July 23, 2025 • 17 mins
Blair was reminded of a TV show she watched as a kid!
A man kicked down the door and it was the focus of the Good Good!
We found out the ringtones people have for their significant others!
Dolly Parton and Carrie Underwood had messages for Ozzy Osbourne, who died yesterday!
A man kicked down the door and it was the focus of the Good Good!
We found out the ringtones people have for their significant others!
Dolly Parton and Carrie Underwood had messages for Ozzy Osbourne, who died yesterday!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Gina. I was so worried. I was starting to think
that you may have died.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Oh God, Okay, we.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Haven't heard from her in over a week.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Everybody's got my phone number, and so all you have
to do takes me call me, send me.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
If you want to reach me.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
What is that? Was that? Taylor Swift? No?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Call me beat me? If the is and channel?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Which one was it?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Call me beat me if you want to reach me. Oh,
I'm gonna have to google that now, Blair?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Was it this camp? If you want to reach me?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Sometimes sometimes people think that I pull things out of
my backside, but I promise it's not always.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
So share with me. Is that actually a song from
your childhood that like is imprinted on you?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
Wow? And you know what's even funnier is I don't
know how much I actually watched Kim Possible, but by golly,
I knew the song.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Yeah, you much.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I think what we should do at some point is
we should do a TV show theme song battle where
I'll play you theme songs from when I was a kid,
and you'll have to guess what Citcama was or TV
show and then you can play him from yours and
I'll have to guess kind of like a millennial whatever
the next generation is thing.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Mine are going to be so predictable. But yes, I
think this could be fun.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I mean the name like Kim Possible. I think I'll
get them.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
But it's like, okay, Blair, if we have listened to
the Law and Order theme song now seventy four times, we.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Get it, giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
It's the good good on the Spencer Grave show Man.
People are really happy that Sergio Jamenez noticed smoke coming
from a house. He got there and tried to open
up the door, realized the handle was too hot for
him to touch, so he ended up taking his foot
(02:02):
and kicking the door down. It took him several kicks
to bust the door completely out of the doorframe, but
when he did, he noticed there was a family of
five inside, several little children and two adults. They managed
to get out. Jimenez stayed next to them to comfort
them while the fire and rescue team showed up.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
That's just one of those I mean, you hear stories
like this and you're like, thank goodness. They were there
at that exact time and knew exactly what to do.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
What's your first and last name, Cindy Gray? Are we related?
You know?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
I thought about that Spencer I really have.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
My dad was Boston. Oh my god, we might actually
be related. Do you ever have people that come up
to you hear your last name and go, are you
related to that guy on the radio?
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Since you've been one or two years, I've had several people.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah, you'd be the first relative others in my deity
that I know.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Well, that's pretty sweet. I just found out, Blair that
I have a relative that lives here in Alabama.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, some DNA testing or something. We can't just run with.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Us, Aunt, Cindy, when is the family reunion? When are
we getting together? With tight I T shirts? You give
me a day and time. Well, Cindy, what can we
do for you?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Well?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Right now I'm sitting at the heart Walker's office waiting
to see the heart doctor.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
But I just got both to.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Calm to say hello and how.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Are we all?
Speaker 1 (03:23):
And everything okay with your ticker?
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Nice, I have a blood pressure problem. You know that
is believe me, it's a Graves trait. I hope everything
works out for you though. Oh yes, definitely, we need
to do lunch and find out if we'll do twenty
three or whatever it is. Well, thank you, Aunt Cindy,
thank you. Thanks. A friend of mine wilted the other
(03:49):
day in front of her mom because she found out
that her mom has been dating a guy that she
really likes. Now I'll give you the full story. My
friend is already married and has children. Her mom and
her dad were married for years, but her dad passed away,
so her mom, as a widow, started to kind of
look around and stumble across the guy that she finds
(04:12):
really attractive. They've been spending a couple months together. She
came down over the weekend and everybody was hanging out.
All of a sudden, her phone rang. This is the
ring tone that she uses, the rolling Stones, Beast of Burden. Okay, okay,
Now if you do a deep dive on some of
the lyrics A Beast of Burden, it's all about like,
(04:34):
am I a good lover for you?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
But like, come on, she's just having a good time, right.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
But what's funny is her adult daughter. My friend wilted
like a flower in the July heat with no water.
