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August 19, 2025 9 mins
Tiff is seeking advice on whther this question she wants to ask is a red flag, or helpful? 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You're waking up with in the morning kiss.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
If I were to ask the man that I'm dating
this question, would it be a red flag?

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Good morning? Bobby's at studio.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
He's our social media manager.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Is that what you want to be today? As is
the manager? Okay? Sometimes I say director, sometimes I say leader.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
You're familiar with the fact that I'm dating somebody, have
been for about six months now, and I like. I
like so much, I like so much that I'm gonna
I am considering asking this one question, but I can't
tell if it's going to be a little bit of
a red flaggy a boundary thing, if it'll be even

(00:42):
a masculating And I figured you'd be a good person
for this.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Oh yeah, okay, I'm so masculine.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, hit me, all right.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
Everyone knows, especially you see students getting ready to move
in today.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
September one is a mass of move in date.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
And when you move apartments, it costs a lot of money.
When you go and you buy a house. When you're moving,
it costs a lot of money to do that. And
oftentimes you're in in transition with the house and whatnot.
You've got to wait for this security deposit to come
back on one to get you know.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
The moving truck and the deposit on the next one. Sure.
So right around this time of the month.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
A lot of money is going out and it's and
you're just kind of stuck in a position where you're struggling.
And so we're chit chatting a little bit, and he's
getting ready to move into a new apartment while his
house sells okay, and he's waiting for the lump sum
of money that would come from when your house sells.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
So he's you know, venting to me.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
We've been together long enough to you know, to vent
and talk and whatnot. I am fighting everything in my
being right now to say, hey, do you want me
to loan you some money?

Speaker 1 (01:54):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:56):
I think that's not a horrible idea, Although I doubt
he will accept it. I feel like, I don't think
it's a red flag. I don't like I think if
you asked, he wouldn't be like pissed off at you
or anything. I think he might just be like, uh, no,
question mark.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Like period, Like I then is it gonna get weird? Uh?

Speaker 3 (02:17):
It could? It depends on how secure he is with himself,
because it's not like you're out here calling him broke,
but at the same time, like he might be like,
what does she think of me that she's asking do
I need to borrow money?

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Right?

Speaker 3 (02:31):
But it sounds like he might have to.

Speaker 4 (02:33):
Well, I.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
No, he didn't tell me, you know, hey, this is
what I have left, this is what I need.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
I mean, we didn't really get into the nitty.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Gritty of that, Okay, But where I'm coming from in
my heart and my soul and my spirit is, hey,
someone that I'm close with, any person that I'm close with,
might be struggling at the moment, or like, even if
you're not struggling, and I could just give you a
little bit of a leg up, and it's just sitting
in my bank account, why not be like, hey, you
want me to write you a check or venmo you
some cash?

Speaker 1 (03:01):
Like here you go.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
But we aren't even technically boyfriend and girlfriend yet.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Oh yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and say, don't ask
him that unless he keeps complaining about it, you know
what I mean?

Speaker 1 (03:14):
So then what what should I say when he vents to.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Me just say, oh, do you want to borrow some
money for a little bit?

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Is that emasculating?

Speaker 3 (03:23):
It depends on how secure he is with himself.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Okay, let's do this five one three seven four nine
one O seven one.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
I need some input here.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
If you are newly dating someone and they're in a
little you're not at a point, You're just at that
new like transitional dating point and they need help, how
would you one ever offer them money?

Speaker 1 (03:44):
Or two?

Speaker 5 (03:44):
Like?

Speaker 1 (03:44):
Have you given them money?

Speaker 4 (03:45):
Like?

Speaker 1 (03:46):
What should I do? How do I approach this situation?

Speaker 2 (03:48):
I feel like a new baby bird find one three
seven nine seven one or talk back with Tiff on
iHeartRadio while you're hanging out.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
O't forget.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
At seven thirty, we've got our next name for our
twenty one pilots tike tag so don'ncle far Hi, good morning,
you're waking up. It's him in the morning on a
kiss one oh seva one commercial free in a few
minutes out from calling our first Instagram handle for our
twenty one pilot's ticket tag.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
Hi, good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 5 (04:13):
Well I used to I currently am just started a
relationship and I'm in like head gold. We just started
and he's already helping me out with a lot. So
my thoughts are don't be ashamed of it. Just see
if the home like, it doesn't matter.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Okay, it's okay, thank you. What's your name? What neighborho
ad you waking up with Meiam?

Speaker 5 (04:33):
Hailey, Haylee.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Thanks so much for the call.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
If you're just walking into the conversation, let me catch
you up to speed quick.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
Here.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
So I'm six months into dating someone that a really
lay and he was venting to me the other day
about how money's a little tight at the moment because
he's in the midst of doing one thing and starting another,
essentially moving into a new place and waiting for the
other one to sell. And I I am wondering, hmm,

(05:01):
should I offer my services in money, like if I
have it sitting in my account?

