October 3, 2025 • 29 mins
Spencer took his pants off at Oktoberfest.
Kendra messaged us wanting to sell tickets to her wedding! The calls that came in were not supportive!
Anya did a nice job but you have to know Joe Dirt on How Country Are Ya!
Kendra messaged us wanting to sell tickets to her wedding! The calls that came in were not supportive!
Anya did a nice job but you have to know Joe Dirt on How Country Are Ya!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Who is your favorite artist.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
I'm talking all genre that's still alive in releasing music.
In fact, I'll even give you you could name your top.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Two George Strait, Chris Stapleton, Cody Johnson.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Okay, fine, those three if they were getting ready to
release an album and you somehow not even like work related,
but you came across the new album leaked?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Would you listen to it before?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
What did you do with Taylor Swift or Kenny Chelsny.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
No no, no, no, no, no no no. Here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Supposedly, Taylor Swift's new album has been leaked. I refuse
to listen to a leaked album.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I feel so bad for artists.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
And obviously this is leaning more towards Taylor Swift, who
had this big build up, in this big plan of
when it's supposed to be released and how you're supposed
to have to hear it the first time and all this,
and then for that to be ruined, I just it
breaks my heart for anyone.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Did that happen?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
You don't think that's planned. You don't think that's planned
on her end to leak a few things and then
ultimately change it when the album comes out, and then
those people feel like, oh, we kind of got duped
a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Well, the thing is, I feel like it was her
last two albums. It's ended up on Reddit like a
couple of days before.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Okay, but I have higher album has access to those
You've got producers, they all sign NDA's like, I don't
buy that it's being quote unquote leaked by somebody. I
think that's all stirred by them behind me, right.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
But that's not my question. Would you listen yes to
a new You would? Yeah, so it doesn't bother you
at all.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Because I know it comes from them.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, but it's still it breaks my heart. I could
never I would never hear.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
You are so in with Taylor Swift. She could create,
she could she could murder somebody. And you're like, yeah,
but you know, oh no, I mean it's borderline brainwashed.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
No, it is. I it's not even borderline.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
My husband literally yesterday because obviously she has this movie
documentary thing coming out this weekend, and he was like,
let me get this straight. You have bought two tickets
to this movie thing. You have no idea what it's
about outside of there's some behind the scenes footage. He's like,
you have no one to go with you, and you're
(02:33):
going to just go and spend two hours of your afternoon.
And I was like, Steve, if I found out that
all it was was a camera on her watching her
fiance play football, I would go and watch it.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Oh my god, you need another hobby. Go outside and
smell the.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Fresh to hear it. I don't want to hear it.
Y'all say for me to go get another hobby.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But if I bring up putting Christmas up, you are like, oh,
not that hobbies.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
So I can't know.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
You know your hobbies at different times of the year.
Like finally, this morning, when I walked out it was brisk.
I was like, it feels like fall. It feels great.
This is when you start spooky season. You you're like, July,
here's some here's some ghosts.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I live a scary life.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Okay, I live a scary life.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's the
good good. On The Spencer Grave Show, if you've ever
lost a pet or been in a neighborhood where pets
get lost, AI is coming to ring doorbell cameras and
I love what they're doing. They're gonna network with other
doorbell cameras using AI in case your pet walks in
(03:48):
front of your neighbor's house or a house within the area.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Oh this is really cool. Now, how does something like
this roll out?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Do they focus on specific neighborhoods at the beginning, or
how does it get started.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
I'm sure it's going to be like one person buys
one unit and then if somebody else gets another one,
it's going to sync together and they're just gonna know,
and that way that person gets an alert. So I'm
sure you'll have to notify ring like, hey, miss Fluffy
is missing, so we're gonna need to get eyes on her,
Miss Fluffy, Miss Fluffy. But then all of a sudden,
other cameras pick it up. We just had a cat
(04:23):
lost in our neighborhood and I had to go back
to the Facebook page to say, is there an update
on your cat? Has the cat come back? Eighteen hours later,
that cat showed up and all that cat was doing
was meowing because it was hungry. And it's like, well,
while you were out partying, the rest of us were worried, sick,
worried sick. Why did you buy six of the same
(04:44):
exact album? Okay, why did we get it on CDs?
And you don't even own a.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
CD play, So there was a pre pre order before
we even knew what the album looked like. Then there
was a pre order, and then there were autographed copies,
and there were four different version of the autograph copy
by versions I may just pictures, and so I needed
all of those. And now I'm just like on pens
and needles waiting for her merch to drop and now
(05:11):
probably buy more CDs.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
What do y'all collect and maybe have just a ridiculous
amount of A five to five grave zero. It is
a little crazy the amount of Taylor Swift things that
you have.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
You know, it's really not because in compared to comparison
to other things, it's.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Not that bad.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I mean, my husband would go out on a lamb
I believe and say that my Kenny Chesney item collection
is far greater than Taylor because well, it's probably because
it's a little bit easier to get it than Taylor Swift's.
And then my my cowgirl boot collection, I will even admit,
(05:51):
is getting to a point of concern.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
A five five grave zero, we're talking to the people
who collect a crazy amount of things. I've got a
friend mine who his grandmother collects Elvis memorabilia, has an
entire room in her house, room dedicated to Elvis shirts.
CD come an in alban could do this.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I could split a room in half. Kenny Chesney up, Hey,
Bobby d Hey Dad, I'll be calling you later. I
got an idea.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Let's talk to our friends who like to collect things.
A five to five Grave zero. It's the Spencer Grave Show.
Thanks so much for listening. Don't forget to click and
download our podcast when you have the iHeartRadio app. Last
night was the opening ceremonies of Octoberfest and Coleman and
I might be the only person who's ever said I
took my pants off at Octoberfest.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I think we need to clarify this so people don't
get scared that you're running from the law.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
So I showed up to Octoberfest last night and they
were going to have me as part of the opening ceremonies,
and I was so thankful to be there. So I
went to the place where they asked me to go,
and I walked in. I must have been underdressed, because
every person was in later hosing. The guys had the
traditional stuff on, and the ladies had the outfits that
(07:10):
looked like Saint Paula's girl, you know what I mean?
Those uhh yeah, yeah, yeahah. So they're all dressed out right,
and then there's me khakis, cowboy boots and a dress
shirt and I'm like, well, wait.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
A minute, probably stood out.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
So I said to Dale, the guy that kind of
set me up to be there, I said, hey, man,
how do I get some later hosing like that? And
he goes, oh, dude, I'll take care of it, don't worry.
So they went over to this place, they grabbed something.
They asked me what size I was. I said, I'm
a forty waist. They came back, they handed me something.
