October 8, 2025 • 17 mins
Spencer found something that made him realize that his pet sitter has some friends coming to his house without him knowing. What would you do?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's going on, Dino. What did you guys end up
saying is going to be the beat? Well, we had
a couple of people who called in and they have
suggested that Blair has to sing Dixie Land Delight wearing
a Alabama jersey or I have to sing Rocky Top
wearing a Tennessee jersey at Boo Bash.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Right, So, I just got something in from our good
friend Riley Green. I'm wondering if we will be giving
this out at Boo Bash. Go ahead and show Blair
and read what's on the koozy. Oh, that's kind of
cool from a Riley Green song.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
So I says, watching Bama beat the hell out of Tennessee. Look,
it's right there in print.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I know the song.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
It's going to be weird when you all try to
pass those out after Tennessee beats the you know what
out of Alabama in Bright Danny Stadium at night.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
I'm still giving him out. I got to unload him everywhere.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
So I'm going to drop them off at church groups,
elementary schools.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Oh, because it says hell, yeah, that's that's okay, that's
a location, geographical, the plief you don't want to be.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
That's right.
Speaker 6 (01:00):
This is very If you don't love the Lord, then
that's why we Because Riley Green is a good just
a good gentleman from Alabama.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
And he's an Auburn fan. I forgot about that. Well,
I don't matter you're a state. I'm just saying, like
when people are like, oh, he's got a dog in
the fight, he's just like everybody else. It doesn't matter
who's he wants Tennessee to lose. That's right. We all
do all right, not me.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Don't don't say wave, I know.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Your home address. I will be shipping some of these
post taste.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
That means as fast as possible.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Spencer, I'm sorry, but don't go there with me.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
All the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's the good good
on the Spencer Grave Show. This doesn't happen all the time.
It's awesome that officers were able to assist when they could.
A deer in Michigan got caught in somebody's backyard hammock. Wait,
(02:04):
I know your picture.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
An you kind of imagining this, Yeah, and it's exactly
what you imagine.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
The deer was walking through the backyard, tried to jump
over the hammock rather than just go around. It ended
up getting all four legs stuck in the hammock, and
the hammock was just high enough to where it cradled
its belly, So the deer was having a hard time
getting its footing, but it could touch just a little bit,
so it looked like it was trying to run back
and forth, but it was just swinging in the hammock.
That's when the police showed up and they were able
(02:33):
to get this deer a dough out of this hammock
and it ran off to safety, Well.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Ran off to safety until you know a deer hunter
comes along. At least well, I mean, let's be honest
a bit, at least it got out of the hammock,
and I'm glad the plays were able to help.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
It was looking for a little rest and relaxation before
deer season. The last couple of days have been nerve racking,
to say the least. It was Friday, we got an
email from the CMA's Country Music Wards and they said, hey,
you need to be by your phone on this date
for an hour, And of course they don't say like
(03:08):
what those calls could potentially be, but we're not dumb.
We knew that that would be the day that they
would call and say, congratulations, you've won Best Radio Personality
for YadA, YadA, YadA. So we were a little ecstatic,
but we also didn't want to put all our eggs
in one basket, and then we ended up getting that phone.
Speaker 7 (03:30):
Call We're sorry the CMAS didn't call because you didn't win.
You'll have to hang up and wait for another year.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
So it was heartbreaking yesterday to see the countdown of
the hour get all the way to the end. And
my heart actually broke a little bit yesterday, Blair, when
you looked at me and said, well, it's been an hour.
I'll see you later, and you walked out of the studio.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
And that moment, I think was the first time that
I thought we're nominated for a CMA award and like,
could win it. Obviously we're joking, like we didn't get
a call that says a loser.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Of course.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I told my husband Steve, I mentioned it to my dad,
and I think everybody wanted to have this emotional moment of.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Like, oh, but you know you and I'm like, I'm good.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
I said it from the beginning, being nominated was such
an honor, and that's what I'm you know what I'm
hanging on to. There are so many people that never
even get nominated, and so I don't want to take
this as a negative or sad or anything like that.
