September 17, 2025 • 7 mins
Jaylynn and Mick From Mustang "She knows She Messed Up The First Date." So what happened that was so bad that is keeping them from another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
TJ Amanda and Jayron's second date update on kJ one
O three, Jaylyn and Mustang on the second Date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi j Lin, Hey j Lin, Hey, you said you.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Kind of messed up your first date with Mick, right.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Yeah, Yeah, I think I screwed it up.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I mean, we've been talking on bumble for a.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
While, and our first date was supposed to be like
a Friday night, but I had to work late, so
I ended up canceling. But I told him that I
was throwing a housewarming party from my friend the next night,
and maybe he could go.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
With me to that.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Okay, that sounds fair.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, and he seems cool with it and everything, but
he kind of he left earlier than I thought he would,
and I haven't talked to him as much since then.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, Well, now let me just say, for me, going
to a party a first date is gonna be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
And I was there because you invited me, But maybe
I'm not counting that as a first date.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Well it was our first time hanging out in person,
so yeah, I mean I get that. You know, there
was a whole social thing happening there. I don't know,
but I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Sometimes it just makes me think that I I canceled
our actual date, then made it up to him with
this party, and now he just seems like he's not
into me anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
It's the first.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
We can fix this, maybe too much, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
I mean I and I want.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
To fix it because I don't know mixings.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Like this really good guy and he's totally my type.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
And I'd like to keep hanging out with him.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
If he's up to it.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
We can fix this, you can. Really, I'm going to
fix this. Okay, Okay, good, thank you, like like like
we're good at fixing this at all, like we know,
we don't know, we're hope. Yeah, I'm just I'm just
the socially awkward guy that's like, listen, as long as
you promise we're not going to any more parties. Let's
call it get four O five four six seven if
that's you. No, but we'll get him on the phone
(01:56):
and we'll try to figure this out for the second
date update.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
We'll do that coming up the second date update with TJ,
Amanda and j Rod on kJ one O three.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Okay, this is gonna be a little different for the
second date update because Big was like I don't know.
I'd rather talk with Jayleen in person about why we're
not going out again, but Nick Jalen is on the
radio already talking about it. So yeah, Jayleen, go ahead
and say hi. You guys say hi to each other.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Hey mate, Hey, Jaylen? How you doing?
Speaker 2 (02:25):
I mean, I'm doing good. I uh, you know, obviously
wanted to see what was going on.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Kind of this conversation, honestly. I mean, I mean, can
we talked about this, like not on the radio or
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Is it something I did?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Okay, I'm gonna be I'm gonna be as big as
possible here.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Well just yeah, yeah, and Jaylen's cool with.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
So I recognize this woman at your sister's party. I
think she may have recognized me as well. And I
have some history with this person, okay.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Like okay, history like what.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Uh like one night of history, one of those.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Nights of history.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Way I'm saying, okay, one night of history.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I mean, is it my sister?
Speaker 5 (03:21):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Not my sister?
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Okay, good? Okay, I mean, I I guess I don't
understand what this has to do with me.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Or you and me?
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Or I mean is this recent? Is it like after college?
It was a while back.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yeah, Jalen, you sound like.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
So what.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yeah, I'm not bothered by something that happened in college. Boy.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Wait wait, what what's so?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Boy?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Well, I did some creeping on socials, and I think
maybe she's your cousin.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
H Okay, you mean Margaret.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Is it Margaret?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
He doesn't, he doesn't want to say matter matter, Yes, En,
let's say it's someone like Margaret, okay, epathetically speaking of course,
And he's like, I had a one night history with Margaret,
but not Margaret.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I mean, I still don't know what this has to
do with you and me, though, because it's your cousin.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
That's right, family.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Really yeah, really, it's not even that close to Margaret. Great.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I think that's great.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
She's like, she's open minded, she.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Likes Yeah, that's great.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I'm on her side.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I don't care, fine, because I don't care.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
If it's Margaret, if it's my cousin Stephanie, if it's it's.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You know whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Just to clarify, though, Jayleen seems cool with all of
this and wants to go out with you again.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Mick, you don't find that weird, I mean, not to me. Listen,
I don't want a cousin, shame or anything, but the
two little dueling banjo's weird to me.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Wait wait, wait, it's not your okay.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Mick, Yeah, Jalen is cool.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Do you want to give it another try going another date?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I mean yes, I mean, worst case scenario, you could
meet another family member and you know, we.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Just we have a second date when you're stopped.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
I like that.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Okay, great, I think we have a successful second.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
We did it, we talked it out.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
I don't want to come to Thanksgiving, but otherwise.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
I'm okay, that's fine.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I think that's fair.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
We've got some time before that happens.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Thank you, Mike.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
We're gonna let you go, buddy, Okay, okay, bye, But Jayleen,
hold on a second, Jayleen, I want to talk to
you for a second. So I wouldn't like it. I
wouldn't like now knowing that my guy that could turn
into a boyfriend or something a relationship had a one
night stand with my I mean one night history. I'll
call it with my cousin.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I mean, maybe it's weird for me or my cousin,
but I'm honestly good with it. I mean, I feel
like weird things have happened in Oklahoma than this.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And by the way, I got a pass to you
know what I'm saying, Jayleen. I think we got a
successful second.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
D Thank you guys, of course, is that your first?
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Is that your first successful second ate?
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Updated?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
No, we had a couple like my first couple of
weeks here, we had it. We had like two in
one week, I think.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
And you've worked here how long now? Almost three months?