I started putting this on and I had to take
my pants off behind the stage to try to get
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this later hose on. We had seven minutes to get
this done. I'm fighting to get this stuff on. I'm
sucking in my gut. I'm like clenching my butt to
try to get my later hosen pants over my butt
and I can't do it. So finally I said, well,
what's the deal with this? And somebody goes, oh, you
actually have to go a couple sizes up. So if
you're forty and you got a forty, that's not going
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to fit you the way that it should. So they
had to take those off, run back and grab a
bigger size, and then they came back. By the time
I got this later Hosen all strapped up and ready
to go, we were about ready to shoot shotguns in
front of the entire craft.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
You know what's crazy.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Earlier this week we were talking about how you go
to the gym and you're watching football, and I'm saying
that maybe you're watching a little too much football.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I'm just saying, no, this.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Is why I've been doing so many squats that my
thunder thighs wouldn't let the later hos sense it. It
was squeezing. I felt like I was trying to get into.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
A small You forgot that.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
You said just five seconds ago that you were trying
to squeeze your.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Gut, and come on that we all heard that.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Come on, So.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
If you want to go to Octoberfest, I'm going to
be out there this afternoon. Happens all weekend in Coleman.
Are you ready, April.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
I'm not sure what is this.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
We're playing Battle of the Brands. Nobody's played, because we've
never played on The Spencer Grave Show. But I just
shared this with everyone. What sound is that? April?
Speaker 5 (09:13):
Oh, my son just heard it, like maybe he should
play He said it was Netflix.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
That's Netflix nicely.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
That is so incredibly smart.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
That's right. So what I'm gonna do is, I'm going
to play you three things, and I just want you
to tell me what sound that comes from? Okay, here's
the first one. What sound is that?
Speaker 6 (09:35):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (09:35):
I've heard this?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I feel like you should be able to play it
on a loop for until until it comes to our mind, because.
Speaker 7 (09:47):
For me to one more.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
As soon as I heard it, I knew it.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Oh gosh, I'm just gonna throw it out there.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Disney.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
No, it's not Yeah, that's hbo.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Oh I don't even have that.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Right, right, This is probably one that's easier.
Speaker 6 (10:15):
Oh, I'm so bad at this.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
It's like, we know we should know it.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You don't know this either, by.
Speaker 6 (10:25):
Windows.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
That's not it's not Windows, is it?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
When you restart your computer?
Speaker 3 (10:34):
It depends on the computer.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
I'm not fancy you have to own one of those.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Here's the last sound that we're playing this morning. What
sound is that?
Speaker 6 (10:47):
I should know I'm terrible.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
If you've seen commercials, then you've definitely heard.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Wait what did my mind go?
Speaker 3 (10:58):
Like?
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Lord, she's so sweet. When she asked you that, I thought,
I'm so bad?
Speaker 3 (11:10):
It is that is the sound of tea mobile.
Speaker 8 (11:19):
She said, mobile.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
You did a great job. We're going to hook you
up with a pair of tickets so you can come
hang out with us and Thomas Ratt. It's okay, it's
it's a it's a consolation prize.
Speaker 6 (11:31):
Oh perfect, Blair.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
When you and Steve got married, how did you guys
handle guests and food and cost.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Steve handled none of that.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
He showed up on wedding day and was told about
all the things that I had planned for the last
year and a half. My dad is so traditional, there
was never a question about it. Bobby d was going
to pay for the wedding.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
I got you, so you guys weren't going to ask
anybody for money or anything like that. I got a
really interesting direct message at mister Spencer Graves on Instagram
from a woman named Kendra, and all I said was,
before you tell me anything else, give me your phone number.
So I want to get her on the phone. Kendrick
can you share with everybody. What's causing a little bit
of a division in your wedding.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
I'm thinking of selling tickets to my wedding. Costs for
everything that's gone up, cost for a home, cost for insurance,
cost of living, everything is driving me right to the edge.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Okay, all right, you came out of the gates strong,
congratulations on being engaged.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Are you expecting people to buy you gifts as well?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
You know, I think that people might, just because it's
polite that.
Speaker 7 (12:40):
I'm not expecting it.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
And how much are we thinking these tickets are going
to sell for?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Well, I think that it shouldn't be too much more
than the cost of a plate. Plates are like what
seventy dollars these days.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Per person, So one hundred and forty dollars for a couple.
Speaker 7 (12:56):
Right, so I'm thinking maybe ninety per person.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Wait, so you're going to actually charge them more than
what their meal is?
Speaker 5 (13:05):
Well, yes, because they want to sit down and see
the decorations.
Speaker 7 (13:09):
That costs money, right now?
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Man, hang on, hang on. Let's just say that you
were going to go out for a night out with
your significant other. You have dinner, you have drinks, you
have dancing. Maybe listen, to some live music. She may
have a DJ, she might have a band. You're easily
going to spend over one hundred dollars a person.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
But I probably didn't pay for the flowers on the
table at the restaurant.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Well, she might not be thinking about it that way,
right ninety bucks? Is you get your meal, You've got
some live entertainment, there's some drinks. Are you doing a
cash bar or open bar? It sounds like cash.
Speaker 7 (13:42):
Oh you know it should be open if I'm charging.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Okay, so there you go. She's wrapping everything in. It's
like a bundle package deal.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
It's like an all explosive wedding.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Now actually hearing it, it doesn't sound that crazy to do.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Are you going to be offended though?
Speaker 2 (14:02):
If people decline because they don't want to pay to come.
Speaker 7 (14:07):
No, I can't be offended, I don't think.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
And are you going to charge everyone?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I'm talking bridal party family, every single person invited, everyone
except my granny.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Granny gets a comp ticket, like I pay This is ridiculous.
And you know what that actually brings up a good point?
Is there a senior citizen discount? Because I know a
lot of seniors will go, They'll have the meal and
then once they start playing the music, they're like, I'm
out of here.
Speaker 7 (14:37):
No, there's no senior citizen.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
So it's one price for every one of the ones
with all the money.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Okay, So are you dead set on this or would
you consider maybe not having a full meal at your
wedding and not having to charge people, turn it into.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
The fire fest and just survey him sandwiches and chips.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Well, no, I'm saying that I spend a wedding where
it's not a full meal, where it's like you you know,
and it used to be more common that you just
had cake basically and then you went about your way.
I think in the last several years, when weddings have
become such a huge business, that's where people got back
to like a full plated meal.
Speaker 7 (15:17):
No, I think it's tacky to not have a full meal.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
She wants to charge people to go to her wedding.
Does this seem right to everybody? Eight five five grave
zero Kendra will ask thank you very much, thank you.
