August 25, 2025 • 7 mins
Bethany and Chad from Mustang went out, and he said by the end of the date she was almost in his lap. So was this the reason for no 2nd Date? Was this because someone else was watching her?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is gj Amanda and j Rod's second date update
on kJ one three Athdy for Mustang.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Welcome to the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Hey, hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We want to get you another date with Chad. Tell
me how did you meet?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Yeah, yeah, we met on hints. We didn't know each
other before, but we have like people in common or whatever.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
That's cool. Cool.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
So so tell us about your date and why you're
on the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
So, well, we got together for dinner and drinks and
it went really well.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
It like really well, really well. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I was pretty much sitting in his lap by the
end of the day.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I see, I didn't know was that kind of party.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
It's explain that you were sitting in his lap by
the end of the day.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I have this move where like I suggest that we
share a dessert, and then instead of like sharing from
across the table, I go to his side of the
table and then I just snuggle up right next to him.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Well, and you kind of do the intimate thing where
you're sharing a dessert and with each other spoons and
all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I kind of like that he put his arm around
me and everything, like you just I don't know it
works every time. It's like cozy, it's really cute.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Wait does it though, because you're on the second date?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
It works this time? I mean it works for dessert,
but does it work for a fe No?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, it didn't work this time. Yeah. I'm just everything
was good.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
On the date.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
I just can't get him return any of my messages,
so I just want to know what it's up. I'm
just trying to figure out what happened.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah, great, Well okay, well you know this works. We'll
get chat on the phone and we'll just ask him
why he doesn't want any more dessert with you, Bethany,
and I don't know, maybe we'll get another date.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Okay, hope, So okay, let's try anyway.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
All right, all right, we'll take your break, play couples
and see what Chad has to say about this second
date update.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
kJ went on to tj Amanda and Jay Rod in
the morning.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah, the second date update with tj Amanda and j
Rod on kJ three update.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
We appreciate you coming on with us, he.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Dad, awesome, thank you for having me on.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Guys, you ready to tell us why you don't seem
to want to go out with Bethany again? I mean,
she did her patented dessert move like that works every
time trying.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
So you guys said that I can give my side
of the story. So here's my side of the store.
Did she tell you guys that our waiter was her
ex's friend.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Your waiter was like her ex?
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Okay, your waiter was friends with her ex.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I was confused for yes, No, she didn't tell us that.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
No, she didn't tell me either until after, you know,
the night was over, when we were leaving the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
I would mean, why does that matter?
Speaker 6 (02:37):
That matters because she was putting on a performance for
the waiter, right. It was like she was putting on
the show.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Wait, what do you mean. I don't care what you're saying.
Speaker 6 (02:46):
She was putting on the show for that waiter to
report back to her ex boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Right that she was all over some guy at the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Okay, Okay, you're saying that she's like, oh, this is
my ex's friend. I'm gonna be really close to Chad,
so he'll tell my ex and my ex will be jealous.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Okay, she was performing. Okay, I guess I get what
you're saying.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Performing for anybody. By the way, the phone.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
Oh well, okay, well, if we have to do this,
really you wasn't performing you you won. You insisted on
sitting right next to me so we can share our desserts.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Like literally, you were right on top of me. That's
not performing.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Well, don't pretend like you didn't like it.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Like you had your arm rummy, like you were spooning.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Ice cream into my mouth.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Like we were so flirty.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Anyway, like we were so like I don't know, it's it's.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
I mean whatever. That was.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
That was great, that was fun whatever, But at the time,
I didn't know your motives, motives, what motives, Like I said,
you were literally performing for your ex's friend. My motives
were to perform for you, like.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I was just being hot.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Like hot, hot, light hot. You don't think I'm lot?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Don't you think Bethany's hot?
Speaker 6 (04:09):
You just said, yeah, yes, thank.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Being a baby about it.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Okay, see now I'm a baby. Great, there's that.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Well, if you're worried about ex boyfriends and whatever, then
you're kind of beating a baby, like that's just like
and X is an X, Like what does it matter?
Speaker 6 (04:29):
Okay, well I guess I'm just a baby then all right,
so whatever you know what.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Thanks everyone. I appreciate that. I gotta get going.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Okay, No, I understand, I get it.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Chad, Like I thought we were going out again, going
out again?
