August 20, 2025 • 8 mins
Jacob from OKC slid into Crystals DM and they went out. But when he was texting her after their date, did he reveal a dark secret? We find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
I got Jacob from okay see on the second date update.
Hi Jacob, Jacob, Hey guys, we want to get you
another date?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Here.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
What happened? I'm not gonna lie. The way to start
it is I split into her DM Crystal commented on
a friend of mine's Instagram and I saw her page.
I was like, this girl is hot, right, So.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
You literally just saw her and said, oh I want
to meet this girl.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh I pretty much that. I reached down the message.
I was like, hey, hey, beautiful, uh, do you want
to get a drink sometime or coffee or something? Wait
to give options?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I like that ya.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
We met up the very next day.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Oh okay, okay, could you respond?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
She's very trusting of.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
A note slide thing is?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
She told me when we met up, she was like,
I thought you were kind of cute. So that's why she,
you know, I guess, wanted to go out with me.
So we were like sending each other some like blurty
messages and then no second day, yeah no, And then
we're started going going back and forth and then and
she was just like, yeah, I think I'm gonna move on. Wow,
(01:08):
super random? What's up with that? Yeah, she was, she
was super down to flirt, and now she wants to
move on, So I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
You know this works. Well, we're just gonna get her
on the show and we're just gonna ask her what
made her move on and maybe some sort of misunderstanding.
We'll get you guys going out again. Okay, we're setting
her text right now, trying to talk to her. Next
second date update kJ went all three tj Amanda and
Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
The second date update with tj Amanda and.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
J Rod on kJ one three got Crystal on the
second date update. Thanks for coming on, Crystals. I had
the good Well, Jacob said, you guys met basically on Instagram,
had a date. We're messaging back and forth, get ready
for a second date, and then you're like, yeah, I'm
moving on. I'm gone shut out for the directness though,
shout out for that.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Kind of hop the story.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
But oh my god, Jacob, Okay, for the record, I
guess I'm not completely innocent here. We were sending like
some steamy text.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Nothing like x raated, but.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Like fun, swearty vibe, you know, sing and he crossed
the line.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Far.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
He told me he has like a lot of leathers
and stuff I can wear.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Expects weird he has that.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
You can wear?
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yeah, I was like wow, like a.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
What do you mean leathers? And like beat you like
a trunk of woman's leathers or fantasy fantasy, and like
I don't need to be dating like a dungeon masters
Jacob Jacob Jacob.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I can't believe that's not that cannot be how it
came off, like Crystal, I was kind of joking, like
I don't have have like a dungeon full of ladies leather, leather,
that's what.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
But you literally told me, You literally told me you
have leathers for me to wear.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
That's what I was thinking.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Why would I just have a bunch of leathers. Well,
that's what we.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Want to know, Yeah, that's what we're asking or something.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
I'm like, I'm seriously not judging. I get that people
have like these fantasies with leather and stuff. It's just
not for me.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
It came off like this was something that you you
do often.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
It's very respectful of you, Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Right, but like I don't have really leather fantasies.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
But like fantasies in general.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Because you remember you mentioned like a French made costume.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Wait what wait wait wait wait wait costume closet. How
did this how did this come into conversation?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
So yeah, like earlier and this wasn't really a red
flag without the leather stuff. But he was like, I'd
love to see you in a French maid costume.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Okay, that's flattering. I own one.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
We should all own one. What I did, what, Jacob?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
What I said was I bet you look good in
a friend made costume.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Okay, okay, no, but then you said you said you
have one.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Okay, do you remember that?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
Thinking like is it an ex girlfriends or like what?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Okay, Jacob, let's let's set the record straight here, because
I'm picturing like I have from my kids growing up
and all this stuff, this trunk. I knew you were
gonna say costumes, And now I'm wondering, do you have
like a trunk of like ladies leathers and costumes that
are just available.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Well no, it's like I mean, no, it's not a bunk.
It's not like I have a trunk of like women's
costumes or leathers or whatever.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
I kind of my spidy sense went off.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
I was like, I kind of think you do.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I respect it.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
He lay and wanted to If you wanted me to
order some and keep them at my place, i'd be down.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
But look, yeah, so.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Pleas like he's obviously into it, just like hiding how
into it he is, right, and you're just not.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah, I guess i'd crossed the line.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
So I wasn't really thinking.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I guess I crossed the line. So I'm sorry. I'm sorry,
Sorry to everyone. I didn't realize.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Okay, so you've been like yeah, yeah, so you're saying
you're kind of joking, but maybe it crosses the line
if you're not comfortable or yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I made Crystal uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Okay, I'm not.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Really a victim here also or anything like like I.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Was a participant, like we were flirting.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
But it's like but I just like noticed. I was like, oh, okay,
he might have like some fetishes.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
It went in a.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Direction that you didn't really want to go.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Yeah, I understand that yet, right the papa's loathers bars,
you know, yes, but that's what's great.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
We all have our own preferences. Sure, that's what's great
about this life?