Last night I got a message from a woman and
mister Spencer Graves of my DMS named Kendra, who is
planning on charging people tickets for her wedding upwards of
like ninety dollars a person E five five graves zero.
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Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
Would you think of a Kendra's situation.
Speaker 8 (15:48):
Personally? If I was asked to pay to go to
somebody's wedding, I wouldn't. But I've also been in a
couple of weddings and the price that you have to
pay to go to a wedding. I just spent last
last months, honestly four hundred dollars to go to a
out of state wedding to be just a bridesmaid in it.
And I think it would be offenderful for the bridesmaids
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at least and the grooms and the bridle party to
actually have to pay for a ticket to go to
your wedding if you ask them to be in the
first place.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Do you think that it's acceptable for somebody to turn
down the request of being in the wedding party.
Speaker 8 (16:24):
No, if they turned down their request to be in
the bridle party, then if they want to go to
the wedding, they should have to pay for it. But
if they are in the wedding, I think if they
I think she may have some bridesmaids that made is
not that they don't want to be in it anymore
if they have to also pay to be in it.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
Not disagreeing with that, I think it's solid. I'm saying
with you. If your friend called you and said, hey,
I want you to stand next to me in my wedding,
but you know you're gonna have to buy the dress,
You're going to have to buy the shoes, You're going
to have to spend a lot of money on a
bachelorette trip, and all these things, Like you start to
realize the money is piling up and you look at
your personal finances ago, I don't have a lot of money.
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Is it rude for somebody to say thank you but
I can't afford being a bridesmaid or being in the wedding?
Speaker 7 (17:09):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (17:10):
I have done it once before.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Really what happened there?
Speaker 8 (17:14):
They wanted to travel like states away, and I was like,
I'm sorry, I can't, especially having a newborn baby. I
was like, I just I can't do it, not alone.
Just having to pay for everything to be in that wedding?
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Was that rough on the friendship after?
Speaker 8 (17:29):
Yeah, they kind of didn't talk to me for a
couple of weeks.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
See, I hate that, Like you're just being honest about
your situation and then they use that against you. I
can't stand that.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
Here's the thing I've turned down being in two weddings.
One was because the weekend that the wedding was going
to happen, I had plans to be out of town
to see another best.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Friend and this friend wasn't on the scale of friends.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I was going to see this friend that I hadn't
seen in years because they were stationed overseas.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
It just didn't work for me. Priority was different, Yeah,
the priority was different.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
And the other was because, to be quite honest, I
didn't feel as if I should be one of the
people standing up their next to this person. I just
didn't think that our friendship was at a level that
like I needed that pressure, Like I just didn't. And
so as you goure no, I mean, I did it,
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as you know, the nicest way possible. But I think
what I'm saying is there are times that if you
can handle it in a very, very you know, nice way,
you always have the right to say no of being
in somebody's wedding.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Love that you called the show today, we want to
get you a pair of tickets so you can come
hang out with us at Thomas Rhett at the co
Cole Amphitheater.
Speaker 8 (18:39):
Oh that's an awesome So this morning what.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
We were talking about was Kendra sent me a message
saying she's thinking about charging a price, basically selling tickets
to her wedding. Shanela, good morning, good morning. So what
would you say about this?
Speaker 9 (18:54):
I just don't think that that's rot. I mean, I
get that weddings are so expensive, but if you want
to have a wedding and everyone be there and that's
kind of part of your get up, like you shouldn't
charge people to be there.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
I think the only problem that I had was, and
you brought it up, Lairy, you said, are you expecting
a gift? And she's like, if they want to give it?
If you're going to sell tickets, I would assume that
gifts shouldn't happen.
Speaker 9 (19:18):
Yeah, No, absolutely not.
Speaker 6 (19:20):
You're asking for too much there.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
And then I also feel like the bridal party kind
of needs to be comped because don't bridesmaids have to
buy their dresses?
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Yeah, most of the dresses aren't cheap.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
Right, And don't the groomsmen have to rent their tuxedos.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
That's typical.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Yeah, yeah, so I think that if it's if it's
just you know, like if I'm showing up as a
guest and I have a date, ninety dollars, Okay, it's
gonna be a lot of money, but it's one hundred
and eighty bucks for a couple. Fine, we have nothing
to do with the wedding. We're just there. But I'm
not bringing a gift. I may drop off a card,
but don't expect cash in the card.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Rob.
Speaker 9 (19:54):
I mean with that, if it's someone that you really
want to attend their wedding, then so be it.
Speaker 7 (19:59):
You know, it's work going to.
Speaker 9 (20:01):
It's probably more work going to than having an argument
over it.
Speaker 5 (20:04):
But at the end of the day, everyone has different
moles and me personally, I just wouldn't do that.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Well, you know, it's kind of like a destination wedding, right,
Like if you expect people to travel to come to
your wedding, so they have to buy a plane ticket,
or they have to go to another state or even
a couple hours away, you don't expect them to give
you a gift.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
The wedding culture has just gotten crazy, I mean, especially
like we were talking about, like if you're in a
wedding because you know, typically you do have to buy
a dress, Typically you do have to pay for your hair, makeup, nails.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
There's a bachelorette party.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
And where a bachelorette party used to be one night,
now it's I mean, I've seen bachelrette parties be up.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
To a week long.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Then you have bridle showers, and you have a gift
for the bachelorette party and then a gift for the wedding.
And I mean, I remember me and a there was
two of my best friends. Me and two best friends
all got married within a year and a half of
each other, and we were all.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Included in each other's wedding festivals. And it was a lot.
It was a lot because a lot of.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Times too take out there planning a wedding. Well, if
you're planning a wedding and getting married, it was the
case for all three of us.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
We were also in the process.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
Of buying and building homes while paying for our own weddings,
paying for other friends' weddings, and then just life on
top of that too. So I mean me and those
two friends, Mackenzie and Chelsea, like it was tight.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
I can only imagine Chanel's like, I don't want to
pay that bill.
Speaker 6 (21:27):
No, it was absolutely personally no.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Well CHANEA, thank you have an awesome.
Speaker 7 (21:33):
Day you too, Thank you all by Buck.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
Kendra has sent me a DM and mister Spencer Graves
on Instagram said she was going to sell tickets to
her wedding and not expect gifts, So she was just
trying to make some money because of how expensive weddings are.
Gina's on a five to five grave zero. Let's say
you're driving up sixty five. Since we're talking about what
money you should spend for a celebration or whatever. You're
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driving sixty five. You know the car in front of
you is going to Nashville, and you know it's loaded
full of bachelorettes and they have that white paint all
over their windows. They say cash app us, a drink
by us, a drink, bachelorette party memo, all that kind
of stuff. Are you actually going to fund that or
do you just not even think about it? I can't
(22:17):
imagine they make money.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
Do they know?
