November 3, 2025 • 8 mins
Jalen And Paige From Choctaw, "She asked him out and now she's ghosting him." Was it his need for a boost in confidence that might be making it hard to get another date"
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and jay Ron's second date update
on kJ one O three. Jalen from Chalk Tom the
second date update. Hi Jalen, Jalen, Hey.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Gang, how you doing? Thanks for taking my call.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
So you you said that this is the first date
you've been on in a while, right, Yeah, it's the
first date that I've been on a long time.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
As a matter of fact, I haven't really been dating much.
About six months ago, me and my fiance we, uh
we split ways, and I haven't really been you know,
wanting to go out. Sure, I had this girl page
actually asked me out, so you know, nice, it's really.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah, I know right, like you know, twenty twenty five
is you know, it's happening.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Uh So, of course, you know, I took it as
a compliment because you know, she's very pretty. And we
went to dinner and we had a nice you know,
a nice day, you know, the kind of a nice
palate cleanser, you know, after you know, six months of.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Getting getting off the bend, you know.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Okay, So now you're like, well and I want some
more of this. My my palette has been cleansed.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
I'm out here now, ladies, come get me. What's going
on with her?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You know, I've been trying to reach out to her,
and she's kind of been ghosting me, and I don't
understand why I thought we were having I thought I
thought we were great and I was feeling good, confident
about myself, and you know, being ghosted is kind of
bringing that back down.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, yeah, it's bringing you back to why you didn't
want to date again. So okay, all right, Jalen, So
we will get Paige on the phone and we'll just
ask why she doesn't seem to want to go out
with you, and maybe we'll get you another date, or
maybe this will just be a lesson asked to Okay,
I need to not do this the next time if
I want to get back in the scene.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
All right, we'll take a break, play a couple of songs,
and then I don't know, I don't know what to expect.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
For the second date update kJ went on three T
j Amanda and Jay Rod in the Morning.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update on kJ
one three.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Let's get Paige on the second date off date. Thanks
for coming on page page.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Hey, guys, thank you for having me.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Jalen's a little confused because you asked him out. Yeah,
he thought the date went great. He got that vibe
from you, and yet you're kind of ghosting him and
we're trying to figure out why what happened.
Speaker 6 (02:23):
Well, yeah, the date actually went really good. I was
really into him. But then he had to ruin it. Okay,
so like randomly, just like out of nowhere, he goes,
I got viagra in my wallet just in case we needed.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
I have in my wallet in casey yes, uh huh,
And I thought he was joking, sure, but yeah, but no,
but then he actually pulls it out in this little
like pill baggy thing he.
Speaker 6 (02:55):
Had it in. I guess that's what it was.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Via there time, like.
Speaker 6 (03:02):
Carrying that in his wallet.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Just in case. Said yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
I mean, I just don't know what makes him think
he's so special that we were going to use viagra
on our first date. Guys.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Okay, well wait a minute now, Jalen, come on in here, Jalen.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Jalen's here, Jalen.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Okay, so you you carry viagra in your wallet like
you're a viagra guy.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
No, No, not at all guys, I've never used viagra
like a buddy of mine from Mexico.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Why do you have viagra then in your wallet?
Speaker 6 (03:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
In case of emergency.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (03:48):
I mean I was just given you know, I got it,
so I just kept it, you know, why not you
know you.
Speaker 5 (03:54):
Just readimly keep it in your wallet.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I mean, I don't get it. You're only you're not
even thirty.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Why do you need biagra?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
You know, just to you know, it gives men a boost?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So walking really did?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Line?
Speaker 6 (04:15):
There?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Whoa whoa whoa?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
Yeah right, so you need a boost, Jayleen?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
You need a booth to.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
Be with me? I'm not interested exactly why am I
following you?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Back Page is supposed to be the one giving you
the boost.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, you don't need you don't need Page.
Speaker 7 (04:35):
No, no, no, no, you're not not, Paige. It's not a boost
to be with you. No no, no, no, no, you are.
You're fine, You're gorgeous. It's a boot my performance and
confidence because you know it's been a minute.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
That's okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
He's like, Hey, if things go well with you or
with anybody, and I need a little boost and confidence
of performance.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I got this.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
By in case you're interested, you're like, oh, I can't
date that guy over guy's ready to go.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, I'm just not interested. There's something very weird about
a young guy that keeps as well, and I'm just.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Out okay, scared, you're scared.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Hey, listen, Page, you don't don't you don't need to
be messy with no boost now with that boost up?
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Okay, all right, Page, thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, all right, thanks for coming on the second date.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Update yep, okay, Amanda.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Now you you were like, no, no, no, at the beginning,
a first.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Date thing to do. I mean, like if you do
it as a.