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Sure we do.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah. Okay, So Crystal, so are you saying that, even
after we had this conversation to clarify, you're still not
interested in another date with Jacob.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I I think he's.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
More into it than he's letting on. So I think
maybe it's not a match. But I wish him all
the best. I really do. There's somebody out there going
to you know, yes, justummy, Okay, thank you, thank you
so much.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
All right, bye.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
I can't believe, like I'm sure to sense a theme here,
because this isn't the first time someone's been like.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
You know, dude, this this letter thing is is.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
A little you know, but I mostly just bring it
up to like make people feel comfortable, you know. I'm
actually like a pretty conservative guy.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I don't know what. I don't know. Okay, Jacob, thanks
for coming on the second. I appreciate you, buddy.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Yeah, thank you guys. All right, good lack.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
I don't know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I don't know. This leather's not mining but okay, okay, okay,
I mean I mean, yes, I want to believe him.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
But he's pushing back a little too hot.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Does he have some leathers he does. I need to
come in terms with what he likes and just not
be ashamed. Yeah, I don't know. What do you want
to say if you want to talk about this four
oh five or six one or two seven? If someone says, hey,
I got some leathers for you to wear, does that
mean that it's something that's I don't he meant shoes.
Maybe I don't know what leathers means. I can show
(07:20):
you photos. I don't want to know. I don't want
to know what leathers mean. kJ Little three, T, J
Amanda and J Rodd in the morning.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
What a weird right, I mean, that's right if that's
what he wants to do, fantastic, But then like, own
it if you if that's your thing, let it be
you're saying, but don't be like, oh I really want
to do this, just kidding?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Right?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Wait wait wait wait wait, So that's so true.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
That's you saying that you don't believe he was kidding.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
That's absolutely that he's totally into it.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Yeah, so do you own leathers too?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I do not.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I'm not one of those people, but kudos to him.
Just you know, I guess yeah, or he was kidding.
He didn't sell.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Like they say though, the best comedy has a hint
of truth in it has a hint of truth.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
He was trying it out, you know, to see how
it would land, and then it didn't land very well.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Then he backtracked.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Yeah, all right, yep, thank you, thank you for that.
kJ went all three tj Amanda and Jay Rod in
the morning. We are an hour away from your next
keyword to win a trip to the iHeart Radio Music
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o'clock on kJ Wentle three
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
I got Jacob from okay see on the second date update.
Hi Jacob, Jacob, Hey guys, we want to get you
another date?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Here.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
What happened? I'm not gonna lie. The way to start
it is I split into her DM Crystal commented on
a friend of mine's Instagram and I saw her page.
I was like, this girl is hot, right, So.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
You literally just saw her and said, oh I want
to meet this girl.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh I pretty much that. I reached down the message.
I was like, hey, hey, beautiful, uh, do you want
to get a drink sometime or coffee or something? Wait
to give options?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I like that ya.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
We met up the very next day.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Oh okay, okay, could you respond?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
She's very trusting of.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
A note slide thing is?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
She told me when we met up, she was like,
I thought you were kind of cute. So that's why she,
you know, I guess, wanted to go out with me.
So we were like sending each other some like blurty
messages and then no second day, yeah no, And then
we're started going going back and forth and then and
she was just like, yeah, I think I'm gonna move on. Wow,
(01:08):
super random? What's up with that? Yeah, she was, she
was super down to flirt, and now she wants to
move on, So I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
You know this works. Well, we're just gonna get her
on the show and we're just gonna ask her what
made her move on and maybe some sort of misunderstanding.
We'll get you guys going out again. Okay, we're setting
her text right now, trying to talk to her. Next
second date update kJ went all three tj Amanda and
Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
The second date update with tj Amanda and.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
J Rod on kJ one three got Crystal on the
second date update. Thanks for coming on, Crystals. I had
the good Well, Jacob said, you guys met basically on Instagram,
had a date. We're messaging back and forth, get ready
for a second date, and then you're like, yeah, I'm
moving on. I'm gone shut out for the directness though,
shout out for that.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Kind of hop the story.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
But oh my god, Jacob, Okay, for the record, I
guess I'm not completely innocent here. We were sending like
some steamy text.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Nothing like x raated, but.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Like fun, swearty vibe, you know, sing and he crossed
the line.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Far.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
He told me he has like a lot of leathers
and stuff I can wear.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Expects weird he has that.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
You can wear?
