October 1, 2025 • 17 mins
Spencer has a solution that he is shocked car companies haven't made yet!
Sammi crushed it on How Country Are Ya!
One of Blair's Tiny Humans became the topic of discussion about young girls, their nails and coloring their hair.
Nicole Kidman filed!
Sammi crushed it on How Country Are Ya!
One of Blair's Tiny Humans became the topic of discussion about young girls, their nails and coloring their hair.
Nicole Kidman filed!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Got a message the other day somebody wanted to know
if Blair is secretly following everybody's location.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Still, it's not really secretly, but I did just have
a encounter with Steve's nephew. What do you mean, because well,
at one time Brian was sharing his location with me,
and then he didn't anymore, his wife Candace did, and
I got really offended. We were all headed to the
Road Run car show a few weeks ago, and I
(00:27):
was like, I can't even see where he's at, and
Steve's like, well, you can see where Candace is at
there together, and I'm like it doesn't matter, Like I
need to be able to see him too, and so
it was this whole thing. I called him out and
he's like, well, he even texts me like after we
got home a week or two had passed, He's like,
I'm so glad I can see that you're home and safe,
like rubbing it in my face because he could see
(00:48):
my location still couldn't see his.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Do y'all have this?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Now that has been resolved, I will say I can
now see exactly where Brian's at.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Do y'all have this in your friend group where there's
somebody who is like in love with fallowing your location.
It kind of sounds like, what'd you order last night
at Sushi Stop?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I know you in You left your house at six
fifty two, drove fifteen minutes north and parked outside of
Sushi Stop for forty five minutes. I'm sure you got
something good and then a movie after right, you drove
to AMC. I saw that parking lot B right parked
for around two and a half hours. Probably was a
good flick. Looks like a little bit of traffic on
the way home. Was there an accident? At least you
got home before eleven, got a good night's sleep. I
(01:25):
bet too.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
That is exactly how y'all sound.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
I don't see the problem in that, Honestly, I don't
like what's the issue at hand here?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I'm confused, Well, why do you need all that information
of like what your friends are doing every minute of
the day.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Well, I mean, I just need to know. It's part
of the subscription service. When you become like in my
inner circle, that like I get to know and I
get really offended when people are like, oh, well you
don't have to know this. I'm like, okay, but like,
why can't I know it. If I had it my
way when I shared locations, I would be able to
(02:02):
open up at any point and like have them on
video only.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I only think that parents should be able to follow
their children and know what they're.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Well, that's ridiculous and that's no, absolutely not no, no.
My family doesn't have that option and they never will.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
God, I bet they wish they did, though.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You know, I think they enjoy it just as much
because like they always know that if something goes wrong,
Blair has, you know, our locations, so like she can
send Olivia Benson from Law and Order SVU in to
save the day if need be right.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That could also pinpoint you to the crime which you're
not thinking about.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Well, you know, do I get to be like in
Paul do because I'm kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
For that, just giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
It's the good good.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
On the Spencer Grave.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Show, remember Hurricane Helene that wiped out the western part
of North Carolina.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah, I mean, how could we forget.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So many houses in lives were taken and affected by
this tragedy. Well it was Luke Combs and Eric Church
put on that benefit show. It raised twenty six million dollars.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
The great news is a lot of that money is
being used and there have been crews working tirelessly since
that to build houses and they have completed three hundred
homes in businesses.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
That's incredible, And you know, I love the follow up
of like, hey, this is what's happening with that money
that we raised and them kind of keeping everybody in
the loop because a lot of times people have questions,
you know, where's this money going to? But now we
can truly see where it's going.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
The craziest part of this story, it really comes down
to a crew of Jake Jarvis and just a few guys.
They have been handling all these projects and the locals
say that their tireless efforts are showing the resilience and
strength of the community. Parents. I need you guys to
jump on the phone eight FI to five Graves, zero Blair.
Over the weekend, you were hanging out with one of
(03:54):
your tiny humans and you guys ended up going to
the nail shop. How long have you been doing that?
Because I have some questions regarding how young is too
young for little girls to get you know, nails and
hair and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I mean Corbyn and I have been going together. Not
every time. I mean her mom and stepmom take her
you know two, but I mean she's been getting her
nails done for a couple of years at this point.