Speaker 8 (05:43):
Joke and it's funny, like oh my buddy bros.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Are But like maybe on a first date that's very presumptive.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Now that it's you know, out and about, like out loud,
I kind of get it.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I'm kind of off putting.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
But I was just drabbing my wallet to pay the
bill and I saw the bags like cash.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
We said, hey, I've got the viag if we needed.
I really didn't think you'd be bad about it.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Create the bill just in case.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Look what I've got, Jaylen, Listen.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
I I don't know, Maybe she's over reacting we'll take
some calls.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Okay, buddy, thanks.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
All right, you seemed almost frightened.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
You were like, nah, I.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Should be the more supportive, but there's I'm a lady,
and there's a part of me that's like, shouldn't we
be enough for you?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I don't know, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Okay, that's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I feel.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I don't know. Is it would that? Would that scare
you away?
Speaker 3 (06:36):
If a guy said, oh, by the way, a viagraph
we needed tonight four or five, six, one or two seven,
especially in the first date.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Case, Wow, this date's gonna go really Mexican biogra came
from Mexico.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, I feel.
Speaker 8 (06:51):
Really bad for that guy, actually, because think about it,
I'm not I mean, we're all grown adults and everything.
Like when you were in a committed, real relationship, certain
things happen more often than when you were not correct correct,
And so if it's six months, first off, he's already awkward,
(07:12):
hasn't been on a date in a really long time.
So he sees the viagra and he's like, oh, like,
could he have set the joke up a little better?
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Yeah, definitely what for her to be like, do you
need help with a boost? Well, first off, man, November
is ment health months, so you need to get off.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
That high horse.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, maybe he does need help with a boot.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Has nothing to do with the way you look. You
might have to do with him.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, I got so.
Speaker 8 (07:46):
I just I feel really bad for him, Jalen, don't
give up. You know you're gonna find somebody who understands
that sense of humor. And the first date after a
relationship that was, you know, leading somewhere else, like the
first day, it always sucks. It really does like it sucks.
(08:08):
It is the filler date. And so consider that you're
crappy date.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Okay, now, okay, yes, thank you, thank you Taylor. It's
a mulligan. Is that what they say, it's a mulligan. Yes,
it's a mulligan. You get a mulligan.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Okay, And now he knows you don't mention the bag thing.
But you know what, he was in a long term relationship,
and I could see one of his jokes being like, hey,
my buddy brought Diagara from Mexico if.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
You want me to try it.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
But like a man who said maybe not on the
first baby, don't that on the first date.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Okay, all right, I.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Don't really want to know about how you're how you're
working on there on the first just let's just talk
about life.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Just excuse me for a second. I need a drink
of water. Then there you go.
This is tj Amanda and jay Ron's second date update
on kJ one O three. Jalen from Chalk Tom the
second date update. Hi Jalen, Jalen, Hey.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Gang, how you doing? Thanks for taking my call.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
So you you said that this is the first date
you've been on in a while, right, Yeah, it's the
first date that I've been on a long time.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
As a matter of fact, I haven't really been dating much.
About six months ago, me and my fiance we, uh
we split ways, and I haven't really been you know,
wanting to go out. Sure, I had this girl page
actually asked me out, so you know, nice, it's really.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah, I know right, like you know, twenty twenty five
is you know, it's happening.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Uh So, of course, you know, I took it as
a compliment because you know, she's very pretty. And we
went to dinner and we had a nice you know,
a nice day, you know, the kind of a nice
palate cleanser, you know, after you know, six months of.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Getting getting off the bend, you know.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Okay, So now you're like, well and I want some
more of this. My my palette has been cleansed.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
I'm out here now, ladies, come get me. What's going
on with her?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You know, I've been trying to reach out to her,
and she's kind of been ghosting me, and I don't
understand why I thought we were having I thought I
thought we were great and I was feeling good, confident
about myself, and you know, being ghosted is kind of
bringing that back down.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, yeah, it's bringing you back to why you didn't
want to date again. So okay, all right, Jalen, So
we will get Paige on the phone and we'll just
ask why she doesn't seem to want to go out
with you, and maybe we'll get you another date, or
maybe this will just be a lesson asked to Okay,
I need to not do this the next time if
I want to get back in the scene.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
All right, we'll take a break, play a couple of songs,
and then I don't know, I don't know what to expect.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
For the second date update kJ went on three T
j Amanda and Jay Rod in the Morning.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update on kJ
one three.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Let's get Paige on the second date off date. Thanks
for coming on page page.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Hey, guys, thank you for having me.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Jalen's a little confused because you asked him out. Yeah,
he thought the date went great. He got that vibe
from you, and yet you're kind of ghosting him and
we're trying to figure out why what happened.
Speaker 6 (02:23):
Well, yeah, the date actually went really good. I was
really into him. But then he had to ruin it. Okay,
so like randomly, just like out of nowhere, he goes,
I got viagra in my wallet just in case we needed.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
I have in my wallet in casey yes, uh huh,
And I thought he was joking, sure, but yeah, but no,
but then he actually pulls it out in this little
like pill baggy thing he.
