September 8, 2025 • 22 mins
Our bet to pay off for College Football is on! Give us your idea to happen at Boo Bash!
Alicia crushed it on How Country Are Ya!
A Phillies fan made an @55 of herself this weekend!
Alicia crushed it on How Country Are Ya!
A Phillies fan made an @55 of herself this weekend!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
College football already underway. It was a disappointing start to
the season for Alabama. Tennessee is perfect right now two
and zero Alabama split one in one, but they will
match up October eighteenth, and Blair and I have decided
that we want to put a little friendly wager on
the game. Now some suggestions have come in. You guys
still have an opportunity to get into US eight five
(00:21):
five grave zero, but you put some parameters out there.
Blair for yourself.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yeah, I mean, I wasn't going to do something that
lasted all season long. It wasn't like I was going
to do something where I didn't pull for my team
for the rest of the season. Nothing like that.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Mike had a suggestion come.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Up with some key word or key phrase, and every
time Blair hears that, she has to say roll time.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
I kind of like that idea, you know, because we
could do that for a couple of days. We don't
have to drag that out over a season.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I was about to say, yeah, we would have to
get everybody involved, and it couldn't be something where you
were just saying it every other word, you know what
I mean? That that could get iffy.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Here's what Kim suggested.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I know you're saying, Blair is married, Blair has to
find you a date if she wins.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Well it sounds like a win for me.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Well there you go, Darklans and if you lose. If
you lose, you.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
Have to take her somewhere, because I know she doesn't
like to cook and fish and all that fun stuff
on lay Lake, take her noodland.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
So what do you think of the idea of trying
to reach your hand to a hole and get a catfish?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Absolutely not? Okay, absolutely that one of that numbers.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
And here's what Melanie brought to the table.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Okay, boo bash the share. Yes, if Blair loses, she
has to dress like an Alabama cheerleader. H if you lose,
you have to dress as a Tennessee cheerleader.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Very interesting. Now, I like all these ideas. I think
we can do more and have bigger though.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
You know, no I agree. I'll say this. Out of
those three, I do like the idea of boobash being
where we settled the bet, ah, whatever that bet might
end up being. I like the idea of you know,
that's a couple of weeks after the game and that way,
(02:09):
you know, you're embarrassed in front of multiple I like
where she's going with that.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
So you guys can now use that to your advantage.
Something that we could do in front of a bunch
of people who are going to be a part of
Boobash this year. What's the college bet between Alabama, myself
and Tennessee Blair that we would have to do for
October eighteenth, eight five five grave zero.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
Whoever loses, they've got to go out with the winning
team and you the next weekend, Alabama or Tennessee, whoever wins,
and they've got to cheer like it's their favorite team
in the world.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
So you're saying, you're saying, whoever, like whatever happens October eighteenth,
when Alabama beats Tennessee, Blair will have to go root
for Alabama at the next game. She's gonna have to
be like so hardcore. She's gonna have to wear a shirt,
she's gonna have to wear the short, she's gonna have
to say real tied.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Here's where here's where I have an issue with that.
One Spencer isn't a die hard Alabama fan through and
through raised Alabama fan, so that's not going to hurt
him as bad as if if it's not gonna happen,
(03:31):
I were to have to do it, so like I
need something that's going to actually.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
Affect Spencer, it would hurt him.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I don't think it would because you're not because you're not.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Like that.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
That's where I need something that's gonna embarrass you more
and go into a game you don't know those people like.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
That's not gonna you tell me that I need to
go to a Tennessee game. I'm gonna go because I
love that.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, Like that
one doesn't affect Spencer to.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Be a snake identity lines, No.
Speaker 7 (04:03):
He would.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
He like Spencer's also the type that if somebody invited
him to a Tennessee game and they're not playing Penn State,
like he's gonna wear whatever shirt Like that's not like
he's just gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I would not say that that is true, Okay, I
don't think that.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
I would try to laugh while you're saying that. Like
you we've had this conversation before of like if you're
gonna go to the game, you're gonna go all in.
Outside of like that that team playing Penn State.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Everybody they know, they know what's gonna happen October eighteenth.
They just know that you're gonna be embarrassed.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I am a diehard Gator fan and if I had
to wear Tennessee that would just kill me.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Right chomp chomp in the swamp. Let's go.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I was. I was keeping tabs on your game over
the weekend.
Speaker 7 (05:00):
Two.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I won't tell you because I love you. I won't
tell you how I felt.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
Well, that's just one. We're gonna win the rest.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
There you go. That's what we're looking for. That's attitude
that we appreciate, especially after Tennessee loses this weekend to Georgia.
All right, not anyway, thank you, have a great day,
you too by giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
It's the good good. On The Spencer Grave Show, a
(05:29):
woman who wanted to find out her family history decided
to take a trip and go to Argentina, where her
dad was born. She rented out an airbnb, flew down,
got a cab over to the house, sent her parents
the address. That's when her dad said, that's the house
that I was born in.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh wow, what are the odds?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
She was going through a bunch of old family photos,
took a lot of them there, and she wanted to
see if she could find people in town that might
know her dad or might be distant relatives. And come
to find out she was inside the house, she met
the person who owns it just so happened to be
a distant cousin.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I mean, you know, I don't know if she signed
up for all this, but good for her. She learned more.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Have you ever gone back to your childhood house? I
know a lot of people do that A five five
Grave zero.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I've driven by it because we did live in one
house for a majority of my life. But I've never,
you know, asked to go in it or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
She've never knocked on the door and been like, who
you used to live here? We're going to go through
my own I've done.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
That and I'm not gonna do that. I'm not doing that.
