September 17, 2025 • 19 mins
Spencer was asked "if you were in charge of making a candle smell like the country, what would that smell like?"
Angela needed a hint on How Country Are Ya!
Senior Citizens are mad about what people call them so we asked Spencers Dad!
Angela needed a hint on How Country Are Ya!
Senior Citizens are mad about what people call them so we asked Spencers Dad!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's the
good good On the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
There's a growing trend of interesting groups that liked to
meet up. There was one in Nashville where if you
were over six foot three, it was a meetup of
tall people in Nashville. Oh okay, there's one in New
York where they're gathering people named Ryan and they're calling
it rye Toberfest.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Just random groups of people, right.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I love how you sound like that, since if it
was a swifty event, you'd be there.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I don't feel like that's as random as Hey, if
your name's Ryan or you're a certain height, get together,
that's a fan base.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
It's different.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Let's say it was a bunch of Blairs that decided
to get together and you guys called it up into
thin Blair.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
The world does not need that. We don't need that gathering.
I would know, absolutely not. We don't need multiple Blayers
in one place.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
It would be forevery That's very true.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
If Alabama had a group where it was tall people,
I would totally.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Go to that. Why why not? But why people do
the craziest things.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Listen, there is a whole convention dedicated to twins in
Minneapolis every year.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
But just tall people on that one probably is the
weirdest over the Ryan tumifest or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I got a really interesting text message from a friend
of mine the other day. I wanted to share it
with you because I need your opinions on it. Eight
five five graves zero. But the text message simply read,
if you were asked to develop a candle that smelled
like the country, what would it smell like?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Oh, that's an easy one.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
A bonfire, campfire, bonfire, Yeah, you know what I'm talking about,
m hm, the burning of wood and other things whatever
ended up in the burn pit.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
I started to think to myself, like, there's so many
smells that associate the country lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
It's hard to just pick one.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
In fact, I think I rolled back to them and
I labeled a bunch of different things. But the big
one for me that I think if you were making
just one candle that smelled like the country would be
diesel fuel.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah you know, I was actually going to say gas too.
And I don't know why that's like a country smell,
because obviously, like everybody uses gas in some way, shape
or form, but gas.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
And diesel are just a little different, Like you get
that heavy smell of diesel and you just it always
brings me back to like some of the John Deere tractors,
the kobodas, where you're just around those pieces of machinery
and it's probably the diesel and the grease mixed in.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Oh yeah, it's the combination of all the things. I'm
trying to think of.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
What else?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Fried chicken, Yeah, if we were staying with the food theme,
then a warm apple pie on a brick?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, what about Ooh?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Again, don't know why this is associated with country southern,
but like the grasp being just cut, I associate that
with the country, and I don't know why. Maybe it's
because like in the city, you don't have as much grass.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Typically it's hard to cut concrete.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Well, there's that, but this smell isn't as overpowering as
it is out in the country where there's more grass
and things like that.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
All Right, here's one that's extremely underrated. When you wake
up in the morning, you step out on your porch
and you get the smell of fresh dew. I'm talking
about the dew on the ground, the grass where it's
just there's a little moisture in the air and that
just hits your nostrils and you just feel like a
very calming, peaceful manner about yourself.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yeah, that's a good one. What else?
Speaker 4 (03:52):
I feel like we're missing some big ones. There's some
that I know that people are probably yelling as they're
listening to it.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I feel like we're missing a ton. You guys can
definitely jump on and share with us. Eight five to
five Graves zero. If you were asked to develop a
candle and it had to smell like the country, what
would it be?
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Cutting gins? Yeah, you could drive it by him sometimes
you could smell it, especially the one there and Hayes
the green you smell it?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
You want to talk about driving buy some and smelling it?
