November 5, 2025 • 8 mins
Evan and Kayla from OKC went out after meeting at church, and something must have went south quick. She told him "I'll see you at church", and then radio silence. How did the way he talked to his dog keep them from another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 3 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one three. Got Ethan from
OKAC on the second date update. Hey Ethan, he them, Hey,
how's it going? We all we want to get you
another date. Feels like it was meant to be because
you met at church?
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Is that right?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:16):
Yeah, So basically I moved here almost a year ago,
and I finally, you know, got the courage to get
plugged into church. And also, you know, I thought maybe
that would be really a great way to meet some people.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Right, obviously that's where you met Kayla.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Right, Yeah, Yeah, my first day at the church, I
met her. Kayla is super sweet, She's really pretty. Over
the next few weeks, she went out of her way
to say hi to me and introduced me to people.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
And maybe three weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
She talks to me about how she liked hiking and
dogs and I like hiking and dogs. Right, yeah, so
we decided to walk our dogs together.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Dog him.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
After that, we we grabbed lunch.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Okay, now now I have a question.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
This is this is you're new to the church, she
met this friend friend. You know what I'm saying, Like,
are you sure this wasn't like, Hey, we should take
our dogs for walk because we're friends now from church
instead of hey, this is a.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Date and maybe a chance to turn into.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
I mean, look, I was definitely confused about that at first,
but she showed up to our dog walk looking like amazing,
Like you know, she glowed up to go on a
dog walk.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
That said something for sure.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Okay, so why are we on the second date update?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Then?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Well?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah, after the date, I texted her a couple of times,
no pressure, just stuff.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Like had fun, you know, we should do it again, right,
And she replied it was nice.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Period, I'll see you at church period.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Yeah, and I did see her at church, and it
was it was different, right, she she kind of she
kind of waved from afar like acknowledged me.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
But it wasn't you know, the same greeting.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
And her text replies have been vague or not at all.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
So let's pick this out. Okay, that's what the second
date updates.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
For misunderstandings, we're here to mediate, but we'll we'll try
to get Kayla on the.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
And find out all right, thank you so much?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
All right, Yeah, we'll take a break, play a couple
of songs, and then.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
We'll we'll talk about the second Date update.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
kJ went all three, tj Amanda and Jay Rod in the.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Morning the Second Date update with TJ Amanda and j.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Rod on KJE three, we got Kayla on the second
Date update.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Hi, Kayla, I listened to your show when I can,
so I am familiar with second date updates. You know
what I'm guessing Evan is on the line.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, yeah, Hi Evan.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Uh so we don't have to do this.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
On the radio. Yeah, let's all have a conversation. I mean,
are you cool?
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I mean I'm here, so I'm good doing it now.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
If you are, You're a really nice guy and you
really didn't do anything wrong necessarily. So I have this
thing with people talking baby talk like it's my biggest
pet peece.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, this actually isn't really that surprising. I kind of
got that vibe.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Wait wait what Yeah, I need a story here.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
What?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Do you want to explain Evan?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
No? Please, by all means do it.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
So Evan does baby talk to his dog, Like, right, Well,
I'll blass this angel boo boo body buddy loves you
because you will you go.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I kind of like that you like the baby time
for dogs?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Sorry, that's just one.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Of my things.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
You guys, I can't.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I can't.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
If that's how you talk to your dog, that is
so great. Good for you, go be baby, But I can't.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You guys just can't. Baby. Yeah, who's a good boy?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Not you?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Who's a good boy?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Well? Do you know that's how most people talk to dogs, Cayla?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Is it really? I mean men talk to their dogs
that way?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Is that what it is? That it's a dude, good baby?
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
And every time you kissed your dog's nose, which was
a lot, a lot, you'd kiss his nosing a boop.
And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, which
is why I didn't bring it up. I mean, it's
just one of it's one of my things.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I just can look, Kayla, I'm trying my best here right,
new city, new church, new people.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
I thought we clicked, right, My dog liked you and
you were so nice. I just I didn't. I don't
want you to feel unwelcome at all.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
I just great, So second chance, I promise that baby voice,
you know, emotionally mature.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Can you get over this, Kaylor?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Like I don't know you.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Love this dog all right?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
I mean you guys are all I'm the odd man out.