I don't need to see it. I'm good.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Can couple survive sleeping in separate beds? It's the Spencer
Grave show eight five five grave zero. For some people,
it's not even separate beds, it's separate rooms. Listen to
Dirk's Bentley.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
I have three pillows after your positions exactly the correct way,
and I'm just thinking about the process of getting to
fall asleep, and all a sudden and she will jerk.
I'm like, you got to be kidding me, You're already out,
and so she'll move a tiny bit.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I feel it.
Speaker 8 (07:05):
So years ago I decided to separate church and state,
and I got rid of our bed and I've got
two platform beds and two box springs, have my own debt.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
She is her debate.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
There's a clear line you can see the floor between
her bed and mind.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Because I'm just such an animal. It's terrible.
Speaker 8 (07:20):
She's like, she's sleeping the couch now, She's like, there's
next room we have. She's just so co sleeping there.
And even last night we're like, we've got to get
this back on track.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Blair, I am adamant that couples cannot survive sleeping in
separate bedrooms, let alone separate beds. I would have such
a hard time with that. I actually dated somebody where
my snoring was getting out of control and the dogs
were in the bed too, and I think it made
it really difficult for.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
Me.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
The dogs and my seapat machine and snoring to be
going on that she would end up going to a
different bedroom, and I hated it. I just I did
not sleep well when she wasn't in bed.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I'm telling you right now, my husband doesn't even have
this option. He'll never have this option. If you go
to another room, I'm coming with you. Let me just
grab my pillow and my duvet.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
So even if he said, like, you know, it's unbearable,
I'm not getting good sleep because you don't get good sleep.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Anyway, Yeah, no I don't. So I mean, who you know,
I'd be like, you know what, tough, tough, join the club,
join the circus. I don't know what, you know, absolutely not.
There have been a couple of incidences when he's been sick,
and you know I've said this before, where he's tried
to go sleep on the couch for my benefit and
(08:35):
I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, I haven't like with
that anxious attachment disorder or whatever. No, I need you
to be right here. But I totally understand what you're
thank you, thank you, But it soundunbelievable for a second.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
But you know, it's also that scary moment if you
do share a bed with somebody when you wake up
and you put your arm over to their side and
nothing is there. That's what freaked me out. I'm I
remember jumping out of bed and then like scouring the
house and I didn't have far to go, it's not
that big. But I go over to the guest room
and I saw her sleeping there, and I'm like, what
(09:09):
are you doing? And I wanted to just climb into
bed right there, and you know, but then I realized
I was the problem because of my seapat machine and
snoring and the dogs. I was like, I don't want
to bring that issue with me. So we just had
a conversation and it didn't work out, but I had
a feeling that that was kind of part of it.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Yeah, you know. She was like, well, he won't let
me sleep where I want to sleep, so I'm out
see you later.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Emily, you say, it depends.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Well, so my husband he kind of like I'm a
big thing, Like my big thing is noise, like bodily noises,
So he like grinds his tape and it irks me
so bad. So if like he falls asleep first, I
cannot light I fall asleep first. We could sleep in
the same bed.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Wow, that's interesting.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Okay, so you kind of got to have a game
plan of like, Okay, if she's going to bed right now, okay,
give me fifteen minutes, then I can go join her.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Oh yeah, Now, do y'all have the rule? Last person
to get in bed has to turn off the light?
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Yes, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
It's like a mad dash for me. I don't know why.
I just hate turning off the light for whatever crazy reason.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
And then sometimes even if I'm in the last one,
I get bed, I get comfy. I'm like, hey, you
a lot replete.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
If I'm getting If I'm in bed and I'm comfy,
it ain't happening.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
So it's the body noises that actually holds Emily up
a little bit. Well, thank you very much, thank you.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
You have a good day.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Are you a married woman, Jen, I am. Do you
and your husband sleep in separate rooms and separate beds?
Speaker 7 (10:40):
Oh god no?
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Can I play y'all some audio of Dirt Bentley and
a recent emission that he had. Okay, this is It
floored me when I heard it, but I completely understand
where he's coming from because this is actually something that's
happened in my family.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
I have three pillows, a positions exactly the correct way.
I'm just thinking about the process of getting to fall asleep,
and all a sudden she will jerk. I'm like, you
got to be kidding me, You're already out. She's like
she's sleeping the couch. Now, she's like, there's next room
we have him, She's just go sleeping there. And even
last night we're like, we've got to get this back
on track. We've got to get back to the shammom.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
That starts Bentley talking about how he and his wife
started off sleeping his separate beds. Now they sleep in
separate rooms.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Ah, Steve Mangles doesn't have that option.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
No, that's a no go.