She'll be thirteen this week.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Oh so she was single digits?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Yeah, well no, I mean ten eleven is when.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
She started, okay, and that's probably when you started.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah, I was about that age too.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
What about dyeing your hair?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I was ten or eleven the first time I got
blonde highlights. Corbyn's been wanting highlights in her hair, but
her parents can't get on the same page. Yeah, like
we're ready for this or not.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I worked with somebody whose daughter wanted to get highlights
in her hair, and her daughter at the time was twelve,
and she blew a gasket. She was like, no way.
And as we continued to talk, it came out more
that she wasn't against her daughter getting that done. She
just started to have that feeling that she wasn't her
little girl anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
But my parents never had an issue with it. Now,
I wasn't going to the hair salon and saying, hey,
I want my hair purple. I was like, hey, I
want my hair to look like Jody Messina is just
like as far fetched as it got.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
God, you should ask for Dolly Parton's hair. I would
have loved to see that.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
When you no, it was Jody all the way. The
first time I got red in my hair, I was like,
me and Jody, we're connected at the hip.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Now, you know, these are such difficult things for dads
and moms to have to deal with with little girls
because boys like I don't know if we caused this
many fits. I remember when I was a kid, I
wanted to change my hairstyle. I wanted a mohawk for
the longest time, and my mom was severely against a mohawk.
I think I asked for a rat tail once and
my mom was like, absolutely no way. And I remember
(05:48):
not getting a mohawk when I was little, so I
ended up doing a faux hawk when I got a
little older. Probably not the wisest choice, but when should
you let your kids make some of those adult change
with their appearance.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
It's crazy you bring up the hair for a little boys.
Because Cooper's mommy like, he's had a mullet, he's had
a mohawk, like she kind of lets him him do
what he wants. I mean, I think in that mindset,
it's like, you know, hair's going to grow.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Back a five five grave zero. I mean, just rub
it in that Cooper is cooler than me. My parents
are like, if it's not a bowl cut, we're out. Okay,
So you want to stay anonymous, tell us your story.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Well, I honestly feel like when it comes to the
kids and the hair and the makeup and the nails
and everything, it's really to the mother. Because we're in
the pageant world, and I mean when you see some
girls that are all out like now what I did
on mine, not as much, but I mean like it's
really up to the mother as far as like also
with like the hair dye, I mean like not really
(06:49):
hair dye, but like getting your hair dyed, Like it's
I don't see a problem with it. Like mind's ass
she's teen. Have I let her no? But I agree
with Blair, like you know, really I don't see a
problem with it. Is just really up to the mother.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
If your daughter's asking you at ten and you haven't
let her do it, what's your reservation?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
What if she doesn't like it? If she wants to
change it, like I want her to understand that it's
not something you can do very easily, like, you know, yes,
I have my hair dye in my hair, but also
I didn't do it till I was like way into
my twenties, So it's not interesting.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
It's not the feeling that you're losing the innocence of
her being your little girl and growing up too fast.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Maybe that too.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, well, thank you, we appreciate you.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
You're welcome, No, thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
What was the youngest as a retired hairstylist that you
would see somebody come in and color their kids hair?
Speaker 5 (07:43):
Probably about twelve.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Was it weird for you if somebody came in and said, hey,
my kids eight and they want to dye their hair,
would you turn that down? Kind of like if somebody
went in was asking for a tattoo and they were
uncomfortable with doing it.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Yeah, we would try to talk them out of it.
If they were on like an all over hair color,
we would try to talk them down to just doing
far less, like a highlight, because you never know that
the child is gonna really like it and what is
on that child's mind at the time with it. As
kids go through these little phases like oh, hey, my
(08:20):
my friend got this, and I want this. I would
always show them a bunch of different pictures and uh,
you know, okay, you know that's not necessarily going to
look like this on you. And uh, you know, just
because your friend got this, does that mean you're gonna,
you know, look like that.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Like my mom would say, your friend jumps off a bridge.
You don't have to hy gena what's going on?
Speaker 6 (08:44):
So I was getting a pedicure not too long ago,
because I do that. I don't get a manicure because
I have farm hands. And so there was like a
little girl and her mom, and the little girl was
getting like the nails, the acrylic nails that you do
like that, and she's probably eight or nine, And I'm like,
that's completely and totally different because I don't think they're cheap.
