,
never had a real job, are they going to be
(03:30):
able to support you being a business owner. I don't know,
because they don't know what that entails.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
What's up, Kathy?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
I kind of think she's already got some money in mind,
but at least make sure it's a twenty.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
A good point and good point than me.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
So wait a minute, why are you guys seeing good
point to her having somebody in mind? She's looking for
somebody to say, hey, if he's twenty nine, and she's like, dang,
this guy like is actually twenty seven.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
No, I mean for her to bring it up, you
make a good point that, like she has someone in mind,
whether anything has happened at all. But there's a reason
she brought this up. It wasn't just like oh what
should I do?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Yeah. Now, whenever you get older, and you know you're
like in your forties, pieces in your date and younger,
just make sure that they're older than your kids.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I mean, I have nothing to say, come up, tell
us the deal.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
How old is Steve's children compared to you?
Speaker 5 (04:27):
I'm not going to throw out their ages. But I
will say that I am younger than them, yes, and was.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
That a problem?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
No, it never appeared to be. I think that they.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
Had questions at first, I mean, rightfully, so.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Wait when they gave you a bib at dinner.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
But no, in all seriousness, I mean I think Steve
just sat down and had conversations with them and then like,
there's a difference in not being okay with it and
being hesitant, And I think there was some hesitation on
both their their ends, and right I would be the
same exact way.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
If Bobby d went down there.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Like, Dad, does she even have a license for that
big wheel she parked in.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
The driveway, He's like, no, please, don't tell anyone.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Well, thank you, I hope you have a wonderful day,
all right? Yea Christian? What's up, Bud?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
Hey were doing?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:17):
I was calling about the Rachel question?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Yeah, what would you say to Rachel?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
I think the life experience part's more important. I'm twenty
five of being in a military, got married young, I
lived a lot. A lot of my friends are older
from work and stuff like that, So twenty five year
olds I got nothing in common with them. I got
a kid as well, so, God forbid I was able
to get divorced. I don't think i'd be looking in
(05:43):
my dreams. Probably.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Do you think anything military that grew you up faster?
Speaker 7 (05:47):
Oh for sure?
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Yeah, thank you for your service. By the way, Yeah
what brands were you in?
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Navy?
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Life happens at different points for people, and you have
to grow up faster sometimes.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
So yeah, age is just a number.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
It's funny here say thanks buddy, great.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Day, giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave Show. I think
there's one thing we can all agree on. We don't
really celebrate Louisiana State University LSU that much.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
No, what would we.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Well, we should be celebrating now because a group of
students invented a brand new car seat technology that will
help prevent babies from being left in hot cars.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Okay, that's great, but do they have to be from LSU?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Could they be from Alabama? Since they've heard most deaths
happen because people forget their babies are in the car.
It links to your cell phone and will set off
an alarm when you're too far away from your vehicle
and your child is still in the car seat.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
I do love this. I hate that.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
We're at a place in the world that we need this,
but I do love this.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And we just won't discuss where they're from.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
You hate the fact that it's from LSU. It's all good,
you know, if it just didn't come from Louisiana State.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
That's so true.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
If you have teenagers who live in your house, does
it feel kind of silent? You don't have the same
communication level that you used to. You may get that
feeling that they don't need you anymore. That's definitely happening
with the local real estate agent named Sarah. She left
us a talk back on the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
I'm showing a bunch of houses in Alabama today and
this morning before I left, my son was about to
leave to to go take the act and he asked
me if I wanted to go.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Fishing this afternoon whenever we got back, and.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
I was trying to play it cool, and I was like, yeah,
that sounds like a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
No one.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
On the inside, I have like happy tears because one
last son is talking to me and too, I got
an invitation to hang out with them. I don't know
if there are other moms out there that do y'all
get excited when you're a teenager speaks to you and
get an invitation and you're just so ecstatic, like I
(08:05):
was this morning. But typically can stay busy with real
estate all day long, But today I'm going fishing.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Do you know how many times my tiny humans asked
me to do something and I would rather never do
that activity ever in my entire life, but I do
it because they invited me to be a part of it.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Well.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Even John Keith, who you've known since he was born.
He was your first one that you came into contact
with because he's your nephew from your sister. So John Keith,
he is in that you know age now where he
knows everything. He can't tell him anything. He's gotten to
the point where if he said to you, hey, Blair,
(08:48):
I just want to say be okay. If he said, hey,
be I just want to go fishing today, or I
just want to spend the afternoon.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
With you, I'm canceling everything.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
But you'd probably get emotional, wouldn't you, Oh for sure?