Apparently I'll give it. I mean, I'll give it another trust.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
But like, no, we're not making anybody do it.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
You want to do this, right, I mean you want
to do this, Kayla, you want to do this.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Okay, Okay, you got a little laugh. You can laugh
about beating on the radio talking about this.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Good Caayla, thanks for coming on the second You guys
be in touch. Okay, bye, but Evan, no, you're still here.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Evan. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Just for the record, I think your audience is definitely
gonna be on my side about talking to dogs.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
But uh, okay, because I want to know, because because
are we all weird?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I talked to my dog. I talked to them like
they're human. I do all the time.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Evan, good luck with this, keep us up to date.
Thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Thank you, thanks for having me. Appreciate working them out.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Okay, I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I don't think they should be going out again.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I'm just saying I don't know like.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
About that. I mean, I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
I uh well, first of all, I mean I'll just
say this, it's dog talk.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
It's not baby talk, and if you don't, if you
can't handle the way I talked to my dog. Bye. Yeah,
it's probably gonna come up again. But maybe I'm wrong,
Maybe I'm wrong. Should should they be going out again?
Will they come around? Out of four or five or six?
One or two?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Seven?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
If you want to chime in on this second date up, well.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
I think okay, I personally dogged like baby talk or
whatever to dogs and I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Even have a dog.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Here's something funny.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
And you're doing it. Nothing wrong with you. You're doing it,
she did it. They're at to talk to dogs. But
it's just dog talk, right, totally differ dog talk.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Yeah, I mean it's just dog talk at that point.
You see a cute dog, cute little baby, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah, dogs understand tone.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
I can go, I can go you were so stupid,
and they'll wag their tail. And I can also go,
you are such a beautiful.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Baby, and they'll run.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
Okay, it's only tone, yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
So true. I definitely don't think it's something to.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Not go out with somebody again now, unless you are annoyed.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
It really gets understand. I get that, And she was
honest about that. She said it's a.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Her thing right, yes, yeah, my lord beautiful.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
What's your name? Where are you from, by the.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Way, Madison from Oklahoma City.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
It sounds like this is your first time getting through
and talking.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
To us or yeah it is.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Well call any time, Madison.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
You're great.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Perfect. I will thanks you guys, have a good day,
me too.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
We love new callers.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Yeah, here's meat.
This is tj.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 3 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one three. Got Ethan from
OKAC on the second date update. Hey Ethan, he them, Hey,
how's it going? We all we want to get you
another date. Feels like it was meant to be because
you met at church?
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Is that right?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (00:16):
Yeah, So basically I moved here almost a year ago,
and I finally, you know, got the courage to get
plugged into church. And also, you know, I thought maybe
that would be really a great way to meet some people.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Right, obviously that's where you met Kayla.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Right, Yeah, Yeah, my first day at the church, I
met her. Kayla is super sweet, She's really pretty. Over
the next few weeks, she went out of her way
to say hi to me and introduced me to people.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
And maybe three weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
She talks to me about how she liked hiking and
dogs and I like hiking and dogs. Right, yeah, so
we decided to walk our dogs together.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Dog him.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
After that, we we grabbed lunch.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Okay, now now I have a question.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
This is this is you're new to the church, she
met this friend friend. You know what I'm saying, Like,
are you sure this wasn't like, Hey, we should take
our dogs for walk because we're friends now from church
instead of hey, this is a.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Date and maybe a chance to turn into.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
I mean, look, I was definitely confused about that at first,
but she showed up to our dog walk looking like amazing,
Like you know, she glowed up to go on a
dog walk.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
That said something for sure.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Okay, so why are we on the second date update?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Then?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Well?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah, after the date, I texted her a couple of times,
no pressure, just stuff.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Like had fun, you know, we should do it again, right,
And she replied it was nice.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Period, I'll see you at church period.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Yeah, and I did see her at church, and it
was it was different, right, she she kind of she
kind of waved from afar like acknowledged me.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
But it wasn't you know, the same greeting.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
And her text replies have been vague or not at all.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
So let's pick this out. Okay, that's what the second
date updates.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
For misunderstandings, we're here to mediate, but we'll we'll try
to get Kayla on the.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
And find out all right, thank you so much?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
All right, Yeah, we'll take a break, play a couple
of songs, and then.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
We'll we'll talk about the second Date update.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
kJ went all three, tj Amanda and Jay Rod in the.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Morning the Second Date update with TJ Amanda and j.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Rod on KJE three, we got Kayla on the second
Date update.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Hi, Kayla, I listened to your show when I can,
so I am familiar with second date updates. You know
what I'm guessing Evan is on the line.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, yeah, Hi Evan.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Uh so we don't have to do this.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
On the radio. Yeah, let's all have a conversation. I mean,
are you cool?