(09:04):
I've never done it.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
What's the difference between painting your nails and acrylic nails?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Oh, they don't see she even skipped a thing. There's
painting nails, there's jail nails, and there's a cryllic nails.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
You're right, you're right.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
So which one of those has to do with you
like scraping down the nail and.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Covering it jail and acrylic Oh wow right, yeah. So
growing up, jail wasn't as popular as it is now,
and so me and Rachel we were nail besties and
we would go every two weeks and get the acrylic tips.
And we probably started that a little bit later. Rachel
(09:42):
is six months older than me, so the second she
started driving, we started getting acrylics because that's just what
we would do everything.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
So she was the problem. That was your gateway.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Rachel and I could both tell each other the problem
at different points, so.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
That was the peer pressure. Rachel's doing it, Bobby D,
so I should be able.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
To Let's be honest. Bobby D wasn't telling me no. So,
but jail nails are more popular now. And right now
I don't have mine done because I went to the
nel Slung with gorbyin the other day. They were taking
so long we only had time to get our toes done.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Well, you guys are going to the nail shop. You
know what you need to do. Y'all need to go
buy those ray band metaglasses and get the ones where
you can understand different languages and then just.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Wear We've talked about those, We've talked about this We're.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
Like, hmm, yep, I wonder what they're saying about my
crusty toenails.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Well, you'll know, they'll go, God, this woman's crusty toenails
and she got farmhands.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
I know she got farm hands.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
It's How Country are You?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
On The Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Sam, We're doing great, Thanks so much for playing How
Country are You today? Where are you from?
Speaker 7 (10:49):
I am from Crossville, Alabama.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Yes, I think this is the first time we've ever
had somebody from Crossville play good old cross for Really,
here's three questions, but first on a scale of one
of the country. How country are you? I like to say,
we'd like to see it. Here's your three questions. We'll
give you a score at the end. The Alabama company
moul Tree makes what kind of items?
Speaker 7 (11:15):
Oh my gosh, I should know this. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Have you ever gone through the hunting section at academy
or yes?
Speaker 6 (11:24):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Oh my god? I mean I just keep it.
Speaker 7 (11:28):
It's just funny because I'm hunting stuff too. Time clothing.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
They're really known for deer feeders, trail cameras excess.
Speaker 7 (11:41):
Right, Okay, And that's funny because we just bought a
trail camera the other day.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
So that's literally what she was trying to say. You
just didn't understand her. It's fine.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Here we go. Question number two, what's the best thing
to eat? Fried bingo? I don't think anybody's going to
do disagree with you. I was kind of waiting for
Blair to go, like.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
I do, like me some fried green tomatoes, but just
for kicks and giggles for me? What was your number
two and three? B?
Speaker 7 (12:10):
Well, this is kind of wild because I told you
I hunt and stuff. So I like frying up duck,
which is funny.
Speaker 5 (12:17):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Do you like to fry up your duck and put
it on halopaeno for like some duck poppers?
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (12:23):
Yes, those are amazing if you've never had them.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Yeah, here we go. What was the most country costume
you ever wore for Halloween?
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Oh? Uh, I was so many things. Back in the day.
My mom used to dress me up all kinds of crazy.
Me and my husband dressed up as white trash a
few years ago.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
How did you do that?
Speaker 7 (12:51):
We just found a bunch of uh rebel flags, an
American flag, just jeans shorts, okay, okay, and we did
a costume contest down in Nashville.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Here's me thinking all you needed was a trash bag
and just be white, and you could be white trash.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
She's like, that's like that a little bit further than that.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Great job today. You definitely needed to know Moultrie. But
you're an eight point nine.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Hey, I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
This morning, I was driving to work and I knew
I had to get gas, but then my ADHD kicked
in and I completely forgot that I had to get
gas until my fuel light went on and I was
fifteen minutes away from the radio station. So in my mind,
I started to think, how can I blame the manufacturer
for my ADHD kicking in and me not stopping to
get gas, and that's exactly what I did. Why can't
(13:46):
we have a customization on our vehicles that says at
a quarter tank, that's when I want my fuel light
to come on, or you can set wherever you want
to be. Because there's some people, Blair, I don't know
how you are. Do you fuel up as soon as
you hit half a tank or a quarter tank, or
you like me and you run it all the way
(14:07):
to the end.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I'm if it hits half a tank, I'm filling up.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Okay, you would want your fuel light to come on
at half a tank. Why can't we customize that and
be able to say, hey, update me with my fuel
when it gets to half a tank.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
See, I don't. I don't think I would want my
light to come on at half a tank, because if
my light was coming on at half the tank, then
I would probably be filling up, like if I was
three fourths full, because I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not
getting that close. I don't want my light to go off.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Half a dank.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
No, yeah, no, no, I need to be a far
I don't ever need that light to come on.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Actually, so your feeling is you just run and then
you decide, okay, I'm at half a tank. I need
to do this. You don't want an indication at all. No,
if you get an indication, you feel like this is
like the end of your day.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
I'm unprepared. Like, yeah, no, I'm just unprepared.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
But doesn't it make sense maybe for everybody else where.