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Yeah, we're behind me more.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
We need one more than this month to get up
to speed. Okay, all right, I'm happy we get.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Any at all.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Okay, yeah, happy, all right. I I'm not dating. I
don't want that drama in my world. But I think
they're worth it.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I think that drama's worth it.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I think they're true.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
They really like each other, so
TJ Amanda and Jayron's second date update on kJ one
O three, Jaylyn and Mustang on the second Date Update.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi j Lin, Hey j Lin, Hey, you said you.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Kind of messed up your first date with Mick, right.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Yeah, Yeah, I think I screwed it up.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I mean, we've been talking on bumble for a.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
While, and our first date was supposed to be like
a Friday night, but I had to work late, so
I ended up canceling. But I told him that I
was throwing a housewarming party from my friend the next night,
and maybe he could go.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
With me to that.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Okay, that sounds fair.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, and he seems cool with it and everything, but
he kind of he left earlier than I thought he would,
and I haven't talked to him as much since then.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay, Well, now let me just say, for me, going
to a party a first date is gonna be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
And I was there because you invited me, But maybe
I'm not counting that as a first date.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Well it was our first time hanging out in person,
so yeah, I mean I get that. You know, there
was a whole social thing happening there. I don't know,
but I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Sometimes it just makes me think that I I canceled
our actual date, then made it up to him with
this party, and now he just seems like he's not
into me anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
It's the first.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
We can fix this, maybe too much, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
I mean I and I want.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
To fix it because I don't know mixings.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Like this really good guy and he's totally my type.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
And I'd like to keep hanging out with him.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
If he's up to it.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
We can fix this, you can. Really, I'm going to
fix this. Okay, Okay, good, thank you, like like like
we're good at fixing this at all, like we know,
we don't know, we're hope. Yeah, I'm just I'm just
the socially awkward guy that's like, listen, as long as
you promise we're not going to any more parties. Let's
call it get four O five four six seven if
that's you. No, but we'll get him on the phone
(01:56):
and we'll try to figure this out for the second
date update.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
We'll do that coming up the second date update with TJ,
Amanda and j Rod on kJ one O three.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Okay, this is gonna be a little different for the
second date update because Big was like I don't know.
I'd rather talk with Jayleen in person about why we're
not going out again, but Nick Jalen is on the
radio already talking about it. So yeah, Jayleen, go ahead
and say hi. You guys say hi to each other.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Hey mate, Hey, Jaylen? How you doing?
Speaker 2 (02:25):
I mean, I'm doing good. I uh, you know, obviously
wanted to see what was going on.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Kind of this conversation, honestly. I mean, I mean, can
we talked about this, like not on the radio or
what I mean?
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Is it something I did?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Okay, I'm gonna be I'm gonna be as big as
possible here.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Well just yeah, yeah, and Jaylen's cool with.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
So I recognize this woman at your sister's party. I
think she may have recognized me as well. And I
have some history with this person, okay.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Like okay, history like what.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Uh like one night of history, one of those.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Nights of history.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Way I'm saying, okay, one night of history.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I mean, is it my sister?
Speaker 5 (03:21):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Not my sister?
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Okay, good? Okay, I mean, I I guess I don't
understand what this has to do with me.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Or you and me?
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Or I mean is this recent? Is it like after college?
It was a while back.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Yeah, Jalen, you sound like.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
So what.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yeah, I'm not bothered by something that happened in college. Boy.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Wait wait, what what's so?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Boy?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Well, I did some creeping on socials, and I think
maybe she's your cousin.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
H Okay, you mean Margaret.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Is it Margaret?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
He doesn't, he doesn't want to say matter matter, Yes, En,
let's say it's someone like Margaret, okay, epathetically speaking of course,
And he's like, I had a one night history with Margaret,
but not Margaret.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I mean, I still don't know what this has to
do with you and me, though, because it's your cousin.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
That's right, family.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Really yeah, really, it's not even that close to Margaret. Great.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I think that's great.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
She's like, she's open minded, she.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Likes Yeah, that's great.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I'm on her side.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I don't care, fine, because I don't care.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
If it's Margaret, if it's my cousin Stephanie, if it's it's.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You know whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Just to clarify, though, Jayleen seems cool with all of
this and wants to go out with you again.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Mick, you don't find that weird, I mean, not to me. Listen,
I don't want a cousin, shame or anything, but the
two little dueling banjo's weird to me.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Wait wait, wait, it's not your okay.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Mick, Yeah, Jalen is cool.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Do you want to give it another try going another date?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I mean yes, I mean, worst case scenario, you could
meet another family member and you know, we.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Just we have a second date when you're stopped.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
I like that.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Okay, great, I think we have a successful second.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
We did it, we talked it out.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
I don't want to come to Thanksgiving, but otherwise.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
I'm okay, that's fine.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I think that's fair.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
We've got some time before that happens.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Thank you, Mike.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
We're gonna let you go, buddy, Okay, okay, bye, But Jayleen,
hold on a second, Jayleen, I want to talk to
you for a second. So I wouldn't like it. I
wouldn't like now knowing that my guy that could turn
into a boyfriend or something a relationship had a one
night stand with my I mean one night history. I'll
call it with my cousin.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I mean, maybe it's weird for me or my cousin,
but I'm honestly good with it. I mean, I feel
like weird things have happened in Oklahoma than this.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And by the way, I got a pass to you
know what I'm saying, Jayleen. I think we got a
successful second.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
D Thank you guys, of course, is that your first?
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Is that your first successful second ate?
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Updated?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
No, we had a couple like my first couple of
weeks here, we had it. We had like two in
one week, I think.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
And you've worked here how long now? Almost three months?
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Yeah, we're behind me more.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
We need one more than this month to get up
to speed. Okay, all right, I'm happy we get.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Any at all.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Okay, yeah, happy, all right. I I'm not dating. I
don't want that drama in my world. But I think
they're worth it.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
I think that drama's worth it.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I think they're true.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
They really like each other, so
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