Speaker 10 (11:27):
No.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Is it tough to sleep with your spouse? Like do
they snore a lot?
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Jen, So I am very strange. I'm a creature of habit.
And if he is not laying beside me and I
can't hear his snore, I can't sleep.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
So it's like a white noise's saving my comfort knowing Okay,
he's still breathing.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
We're good.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
I can go to sleep.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Yeah, Steve doesn't have this option, like even before when
he's been sick and you know, like when you're sick.
You know, once twice a year in your coffin all night,
just you know, restless. He tried to get up because
he's like, I'm going to go sleep on the couch
so that you know you can sleep. I'm not interrupting you.
I'm like, no, no, no, I'm going to complain about this,
but you're not going anywhere. You're going to stay right there.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
No, hang on, let me give you some credit because
you've actually shared with me when he had a surgery,
had he had to sleep on the couch or in
a recliner climb and you slept next to him.
Speaker 10 (12:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I'm the same way as y'all. I feel like spouses
need to be in the same room, same bed. But
in my family, my grandmother and grandfather slept in separate rooms.
Speaker 7 (12:30):
Myselse do because they both snore like logging trucks and
they can't rest because they.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Snore so well.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
See, I think that would be kind of cool because
then they could have a battle, like a snore wars
kind of deal. And it truly is, it truly is
put the people who snore in one room and everybody
else on the other side of the house.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I mean even Dirk Spentley, who you know is actively
doing this, is like kind of recognizing in that audio
that like, this is a problem. I mean, he's like,
we need to get this back on track. We got
to get back at the same bedroom. I think that
once you start making decisions like that, it's so hard
to go back. And I do think that whether call
me crazy, but that's going to put some type of
distance between you and your spouse.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Does it actually work out for a couple sleeping in
separate beds and even worse than that, separate rooms? A
five five Grave zero. It's how country are you? On
the Spencer Grave Show. Alicia is going to get three
questions on how country are you? And then we give
her a country score on a scaleer one to country. Alicia,
how country are you?
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Probably a sick?
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Why so?
Speaker 7 (13:35):
Love well?
Speaker 4 (13:38):
I mean, I'm a country girl that I grew up
in the city kind of sorna not really, okay, I'm
just being I'm being cautious, I think.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Okay, okay, nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Here are your three questions. Best the luck on these?
Speaker 5 (13:55):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (13:57):
How many gallons of sweet red wine did Tracy Bird
have in the watermelon crawl enough to.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Be an alcoholic. I'm honestly don't remember you.
Speaker 8 (14:07):
Said we got a hundred gallons the sweet red water.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Melons on the back. Yeah, hunter gallons, that's a lot.
And your answer would have been correct, because if you
drank that you are an alcoholic. You ain't walking exactly exactly,
all right. Question number two, Alicia, how long is acceptable
to drive on the spare in the country until it blows?
Speaker 2 (14:33):
That is the correct answer, absolutely, yeah, blows.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
And then you'll put another spare on before you'll actually
go get another tire. Here's the last question for you.
Share with us one thing. Every country house has.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
A shotgun, yes, a dog in the back, okay, somebody's
mama is in jail that you know.
Speaker 7 (14:54):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
And I'm sure there's been a bonfire in the neighborhood,
if you want to call it the neighborhood. So we're
within a mile the sanity of your house.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
And it always has it always has a weird smell.
It's not like you know, hickory or nice seat or
anything like that. It's always like, what are they burned off?
Speaker 4 (15:10):
It's just the tires that they just blew.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
That's it. She played us this morning she said she
was a six. She's an eight point nine. Today. We've
got tickets for you to go see Hardy this Friday,
Cocola Amphitheater.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
Oh my god, y'all are amazing. Y'all have just made
my whole day.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
God, we got more adults acting just completely out of
pocket when they go to these sporting events. It was
recently we told you a CEO went to a tennis match.
He ended up swiping a hat that a player was
giving to a young kid. And then recently at a
Philadelphia Phillies game, a dad fought with some other people
to get a baseball, ended up getting the ball, gave
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it to his son, and then a woman came over
and accosted him. It's crazy if you haven't seen this
video on social media.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
What's wrong with people? I mean, genuinely no idea.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
And this guy ended up doing a couple interviews with
some people. Here's what he said about the altercation.
Speaker 9 (16:09):
As soon as it cracked off the bat, it was
starting to head our way a little bit. It fell
and kind of bubbled between the two armrests, and I
picked it up and I just walked away and held
the ball up high and put it in Lincoln's glove,
and then she showed up. As she reached from my arm,
she just yelled in my ear, that's my ball, like
super loud. I jumped out of my skin. Then she's like,
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those are from our seats. I said, there was nobody
in that seat. I pretty much just wanted her to
go away and be dad and show him how to
de escalate a situation.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
So that's where I went.
Speaker 10 (16:39):
I wasn't very happy that we had to give it
to her, but we can't win.
Speaker 6 (16:43):
She was gonna get it anyways.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
That's Drew and his young son, Lincoln. His daughter was
also a part of this and witnessed it all take place.