How about chicken farms?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
For sure.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Let's get over to Jasper and talk to Amy this
morning on the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Hyams, Hey, what's the smell?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
If you were asked to develop a candle that smelled
like the country, that you'd go with?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Well, my daughter came up with the idea that it
would be fresh cut hey, because we live on a farm.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
So she knows that smell all too well.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
Yes, and it smells great.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
What else do y'all have on the farm. Do you
have horses?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
We have some horses. We have about two hundred head
of cows. Yeah, we have a big place.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
All right.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
So help me out with this because I was trying
to think of this. You know when you go into
a horse stall and you guys put down that bedding stuff. Yeah,
when you open up a pack of that betting stuff,
that smell is burned in my brain. But I don't
know what it is. It's like a wood chip kind
of thing. It's like, yes, cedar shavings.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
It there you go.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
It's been sitting on my mind for the last ten
minutes and I've been able to figure it out.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Well.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
Thank you, Amy, thank you, y'all.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Have a good day, Amanda, Thanks for hanging on.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
If you were asked to develop a country candle, what
would it smell like?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
We threw out a couple ideas, but we know we're
missing a.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
Few cudsow or honeysuckle. I'm from Saint Clair County, you know,
land of the Kudsou.
Speaker 7 (05:37):
Is it everywhere?
Speaker 8 (05:39):
It's everywhere? But have you ever smelled of a cudsou blossom?
Mm hmm no, oh it it will actually make your
mouth water.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
It smells so good.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (05:51):
Really, it's got its own distinctive smell. It's not really
a great snail, but it's along the line of a
really good greape.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Well, i'll tell you the smell in the country that's
not appealing. It's those trees, like the pear trees or whatever.
Oh yeah, in the spring when they start getting going
and good, oh.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yes, terrible.
Speaker 8 (06:16):
They're beautiful, but I don't like to smell it exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Thank you very much, have a great day.
Speaker 9 (06:21):
Thank you y'all too. Bye bye.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
So I really wouldn't burn this candle, but if I
wanted to make one that smell like the country, a
probably big calpasture.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
That's a that's a gift. Do you give an uncle
that you don't really care for?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Oh, I got this especially for you.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
And you change the label and you make the label
sound really appealing. And then when they fired up, that
just gets stuck in the room.
Speaker 10 (06:49):
That's just wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
It's like a cool summer morning and then they fired
up and they're like.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
This thing smells like exactly, that's great. Well, thank you,
have an awesome day.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
You too.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
By It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show?
What's your nickname? Angela?
Speaker 7 (07:15):
Really just Angela?
Speaker 11 (07:16):
My grandparents?
Speaker 9 (07:17):
Angie's about it?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
All right, Let's play how country are you today? On
a scale of one of the country. How country are you?
Speaker 7 (07:23):
Oh, I would say eight?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Great score heavy for sure. I do your best with
the three questions that we ask you. This first one's tough.
We need you to tell us who this is.
Speaker 12 (07:36):
Scotch you lory b.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
And with all the memories.
Speaker 9 (07:43):
Day oh uh, give me a.
Speaker 7 (08:01):
Chris Cagle.
Speaker 13 (08:02):
Easy once you got the initial hurt, but only for
your live the shorts and going calls of chicks did again.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
All right, here we go. Question number two on how
country are you? Share with us the time your grandma
yelled at you.
Speaker 7 (08:23):
Oh this is embarrassing. I was kind of well.
Speaker 11 (08:31):
I went to a bar with my cousin, and my
cousin left me and I ended up having to call
my grandparents to come pick me up. And my grandmother
asked me if that's where I wanted to be when
Jesus came because my grandfather.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Oh, bar.
Speaker 11 (08:55):
So I was standing on the side of the road.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Is this want to rapture happens?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
And wow?
Speaker 4 (09:03):
That might be one of my new favorite stories that
we've heard from a friend of the show.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
All right, so here we go, ANGELA final question.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
What are you getting from breakfast at the convenience store
if you're really Southern?
Speaker 9 (09:16):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Wow?
Speaker 11 (09:18):
The only thing for breakfast I get at a convenience
store is a biscuit.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Got to be the home made ones though, it can't
be the ones that they get from a store.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
It's all you need.
Speaker 11 (09:29):
It's a biscuits.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
It's perfect, not bad. You gave yourself an a.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
We had to give you a hint with Chris Cagel,
which is a little rough because that was a great song.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
You're seven point three today.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
Oh how awesome. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
I saw that our team yesterday on the Spencer Grave
Show Instagram story they put up the Kelsey Ballerini and
her boyfriend broke up after three years.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
This is a sad breakup because I really did think
that they were in game, and I think a lot
of people thought they were in game.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Just a couple of days before this announcement came out.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
He has this sweet Instagram post for her birthday, and
that her birthday.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
The Instagram post for her birthday genuinely had everybody initially
commenting on it saying, is this the year she becomes
Kelsey Stokes?