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Should I say, hey, do you want some money?

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Like?

Speaker 1 (05:12):
I don't know?

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Is this a good question? Ask a bad question? A
red flag? So we're getting input from Cincinnati.

Speaker 4 (05:17):
Hi, Okay, So I missed the part about how long.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
Y'all have been Dayton six months?

Speaker 4 (05:22):
Six months and you're not boyfriend and girlfriend girl.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
I take things very very very slow. I like, very
very slow.

Speaker 4 (05:31):
Okay, but just asking. Okay, So I miss the part
about how he's been complaining about the money, like how
much is it seeming like he's complaining?

Speaker 1 (05:42):
Oh, not a lot.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
It's just right now, a little bit of like venting
of like, oh, I'm just overwhelmed and I'm stressed at
the moment, and I'm fighting everything inside of me to
be like, hey, do you want my help? You know,
I just don't know if I should offer it or
if I should just let him vent and figure it
out on his own.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
If it was a couple, i'd say don't. But six months,
I think is long enough that you know what I mean,
but don't do too much, Like it's if it's one
hundred dollars, is something that could just help him through, okay,
something manageable, Okay, because it absolutely is masculating. I am

(06:19):
forty five years old. I've been through a lot of
relationships and it always comes back to at some point
that's going to become an ishame.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
You're waking up with saf in the morning on just
one oh seven to one.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
All right, I'm looking for miss x Tina m I
ss x t I naaa. It's our twenty one pilot's ticket, Tack.
I didn't turn on your mic. Sorry, Bobby. You're a
social media manager, do you understand this contest.

Speaker 1 (06:50):
You can be honest with me.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's new I want, well I do now I did
not before. So they tag a friend on the post,
but then they need to tune in and if they
miss their name then they don't win.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Correct. Oh, it's a new thing.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
I wanted to try, and now I'm embarrassed if you
don't understand.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
Well, I didn't have anything to do with this contest,
so I wasn't really paying attention.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
It's our twenty one Pilot's ticket tag.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
You go to the Instagram post, tag someone in it,
and then just listen for your handle at seven thirty.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
What if they can't, well, then I guess don't enter. Yeah,
then you can't win anyways.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
So miss x Tina, there are three a's at that
m I, ss XTI, and naaa.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
I hope she's listening.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
I really hope Tina is listening. If you know miss
x Tina, hit her up.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
You have ten minutes and seven seconds to call me
back at five one three seven four nine one oh
seven one. While we await her call for our twenty
one Pilot's Ticket tag, we're in the midst of chit
chatting about Hey, if you're dating someone and they are
struggling up. I really don't like using that word because
this is my own life and I'm trying to be
really protective of it.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
But I'm also trying to be honest and transparent.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Person I'm dating is moving and transition, and funds are
a little tight and tough for people who are selling
a house and waiting for the funds to come in.
And I'm fighting everything in my being to be to
not be like, Hey, do you want me to loan
you some money? Good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 5 (08:12):
I say, absolutely not.

Speaker 4 (08:14):
You're not even boyfriend girlfriend yet. Don't offer to lend
him money if he asks. Maybe, but I know people.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
You cut out a little bit there. Thank you, Thank
you for your input.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
So far, we've gotten almost all one hundred percent knows they're.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
Really upset that you're not boyfriend and girlfriend either.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
You're waking up with Tiff in the morning on just
one O seven to one. Good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
Hey, this is miss Sextina.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
Someone was listening.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
Yeah, Bobby, you're good. You brought the good luck. Hi,
miss Xtina. What's your real name?

Speaker 5 (08:47):
Christina?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Christina? What neighborhood you waking up with me and.

Speaker 5 (08:51):
I'm actually in Georgia.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
Oh my god, Oh my god, what's going on? What's
going on in Georgia?

Speaker 4 (08:58):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (08:58):
Nothing, I'm all right.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
My son's listening to and he's freaking out.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
Well, thank you for listening to Tiff in the Morning
on the iHeartRadio app. You're going to twenty one Pilot's
at TQL Stadium next month?

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Are you going to make the drive to Cincy?

Speaker 4 (09:12):
I would make that drive.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Well, thank you so much for listening.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
I hope I've been able to provide you a little
bit of Cincinnati goodness in Georgia. How do you feel
about our city from based off of the conversation you've heard.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
Oh, I've actually been really enjoying it.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
I've been enjoying starting my morning I put it.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
Oh, I appreciate that.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
We'll see you here in Cinci in a bottom mile
at twenty one Pilot's coming to TQL Stadium. Every day
we do our twenty one Pilot's Ticket tag at seven thirty,
you have a chance to tag whoever it is that
you want to bring to the show on our top
pin post on Instagram and listen for your name tomorrow
coming up in three minutes. I've got the three things
you need to know to get your day started. In Sincy,

(09:50):
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