If you fill up at quarter of a tank, you
would want your fuel gauge to come on, So you
would want to be able to go into your dash
and say at a quarter of tank, make sure, you
let me know that this is when I need to
get gas. I think it's a great solution, and I
know it's something that we could physically have done.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
I think that this is their way of saying, you're
not that smart and you need to be more responsible,
so we're not going to give you that option.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Great. Thank you appreciate that, Blarry. You talked about it
in Three Things today. For those that might just be
turning on the Spencer Grave Show for the first time,
what's the latest one Nicole Kinman and Keith Urban.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Kind of surprising. She has actually officially filed for divorce.
An official filing took place in Nashville yesterday, So I
guess it's done for.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
I had hopes that they were going to work things out,
because every time I see the words separated, I'm like,
all right, maybe they're just going to go to counseling.
They're going to try to work on some things. But
there's a lot of things that have come out. He
was kicking off a little bit of a tour. Plus
he was doing that TV show. He was showing aspiring
acts how to hit the road and what the life
looks like on the road with Big Shelton that's getting
(16:06):
ready to debut, if it hasn't already dropped, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I believe it's coming up very soon. I mean, his
show in Nashville is in two weeks, so he's a
busy man.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
It just thinks for their two girls, Nicole and Keith.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Yeah, you know, I just find it hard to believe
that it's like a commitment thing with work, because they've
both been very busy their entire marriage. I mean, if
it wasn't Keith doing something, it was Nicole doing something,
a movie, a show, whatever, And so I don't know,
and I truly don't think we'll ever find out exactly
what happened. I did find it very interesting. An article
(16:40):
came out yesterday I was reading on People magazine and
they reached out to an attorney and was like, you know,
what's best case scenario here? And his exact words were,
best case scenario is they settle this out of court
so that their entire lives don't become up public.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
If you guys missed our conversation with a marriage counselor
just download the Spencer Grave Show podcast
Got a message the other day somebody wanted to know
if Blair is secretly following everybody's location.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Still, it's not really secretly, but I did just have
a encounter with Steve's nephew. What do you mean, because well,
at one time Brian was sharing his location with me,
and then he didn't anymore, his wife Candace did, and
I got really offended. We were all headed to the
Road Run car show a few weeks ago, and I
(00:27):
was like, I can't even see where he's at, and
Steve's like, well, you can see where Candace is at
there together, and I'm like it doesn't matter, Like I
need to be able to see him too, and so
it was this whole thing. I called him out and
he's like, well, he even texts me like after we
got home a week or two had passed, He's like,
I'm so glad I can see that you're home and safe,
like rubbing it in my face because he could see
(00:48):
my location still couldn't see his.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Do y'all have this?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Now that has been resolved, I will say I can
now see exactly where Brian's at.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Do y'all have this in your friend group where there's
somebody who is like in love with fallowing your location.
It kind of sounds like, what'd you order last night
at Sushi Stop?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I know you in You left your house at six
fifty two, drove fifteen minutes north and parked outside of
Sushi Stop for forty five minutes. I'm sure you got
something good and then a movie after right, you drove
to AMC. I saw that parking lot B right parked
for around two and a half hours. Probably was a
good flick. Looks like a little bit of traffic on
the way home. Was there an accident? At least you
got home before eleven, got a good night's sleep. I
(01:25):
bet too.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
That is exactly how y'all sound.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
I don't see the problem in that, Honestly, I don't
like what's the issue at hand here?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I'm confused, Well, why do you need all that information
of like what your friends are doing every minute of
the day.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Well, I mean, I just need to know. It's part
of the subscription service. When you become like in my
inner circle, that like I get to know and I
get really offended when people are like, oh, well you
don't have to know this. I'm like, okay, but like,
why can't I know it. If I had it my
way when I shared locations, I would be able to
(02:02):
open up at any point and like have them on
video only.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I only think that parents should be able to follow
their children and know what they're.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Well, that's ridiculous and that's no, absolutely not no, no.