We were nominated for a CMA Award, and that's really
(04:42):
incredible and we wouldn't be able to do it without
all of the friends at the show showing us support
day in and day out.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
It just feels the fire for next year.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
I think it is great that we didn't win our
first year.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Had we won our first year.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
And then maybe been nominated a second time and didn't win,
and I think that would have hurt worse.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
You could say that, listen. I like to be nominated
and I like to win. So yesterday, when we didn't
get the phone call, and we spent the entire hour
looking at the phone every thirty seconds, my eyes started
to hurt because I would look at the computer, I
would look at the phone, I would look at my
cell phone. I actually called our studio number to make
(05:23):
sure that the phone line was working. And you probably
didn't even notice that while we were no, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I mean I just because I knew when that hour was.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
I just kept myself busy. I mean you saw I
was over on my laptop the whole time. I was
just keeping busy, and I purposely I told two people that, hey,
if the call comes, it's coming during this time, and
that was my dad and my husband. And of course
they did really good of like not checking in every
five minutes because they probably knew like, okay, she doesn't
(05:54):
need that kind.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Of added pressure.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
But you know, at the end of the day, yeah,
of course it would have been awesome to win.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Really nice of Bobby d your dad sending me a
text yesterday and just saying that, you know, he's very
thankful for the show, and he was sad that we
didn't win, but very positive. So I appreciate that about him,
and I appreciate everybody you jumped on our social media
and was rooting for us and pulling for us. And
I got a lot of text messages yesterday about it.
But if you're just jumping on the Spencer Grave Show
(06:21):
this morning, we did not get the phone call from
the CMAS about winning. So congratulations to Moe and Stickman,
and thank you to everybody who is so supportive of
us with the CMA nomination. Don't forget CMA Awards, November nineteenth.
I need some suggestions on how I need to handle
my house slash pet sitter eight five five Graves zero Blair.
(06:42):
You know, recently I went to Philadelphia for a weekend.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
So this woman stays over in my house, watches my dogs,
and she has done an exceptional job over the last
couple of years that I've had her. But yesterday I
noticed that things may not necessarily be on the up
and up. It was a beautiful afternoon. I was like,
I'm going to open up the windows, get some natural
light in the house, maybe crack a window to get
(07:06):
some fresh air in. And when I went over to
the window behind the couch, I noticed that there was
something that didn't match the paint. So I opened up
the blinds and I reached down and I pick it up,
and it.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Was do you not have like cameras and stuff at
your house to be able to see people coming and going?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And that was a conversation that I had with a
couple friends yesterday. They said the same thing. They were like,
you're gonna have to get cameras.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Have you ever had the conversation with her? And said
she can't have people over.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't think I implicitly sat down and said like, hey,
you can't have people over, But I would just think
out of respect thing that I wouldn't bring somebody over,
and certainly find something like that.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
If you didn't say nobody can come over, you can't
assume that everybody would show the same respect for your
house as you would.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
I've had a couple of people who's said to me like, hey,
if you bring this up, you're probably going to lose
a house sitter and lose a pet sitter. She's extremely
reliable and those are so hard to find these days.
But I'm not necessarily sure the best way.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
To go about it well, And I think you have
to be careful as well, because you are a man
talking to a woman about this, and that's a very
sensitive topic when you start talking man a woman, woman
to man that kind of thing. I wouldn't be bringing
up what you found at all.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I just approach it and just say, hey, I just
want to make sure we're on the same page.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
You're saying you don't care what goes on. It's more
of a somebody being in your house that you don't know,
So that's what you need to address. Not the other,
because I think that if you go and have this
conversation with her about what you found as a woman,
I would be very uncomfortable. And I understand some people
are like, well, you should feel uncomfortable, you know, for
that happening, but it's like I would be very uncomfortable,
(08:56):
and yeah, you'd probably lose me as a house sitter.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
And I really don't want to lose her as a
house sitter and a pet sitter because she is so good.
But I don't feel like I can stay quiet and
I have to bring this up. So what would you
guys do? A five to five grave zero. Thank you
everybody who called about the house sitter pet sitter scenario
that I had. I found something in the house indicated
that there was somebody else at my house with this person,
and that makes me a little uncomfortable. A five to
(09:21):
five grave zero. If you want to jump onto the
Spencer Grave Show Facebook page, Instagram, share your thoughts there,
It's wide open for you. Terry, Good morning, Terry. What's
going on?