Speaker 5 (09:00):
And I would cancel anything that I had going on
because there's a day that those calls will stop coming
and I don't mean that in a negative way. I
mean I want that for him and for all my
other tiny humans, to have his own life and his
friends and to just go do what makes him happy.
But if he called and said, you know, one of
(09:21):
the things I am just not a fan of is
his dirt bike riding. Okay, that is not up my
alley in any shape or form. I know that's a
shock this morning. But if he called and said, hey,
I want you to come do this with me, that
means that for a split second. Whether it's because he
wanted to spend time with me or he wanted me
to pay for it when he got there, it's the
(09:43):
fact that I was a thought in his mind of like, hey,
let me call b.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
So you may go with John Keith. You're not going
to ride dirt bikes, but you'll go and be supportive.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
I'll go and be a nervous wreck the whole time.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Their parents that are going through this right now, you
know their teenager has now become just another living person
in the house, where before it was the kid that
you were making sandwiches for and was waking you up
asking you for help on this and this and this
and there's a sense that you feel like my kids
have grown up to where they don't need me anymore,
(10:18):
but I would be ecstatic. Maybe you've gone through something
just like Sarah E five five grave zero tivity, good morning,
Thanks so much? Are you calling to help out our friends? Sarah?
Speaker 8 (10:28):
Those teenagers need their parents so much, and sometimes they
don't know how to say it. But as someone who
is watching them from the outside, they need you, mmm
how sod in every regard. They need the confidence, they
need that unconditional love. They need just someone to check
(10:49):
in on them. I see, Hey, how are you today?
Like you're doing good? Like tell me about school. Even
if they say nothing every single day, they still need
you to ask.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
And it's how you frame it too, right, Like if
you sit down at dinner, instead of asking the yes, no,
did you have a good day today, it's what did
you do? Tell me? The highlight? Like get them talking?
Speaker 8 (11:09):
Mm hmm, absolutely, because there are so many times I
have students who just break down, like no one talks
to me, or they'll say you're the only one who
sees me, and it breaks my heart.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Yeah, you know, Blair, you actually said this not too
long ago about showing up to one of Corbyn's volleyball games.
He said, the most important thing I can do without
being a parent, but being a grandparent, is just show up.
And yesterday I was out playing golf and ended up
in a group and the two guys that joined us
was a father and a thirteen year old son who's
(11:45):
on the golf team. And it was wonderful to just
sit back and watch to see how the dad handled
his son. He gave corrections when he had to, he
gave praise when he had to, But the fact that
it was just them enjoying around a golf off meant
more to that kid, I'm sure, and he'll realize it
years from now.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
My favorite videos on social media, Yeah, my favorite videos
on social media right now are the ones where like
you're filming that a child before they recognize that you're there,
and then once they realize that you're there, whether it's
for a game or something at school or whatever, it
might be, their face just lights and that just it's
always a reminder to me that you just got to
(12:25):
show up. I mean, we're all busy, and you know,
my tiny humans all want to play one hundred and
seventy four sports and being one hundred and ninety eight
different organizations, but showing up matters. And I remember what
it was like when I saw my dad out in
the audience, you know, I mean, you want them to
be proud of you, and so the showing up aspect,
it just there's nothing more important.
Speaker 8 (12:46):
Oh absolutely. I have students tell me they'll say so
and so never comes, and I go to several games.
I'm in charge of pet club, so I'm constantly there
and I'm yelling for my students. I can hear my
voice or anybody's because the one they're used to it,
they they can hear me, and they're like, you're the
(13:07):
only person who cheers.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, And we know that they can hear because Blair
is usually screaming a bunch of cusswords at the top
of her life.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
I'm not screaming cuss words at the kids, and.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
The kids just get it together, let's go.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
But I'll say this, you make a good point of
them saying things like, uh, you know, so and so
doesn't come. I've always believed, you know, they may not
remember that I was at every single game, but they'll
never have to remember that I wasn't there. Well, I
never feel what that's like, because I know some of
my tiny humans, some people that they wish would be
(13:44):
at certain things.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
It's not.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
And let me tell you, it does affect those kids,
no matter how cool they want to act or anything
like that. And so you know, it's like I mentioned
a few minutes ago, if if one of my tiny
humans wants to hang out with me, even if it
is dirt bike riding or.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Hey, listen, you could just tap me in because I'll
do the dirt bike riding with John Keith. Well, thank you,
have a great day, you two.