She was just like, mom, how can you have that
as your ring tone? For him, and her mom got
blood red because she was so embarrassed by some of
the lyrics.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
You know, she's just trying to live her best life.
Just let her be, don't you know. It's it's the
daughter's fault for like giving it attention. You know, like
how you can't give attention to a kid, like if
they fall, just be like, oh, you're good or good whatever,
and go about your But you can't ask questions.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Don't shine a light on something you don't want to see, right, right,
So I was thinking about this. The mom has a
very specific ring tone for her boyfriend. You're a married
woman to Steve. Do you have a ringtone for Steve?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
No? Honestly, I don't even know how i'd go about
doing that on an iPhone. If I'm just being honest,
I'm sure there's a way, But ninety five percent of
the time my phone's on side.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, I bet if you were under the age of
thirty you could figure it out.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
But okay, then.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
JD. Nothing much headed to the work side lock every morning?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Awesome. Do you have a ring tone for your spouse?
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yes? I do, so me and my wife have a
little inside joke because situations arise where she's the third
woman that I've had a child with. So whenever her
the phone comes further on me, the ring cone is, oh, no,
here it comes. It's the baby mama. Have you forgot
to pay this child support? And she gets a kick
out of oh my gosh, but I got it off
(06:23):
the Apple Music store.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Wow, here comes the baby mama.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Good that I don't care who?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yeah, I would hope so, I mean, inside jokes are
always funny. Hang on here, let me.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
See your geg down, baby mama. This shuts up being
pregnant a way too long.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
If baby baby mom what she don't put it on you.
Whenever she was pregnant. That was her ringtone when I
called her.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Oh that is so good. Well, thank you brother, appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
JD, thank you all.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
You'll have a good morning you too. Man. It's how
country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show. Shaley you
have a beautiful voice and a beautiful name, and thank
you so much. What is Shaley a mix of Oh.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
My mom's two best friends from high school was Shane
and Lee.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
So that's kind of how she got my name.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
That's it.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
I am raising my standards for friendship. It's one of
my friends doesn't have a baby, and name it after me.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I am that's it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So what if we all right, what if we had
a mixture of Spencer and Blair? What would that name be?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Why are you trying to take my moment? No, my
friends need a name of.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
This bad have it? Little Lizzie b getting angry over there?
All right, Shaley, you're gonna play How country are you?
It's three questions on a scale of ononded country. How
country are you?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
I mean, I like country.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
I'd at least give myself an eight.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Let's go. The confidence is busting this morning. Here we go.
Name three tools you would use in the garden?
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Uh? Oho, ay the clippers?
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
We don't even care what the real names are half
these things. That is like the fact that you labeled
three things that people use in the South. All right,
here we go. What do you remember about Sunday mornings?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Going to church?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
And then what would happen at church? Like, give me
a memorable thing at church?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Grandma always had the peppermint.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yes, yes, Grandma always.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Had the peppermints in the snack.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
My grandmother always carried life savers and she and it
was those packages. I don't know if there's still this
way or not where you'd have to roll it down
and then smash the package on top to keep the
fuzz out. And you never you never wanted the top one.
You wanted somebody else to get that one, because it'd
have all the pocket lit on it. Yep, right here
we go. Last question, How country are you? What's your
(09:01):
controversial opinion about Southern cuisine?
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I mean, it's okay.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
I don't write it big, but I say.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
It's okay because I know several other people who love it.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
This is a controversial opinion I have about Southern cuisine.
People in the South get it, but people anywhere else don't.
You do not buy your tomatoes at a grocery store.
You have to go to a farmer's market.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Yes, Whenever I go to a grocery store, when I
see somebody in the vegetable aisle and they're looking at tomatoes,
I question their existence. I don't know where their family
went wrong.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
You're like, hmm, could have been better.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
In more ways than one.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
You could a farmer's market.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
You could have been a better human just by going
to the farmer's market. This weekend. Shay Lee did a
great job. We're going to give you a nine point
three today, whoo, and then we want you to join
us Hardy in Birmingham in September. Oh. I guess everyone
goes through a social media detox, and they certainly do
it with their friends list, where you have to clean
(10:02):
it up every once in a while. A five to
five grave zero. If you've gone through your friend's list
and unfriended a couple of people off of there, A
five to five grave zero. What's your criteria?
