October 1, 2025 • 7 mins
Alex and Courtney from OKC met at Trader Joe's. Went out, and you would have thought with the shared love of TJ's (not our TJ, Trader Joe's lol)" it might be enough to at least get a 2nd Date. So we will need to find out what happened here. No cookie butter?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one O three. Alex from
OKC on the second date update, How you doing Alex?
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good? Good good? This is you met Courtney's. This is
one of those rom com things right.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Kind of you know, like wow, grocery store meetings.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
It was that like meet cute or whatever. Yeah, like
it was totally random.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Chances to Trader Joe's and we were both in line
buying the same thing.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Do you try those peanut butter puffs?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yes, yes, and they're cheap.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
That's why I get them for a snack all the time.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Yes, because he's cheap. Oh, get in line.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So yeah, we were in line together and she she
had him too, so we started chatting and then it
was like ten minutes, fifteen minutes immediate connection.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
So it was great. I was like, wow, this never happens.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
So I asked her if she wanted to grab dinner
sometime and she said yes.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
So we met at Flips a few days later. Nice. Yeah,
I mean I thought it went really well.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
We talked for like two hours and had dinner and everything,
but now I don't know. I mean I text her
the next day like Hey, I had a great time.
We should hang in soon and nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
A couple of days followed up, still nothing. Did I
mean it's I don't know. I don't usually misread things
this badly, But did I miss read the whole night?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
I don't know. Okay, maybe you did.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Maybe she was very politely not interested, or maybe there's
something else going on and we can get her to,
you know, go go on another date.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Okay. I would love to know and figure it out.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Yeah, okay, all right, cool, Well you know how you're crossed. Well,
we'll get her on the phone and we'll do that
coming up. Okay, all right, all right, we'll take a break,
play a couple of songs and see what's up there.
With the second date update, kJ went out three, TJ
Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Yeah, the second date update with TJ, Amanda and j
Rod on KJE three.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
We got Courtney the second date update.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Thanks for coming on, Courtney.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Hey Courtney, Hey, hey, problem Alex told us the story
about how you kind of had a rom com meeting
at Trader Joe's. He must be misreading it because you
don't want to go out again, or at least he
can't get you to even text him back right now? So,
so are you avoiding Alex? Or what's going on? Why
are you avoiding another date?
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Here?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
He was really sweet, but there was just something I
couldn't really get pasted. Okay, okay, he he eats really weird.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
More? He like has like he doesn't hold the silverware properly,
like he's he full on grips them like a shovel,
like like muppet style.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Like like animal holding the drumsticks like that.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Like like he was like elbows up, hunched over the
you know, like hunt over the plate like a raccoon
protecting like rash or something like. I kept thinking, I
don't know, maybe he hurt his hand, but like no,
like that's just how he was eating, just like full
on stabbing his plate.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Okay, okay, okay, but not like you like like like
that warm up, like like a muppet that without a
posable fault. Thought, well, Alex, come on in here, is
this is this how you eat?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Like a.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
I don't know, I mean, I what do I say?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
That?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
That's just how I've always eaten, Like nobody's ever had
an issue with it.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I don't know I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Really, Like nobody has ever pulled you aside and said, hey, man,
maybe loosen up the death grip on the spoon or something.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
No, not once.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
I mean, it's just just how I learned as a kid.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I guess. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
I didn't realize my fork technique was a deal breaker.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah, seriously, this is that's your deal breaker, the way
he holds his silver.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
It wasn't just the fork technique like Alex. It was
like the forth drama, like you were going to war
with your entire entree.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Okay, I think I think you're bringing a little drama
into this too, Courtney.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Could could it have been that bad?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
It was bad. It was really really bad. It was
just like it wasn't even like that. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I thought we were just enjoying dinner. You know, the
conversation was great.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I didn't realize I was under a table manner surveillance
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I mean, it's not about like table manners. It's not
just that, it's like basic motor skills.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
So you're saying he doesn't like yes, like, yeah, that's
where we are, Like you're ghosting me because I don't
hold a four to your standards.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I'm I'm ghosting you because I spent half the date
worried you were going to like impale yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Okay, well, let me ask a question.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Did he signed the check with a stabby emotion too?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like a child?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Seriously? I'm just asking because I have to ask. I
don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I'm gonna need to see this in person, I guess,
because I don't know how this could be as bad
as as you're making it seem, Corney, But it's your thing.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
So yeah, I mean, I'm taking to dinner and for yourself.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
We'll take it out.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Yeah, good to know that you know, silverware is more
important than you know, basic human connection.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
But okay, okay, some people can't use chop six. You
just can't eat right, Yeah, okay, we're gonna let you go.