Speaker 1 (22:20):
They make a lot of money.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
They make a lot of they do.
Speaker 7 (22:24):
That's ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (22:25):
The truck drivers, yep, they're they're doing it. I'm going
to do a pit maneuver and run them, which is
off the road.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Wow, that's brutal. Did you do the whole drawn the
car and cash app us?
Speaker 1 (22:38):
No, we didn't. We didn't, but we you know, I
feel like it.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
Was a missed opportunity.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Oh, because that's the thing too. That's the thing too.
That is very fortunate.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
When I went on my bachelorette trip, I had thirteen
girls go and they all they all truly showered me
with love. And I'm not trying to be funny. I mean,
I have never felt more special. And they we went
for two nights to Nashville for a weekend and I
didn't have to pull out my card one time.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Know, they just they were very good to.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
It's giving me the thoughts of I need to go
get some of that white paint, put it all over
my truck windows and just say Spencer needs to pay
much Spencer needs to pay? Is mortgage just a month?
If you want to venmo or cash, you have them.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Yeah, I know those people that'll do it.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
There's people that'll do it. It's how country are you?
On the Spencer Grave Show? On you Where are you from?
Speaker 6 (23:35):
I'm from plas kinna see ooh.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Let's go. Are you a volunteers fan or oh yeah,
yeah voluntar?
Speaker 7 (23:45):
Today?
Speaker 6 (23:46):
Today is rip your team at work, and I work
in Hunkful, so I will be the odd man out.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
I've got my Tennessee on today too. It's fine, yeah, okay,
go Blair.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Y'all are just going to be walking around town. Everybody's
going to think two prisoners are on the loose.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
So hey, yeah, I can't actually take of a great orange.
So Spencer's just being a little poofoo.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
All right, help us out here. On a scale of
one to country, how country are you?
Speaker 6 (24:12):
I've been thinking about this. I mean I listen every
every day and I'm like, oh, I know the Oh
I'd have a great story for that. Oh, I'd be
great with that one. But I'm one of those very
versatile rednecks. I can go from like zero hold my
latte to ten hold my beer in two seconds depending
on the situation and environment. So I'm gonna say I
feel like about seven and a half.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Okay, here's three questions for you.
Speaker 6 (24:36):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Comedian David Spade played what character that said life's a
garden dig it?
Speaker 6 (24:42):
Can we change my answer to a two.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Come on, you know this movie that David's Spade was in. No,
I do not.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Oh, it's okay, yeah, I don't know, okay, Joe, all right,
question that'll have to go on to.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Watch list Anya, what's something country people get that city
people don't.
Speaker 6 (25:07):
Currant greens, better directions, a good grandma. I mean, you know,
city people grandma's are a little different in the city.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
You're right. I was just always waiting for you go
down the laundry list of me. You hit those pretty quick.
Speaker 6 (25:25):
Well, I mean, you know, getting stuck in a track
or traffic jam, or the tractor parade.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Here she goes, she goes it.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Ever been and watched a.
Speaker 6 (25:33):
Tracker parade in the middle of the country. It's you know, yes,
can't eat it.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
When you explain what a tractor pull is to somebody
in the city, the look on their face is glossed over.
Then you truly know that they're not really cut right right?
All right, here's the here's the final question. Why did
the cops show up to your neighbor's house.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Because she called him on them? Oh no, I'm just kidding.
I'm kidding.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
They didn't know that, Blair. Thanks for Thanks for right.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
I was just kidding.
Speaker 5 (26:02):
Ha ha ha ha.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
So why were the cops there?
Speaker 6 (26:06):
Depends on which time you want to talk about, but
most of the time it's because of the yelling and screaming,
and somebody down the road thinks it's domestic violence, but
they're just watching the Alabama Gang.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
You're like, look, we just need to let them know
that everything's okay.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Ay, man, roll tide not bad today. You're a seven
point three.
Speaker 6 (26:27):
All right, I'll take it.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
That's okay. Listen, something to build on. We're going to
get you into either Thomas Rhett Co col Amphitheater or
Talladega your choice.
Speaker 6 (26:36):
Thomas red or Spencer Grade Center every day. All right,
Well say even a question.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
We will see you at Talladega. I got a couple
passes for you. ESPN named their celebrity picker for game Day,
which is going to be in Tuscaloosa, Alabama versus Vanderbilt
tomorrow at two point thirty. It's comedian Theo Vaughn be
down there for game Day this Saturday. Baby, I can't wait.
I get to meet Nick Saban's, baby, God God, I
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get to meet Nick Saban's and so I'm just so
excited about that. And I don't know if you can
hug him or not. I don't know. You know, I'll
read the rules or whatever, and a'll ah bad by him.
But I couldn't be more excited. Praise God, baby, see
you Saturday. Do we think Nick Saban is a hugger?
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I think that before he joined Game Day he may
not have been. But I feel like Pat McAfee is
really working on him, and I think he will hug THEO.
I will say this when THEO said he's gonna read
the rules. They have rules because Pat McAfee doesn't abide
by any set of rules.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
What kind of hug do you think Saban gives?
Speaker 7 (27:42):
Is he?
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Is he a one arm and then like a pat
on the back? Is he a barrick hug squeeze or
he's kind of like hug squeeze, shying his face kind
of away like all right, it's nice, thank you, good.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
To see you. I don't he's not a bear hug
kind of guy. I don't think I would vente sure
to say. He's kind of a.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
One hand tap tap tap on the back. Okay, get
off of me, like a comfortable thing.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Yeah, I mean I don't think unless it's his daughter, grandkids,
your family, that kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
I don't think he's bear hugging anybody.
Speaker 5 (28:16):
Man.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
You have Terry, you have a couple of different hugs,
and I've witnessed him in the wild. There's the one word.
If you see your girlfriend that you haven't seen in
a minute, you kind of get into the wu girl
thing and you're like, and then you have the other
one where you want to hug somebody because they want
to hug you, but you don't really want to fully
hug them, so you put your butt back. You know,
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it's kind of like you're you're pinching.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Back and know what's weirder that you have taken note
of all of this or the yeah that that's I mean,
come on, you're down to the detail.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
But it's almost like you're contorting your body in a
way where I'm like, is she okay? Or is she
doing yoga? I'm not a hundred percent sure what's happening.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
I'm not one hundred percent sure that that think you
Come on, now, everybody has different hugs, but uh, I
don't think I'm the only one there.
Speaker 3 (29:06):
Well, if you're watching game day, we'll see if Theovonne
huggs Nick Saban and what kind of hug will it be,
Who is your favorite artist.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
I'm talking all genre that's still alive in releasing music.
