December 19, 2025 • 6 mins
Adam and Kate from OKC Went out after meeting on Tinder. Was this supposed to be a quick hit or the love of a lifetime? We find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is j Amanda and j Rob's second date update
on kJ one O three Kate from Okay see on
the second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hi Kate, Hell, Hi, Hey guys, how's it going well?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
I mean, we're just surprised that you're confused that why
it didn't work a tender date, Why a tender date
isn't going anywhere? Right?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Am?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I correct?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
That's correct. Do you want me to just tell you
about it? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah, okay, tell us about your thing with Adam and
then we'll try to get him on the air and
figure out why you're not going out.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Okay, Yeah. I met Adam on tender He's super hot,
like his shirt was like the whole shirt all at
the lake, just hot, hot hot, Like.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I was just good thing.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
So I was damn, But I mean it wasn't damn.
It was like, wow, I fled out, told him that
he's hot, and I want to see those ads like
in real life. That was really flurrity. I'm not a
shame to let a man like no when I want
him kind of thing. Sure, it's good for you, thank you.
So we met up for drinks a few weeks back,
and I wasn't shy about my intentions at all, like
(00:59):
some things we could do together, Like I would tell them,
we kind of like lead them on to what we
could do together. I don't know if I came on
too strong, but I don't know. I just I was
totally ghosted after that, So I'm like, come on, dude,
we met on Tinder.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Well maybe you didn't come.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
On strong enough.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
It's tender, so I don't know. Right, Let's okay, we'll
get we will get Adam on the phone, and we
will try to figure out what's going on here, because yes,
you need to you need to to play with those
delicious abs. I don't know, I've never heard you say
the words delicious abs. But I don't have game hold
(01:38):
on a second Kate.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Okay, all right, The Second Date Update with TJ, Amanda
and j Rod on kJ one three.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Adam, Welcome to the Second Date Update. Man, thank you, Kate.
I know you guys met on Tinder, so I don't
know what expectations were, a lot of times they're not
a second date. But Kate's like, you were hot, she
told you you're hot, you want to go out again
and like have some fun with you, and you're just
completely ghosting her.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So why well, let me let me just tell you this.
She's either delusional or she needs some self awareness. Why well,
just because like her pick on Tinder showed her face,
which was, you know, to be fair beautiful. And then
I asked about her body, Adam. Guy, guys, it's I know.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Me about your body?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
That is all right? So she she tells me to
you know, that her body is for me to find
out in person, and that she's small framed, you know,
which is usually my type. And then I see her
in person and she is not small framed. If anything,
she's like the definition of big bones.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Oh what is that?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Hey Adam, Yeah this is kat. Wow.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So you're calling me fat? Now?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, I didn't say I'm fat. Just say I'm fat,
like I don't think you were. Yeah. I didn't say fat,
I said big bone.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah that means fat, and I'm I'm not fat. By
the way.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Hello, I don't think I don't I don't think not that.
But you are bigger than my usual type.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
That's all. Please please explain why I'm not supposed to
be offended by this, Amanda. You just gave an old boy.
What are you thinking? I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Maybe this is like tender roles are different, but like
you're not. You don't need to cut it on a
woman's body at.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
All, like you.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
But so what do you So you say you're not
calling her fat when you call her big bones, which
which I always thought was a nice way to call
someone fat.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
This bone, to me is not It's not about weight.
It just means that her frame is big, bigger than
like we're just bigger than I'm normally attracted to.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Okay, okay, I don't, I don't understand, but whatever is fine.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Hey, I mean your face though, is my type? Okay,
please stop, just stop talking.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Okay, you're not getting there, all right, So that's it.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
You're out. You're not going to date her because the
bones aren't the size that you usually date. You're just
gonna let it go. Yeah, okay, Unfortunately we can we
can make it fortunate. I mean, okay, Adam, We'll let
you go, buddy, Thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Okay, bye, all right?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yeah, what are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
I do?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I hope he dies alone. Really, I'm just so wow
he is. So that was very hurtful. I always thought
I had like a small frame, but I guess I'm
big bone now, you know, Yes, I mean yeah, I'm tall.