Speaker 14 (10:17):
Oh wow?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
So did she commented? She like, like, what's the drama?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
So no comments?
Speaker 1 (10:25):
She didn't comment.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Other people he did not comment. Everybody else is commenting.
But what's even more bizarre is what's happened since then? Okay,
two days later, she unfollows him, he continues to follow her.
In my opinion, this screams he messed up, he knows
he messed up, and she's done with.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Him, and on his side, him still following her is
a way to be.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Like not wanting.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Yeah, I don't think that she blocked him because I
don't think that I would be able to search her
name on his you know, follower or following list, So
of course she could still go over to his Instagram.
But as a woman, at least in my friend group,
if you one follows somebody, that means you're done.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Right, But that also does lead to somewhat of the
crazy thing, like you're not following this person, but you
continuously go back to check their profile to see what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Everybody does everybody does that?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
I mean there's people that I'm not not even in
a relationship, but like in a friendship way that I'll
go and be like, what are they up to?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
If you unfollow somebody or scrub your social media of
a person that you were dating, romantically linked with, whatever
it is, that kind of is the end of it.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
As of right now, there are still pictures of him
and her on her Instagram.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
You have to scroll a little bit.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
You know, but she's kind of been busy to another stuff,
posting about other stuff. But there are still some on there,
and I just wonder if over the next few days
if we'll see those go away.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
So what would you do if you were in a
relationship with somebody for three years, You're gonna have a
lot of photos together. It was an extremely public relationship.
You go back and scrub them completely off the timeline?
Or does that really kind of show where your life was,
where it's been, and where it's going.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
What do you do when you've dated me?
Speaker 4 (12:13):
And Okay, interesting because the only pictures I have of
me and other guys before Steve still on my Facebook
or not guys that I dated. They're guys that we
may have gone to like a formal together in high
school or something like that, and I may only have
a couple of pictures from that time frame. But as
far as like someone I've dated on social media gone.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
A five five graves zero. We would love to get
your opinion on that.
Speaker 10 (12:41):
It depends on the reason. I fay it was mutual.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
Would you grow apart?
Speaker 10 (12:44):
No? If one of us did something.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Then I'm okay. So it's all about intent for you.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Interesting, okay, Okay.
Speaker 10 (12:54):
Now May and my ex wop when we got divorced.
I still have pictures of May and herd, but it's
also because of some of the memories you know there
there we were doing something or it has the kids
in it. That random picture of me and her have
been have been done away with.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
But when did those pictures leave the chat? When you
got into a new relationship, or when you got engaged,
or when you got remarried, whenever.
Speaker 10 (13:22):
I finally had time. I can be petty, but I'm
not going to stop what I'm doing just to go
in the rite pictures. You know, it's one of those
I've got time, I'm gonna go. Let me go ahead
and get these off of here so I can finish.
(13:42):
You know, we can finish going about our lives.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
I could be petty time for it.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Monday night football comes on an hour, so I'm a
little I'm a little bucher. Well, thanks Trent. Appreciate you, Bob,
so thank you, Blair. I noticed this the other day
and I want to get your opinion on it. But
I certainly want to get the opinion of some senior
citizens I e. My father, because younger senior citizens are
trying to get work. They're trying to get rid of
(14:07):
the word senior because it makes them sound old and
they don't want to be reminded of it. They prefer
generation Jones or any other label other than senior.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
I would personally love to see the word senior be
eliminated as well. And I'm obviously not a senior citizen,
but you're married. I think well, I do think that
it ages people, and I think that it can be
very insensitive to call I've always hated it. I think
it's insensitive to call someone a senior citizen.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
My dad actually had a medical procedure done not too
long ago, and he told me, for the very first
time in his life, he felt like he was older
because of that. Dad, would you be okay, with them
getting rid of senior citizen and just call you guys
something else.
Speaker 5 (14:51):
Well, instead of senior citizen, it could be seasoned.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Okay, that's an option, Like what a meat rub something
that we're making on a brisket or what?
Speaker 5 (15:06):
Well, why does aged bourbons taste so much better than
non aged.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Bourbon because they've had a little more time?
