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July 14, 2025 15 mins
How some firefighters have each others backs in today's The Good Good! 

Spencer's mom had some interesting rules that came into play recently when he was golfing with a friend and his son. 

Ryan did a nice job on How Country Are Ya! 

Thomas Rhett lost his favorite hat before the Birmingham show and maybe that jinxed it! 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Just giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's
the good good on the Spencer Grave Show.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
So there are some professions where they have a creed
no person left behind.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
It's really really powerful in.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Our first responder community, like our police and firefighters. Well
that's true and it's playing out in real time. There
was a firefighter who needed a kidney who stepped up
to the plate to be the donor another one of
the firefighters in the same exact firehouse.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
That's incredible.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
You hear about these stories that you know, people are
stepping up and donating organs and things like that, and
this is just really cool.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Also benefits that firefighter because now they can look at
that person.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
And go, I think I need a day off. You know,
I did give you my kidney. You rear me that
one time at one time, Blair.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Recently, I played golf with a buddy of mine. He
brought us thirteen year old son out with us, and
his rule of his son is when the guys are
playing golf, it's guy time. They don't have to watch
what they say or act a different way when they're
around you. Just because you're thirteen, I understand where the
Dad's coming from.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
But I'm so uneasy with that rule? Why are you
uneasy with it?

Speaker 2 (01:16):
Because you know, I love Jesus and I go to
church every once in a while.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
But I cuss just a touch, like it just had
a right.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
So that's just a touch.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
When I'm around my friends, like I just talk with
my friends the way that I talk with my friends.
But if a kid is around, I am hyper focused
on don't say any negative words. And a lot of
this stems from a rule that my mom had with
us when we were little. She saw friends of mine
speaking poor language and she did not want us to

(01:46):
say cuss words. We couldn't even say the word and
it's so weird for me to say now, sucks.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Couldn't say that when I was little.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
So if we ever got caught saying a bad word,
my mom would tell us to give a give her
three acceptable.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Words in replace of that. So that was rule number one.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
If we got caught not wearing our seat belt in
the car, we then had to recite the alphabet backwards.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
Well was she getting all ready for like a DUI test?
But backwards alphabet?

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Like?

Speaker 5 (02:16):
What was that?

Speaker 1 (02:18):
It's great?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
I don't knowsh I could do that even if I
tried really hard right now and it was hyper focused
on that.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
But you know, I wonder how many parents still have
funky little rules like that with their children. Or maybe
my mom was just extremely unique. I know she was,
but maybe that was just her own deal and nobody
did that, Like did your parents have a rule if
they caught you without your seatbelt on?

Speaker 1 (02:41):
No, it wasn't a seat belt.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
I'll say this, I was very much a grown adult
before I used a cuss word in front of my dad,
and even when I did, I mean I remember exactly
when I did it for the first time, and I
didn't like it because you didn't say those kind of
things in front of Bobby d growing up either. So
I mean, I totally get that at thirteen they hear

(03:02):
and say and participate in more than we ever did
at thirteen, So they probably are laughing at us even
being like cautious about it.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Completely get it.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
But I even almost said a word, and I was like, oh, hey, sorry, Brian,
you know, I know you're here, and his.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Dad's like, dude, don't worry about it that any worse.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Daily he hears everything, and I'm like, yeah, but I
don't want to attribute to that. It's almost like, if
he ever gets arrested when he's older, I'm gonna sit
there and go if I didn't say that one word
in front of.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Them, No, it's all your fault if you had been
a good influence, you know. I mean, come on now.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
But parents, if you have really interesting rules with your kids,
if you get them caught saying a bad word, or
they're not wearing their seatbelt, or maybe they didn't do
something right, what's the weird rule that you have?

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Eight five five grave zero, Good morning, April. What's the story.

Speaker 6 (03:49):
Oh wow, okay, the only thing that comes to mind.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
I have a son.

Speaker 6 (03:55):
He just graduated, but he's really bad about not hanging
his towel up after he takes a shower, Like he'll
just lay it in this floor, and it bugs my.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Husband to death.

Speaker 6 (04:06):
So he has a jar that he makes him put.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
A dollar and actually.

Speaker 4 (04:10):
He upped it.

Speaker 6 (04:11):
I think he makes him put like five dollars in
that dang it's called it's called the towel jar. So
every time he doesn't hang his towel up, he makes
some five dollars.

Speaker 7 (04:21):
Of that jar.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
Man Inflation's gotten out of control your Your son is
single handily keeping the economy going strong, which is nice.
But on top of that, that feels like a swear jar,
doesn't it, Blair?

Speaker 1 (04:34):
It does.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
I mean it's a very similar concept. But now I'm
sitting here thinking should I make now Steve. I've already
threatened him enough with his towel. I don't think that
there'll be any money in there.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
How much money, April, would you say, is in that jar?

Speaker 6 (04:47):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (04:47):
Gosh, wait is pro maybe fifty dollars?

Speaker 1 (04:51):
I can start a vacation.

Speaker 6 (04:53):
Yeah, well, thank you so much for calling us.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, thank you.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Schooling on Britney h riight, good morning. You sound like
you got some kids in the background. Is that true?