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Would you like to go home with Bethany to get cha?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
No? God, yeah, I think I'm a past she's hot.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Okay then whatever, Okay, Chad, thanks for coming on the
second date update.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Yeah, guys, thanks, okay, bye.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I like your finishing move though. That's pretty awesome.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
And also your finishing move here was you called him
a baby?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Okay, I know I shouldn't have done that. I was
just like whatever, like she just needs to get some
Selda steam, like, I don't know. Good luck finding a
girl doesn't have an X somewhere in the city.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Man, that flirting thing was awesome.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yeah, move man, I'm like everyone has an ant.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Well, good good luck. Thanks for coming on the second
date update.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, yeah, okay, thank you.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
I'm Ethany.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
But my question is is he being a baby or
is there some validity to his claim that she was
putting it on a little thick No, no.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
He's not being a baby.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
He's being a gaslighter and he's just telling her how
she feels, which.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Is not okay.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
He's saying, oh, this was your motive, and she's like, no,
I'm telling you what my motive is.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
He is not believing her.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
I'd agree with you unless that was indeed her motive
and held her on it.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Maybe she does it all the time if she hadn't
said that, but she she's told us she is what.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
She does all the time.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
It wasn't just for this, okay four five seven? Uh
do you think he was, you know, just gaslighting her?
And this she wasn't poorting on extra thick to get back.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
To her ex? Or is he being a baby? Let's
talk about Google.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
It's Marcy, Okay, Marcy and Purcelle, what are you thinking?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Okay, obviously she dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Why obviously Marcy?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
For one, Amanda was right. He was gaslighting her, telling
her how she feels what she's doing, like she didn't
have her own feelings and you know, tactics. And secondly,
the jealousy started on the first date because of how.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
He took it.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And who cares if the waiter goes back and tells
her ex, he should feel lucky that he's the one
that she was, you know, even if she was performing
that he was the one that got performed for.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Be proud of that. She deserves you deserve her efforts.
And let's be honest.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
That finishing move of going to the other side of
the table, you up next to him to share a dessert,
that's a good move.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
That's a good move, damn with my husband.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Yeah, I'm gonna do that next time.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Like out with Sarah, I'm gonna say, let's get dessert
and I'm gonna go sit by her. She will be like,
oh my gosh, I'm gonna.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Try that with your husband too. Yeah. That sounds like
a great idea.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Okay, Samantha.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Samantha just send us a message and says, this dude
sounded insecure.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, And so that's it. That's it's the jealousy right
off the bat, Like there's he has other issues that
he needs to deal with her. So I think she
dodged the bullet in the long round.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
I'll uh, I'll see your side of the story. I'll
take that. I'll take and story and I'll steal a
move out of it.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Okay, bye, Mary, you.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
You too.
This is gj Amanda and j Rod's second date update
on kJ one three Athdy for Mustang.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Welcome to the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Hey, hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
We want to get you another date with Chad. Tell
me how did you meet?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Yeah, yeah, we met on hints. We didn't know each
other before, but we have like people in common or whatever.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
That's cool. Cool.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
So so tell us about your date and why you're
on the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
So, well, we got together for dinner and drinks and
it went really well.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
It like really well, really well. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I was pretty much sitting in his lap by the
end of the day.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I see, I didn't know was that kind of party.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
It's explain that you were sitting in his lap by
the end of the day.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I have this move where like I suggest that we
share a dessert, and then instead of like sharing from
across the table, I go to his side of the
table and then I just snuggle up right next to him.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Well, and you kind of do the intimate thing where
you're sharing a dessert and with each other spoons and
all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I kind of like that he put his arm around
me and everything, like you just I don't know it
works every time. It's like cozy, it's really cute.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Wait does it though, because you're on the second date?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
It works this time? I mean it works for dessert,
but does it work for a fe No?
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, it didn't work this time. Yeah. I'm just everything
was good.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
On the date.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
I just can't get him return any of my messages,
so I just want to know what it's up. I'm
just trying to figure out what happened.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah, great, Well okay, well you know this works. We'll
get chat on the phone and we'll just ask him
why he doesn't want any more dessert with you, Bethany,
and I don't know, maybe we'll get another date.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Okay, hope, So okay, let's try anyway.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
All right, all right, we'll take your break, play couples
and see what Chad has to say about this second
date update.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
kJ went on to tj Amanda and Jay Rod in
the morning.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah, the second date update with tj Amanda and j
Rod on kJ three update.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
We appreciate you coming on with us, he.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Dad, awesome, thank you for having me on.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Guys, you ready to tell us why you don't seem
to want to go out with Bethany again? I mean,
she did her patented dessert move like that works every
time trying.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
So you guys said that I can give my side
of the story. So here's my side of the store.
Did she tell you guys that our waiter was her
ex's friend.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Your waiter was like her ex?
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Okay, your waiter was friends with her ex.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I was confused for yes, No, she didn't tell us that.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
No, she didn't tell me either until after, you know,
the night was over, when we were leaving the restaurant.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
I would mean, why does that matter?