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yeah, I was like wow, like a.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
What do you mean leathers? And like beat you like
a trunk of woman's leathers or fantasy fantasy, and like
I don't need to be dating like a dungeon masters
Jacob Jacob Jacob.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I can't believe that's not that cannot be how it
came off, like Crystal, I was kind of joking, like
I don't have have like a dungeon full of ladies leather, leather,
that's what.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
But you literally told me, You literally told me you
have leathers for me to wear.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
That's what I was thinking.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Why would I just have a bunch of leathers. Well,
that's what we.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Want to know, Yeah, that's what we're asking or something.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
I'm like, I'm seriously not judging. I get that people
have like these fantasies with leather and stuff. It's just
not for me.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
It came off like this was something that you you
do often.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
It's very respectful of you, Okay.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Right, but like I don't have really leather fantasies.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
But like fantasies in general.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Because you remember you mentioned like a French made costume.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Wait what wait wait wait wait wait costume closet. How
did this how did this come into conversation?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
So yeah, like earlier and this wasn't really a red
flag without the leather stuff. But he was like, I'd
love to see you in a French maid costume.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Okay, that's flattering. I own one.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
We should all own one. What I did, what, Jacob?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
What I said was I bet you look good in
a friend made costume.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Okay, okay, no, but then you said you said you
have one.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Okay, do you remember that?
Speaker 5 (04:09):
Thinking like is it an ex girlfriends or like what?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Okay, Jacob, let's let's set the record straight here, because
I'm picturing like I have from my kids growing up
and all this stuff, this trunk. I knew you were
gonna say costumes, And now I'm wondering, do you have
like a trunk of like ladies leathers and costumes that
are just available.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Well no, it's like I mean, no, it's not a bunk.
It's not like I have a trunk of like women's
costumes or leathers or whatever.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
I kind of my spidy sense went off.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
I was like, I kind of think you do.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I respect it.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
He lay and wanted to If you wanted me to
order some and keep them at my place, i'd be down.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
But look, yeah, so.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Pleas like he's obviously into it, just like hiding how
into it he is, right, and you're just not.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah, I guess i'd crossed the line.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
So I wasn't really thinking.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I guess I crossed the line. So I'm sorry. I'm sorry,
Sorry to everyone. I didn't realize.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Okay, so you've been like yeah, yeah, so you're saying
you're kind of joking, but maybe it crosses the line
if you're not comfortable or yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I made Crystal uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Okay, I'm not.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Really a victim here also or anything like like I.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Was a participant, like we were flirting.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
But it's like but I just like noticed. I was like, oh, okay,
he might have like some fetishes.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
It went in a.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Direction that you didn't really want to go.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Yeah, I understand that yet, right the papa's loathers bars,
you know, yes, but that's what's great.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
We all have our own preferences. Sure, that's what's great
about this life?
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Sure we do.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah. Okay, So Crystal, so are you saying that, even
after we had this conversation to clarify, you're still not
interested in another date with Jacob.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I I think he's.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
More into it than he's letting on. So I think
maybe it's not a match. But I wish him all
the best. I really do. There's somebody out there going
to you know, yes, justummy, Okay, thank you, thank you
so much.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
All right, bye.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
I can't believe, like I'm sure to sense a theme here,
because this isn't the first time someone's been like.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
You know, dude, this this letter thing is is.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
A little you know, but I mostly just bring it
up to like make people feel comfortable, you know. I'm
actually like a pretty conservative guy.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I don't know what. I don't know. Okay, Jacob, thanks
for coming on the second. I appreciate you, buddy.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Yeah, thank you guys. All right, good lack.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
I don't know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I don't know. This leather's not mining but okay, okay, okay,
I mean I mean, yes, I want to believe him.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
But he's pushing back a little too hot.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Does he have some leathers he does. I need to
come in terms with what he likes and just not
be ashamed. Yeah, I don't know. What do you want
to say if you want to talk about this four
oh five or six one or two seven? If someone says, hey,
I got some leathers for you to wear, does that
mean that it's something that's I don't he meant shoes.
Maybe I don't know what leathers means. I can show
(07:20):
you photos. I don't want to know. I don't want
to know what leathers mean. kJ Little three, T, J
Amanda and J Rodd in the morning.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
What a weird right, I mean, that's right if that's
what he wants to do, fantastic, But then like, own
it if you if that's your thing, let it be
you're saying, but don't be like, oh I really want
to do this, just kidding?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Right?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Wait wait wait wait wait, So that's so true.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
That's you saying that you don't believe he was kidding.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
That's absolutely that he's totally into it.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Yeah, so do you own leathers too?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I do not.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I'm not one of those people, but kudos to him.
Just you know, I guess yeah, or he was kidding.
He didn't sell.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Like they say though, the best comedy has a hint
of truth in it has a hint of truth.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
He was trying it out, you know, to see how
it would land, and then it didn't land very well.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Then he backtracked.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Yeah, all right, yep, thank you, thank you for that.
kJ went all three tj Amanda and Jay Rod in
the morning. We are an hour away from your next
keyword to win a trip to the iHeart Radio Music
Festival and one thousand dollars. It's coming just after nine
o'clock on kJ Wentle three
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