Speaker 8 (09:31):
Do you not think the guy actually know he lifted
there by accident?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Possibly?
Speaker 1 (09:35):
But why would he do that?
Speaker 5 (09:37):
I don't know, but yeah, like you know, the previous
caller said, I would definitely have someone witness.
Speaker 9 (09:43):
Or your idea was very good.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
The text message, I would actually do a text message
just to say we're on the same page.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
It's kind of disrespectful to have somebody over at somebody
else's house without them knowing.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Right, Yeah, I would think that she would automatically know, Hey,
I know he wouldn't want anybody here that he wouldn't know.
Speaker 10 (10:02):
I would think that would be automatically said.
Speaker 9 (10:04):
You would think.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Think some people don't think like we do. You know,
they're like, oh, well, I'm going to be here all weekend.
Surely they don't expect me to just be here alone.
And it's like, actually, no, that's exactly what.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Well, Hi, Kelly, what's going on?
Speaker 5 (10:20):
First thing I would do is be sure you have
at least two witnesses when you have that chat with her,
and make sure one of them is a woman.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Why have two witnesses? That way she.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Can't claim any kind of harassment at least with the witnesses.
Let them be sitting in a trouble having coffee or
something like that.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
But you have two witnesses, man, that feels more like
an intervention than it does a conversation you just.
Speaker 10 (10:41):
Know, don't.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
But I mean even when you're a man and she's
a woman, and this way, you know, nothing can come
up or you can't be accused of something that didn't happen.
But and let be it, be sure one of them
is a woman.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
So is it better to just do it over text
me that way there's actual receipts.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Yeah, you could do it that way.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Because I don't know where I would find two people
that want to sit in a room.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Yeah, I'm not going to be there.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah, it's like who do I call? Like just some
random like that guy paid me fifty bucks at the
convenience store to be here.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
I've worked in HR and you always have. If it's
the opposite, six, you always have at least two witnesses
and one of them being a female.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Thank you appreciate it. Should I not even talk about
what I found and just say, hey, I just want
to make sure that we're on the same page about
having visitors over at the house. I just wanted to
be you the dogs in the house.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
You can definitely start out that way, but you just
need to know that the conversation could lead to why
is this conversation coming up.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Now, and then that's when it gets uncomfortable because I'll
feel like I have to say something right.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
And again, as a male speaking to a woman.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
About this, it it's not going to be a good conversation.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
E five five grave zero. Good morning, Crystal.
Speaker 10 (12:07):
Hi. I would personally address it with my house sitter,
but with you being a male, I think that you
need to have a third person there when you have
that conversation with her and make it a female.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Yep.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
It's funny you bring this up because it's not the
first person that has kind of gone down this path
of like, Hey, first of all, it doesn't need to
be just you and her. Secondly, another female needs to
be present. I couldn't agree more.
Speaker 10 (12:34):
Yeah, and if you don't feel comfortable in saying exactly
what you sew, you just need to say, hey, listen,
I found something whenever I was opening up my window
the other day. It leaves me to believe that I
did not make it clear about past person in.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
That Crystal's phones going in and out. You bring up
a really good point, Crystal. Thank you very much for
jumping out with us today. Have a good day, Okay,
have a great day. Eight five five Graves zero. If
you found something at your house after someone was watching
or pet sitting, and it caused a little alarm, knowing
that there are other people in the house, what would
(13:12):
you do? It's How country are you? On the Spencer
Grave Show, Tracy, where are you from?
Speaker 9 (13:20):
I am from a Huntsville, Alabama?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
You feel pretty country? You sound country?
Speaker 9 (13:25):
I am very country. How So, if somebody come down
my road, you better be coming to say us.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
So there's no way, there's no mistaking that somebody would
want to turn around in your driveway.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Oh my gosh, accidentally got here.
Speaker 9 (13:42):
Well, yep, you better be coming to.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
See us, all right, Tracy. So, on a scale of
one to country, how country are you?