My family doesn't have that option and they never will.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
God, I bet they wish they did, though.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You know, I think they enjoy it just as much
because like they always know that if something goes wrong,
Blair has, you know, our locations, so like she can
send Olivia Benson from Law and Order SVU in to
save the day if need be right.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That could also pinpoint you to the crime which you're
not thinking about.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Well, you know, do I get to be like in
Paul do because I'm kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
For that, just giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot.
It's the good good.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
On the Spencer Grave.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Show, remember Hurricane Helene that wiped out the western part
of North Carolina.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah, I mean, how could we forget.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
So many houses in lives were taken and affected by
this tragedy. Well it was Luke Combs and Eric Church
put on that benefit show. It raised twenty six million dollars.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
The great news is a lot of that money is
being used and there have been crews working tirelessly since
that to build houses and they have completed three hundred
homes in businesses.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
That's incredible, And you know, I love the follow up
of like, hey, this is what's happening with that money
that we raised and them kind of keeping everybody in
the loop because a lot of times people have questions,
you know, where's this money going to? But now we
can truly see where it's going.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
The craziest part of this story, it really comes down
to a crew of Jake Jarvis and just a few guys.
They have been handling all these projects and the locals
say that their tireless efforts are showing the resilience and
strength of the community. Parents. I need you guys to
jump on the phone eight FI to five Graves, zero Blair.
Over the weekend, you were hanging out with one of
(03:54):
your tiny humans and you guys ended up going to
the nail shop. How long have you been doing that?
Because I have some questions regarding how young is too
young for little girls to get you know, nails and
hair and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I mean Corbyn and I have been going together. Not
every time. I mean her mom and stepmom take her
you know two, but I mean she's been getting her
nails done for a couple of years at this point.
She'll be thirteen this week.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Oh so she was single digits?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Yeah, well no, I mean ten eleven is when.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
She started, okay, and that's probably when you started.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah, I was about that age too.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
What about dyeing your hair?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I was ten or eleven the first time I got
blonde highlights. Corbyn's been wanting highlights in her hair, but
her parents can't get on the same page. Yeah, like
we're ready for this or not.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I worked with somebody whose daughter wanted to get highlights
in her hair, and her daughter at the time was twelve,
and she blew a gasket. She was like, no way.
And as we continued to talk, it came out more
that she wasn't against her daughter getting that done. She
just started to have that feeling that she wasn't her
little girl anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
But my parents never had an issue with it. Now,
I wasn't going to the hair salon and saying, hey,
I want my hair purple. I was like, hey, I
want my hair to look like Jody Messina is just
like as far fetched as it got.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
God, you should ask for Dolly Parton's hair. I would
have loved to see that.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
When you no, it was Jody all the way. The
first time I got red in my hair, I was like,
me and Jody, we're connected at the hip.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Now, you know, these are such difficult things for dads
and moms to have to deal with with little girls
because boys like I don't know if we caused this
many fits. I remember when I was a kid, I
wanted to change my hairstyle. I wanted a mohawk for
the longest time, and my mom was severely against a mohawk.
I think I asked for a rat tail once and
my mom was like, absolutely no way. And I remember
(05:48):
not getting a mohawk when I was little, so I
ended up doing a faux hawk when I got a
little older. Probably not the wisest choice, but when should
you let your kids make some of those adult change
with their appearance.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
It's crazy you bring up the hair for a little boys.
Because Cooper's mommy like, he's had a mullet, he's had
a mohawk, like she kind of lets him him do
what he wants. I mean, I think in that mindset,
it's like, you know, hair's going to grow.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Back a five five grave zero. I mean, just rub
it in that Cooper is cooler than me. My parents
are like, if it's not a bowl cut, we're out. Okay,
So you want to stay anonymous, tell us your story.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Well, I honestly feel like when it comes to the
kids and the hair and the makeup and the nails
and everything, it's really to the mother. Because we're in
the pageant world, and I mean when you see some
girls that are all out like now what I did
on mine, not as much, but I mean like it's
really up to the mother as far as like also
with like the hair dye, I mean like not really
(06:49):
hair dye, but like getting your hair dyed, Like it's
I don't see a problem with it. Like mind's ass
she's teen. Have I let her no? But I agree
with Blair, like you know, really I don't see a
problem with it. Is just really up to the mother.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
If your daughter's asking you at ten and you haven't
let her do it, what's your reservation?