Speaker 6 (14:10):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show, Michael,
where are you from? We've had a perfect score recently
on how country are you on a scale of one
to country. How country are you?
Speaker 4 (14:24):
Ah them about eight.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
I like it. Room for improvement and definitely room for error,
So watch out for that. You need to answer three questions.
We'll give you a score. You ready, Okay? What heavy
equipment company is also an insectiller? Nicely done?
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Look at you you got there.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Our good friends in Alabama at Thompson would appreciate you.
Question number two if you close your eyes, what comes
to mind about driving a back country road?
Speaker 4 (14:54):
Tree?
Speaker 7 (14:55):
Start road?
Speaker 4 (14:57):
Sometimes?
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Why is it that when he closed my eyes and
I think about a backcountry road, it's always the sound
of the gravel cracking underneath the tires. Oh, is that
what crunching sound?
Speaker 4 (15:13):
In my world? It does? That's exactly what it sounds
like in my world.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
All right, here we go. Final question. Micah, share with
us the time you had a wardrobe malfunction.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Oh lord, that's a total.
Speaker 9 (15:29):
Wardrobe malfunction.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Yeah, everybody's had one.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
Oh, I'm drawing a blank.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Really really like that time I was in Nashville and
I was getting down on Lower Broadway and I split
my pants.
Speaker 4 (15:44):
I think that's a god thing, because look.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
These thunder thighs can't be contained by denim alone, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
And I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Y'all have never had a wardrobe malfunction. You're working out,
you're working outside, and all of a sudden, your shirt
gets caught in some rips. You're trying to go over
a barbed wire fence and you get caught again.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
I think you're describing yours and your brother's childhood.
Speaker 9 (16:06):
What now, my sister, it was a couple of days
after summer vacation started and we were hanging out out
of a mud hit with some friends and we decided
we were going mud wrestling, and then that was it
for the rest of the night.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
All right, close.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Down with water hostess before we could do anything.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
There you go, all right, we got somewhat there, not
bad eight and a half for you today. Okay, now
I've got to take us to the rodeo if you
want to do that, or do you want to see Luke.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
Bryant Luke Bryan I knew she was saying that.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
Blair. Tell me who came to the defense of Morgan
Wallen as being a babysitter.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Believe it or not, Eric Church did.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
He was doing an interview recently where they obviously asked
about the friendship, and he said, yeah, I would absolutely
trust Morgan with my kids. He's great around kids since
he became a dad, like even more so. And you know,
I kind of chuckled, because, look, I've met Morgan, super
nice guy. Is he the first person that comes to
my mind a country artist that I'd want babysitting my kids?
(17:15):
Probably not the first one, or the first ten or twenty.
Now I want to go hang out with Morgan Wallin,
but I don't know if my tiny humans, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
But if you think about it, like most of the
time when you get a babysitter, it's because you and
your spouse want to go on a date night and
the last thing you want to get is a phone
call from the babysitter saying, Hey, your kids are doing X,
Y and z. I need you to come back. That happens,
And I know parents are very aware of how their
(17:45):
kids act, maybe when they have a sitter. So why
would Morgan Wallan have to call you on your date
to rat out what your kids are doing? Eight five
five Grave zero Blair think about some of the tiny
humans that you have in your life.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Why his question?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Why would a babysitter have to call because Bubby is
doing something?
Speaker 5 (18:06):
Bubby is refusing to go down for a nap because
he wants to see all of Morgan's cars and he
wants each of them cranked up, each horn blown, and
then he wants.
Speaker 4 (18:15):
To play Monster Truck Show. And yeah, that Morgan's calling
us saying Bubby won't go down for nap.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
What's the other, Emma? What would be what would be
the reason why Morgan Wahlman would have to call because
he's babysitting Emma.
Speaker 5 (18:31):
Because Emma said that she's not going to take her nap,
she's not going to sleep because they're having too much
fun out there in the living room and she doesn't
want to miss out.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Where are the kids that are using the couch as
a gymnasium and a trampoline who end up having to
go to the er? Now that Corbyn got.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
You, that was corn Corbyn is now almost thirteen, so
I'm sure she.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
Would be okay with you know.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
I will say Morgan would probably have to call on
Corbyn because she's calling all of her friends to and
he's like, I'm enough of the I'm off.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
That's why Corbyn's called.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Why would Morgan Wallan have to call you when babysitting
your children? Eight five five graves zero Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Okay, let me tell you what my little tray he's
fourteen going on eighty and he has this trampoline shoved
up against the front porch of the house and he
goes he climbs the tree up next to the house.
