September 24, 2025 • 8 mins
Danielle and Charlotte from Mustang went out, and Daniel has had zero luck with first dates. So what happened this time? We find out with the 2nd Date Update.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Ron's second date update
on kJ one three.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Daniel from Mustang on the second date update, How you doing, Daniel, Daniel.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
I'm doing all right. How you guys doing? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I asked how you were doing, knowing that you're like
frustrated with dating in general, right, you're just kind of
over it.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah, it's to that point. How so why Well, it's
like I keep going on these first date that you know,
they feel great and then poof nothing they go, oh.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
No, I hate the poof for you.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I mean at this point, I'm starting to think
it's me, you know, I mean.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
You're being smart about it at least, you know.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, I just I don't know what's like, I don't
know why. I don't know, like like what is what's happening?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
So?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Why why did you call? I mean the second date update?
You listen, you could call for any of these. Why Charlotte,
you know, like you must feel like Charlotte worth fighting
for or something.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Or Yeah, I mean I met Charlotte and I really
liked her. We met on a dating app and you know,
we you know, our first date we met at Darbora
at Starbucks person coffee and I'm memorial and honestly, it
just it felt like a normal birth date, nothing weird,
you know, like we got along. He didn't seem miserable
or anything.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
And okay, so you say she she seemed like she
was at least enjoying your company.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, you know, like I'm playing the date in my head,
and you know, I mentioned, you know that she didn't
seem miserable because it seemed like we had a good time.
I mean like we actually laughed a lot, and I
left thinking like finally, you know, like they're finally a
good one. And then nothing, have you had any text?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
No text?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
No, no, she didn't. She hadn't text me back, no callback, nothing,
Like I've tried probably like five or six times now
and I haven't heard anything, nothing from her at all.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, So so Charlotte's the one that you're like, Okay,
this is worth trying a second date.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Update.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah. Absolutely, I mean like he seemed like someone I could,
you know, be more often. And I went home that
day thinking like, definitely there's a chance for a second date.
Maybe you know, this time we were like her nice,
But you know, here we are a week later and
she won't even respond.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Here, you want more time and she wants no time.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
What's happening? Okay, we're gonna figure this out for you.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Okay, okay, all right, maybe let's get all of your
past dates on Yeah, okay, definitely, Charlotte, Okay, we'll take
a break, play cup of songs. See what Charlotte has
to say about the Second Date Update kJ W Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
The second Date Update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one three Charlotte on the Second Date Update.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Hi Charlotte, Charlotte, Hi, how are you?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
You felt kind of bad coming on here?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Uh and talking about Daniel because you went on a date.
Now you're not really returning his messages, but he really
wants to know. Is there something wrong with him that
you don't want to go out with him again?
Speaker 6 (02:43):
Okay, look, she was in this dating world. It's pretty
crazy to meet a nice guy, and he was actually
a very nice guy. He was funny, he was polite,
and he wasn't terrible looking, and honestly, I felt kind
of bad for ghosting him. But what do you want
me to say? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
We want you to tell us why what happened?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Okay, Okay, he just honestly, he slurped like really really loud,
like nails on a chalkboard loud.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wait, like slurps like.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Like coffee at Starbucks.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Yeah, we were at Starbucks, and and it was a small,
like a small Starbucks, and his slurping literally echoed off
the walls. It was constant. It was every single time.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
He took a sip.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
And I'm just like, honestly, even talking about it, I'm
like back there and it was like it was creepy,
it was too much. It was just it was it
was bad.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Okay, And that's why you don't want to go out
with him again, because what.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
If he gets soup?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Daniel. Daniel's right here, Daniel. It was a hot drink.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I mean, people, that's how people people drink.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Drink. Charlotte just gave up.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Honestly, I've never met somebody who does that, not like
like you, like nobody in my entire life.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So you've heard people slurp, though, right.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
Not like this, not like.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
This is different?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Okay, I mean, like, why wouldn't you just say something then?
I mean, like I don't, I don't even know if
I was doing it. Just tell me and I'll try
to stop.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
I mean, Daniel, I'm not your mom. Like that's a
crazy thing to say. Like I'm not going to say, hey,
can you please stop making that noise? Like that's a weird.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
Like I can't like that. I just can't.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
I guess I just won't drink anything on dates. I'll
just sit there with an empty cup.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Just maybe just.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Get a straw stick to the ice.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
A straw. Charlotte. Seriously, if it wasn't for the slurping.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
Well, okay, listen, Daniel was really really nice and it
was it.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Was like a perfect match then maybe.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
But there was just other stuff too.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Wait, what what else are you like about me?