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I mean I'm here, so I'm good doing it now.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
If you are, You're a really nice guy and you
really didn't do anything wrong necessarily. So I have this
thing with people talking baby talk like it's my biggest
pet peece.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, this actually isn't really that surprising. I kind of
got that vibe.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Wait wait what Yeah, I need a story here.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
What?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Do you want to explain Evan?
Speaker 1 (03:48):
No? Please, by all means do it.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
So Evan does baby talk to his dog, Like, right, Well,
I'll blass this angel boo boo body buddy loves you
because you will you go.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I kind of like that you like the baby time
for dogs?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Sorry, that's just one.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Of my things.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
You guys, I can't.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I can't.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
If that's how you talk to your dog, that is
so great. Good for you, go be baby, But I can't.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You guys just can't. Baby. Yeah, who's a good boy?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Not you?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Who's a good boy?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Well? Do you know that's how most people talk to dogs, Cayla?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Is it really? I mean men talk to their dogs
that way?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Is that what it is? That it's a dude, good baby?
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
And every time you kissed your dog's nose, which was
a lot, a lot, you'd kiss his nosing a boop.
And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, which
is why I didn't bring it up. I mean, it's
just one of it's one of my things.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I just can look, Kayla, I'm trying my best here right,
new city, new church, new people.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
I thought we clicked, right, My dog liked you and
you were so nice. I just I didn't. I don't
want you to feel unwelcome at all.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
I just great, So second chance, I promise that baby voice,
you know, emotionally mature.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Can you get over this, Kaylor?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Like I don't know you.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Love this dog all right?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
I mean you guys are all I'm the odd man out.
Apparently I'll give it. I mean, I'll give it another trust.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
But like, no, we're not making anybody do it.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
You want to do this, right, I mean you want
to do this, Kayla, you want to do this.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Okay, Okay, you got a little laugh. You can laugh
about beating on the radio talking about this.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Good Caayla, thanks for coming on the second You guys
be in touch. Okay, bye, but Evan, no, you're still here.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Evan. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Just for the record, I think your audience is definitely
gonna be on my side about talking to dogs.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
But uh, okay, because I want to know, because because
are we all weird?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I talked to my dog. I talked to them like
they're human. I do all the time.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Evan, good luck with this, keep us up to date.
Thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Thank you, thanks for having me. Appreciate working them out.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Okay, I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I don't think they should be going out again.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I'm just saying I don't know like.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
About that. I mean, I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
I uh well, first of all, I mean I'll just
say this, it's dog talk.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
It's not baby talk, and if you don't, if you
can't handle the way I talked to my dog. Bye. Yeah,
it's probably gonna come up again. But maybe I'm wrong,
Maybe I'm wrong. Should should they be going out again?
Will they come around? Out of four or five or six?
One or two?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Seven?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
If you want to chime in on this second date up, well.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
I think okay, I personally dogged like baby talk or
whatever to dogs and I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Even have a dog.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Here's something funny.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
And you're doing it. Nothing wrong with you. You're doing it,
she did it. They're at to talk to dogs. But
it's just dog talk, right, totally differ dog talk.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Yeah, I mean it's just dog talk at that point.
You see a cute dog, cute little baby, you know.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah, dogs understand tone.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
I can go, I can go you were so stupid,
and they'll wag their tail. And I can also go,
you are such a beautiful.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Baby, and they'll run.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
Okay, it's only tone, yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
So true. I definitely don't think it's something to.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Not go out with somebody again now, unless you are annoyed.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
It really gets understand. I get that, And she was
honest about that. She said it's a.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Her thing right, yes, yeah, my lord beautiful.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
What's your name? Where are you from, by the.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Way, Madison from Oklahoma City.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
It sounds like this is your first time getting through
and talking.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
To us or yeah it is.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Well call any time, Madison.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
You're great.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Perfect. I will thanks you guys, have a good day,
me too.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
We love new callers.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Yeah, here's meat.
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