Speaker 6 (05:07):
I do, Yes, yes, I do have kids in the background.
And those kids my role is. We don't do sleepovers.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
I think this is becoming more popular.

Speaker 6 (05:17):
Why is that sleepovers aren't? I mean, bad things happen
at sleepovers? Woo to I mean one way or the other.
I've just never heard good stories or had good stories
from many sleepovers. And we don't do sleepovers.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
What are some of the bad stories? Fill me in?
Because I don't have children, I.

Speaker 6 (05:37):
Mean anything from fights, arguments, favoritism. I mean, there's just
so many things that can that can happen at sleepovers.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
I just remember sleepovers that I had with like my
buddies when we were in middle school and all that
kind of stuff. We'd stay up watching ESPN until four
o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
Now, let me ask you this.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Does this apply two family members or is it is
just for friends or where are your boundaries?

Speaker 6 (06:02):
Yes, there are very few people that they are allowed
to stay with, very very few, and until they are
mature enough to make conscious decisions on what is right
and wrong. And as a parent, I'll be able to
judge that they don't do sleepovers.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
Well, if that's the rule, then my dad is going
to call me and go, you can't have any sleepovers
because you are not mature enough to handle them.

Speaker 6 (06:31):
Yes, I mean for that age and can make the
right decisions. I get it. Though it's a weird rule,
but it's my role.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
Listen, it's not weird.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
It does right by your family right like that works
perfectly for what you do. There might be a parent
who's listening that's on the fence about whether or not
they should have their kids attend sleepovers.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
For having themselves.

Speaker 6 (06:53):
So now, if you want to go hang out and stuff,
I'll come pick you up late. But you're not.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
We're not going to spend the night, all right, So
what's the rule?

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Can they stay out past midnight? Or do you always
pick them up by men?

Speaker 5 (07:03):
No?

Speaker 6 (07:04):
No, no, they're I mean they're little. They're like seven.

Speaker 5 (07:10):
In the morning right right here?

Speaker 2 (07:12):
Right?

Speaker 1 (07:15):
What's going on?

Speaker 4 (07:15):
Trent? Not a whole lot?

Speaker 7 (07:17):
So I've got one of them weird rules.

Speaker 5 (07:21):
But it's actually kind of backfired.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
What's wrong?

Speaker 4 (07:24):
I'm a little on the O. C.

Speaker 6 (07:25):
D side.

Speaker 8 (07:26):
And whenever anybody uses the microwave in my house, if
they stop it before the timer goes off, they've gotten
to where they will leave the time on there instead
of resetting.

Speaker 4 (07:37):
It to where it shows the clock. Yes, and it
bothers me when the time does not match what it
says on the oven. So even if they just get
upstairs and I see it, I'll call my girlfriend's daughter
and make her come back downstairs and reset it now
the kitchen, because they do it just to mess with me.

Speaker 5 (07:58):
Now, I'll stand ro the rop by the microwave and
wait till they get down there and make them hit
the button we're standing next to it.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
We have clocks in the house that automatically change. Our
phones automatically change, the TV automatically changes. We have all
these devices automatically change. And now you can have Wi
Fi on your stove, Wi Fi in your fridge, Wi
Fi in your microwave. But none of those changes the
time automatically. No, and we have Wi Fi, Like, what

(08:30):
are we doing? The most important thing is for the
time to be perfect. So now I got to try
to synchronize all three of those devices to match one
of the other clocks, and one of them is always
off by a minute.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Well the problem is.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Right, that's my point. It's like it's a pain in
the tail just to do it. And then I got
my buddy over here, who's struggling because they leave one
second on there.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
Well, you know, I mean again, we just can't get lazy.
We got to stay on top of our toes. It's fine,
everything's fine, We're gonna We're gonna survive.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Trent, You're the man. Appreciate you as always.

Speaker 5 (09:05):
Have a great day.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
See Bud, it's how country are you? On the Spencer
Grave Show.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
Now y'all are gonna hear Ryan's accent, and you're gonna
think he wins the game right off the bat.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
What's up? Ryan?

Speaker 4 (09:17):
Not much?

Speaker 8 (09:18):
How are you today?

Speaker 2 (09:19):
See southern accent? Love that on a scale of one
of the country. How country are you?

Speaker 4 (09:23):
Ryan? Like?

Speaker 5 (09:24):
Six?

Speaker 4 (09:24):
Six and a half?

Speaker 1 (09:25):
He's lowballing himself. I can already tell you seriously, all right,
we're gonna ask.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
We'll give you a score at the end. Let's get
right into it. How many roses did the band Shenandoah have.

Speaker 8 (09:38):
Two?

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Look at this guy? Six?

Speaker 4 (09:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (09:45):
Right?

Speaker 2 (09:47):
Question number two? At what age, Ryan, do you remember
driving for the first time?

Speaker 1 (09:51):
And what was it?

Speaker 7 (09:53):
Having a v HICO about nine, sitting in my granddad's
lab on back road six and a half.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
I told you, I told you, all.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Right, Ryan, when you travel outside the state, what city
do you claim even though your address doesn't reflect.