Speaker 5 (15:15):
All right, So we could be timely citizen.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
These What you're saying, mister Graves, is we have options,
and we shouldn't just land on senior citizen because that's
what it's always been.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Let's put it out to some I don't want to
say it, generation Jones, maybe some people who are seasoned citizens.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Let's put it out to them. And what is it?
Speaker 5 (15:39):
Is it?
Speaker 10 (15:39):
You?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Are you technically senior citizen when you're over fifty five?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
What's the age?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
I hear different things.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
I hear fifty five, I hear sixty. I've even heard
as old as sixty five.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Dad, you own a nursing home. What age is typically
a senior citizen?
Speaker 5 (15:54):
Sixty five?
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Sixty five?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Okay, So if anybody's listening to our show sixty five
plus and you.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
Are so tired of people to these, and I'm sure
it's fifty five for senior there.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
If you're getting a discount and you want to change
the term senior to something else, call us a five
five grave zero, Thank you, dad, all I love it to.
What we found out this morning is that some people
who are now senior citizens don't like the term senior
citizen makes them feel a lot older. So we ask
anybody who's over the age of sixty five to call
(16:26):
us and vivas on the phone with us. This is exciting,
A five five grave zero. How do you feel about
that term?
Speaker 14 (16:32):
I don't really give a flip about who such language.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
I love it so much.
Speaker 14 (16:38):
I'm a I'm a Christian. I don't say those kind
of words. But Patty, senior citizen, don't bore.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
You don't mind it because apparently a lot of senior
citizens don't like the word senior because it makes them
feel old.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
And then they got to always face Oh.
Speaker 14 (16:51):
Good, you know something. Feeling O ain't one of my things?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Yours? You feel?
Speaker 14 (16:59):
Yeah, that's it? And well says I have survived cancer twice,
al richy right, I'm good, I'm healthy.
Speaker 7 (17:06):
I'm the O.
Speaker 14 (17:07):
Thing I can't do is run a race.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
But you know, do we really need to be running races?
Speaker 14 (17:14):
No? I mean I'm gonna run a marathon. I'm not
gonna run any marathons. I'm not gonna be out here
chasing me in.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
But if you wanted a man, oh, mister, get you
on the Golden Bachelor.
Speaker 14 (17:27):
I don't want one. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
But you don't sound sixty five.
Speaker 12 (17:31):
Oh I'm not sixty five, but I mean, you know,
I don't know. I'm an older citizen. I don't know
how fifty five.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
I mean knocking on the door. Are you getting discounts
at restaurants?
Speaker 5 (17:41):
Hey?
Speaker 12 (17:41):
I do it. Yeah, I'm a I'm a double a
RP member. I mean I got, you know, Deni's and
all that fifteen percent off good stuff like that.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Yet the discount on coffee at McDonald's.
Speaker 12 (17:54):
I don't know about McDonald's. I do from where I'm from.
Baron Martin's restaurant there Martin's biscuits.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
I do, okay, So hang I hang out, hang on?
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Do you plan your day based around the discounts at
a restaurant you'll receive.
Speaker 7 (18:09):
If I can yess knowledge, if he knows where to go,
that's not even saying wait, I don't know about this
McDonald's one.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
All I know, and I got to figure out how
much it is.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
But I just know that Bobby d will be like
when he orders his coffee at McDonald's, he will say,
I want a senior coffee.
Speaker 10 (18:30):
Hey, I go.
Speaker 12 (18:30):
That's reason I go to this Martin's place. I go,
I get my coffee for free, and then I buy
my biscuits. So, I mean, you know what I mean,
have you said.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
At least one time a day over the course of
the last month, this world am.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
What it used to be?
Speaker 12 (18:48):
Oh, that's a.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
That's this is one of our season citizens.
Speaker 12 (18:56):
Well, the reason I wanted to call those I mean, hey,
why not this college our generation? I mean, I'm considered
Generation Eggs.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
But that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I don't think they want to be known as bummers
because that got negative around Karen's and all that.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Kind of.
Speaker 12 (19:10):
Yeah, that's right, you know.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
It feels very You can't call them blue hairs because
now that might actually mean other people.
Speaker 12 (19:17):
So but I myself, I'm proud to be Generation Eggs.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Are you proud to be a senior citizen?
Speaker 12 (19:26):
Hey? I you know, I'm more and more every day.
I don't mind it so much. I mean, you know
it helps to be left handed too in my right mind.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
You know.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
Hell, if they're going to give you free coffee, call
me whatever you want.