Speaker 9 (13:49):
I'm going to give myself a savement just to be
able to say.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
That, Okay, you're just going cautious.
Speaker 9 (13:55):
Because I know my boyfriend is listening.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
And what do you think is going to happen? Is
just gonna give you grief or something if you do
really well or not well enough.
Speaker 9 (14:04):
If I don't do well enough, he'll never.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Let me leave it down. Gotcha? All right, Well, let's
do it. We'll ask you three questions. These are scientifically
made to find out if somebody's country. You just have
to give us the right answer.
Speaker 7 (14:15):
Sound good, It sounds great.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Ranger, Triton and nitro are all kinds.
Speaker 11 (14:21):
Of what gas gas truck trucks, he said, Ranger, triton
and nitro.
Speaker 9 (14:33):
My goodness, he's gonna kill me.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Just kidding off.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
Play it every day.
Speaker 9 (14:41):
Oh, good news. I don't want to say Trump.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
You want to go with trucks, that's okay. You can
go with trucks.
Speaker 9 (14:47):
Yeah, I'm going to go with trucks.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
It's wrong, they're bass boats.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
But you know what, like, I feel like this is
a trick question, and I feel like, you know, tomato
tomato trucks thing.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
It's fine.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Question number two, when the County Fair come to town,
what's a true redneck ordering?
Speaker 9 (15:03):
Oh, you gotta have the turkey leg.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Yes, there you go.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Yeah, every time that turkey leg will it stares at you.
You start walking by, and Heaven's open up and a
beam of light comes down from our Lord and Savior Jesus,
and it says, this turkey leg has to be in
your belly.
Speaker 9 (15:25):
It does. I gotta have it now.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
The only reason why you wouldn't buy that turkey leg
is Payday hasn't happened because those things are really twenty
dollars apiece.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
It's like this is like the golden turkey leg like
that way.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Final question you're doing. Okay, what's the best thing your
granny made in the kitchen?
Speaker 9 (15:44):
Oh? My god, her homemade cat I biscuits.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
M why are they so good?
Speaker 9 (15:50):
The Lord, the Lord, the Lord, and the love that
she put into them. You can mail it the coffee.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Everything you said, the magic you said, the magic ingredient
you said, the love that she puts into it. I
don't know what it is. Grandmas have that secret ingredient
of love, and nobody else seems to replicate it.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
And you know, you can also feel when she made it,
and she was a little frustrated at you too.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Yeah, there was a difference.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Different.
Speaker 9 (16:19):
She always said, get out of my teaching.
Speaker 7 (16:22):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I don't want to see your behind in here. Hey,
nicely done today. Your boyfriend's not going to give you
any flak. You just got to brush up on your
bass boat knowledge. But you are a seven point eight.
Speaker 9 (16:32):
Okay, okay, I'll take that.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
We're gonna send you and your boyfriend or somebody else
that you choose to go to Hardy at Ryan Amphitheater
in Huntsville.
Speaker 9 (16:41):
Okay, that's great.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
What's up, Alicia?
Speaker 8 (16:43):
Oh not much. I missed out the announcement because I
was helping get green kids ready, did what's the CMA?
What's the CMA?
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Yes, well, yeah, we'll play the phone call for you.
Speaker 7 (16:55):
We're sorry the CMAS didn't call because you didn't win.
You'll have to hang Oh that's weird.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Yeah, no, they didn't call and do that. That's just
a joke. But yeah, we didn't we didn't win.
Speaker 8 (17:11):
Well tell them, I said, that's still read.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
If they did call and leave us this voicemail, We're
sorry the CMAS didn't call because you didn't win.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
You'll have to hang up and wait for another year.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I would have laughed and really respected them for it.
Speaker 6 (17:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (17:26):
I think so too. Honestly, that's better than leaving you like,
aren't read from a text. I mean, in today's technology,
do something. Tell your AI computer to send me out something.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Slide into our DMS and just say, hey, you didn't win,
but you still look nice like butter us up just
a little bit. God make us feel good by us.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
They but this denomination.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
They're like yavvy Alicia, thank you so much, appreciate your time.