In fact, I'll even give you you could name your top.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Two George Strait, Chris Stapleton, Cody Johnson.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Okay, fine, those three if they were getting ready to
release an album and you somehow not even like work related,
but you came across the new album leaked?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Would you listen to it before?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
What did you do with Taylor Swift or Kenny Chelsny.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
No no, no, no, no, no no no. Here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Supposedly, Taylor Swift's new album has been leaked. I refuse
to listen to a leaked album.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I feel so bad for artists.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
And obviously this is leaning more towards Taylor Swift, who
had this big build up, in this big plan of
when it's supposed to be released and how you're supposed
to have to hear it the first time and all this,
and then for that to be ruined, I just it
breaks my heart for anyone.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Did that happen?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
You don't think that's planned. You don't think that's planned
on her end to leak a few things and then
ultimately change it when the album comes out, and then
those people feel like, oh, we kind of got duped
a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Well, the thing is, I feel like it was her
last two albums. It's ended up on Reddit like a
couple of days before.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Okay, but I have higher album has access to those
You've got producers, they all sign NDA's like, I don't
buy that it's being quote unquote leaked by somebody. I
think that's all stirred by them behind me, right.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
But that's not my question. Would you listen yes to
a new You would? Yeah, so it doesn't bother you
at all.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Because I know it comes from them.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, but it's still it breaks my heart. I could
never I would never hear.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
You are so in with Taylor Swift. She could create,
she could she could murder somebody. And you're like, yeah,
but you know, oh no, I mean it's borderline brainwashed.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
No, it is. I it's not even borderline.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
My husband literally yesterday because obviously she has this movie
documentary thing coming out this weekend, and he was like,
let me get this straight. You have bought two tickets
to this movie thing. You have no idea what it's
about outside of there's some behind the scenes footage. He's like,
you have no one to go with you, and you're
(02:33):
going to just go and spend two hours of your afternoon.
And I was like, Steve, if I found out that
all it was was a camera on her watching her
fiance play football, I would go and watch it.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Oh my god, you need another hobby. Go outside and
smell the.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Fresh to hear it. I don't want to hear it.
Y'all say for me to go get another hobby.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
But if I bring up putting Christmas up, you are like, oh,
not that hobbies.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
So I can't know.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
You know your hobbies at different times of the year.
Like finally, this morning, when I walked out it was brisk.
I was like, it feels like fall. It feels great.
This is when you start spooky season. You you're like, July,
here's some here's some ghosts.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I live a scary life.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Okay, I live a scary life.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Giving you all the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's the
good good. On The Spencer Grave Show, if you've ever
lost a pet or been in a neighborhood where pets
get lost, AI is coming to ring doorbell cameras and
I love what they're doing. They're gonna network with other
doorbell cameras using AI in case your pet walks in
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front of your neighbor's house or a house within the area.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Oh this is really cool. Now, how does something like
this roll out?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Do they focus on specific neighborhoods at the beginning, or
how does it get started.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
I'm sure it's going to be like one person buys
one unit and then if somebody else gets another one,
it's going to sync together and they're just gonna know,
and that way that person gets an alert. So I'm
sure you'll have to notify ring like, hey, miss Fluffy
is missing, so we're gonna need to get eyes on her,
Miss Fluffy, Miss Fluffy. But then all of a sudden,
other cameras pick it up. We just had a cat
(04:23):
lost in our neighborhood and I had to go back
to the Facebook page to say, is there an update
on your cat? Has the cat come back? Eighteen hours later,
that cat showed up and all that cat was doing
was meowing because it was hungry. And it's like, well,
while you were out partying, the rest of us were worried, sick,
worried sick. Why did you buy six of the same
(04:44):
exact album? Okay, why did we get it on CDs?
And you don't even own a.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
CD play, So there was a pre pre order before
we even knew what the album looked like. Then there
was a pre order, and then there were autographed copies,
and there were four different version of the autograph copy
by versions I may just pictures, and so I needed
all of those. And now I'm just like on pens
and needles waiting for her merch to drop and now
(05:11):
probably buy more CDs.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
What do y'all collect and maybe have just a ridiculous
amount of A five to five grave zero. It is
a little crazy the amount of Taylor Swift things that
you have.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
You know, it's really not because in compared to comparison
to other things, it's.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Not that bad.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I mean, my husband would go out on a lamb
I believe and say that my Kenny Chesney item collection
is far greater than Taylor because well, it's probably because
it's a little bit easier to get it than Taylor Swift's.
And then my my cowgirl boot collection, I will even admit,
(05:51):
is getting to a point of concern.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
A five five grave zero, we're talking to the people
who collect a crazy amount of things. I've got a
friend mine who his grandmother collects Elvis memorabilia, has an
entire room in her house, room dedicated to Elvis shirts.
CD come an in alban could do this.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I could split a room in half. Kenny Chesney up, Hey,
Bobby d Hey Dad, I'll be calling you later. I
got an idea.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Let's talk to our friends who like to collect things.
A five to five Grave zero. It's the Spencer Grave Show.
Thanks so much for listening. Don't forget to click and
download our podcast when you have the iHeartRadio app. Last
night was the opening ceremonies of Octoberfest and Coleman and
I might be the only person who's ever said I
took my pants off at Octoberfest.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I think we need to clarify this so people don't
get scared that you're running from the law.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
So I showed up to Octoberfest last night and they
were going to have me as part of the opening ceremonies,
and I was so thankful to be there. So I
went to the place where they asked me to go,
and I walked in. I must have been underdressed, because
every person was in later hosing. The guys had the
traditional stuff on, and the ladies had the outfits that
(07:10):
looked like Saint Paula's girl, you know what I mean?
Those uhh yeah, yeah, yeahah. So they're all dressed out right,
and then there's me khakis, cowboy boots and a dress
shirt and I'm like, well, wait.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
A minute, probably stood out.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
So I said to Dale, the guy that kind of
set me up to be there, I said, hey, man,
how do I get some later hosing like that? And
he goes, oh, dude, I'll take care of it, don't worry.
So they went over to this place, they grabbed something.
They asked me what size I was. I said, I'm
a forty waist. They came back, they handed me something.