Speaker 4 (10:12):
If I haven't spoken to you in person and over
a year you were automatically gone. I had a ton
of people from my graduating class that we're still on
my friend list.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Whah.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
You know, I wrestle with that one when it comes
to high school friends, because high school is such a
pivotal time in anyone's life. You meet so many people
that some people become lifelong friends. Other people you never
forget those names.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Sure, high school is pivotal, but if you haven't been
a part of my life since, then you don't.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Really know me.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Because I genuinely believe I am a totally different person
than I was in high school. I don't have anything
in common with that version of me.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Wouldn't you want to give them an opportunity to learn
who you are? And maybe that's why they're great ivitating
towards you now, is they really love the person that
you've become.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Not necessarily because number one, most of the time they're
the ones that are reaching out want and free tickets
to stuff.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
But I'm serious, Then.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Maybe that's the caveat. Maybe it's not that you know,
I went to high school with this person and blah
blah blah. Maybe it's if you reach out to me
for concert tickets, if you're only talking to me because
you think there's a benefit that you will receive, and
it's not genuine, then no.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
My personal page, I post more pictures of the babies
and more like, you know, personal things that happen in
my life.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
And that you really want your inner circle to know about.
You don't really care about the fringe being in part
of that world.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
And I've gotten to a point in my life too
where and this isn't a shade and I'm not saying
that you can't make new friends, but time is so
limited as you get older. I'm in close to my
mid thirties now and I have my say say.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
It again with your chest.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
No, I can't.
Speaker 4 (11:59):
But I mean I've like I have my people, and
I don't even get to spend the time with my people.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
This is true with everybody. As you get older, your
circle get smaller. You really figure out like who your
tribe is, and that's the people that you're going to
ride or die with.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
I mean, Steve was going through his friend list too,
and I think the man was like genuinely, He's like.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
I don't want to hurt any feelings.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
And I'm like, if their feelings are hurt because they're
not friends with Steve Maples, then like they should probably
seek professional help.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
It's not that they're not friends with Steve Maples, it's
not that they're not friends with Blair Davis. It's that
they were and now they're not. So then they feel like,
well what did I do?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Sure, And if they want to reach out to me
and ask what did they do, I'll say absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
You didn't talk to me like you for concert tickets
one time. We haven't spoken over two and a half years.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
I'm so razy of some people legit that will like
reach out for things and I'm like, do y' all
think that I have this magic printer that just prints
out concert tickets, because that's actually not true.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
In case anybody was wondering, Well, you know that.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Happens to a lot of people in a lot of industries, right,
Like I have friends who are electricians and plumbers, and
they're like, man, nobody reaches out to me unless they go, hey, man,
my sink is acting up. Yeah, or hey, I thinking
about moving an outlet in the house. Do you mind?
And they go, I haven't talked to this person in years.
I met them, and now they're just asking me to
(13:30):
come over, and they know it's going to come with U. Hey,
since we're friends, you mind just you know, working that
production out a little bit.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
Well, and again it's like, whatever your reality is, it's
not even like a hey, can you help me buy
good tickets? It's a sob story of some sort, and
then hey, I want free tickets.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
I wonder if there's other people that have criteria kind
of like us, you know, like I'm only going to
I'm only going to have these people on my Facebook
if I've talked to them in the last year, if
they're a part of my tribe. Why did I go
through and clean out my friends list? Because it happens
to everyone.
Speaker 4 (14:02):
Yeah. I mean I was inspired by Abby because she
text me one day and she was like, I'm cleaning
out my friend list and I think she's down to
like one hundred people.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Man'sley going through your closet, Like, I haven't warned this.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
In a while, so it's like I don't fit into
that anymore.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Eight five five grave zero, especially now that you're in
your mid thirties.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Okay, please straw.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
The benefit concerts for the Texas Floods are continuing to
roll in September twelfth and thirteenth. It's the tangle Foot Festival.
Have you heard of this, Blair?
Speaker 2 (14:35):
No, I haven't heard about this one.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Parker McCollum, Cody Jinks, Randy Rodgers Band, Mark Chestnut, Corey Kent,
Jack Ingram, and many others are going to do this.
And what they're hoping is kind of like a Rock
the South thing where if it's big enough and they
make enough money for the Texas Floods, they're going to
continue to do this every single year and then find
charities that they can get money too.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
Do they need us to come out and attend and enjoy.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Just sit back and wait for your phone to ring.