He gets on the roof and he does one tom
bombs and all that stuff like WWE off the roof
(19:37):
and it freaks people out. My neighbors freaked out the
first time they saw him do it right, because he
wants to be the next ww thro start. He's been
doing it since between nine years old.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
I don't know. I feel like Morgan Wallen is probably
going to jump right in. He will only call you
if one of them men's up in the hospital.
Speaker 4 (19:53):
He's been like so.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
I'm always worried about him. Every One's straight through your
Tara bullet. We had to replace the trampling twice already.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
That's so funny. Over the weekend in the United States
of America, we celebrated the Army's two hundred and fiftieth birthday.
There was a huge anniversary parade and lots of local
and national media covered it, and a lot of country
artists were a part of it. One of them was
Warren Zeiders. But this happened on NBC, this.
Speaker 10 (20:27):
Celebration that's happening on the National Mall today for the
Army's two hundred and fiftieth birthday. I don't know who
this is singing right now, and I probably should.
Speaker 4 (20:40):
We were told there would be a surprise. I was
also hoping we would be told who the surprise is.
But this is I'm sure an important booking and.
Speaker 10 (20:49):
If anyone prom has an idea, we'd love to hear it.
Just for folks who were watching.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
NBC during the Army's two hundred and fiftieth anniversary military
parade and celebration had no idea who warren Zeider's was.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
I'm sure now these people will never forget who he is.
I do have a question. Did he keep his shirt on?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
It was loosely buttoned, and I thought the same thing.
I was like, God, warren Zeider's is going to take
your shirt off and look like a giant tool in
front of everybody?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Or you couldn't.
Speaker 5 (21:18):
Okay, he didn't. All right, we can confirm that they
probably do know now who he is and.
Speaker 4 (21:23):
That he kept his shirt on. It sounds like a win.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Honestly came Brown got in trouble for using the loud
speaker at a Walmart to play his new song, which
comes out this week.
Speaker 5 (21:33):
I've never done it. Have I thought about it? Absolutely everybody?
It was like your dream as a kid to talk
in those overhead speakers.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Such a goody goody. Why didn't you just do it?
Have you met me, Were you scared that you were
going to get arrested?
Speaker 4 (21:47):
One hundred percent? I was, and I ain't going to jail.
I wouldn't make it.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Came Brown got busted. He went on and basically said, Hey,
this is Caine Brown. This is my song that was coming
out on Friday. He played a clip of it, and
then you heard an employee come over and go, hey, sir,
what are you doing? And then you just heard it
click and then he ran out of the store.
Speaker 5 (22:07):
I have a feeling this was a setup, but whoop,
pre tim like he actually got in trouble.
Rachel listens to us on the iHeart radio app. She
shot us at talkback that's when you click the little
red microphone.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Okay, So I need some advice from some other women
that are in their thirties that are dating right now,
because these young bucks are all about them some women
in their thirties, and I don't know what the rule is.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
So I'll be thirty three this year, and I'm okay
with dating like a decent amount older, so I don't know,
forty ish, But whenever it comes to dating younger, like,
what's the call off? Because I feel like I have
lived a lot of life in my thirty three years.
You know, I have been married, divorce, I have a child,
I run a company. I'm very much like established, even
though I'm kind of a mess at the same time,
(00:43):
but I have gone through a lot of healing. I
am very mature emotionally and just in life in general.
