August 26, 2025 • 7 mins
Jill and Nathan from Del City went out. She thought she finally found herself a mature guy. But what did his co-workers say to keep them from another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is j Amanda and j Rob's second date update
on kJ one O three. Get Jill on the second
date update.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hi Jill, Hey, you kind of said, hey, guys, help me.
I really would to go out with Nathan again.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Let me give you the rundown.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, So honestly, Nathan might be the most put together
guy that I've ever dated.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I could hear it in your voice. I could hear it.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
I feel like I've just been dating like boys, you know,
but that Nathan, he seems like he has a craped together.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
He's not a boy, he's a grown adult.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
He's an adult. Yeah. He invited me out for cocktail.
That's a sure manor. I mean, I mean I'm used
to dating guys that are just like, hey, you want
to go get hammered, Let's get drunk.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yeah, let's get a couple of drinks in US. Okay.
So obviously you liked it because you want to go
out with him again.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, I mean I felt like we hit it off.
He's only lived in Oklahoma for a year, so I
was telling him about some of my favorite bars and
restaurants and and he was like, yeah, we should go sometimes.
You know. Now I'm imagining myself going places with him,
which makes me happy.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So why are you on the Second Date update?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:19):
I mean where are you now?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Okay? So we made plans to go out again this
weekend and he he texted me a couple of days
ago and it is like if you cancel, and so
I asked, like, is everything okay? And he just said
all good, just changed.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
My mind and that's it. I was like, that's.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Weird to say. I don't know. That's That's the last
text I got from him and we haven't talked it.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So he didn't change his mind about the date.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
He kind of changed his mind about you maybe, Okay,
all right, heh boy, you know how this works. We're
gonna get Nathan on the phone and go, dude, what
made you change your mind? Because Jill's amazing and you're
an adult. Didn't your life for cockcres you guys cause
you get more cocktails? Okay, Well, we'll get him on
and see what he has to say. Okay, Jill, Hopefully
(02:15):
Nathan will tell us what's going on next.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
kJ went three tj Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
The Second Date update with tj.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Amanda and j Rod on kJ three Nathan on the
second date update, Thanks for coming on, Nathan.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Ain't it then? All's it going?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Well? Jill wants to know how you're doing because she
met you. You guys went on a date. You talked
about going some other places that you hadn't been to before.
Out of nowhere, You're like, ah, text, I changed my mind.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Oh well, I don't know if if she told you,
but I'm not from here. I moved to Oklahoma last
year for my.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Job, and you know, I'm still figuring things out.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
I didn't all right, well, well I didn't know that
we're not supposed.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
To date Dell City girls. Well you're not.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
We're not We're not supposed to date Dell City girls.
How did you find this on Google or something? Where
did you find this?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Oh? No, the guys that work they say that the
Dell City girls are trashy or something.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
So I was like, well, if that's what they say,
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
No, no, no, no, you did not just say that.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Okay, yeah, Nathan, Jill's on the phone and okay, wait Jill,
so you're from Dell City?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Yeah originally yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Trying to be rude or anything, but you're not trying
to be.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Rude every seriously, but you call me trash and then
and then say you're not trying to be rude.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I mean you know, I mean I wasn't. I'm sure
it wasn't directed that you. I just know you're from
Dell City and the guys that work session and.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
All girl City girls are trashy?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Is that?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Wait a minute, now, hold on a second, is that
what they said? The guys that work like, can't date
a girl from Delle City. All Dell City girls are trashy.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Well they did say that, and they said, well, not
all Dell City girls. I mean, maybe you're not trashy,
but that's what they said.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no no, you're not talking your
way out of this. You said you didn't want to
date me because you heard all del City girls are trashy.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
That I.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Was told, Okay, where are you from, Nathan, where are
you from?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
That is so much fancier than Dale City. I'm from
that Surrey. Okay. The guys that work they're like, don't
don't date or you from Dell City? And I was like,
what's wrong with Dell City? And they said Dell City
girls are trash.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
So I was like, okay, well trashy on the date?
Like was I trashy when we first met?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
So like, why are you mad? I think because you
are tracked.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I feel like that's why.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
I mean, if they act like this.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Dude, listen, I mean you know I get that being
from the Zury.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Well, nothing, I'm not good. I'm not I'm not gonna
play this game.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Okay, Jill, would you do you still want to go
on another date with Nathan?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Yeah, no, We're done. This is ridiculous. You can you
can go now, Bye bye, Nathan, good luck? Okay in Oklahoma?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You know what, this was great. I'm glad I did this.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Alright, Wow, someone not even from Oklahoma.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I don't even live in Dulcie anymore. I moved in
middle school. But like I I, you know, I guess,
I guess I'm trash all of that stuff thaty girls
they're just trash.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
No, but I he didn't think you were trash on
the date.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
So like, obviously these boys got to talking to him,
convinced him of something that is completely untrue.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, you don't want to date someone that listens to
the boys.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Opinion dude exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I know.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Okay, well, Jill, sorry you didn't get another date.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
But you know, Nathan, he ain't from here. He don't know. Yeah,
I don't think you need to be dating this dude. Thanks, Joe.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
It's interesting because when we first talked to her, she
was like, you know, I'm I'm dating a mature man.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
He's not a boy.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah, but yeah, he turned into like like middle school
behavior when all the guys at work.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Go, oh, don't date a girl from Dell City. They're trash.