Speaker 6 (02:37):
That matters because she was putting on a performance for
the waiter, right. It was like she was putting on
the show.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Wait, what do you mean. I don't care what you're saying.
Speaker 6 (02:46):
She was putting on the show for that waiter to
report back to her ex boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Right that she was all over some guy at the restaurant.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Okay, Okay, you're saying that she's like, oh, this is
my ex's friend. I'm gonna be really close to Chad,
so he'll tell my ex and my ex will be jealous.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Okay, she was performing. Okay, I guess I get what
you're saying.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Performing for anybody. By the way, the phone.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
Oh well, okay, well, if we have to do this,
really you wasn't performing you you won. You insisted on
sitting right next to me so we can share our desserts.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Like literally, you were right on top of me. That's
not performing.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Well, don't pretend like you didn't like it.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Like you had your arm rummy, like you were spooning.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Ice cream into my mouth.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Like we were so flirty.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Anyway, like we were so like I don't know, it's it's.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
I mean whatever. That was.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
That was great, that was fun whatever, But at the time,
I didn't know your motives, motives, what motives, Like I said,
you were literally performing for your ex's friend. My motives
were to perform for you, like.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I was just being hot.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Like hot, hot, light hot. You don't think I'm lot?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Don't you think Bethany's hot?
Speaker 6 (04:09):
You just said, yeah, yes, thank.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Being a baby about it.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Okay, see now I'm a baby. Great, there's that.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Well, if you're worried about ex boyfriends and whatever, then
you're kind of beating a baby, like that's just like
and X is an X, Like what does it matter?
Speaker 6 (04:29):
Okay, well I guess I'm just a baby then all right,
so whatever you know what.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Thanks everyone. I appreciate that. I gotta get going.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Okay, No, I understand, I get it.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Chad, Like I thought we were going out again, going
out again?
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Would you like to go home with Bethany to get cha?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
No? God, yeah, I think I'm a past she's hot.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Okay then whatever, Okay, Chad, thanks for coming on the
second date update.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Yeah, guys, thanks, okay, bye.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I like your finishing move though. That's pretty awesome.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
And also your finishing move here was you called him
a baby?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Okay, I know I shouldn't have done that. I was
just like whatever, like she just needs to get some
Selda steam, like, I don't know. Good luck finding a
girl doesn't have an X somewhere in the city.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Man, that flirting thing was awesome.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yeah, move man, I'm like everyone has an ant.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Well, good good luck. Thanks for coming on the second
date update.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, yeah, okay, thank you.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
I'm Ethany.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
But my question is is he being a baby or
is there some validity to his claim that she was
putting it on a little thick No, no.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
He's not being a baby.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
He's being a gaslighter and he's just telling her how
she feels, which.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Is not okay.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
He's saying, oh, this was your motive, and she's like, no,
I'm telling you what my motive is.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
He is not believing her.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
I'd agree with you unless that was indeed her motive
and held her on it.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Maybe she does it all the time if she hadn't
said that, but she she's told us she is what.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
She does all the time.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
It wasn't just for this, okay four five seven? Uh
do you think he was, you know, just gaslighting her?
And this she wasn't poorting on extra thick to get back.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
To her ex? Or is he being a baby? Let's
talk about Google.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
It's Marcy, Okay, Marcy and Purcelle, what are you thinking?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Okay, obviously she dodged a bullet.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Why obviously Marcy?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
For one, Amanda was right. He was gaslighting her, telling
her how she feels what she's doing, like she didn't
have her own feelings and you know, tactics. And secondly,
the jealousy started on the first date because of how.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
He took it.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And who cares if the waiter goes back and tells
her ex, he should feel lucky that he's the one
that she was, you know, even if she was performing
that he was the one that got performed for.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Be proud of that. She deserves you deserve her efforts.
And let's be honest.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
That finishing move of going to the other side of
the table, you up next to him to share a dessert,
that's a good move.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
That's a good move, damn with my husband.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Yeah, I'm gonna do that next time.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Like out with Sarah, I'm gonna say, let's get dessert
and I'm gonna go sit by her. She will be like,
oh my gosh, I'm gonna.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Try that with your husband too. Yeah. That sounds like
a great idea.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Okay, Samantha.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Samantha just send us a message and says, this dude
sounded insecure.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, And so that's it. That's it's the jealousy right
off the bat, Like there's he has other issues that
he needs to deal with her. So I think she
dodged the bullet in the long round.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
I'll uh, I'll see your side of the story. I'll
take that. I'll take and story and I'll steal a
move out of it.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Okay, bye, Mary, you.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
You too.
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