Speaker 6 (05:03):
I don't I don't really want to do this, Like
I don't want to go there.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
I'm sorry that.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
I even said anything. That's just can we just like
forget forget that?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Yeah, I mean, but if there's more, I mean, I'd
rather know than not.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
No, I mean, I don't know. I think I'm done
with this conversation.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
That's totally fine, Charlotte, thanks for coming on the second
date update. Thank you, Charlotte.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Okay, thanks guys, Daniel, Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I mean I thought everybody slurped hot coffee. You know,
it's not like you can chug it. My mom used
to get on my case about like slurping my cereal
when I was a kid. But I mean I didn't know,
like it was still like something that would be an
issue that someone wouldn't want to date me, and the like,
there's a million other things.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Amanda's making a face.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
A face, Amanda, because I'm imagining myself on this date
and I would have just said something.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
I would be like, what's going on with that? And
then you might have gone out again.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Rude.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I don't know. I don't know. It's a rude to
face thing or more rude to ghost somebody. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Okay, Daniel, figure out the slurping, and I think we'll
get to the next another date.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Okay, maybe maybe next time.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Yeah, maybe I'll call you guys to find out what
the other issues are.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Seriously call us after every date we get this figured out. Okay,
here your gold, thank guys. Daniel. So, by what you said,
it sounded.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Like you just you you you couldn't be around a slurper,
you know.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
What I'm saying. Yeah, like if they if that was
if that was an habitual thing.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
I will say, though, I slurp when I drink hot
drinks because I don't. I'm not really good at it,
like my mouth gets really burnie really fam you're around.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
To practice, you're whispering like everyone can't hear you, right,
I know, I don't want to talk about I don't
because I think I might be slurper too.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I might be. I've never noticed it, so maybe it's
not as loud. I don't drink.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I purposely don't drink hot drinks because I feel like
I'm making.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
See there, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
So, so if you're still listening, Daniel, maybe you just
don't order the hot trikes.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
So that was speaking from experience. I didn't want to.
I didn't want to talk about it, but you need
to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I might.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
You said, my name's Amanda, I'm a slurper.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Amanda being vulnerable's a partner for it, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
What do you think?
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Are you not dating the slurper or the loud eater
or the whatever or would you put up with it
for the Well, there's other things wrong too, but we'll
get into that.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Four h five four six one two seven.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
If you want to talk about the second date update
kJ went three T J Amanda and j Rod in
the morning.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Amanda, Mary, Hi.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
What am I married?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I am not married. No Amanda used to be married?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Married?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Yeah, yeah, I was for a while.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
But now Daniel, you.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
And Daniel you can go and slurp together, can be
fellow slurpers.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Look, someone's trying to set you up that nice.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
So I do have I do have a boyfriend and
he does not slurp.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
So here's what needs to happen. Yeah, okay, I like
where you're going. Who is this by the way, Yeah,
I hi Jackie.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Okay, Okay, here's what we're gonna do. Daniel said, Hey,
you know, maybe I'll have to call you guys again.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
You know, if I don't get a second date, and
we're going to figure.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Out and we're going to build you the perfect boyfriend.
And if anything ever happens to J d H, then
you and Daniel can swirp.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And do all that stuff together. Yeah. Great, I like it,
all the things, all the things you can do. That's great,
you'll go.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
I think Daniel dodged a bullet with her.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
She'm like one of the people that just like the
book and for things to be around about.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Yeah like that. Yeah, including myself.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Some people get annoyed pretty easily at things. But but
but I'm not gonna like not be their friend or
I don't know, not date them. Unless those other things
that she said were wrong.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Maybe we're more of a I don't know. She sounds picky,
but people are gonna be picky. That's you know. Thanks
for calling.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
I'm so excited for you and Daniel.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Wouldn't it be great if that actually happened? Man?