So I'm a little scared to go younger because do
these guys really know what it takes to have like
a good, healthy, lasting marriage, Like is that going to
be unbalanced?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
What opinion would you give Rachel about dating younger men
at the age of thirty three.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I think to each their own.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
And what I mean by that is, if this is
something that you can get past mentally and you want
to do that, then go right ahead. It would be
so backwards for me to have an opinion of, oh, no,
you don't need to do this. I will say, I
think all of your concerns, Rachel, are valid and that
we all know. I mean, it's been told to us
(01:29):
our entire lives that men mature slower than women. And
so if your concern is already out the gate, like hey,
are they going to be able to meet me where
I'm at? And she made the comment that she's lived
a lot of life. I do think life experience definitely
plays a role into like what age range that you
want to date and kind of experiment in and that
(01:50):
kind of thing. So if she can get past the
mental of like, oh, they're younger than me, then.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Go for it.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
If you can't get past that, it's not fair to
the other person, like to continue to drag them along.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Rachel. Don't let Blair fool you. She heard you say
you date guys older at forty or forty two, She's like,
shoot on up into the sixties.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Girl, I mean, I think the biggest thing is.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
I'm so so, so so so thankful that I'm not
in the dating game anymore, because I have friends that
are in their thirties that talk about how hard it is,
and if you are a person who has gone through
a lot, somebody that hasn't, that's in their twenties is
going to have a hard time relating regardless.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You brought up a very valid part of this though,
it's you need to date people who have had similar
life experiences as you. So she owns the company, she
obviously does well in her profession, she's been married, she's divorced,
she has a kid. There's no way that you could
possibly date somebody younger that has never reached any of
(02:55):
those levels because they're not going to be yoked with you.
They're not going to be looking at the same thing, right,
So you need to worry less about the age and
more about the experiences that that person has gone through.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
For sure.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
And you know she touched on her personal history, but
I know, like for me in my life, it was
just about what my family had gone through. And there
are certain life things that happened that I believe make
you more mature quicker, you know, And so somebody that's
twenty one to twenty two years old, getting out of college,
never had a real job, are they going to be
(03:30):
able to support you being a business owner. I don't know,
because they don't know what that entails.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
What's up, Kathy?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
I kind of think she's already got some money in mind,
but at least make sure it's a twenty.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
A good point and good point than me.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
So wait a minute, why are you guys seeing good
point to her having somebody in mind? She's looking for
somebody to say, hey, if he's twenty nine, and she's like, dang,
this guy like is actually twenty seven.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
No, I mean for her to bring it up, you
make a good point that, like she has someone in mind,
whether anything has happened at all. But there's a reason
she brought this up. It wasn't just like oh what
should I do?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Yeah. Now, whenever you get older, and you know you're
like in your forties, pieces in your date and younger,
just make sure that they're older than your kids.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I mean, I have nothing to say, come up, tell
us the deal.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
How old is Steve's children compared to you?
Speaker 5 (04:27):
I'm not going to throw out their ages. But I
will say that I am younger than them, yes, and was.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
That a problem?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
No, it never appeared to be. I think that they.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
Had questions at first, I mean, rightfully, so.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Wait when they gave you a bib at dinner.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
But no, in all seriousness, I mean I think Steve
just sat down and had conversations with them and then like,
there's a difference in not being okay with it and
being hesitant, And I think there was some hesitation on
both their their ends, and right I would be the
same exact way.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
If Bobby d went down there.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Like, Dad, does she even have a license for that
big wheel she parked in.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
The driveway, He's like, no, please, don't tell anyone.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Well, thank you, I hope you have a wonderful day,
all right? Yea Christian? What's up, Bud?
Speaker 6 (05:16):
Hey were doing?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:17):
I was calling about the Rachel question?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Yeah, what would you say to Rachel?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
I think the life experience part's more important. I'm twenty
five of being in a military, got married young, I
lived a lot. A lot of my friends are older
from work and stuff like that, So twenty five year
olds I got nothing in common with them. I got
a kid as well, so, God forbid I was able
to get divorced. I don't think i'd be looking in
(05:43):
my dreams. Probably.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Do you think anything military that grew you up faster?
Speaker 7 (05:47):
Oh for sure?
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Yeah, thank you for your service. By the way, Yeah
what brands were you in?
Speaker 7 (05:52):
Navy?
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Life happens at different points for people, and you have
to grow up faster sometimes.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
So yeah, age is just a number.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
It's funny here say thanks buddy, great.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Day, giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave Show. I think
there's one thing we can all agree on. We don't
really celebrate Louisiana State University LSU that much.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
No, what would we.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Well, we should be celebrating now because a group of
students invented a brand new car seat technology that will
help prevent babies from being left in hot cars.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Okay, that's great, but do they have to be from LSU?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Could they be from Alabama? Since they've heard most deaths
happen because people forget their babies are in the car.