Speaker 12 (19:40):
I'm givescount I can get
Giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's the
good good On the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
There's a growing trend of interesting groups that liked to
meet up. There was one in Nashville where if you
were over six foot three, it was a meetup of
tall people in Nashville. Oh okay, there's one in New
York where they're gathering people named Ryan and they're calling
it rye Toberfest.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Just random groups of people, right.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I love how you sound like that, since if it
was a swifty event, you'd be there.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I don't feel like that's as random as Hey, if
your name's Ryan or you're a certain height, get together,
that's a fan base.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
It's different.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Let's say it was a bunch of Blairs that decided
to get together and you guys called it up into
thin Blair.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
The world does not need that. We don't need that gathering.
I would know, absolutely not. We don't need multiple Blayers
in one place.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
It would be forevery That's very true.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
If Alabama had a group where it was tall people,
I would totally.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Go to that. Why why not? But why people do
the craziest things.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Listen, there is a whole convention dedicated to twins in
Minneapolis every year.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
But just tall people on that one probably is the
weirdest over the Ryan tumifest or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
I got a really interesting text message from a friend
of mine the other day. I wanted to share it
with you because I need your opinions on it. Eight
five five graves zero. But the text message simply read,
if you were asked to develop a candle that smelled
like the country, what would it smell like?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Oh, that's an easy one.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
A bonfire, campfire, bonfire, Yeah, you know what I'm talking about,
m hm, the burning of wood and other things whatever
ended up in the burn pit.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
I started to think to myself, like, there's so many
smells that associate the country lifestyle.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
It's hard to just pick one.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
In fact, I think I rolled back to them and
I labeled a bunch of different things. But the big
one for me that I think if you were making
just one candle that smelled like the country would be
diesel fuel.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
Yeah you know, I was actually going to say gas too.
And I don't know why that's like a country smell,
because obviously, like everybody uses gas in some way, shape
or form, but gas.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
And diesel are just a little different, Like you get
that heavy smell of diesel and you just it always
brings me back to like some of the John Deere tractors,
the kobodas, where you're just around those pieces of machinery
and it's probably the diesel and the grease mixed in.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Oh yeah, it's the combination of all the things. I'm
trying to think of.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
What else?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Fried chicken, Yeah, if we were staying with the food theme,
then a warm apple pie on a brick?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, what about Ooh?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Again, don't know why this is associated with country southern,
but like the grasp being just cut, I associate that
with the country, and I don't know why. Maybe it's
because like in the city, you don't have as much grass.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Typically it's hard to cut concrete.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Well, there's that, but this smell isn't as overpowering as
it is out in the country where there's more grass
and things like that.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
All Right, here's one that's extremely underrated. When you wake
up in the morning, you step out on your porch
and you get the smell of fresh dew. I'm talking
about the dew on the ground, the grass where it's
just there's a little moisture in the air and that
just hits your nostrils and you just feel like a
very calming, peaceful manner about yourself.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yeah, that's a good one. What else?
Speaker 4 (03:52):
I feel like we're missing some big ones. There's some
that I know that people are probably yelling as they're
listening to it.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I feel like we're missing a ton. You guys can
definitely jump on and share with us. Eight five to
five Graves zero. If you were asked to develop a
candle and it had to smell like the country, what
would it be?
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Cutting gins? Yeah, you could drive it by him sometimes
you could smell it, especially the one there and Hayes
the green you smell it?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
You want to talk about driving buy some and smelling it?
How about chicken farms?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
For sure.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Let's get over to Jasper and talk to Amy this
morning on the Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Hyams, Hey, what's the smell?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
If you were asked to develop a candle that smelled
like the country, that you'd go with?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
Well, my daughter came up with the idea that it
would be fresh cut hey, because we live on a farm.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
So she knows that smell all too well.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
Yes, and it smells great.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
What else do y'all have on the farm. Do you
have horses?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
We have some horses. We have about two hundred head
of cows. Yeah, we have a big place.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
All right.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
So help me out with this because I was trying
to think of this. You know when you go into
a horse stall and you guys put down that bedding stuff. Yeah,
when you open up a pack of that betting stuff,
that smell is burned in my brain. But I don't
know what it is. It's like a wood chip kind
of thing. It's like, yes, cedar shavings.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
It there you go.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
It's been sitting on my mind for the last ten
minutes and I've been able to figure it out.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Well.