I started putting this on and I had to take
my pants off behind the stage to try to get
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this later hose on. We had seven minutes to get
this done. I'm fighting to get this stuff on. I'm
sucking in my gut. I'm like clenching my butt to
try to get my later hosen pants over my butt
and I can't do it. So finally I said, well,
what's the deal with this? And somebody goes, oh, you
actually have to go a couple sizes up. So if
you're forty and you got a forty, that's not going
(08:09):
to fit you the way that it should. So they
had to take those off, run back and grab a
bigger size, and then they came back. By the time
I got this later Hosen all strapped up and ready
to go, we were about ready to shoot shotguns in
front of the entire craft.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
You know what's crazy.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Earlier this week we were talking about how you go
to the gym and you're watching football, and I'm saying
that maybe you're watching a little too much football.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I'm just saying, no, this.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Is why I've been doing so many squats that my
thunder thighs wouldn't let the later hos sense it. It
was squeezing. I felt like I was trying to get into.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
A small You forgot that.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
You said just five seconds ago that you were trying
to squeeze your.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Gut, and come on that we all heard that.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Come on, So.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
If you want to go to Octoberfest, I'm going to
be out there this afternoon. Happens all weekend in Coleman.
Are you ready, April.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
I'm not sure what is this.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
We're playing Battle of the Brands. Nobody's played, because we've
never played on The Spencer Grave Show. But I just
shared this with everyone. What sound is that? April?
Speaker 5 (09:13):
Oh, my son just heard it, like maybe he should
play He said it was Netflix.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
That's Netflix nicely.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
That is so incredibly smart.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
That's right. So what I'm gonna do is, I'm going
to play you three things, and I just want you
to tell me what sound that comes from? Okay, here's
the first one. What sound is that?
Speaker 6 (09:35):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (09:35):
I've heard this?
Speaker 1 (09:36):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I feel like you should be able to play it
on a loop for until until it comes to our mind, because.
Speaker 7 (09:47):
For me to one more.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
As soon as I heard it, I knew it.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Oh gosh, I'm just gonna throw it out there.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Disney.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
No, it's not Yeah, that's hbo.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Oh I don't even have that.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Right, right, This is probably one that's easier.
Speaker 6 (10:15):
Oh, I'm so bad at this.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
It's like, we know we should know it.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You don't know this either, by.
Speaker 6 (10:25):
Windows.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
That's not it's not Windows, is it?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
When you restart your computer?
Speaker 3 (10:34):
It depends on the computer.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
I'm not fancy you have to own one of those.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Here's the last sound that we're playing this morning. What
sound is that?
Speaker 6 (10:47):
I should know I'm terrible.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
If you've seen commercials, then you've definitely heard.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Wait what did my mind go?
Speaker 3 (10:58):
Like?
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Lord, she's so sweet. When she asked you that, I thought,
I'm so bad?
Speaker 3 (11:10):
It is that is the sound of tea mobile.
Speaker 8 (11:19):
She said, mobile.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
You did a great job. We're going to hook you
up with a pair of tickets so you can come
hang out with us and Thomas Ratt. It's okay, it's
it's a it's a consolation prize.
Speaker 6 (11:31):
Oh perfect, Blair.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
When you and Steve got married, how did you guys
handle guests and food and cost.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Steve handled none of that.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
He showed up on wedding day and was told about
all the things that I had planned for the last
year and a half. My dad is so traditional, there
was never a question about it. Bobby d was going
to pay for the wedding.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
I got you, so you guys weren't going to ask
anybody for money or anything like that. I got a
really interesting direct message at mister Spencer Graves on Instagram
from a woman named Kendra, and all I said was,
before you tell me anything else, give me your phone number.
So I want to get her on the phone. Kendrick
can you share with everybody. What's causing a little bit
of a division in your wedding.
Speaker 5 (12:15):
I'm thinking of selling tickets to my wedding. Costs for
everything that's gone up, cost for a home, cost for insurance,
cost of living, everything is driving me right to the edge.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Okay, all right, you came out of the gates strong,
congratulations on being engaged.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Are you expecting people to buy you gifts as well?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
You know, I think that people might, just because it's
polite that.
Speaker 7 (12:40):
I'm not expecting it.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
And how much are we thinking these tickets are going
to sell for?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Well, I think that it shouldn't be too much more
than the cost of a plate. Plates are like what
seventy dollars these days.
Speaker 3 (12:53):
Per person, So one hundred and forty dollars for a couple.
Speaker 7 (12:56):
Right, so I'm thinking maybe ninety per person.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Wait, so you're going to actually charge them more than
what their meal is?
Speaker 5 (13:05):
Well, yes, because they want to sit down and see
the decorations.
Speaker 7 (13:09):
That costs money, right now?
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Man, hang on, hang on. Let's just say that you
were going to go out for a night out with
your significant other. You have dinner, you have drinks, you
have dancing. Maybe listen, to some live music. She may
have a DJ, she might have a band. You're easily
going to spend over one hundred dollars a person.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
But I probably didn't pay for the flowers on the
table at the restaurant.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Well, she might not be thinking about it that way,
right ninety bucks? Is you get your meal, You've got
some live entertainment, there's some drinks. Are you doing a
cash bar or open bar? It sounds like cash.
Speaker 7 (13:42):
Oh you know it should be open if I'm charging.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Okay, so there you go. She's wrapping everything in. It's
like a bundle package deal.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
It's like an all explosive wedding.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Now actually hearing it, it doesn't sound that crazy to do.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Are you going to be offended though?
Speaker 2 (14:02):
If people decline because they don't want to pay to come.
Speaker 7 (14:07):
No, I can't be offended, I don't think.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
And are you going to charge everyone?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I'm talking bridal party family, every single person invited, everyone
except my granny.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Granny gets a comp ticket, like I pay This is ridiculous.
And you know what that actually brings up a good point?
Is there a senior citizen discount? Because I know a
lot of seniors will go, They'll have the meal and
then once they start playing the music, they're like, I'm
out of here.
Speaker 7 (14:37):
No, there's no senior citizen.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
So it's one price for every one of the ones
with all the money.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Okay, So are you dead set on this or would
you consider maybe not having a full meal at your
wedding and not having to charge people, turn it into.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
The fire fest and just survey him sandwiches and chips.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Well, no, I'm saying that I spend a wedding where
it's not a full meal, where it's like you you know,
and it used to be more common that you just
had cake basically and then you went about your way.
I think in the last several years, when weddings have
become such a huge business, that's where people got back
to like a full plated meal.
Speaker 7 (15:17):
No, I think it's tacky to not have a full meal.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
She wants to charge people to go to her wedding.
Does this seem right to everybody? Eight five five grave
zero Kendra will ask thank you very much, thank you.
Last night I got a message from a woman and
mister Spencer Graves of my DMS named Kendra, who is
planning on charging people tickets for her wedding upwards of
like ninety dollars a person E five five graves zero.
(15:43):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
Would you think of a Kendra's situation.
