August 4, 2025 • 8 mins
Brett and Laura went out, and then it happend. Their worlds collided. But that's the the only reason they havent been out again yet. We find out what happened and if it was just his phone that is keeping them from another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Date updates on kJ one O three. I got Laura
from okay see on the second date update.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hi Laura Helah, Hello, Hello, we.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Need to get you another date with Brett. You have
no idea why you're not going on a second date?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Correct?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
No, I'm so confused. We had this nice firste he
asked me out this past weekend, and then there is
any night he canceled on me, and now he just
like won't return my text.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
You had a date or we're working on a date,
and then he just kind of is like, nah, I'm
done with this.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Exactly, like we we have plans to do something and
then he just killed and now he just like will
not return any of my text. Okay, I mean he
is an android, so that's it.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
And listen, we all know and even in today's day
and age, an android and an iPhone can't be together.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
We don't get along.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
I know.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
I was.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I really thought was great enough to make like the
exception of having an android, But now, like I don't know,
I didn't do anything different than I hadn't first met
in the dating apps, so I don't know, like what
is going on.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
We're gonna get Brett on the phone and we're gonna
find out. And if if is like, nah, I can't
be dating no iPhone girl, that would be the funniest thing.
I have a feeling that's not it. But well, we'll
see what we can find out for you.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
The Second Date update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Get Brett in on the second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Hi Brett, Brett, Hey, Hey, what's up.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Laura is confused because she said you had initially set
up a date for this past weekend and then like
on Thursday, you're like, oh, I can't make it. And
then now she now you just like won't even like
respond to her messages or anything. We're trying to figure
out why.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So I don't know how much she told you, but
I met Laura and she says she wasn't dating anyone,
and then you know, I'm trying to schedule a second
date and she said she wasn't available Saturday night because
she had, uh, she had a date already, And I
mean she told me she wasn't getting anyone, So how
does she have a date?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Wait, Laura, are you saying something here, Laura's on the phone,
Bret Brett, what are you even talking about with me?
Going on a date or whatever? What are you even
talking about?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well, you know, you said you weren't dating anyone, and
that's why I decided to go out with you. And
then he told me you couldn't go out with me
Saturday because you had you had a date already.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
You know, I mean, I'm going on date.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Like you're you're dating. That's the same thing going on
dates and dating someone.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Going on dates is just going on date. I went
on a date, but I'm not dating you.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I mean I thought I thought we were dating, like exclusively.
That's what I thought. You said you weren't dating anyone,
and I want to date someone who wasn't dating anyone.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
I think though I think I'm eating like I'm not
dating anyone, means I'm not like exclusively. Well it doesn't mean.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm not doing on dates.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm not dating anyone.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I'm out.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Is that we went on one date and you think
we were exclusive.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Well, you know, I'm from a place where you date
one person and you know you like them or you
move on. I mean fishing with a pole.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Okay, So what I'm fishing with a net or whatever.
I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'd like you to I'd like to try one fish
at a time. I did what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
You're like, listen, I'm not throwing a net out there.
I'm going to try one person a couple of dates.
See how that goes. Now, this isn't for me. I'm
going to try someone else instead of, like you said,
throwing a net out there. And now you just got
to navigate through all these different.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Fishing don't know which you have to have a basis
of comparison.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
That's what this is all about.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Just like it's her one pole in the water, okay,
and Laura, apparently you like to do like the biggest,
the wicked to Maybe she's just had multiple holes, you
know what I mean? Maybe can you explain what I'm
trying to say with no reference sins, I don't date.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Whatever Brett thinks is going to happen is not happening.
That's like after one date, wanting to be exclusive and
be dating that is.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Now I need more fish. Your luck finding a relationship
because no one's really gonna deal with that.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
So okay, well, good luck finding someone that's exclusive after one.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Date Okay, so I am, so would I get another date?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Here?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
What we're saying, yeah, yeah, Brett, thanks for coming, good luck.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Okay, he's got I don't off either's right or wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
He is the difference of preference. There's no right or wrong.
It's just who thinks they're exclusive after one date by.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Sorry to be complain comparing your love life to fish
or thanks for coming on the second date.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Update, I'm with you, okay, bye bye bye.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I could see that I am more like him than
and you know, like for instance, and I'll just compare
it to children. There are children who like, have one
best friend all the time that's the same person they
do stuff with all the time, and that other person's like,
they got to be the same way if that other
person has a group of friends. Okay, so but then
there's other people that're like, no, I just like a
(05:41):
group of friends, group of friends. I don't have to
have like one person I do stuff with all the time.