It links to your cell phone and will set off
an alarm when you're too far away from your vehicle
and your child is still in the car seat.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
I do love this. I hate that.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
We're at a place in the world that we need this,
but I do love this.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And we just won't discuss where they're from.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
You hate the fact that it's from LSU. It's all good,
you know, if it just didn't come from Louisiana State.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
That's so true.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
If you have teenagers who live in your house, does
it feel kind of silent? You don't have the same
communication level that you used to. You may get that
feeling that they don't need you anymore. That's definitely happening
with the local real estate agent named Sarah. She left
us a talk back on the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
I'm showing a bunch of houses in Alabama today and
this morning before I left, my son was about to
leave to to go take the act and he asked
me if I wanted to go.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Fishing this afternoon whenever we got back, and.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
I was trying to play it cool, and I was like, yeah,
that sounds like a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
No one.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
On the inside, I have like happy tears because one
last son is talking to me and too, I got
an invitation to hang out with them. I don't know
if there are other moms out there that do y'all
get excited when you're a teenager speaks to you and
get an invitation and you're just so ecstatic, like I
(08:05):
was this morning. But typically can stay busy with real
estate all day long, But today I'm going fishing.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Do you know how many times my tiny humans asked
me to do something and I would rather never do
that activity ever in my entire life, but I do
it because they invited me to be a part of it.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Well.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Even John Keith, who you've known since he was born.
He was your first one that you came into contact
with because he's your nephew from your sister. So John Keith,
he is in that you know age now where he
knows everything. He can't tell him anything. He's gotten to
the point where if he said to you, hey, Blair,
(08:48):
I just want to say be okay. If he said, hey,
be I just want to go fishing today, or I
just want to spend the afternoon.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
With you, I'm canceling everything.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
But you'd probably get emotional, wouldn't you, Oh for sure?
Speaker 5 (09:00):
And I would cancel anything that I had going on
because there's a day that those calls will stop coming
and I don't mean that in a negative way. I
mean I want that for him and for all my
other tiny humans, to have his own life and his
friends and to just go do what makes him happy.
But if he called and said, you know, one of
(09:21):
the things I am just not a fan of is
his dirt bike riding. Okay, that is not up my
alley in any shape or form. I know that's a
shock this morning. But if he called and said, hey,
I want you to come do this with me, that
means that for a split second. Whether it's because he
wanted to spend time with me or he wanted me
to pay for it when he got there, it's the
(09:43):
fact that I was a thought in his mind of like, hey,
let me call b.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
So you may go with John Keith. You're not going
to ride dirt bikes, but you'll go and be supportive.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
I'll go and be a nervous wreck the whole time.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Their parents that are going through this right now, you
know their teenager has now become just another living person
in the house, where before it was the kid that
you were making sandwiches for and was waking you up
asking you for help on this and this and this
and there's a sense that you feel like my kids
have grown up to where they don't need me anymore,
(10:18):
but I would be ecstatic. Maybe you've gone through something
just like Sarah E five five grave zero tivity, good morning,
Thanks so much? Are you calling to help out our friends? Sarah?
Speaker 8 (10:28):
Those teenagers need their parents so much, and sometimes they
don't know how to say it. But as someone who
is watching them from the outside, they need you, mmm
how sod in every regard. They need the confidence, they
need that unconditional love. They need just someone to check
(10:49):
in on them. I see, Hey, how are you today?
Like you're doing good? Like tell me about school. Even
if they say nothing every single day, they still need
you to ask.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
And it's how you frame it too, right, Like if
you sit down at dinner, instead of asking the yes, no,
did you have a good day today, it's what did
you do? Tell me? The highlight? Like get them talking?
Speaker 8 (11:09):
Mm hmm, absolutely, because there are so many times I
have students who just break down, like no one talks
to me, or they'll say you're the only one who
sees me, and it breaks my heart.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Yeah, you know, Blair, you actually said this not too
long ago about showing up to one of Corbyn's volleyball games.
He said, the most important thing I can do without
being a parent, but being a grandparent, is just show up.
And yesterday I was out playing golf and ended up
in a group and the two guys that joined us
was a father and a thirteen year old son who's
(11:45):
on the golf team. And it was wonderful to just
sit back and watch to see how the dad handled
his son. He gave corrections when he had to, he
gave praise when he had to, But the fact that
it was just them enjoying around a golf off meant
more to that kid, I'm sure, and he'll realize it
years from now.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
My favorite videos on social media, Yeah, my favorite videos
on social media right now are the ones where like
you're filming that a child before they recognize that you're there,
and then once they realize that you're there, whether it's
for a game or something at school or whatever, it
might be, their face just lights and that just it's
always a reminder to me that you just got to
(12:25):
show up. I mean, we're all busy, and you know,
my tiny humans all want to play one hundred and
seventy four sports and being one hundred and ninety eight
different organizations, but showing up matters. And I remember what
it was like when I saw my dad out in
the audience, you know, I mean, you want them to
be proud of you, and so the showing up aspect,
it just there's nothing more important.