Speaker 8 (15:48):
Personally? If I was asked to pay to go to
somebody's wedding, I wouldn't. But I've also been in a
couple of weddings and the price that you have to
pay to go to a wedding. I just spent last
last months, honestly four hundred dollars to go to a
out of state wedding to be just a bridesmaid in it.
And I think it would be offenderful for the bridesmaids
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at least and the grooms and the bridle party to
actually have to pay for a ticket to go to
your wedding if you ask them to be in the
first place.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Do you think that it's acceptable for somebody to turn
down the request of being in the wedding party.
Speaker 8 (16:24):
No, if they turned down their request to be in
the bridle party, then if they want to go to
the wedding, they should have to pay for it. But
if they are in the wedding, I think if they
I think she may have some bridesmaids that made is
not that they don't want to be in it anymore
if they have to also pay to be in it.
Speaker 3 (16:42):
Not disagreeing with that, I think it's solid. I'm saying
with you. If your friend called you and said, hey,
I want you to stand next to me in my wedding,
but you know you're gonna have to buy the dress,
You're going to have to buy the shoes, You're going
to have to spend a lot of money on a
bachelorette trip, and all these things, Like you start to
realize the money is piling up and you look at
your personal finances ago, I don't have a lot of money.
(17:03):
Is it rude for somebody to say thank you but
I can't afford being a bridesmaid or being in the wedding?
Speaker 7 (17:09):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (17:10):
I have done it once before.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Really what happened there?
Speaker 8 (17:14):
They wanted to travel like states away, and I was like,
I'm sorry, I can't, especially having a newborn baby. I
was like, I just I can't do it, not alone.
Just having to pay for everything to be in that wedding?
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Was that rough on the friendship after?
Speaker 8 (17:29):
Yeah, they kind of didn't talk to me for a
couple of weeks.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
See, I hate that, Like you're just being honest about
your situation and then they use that against you. I
can't stand that.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
Here's the thing I've turned down being in two weddings.
One was because the weekend that the wedding was going
to happen, I had plans to be out of town
to see another best.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Friend and this friend wasn't on the scale of friends.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I was going to see this friend that I hadn't
seen in years because they were stationed overseas.
Speaker 1 (17:54):
It just didn't work for me. Priority was different, Yeah,
the priority was different.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
And the other was because, to be quite honest, I
didn't feel as if I should be one of the
people standing up their next to this person. I just
didn't think that our friendship was at a level that
like I needed that pressure, Like I just didn't. And
so as you goure no, I mean, I did it,
(18:19):
as you know, the nicest way possible. But I think
what I'm saying is there are times that if you
can handle it in a very, very you know, nice way,
you always have the right to say no of being
in somebody's wedding.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Love that you called the show today, we want to
get you a pair of tickets so you can come
hang out with us at Thomas Rhett at the co
Cole Amphitheater.
Speaker 8 (18:39):
Oh that's an awesome So this morning what.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
We were talking about was Kendra sent me a message
saying she's thinking about charging a price, basically selling tickets
to her wedding. Shanela, good morning, good morning. So what
would you say about this?
Speaker 9 (18:54):
I just don't think that that's rot. I mean, I
get that weddings are so expensive, but if you want
to have a wedding and everyone be there and that's
kind of part of your get up, like you shouldn't
charge people to be there.
Speaker 3 (19:06):
I think the only problem that I had was, and
you brought it up, Lairy, you said, are you expecting
a gift? And she's like, if they want to give it?
If you're going to sell tickets, I would assume that
gifts shouldn't happen.
Speaker 9 (19:18):
Yeah, No, absolutely not.
Speaker 6 (19:20):
You're asking for too much there.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
And then I also feel like the bridal party kind
of needs to be comped because don't bridesmaids have to
buy their dresses?
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Yeah, most of the dresses aren't cheap.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
Right, And don't the groomsmen have to rent their tuxedos.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
That's typical.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Yeah, yeah, so I think that if it's if it's
just you know, like if I'm showing up as a
guest and I have a date, ninety dollars, Okay, it's
gonna be a lot of money, but it's one hundred
and eighty bucks for a couple. Fine, we have nothing
to do with the wedding. We're just there. But I'm
not bringing a gift. I may drop off a card,
but don't expect cash in the card.
Speaker 5 (19:53):
Rob.
Speaker 9 (19:54):
I mean with that, if it's someone that you really
want to attend their wedding, then so be it.
Speaker 7 (19:59):
You know, it's work going to.
Speaker 9 (20:01):
It's probably more work going to than having an argument
over it.
Speaker 5 (20:04):
But at the end of the day, everyone has different
moles and me personally, I just wouldn't do that.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Well, you know, it's kind of like a destination wedding, right,
Like if you expect people to travel to come to
your wedding, so they have to buy a plane ticket,
or they have to go to another state or even
a couple hours away, you don't expect them to give
you a gift.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
The wedding culture has just gotten crazy, I mean, especially
like we were talking about, like if you're in a
wedding because you know, typically you do have to buy
a dress, Typically you do have to pay for your hair, makeup, nails.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
There's a bachelorette party.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
And where a bachelorette party used to be one night,
now it's I mean, I've seen bachelrette parties be up.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
To a week long.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Then you have bridle showers, and you have a gift
for the bachelorette party and then a gift for the wedding.
And I mean, I remember me and a there was
two of my best friends. Me and two best friends
all got married within a year and a half of
each other, and we were all.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Included in each other's wedding festivals. And it was a lot.
It was a lot because a lot of.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Times too take out there planning a wedding. Well, if
you're planning a wedding and getting married, it was the
case for all three of us.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
We were also in the process.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
Of buying and building homes while paying for our own weddings,
paying for other friends' weddings, and then just life on
top of that too. So I mean me and those
two friends, Mackenzie and Chelsea, like it was tight.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
I can only imagine Chanel's like, I don't want to
pay that bill.
Speaker 6 (21:27):
No, it was absolutely personally no.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
Well CHANEA, thank you have an awesome.
Speaker 7 (21:33):
Day you too, Thank you all by Buck.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
Kendra has sent me a DM and mister Spencer Graves
on Instagram said she was going to sell tickets to
her wedding and not expect gifts, So she was just
trying to make some money because of how expensive weddings are.
Gina's on a five to five grave zero. Let's say
you're driving up sixty five. Since we're talking about what
money you should spend for a celebration or whatever. You're
(21:56):
driving sixty five. You know the car in front of
you is going to Nashville, and you know it's loaded
full of bachelorettes and they have that white paint all
over their windows. They say cash app us, a drink
by us, a drink, bachelorette party memo, all that kind
of stuff. Are you actually going to fund that or
do you just not even think about it? I can't
(22:17):
imagine they make money.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
Do they know?