It blew up on social media, and I've got a
kind of unpopular viewpoint, But I think if I was
that dad, I don't think I would have taken a
ball out of my kid's glove and giving it to anybody.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
No, I wouldn't have. I mean, honestly I wouldn't have either.
It just people these days. The entitlement is getting to
a point where it needs to be addressed.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
And with adults. I mean, we're talking about a dad
who grabbed a baseball immediately gave it to his son,
and then she comes running over there, and the dad
had this kind of like freak out moment because he
didn't know what was happening. And then you watch all
this play out and she's saying, Oh, I want the
ball and all that kind of stuff. Blair, If you
grab a baseball or a football or something at a
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sporting event, should you have to give that up solely
because that ball landed around somebody else.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
No, not at all, Not at all, I mean, And honestly,
any decent adult is going to look around and if
there's a kid around, that's your first thought.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Right, I've caught so many foul balls of baseball games.
I'll stand up for the camera and do that, Hey,
I caught the ball, blah blah blah. But then immediately,
if there's a kid around me, you take the baseball.
You can get those things at academy sports.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Or something exactly, and what are you going to do
with it?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Right? Like if this one was a home run ball too,
the kid ended up getting a lot of great stuff
from it. He was brought down to the Phillies Clubhouse
met the player that hit the home run, Harrison Bader,
got a sign back from Harrison Bader. I just I
don't know if I could have given that ball up
to somebody acting that irate. That felt like to me,
if you're a parent, you rewarding a child for acting badly.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
No, that's exactly what's happening.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
Connor, did you see the woman who ripped the baseball
out of that poor kid's hands this weekend a Major
league baseball What did you think of that?
Speaker 7 (18:37):
Karen? Honestly, I thought it was pretty obnoxious and ignorant,
But you know, everybody has their own views, and I
guess she paid to be there too. But I mean,
it's a kid, and he might not get another chance
to get one of those balls, so I probably would
have gave it to him. But everybody has their own
views on it, so it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
I still had a hard time, Connor, thinking like, even
if that dad didn't give the baseball to a kid,
he got that ball fair and square. I mean, that's
what happens if a ball gets hit, it's the person
who comes up with it.
Speaker 7 (19:06):
You would think that's that's, you know, what most people
would do, But then again, you know, obviously she's not
most people.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
So like you said, Karen.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
She did look like the ultimate, didn't she. It was
not only the haircut that you see of people who
write a strongly worded email or get mad and want
to see the manager at Target, but hers was like
different colors, so you just knew you were like, oh,
this woman came to fight to me.
Speaker 7 (19:29):
She kind of like a like a pissed off Porcy pon.
Speaker 10 (19:34):
That is my.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Favorite description, hands down. You win, Mike drop Connor.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Thank you, buddy.
Speaker 7 (19:39):
Yes, sorry, I'll have a good morning.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
The pageant world had their Super Bowl over the weekend.
Miss America Suspencer Grave, Show Blair. Were you ever in
beauty pageants all that kind of stuff? I feel like
you would have been.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
No.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
I was never like skinny or cute enough to be
in that world.
Speaker 7 (19:55):
No.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Seriously, Ema Terry is joining us this morning, and Emma
is the current Miss Alabama. She's done such a great
job representing that title. And has that always been your goal?
Speaker 10 (20:06):
I always wanted to be Miss Alabama, and that was
always the goal, but I never knew if that would
actually happen.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
So for this lifelong dream.
Speaker 10 (20:15):
To come true is one of the most exciting things
that has ever happened. To me, and I'm just I'm
so grateful. I wake up every day and I think,
thank you, thank you Lord for this opportunity, thank you
for placing me here in this time to impact people
and to share my story encourage other young women to
get involved in this program, and to have this opportunity
(20:39):
just to be on the Miss America stage. It's so humbling,
and I just I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
You are sharing with me that there are a bunch
of Krispy Kreme donuts backstage and all this kind of stuff.
What's your go to snack out food? Like, if you're
just in your fields, you're sitting on the couch and
you're like, I'm gonna hammer something. What is it?
Speaker 10 (20:56):
Always ice cream? Hands down, it is ice cream. It's
either hogging' to us Ben and Jerry's Bluebell. I really
don't care. I love any type of ice cream.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
Well, thank you Emma for joining us. And while it
didn't work out for runner up, still great, Still a
wonderful Miss Alabama Blair. What would be your snackout food?
Speaker 2 (21:16):
I would go Ben and Jerry's half baked ice cream. Specifically,
I love.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
The woman that went viral from Gunnersville over the weekend
on WHNT nineteen. Did you see this?
Speaker 2 (21:28):
I did, but some people may not have, so we
got to bring him up to speech.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
So this is before Alabama played this weekend and blew
University of Louisiana Monroe out seventy three to nothing. But
Susie Connery of Gunnersville was asked what she would have
done if she won the Powerball.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
I tell you exactly what I'd do with the first
seventy million.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
I'd pay off Kaitlin de Boor and get him the
heck out of the University of Alabama, and then I'd
take whatever.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Else it took to get rid of the ad. She
knows where her priorities are. I got to give it
to her. You know, I'd probably do the same thing
if I was in Alabama, say.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Susie Connerly, God bless you. Thanks for making us laugh
on a Monday morning,
College football already underway. It was a disappointing start to
the season for Alabama. Tennessee is perfect right now two
and zero Alabama split one in one, but they will
match up October eighteenth, and Blair and I have decided
that we want to put a little friendly wager on
the game. Now some suggestions have come in. You guys
still have an opportunity to get into US eight five
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five grave zero, but you put some parameters out there.