Speaker 2 (08:48):
So now it's the wedding of Amanda Bye bye
Speaker 1 (08:53):
kJ with all three TJ, Amanda, and j Rod in
the movie
This is tj Amanda and j Ron's second date update
on kJ one three.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Daniel from Mustang on the second date update, How you doing, Daniel, Daniel.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
I'm doing all right. How you guys doing? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I asked how you were doing, knowing that you're like
frustrated with dating in general, right, you're just kind of
over it.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yeah, it's to that point. How so why Well, it's
like I keep going on these first date that you know,
they feel great and then poof nothing they go, oh.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
No, I hate the poof for you.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I mean at this point, I'm starting to think
it's me, you know, I mean.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
You're being smart about it at least, you know.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, I just I don't know what's like, I don't
know why. I don't know, like like what is what's happening?
Speaker 1 (00:40):
So?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Why why did you call? I mean the second date update?
You listen, you could call for any of these. Why Charlotte,
you know, like you must feel like Charlotte worth fighting
for or something.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Or Yeah, I mean I met Charlotte and I really
liked her. We met on a dating app and you know,
we you know, our first date we met at Darbora
at Starbucks person coffee and I'm memorial and honestly, it
just it felt like a normal birth date, nothing weird,
you know, like we got along. He didn't seem miserable
or anything.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
And okay, so you say she she seemed like she
was at least enjoying your company.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, you know, like I'm playing the date in my head,
and you know, I mentioned, you know that she didn't
seem miserable because it seemed like we had a good time.
I mean like we actually laughed a lot, and I
left thinking like finally, you know, like they're finally a
good one. And then nothing, have you had any text?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
No text?
Speaker 3 (01:35):
No, no, she didn't. She hadn't text me back, no callback, nothing,
Like I've tried probably like five or six times now
and I haven't heard anything, nothing from her at all.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, So so Charlotte's the one that you're like, Okay,
this is worth trying a second date.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Update.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah. Absolutely, I mean like he seemed like someone I could,
you know, be more often. And I went home that
day thinking like, definitely there's a chance for a second date.
Maybe you know, this time we were like her nice,
But you know, here we are a week later and
she won't even respond.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Here, you want more time and she wants no time.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
What's happening? Okay, we're gonna figure this out for you.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Okay, okay, all right, maybe let's get all of your
past dates on Yeah, okay, definitely, Charlotte, Okay, we'll take
a break, play cup of songs. See what Charlotte has
to say about the Second Date Update kJ W Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
The second Date Update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one three Charlotte on the Second Date Update.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Hi Charlotte, Charlotte, Hi, how are you?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
You felt kind of bad coming on here?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Uh and talking about Daniel because you went on a date.
Now you're not really returning his messages, but he really
wants to know. Is there something wrong with him that
you don't want to go out with him again?
Speaker 6 (02:43):
Okay, look, she was in this dating world. It's pretty
crazy to meet a nice guy, and he was actually
a very nice guy. He was funny, he was polite,
and he wasn't terrible looking, and honestly, I felt kind
of bad for ghosting him. But what do you want
me to say? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
We want you to tell us why what happened?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Okay, Okay, he just honestly, he slurped like really really loud,
like nails on a chalkboard loud.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wait, like slurps like.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Like coffee at Starbucks.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Yeah, we were at Starbucks, and and it was a small,
like a small Starbucks, and his slurping literally echoed off
the walls. It was constant. It was every single time.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
He took a sip.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
And I'm just like, honestly, even talking about it, I'm
like back there and it was like it was creepy,
it was too much. It was just it was it
was bad.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Okay, And that's why you don't want to go out
with him again, because what.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
If he gets soup?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Daniel. Daniel's right here, Daniel. It was a hot drink.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I mean, people, that's how people people drink.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Drink. Charlotte just gave up.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Honestly, I've never met somebody who does that, not like
like you, like nobody in my entire life.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So you've heard people slurp, though, right.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
Not like this, not like.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
This is different?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Okay, I mean, like, why wouldn't you just say something then?
I mean, like I don't, I don't even know if
I was doing it. Just tell me and I'll try
to stop.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
I mean, Daniel, I'm not your mom. Like that's a
crazy thing to say. Like I'm not going to say, hey,
can you please stop making that noise? Like that's a weird.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
Like I can't like that. I just can't.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
I guess I just won't drink anything on dates. I'll
just sit there with an empty cup.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Just maybe just.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Get a straw stick to the ice.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
A straw. Charlotte. Seriously, if it wasn't for the slurping.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
Well, okay, listen, Daniel was really really nice and it
was it.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Was like a perfect match then maybe.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
But there was just other stuff too.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Wait, what what else are you like about me?