Speaker 1 (22:20):
They make a lot of money.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
They make a lot of they do.
Speaker 7 (22:24):
That's ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (22:25):
The truck drivers, yep, they're they're doing it. I'm going
to do a pit maneuver and run them, which is
off the road.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Wow, that's brutal. Did you do the whole drawn the
car and cash app us?
Speaker 1 (22:38):
No, we didn't. We didn't, but we you know, I
feel like it.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
Was a missed opportunity.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Oh, because that's the thing too. That's the thing too.
That is very fortunate.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
When I went on my bachelorette trip, I had thirteen
girls go and they all they all truly showered me
with love. And I'm not trying to be funny. I mean,
I have never felt more special. And they we went
for two nights to Nashville for a weekend and I
didn't have to pull out my card one time.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Know, they just they were very good to.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
It's giving me the thoughts of I need to go
get some of that white paint, put it all over
my truck windows and just say Spencer needs to pay
much Spencer needs to pay? Is mortgage just a month?
If you want to venmo or cash, you have them.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Yeah, I know those people that'll do it.
Speaker 3 (23:27):
There's people that'll do it. It's how country are you?
On the Spencer Grave Show? On you Where are you from?
Speaker 6 (23:35):
I'm from plas kinna see ooh.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Let's go. Are you a volunteers fan or oh yeah,
yeah voluntar?
Speaker 7 (23:45):
Today?
Speaker 6 (23:46):
Today is rip your team at work, and I work
in Hunkful, so I will be the odd man out.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
I've got my Tennessee on today too. It's fine, yeah, okay,
go Blair.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Y'all are just going to be walking around town. Everybody's
going to think two prisoners are on the loose.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
So hey, yeah, I can't actually take of a great orange.
So Spencer's just being a little poofoo.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
All right, help us out here. On a scale of
one to country, how country are you?
Speaker 6 (24:12):
I've been thinking about this. I mean I listen every
every day and I'm like, oh, I know the Oh
I'd have a great story for that. Oh, I'd be
great with that one. But I'm one of those very
versatile rednecks. I can go from like zero hold my
latte to ten hold my beer in two seconds depending
on the situation and environment. So I'm gonna say I
feel like about seven and a half.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Okay, here's three questions for you.
Speaker 6 (24:36):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Comedian David Spade played what character that said life's a
garden dig it?
Speaker 6 (24:42):
Can we change my answer to a two.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Come on, you know this movie that David's Spade was in. No,
I do not.
Speaker 4 (24:51):
Oh, it's okay, yeah, I don't know, okay, Joe, all right,
question that'll have to go on to.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Watch list Anya, what's something country people get that city
people don't.
Speaker 6 (25:07):
Currant greens, better directions, a good grandma. I mean, you know,
city people grandma's are a little different in the city.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
You're right. I was just always waiting for you go
down the laundry list of me. You hit those pretty quick.
Speaker 6 (25:25):
Well, I mean, you know, getting stuck in a track
or traffic jam, or the tractor parade.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Here she goes, she goes it.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Ever been and watched a.
Speaker 6 (25:33):
Tracker parade in the middle of the country. It's you know, yes,
can't eat it.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
When you explain what a tractor pull is to somebody
in the city, the look on their face is glossed over.
Then you truly know that they're not really cut right right?
All right, here's the here's the final question. Why did
the cops show up to your neighbor's house.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Because she called him on them? Oh no, I'm just kidding.
I'm kidding.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
They didn't know that, Blair. Thanks for Thanks for right.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
I was just kidding.
Speaker 5 (26:02):
Ha ha ha ha.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
So why were the cops there?
Speaker 6 (26:06):
Depends on which time you want to talk about, but
most of the time it's because of the yelling and screaming,
and somebody down the road thinks it's domestic violence, but
they're just watching the Alabama Gang.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
You're like, look, we just need to let them know
that everything's okay.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Ay, man, roll tide not bad today. You're a seven
point three.
Speaker 6 (26:27):
All right, I'll take it.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
That's okay. Listen, something to build on. We're going to
get you into either Thomas Rhett Co col Amphitheater or
Talladega your choice.
Speaker 6 (26:36):
Thomas red or Spencer Grade Center every day. All right,
Well say even a question.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
We will see you at Talladega. I got a couple
passes for you. ESPN named their celebrity picker for game Day,
which is going to be in Tuscaloosa, Alabama versus Vanderbilt
tomorrow at two point thirty. It's comedian Theo Vaughn be
down there for game Day this Saturday. Baby, I can't wait.
I get to meet Nick Saban's, baby, God God, I
(27:04):
get to meet Nick Saban's and so I'm just so
excited about that. And I don't know if you can
hug him or not. I don't know. You know, I'll
read the rules or whatever, and a'll ah bad by him.
But I couldn't be more excited. Praise God, baby, see
you Saturday. Do we think Nick Saban is a hugger?
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I think that before he joined Game Day he may
not have been. But I feel like Pat McAfee is
really working on him, and I think he will hug THEO.
I will say this when THEO said he's gonna read
the rules. They have rules because Pat McAfee doesn't abide
by any set of rules.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
What kind of hug do you think Saban gives?
Speaker 7 (27:42):
Is he?
Speaker 3 (27:42):
Is he a one arm and then like a pat
on the back? Is he a barrick hug squeeze or
he's kind of like hug squeeze, shying his face kind
of away like all right, it's nice, thank you, good.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
To see you. I don't he's not a bear hug
kind of guy. I don't think I would vente sure
to say. He's kind of a.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
One hand tap tap tap on the back. Okay, get
off of me, like a comfortable thing.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Yeah, I mean I don't think unless it's his daughter, grandkids,
your family, that kind of thing.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
I don't think he's bear hugging anybody.
Speaker 5 (28:16):
Man.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
You have Terry, you have a couple of different hugs,
and I've witnessed him in the wild. There's the one word.
If you see your girlfriend that you haven't seen in
a minute, you kind of get into the wu girl
thing and you're like, and then you have the other
one where you want to hug somebody because they want
to hug you, but you don't really want to fully
hug them, so you put your butt back. You know,
(28:37):
it's kind of like you're you're pinching.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
Back and know what's weirder that you have taken note
of all of this or the yeah that that's I mean,
come on, you're down to the detail.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
But it's almost like you're contorting your body in a
way where I'm like, is she okay? Or is she
doing yoga? I'm not a hundred percent sure what's happening.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
I'm not one hundred percent sure that that think you
Come on, now, everybody has different hugs, but uh, I
don't think I'm the only one there.
Speaker 3 (29:06):
Well, if you're watching game day, we'll see if Theovonne
huggs Nick Saban and what kind of hug will it be,
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