Blair for yourself.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yeah, I mean, I wasn't going to do something that
lasted all season long. It wasn't like I was going
to do something where I didn't pull for my team
for the rest of the season. Nothing like that.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Mike had a suggestion come.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Up with some key word or key phrase, and every
time Blair hears that, she has to say roll time.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
I kind of like that idea, you know, because we
could do that for a couple of days. We don't
have to drag that out over a season.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
I was about to say, yeah, we would have to
get everybody involved, and it couldn't be something where you
were just saying it every other word, you know what
I mean? That that could get iffy.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Here's what Kim suggested.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I know you're saying, Blair is married, Blair has to
find you a date if she wins.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Well it sounds like a win for me.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Well there you go, Darklans and if you lose. If
you lose, you.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
Have to take her somewhere, because I know she doesn't
like to cook and fish and all that fun stuff
on lay Lake, take her noodland.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
So what do you think of the idea of trying
to reach your hand to a hole and get a catfish?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Absolutely not? Okay, absolutely that one of that numbers.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
And here's what Melanie brought to the table.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Okay, boo bash the share. Yes, if Blair loses, she
has to dress like an Alabama cheerleader. H if you lose,
you have to dress as a Tennessee cheerleader.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Very interesting. Now, I like all these ideas. I think
we can do more and have bigger though.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
You know, no I agree. I'll say this. Out of
those three, I do like the idea of boobash being
where we settled the bet, ah, whatever that bet might
end up being. I like the idea of you know,
that's a couple of weeks after the game and that way,
(02:09):
you know, you're embarrassed in front of multiple I like
where she's going with that.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
So you guys can now use that to your advantage.
Something that we could do in front of a bunch
of people who are going to be a part of
Boobash this year. What's the college bet between Alabama, myself
and Tennessee Blair that we would have to do for
October eighteenth, eight five five grave zero.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
Whoever loses, they've got to go out with the winning
team and you the next weekend, Alabama or Tennessee, whoever wins,
and they've got to cheer like it's their favorite team
in the world.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
So you're saying, you're saying, whoever, like whatever happens October eighteenth,
when Alabama beats Tennessee, Blair will have to go root
for Alabama at the next game. She's gonna have to
be like so hardcore. She's gonna have to wear a shirt,
she's gonna have to wear the short, she's gonna have
to say real tied.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Here's where here's where I have an issue with that.
One Spencer isn't a die hard Alabama fan through and
through raised Alabama fan, so that's not going to hurt
him as bad as if if it's not gonna happen,
(03:31):
I were to have to do it, so like I
need something that's going to actually.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
Affect Spencer, it would hurt him.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I don't think it would because you're not because you're not.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Like that.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
That's where I need something that's gonna embarrass you more
and go into a game you don't know those people like.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
That's not gonna you tell me that I need to
go to a Tennessee game. I'm gonna go because I
love that.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, Like that
one doesn't affect Spencer to.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Be a snake identity lines, No.
Speaker 7 (04:03):
He would.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
He like Spencer's also the type that if somebody invited
him to a Tennessee game and they're not playing Penn State,
like he's gonna wear whatever shirt Like that's not like
he's just gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I would not say that that is true, Okay, I
don't think that.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
I would try to laugh while you're saying that. Like
you we've had this conversation before of like if you're
gonna go to the game, you're gonna go all in.
Outside of like that that team playing Penn State.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Everybody they know, they know what's gonna happen October eighteenth.
They just know that you're gonna be embarrassed.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I am a diehard Gator fan and if I had
to wear Tennessee that would just kill me.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Right chomp chomp in the swamp. Let's go.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I was. I was keeping tabs on your game over
the weekend.
Speaker 7 (05:00):
Two.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I won't tell you because I love you. I won't
tell you how I felt.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
Well, that's just one. We're gonna win the rest.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
There you go. That's what we're looking for. That's attitude
that we appreciate, especially after Tennessee loses this weekend to Georgia.
All right, not anyway, thank you, have a great day,
you too by giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
It's the good good. On The Spencer Grave Show, a
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woman who wanted to find out her family history decided
to take a trip and go to Argentina, where her
dad was born. She rented out an airbnb, flew down,
got a cab over to the house, sent her parents
the address. That's when her dad said, that's the house
that I was born in.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh wow, what are the odds?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
She was going through a bunch of old family photos,
took a lot of them there, and she wanted to
see if she could find people in town that might
know her dad or might be distant relatives. And come
to find out she was inside the house, she met
the person who owns it just so happened to be
a distant cousin.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I mean, you know, I don't know if she signed
up for all this, but good for her. She learned more.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Have you ever gone back to your childhood house? I
know a lot of people do that A five five
Grave zero.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I've driven by it because we did live in one
house for a majority of my life. But I've never,
you know, asked to go in it or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
She've never knocked on the door and been like, who
you used to live here? We're going to go through
my own I've done.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
That and I'm not gonna do that. I'm not doing that.