I like to random and up. I'm someone that if
I was dating someone, i'd probably be more attracted to
someone that's like, yeah, I don't really date you're someone
I'm kind of trying a couple of dates with and whatever,
versus someone that is more social to me, because I'm
anti social. This other person is obviously more social. And
(06:03):
maybe it's less about controlling who you're going out with
and more like it's.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Like you, yeah, someone that's just yeah, that's lucky.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I say, I like to find someone that's lucky to
have one date, okay, because because that's me. Okay, And
she settled, yeah, okay, I don't know four or five, six, one, two, seven, okay.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
So I think where the whole mess up happened was
she admitted she's going on a date. Why couldn't she
should have just said, hey, I've already got plans at night.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
That's so true, that's true.
Speaker 5 (06:43):
That's the biggest bit about was that she replied saying
she had another date, right.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
She could have just thought she was busy of course. Yeah,
she doesn't have to give all that information.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
She doesn't have to go into detail that she's going
on another date. She said, hey, I got plans at night, yeah, yeah,
and then decide her if she wants to talk more about.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
It with another person. Not you smirre and you're not lying,
You're just not You don't have to say everything that
enters your brain.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
This is what I try to tell t J all
the time.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
You don't have to say all the things that brain
I have a.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Really hard problem. I saved everything that enters my brain
out loud. You have not been diagnosed yet.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
That's the thing about getting older. The older you get,
the filter gets a little less.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Fans.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I've been doing it since I've been eight. What are
you talking about? You saying like I'm grandpa home.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
That just tells I got older.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
And the older I've done, I've realized that there's so
reason for a filter with some people, and you just
say what's on your mind, and it's hard to catch
it because the dart came out.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Sister Love, that's what I'm talking about. I'll blame it
on that, even though I've been doing it my whole life. Yeah,
blame it on that. You just care a little bit less,
cares about your feelings.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Okay, all right, thanks for that's a great, great take.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
All right, bye. JJ went on three, TJ, Amanda and
j Rod in the morning
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Date updates on kJ one O three. I got Laura
from okay see on the second date update.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hi Laura Helah, Hello, Hello, we.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Need to get you another date with Brett. You have
no idea why you're not going on a second date?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Correct?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
No, I'm so confused. We had this nice firste he
asked me out this past weekend, and then there is
any night he canceled on me, and now he just
like won't return my text.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
You had a date or we're working on a date,
and then he just kind of is like, nah, I'm
done with this.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Exactly, like we we have plans to do something and
then he just killed and now he just like will
not return any of my text. Okay, I mean he
is an android, so that's it.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
And listen, we all know and even in today's day
and age, an android and an iPhone can't be together.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
We don't get along.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
I know.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
I was.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
I really thought was great enough to make like the
exception of having an android, But now, like I don't know,
I didn't do anything different than I hadn't first met
in the dating apps, so I don't know, like what
is going on.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
We're gonna get Brett on the phone and we're gonna
find out. And if if is like, nah, I can't
be dating no iPhone girl, that would be the funniest thing.
I have a feeling that's not it. But well, we'll
see what we can find out for you.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
The Second Date update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Get Brett in on the second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Hi Brett, Brett, Hey, Hey, what's up.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Laura is confused because she said you had initially set
up a date for this past weekend and then like
on Thursday, you're like, oh, I can't make it. And
then now she now you just like won't even like
respond to her messages or anything. We're trying to figure
out why.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So I don't know how much she told you, but
I met Laura and she says she wasn't dating anyone,
and then you know, I'm trying to schedule a second
date and she said she wasn't available Saturday night because
she had, uh, she had a date already, And I
mean she told me she wasn't getting anyone, So how
does she have a date?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Wait, Laura, are you saying something here, Laura's on the phone,
Bret Brett, what are you even talking about with me?
Going on a date or whatever? What are you even
talking about?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well, you know, you said you weren't dating anyone, and
that's why I decided to go out with you. And
then he told me you couldn't go out with me
Saturday because you had you had a date already.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
You know, I mean, I'm going on date.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Like you're you're dating. That's the same thing going on
dates and dating someone.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Going on dates is just going on date. I went
on a date, but I'm not dating you.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I mean I thought I thought we were dating, like exclusively.