Speaker 8 (17:56):
You'll have a great day.
What's going on, Dino. What did you guys end up
saying is going to be the beat? Well, we had
a couple of people who called in and they have
suggested that Blair has to sing Dixie Land Delight wearing
a Alabama jersey or I have to sing Rocky Top
wearing a Tennessee jersey at Boo Bash.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Right, So, I just got something in from our good
friend Riley Green. I'm wondering if we will be giving
this out at Boo Bash. Go ahead and show Blair
and read what's on the koozy. Oh, that's kind of
cool from a Riley Green song.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
So I says, watching Bama beat the hell out of Tennessee. Look,
it's right there in print.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I know the song.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
It's going to be weird when you all try to
pass those out after Tennessee beats the you know what
out of Alabama in Bright Danny Stadium at night.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
I'm still giving him out. I got to unload him everywhere.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
So I'm going to drop them off at church groups,
elementary schools.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Oh, because it says hell, yeah, that's that's okay, that's
a location, geographical, the plief you don't want to be.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
That's right.
Speaker 6 (01:00):
This is very If you don't love the Lord, then
that's why we Because Riley Green is a good just
a good gentleman from Alabama.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
And he's an Auburn fan. I forgot about that. Well,
I don't matter you're a state. I'm just saying, like
when people are like, oh, he's got a dog in
the fight, he's just like everybody else. It doesn't matter
who's he wants Tennessee to lose. That's right. We all
do all right, not me.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Don't don't say wave, I know.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Your home address. I will be shipping some of these
post taste.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
That means as fast as possible.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Spencer, I'm sorry, but don't go there with me.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
All the warm fuzzies and whatnot. It's the good good
on the Spencer Grave Show. This doesn't happen all the time.
It's awesome that officers were able to assist when they could.
A deer in Michigan got caught in somebody's backyard hammock. Wait,
(02:04):
I know your picture.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
An you kind of imagining this, Yeah, and it's exactly
what you imagine.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
The deer was walking through the backyard, tried to jump
over the hammock rather than just go around. It ended
up getting all four legs stuck in the hammock, and
the hammock was just high enough to where it cradled
its belly, So the deer was having a hard time
getting its footing, but it could touch just a little bit,
so it looked like it was trying to run back
and forth, but it was just swinging in the hammock.
That's when the police showed up and they were able
(02:33):
to get this deer a dough out of this hammock
and it ran off to safety, Well.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
Ran off to safety until you know a deer hunter
comes along. At least well, I mean, let's be honest
a bit, at least it got out of the hammock,
and I'm glad the plays were able to help.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
It was looking for a little rest and relaxation before
deer season. The last couple of days have been nerve racking,
to say the least. It was Friday, we got an
email from the CMA's Country Music Wards and they said, hey,
you need to be by your phone on this date
for an hour, And of course they don't say like
(03:08):
what those calls could potentially be, but we're not dumb.
We knew that that would be the day that they
would call and say, congratulations, you've won Best Radio Personality
for YadA, YadA, YadA. So we were a little ecstatic,
but we also didn't want to put all our eggs
in one basket, and then we ended up getting that phone.
Speaker 7 (03:30):
Call We're sorry the CMAS didn't call because you didn't win.
You'll have to hang up and wait for another year.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
So it was heartbreaking yesterday to see the countdown of
the hour get all the way to the end. And
my heart actually broke a little bit yesterday, Blair, when
you looked at me and said, well, it's been an hour.
I'll see you later, and you walked out of the studio.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
And that moment, I think was the first time that
I thought we're nominated for a CMA award and like,
could win it. Obviously we're joking, like we didn't get
a call that says a loser.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Of course.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I told my husband Steve, I mentioned it to my dad,
and I think everybody wanted to have this emotional moment of.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Like, oh, but you know you and I'm like, I'm good.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
I said it from the beginning, being nominated was such
an honor, and that's what I'm you know what I'm
hanging on to. There are so many people that never
even get nominated, and so I don't want to take
this as a negative or sad or anything like that.