Speaker 7 (05:20):
Thank you, Amy, thank you, y'all.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Have a good day, Amanda, Thanks for hanging on.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
If you were asked to develop a country candle, what
would it smell like?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
We threw out a couple ideas, but we know we're
missing a.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
Few cudsow or honeysuckle. I'm from Saint Clair County, you know,
land of the Kudsou.
Speaker 7 (05:37):
Is it everywhere?
Speaker 8 (05:39):
It's everywhere? But have you ever smelled of a cudsou blossom?
Mm hmm no, oh it it will actually make your
mouth water.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
It smells so good.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (05:51):
Really, it's got its own distinctive smell. It's not really
a great snail, but it's along the line of a
really good greape.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Well, i'll tell you the smell in the country that's
not appealing. It's those trees, like the pear trees or whatever.
Oh yeah, in the spring when they start getting going
and good, oh.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yes, terrible.
Speaker 8 (06:16):
They're beautiful, but I don't like to smell it exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Thank you very much, have a great day.
Speaker 9 (06:21):
Thank you y'all too. Bye bye.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
So I really wouldn't burn this candle, but if I
wanted to make one that smell like the country, a
probably big calpasture.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
That's a that's a gift. Do you give an uncle
that you don't really care for?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Oh, I got this especially for you.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
And you change the label and you make the label
sound really appealing. And then when they fired up, that
just gets stuck in the room.
Speaker 10 (06:49):
That's just wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
It's like a cool summer morning and then they fired
up and they're like.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
This thing smells like exactly, that's great. Well, thank you,
have an awesome day.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
You too.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
By It's how country are you? On the Spencer Grave Show?
What's your nickname? Angela?
Speaker 7 (07:15):
Really just Angela?
Speaker 11 (07:16):
My grandparents?
Speaker 9 (07:17):
Angie's about it?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
All right, Let's play how country are you today? On
a scale of one of the country. How country are you?
Speaker 7 (07:23):
Oh, I would say eight?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Great score heavy for sure. I do your best with
the three questions that we ask you. This first one's tough.
We need you to tell us who this is.
Speaker 12 (07:36):
Scotch you lory b.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
And with all the memories.
Speaker 9 (07:43):
Day oh uh, give me a.
Speaker 7 (08:01):
Chris Cagle.
Speaker 13 (08:02):
Easy once you got the initial hurt, but only for
your live the shorts and going calls of chicks did again.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
All right, here we go. Question number two on how
country are you? Share with us the time your grandma
yelled at you.
Speaker 7 (08:23):
Oh this is embarrassing. I was kind of well.
Speaker 11 (08:31):
I went to a bar with my cousin, and my
cousin left me and I ended up having to call
my grandparents to come pick me up. And my grandmother
asked me if that's where I wanted to be when
Jesus came because my grandfather.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Oh, bar.
Speaker 11 (08:55):
So I was standing on the side of the road.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Is this want to rapture happens?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
And wow?
Speaker 4 (09:03):
That might be one of my new favorite stories that
we've heard from a friend of the show.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
All right, so here we go, ANGELA final question.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
What are you getting from breakfast at the convenience store
if you're really Southern?
Speaker 9 (09:16):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Wow?
Speaker 11 (09:18):
The only thing for breakfast I get at a convenience
store is a biscuit.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Got to be the home made ones though, it can't
be the ones that they get from a store.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
It's all you need.
Speaker 11 (09:29):
It's a biscuits.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
It's perfect, not bad. You gave yourself an a.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
We had to give you a hint with Chris Cagel,
which is a little rough because that was a great song.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
You're seven point three today.
Speaker 7 (09:41):
Oh how awesome. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
I saw that our team yesterday on the Spencer Grave
Show Instagram story they put up the Kelsey Ballerini and
her boyfriend broke up after three years.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
This is a sad breakup because I really did think
that they were in game, and I think a lot
of people thought they were in game.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Just a couple of days before this announcement came out.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
He has this sweet Instagram post for her birthday, and
that her birthday.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
The Instagram post for her birthday genuinely had everybody initially
commenting on it saying, is this the year she becomes
Kelsey Stokes?
Speaker 14 (10:17):
Oh wow?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
So did she commented? She like, like, what's the drama?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
So no comments?