That's what I thought. You said you weren't dating anyone,
and I want to date someone who wasn't dating anyone.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
I think though I think I'm eating like I'm not
dating anyone, means I'm not like exclusively. Well it doesn't mean.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm not doing on dates.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm not dating anyone.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I'm out.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Is that we went on one date and you think
we were exclusive.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Well, you know, I'm from a place where you date
one person and you know you like them or you
move on. I mean fishing with a pole.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Okay, So what I'm fishing with a net or whatever.
I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'd like you to I'd like to try one fish
at a time. I did what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
You're like, listen, I'm not throwing a net out there.
I'm going to try one person a couple of dates.
See how that goes. Now, this isn't for me. I'm
going to try someone else instead of, like you said,
throwing a net out there. And now you just got
to navigate through all these different.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Fishing don't know which you have to have a basis
of comparison.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
That's what this is all about.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Just like it's her one pole in the water, okay,
and Laura, apparently you like to do like the biggest,
the wicked to Maybe she's just had multiple holes, you
know what I mean? Maybe can you explain what I'm
trying to say with no reference sins, I don't date.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Whatever Brett thinks is going to happen is not happening.
That's like after one date, wanting to be exclusive and
be dating that is.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Now I need more fish. Your luck finding a relationship
because no one's really gonna deal with that.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
So okay, well, good luck finding someone that's exclusive after one.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Date Okay, so I am, so would I get another date?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Here?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
What we're saying, yeah, yeah, Brett, thanks for coming, good luck.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Okay, he's got I don't off either's right or wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
He is the difference of preference. There's no right or wrong.
It's just who thinks they're exclusive after one date by.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Sorry to be complain comparing your love life to fish
or thanks for coming on the second date.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Update, I'm with you, okay, bye bye bye.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I could see that I am more like him than
and you know, like for instance, and I'll just compare
it to children. There are children who like, have one
best friend all the time that's the same person they
do stuff with all the time, and that other person's like,
they got to be the same way if that other
person has a group of friends. Okay, so but then
there's other people that're like, no, I just like a
(05:41):
group of friends, group of friends. I don't have to
have like one person I do stuff with all the time.
I like to random and up. I'm someone that if
I was dating someone, i'd probably be more attracted to
someone that's like, yeah, I don't really date you're someone
I'm kind of trying a couple of dates with and whatever,
versus someone that is more social to me, because I'm
anti social. This other person is obviously more social. And
(06:03):
maybe it's less about controlling who you're going out with
and more like it's.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Like you, yeah, someone that's just yeah, that's lucky.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I say, I like to find someone that's lucky to
have one date, okay, because because that's me. Okay, And
she settled, yeah, okay, I don't know four or five, six, one, two, seven, okay.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
So I think where the whole mess up happened was
she admitted she's going on a date. Why couldn't she
should have just said, hey, I've already got plans at night.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
That's so true, that's true.
Speaker 5 (06:43):
That's the biggest bit about was that she replied saying
she had another date, right.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
She could have just thought she was busy of course. Yeah,
she doesn't have to give all that information.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
She doesn't have to go into detail that she's going
on another date. She said, hey, I got plans at night, yeah, yeah,
and then decide her if she wants to talk more about.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
It with another person. Not you smirre and you're not lying,
You're just not You don't have to say everything that
enters your brain.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
This is what I try to tell t J all
the time.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
You don't have to say all the things that brain
I have a.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Really hard problem. I saved everything that enters my brain
out loud. You have not been diagnosed yet.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
That's the thing about getting older. The older you get,
the filter gets a little less.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Fans.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I've been doing it since I've been eight. What are
you talking about? You saying like I'm grandpa home.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
That just tells I got older.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
And the older I've done, I've realized that there's so
reason for a filter with some people, and you just
say what's on your mind, and it's hard to catch
it because the dart came out.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Sister Love, that's what I'm talking about. I'll blame it
on that, even though I've been doing it my whole life. Yeah,
blame it on that. You just care a little bit less,
cares about your feelings.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Okay, all right, thanks for that's a great, great take.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
All right, bye. JJ went on three, TJ, Amanda and
j Rod in the morning
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