I'm like, I'm like one hundred and forty nine pounds.
It's anything. I'm average, yesty, perfectly.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
No, no, and don't let someone take your shine.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
You're beautiful. Yeah, yeah, thank you and that.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
He's into cool, but like, find a nicer way to
say it.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Well, Kate, sorry about all this, but thanks for coming
on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
My beautiful queen. That's right, that's what I'm calling you.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
By bye, all right, permission to sound kind of sexist.
I get what he's saying. I get what he's saying,
and it has nothing to do with You're right, you
shouldn't talk about a person's body, true, but I think
there is a difference between a small frame and a
big bone frame that has nothing to do with how
skinny or fat you are. And there's a type. I
(05:40):
wouldn't date someone with a bigger frame because I'm a
tiny guy, like and I'm overweight.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I like dudes with beards, but like, I'm not gonna
not date you and go We'll grow a beard and
then we'll see how it goes, you know what I mean, Like,
I'm not going to just say that to their peace.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Well, no, you can't change your bones, is what I'm
saying with them.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Which is even more of a problem one when you
announce that that's the reason you don't want to date.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Well, we asked. He didn't say that, he just quit
dating her. But can we agree that there is a
frame size that you like and that would work with you?
And I couldn't. I would feel comfortable with dating someone
with a bigger frame size. Sarah's been overweight, but Sarah
has a frame that's compatible to my frame. If he
likes normally a tiny frame, it's not about weight, it's
(06:24):
not about fat, and she's a bigger frame.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
I mean, I typically dated giant, giant men and my
boyfriend now is not that at all. And I don't
care because I just like the person.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
That's great, but his preference is a certain type.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Right and wrong with that I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Okay, maybe someone can clarify or say that I'm completely
wrong and you think I'm a pig. I don't care.
I'm not a pig. But if I'm actually like a pig,
call me out, because I don't want to be a pig.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
We got.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Okay, we'll get to those next four h five, four six,
one O two seven, if you want to chime in
on that,
This is j Amanda and j Rob's second date update
on kJ one O three Kate from Okay see on
the second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hi Kate, Hell, Hi, Hey guys, how's it going well?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
I mean, we're just surprised that you're confused that why
it didn't work a tender date, Why a tender date
isn't going anywhere? Right?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Am?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I correct?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
That's correct. Do you want me to just tell you
about it? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah, okay, tell us about your thing with Adam and
then we'll try to get him on the air and
figure out why you're not going out.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Okay, Yeah. I met Adam on tender He's super hot,
like his shirt was like the whole shirt all at
the lake, just hot, hot hot, Like.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I was just good thing.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
So I was damn, But I mean it wasn't damn.
It was like, wow, I fled out, told him that
he's hot, and I want to see those ads like
in real life. That was really flurrity. I'm not a
shame to let a man like no when I want
him kind of thing. Sure, it's good for you, thank you.
So we met up for drinks a few weeks back,
and I wasn't shy about my intentions at all, like
(00:59):
some things we could do together, Like I would tell them,
we kind of like lead them on to what we
could do together. I don't know if I came on
too strong, but I don't know. I just I was
totally ghosted after that, So I'm like, come on, dude,
we met on Tinder.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Well maybe you didn't come.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
On strong enough.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
It's tender, so I don't know. Right, Let's okay, we'll
get we will get Adam on the phone, and we
will try to figure out what's going on here, because yes,
you need to you need to to play with those
delicious abs. I don't know, I've never heard you say
the words delicious abs. But I don't have game hold
(01:38):
on a second Kate.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Okay, all right, The Second Date Update with TJ, Amanda
and j Rod on kJ one three.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Adam, Welcome to the Second Date Update. Man, thank you, Kate.
I know you guys met on Tinder, so I don't
know what expectations were, a lot of times they're not
a second date. But Kate's like, you were hot, she
told you you're hot, you want to go out again
and like have some fun with you, and you're just
completely ghosting her.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So why well, let me let me just tell you this.