Speaker 4 (07:09):
What if she doesn't like it? If she wants to
change it, like I want her to understand that it's
not something you can do very easily, like, you know, yes,
I have my hair dye in my hair, but also
I didn't do it till I was like way into
my twenties, So it's not interesting.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
It's not the feeling that you're losing the innocence of
her being your little girl and growing up too fast.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Maybe that too.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, well, thank you, we appreciate you.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
You're welcome, No, thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
What was the youngest as a retired hairstylist that you
would see somebody come in and color their kids hair?
Speaker 5 (07:43):
Probably about twelve.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Was it weird for you if somebody came in and said, hey,
my kids eight and they want to dye their hair,
would you turn that down? Kind of like if somebody
went in was asking for a tattoo and they were
uncomfortable with doing it.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Yeah, we would try to talk them out of it.
If they were on like an all over hair color,
we would try to talk them down to just doing
far less, like a highlight, because you never know that
the child is gonna really like it and what is
on that child's mind at the time with it. As
kids go through these little phases like oh, hey, my
(08:20):
my friend got this, and I want this. I would
always show them a bunch of different pictures and uh,
you know, okay, you know that's not necessarily going to
look like this on you. And uh, you know, just
because your friend got this, does that mean you're gonna,
you know, look like that.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Like my mom would say, your friend jumps off a bridge.
You don't have to hy gena what's going on?
Speaker 6 (08:44):
So I was getting a pedicure not too long ago,
because I do that. I don't get a manicure because
I have farm hands. And so there was like a
little girl and her mom, and the little girl was
getting like the nails, the acrylic nails that you do
like that, and she's probably eight or nine, And I'm like,
that's completely and totally different because I don't think they're cheap.
(09:04):
I've never done it.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
What's the difference between painting your nails and acrylic nails?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Oh, they don't see she even skipped a thing. There's
painting nails, there's jail nails, and there's a cryllic nails.
Speaker 6 (09:15):
You're right, you're right.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
So which one of those has to do with you
like scraping down the nail and.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Covering it jail and acrylic Oh wow right, yeah. So
growing up, jail wasn't as popular as it is now,
and so me and Rachel we were nail besties and
we would go every two weeks and get the acrylic tips.
And we probably started that a little bit later. Rachel
(09:42):
is six months older than me, so the second she
started driving, we started getting acrylics because that's just what
we would do everything.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
So she was the problem. That was your gateway.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Rachel and I could both tell each other the problem
at different points, so.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
That was the peer pressure. Rachel's doing it, Bobby D,
so I should be able.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
To Let's be honest. Bobby D wasn't telling me no. So,
but jail nails are more popular now. And right now
I don't have mine done because I went to the
nel Slung with gorbyin the other day. They were taking
so long we only had time to get our toes done.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Well, you guys are going to the nail shop. You
know what you need to do. Y'all need to go
buy those ray band metaglasses and get the ones where
you can understand different languages and then just.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Wear We've talked about those, We've talked about this We're.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
Like, hmm, yep, I wonder what they're saying about my
crusty toenails.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Well, you'll know, they'll go, God, this woman's crusty toenails
and she got farmhands.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
I know she got farm hands.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
It's How Country are You?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
On The Spencer Grave Show.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Sam, We're doing great, Thanks so much for playing How
Country are You today? Where are you from?
Speaker 7 (10:49):
I am from Crossville, Alabama.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Yes, I think this is the first time we've ever
had somebody from Crossville play good old cross for Really,
here's three questions, but first on a scale of one
of the country. How country are you? I like to say,
we'd like to see it. Here's your three questions. We'll
give you a score at the end. The Alabama company
moul Tree makes what kind of items?
Speaker 7 (11:15):
Oh my gosh, I should know this. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Have you ever gone through the hunting section at academy
or yes?
Speaker 6 (11:24):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Oh my god? I mean I just keep it.
Speaker 7 (11:28):
It's just funny because I'm hunting stuff too. Time clothing.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
They're really known for deer feeders, trail cameras excess.
Speaker 7 (11:41):
Right, Okay, And that's funny because we just bought a
trail camera the other day.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
So that's literally what she was trying to say. You
just didn't understand her. It's fine.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
Here we go. Question number two, what's the best thing
to eat? Fried bingo? I don't think anybody's going to
do disagree with you. I was kind of waiting for
Blair to go, like.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
I do, like me some fried green tomatoes, but just
for kicks and giggles for me? What was your number
two and three? B?