Speaker 6 (02:55):
Had it in. I guess that's what it was.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Via there time, like.
Speaker 6 (03:02):
Carrying that in his wallet.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Just in case. Said yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
I mean, I just don't know what makes him think
he's so special that we were going to use viagra
on our first date. Guys.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Okay, well wait a minute now, Jalen, come on in here, Jalen.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Jalen's here, Jalen.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Okay, so you you carry viagra in your wallet like
you're a viagra guy.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
No, No, not at all guys, I've never used viagra
like a buddy of mine from Mexico.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Why do you have viagra then in your wallet?
Speaker 6 (03:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
In case of emergency.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (03:48):
I mean I was just given you know, I got it,
so I just kept it, you know, why not you
know you.
Speaker 5 (03:54):
Just readimly keep it in your wallet.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I mean, I don't get it. You're only you're not
even thirty.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Why do you need biagra?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
You know, just to you know, it gives men a boost?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
So walking really did?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Line?
Speaker 6 (04:15):
There?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Whoa whoa whoa?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
Yeah right, so you need a boost, Jayleen?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
You need a booth to.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
Be with me? I'm not interested exactly why am I
following you?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Back Page is supposed to be the one giving you
the boost.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, you don't need you don't need Page.
Speaker 7 (04:35):
No, no, no, no, you're not not, Paige. It's not a boost
to be with you. No no, no, no, no, you are.
You're fine, You're gorgeous. It's a boot my performance and
confidence because you know it's been a minute.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
That's okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
He's like, Hey, if things go well with you or
with anybody, and I need a little boost and confidence
of performance.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I got this.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
By in case you're interested, you're like, oh, I can't
date that guy over guy's ready to go.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, I'm just not interested. There's something very weird about
a young guy that keeps as well, and I'm just.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Out okay, scared, you're scared.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Hey, listen, Page, you don't don't you don't need to
be messy with no boost now with that boost up?
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Okay, all right, Page, thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, all right, thanks for coming on the second date.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Update yep, okay, Amanda.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Now you you were like, no, no, no, at the beginning,
a first.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Date thing to do. I mean, like if you do
it as a.
Speaker 8 (05:43):
Joke and it's funny, like oh my buddy bros.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Are But like maybe on a first date that's very presumptive.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Now that it's you know, out and about, like out loud,
I kind of get it.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I'm kind of off putting.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
But I was just drabbing my wallet to pay the
bill and I saw the bags like cash.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
We said, hey, I've got the viag if we needed.
I really didn't think you'd be bad about it.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Create the bill just in case.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Look what I've got, Jaylen, Listen.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
I I don't know, Maybe she's over reacting we'll take
some calls.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Okay, buddy, thanks.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
All right, you seemed almost frightened.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
You were like, nah, I.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Should be the more supportive, but there's I'm a lady,
and there's a part of me that's like, shouldn't we
be enough for you?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I don't know, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Okay, that's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I feel.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I don't know. Is it would that? Would that scare
you away?
Speaker 3 (06:36):
If a guy said, oh, by the way, a viagraph
we needed tonight four or five, six, one or two seven,
especially in the first date.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Case, Wow, this date's gonna go really Mexican biogra came
from Mexico.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, I feel.
Speaker 8 (06:51):
Really bad for that guy, actually, because think about it,
I'm not I mean, we're all grown adults and everything.
Like when you were in a committed, real relationship, certain
things happen more often than when you were not correct correct,
And so if it's six months, first off, he's already awkward,
(07:12):
hasn't been on a date in a really long time.
So he sees the viagra and he's like, oh, like,
could he have set the joke up a little better?
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Yeah, definitely what for her to be like, do you
need help with a boost? Well, first off, man, November
is ment health months, so you need to get off.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
That high horse.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, maybe he does need help with a boot.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Has nothing to do with the way you look. You
might have to do with him.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, I got so.
Speaker 8 (07:46):
I just I feel really bad for him, Jalen, don't
give up. You know you're gonna find somebody who understands
that sense of humor. And the first date after a
relationship that was, you know, leading somewhere else, like the
first day, it always sucks. It really does like it sucks.
(08:08):
It is the filler date. And so consider that you're
crappy date.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Okay, now, okay, yes, thank you, thank you Taylor. It's
a mulligan. Is that what they say, it's a mulligan. Yes,
it's a mulligan. You get a mulligan.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
Okay, And now he knows you don't mention the bag thing.
But you know what, he was in a long term relationship,
and I could see one of his jokes being like, hey,
my buddy brought Diagara from Mexico if.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
You want me to try it.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
But like a man who said maybe not on the
first baby, don't that on the first date.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Okay, all right, I.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Don't really want to know about how you're how you're
working on there on the first just let's just talk
about life.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Just excuse me for a second. I need a drink
of water. Then there you go.
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