She's either delusional or she needs some self awareness. Why well,
just because like her pick on Tinder showed her face,
which was, you know, to be fair beautiful. And then
I asked about her body, Adam. Guy, guys, it's I know.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Me about your body?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
That is all right? So she she tells me to
you know, that her body is for me to find
out in person, and that she's small framed, you know,
which is usually my type. And then I see her
in person and she is not small framed. If anything,
she's like the definition of big bones.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Oh what is that?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Hey Adam, Yeah this is kat. Wow.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So you're calling me fat? Now?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Wait?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, I didn't say I'm fat. Just say I'm fat,
like I don't think you were. Yeah. I didn't say fat,
I said big bone.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah that means fat, and I'm I'm not fat. By
the way.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Hello, I don't think I don't I don't think not that.
But you are bigger than my usual type.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
That's all. Please please explain why I'm not supposed to
be offended by this, Amanda. You just gave an old boy.
What are you thinking? I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Maybe this is like tender roles are different, but like
you're not. You don't need to cut it on a
woman's body at.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
All, like you.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
But so what do you So you say you're not
calling her fat when you call her big bones, which
which I always thought was a nice way to call
someone fat.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
This bone, to me is not It's not about weight.
It just means that her frame is big, bigger than
like we're just bigger than I'm normally attracted to.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Okay, okay, I don't, I don't understand, but whatever is fine.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Hey, I mean your face though, is my type? Okay,
please stop, just stop talking.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Okay, you're not getting there, all right, So that's it.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
You're out. You're not going to date her because the
bones aren't the size that you usually date. You're just
gonna let it go. Yeah, okay, Unfortunately we can we
can make it fortunate. I mean, okay, Adam, We'll let
you go, buddy, Thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Okay, bye, all right?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yeah, what are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
I do?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I hope he dies alone. Really, I'm just so wow
he is. So that was very hurtful. I always thought
I had like a small frame, but I guess I'm
big bone now, you know, Yes, I mean yeah, I'm tall.
I'm like, I'm like one hundred and forty nine pounds.
It's anything. I'm average, yesty, perfectly.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
No, no, and don't let someone take your shine.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
You're beautiful. Yeah, yeah, thank you and that.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
He's into cool, but like, find a nicer way to
say it.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Well, Kate, sorry about all this, but thanks for coming
on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
My beautiful queen. That's right, that's what I'm calling you.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
By bye, all right, permission to sound kind of sexist.
I get what he's saying. I get what he's saying,
and it has nothing to do with You're right, you
shouldn't talk about a person's body, true, but I think
there is a difference between a small frame and a
big bone frame that has nothing to do with how
skinny or fat you are. And there's a type. I
(05:40):
wouldn't date someone with a bigger frame because I'm a
tiny guy, like and I'm overweight.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I like dudes with beards, but like, I'm not gonna
not date you and go We'll grow a beard and
then we'll see how it goes, you know what I mean, Like,
I'm not going to just say that to their peace.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Well, no, you can't change your bones, is what I'm
saying with them.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Which is even more of a problem one when you
announce that that's the reason you don't want to date.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Well, we asked. He didn't say that, he just quit
dating her. But can we agree that there is a
frame size that you like and that would work with you?
And I couldn't. I would feel comfortable with dating someone
with a bigger frame size. Sarah's been overweight, but Sarah
has a frame that's compatible to my frame. If he
likes normally a tiny frame, it's not about weight, it's
(06:24):
not about fat, and she's a bigger frame.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
I mean, I typically dated giant, giant men and my
boyfriend now is not that at all. And I don't
care because I just like the person.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
That's great, but his preference is a certain type.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Right and wrong with that I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Okay, maybe someone can clarify or say that I'm completely
wrong and you think I'm a pig. I don't care.
I'm not a pig. But if I'm actually like a pig,
call me out, because I don't want to be a pig.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
We got.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Okay, we'll get to those next four h five, four six,
one O two seven, if you want to chime in
on that,
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