Speaker 1 (10:25):
She didn't comment.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Other people he did not comment. Everybody else is commenting.
But what's even more bizarre is what's happened since then? Okay,
two days later, she unfollows him, he continues to follow her.
In my opinion, this screams he messed up, he knows
he messed up, and she's done with.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Him, and on his side, him still following her is
a way to be.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Like not wanting.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Yeah, I don't think that she blocked him because I
don't think that I would be able to search her
name on his you know, follower or following list, So
of course she could still go over to his Instagram.
But as a woman, at least in my friend group,
if you one follows somebody, that means you're done.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Right, But that also does lead to somewhat of the
crazy thing, like you're not following this person, but you
continuously go back to check their profile to see what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Everybody does everybody does that?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
I mean there's people that I'm not not even in
a relationship, but like in a friendship way that I'll
go and be like, what are they up to?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
If you unfollow somebody or scrub your social media of
a person that you were dating, romantically linked with, whatever
it is, that kind of is the end of it.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
As of right now, there are still pictures of him
and her on her Instagram.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
You have to scroll a little bit.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
You know, but she's kind of been busy to another stuff,
posting about other stuff. But there are still some on there,
and I just wonder if over the next few days
if we'll see those go away.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
So what would you do if you were in a
relationship with somebody for three years, You're gonna have a
lot of photos together. It was an extremely public relationship.
You go back and scrub them completely off the timeline?
Or does that really kind of show where your life was,
where it's been, and where it's going.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
What do you do when you've dated me?
Speaker 4 (12:13):
And Okay, interesting because the only pictures I have of
me and other guys before Steve still on my Facebook
or not guys that I dated. They're guys that we
may have gone to like a formal together in high
school or something like that, and I may only have
a couple of pictures from that time frame. But as
far as like someone I've dated on social media gone.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
A five five graves zero. We would love to get
your opinion on that.
Speaker 10 (12:41):
It depends on the reason. I fay it was mutual.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
Would you grow apart?
Speaker 10 (12:44):
No? If one of us did something.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Then I'm okay. So it's all about intent for you.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Interesting, okay, Okay.
Speaker 10 (12:54):
Now May and my ex wop when we got divorced.
I still have pictures of May and herd, but it's
also because of some of the memories you know there
there we were doing something or it has the kids
in it. That random picture of me and her have
been have been done away with.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
But when did those pictures leave the chat? When you
got into a new relationship, or when you got engaged,
or when you got remarried, whenever.
Speaker 10 (13:22):
I finally had time. I can be petty, but I'm
not going to stop what I'm doing just to go
in the rite pictures. You know, it's one of those
I've got time, I'm gonna go. Let me go ahead
and get these off of here so I can finish.
(13:42):
You know, we can finish going about our lives.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
I could be petty time for it.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Monday night football comes on an hour, so I'm a
little I'm a little bucher. Well, thanks Trent. Appreciate you, Bob,
so thank you, Blair. I noticed this the other day
and I want to get your opinion on it. But
I certainly want to get the opinion of some senior
citizens I e. My father, because younger senior citizens are
trying to get work. They're trying to get rid of
(14:07):
the word senior because it makes them sound old and
they don't want to be reminded of it. They prefer
generation Jones or any other label other than senior.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
I would personally love to see the word senior be
eliminated as well. And I'm obviously not a senior citizen,
but you're married. I think well, I do think that
it ages people, and I think that it can be
very insensitive to call I've always hated it. I think
it's insensitive to call someone a senior citizen.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
My dad actually had a medical procedure done not too
long ago, and he told me, for the very first
time in his life, he felt like he was older
because of that. Dad, would you be okay, with them
getting rid of senior citizen and just call you guys
something else.
Speaker 5 (14:51):
Well, instead of senior citizen, it could be seasoned.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Okay, that's an option, Like what a meat rub something
that we're making on a brisket or what?
Speaker 5 (15:06):
Well, why does aged bourbons taste so much better than
non aged.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Bourbon because they've had a little more time?
Speaker 5 (15:15):
All right, So we could be timely citizen.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
These What you're saying, mister Graves, is we have options,
and we shouldn't just land on senior citizen because that's
what it's always been.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Let's put it out to some I don't want to
say it, generation Jones, maybe some people who are seasoned citizens.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Let's put it out to them. And what is it?