Speaker 6 (05:03):
I don't I don't really want to do this, Like
I don't want to go there.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
I'm sorry that.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
I even said anything. That's just can we just like
forget forget that?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Yeah, I mean, but if there's more, I mean, I'd
rather know than not.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
No, I mean, I don't know. I think I'm done
with this conversation.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
That's totally fine, Charlotte, thanks for coming on the second
date update. Thank you, Charlotte.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Okay, thanks guys, Daniel, Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
I mean I thought everybody slurped hot coffee. You know,
it's not like you can chug it. My mom used
to get on my case about like slurping my cereal
when I was a kid. But I mean I didn't know,
like it was still like something that would be an
issue that someone wouldn't want to date me, and the like,
there's a million other things.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Amanda's making a face.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
A face, Amanda, because I'm imagining myself on this date
and I would have just said something.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
I would be like, what's going on with that? And
then you might have gone out again.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Rude.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I don't know. I don't know. It's a rude to
face thing or more rude to ghost somebody. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Okay, Daniel, figure out the slurping, and I think we'll
get to the next another date.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Okay, maybe maybe next time.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Yeah, maybe I'll call you guys to find out what
the other issues are.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Seriously call us after every date we get this figured out. Okay,
here your gold, thank guys. Daniel. So, by what you said,
it sounded.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Like you just you you you couldn't be around a slurper,
you know.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
What I'm saying. Yeah, like if they if that was
if that was an habitual thing.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
I will say, though, I slurp when I drink hot
drinks because I don't. I'm not really good at it,
like my mouth gets really burnie really fam you're around.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
To practice, you're whispering like everyone can't hear you, right,
I know, I don't want to talk about I don't
because I think I might be slurper too.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
I might be. I've never noticed it, so maybe it's
not as loud. I don't drink.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I purposely don't drink hot drinks because I feel like
I'm making.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
See there, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
So, so if you're still listening, Daniel, maybe you just
don't order the hot trikes.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
So that was speaking from experience. I didn't want to.
I didn't want to talk about it, but you need
to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I might.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
You said, my name's Amanda, I'm a slurper.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Amanda being vulnerable's a partner for it, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
What do you think?
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Are you not dating the slurper or the loud eater
or the whatever or would you put up with it
for the Well, there's other things wrong too, but we'll
get into that.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Four h five four six one two seven.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
If you want to talk about the second date update
kJ went three T J Amanda and j Rod in
the morning.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Amanda, Mary, Hi.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
What am I married?
Speaker 3 (07:22):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I am not married. No Amanda used to be married?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Married?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Yeah, yeah, I was for a while.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
But now Daniel, you.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
And Daniel you can go and slurp together, can be
fellow slurpers.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Look, someone's trying to set you up that nice.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
So I do have I do have a boyfriend and
he does not slurp.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
So here's what needs to happen. Yeah, okay, I like
where you're going. Who is this by the way, Yeah,
I hi Jackie.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Okay, Okay, here's what we're gonna do. Daniel said, Hey,
you know, maybe I'll have to call you guys again.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
You know, if I don't get a second date, and
we're going to figure.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Out and we're going to build you the perfect boyfriend.
And if anything ever happens to J d H, then
you and Daniel can swirp.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And do all that stuff together. Yeah. Great, I like it,
all the things, all the things you can do. That's great,
you'll go.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
I think Daniel dodged a bullet with her.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
She'm like one of the people that just like the
book and for things to be around about.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Yeah like that. Yeah, including myself.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Some people get annoyed pretty easily at things. But but
but I'm not gonna like not be their friend or
I don't know, not date them. Unless those other things
that she said were wrong.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Maybe we're more of a I don't know. She sounds picky,
but people are gonna be picky. That's you know. Thanks
for calling.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
I'm so excited for you and Daniel.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Wouldn't it be great if that actually happened? Man?
Speaker 2 (08:48):
So now it's the wedding of Amanda Bye bye
Speaker 1 (08:53):
kJ with all three TJ, Amanda, and j Rod in
the movie
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