Speaker 8 (12:46):
Oh absolutely. I have students tell me they'll say so
and so never comes, and I go to several games.
I'm in charge of pet club, so I'm constantly there
and I'm yelling for my students. I can hear my
voice or anybody's because the one they're used to it,
they they can hear me, and they're like, you're the
(13:07):
only person who cheers.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, And we know that they can hear because Blair
is usually screaming a bunch of cusswords at the top
of her life.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
I'm not screaming cuss words at the kids, and.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
The kids just get it together, let's go.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
But I'll say this, you make a good point of
them saying things like, uh, you know, so and so
doesn't come. I've always believed, you know, they may not
remember that I was at every single game, but they'll
never have to remember that I wasn't there. Well, I
never feel what that's like, because I know some of
my tiny humans, some people that they wish would be
(13:44):
at certain things.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
It's not.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
And let me tell you, it does affect those kids,
no matter how cool they want to act or anything
like that. And so you know, it's like I mentioned
a few minutes ago, if if one of my tiny
humans wants to hang out with me, even if it
is dirt bike riding or.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Hey, listen, you could just tap me in because I'll
do the dirt bike riding with John Keith. Well, thank you,
have a great day, you two.
Speaker 6 (14:10):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show, Michael,
where are you from? We've had a perfect score recently
on how country are you on a scale of one
to country. How country are you?
Speaker 4 (14:24):
Ah them about eight.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
I like it. Room for improvement and definitely room for error,
So watch out for that. You need to answer three questions.
We'll give you a score. You ready, Okay? What heavy
equipment company is also an insectiller? Nicely done?
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Look at you you got there.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Our good friends in Alabama at Thompson would appreciate you.
Question number two if you close your eyes, what comes
to mind about driving a back country road?
Speaker 4 (14:54):
Tree?
Speaker 7 (14:55):
Start road?
Speaker 4 (14:57):
Sometimes?
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Why is it that when he closed my eyes and
I think about a backcountry road, it's always the sound
of the gravel cracking underneath the tires. Oh, is that
what crunching sound?
Speaker 4 (15:13):
In my world? It does? That's exactly what it sounds
like in my world.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
All right, here we go. Final question. Micah, share with
us the time you had a wardrobe malfunction.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Oh lord, that's a total.
Speaker 9 (15:29):
Wardrobe malfunction.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Yeah, everybody's had one.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
Oh, I'm drawing a blank.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Really really like that time I was in Nashville and
I was getting down on Lower Broadway and I split
my pants.
Speaker 4 (15:44):
I think that's a god thing, because look.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
These thunder thighs can't be contained by denim alone, you know.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
And I'm.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Y'all have never had a wardrobe malfunction. You're working out,
you're working outside, and all of a sudden, your shirt
gets caught in some rips. You're trying to go over
a barbed wire fence and you get caught again.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
I think you're describing yours and your brother's childhood.
Speaker 9 (16:06):
What now, my sister, it was a couple of days
after summer vacation started and we were hanging out out
of a mud hit with some friends and we decided
we were going mud wrestling, and then that was it
for the rest of the night.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
All right, close.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Down with water hostess before we could do anything.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
There you go, all right, we got somewhat there, not
bad eight and a half for you today. Okay, now
I've got to take us to the rodeo if you
want to do that, or do you want to see Luke.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
Bryant Luke Bryan I knew she was saying that.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
Blair. Tell me who came to the defense of Morgan
Wallen as being a babysitter.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Believe it or not, Eric Church did.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
He was doing an interview recently where they obviously asked
about the friendship, and he said, yeah, I would absolutely
trust Morgan with my kids. He's great around kids since
he became a dad, like even more so. And you know,
I kind of chuckled, because, look, I've met Morgan, super
nice guy. Is he the first person that comes to
my mind a country artist that I'd want babysitting my kids?
(17:15):
Probably not the first one, or the first ten or twenty.