Speaker 7 (12:10):
Well, this is kind of wild because I told you
I hunt and stuff. So I like frying up duck,
which is funny.
Speaker 5 (12:17):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Do you like to fry up your duck and put
it on halopaeno for like some duck poppers?
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (12:23):
Yes, those are amazing if you've never had them.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Yeah, here we go. What was the most country costume
you ever wore for Halloween?
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Oh? Uh, I was so many things. Back in the day.
My mom used to dress me up all kinds of crazy.
Me and my husband dressed up as white trash a
few years ago.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
How did you do that?
Speaker 7 (12:51):
We just found a bunch of uh rebel flags, an
American flag, just jeans shorts, okay, okay, and we did
a costume contest down in Nashville.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Here's me thinking all you needed was a trash bag
and just be white, and you could be white trash.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
She's like, that's like that a little bit further than that.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Great job today. You definitely needed to know Moultrie. But
you're an eight point nine.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Hey, I'll take it.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
This morning, I was driving to work and I knew
I had to get gas, but then my ADHD kicked
in and I completely forgot that I had to get
gas until my fuel light went on and I was
fifteen minutes away from the radio station. So in my mind,
I started to think, how can I blame the manufacturer
for my ADHD kicking in and me not stopping to
get gas, and that's exactly what I did. Why can't
(13:46):
we have a customization on our vehicles that says at
a quarter tank, that's when I want my fuel light
to come on, or you can set wherever you want
to be. Because there's some people, Blair, I don't know
how you are. Do you fuel up as soon as
you hit half a tank or a quarter tank, or
you like me and you run it all the way
(14:07):
to the end.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I'm if it hits half a tank, I'm filling up.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Okay, you would want your fuel light to come on
at half a tank. Why can't we customize that and
be able to say, hey, update me with my fuel
when it gets to half a tank.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
See, I don't. I don't think I would want my
light to come on at half a tank, because if
my light was coming on at half the tank, then
I would probably be filling up, like if I was
three fourths full, because I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not
getting that close. I don't want my light to go off.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Half a dank.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
No, yeah, no, no, I need to be a far
I don't ever need that light to come on.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Actually, so your feeling is you just run and then
you decide, okay, I'm at half a tank. I need
to do this. You don't want an indication at all. No,
if you get an indication, you feel like this is
like the end of your day.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
I'm unprepared. Like, yeah, no, I'm just unprepared.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
But doesn't it make sense maybe for everybody else where.
If you fill up at quarter of a tank, you
would want your fuel gauge to come on, So you
would want to be able to go into your dash
and say at a quarter of tank, make sure, you
let me know that this is when I need to
get gas. I think it's a great solution, and I
know it's something that we could physically have done.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
I think that this is their way of saying, you're
not that smart and you need to be more responsible,
so we're not going to give you that option.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Great. Thank you appreciate that, Blarry. You talked about it
in Three Things today. For those that might just be
turning on the Spencer Grave Show for the first time,
what's the latest one Nicole Kinman and Keith Urban.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Kind of surprising. She has actually officially filed for divorce.
An official filing took place in Nashville yesterday, So I
guess it's done for.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
I had hopes that they were going to work things out,
because every time I see the words separated, I'm like,
all right, maybe they're just going to go to counseling.
They're going to try to work on some things. But
there's a lot of things that have come out. He
was kicking off a little bit of a tour. Plus
he was doing that TV show. He was showing aspiring
acts how to hit the road and what the life
looks like on the road with Big Shelton that's getting
(16:06):
ready to debut, if it hasn't already dropped, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I believe it's coming up very soon. I mean, his
show in Nashville is in two weeks, so he's a
busy man.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
It just thinks for their two girls, Nicole and Keith.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Yeah, you know, I just find it hard to believe
that it's like a commitment thing with work, because they've
both been very busy their entire marriage. I mean, if
it wasn't Keith doing something, it was Nicole doing something,
a movie, a show, whatever, And so I don't know,
and I truly don't think we'll ever find out exactly
what happened. I did find it very interesting. An article
(16:40):
came out yesterday I was reading on People magazine and
they reached out to an attorney and was like, you know,
what's best case scenario here? And his exact words were,
best case scenario is they settle this out of court
so that their entire lives don't become up public.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
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