If you want to get tickets, you can buy him
Tanglefoot Texas dot com. Blair. Earlier, during your Three Things,
you were talking about the passing of Ozzy Osbourn. For
those that don't know, he died yesterday. He was seventy six.
He'd been battling Parkinson's for the last few years of
his life. But he and his original band Black Sabbath
got together. They did a farewell show in Birmingham just
(15:24):
a couple of weeks ago in the UK, and it
is the most charitable concert of all time. It took
down Live aid. They raised over it. Yeah, they raised
over two hundred million dollars and they're taking that money
splitting it up among three charities. Two of them are
children's charities like children's hospitals, and the other one is
a Parkinson's foundation. But you had mentioned in your Three
(15:47):
Things that Ozzie wasn't a big name in the country genre,
and you're right. It's not like he was showing up
at a lot of country festivals or doing that, but
he had some really big impacts in country music. Dolly
Parton was actually a big supporter of him for years,
and she showed up on screen. She wasn't actually in
(16:08):
Birmingham when his final show happened with Back to the Beginning,
but she left a really nice note for him and
everybody with Black Sabbath. And when you hear her words
now knowing that he passed away, it's actually kind of ominous.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Ozzie Osborne, it's Dolly Parton here now.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
I know you're at home, and what a wonderful place
to be right now.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
Are we supposed to be saying farewell to you? Well,
I don't think that's going to happen. How about we
just say.
Speaker 4 (16:40):
Good luck, God bless you and we will see you
somewhere down the road anyway.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I love you, always have and we're gonna miss you
up on stage, but.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
You know what, I would be surprised you don't show
up somewhere else, and I'll be there love you.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
I've also played for you a little earlier that Carrie
Underwood covered My Mom Coming Home, and she did a
phenomenal job with that.
Speaker 5 (17:06):
She I don't care about us, shiny Who's Mama.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
So the presence of Ozzy Osbourne was pretty big in
country music but Ozzy Osborne took a picture with Timmogron
faith Hill when Timogron faith Hill were at the prime
tops of their careers in the nineties, and he was
asked after that picture, you know, Ozzie, do you love
country music? And he said, I'm happy for them, but
it ain't my thing.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
See, I mean, like I love the honesty.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Ozzy Osbourne passed away yesterday at the age of seventy six.
Gina. I was so worried. I was starting to think
that you may have died.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Oh God, Okay, we.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Haven't heard from her in over a week.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Everybody's got my phone number, and so all you have
to do takes me call me, send me.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
If you want to reach me.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
What is that? Was that? Taylor Swift? No?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Call me beat me? If the is and channel?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Which one was it?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Call me beat me if you want to reach me. Oh,
I'm gonna have to google that now, Blair?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Was it this camp? If you want to reach me?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Sometimes sometimes people think that I pull things out of
my backside, but I promise it's not always.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
So share with me. Is that actually a song from
your childhood that like is imprinted on you?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
Wow? And you know what's even funnier is I don't
know how much I actually watched Kim Possible, but by golly,
I knew the song.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Yeah, you much.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I think what we should do at some point is
we should do a TV show theme song battle where
I'll play you theme songs from when I was a kid,
and you'll have to guess what Citcama was or TV
show and then you can play him from yours and
I'll have to guess kind of like a millennial whatever
the next generation is thing.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Mine are going to be so predictable. But yes, I
think this could be fun.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I mean the name like Kim Possible. I think I'll
get them.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
But it's like, okay, Blair, if we have listened to
the Law and Order theme song now seventy four times, we.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Get it, giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
It's the good good on the Spencer Grave show Man.
People are really happy that Sergio Jamenez noticed smoke coming
from a house. He got there and tried to open
up the door, realized the handle was too hot for
him to touch, so he ended up taking his foot
(02:02):
and kicking the door down. It took him several kicks
to bust the door completely out of the doorframe, but
when he did, he noticed there was a family of
five inside, several little children and two adults. They managed
to get out. Jimenez stayed next to them to comfort
them while the fire and rescue team showed up.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
That's just one of those I mean, you hear stories
like this and you're like, thank goodness. They were there
at that exact time and knew exactly what to do.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
What's your first and last name, Cindy Gray? Are we related?