I don't need to see it. I'm good.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Can couple survive sleeping in separate beds? It's the Spencer
Grave show eight five five grave zero. For some people,
it's not even separate beds, it's separate rooms. Listen to
Dirk's Bentley.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
I have three pillows after your positions exactly the correct way,
and I'm just thinking about the process of getting to
fall asleep, and all a sudden and she will jerk.
I'm like, you got to be kidding me, You're already out,
and so she'll move a tiny bit.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I feel it.
Speaker 8 (07:05):
So years ago I decided to separate church and state,
and I got rid of our bed and I've got
two platform beds and two box springs, have my own debt.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
She is her debate.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
There's a clear line you can see the floor between
her bed and mind.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Because I'm just such an animal. It's terrible.
Speaker 8 (07:20):
She's like, she's sleeping the couch now, She's like, there's
next room we have. She's just so co sleeping there.
And even last night we're like, we've got to get
this back on track.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Blair, I am adamant that couples cannot survive sleeping in
separate bedrooms, let alone separate beds. I would have such
a hard time with that. I actually dated somebody where
my snoring was getting out of control and the dogs
were in the bed too, and I think it made
it really difficult for.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
Me.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
The dogs and my seapat machine and snoring to be
going on that she would end up going to a
different bedroom, and I hated it. I just I did
not sleep well when she wasn't in bed.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I'm telling you right now, my husband doesn't even have
this option. He'll never have this option. If you go
to another room, I'm coming with you. Let me just
grab my pillow and my duvet.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
So even if he said, like, you know, it's unbearable,
I'm not getting good sleep because you don't get good sleep.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Anyway, Yeah, no I don't. So I mean, who you know,
I'd be like, you know what, tough, tough, join the club,
join the circus. I don't know what, you know, absolutely not.
There have been a couple of incidences when he's been sick,
and you know I've said this before, where he's tried
to go sleep on the couch for my benefit and
(08:35):
I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, I haven't like with
that anxious attachment disorder or whatever. No, I need you
to be right here. But I totally understand what you're
thank you, thank you, But it soundunbelievable for a second.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
But you know, it's also that scary moment if you
do share a bed with somebody when you wake up
and you put your arm over to their side and
nothing is there. That's what freaked me out. I'm I
remember jumping out of bed and then like scouring the
house and I didn't have far to go, it's not
that big. But I go over to the guest room
and I saw her sleeping there, and I'm like, what
(09:09):
are you doing? And I wanted to just climb into
bed right there, and you know, but then I realized
I was the problem because of my seapat machine and
snoring and the dogs. I was like, I don't want
to bring that issue with me. So we just had
a conversation and it didn't work out, but I had
a feeling that that was kind of part of it.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Yeah, you know. She was like, well, he won't let
me sleep where I want to sleep, so I'm out
see you later.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Emily, you say, it depends.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Well, so my husband he kind of like I'm a
big thing, Like my big thing is noise, like bodily noises,
So he like grinds his tape and it irks me
so bad. So if like he falls asleep first, I
cannot light I fall asleep first. We could sleep in
the same bed.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Wow, that's interesting.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Okay, so you kind of got to have a game
plan of like, Okay, if she's going to bed right now, okay,
give me fifteen minutes, then I can go join her.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Oh yeah, Now, do y'all have the rule? Last person
to get in bed has to turn off the light?
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Yes, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
It's like a mad dash for me. I don't know why.
I just hate turning off the light for whatever crazy reason.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
And then sometimes even if I'm in the last one,
I get bed, I get comfy. I'm like, hey, you
a lot replete.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
If I'm getting If I'm in bed and I'm comfy,
it ain't happening.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
So it's the body noises that actually holds Emily up
a little bit. Well, thank you very much, thank you.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
You have a good day.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Are you a married woman, Jen, I am. Do you
and your husband sleep in separate rooms and separate beds?
Speaker 7 (10:40):
Oh god no?
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Can I play y'all some audio of Dirt Bentley and
a recent emission that he had. Okay, this is It
floored me when I heard it, but I completely understand
where he's coming from because this is actually something that's
happened in my family.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
I have three pillows, a positions exactly the correct way.
I'm just thinking about the process of getting to fall asleep,
and all a sudden she will jerk. I'm like, you
got to be kidding me, You're already out. She's like
she's sleeping the couch. Now, she's like, there's next room
we have him, She's just go sleeping there. And even
last night we're like, we've got to get this back
on track. We've got to get back to the shammom.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
That starts Bentley talking about how he and his wife
started off sleeping his separate beds. Now they sleep in
separate rooms.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Ah, Steve Mangles doesn't have that option.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
No, that's a no go.
Speaker 10 (11:27):
No.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Is it tough to sleep with your spouse? Like do
they snore a lot?
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Jen, So I am very strange. I'm a creature of habit.