We were nominated for a CMA Award, and that's really
(04:42):
incredible and we wouldn't be able to do it without
all of the friends at the show showing us support
day in and day out.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
It just feels the fire for next year.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
I think it is great that we didn't win our
first year.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Had we won our first year.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
And then maybe been nominated a second time and didn't win,
and I think that would have hurt worse.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
You could say that, listen. I like to be nominated
and I like to win. So yesterday, when we didn't
get the phone call, and we spent the entire hour
looking at the phone every thirty seconds, my eyes started
to hurt because I would look at the computer, I
would look at the phone, I would look at my
cell phone. I actually called our studio number to make
(05:23):
sure that the phone line was working. And you probably
didn't even notice that while we were no, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I mean I just because I knew when that hour was.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
I just kept myself busy. I mean you saw I
was over on my laptop the whole time. I was
just keeping busy, and I purposely I told two people that, hey,
if the call comes, it's coming during this time, and
that was my dad and my husband. And of course
they did really good of like not checking in every
five minutes because they probably knew like, okay, she doesn't
(05:54):
need that kind.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Of added pressure.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
But you know, at the end of the day, yeah,
of course it would have been awesome to win.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Really nice of Bobby d your dad sending me a
text yesterday and just saying that, you know, he's very
thankful for the show, and he was sad that we
didn't win, but very positive. So I appreciate that about him,
and I appreciate everybody you jumped on our social media
and was rooting for us and pulling for us. And
I got a lot of text messages yesterday about it.
But if you're just jumping on the Spencer Grave Show
(06:21):
this morning, we did not get the phone call from
the CMAS about winning. So congratulations to Moe and Stickman,
and thank you to everybody who is so supportive of
us with the CMA nomination. Don't forget CMA Awards, November nineteenth.
I need some suggestions on how I need to handle
my house slash pet sitter eight five five Graves zero Blair.
(06:42):
You know, recently I went to Philadelphia for a weekend.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
So this woman stays over in my house, watches my dogs,
and she has done an exceptional job over the last
couple of years that I've had her. But yesterday I
noticed that things may not necessarily be on the up
and up. It was a beautiful afternoon. I was like,
I'm going to open up the windows, get some natural
light in the house, maybe crack a window to get
(07:06):
some fresh air in. And when I went over to
the window behind the couch, I noticed that there was
something that didn't match the paint. So I opened up
the blinds and I reached down and I pick it up,
and it.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Was do you not have like cameras and stuff at
your house to be able to see people coming and going?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And that was a conversation that I had with a
couple friends yesterday. They said the same thing. They were like,
you're gonna have to get cameras.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
Have you ever had the conversation with her? And said
she can't have people over.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't think I implicitly sat down and said like, hey,
you can't have people over, But I would just think
out of respect thing that I wouldn't bring somebody over,
and certainly find something like that.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
If you didn't say nobody can come over, you can't
assume that everybody would show the same respect for your
house as you would.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
I've had a couple of people who's said to me like, hey,
if you bring this up, you're probably going to lose
a house sitter and lose a pet sitter. She's extremely
reliable and those are so hard to find these days.
But I'm not necessarily sure the best way.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
To go about it well, And I think you have
to be careful as well, because you are a man
talking to a woman about this, and that's a very
sensitive topic when you start talking man a woman, woman
to man that kind of thing. I wouldn't be bringing
up what you found at all.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
I just approach it and just say, hey, I just
want to make sure we're on the same page.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
You're saying you don't care what goes on. It's more
of a somebody being in your house that you don't know,
So that's what you need to address. Not the other,
because I think that if you go and have this
conversation with her about what you found as a woman,
I would be very uncomfortable. And I understand some people
are like, well, you should feel uncomfortable, you know, for
that happening, but it's like I would be very uncomfortable,
(08:56):
and yeah, you'd probably lose me as a house sitter.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
And I really don't want to lose her as a
house sitter and a pet sitter because she is so good.
But I don't feel like I can stay quiet and
I have to bring this up. So what would you
guys do? A five to five grave zero. Thank you
everybody who called about the house sitter pet sitter scenario
that I had. I found something in the house indicated
that there was somebody else at my house with this person,
and that makes me a little uncomfortable. A five to
(09:21):
five grave zero. If you want to jump onto the
Spencer Grave Show Facebook page, Instagram, share your thoughts there,
It's wide open for you. Terry, Good morning, Terry. What's
going on?