Thanks for coming on the second eight update, No problem,
all right? Do you think this is ridiculous?
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Okay, listen, I was married to a man from another
country and he used his silverware super weird, and I's.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Just that's how he was taught in the UK.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
They like hold things differently.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
But I mean, that wasn't really a deal breaker for me,
so I don't know why it should be for anybody else. Okay,
So now I'm imagining you, like I said, animal and
the Muppets with the drumsticks, just beating the drum fist
around your.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Your silk silverware.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
But I don't like I guess I'm gonna have to
go like etiquette school or something.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I really don't know, Like.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
It's just as the way I've eaten and no one's
ever said a word.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Maybe it's a maybe maybe this is a courtney thing.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Maybe maybe this isn't a thing at all. Next time
scoop it with your hands for.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Fun, Like I feel like I'm gonna start asking strangers
at the next.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Table, like am I eating? Okay? Is this all right?
Like now I'm all hung up about it?
Speaker 5 (06:20):
As your friends?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Seriously, I've never noticed how I'm up at eats, but
now I'm gonna have to pay attention. Okay, Alex, Sorry
we couldn't get you another day. Thanks for coming on
the second ate up date man.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Sorry buddy, thanks for trying fellas all right.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I see you, buddy, And as someone that's a sloppy eater,
I don't eat like him up at are we really throwing.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Away a good man for bad table manners, right, he
sounds so nice.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Yeah, Amanda, you married the weird UK table weird food.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Haven't wear a guy. To be fair, I married him
really fast.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Really see him eat.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Because he ate so fast.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Okay, I know each other very long before I committed.
Oh okay, I'm pretty sure you probably had a meal
together before you said your ideas. Okay, okay, yeah, all right,
I mean four or five, six seven. If you want
to comment on this second date up date, kJ went
o three TJ Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
This girl from the second Date update is a hater.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Oh why do you say that, Tory.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
Because so when me and my wife first got together,
she used to hate the way that I ate, Because
I mean, I was in the army for ten years
and they teach you that like you ain't got time
to eat, So like we'd go out to eat and
by the time like she picked her fork up, my.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Food was gone.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
I get that.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Didn't stop her from spending their life with me.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
That's right. There you go, Hi five toy, That's all
the matter. Thanks Tory, See you buddy.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Day
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one O three. Alex from
OKC on the second date update, How you doing Alex?
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good? Good good? This is you met Courtney's. This is
one of those rom com things right.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Kind of you know, like wow, grocery store meetings.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
It was that like meet cute or whatever. Yeah, like
it was totally random.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Chances to Trader Joe's and we were both in line
buying the same thing.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Do you try those peanut butter puffs?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yes, yes, and they're cheap.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
That's why I get them for a snack all the time.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Yes, because he's cheap. Oh, get in line.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So yeah, we were in line together and she she
had him too, so we started chatting and then it
was like ten minutes, fifteen minutes immediate connection.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
So it was great. I was like, wow, this never happens.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
So I asked her if she wanted to grab dinner
sometime and she said yes.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
So we met at Flips a few days later. Nice. Yeah,
I mean I thought it went really well.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
We talked for like two hours and had dinner and everything,
but now I don't know. I mean I text her
the next day like Hey, I had a great time.
We should hang in soon and nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
A couple of days followed up, still nothing. Did I
mean it's I don't know. I don't usually misread things
this badly, But did I miss read the whole night?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
I don't know. Okay, maybe you did.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Maybe she was very politely not interested, or maybe there's
something else going on and we can get her to,
you know, go go on another date.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Okay. I would love to know and figure it out.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Yeah, okay, all right, cool, Well you know how you're crossed. Well,
we'll get her on the phone and we'll do that
coming up. Okay, all right, all right, we'll take a break,
play a couple of songs and see what's up there.
With the second date update, kJ went out three, TJ
Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Yeah, the second date update with TJ, Amanda and j
Rod on KJE three.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
We got Courtney the second date update.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Thanks for coming on, Courtney.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Hey Courtney, Hey, hey, problem Alex told us the story
about how you kind of had a rom com meeting
at Trader Joe's. He must be misreading it because you
don't want to go out again, or at least he
can't get you to even text him back right now? So,
so are you avoiding Alex? Or what's going on? Why
are you avoiding another date?