And if he is not laying beside me and I
can't hear his snore, I can't sleep.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
So it's like a white noise's saving my comfort knowing Okay,
he's still breathing.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
We're good.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
I can go to sleep.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
Yeah, Steve doesn't have this option, like even before when
he's been sick and you know, like when you're sick.
You know, once twice a year in your coffin all night,
just you know, restless. He tried to get up because
he's like, I'm going to go sleep on the couch
so that you know you can sleep. I'm not interrupting you.
I'm like, no, no, no, I'm going to complain about this,
but you're not going anywhere. You're going to stay right there.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
No, hang on, let me give you some credit because
you've actually shared with me when he had a surgery,
had he had to sleep on the couch or in
a recliner climb and you slept next to him.
Speaker 10 (12:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
I'm the same way as y'all. I feel like spouses
need to be in the same room, same bed. But
in my family, my grandmother and grandfather slept in separate rooms.
Speaker 7 (12:30):
Myselse do because they both snore like logging trucks and
they can't rest because they.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Snore so well.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
See, I think that would be kind of cool because
then they could have a battle, like a snore wars
kind of deal. And it truly is, it truly is
put the people who snore in one room and everybody
else on the other side of the house.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I mean even Dirk Spentley, who you know is actively
doing this, is like kind of recognizing in that audio
that like, this is a problem. I mean, he's like,
we need to get this back on track. We got
to get back at the same bedroom. I think that
once you start making decisions like that, it's so hard
to go back. And I do think that whether call
me crazy, but that's going to put some type of
distance between you and your spouse.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Does it actually work out for a couple sleeping in
separate beds and even worse than that, separate rooms? A
five five Grave zero. It's how country are you? On
the Spencer Grave Show. Alicia is going to get three
questions on how country are you? And then we give
her a country score on a scaleer one to country. Alicia,
how country are you?
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Probably a sick?
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Why so?
Speaker 7 (13:35):
Love well?
Speaker 4 (13:38):
I mean, I'm a country girl that I grew up
in the city kind of sorna not really, okay, I'm
just being I'm being cautious, I think.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Okay, okay, nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Here are your three questions. Best the luck on these?
Speaker 5 (13:55):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (13:57):
How many gallons of sweet red wine did Tracy Bird
have in the watermelon crawl enough to.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Be an alcoholic. I'm honestly don't remember you.
Speaker 8 (14:07):
Said we got a hundred gallons the sweet red water.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Melons on the back. Yeah, hunter gallons, that's a lot.
And your answer would have been correct, because if you
drank that you are an alcoholic. You ain't walking exactly exactly,
all right. Question number two, Alicia, how long is acceptable
to drive on the spare in the country until it blows?
Speaker 2 (14:33):
That is the correct answer, absolutely, yeah, blows.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
And then you'll put another spare on before you'll actually
go get another tire. Here's the last question for you.
Share with us one thing. Every country house has.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
A shotgun, yes, a dog in the back, okay, somebody's
mama is in jail that you know.
Speaker 7 (14:54):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
And I'm sure there's been a bonfire in the neighborhood,
if you want to call it the neighborhood. So we're
within a mile the sanity of your house.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
And it always has it always has a weird smell.
It's not like you know, hickory or nice seat or
anything like that. It's always like, what are they burned off?
Speaker 4 (15:10):
It's just the tires that they just blew.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
That's it. She played us this morning she said she
was a six. She's an eight point nine. Today. We've
got tickets for you to go see Hardy this Friday,
Cocola Amphitheater.
Speaker 4 (15:28):
Oh my god, y'all are amazing. Y'all have just made
my whole day.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
God, we got more adults acting just completely out of
pocket when they go to these sporting events. It was
recently we told you a CEO went to a tennis match.
He ended up swiping a hat that a player was
giving to a young kid. And then recently at a
Philadelphia Phillies game, a dad fought with some other people
to get a baseball, ended up getting the ball, gave
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it to his son, and then a woman came over
and accosted him. It's crazy if you haven't seen this
video on social media.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
What's wrong with people? I mean, genuinely no idea.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
And this guy ended up doing a couple interviews with
some people. Here's what he said about the altercation.
Speaker 9 (16:09):
As soon as it cracked off the bat, it was
starting to head our way a little bit. It fell
and kind of bubbled between the two armrests, and I
picked it up and I just walked away and held
the ball up high and put it in Lincoln's glove,
and then she showed up. As she reached from my arm,
she just yelled in my ear, that's my ball, like
super loud. I jumped out of my skin. Then she's like,
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those are from our seats. I said, there was nobody
in that seat. I pretty much just wanted her to
go away and be dad and show him how to
de escalate a situation.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
So that's where I went.
Speaker 10 (16:39):
I wasn't very happy that we had to give it
to her, but we can't win.
Speaker 6 (16:43):
She was gonna get it anyways.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
That's Drew and his young son, Lincoln. His daughter was
also a part of this and witnessed it all take place.
It blew up on social media, and I've got a
kind of unpopular viewpoint, But I think if I was
that dad, I don't think I would have taken a
ball out of my kid's glove and giving it to anybody.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
No, I wouldn't have. I mean, honestly I wouldn't have either.