You know?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
I thought about that Spencer I really have.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
My dad was Boston. Oh my god, we might actually
be related. Do you ever have people that come up
to you hear your last name and go, are you
related to that guy on the radio?
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Since you've been one or two years, I've had several people.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah, you'd be the first relative others in my deity
that I know.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Well, that's pretty sweet. I just found out, Blair that
I have a relative that lives here in Alabama.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, some DNA testing or something. We can't just run with.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Us, Aunt, Cindy, when is the family reunion? When are
we getting together? With tight I T shirts? You give
me a day and time. Well, Cindy, what can we
do for you?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Well?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Right now I'm sitting at the heart Walker's office waiting
to see the heart doctor.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
But I just got both to.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Calm to say hello and how.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Are we all?
Speaker 1 (03:23):
And everything okay with your ticker?
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Nice, I have a blood pressure problem. You know that
is believe me, it's a Graves trait. I hope everything
works out for you though. Oh yes, definitely, we need
to do lunch and find out if we'll do twenty
three or whatever it is. Well, thank you, Aunt Cindy,
thank you. Thanks. A friend of mine wilted the other
(03:49):
day in front of her mom because she found out
that her mom has been dating a guy that she
really likes. Now I'll give you the full story. My
friend is already married and has children. Her mom and
her dad were married for years, but her dad passed away,
so her mom, as a widow, started to kind of
look around and stumble across the guy that she finds
(04:12):
really attractive. They've been spending a couple months together. She
came down over the weekend and everybody was hanging out.
All of a sudden, her phone rang. This is the
ring tone that she uses, the rolling Stones, Beast of Burden. Okay, okay,
Now if you do a deep dive on some of
the lyrics A Beast of Burden, it's all about like,
(04:34):
am I a good lover for you?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
But like, come on, she's just having a good time, right.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
But what's funny is her adult daughter. My friend wilted
like a flower in the July heat with no water.
She was just like, mom, how can you have that
as your ring tone? For him, and her mom got
blood red because she was so embarrassed by some of
the lyrics.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
You know, she's just trying to live her best life.
Just let her be, don't you know. It's it's the
daughter's fault for like giving it attention. You know, like
how you can't give attention to a kid, like if
they fall, just be like, oh, you're good or good whatever,
and go about your But you can't ask questions.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Don't shine a light on something you don't want to see, right, right,
So I was thinking about this. The mom has a
very specific ring tone for her boyfriend. You're a married
woman to Steve. Do you have a ringtone for Steve?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
No? Honestly, I don't even know how i'd go about
doing that on an iPhone. If I'm just being honest,
I'm sure there's a way, But ninety five percent of
the time my phone's on side.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, I bet if you were under the age of
thirty you could figure it out.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
But okay, then.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
JD. Nothing much headed to the work side lock every morning?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Awesome. Do you have a ring tone for your spouse?
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yes? I do, so me and my wife have a
little inside joke because situations arise where she's the third
woman that I've had a child with. So whenever her
the phone comes further on me, the ring cone is, oh, no,
here it comes. It's the baby mama. Have you forgot
to pay this child support? And she gets a kick
out of oh my gosh, but I got it off
(06:23):
the Apple Music store.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Wow, here comes the baby mama.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Good that I don't care who?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yeah, I would hope so, I mean, inside jokes are
always funny. Hang on here, let me.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
See your geg down, baby mama. This shuts up being
pregnant a way too long.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
If baby baby mom what she don't put it on you.
Whenever she was pregnant. That was her ringtone when I
called her.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Oh that is so good. Well, thank you brother, appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
JD, thank you all.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
You'll have a good morning you too. Man. It's how
country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show. Shaley you
have a beautiful voice and a beautiful name, and thank
you so much. What is Shaley a mix of Oh.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
My mom's two best friends from high school was Shane
and Lee.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
So that's kind of how she got my name.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
That's it.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
I am raising my standards for friendship. It's one of
my friends doesn't have a baby, and name it after me.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I am that's it.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So what if we all right, what if we had
a mixture of Spencer and Blair? What would that name be?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Why are you trying to take my moment? No, my
friends need a name of.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
This bad have it? Little Lizzie b getting angry over there?
All right, Shaley, you're gonna play How country are you?
It's three questions on a scale of ononded country. How
country are you?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
I mean, I like country.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
I'd at least give myself an eight.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Let's go. The confidence is busting this morning. Here we go.