Speaker 8 (09:31):
Do you not think the guy actually know he lifted
there by accident?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Possibly?
Speaker 1 (09:35):
But why would he do that?
Speaker 5 (09:37):
I don't know, but yeah, like you know, the previous
caller said, I would definitely have someone witness.
Speaker 9 (09:43):
Or your idea was very good.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
The text message, I would actually do a text message
just to say we're on the same page.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
It's kind of disrespectful to have somebody over at somebody
else's house without them knowing.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Right, Yeah, I would think that she would automatically know, Hey,
I know he wouldn't want anybody here that he wouldn't know.
Speaker 10 (10:02):
I would think that would be automatically said.
Speaker 9 (10:04):
You would think.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Think some people don't think like we do. You know,
they're like, oh, well, I'm going to be here all weekend.
Surely they don't expect me to just be here alone.
And it's like, actually, no, that's exactly what.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Well, Hi, Kelly, what's going on?
Speaker 5 (10:20):
First thing I would do is be sure you have
at least two witnesses when you have that chat with her,
and make sure one of them is a woman.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Why have two witnesses? That way she.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Can't claim any kind of harassment at least with the witnesses.
Let them be sitting in a trouble having coffee or
something like that.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
But you have two witnesses, man, that feels more like
an intervention than it does a conversation you just.
Speaker 10 (10:41):
Know, don't.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
But I mean even when you're a man and she's
a woman, and this way, you know, nothing can come
up or you can't be accused of something that didn't happen.
But and let be it, be sure one of them
is a woman.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
So is it better to just do it over text
me that way there's actual receipts.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Yeah, you could do it that way.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Because I don't know where I would find two people
that want to sit in a room.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Yeah, I'm not going to be there.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah, it's like who do I call? Like just some
random like that guy paid me fifty bucks at the
convenience store to be here.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
I've worked in HR and you always have. If it's
the opposite, six, you always have at least two witnesses
and one of them being a female.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Thank you appreciate it. Should I not even talk about
what I found and just say, hey, I just want
to make sure that we're on the same page about
having visitors over at the house. I just wanted to
be you the dogs in the house.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
You can definitely start out that way, but you just
need to know that the conversation could lead to why
is this conversation coming up.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Now, and then that's when it gets uncomfortable because I'll
feel like I have to say something right.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
And again, as a male speaking to a woman.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
About this, it it's not going to be a good conversation.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
E five five grave zero. Good morning, Crystal.
Speaker 10 (12:07):
Hi. I would personally address it with my house sitter,
but with you being a male, I think that you
need to have a third person there when you have
that conversation with her and make it a female.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Yep.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
It's funny you bring this up because it's not the
first person that has kind of gone down this path
of like, Hey, first of all, it doesn't need to
be just you and her. Secondly, another female needs to
be present. I couldn't agree more.
Speaker 10 (12:34):
Yeah, and if you don't feel comfortable in saying exactly
what you sew, you just need to say, hey, listen,
I found something whenever I was opening up my window
the other day. It leaves me to believe that I
did not make it clear about past person in.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
That Crystal's phones going in and out. You bring up
a really good point, Crystal. Thank you very much for
jumping out with us today. Have a good day, Okay,
have a great day. Eight five five Graves zero. If
you found something at your house after someone was watching
or pet sitting, and it caused a little alarm, knowing
that there are other people in the house, what would
(13:12):
you do? It's How country are you? On the Spencer
Grave Show, Tracy, where are you from?
Speaker 9 (13:20):
I am from a Huntsville, Alabama?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
You feel pretty country? You sound country?
Speaker 9 (13:25):
I am very country. How So, if somebody come down
my road, you better be coming to say us.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
So there's no way, there's no mistaking that somebody would
want to turn around in your driveway.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Oh my gosh, accidentally got here.
Speaker 9 (13:42):
Well, yep, you better be coming to.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
See us, all right, Tracy. So, on a scale of
one to country, how country are you?
