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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Because you're waking up in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Kiss.
Speaker 3 (00:03):
All right, we're gonna talk dating preferences, deal breakers or
is it just a quirk? Did you hear about this
new Tender feature? Quirk quirk quirk quirk Tender and a
part of their premium subscription, which I think is in
the forty dollars range. If you're paying forty dollars for Tender,
will you please reach out to me direct. I'm an alien.
I'm an alien in the dating world because I haven't
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used a dating app before. And but you bet, you
bet your ass if I were to get on a
dating app, that would be like my prompt like I
knew here, I've never been here, Like it's like a
badge of honor that I've never been on one. No,
I just don't connect with people over photographs, so I've
never felt the desire to get on the app.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
That's my reasoning behind it.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
But nonetheless, you can now set a preference for your
height requirements for someone that you're dating, and I find
that so.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Like bizarre, not bizarre, that's not the right word.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
I'm I'm supposed to be a woman of words, and
it's the word I want is not coming to me
this morning as someone that is a personality higher and
I connect deeply, like to someone's soul and just like
their personality and their values and whatnot, and where like
looks kind of come second to me, Like I tend
to fall for people and their vibe and their energy
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before I fall for their look. Setting a preference for
a height on a dating app just seems to me
like you are throwing away an opportunity to meet someone
that you really deeply connect with. But that's a core
value of mine, is connection. But I absolutely no. You
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are listening right now and you're like, TIF, I'm sorry.
I just can't date a guy that's shorter than the meme.
I'll take it a step further. Someone that I heavily
considered dating in my life. You know, a really good
friend of mine. We we were really good friends, and
I thought, maybe, hey, there's a chance that we're going
down a path of potentially starting relationship together. Long story short,
We had a common about it, and we decided we'd
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be better as friends.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
But how adult is that?
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
He and I are same height.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
We lock eye to like, eye to I, I look
directly into his eyeballs. I don't look up, I don't
look down. We are we are the exact same height.
And so when had asked me, they're like, well, like
you guys are the same height. I'm like, it doesn't
bother me. Shout out to my short kings, what's up?
But I get I'm a personality higher another reason. You know,
I don't really connect with people on apps, but.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
I could be alone in this. Is it a deal breaker?
Is it just a quirk?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
What is your deal breaker in dating? We've already got
talkbacks rolling in, so just be a part of this
conversation at your leisure this morning. What are your what
are your rules?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
What are you where you got? Okay, So if a
guy's car is a mess, it's over. I'm done it.
It's definitely like everything else is a mess there.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
So I always check out not the kind of car,
but like the condition of the car.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Early, you're speaking of my soul. I do that with
my friends. It's not even someone i'm dating. Only what's
the status of the car.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
All right, let's get that tire shine five one three
seven nine one seven one. Shout out to my short kings,
is it a deal breaker or not?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Who already stand on.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
This good morning, and you know what, good morning specifically
to my short kings. You're waking up with TIF in
the morning on kiss one oh seven one, just listening to.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
You talking about the short kings. Yah huh, Well, I,
as one of short king would like to say that,
you know, funny enough, I actually dated a girl that
was about five nine five can I was climbing that
tree all day, baby Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Thank you for the talk back with TIF.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
You two give me a part of the show every
single day for free at your convenience when you search
kiss on. I heard the microphone is in the top
right hand corner.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
It's like leaving me.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
A voice note, which I love voice notes, so doesn't it's.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
We're in the midst of time if you're just walking
into the conversation. Good monk Tender added the new feature
where you can set a height preference. And I know
that there are some listening right now that are like, yeah,
it's just without a doubt, could never date someone shorter
than me, or vice versa tall, or whatever the case
may be.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
And I don't agree with that.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
But my core value in the relationship world is connection,
and I'm not going to eliminate someone just because of
their height.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
So is it a quirk or is it a dating rule?
Is it a quirk? What are your rules? You can
comment on the height, you can comment on whatever you want.
I'm at school, so no kissing on the first date,
but like day two are off.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Okay, you only need to get just day two and
we just need to get to date two. The person
that I'm seeing right now, we had gone out on
probably a dozen dates, so Tom Brady. I'd mentioned Tom
Brady on the show before. We had gone out on
a dozen or so dates, before we had even shared
our first kiss. I love the slow Burn. Guys, welcome
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to the slow Burn. We've got time for one.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I wants to be a non smoker. I'm mathematic. I
just think it's smelf disgusting. It It's just I hate
the smell. It's just grosses me out on their clothes.
I mean, if you ever kissed someone that smokes, it's nasty.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
And oddly enough, I find the actual smoking kind of
hot that it's really not.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
The three big ones that come up a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I feel like are smoking kids In Height episode