Name three tools you would use in the garden?
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Uh? Oho, ay the clippers?
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
We don't even care what the real names are half
these things. That is like the fact that you labeled
three things that people use in the South. All right,
here we go. What do you remember about Sunday mornings?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Going to church?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
And then what would happen at church? Like, give me
a memorable thing at church?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Grandma always had the peppermint.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yes, yes, Grandma always.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Had the peppermints in the snack.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
My grandmother always carried life savers and she and it
was those packages. I don't know if there's still this
way or not where you'd have to roll it down
and then smash the package on top to keep the
fuzz out. And you never you never wanted the top one.
You wanted somebody else to get that one, because it'd
have all the pocket lit on it. Yep, right here
we go. Last question, How country are you? What's your
(09:01):
controversial opinion about Southern cuisine?
Speaker 3 (09:05):
I mean, it's okay.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
I don't write it big, but I say.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
It's okay because I know several other people who love it.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
This is a controversial opinion I have about Southern cuisine.
People in the South get it, but people anywhere else don't.
You do not buy your tomatoes at a grocery store.
You have to go to a farmer's market.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Yes, Whenever I go to a grocery store, when I
see somebody in the vegetable aisle and they're looking at tomatoes,
I question their existence. I don't know where their family
went wrong.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
You're like, hmm, could have been better.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
In more ways than one.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
You could a farmer's market.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
You could have been a better human just by going
to the farmer's market. This weekend. Shay Lee did a
great job. We're going to give you a nine point
three today, whoo, and then we want you to join
us Hardy in Birmingham in September. Oh. I guess everyone
goes through a social media detox, and they certainly do
it with their friends list, where you have to clean
(10:02):
it up every once in a while. A five to
five grave zero. If you've gone through your friend's list
and unfriended a couple of people off of there, A
five to five grave zero. What's your criteria?
Speaker 4 (10:12):
If I haven't spoken to you in person and over
a year you were automatically gone. I had a ton
of people from my graduating class that we're still on
my friend list.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Whah.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
You know, I wrestle with that one when it comes
to high school friends, because high school is such a
pivotal time in anyone's life. You meet so many people
that some people become lifelong friends. Other people you never
forget those names.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Sure, high school is pivotal, but if you haven't been
a part of my life since, then you don't.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Really know me.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Because I genuinely believe I am a totally different person
than I was in high school. I don't have anything
in common with that version of me.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Wouldn't you want to give them an opportunity to learn
who you are? And maybe that's why they're great ivitating
towards you now, is they really love the person that
you've become.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Not necessarily because number one, most of the time they're
the ones that are reaching out want and free tickets
to stuff.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
But I'm serious, Then.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Maybe that's the caveat. Maybe it's not that you know,
I went to high school with this person and blah
blah blah. Maybe it's if you reach out to me
for concert tickets, if you're only talking to me because
you think there's a benefit that you will receive, and
it's not genuine, then no.
Speaker 4 (11:27):
My personal page, I post more pictures of the babies
and more like, you know, personal things that happen in
my life.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
And that you really want your inner circle to know about.
You don't really care about the fringe being in part
of that world.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
And I've gotten to a point in my life too
where and this isn't a shade and I'm not saying
that you can't make new friends, but time is so
limited as you get older. I'm in close to my
mid thirties now and I have my say say.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
It again with your chest.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
No, I can't.
Speaker 4 (11:59):
But I mean I've like I have my people, and
I don't even get to spend the time with my people.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
This is true with everybody. As you get older, your
circle get smaller. You really figure out like who your
tribe is, and that's the people that you're going to
ride or die with.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
I mean, Steve was going through his friend list too,
and I think the man was like genuinely, He's like.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
I don't want to hurt any feelings.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
And I'm like, if their feelings are hurt because they're
not friends with Steve Maples, then like they should probably
seek professional help.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
It's not that they're not friends with Steve Maples, it's
not that they're not friends with Blair Davis. It's that
they were and now they're not. So then they feel like,
well what did I do?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Sure, And if they want to reach out to me
and ask what did they do, I'll say absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
You didn't talk to me like you for concert tickets
one time. We haven't spoken over two and a half years.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
I'm so razy of some people legit that will like
reach out for things and I'm like, do y' all
think that I have this magic printer that just prints
out concert tickets, because that's actually not true.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
In case anybody was wondering, Well, you know that.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Happens to a lot of people in a lot of industries, right,
Like I have friends who are electricians and plumbers, and
they're like, man, nobody reaches out to me unless they go, hey, man,
my sink is acting up. Yeah, or hey, I thinking
about moving an outlet in the house. Do you mind?