Speaker 9 (13:49):
I'm going to give myself a savement just to be
able to say.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
That, Okay, you're just going cautious.
Speaker 9 (13:55):
Because I know my boyfriend is listening.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
And what do you think is going to happen? Is
just gonna give you grief or something if you do
really well or not well enough.
Speaker 9 (14:04):
If I don't do well enough, he'll never.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Let me leave it down. Gotcha? All right, Well, let's
do it. We'll ask you three questions. These are scientifically
made to find out if somebody's country. You just have
to give us the right answer.
Speaker 7 (14:15):
Sound good, It sounds great.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Ranger, Triton and nitro are all kinds.
Speaker 11 (14:21):
Of what gas gas truck trucks, he said, Ranger, triton
and nitro.
Speaker 9 (14:33):
My goodness, he's gonna kill me.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Just kidding off.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
Play it every day.
Speaker 9 (14:41):
Oh, good news. I don't want to say Trump.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
You want to go with trucks, that's okay. You can
go with trucks.
Speaker 9 (14:47):
Yeah, I'm going to go with trucks.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
It's wrong, they're bass boats.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
But you know what, like, I feel like this is
a trick question, and I feel like, you know, tomato
tomato trucks thing.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
It's fine.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Question number two, when the County Fair come to town,
what's a true redneck ordering?
Speaker 9 (15:03):
Oh, you gotta have the turkey leg.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Yes, there you go.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Yeah, every time that turkey leg will it stares at you.
You start walking by, and Heaven's open up and a
beam of light comes down from our Lord and Savior Jesus,
and it says, this turkey leg has to be in
your belly.
Speaker 9 (15:25):
It does. I gotta have it now.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
The only reason why you wouldn't buy that turkey leg
is Payday hasn't happened because those things are really twenty
dollars apiece.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
It's like this is like the golden turkey leg like
that way.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Final question you're doing. Okay, what's the best thing your
granny made in the kitchen?
Speaker 9 (15:44):
Oh? My god, her homemade cat I biscuits.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
M why are they so good?
Speaker 9 (15:50):
The Lord, the Lord, the Lord, and the love that
she put into them. You can mail it the coffee.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Everything you said, the magic you said, the magic ingredient
you said, the love that she puts into it. I
don't know what it is. Grandmas have that secret ingredient
of love, and nobody else seems to replicate it.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
And you know, you can also feel when she made it,
and she was a little frustrated at you too.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Yeah, there was a difference.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Different.
Speaker 9 (16:19):
She always said, get out of my teaching.
Speaker 7 (16:22):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I don't want to see your behind in here. Hey,
nicely done today. Your boyfriend's not going to give you
any flak. You just got to brush up on your
bass boat knowledge. But you are a seven point eight.
Speaker 9 (16:32):
Okay, okay, I'll take that.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
We're gonna send you and your boyfriend or somebody else
that you choose to go to Hardy at Ryan Amphitheater
in Huntsville.
Speaker 9 (16:41):
Okay, that's great.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
What's up, Alicia?
Speaker 8 (16:43):
Oh not much. I missed out the announcement because I
was helping get green kids ready, did what's the CMA?
What's the CMA?
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Yes, well, yeah, we'll play the phone call for you.
Speaker 7 (16:55):
We're sorry the CMAS didn't call because you didn't win.
You'll have to hang Oh that's weird.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Yeah, no, they didn't call and do that. That's just
a joke. But yeah, we didn't we didn't win.
Speaker 8 (17:11):
Well tell them, I said, that's still read.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
If they did call and leave us this voicemail, We're
sorry the CMAS didn't call because you didn't win.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
You'll have to hang up and wait for another year.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I would have laughed and really respected them for it.
Speaker 6 (17:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (17:26):
I think so too. Honestly, that's better than leaving you like,
aren't read from a text. I mean, in today's technology,
do something. Tell your AI computer to send me out something.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Slide into our DMS and just say, hey, you didn't win,
but you still look nice like butter us up just
a little bit. God make us feel good by us.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
They but this denomination.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
They're like yavvy Alicia, thank you so much, appreciate your time.
Speaker 8 (17:56):
You'll have a great day.
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