Now I want to go hang out with Morgan Wallin,
but I don't know if my tiny humans, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
But if you think about it, like most of the
time when you get a babysitter, it's because you and
your spouse want to go on a date night and
the last thing you want to get is a phone
call from the babysitter saying, Hey, your kids are doing X,
Y and z. I need you to come back. That happens,
And I know parents are very aware of how their
(17:45):
kids act, maybe when they have a sitter. So why
would Morgan Wallan have to call you on your date
to rat out what your kids are doing? Eight five
five Grave zero Blair think about some of the tiny
humans that you have in your life.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Why his question?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
Why would a babysitter have to call because Bubby is
doing something?
Speaker 5 (18:06):
Bubby is refusing to go down for a nap because
he wants to see all of Morgan's cars and he
wants each of them cranked up, each horn blown, and
then he wants.
Speaker 4 (18:15):
To play Monster Truck Show. And yeah, that Morgan's calling
us saying Bubby won't go down for nap.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
What's the other, Emma? What would be what would be
the reason why Morgan Wahlman would have to call because
he's babysitting Emma.
Speaker 5 (18:31):
Because Emma said that she's not going to take her nap,
she's not going to sleep because they're having too much
fun out there in the living room and she doesn't
want to miss out.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Where are the kids that are using the couch as
a gymnasium and a trampoline who end up having to
go to the er? Now that Corbyn got.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
You, that was corn Corbyn is now almost thirteen, so
I'm sure she.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
Would be okay with you know.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
I will say Morgan would probably have to call on
Corbyn because she's calling all of her friends to and
he's like, I'm enough of the I'm off.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
That's why Corbyn's called.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Why would Morgan Wallan have to call you when babysitting
your children? Eight five five graves zero Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Okay, let me tell you what my little tray he's
fourteen going on eighty and he has this trampoline shoved
up against the front porch of the house and he
goes he climbs the tree up next to the house.
He gets on the roof and he does one tom
bombs and all that stuff like WWE off the roof
(19:37):
and it freaks people out. My neighbors freaked out the
first time they saw him do it right, because he
wants to be the next ww thro start. He's been
doing it since between nine years old.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
I don't know. I feel like Morgan Wallen is probably
going to jump right in. He will only call you
if one of them men's up in the hospital.
Speaker 4 (19:53):
He's been like so.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
I'm always worried about him. Every One's straight through your
Tara bullet. We had to replace the trampling twice already.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
That's so funny. Over the weekend in the United States
of America, we celebrated the Army's two hundred and fiftieth birthday.
There was a huge anniversary parade and lots of local
and national media covered it, and a lot of country
artists were a part of it. One of them was
Warren Zeiders. But this happened on NBC, this.
Speaker 10 (20:27):
Celebration that's happening on the National Mall today for the
Army's two hundred and fiftieth birthday. I don't know who
this is singing right now, and I probably should.
Speaker 4 (20:40):
We were told there would be a surprise. I was
also hoping we would be told who the surprise is.
But this is I'm sure an important booking and.
Speaker 10 (20:49):
If anyone prom has an idea, we'd love to hear it.
Just for folks who were watching.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
NBC during the Army's two hundred and fiftieth anniversary military
parade and celebration had no idea who warren Zeider's was.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
I'm sure now these people will never forget who he is.
I do have a question. Did he keep his shirt on?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
It was loosely buttoned, and I thought the same thing.
I was like, God, warren Zeider's is going to take
your shirt off and look like a giant tool in
front of everybody?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Or you couldn't.
Speaker 5 (21:18):
Okay, he didn't. All right, we can confirm that they
probably do know now who he is and.
Speaker 4 (21:23):
That he kept his shirt on. It sounds like a win.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Honestly came Brown got in trouble for using the loud
speaker at a Walmart to play his new song, which
comes out this week.
Speaker 5 (21:33):
I've never done it. Have I thought about it? Absolutely everybody?
It was like your dream as a kid to talk
in those overhead speakers.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Such a goody goody. Why didn't you just do it?
Have you met me, Were you scared that you were
going to get arrested?
Speaker 4 (21:47):
One hundred percent? I was, and I ain't going to jail.
I wouldn't make it.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Came Brown got busted. He went on and basically said, Hey,
this is Caine Brown. This is my song that was coming
out on Friday. He played a clip of it, and
then you heard an employee come over and go, hey, sir,
what are you doing? And then you just heard it
click and then he ran out of the store.
Speaker 5 (22:07):
I have a feeling this was a setup, but whoop,
pre tim like he actually got in trouble.
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