And they go, I haven't talked to this person in years.
I met them, and now they're just asking me to
(13:30):
come over, and they know it's going to come with U. Hey,
since we're friends, you mind just you know, working that
production out a little bit.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
Well, and again it's like, whatever your reality is, it's
not even like a hey, can you help me buy
good tickets? It's a sob story of some sort, and
then hey, I want free tickets.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
I wonder if there's other people that have criteria kind
of like us, you know, like I'm only going to
I'm only going to have these people on my Facebook
if I've talked to them in the last year, if
they're a part of my tribe. Why did I go
through and clean out my friends list? Because it happens
to everyone.
Speaker 4 (14:02):
Yeah. I mean I was inspired by Abby because she
text me one day and she was like, I'm cleaning
out my friend list and I think she's down to
like one hundred people.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Man'sley going through your closet, Like, I haven't warned this.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
In a while, so it's like I don't fit into
that anymore.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Eight five five grave zero, especially now that you're in
your mid thirties.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Okay, please straw.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
The benefit concerts for the Texas Floods are continuing to
roll in September twelfth and thirteenth. It's the tangle Foot Festival.
Have you heard of this, Blair?
Speaker 2 (14:35):
No, I haven't heard about this one.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Parker McCollum, Cody Jinks, Randy Rodgers Band, Mark Chestnut, Corey Kent,
Jack Ingram, and many others are going to do this.
And what they're hoping is kind of like a Rock
the South thing where if it's big enough and they
make enough money for the Texas Floods, they're going to
continue to do this every single year and then find
charities that they can get money too.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
Do they need us to come out and attend and enjoy.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Just sit back and wait for your phone to ring.
If you want to get tickets, you can buy him
Tanglefoot Texas dot com. Blair. Earlier, during your Three Things,
you were talking about the passing of Ozzy Osbourn. For
those that don't know, he died yesterday. He was seventy six.
He'd been battling Parkinson's for the last few years of
his life. But he and his original band Black Sabbath
got together. They did a farewell show in Birmingham just
(15:24):
a couple of weeks ago in the UK, and it
is the most charitable concert of all time. It took
down Live aid. They raised over it. Yeah, they raised
over two hundred million dollars and they're taking that money
splitting it up among three charities. Two of them are
children's charities like children's hospitals, and the other one is
a Parkinson's foundation. But you had mentioned in your Three
(15:47):
Things that Ozzie wasn't a big name in the country genre,
and you're right. It's not like he was showing up
at a lot of country festivals or doing that, but
he had some really big impacts in country music. Dolly
Parton was actually a big supporter of him for years,
and she showed up on screen. She wasn't actually in
(16:08):
Birmingham when his final show happened with Back to the Beginning,
but she left a really nice note for him and
everybody with Black Sabbath. And when you hear her words
now knowing that he passed away, it's actually kind of ominous.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Ozzie Osborne, it's Dolly Parton here now.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
I know you're at home, and what a wonderful place
to be right now.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
Are we supposed to be saying farewell to you? Well,
I don't think that's going to happen. How about we
just say.
Speaker 4 (16:40):
Good luck, God bless you and we will see you
somewhere down the road anyway.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I love you, always have and we're gonna miss you
up on stage, but.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
You know what, I would be surprised you don't show
up somewhere else, and I'll be there love you.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
I've also played for you a little earlier that Carrie
Underwood covered My Mom Coming Home, and she did a
phenomenal job with that.
Speaker 5 (17:06):
She I don't care about us, shiny Who's Mama.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
So the presence of Ozzy Osbourne was pretty big in
country music but Ozzy Osborne took a picture with Timmogron
faith Hill when Timogron faith Hill were at the prime
tops of their careers in the nineties, and he was
asked after that picture, you know, Ozzie, do you love
country music? And he said, I'm happy for them, but
it ain't my thing.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
See, I mean, like I love the honesty.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Ozzy Osbourne passed away yesterday at the age of seventy six.
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