It just people these days. The entitlement is getting to
a point where it needs to be addressed.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
And with adults. I mean, we're talking about a dad
who grabbed a baseball immediately gave it to his son,
and then she comes running over there, and the dad
had this kind of like freak out moment because he
didn't know what was happening. And then you watch all
this play out and she's saying, Oh, I want the
ball and all that kind of stuff. Blair, If you
grab a baseball or a football or something at a
(17:35):
sporting event, should you have to give that up solely
because that ball landed around somebody else.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
No, not at all, Not at all, I mean, And honestly,
any decent adult is going to look around and if
there's a kid around, that's your first thought.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Right, I've caught so many foul balls of baseball games.
I'll stand up for the camera and do that, Hey,
I caught the ball, blah blah blah. But then immediately,
if there's a kid around me, you take the baseball.
You can get those things at academy sports.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Or something exactly, and what are you going to do
with it?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Right? Like if this one was a home run ball too,
the kid ended up getting a lot of great stuff
from it. He was brought down to the Phillies Clubhouse
met the player that hit the home run, Harrison Bader,
got a sign back from Harrison Bader. I just I
don't know if I could have given that ball up
to somebody acting that irate. That felt like to me,
if you're a parent, you rewarding a child for acting badly.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
No, that's exactly what's happening.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
Connor, did you see the woman who ripped the baseball
out of that poor kid's hands this weekend a Major
league baseball What did you think of that?
Speaker 7 (18:37):
Karen? Honestly, I thought it was pretty obnoxious and ignorant,
But you know, everybody has their own views, and I
guess she paid to be there too. But I mean,
it's a kid, and he might not get another chance
to get one of those balls, so I probably would
have gave it to him. But everybody has their own
views on it, so it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
I still had a hard time, Connor, thinking like, even
if that dad didn't give the baseball to a kid,
he got that ball fair and square. I mean, that's
what happens if a ball gets hit, it's the person
who comes up with it.
Speaker 7 (19:06):
You would think that's that's, you know, what most people
would do, But then again, you know, obviously she's not
most people.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
So like you said, Karen.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
She did look like the ultimate, didn't she. It was
not only the haircut that you see of people who
write a strongly worded email or get mad and want
to see the manager at Target, but hers was like
different colors, so you just knew you were like, oh,
this woman came to fight to me.
Speaker 7 (19:29):
She kind of like a like a pissed off Porcy pon.
Speaker 10 (19:34):
That is my.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Favorite description, hands down. You win, Mike drop Connor.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
Thank you, buddy.
Speaker 7 (19:39):
Yes, sorry, I'll have a good morning.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
The pageant world had their Super Bowl over the weekend.
Miss America Suspencer Grave, Show Blair. Were you ever in
beauty pageants all that kind of stuff? I feel like
you would have been.
Speaker 4 (19:51):
No.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
I was never like skinny or cute enough to be
in that world.
Speaker 7 (19:55):
No.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
Seriously, Ema Terry is joining us this morning, and Emma
is the current Miss Alabama. She's done such a great
job representing that title. And has that always been your goal?
Speaker 10 (20:06):
I always wanted to be Miss Alabama, and that was
always the goal, but I never knew if that would
actually happen.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
So for this lifelong dream.
Speaker 10 (20:15):
To come true is one of the most exciting things
that has ever happened. To me, and I'm just I'm
so grateful. I wake up every day and I think,
thank you, thank you Lord for this opportunity, thank you
for placing me here in this time to impact people
and to share my story encourage other young women to
get involved in this program, and to have this opportunity
(20:39):
just to be on the Miss America stage. It's so humbling,
and I just I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
You are sharing with me that there are a bunch
of Krispy Kreme donuts backstage and all this kind of stuff.
What's your go to snack out food? Like, if you're
just in your fields, you're sitting on the couch and
you're like, I'm gonna hammer something. What is it?
Speaker 10 (20:56):
Always ice cream? Hands down, it is ice cream. It's
either hogging' to us Ben and Jerry's Bluebell. I really
don't care. I love any type of ice cream.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
Well, thank you Emma for joining us. And while it
didn't work out for runner up, still great, Still a
wonderful Miss Alabama Blair. What would be your snackout food?
Speaker 2 (21:16):
I would go Ben and Jerry's half baked ice cream. Specifically,
I love.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
The woman that went viral from Gunnersville over the weekend
on WHNT nineteen. Did you see this?
Speaker 2 (21:28):
I did, but some people may not have, so we
got to bring him up to speech.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
So this is before Alabama played this weekend and blew
University of Louisiana Monroe out seventy three to nothing. But
Susie Connery of Gunnersville was asked what she would have
done if she won the Powerball.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
I tell you exactly what I'd do with the first
seventy million.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
I'd pay off Kaitlin de Boor and get him the
heck out of the University of Alabama, and then I'd
take whatever.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Else it took to get rid of the ad. She
knows where her priorities are. I got to give it
to her. You know, I'd probably do the same thing
if I was in Alabama, say.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Susie Connerly, God bless you. Thanks for making us laugh
on a Monday morning,
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
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