Speaker 5 (15:39):
Is it?
Speaker 10 (15:39):
You?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Are you technically senior citizen when you're over fifty five?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
What's the age?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
I hear different things.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
I hear fifty five, I hear sixty. I've even heard
as old as sixty five.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Dad, you own a nursing home. What age is typically
a senior citizen?
Speaker 5 (15:54):
Sixty five?
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Sixty five?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Okay, So if anybody's listening to our show sixty five
plus and you.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
Are so tired of people to these, and I'm sure
it's fifty five for senior there.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
If you're getting a discount and you want to change
the term senior to something else, call us a five
five grave zero, Thank you, dad, all I love it to.
What we found out this morning is that some people
who are now senior citizens don't like the term senior
citizen makes them feel a lot older. So we ask
anybody who's over the age of sixty five to call
(16:26):
us and vivas on the phone with us. This is exciting,
A five five grave zero. How do you feel about
that term?
Speaker 14 (16:32):
I don't really give a flip about who such language.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
I love it so much.
Speaker 14 (16:38):
I'm a I'm a Christian. I don't say those kind
of words. But Patty, senior citizen, don't bore.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
You don't mind it because apparently a lot of senior
citizens don't like the word senior because it makes them
feel old.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
And then they got to always face Oh.
Speaker 14 (16:51):
Good, you know something. Feeling O ain't one of my things?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Yours? You feel?
Speaker 14 (16:59):
Yeah, that's it? And well says I have survived cancer twice,
al richy right, I'm good, I'm healthy.
Speaker 7 (17:06):
I'm the O.
Speaker 14 (17:07):
Thing I can't do is run a race.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
But you know, do we really need to be running races?
Speaker 14 (17:14):
No? I mean I'm gonna run a marathon. I'm not
gonna run any marathons. I'm not gonna be out here
chasing me in.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
But if you wanted a man, oh, mister, get you
on the Golden Bachelor.
Speaker 14 (17:27):
I don't want one. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
But you don't sound sixty five.
Speaker 12 (17:31):
Oh I'm not sixty five, but I mean, you know,
I don't know. I'm an older citizen. I don't know
how fifty five.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
I mean knocking on the door. Are you getting discounts
at restaurants?
Speaker 5 (17:41):
Hey?
Speaker 12 (17:41):
I do it. Yeah, I'm a I'm a double a
RP member. I mean I got, you know, Deni's and
all that fifteen percent off good stuff like that.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
Yet the discount on coffee at McDonald's.
Speaker 12 (17:54):
I don't know about McDonald's. I do from where I'm from.
Baron Martin's restaurant there Martin's biscuits.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
I do, okay, So hang I hang out, hang on?
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Do you plan your day based around the discounts at
a restaurant you'll receive.
Speaker 7 (18:09):
If I can yess knowledge, if he knows where to go,
that's not even saying wait, I don't know about this
McDonald's one.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
All I know, and I got to figure out how
much it is.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
But I just know that Bobby d will be like
when he orders his coffee at McDonald's, he will say,
I want a senior coffee.
Speaker 10 (18:30):
Hey, I go.
Speaker 12 (18:30):
That's reason I go to this Martin's place. I go,
I get my coffee for free, and then I buy
my biscuits. So, I mean, you know what I mean,
have you said.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
At least one time a day over the course of
the last month, this world am.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
What it used to be?
Speaker 12 (18:48):
Oh, that's a.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
That's this is one of our season citizens.
Speaker 12 (18:56):
Well, the reason I wanted to call those I mean, hey,
why not this college our generation? I mean, I'm considered
Generation Eggs.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
But that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I don't think they want to be known as bummers
because that got negative around Karen's and all that.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Kind of.
Speaker 12 (19:10):
Yeah, that's right, you know.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
It feels very You can't call them blue hairs because
now that might actually mean other people.
Speaker 12 (19:17):
So but I myself, I'm proud to be Generation Eggs.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Are you proud to be a senior citizen?
Speaker 12 (19:26):
Hey? I you know, I'm more and more every day.
I don't mind it so much. I mean, you know
it helps to be left handed too in my right mind.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
You know.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
Hell, if they're going to give you free coffee, call
me whatever you want.
Speaker 12 (19:40):
I'm givescount I can get
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