Speaker 5 (10:08):
That, I'm from Birmingham.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
Where do you live though? In Corner Alabama? There you go, gentleman,
he says the six and a half. We all know
that's a lie. Eight point seven to a my guy.

Speaker 3 (10:20):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
We got tickets for you to check out Whiskey Myers
this week.

Speaker 4 (10:24):
All right, thank you, sir.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
You know Blair, I.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Can't get this story out of my head about when
you lose something that is an absolute favorite of yours
and it kind of falls apart when you don't have it.
We were standing backstage talking to Thomas Rhett before he
was supposed to open up the Coca Cola Amphitheater in
Birmingham for the very first time first country artist to
do it, and he was talking about how he lost

(10:47):
his favorite hat on stage the night before.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
I almost felt really bad born not almost, I did
for a really bad for him because it was eating
him alive.

Speaker 1 (10:55):
He was thrown off completely.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
He was like, man, if I don't find this hat,
he had everybody the crew looking for it. He was
replaying it back in his mind. He's like, did I
actually throw that hat off stage to a fan or
did I throw my hat down and then just like
you know, go out and into the show and then
I didn't pick it up or somebody else grabbed it

(11:17):
and I don't realize it.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
I don't know where it is.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
He was torn up about this, and then what happens
Birmingham doesn't happen Yep, the weather comes in or make
maybe it was some bad juju or something like that.
Have you ever lost something that was so important to
you that you spent hours, days, weeks, months, maybe years
trying to find That's.

Speaker 3 (11:39):
All I can think about. And if I have to
go to work or go meet friends, or you have
to leave, I'll be thinking about it all day long
until I go when I find it.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
Like I think about how you had to change your
phone over to a new phone, and for four hours
you were checking your pocket, you were looking down at
your hand like your phone.

Speaker 4 (11:56):
Was in it.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah, I know, yeah it was. It was not a
good time. I will not be doing this again.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
I wonder if there are a lot of people who
have lost something so near and dear to them that
they spent days, months, weeks, years, whatever it might be,
trying to find a five five grave zero.

Speaker 7 (12:12):
Well, I can't say for sure if I lost it
or not, but I came got in my trucks a
couple of weeks back and my pistol that was in
my door was no longer there, and I have been
searching everywhere for the past few days to try and
find it, and I'm fairly certain somebody stole it, but
I can't say for sure.

Speaker 3 (12:32):
I haven't got that's got to be the worst feeling.

Speaker 7 (12:34):
The worst part about it is I bought it a
week before.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
I mean, the story just keeps getting worse, and that is.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
You're right, though, Blair, that is maybe the most unsettling
feeling anybody can have.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, especially for a girl.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
Right here, I'm center thinking, I watch a lot of
law and order.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
That's that's not good. So where have you? Where have
you checked?

Speaker 4 (12:59):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (13:00):
So I'll leave it in my door, in my truck,
and I've tore my entire truck apart trying to find it.
I've got my wife with me to try and search
through the entire house, the garage, We've even checked the
trash in. I can't find it absolutely anywhere. So I'm
fairly certain somebody stole it. That I have four cops
that live in the surrounding houses around me. So I

(13:21):
was thinking to myself, if somebody was gonna break into
somebody's vehic, but why would they choose my house?

Speaker 1 (13:26):
Right, Yeah, that'd be a bad spot to do it.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
Man.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
I feel like you're living a situation where it's gonna
pop up when you least expect.

Speaker 7 (13:33):
It's that's what my buddy keeps telling me.

Speaker 3 (13:35):
That's a little bit more scary though, pistols popping up
in when you wa.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Well, that's my guy.

Speaker 7 (13:45):
Well, I appreciate it you i'all have a good.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
One, you too. Blair is a proud grandma.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
Why well, this morning, my lovely little sweet pea angel,
tiny human Cooper woke up his whole family putting on
a performance on the drum set that Pops and Bear
got him last year for Christmas. He woke up and

(14:12):
decided today was the day that he was going to,
you know, really get into the spirit on that drum set.
So he is, he's just doing the Lord's work.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Do us a solid read us the actual text message.
Don't leave anything out.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
Oh there wasn't anything to read other.

Speaker 1 (14:29):
Than a video. Oh Cooper.

Speaker 3 (14:34):
Go into town, said drum set and his Bucky's T shirt.
Might I ask?

Speaker 2 (14:39):
Would you be able to post that video on the
Spencer Grave Show, Facebook and Instagram? That way we can
all see what was going on For those that don't know,
the reason why we're laughing about this is Blair being
a grandma of some tiny humans. I no shocking. Because
of her age, she likes to buy loud toys and
instruments for her.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
Tiny year game okay to purchase things I know they
will enjoy, and.

Speaker 2 (15:04):
I like doing that for my nephews and my sister
in law hates it. So if you're a parent who
has rules about loud toys or instruments in the house,
you don't want them. We're not your type. If you're
somebody who likes causing chaos, we're your type of people.
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