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Here?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
He was really sweet, but there was just something I
couldn't really get pasted. Okay, okay, he he eats really weird.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
More? He like has like he doesn't hold the silverware properly,
like he's he full on grips them like a shovel,
like like muppet style.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Like like animal holding the drumsticks like that.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Like like he was like elbows up, hunched over the
you know, like hunt over the plate like a raccoon
protecting like rash or something like. I kept thinking, I
don't know, maybe he hurt his hand, but like no,
like that's just how he was eating, just like full
on stabbing his plate.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Okay, okay, okay, but not like you like like like
that warm up, like like a muppet that without a
posable fault. Thought, well, Alex, come on in here, is
this is this how you eat?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Like a.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
I don't know, I mean, I what do I say?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
That?
Speaker 4 (03:28):
That's just how I've always eaten, Like nobody's ever had
an issue with it.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
I don't know I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Really, Like nobody has ever pulled you aside and said, hey, man,
maybe loosen up the death grip on the spoon or something.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
No, not once.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
I mean, it's just just how I learned as a kid.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I guess. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
I didn't realize my fork technique was a deal breaker.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah, seriously, this is that's your deal breaker, the way
he holds his silver.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
It wasn't just the fork technique like Alex. It was
like the forth drama, like you were going to war
with your entire entree.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Okay, I think I think you're bringing a little drama
into this too, Courtney.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Could could it have been that bad?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
It was bad. It was really really bad. It was
just like it wasn't even like that. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I thought we were just enjoying dinner. You know, the
conversation was great.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I didn't realize I was under a table manner surveillance
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I mean, it's not about like table manners. It's not
just that, it's like basic motor skills.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
So you're saying he doesn't like yes, like, yeah, that's
where we are, Like you're ghosting me because I don't
hold a four to your standards.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I'm I'm ghosting you because I spent half the date
worried you were going to like impale yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Okay, well, let me ask a question.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Did he signed the check with a stabby emotion too?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like a child?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Seriously? I'm just asking because I have to ask. I
don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I'm gonna need to see this in person, I guess,
because I don't know how this could be as bad
as as you're making it seem, Corney, But it's your thing.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
So yeah, I mean, I'm taking to dinner and for yourself.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
We'll take it out.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Yeah, good to know that you know, silverware is more
important than you know, basic human connection.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
But okay, okay, some people can't use chop six. You
just can't eat right, Yeah, okay, we're gonna let you go.
Thanks for coming on the second eight update, No problem,
all right? Do you think this is ridiculous?
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Okay, listen, I was married to a man from another
country and he used his silverware super weird, and I's.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Just that's how he was taught in the UK.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
They like hold things differently.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
But I mean, that wasn't really a deal breaker for me,
so I don't know why it should be for anybody else. Okay,
So now I'm imagining you, like I said, animal and
the Muppets with the drumsticks, just beating the drum fist
around your.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Your silk silverware.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
But I don't like I guess I'm gonna have to
go like etiquette school or something.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I really don't know, Like.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
It's just as the way I've eaten and no one's
ever said a word.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Maybe it's a maybe maybe this is a courtney thing.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Maybe maybe this isn't a thing at all. Next time
scoop it with your hands for.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Fun, Like I feel like I'm gonna start asking strangers
at the next.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Table, like am I eating? Okay? Is this all right?
Like now I'm all hung up about it?
Speaker 5 (06:20):
As your friends?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Seriously, I've never noticed how I'm up at eats, but
now I'm gonna have to pay attention. Okay, Alex, Sorry
we couldn't get you another day. Thanks for coming on
the second ate up date man.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
Sorry buddy, thanks for trying fellas all right.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I see you, buddy, And as someone that's a sloppy eater,
I don't eat like him up at are we really throwing.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Away a good man for bad table manners, right, he
sounds so nice.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Yeah, Amanda, you married the weird UK table weird food.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Haven't wear a guy. To be fair, I married him
really fast.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Really see him eat.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Because he ate so fast.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Okay, I know each other very long before I committed.
Oh okay, I'm pretty sure you probably had a meal
together before you said your ideas. Okay, okay, yeah, all right,
I mean four or five, six seven. If you want
to comment on this second date up date, kJ went
o three TJ Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
This girl from the second Date update is a hater.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Oh why do you say that, Tory.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
Because so when me and my wife first got together,
she used to hate the way that I ate, Because
I mean, I was in the army for ten years
and they teach you that like you ain't got time
to eat, So like we'd go out to eat and
by the time like she picked her fork up, my.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Food was gone.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
I get that.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Didn't stop her from spending their life with me.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
That's right. There you go, Hi five toy, That's all
the matter. Thanks Tory, See you buddy.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
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