He's like lashing girl. Okay, I'll give into pure pressure,
you know what I mean? I love the cocktails. Is
not indicative of maturity. We've established.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Yes, I don't know if you want something to have
something to say about this four O.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Five for so, he needs to learn that Oklahoma girls
don't mess around.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Because I'm not the wrong with the Dell City girl
from Del City.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I'm doing just fun. Yeah, yeah, you are, that's right.
I also, I also.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
He needs to learn but she's a queen.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
That's right, that's right.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Listen, El City queen. I could eat you. I could
get if he was from like Edmund Norman somewhere else.
And he was like, I don't know, I've never had
good luck with girls from Del City where.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Just different people of state.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
It's from Missouri, like he's from darn near Illinois. Okay,
yeah Illis Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Yeah, people from Missouri. We don't know. You know what
I heard.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I heard don't date a guy from Missouri because they're
all simple. A lot of people from Missouri, and every
time I go through Missouri, they're.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Actually kind of route.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Okay, wait wait wait, wait no, now, don't don't be him.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You you just flip when he goes low, you go hi.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
I'm just saying, don't come to our state and trash.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
That's right, that's what you're stating.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
All perfect, yeah, okay, okay, all right, high five?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Yeah you glad you defended yourself.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
All Del City girls, Okay,
This is j Amanda and j Rob's second date update
on kJ one O three. Get Jill on the second
date update.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Hi Jill, Hey, you kind of said, hey, guys, help me.
I really would to go out with Nathan again.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Let me give you the rundown.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, So honestly, Nathan might be the most put together
guy that I've ever dated.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I could hear it in your voice. I could hear it.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
I feel like I've just been dating like boys, you know,
but that Nathan, he seems like he has a craped together.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
He's not a boy, he's a grown adult.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
He's an adult. Yeah. He invited me out for cocktail.
That's a sure manor. I mean, I mean I'm used
to dating guys that are just like, hey, you want
to go get hammered, Let's get drunk.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yeah, let's get a couple of drinks in US. Okay.
So obviously you liked it because you want to go
out with him again.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, I mean I felt like we hit it off.
He's only lived in Oklahoma for a year, so I
was telling him about some of my favorite bars and
restaurants and and he was like, yeah, we should go sometimes.
You know. Now I'm imagining myself going places with him,
which makes me happy.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So why are you on the Second Date update?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:19):
I mean where are you now?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Okay? So we made plans to go out again this
weekend and he he texted me a couple of days
ago and it is like if you cancel, and so
I asked, like, is everything okay? And he just said
all good, just changed.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
My mind and that's it. I was like, that's.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Weird to say. I don't know. That's That's the last
text I got from him and we haven't talked it.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So he didn't change his mind about the date.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
He kind of changed his mind about you maybe, Okay,
all right, heh boy, you know how this works. We're
gonna get Nathan on the phone and go, dude, what
made you change your mind? Because Jill's amazing and you're
an adult. Didn't your life for cockcres you guys cause
you get more cocktails? Okay, Well, we'll get him on
and see what he has to say. Okay, Jill, Hopefully
(02:15):
Nathan will tell us what's going on next.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
kJ went three tj Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
The Second Date update with tj.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Amanda and j Rod on kJ three Nathan on the
second date update, Thanks for coming on, Nathan.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Ain't it then? All's it going?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Well? Jill wants to know how you're doing because she
met you. You guys went on a date. You talked
about going some other places that you hadn't been to before.
Out of nowhere, You're like, ah, text, I changed my mind.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Oh well, I don't know if if she told you,
but I'm not from here. I moved to Oklahoma last
year for my.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Job, and you know, I'm still figuring things out.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
I didn't all right, well, well I didn't know that
we're not supposed.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
To date Dell City girls. Well you're not.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
We're not We're not supposed to date Dell City girls.
How did you find this on Google or something? Where
did you find this?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Oh? No, the guys that work they say that the
Dell City girls are trashy or something.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
So I was like, well, if that's what they say,
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
No, no, no, no, you did not just say that.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Okay, yeah, Nathan, Jill's on the phone and okay, wait Jill,
so you're from Dell City?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Yeah originally yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Trying to be rude or anything, but you're not trying
to be.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Rude every seriously, but you call me trash and then
and then say you're not trying to be rude.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I mean you know, I mean I wasn't. I'm sure
it wasn't directed that you. I just know you're from
Dell City and the guys that work session and.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
All girl City girls are trashy?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Is that?
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Wait a minute, now, hold on a second, is that
what they said? The guys that work like, can't date
a girl from Delle City. All Dell City girls are trashy.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Well they did say that, and they said, well, not
all Dell City girls. I mean, maybe you're not trashy,
but that's what they said.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no no, you're not talking your
way out of this. You said you didn't want to
date me because you heard all del City girls are trashy.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
That I.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Was told, Okay, where are you from, Nathan, where are
you from?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
That is so much fancier than Dale City. I'm from
that Surrey. Okay. The guys that work they're like, don't
don't date or you from Dell City? And I was like,
what's wrong with Dell City? And they said Dell City
girls are trash.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
So I was like, okay, well trashy on the date?
Like was I trashy when we first met?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
So like, why are you mad? I think because you
are tracked.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I feel like that's why.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
I mean, if they act like this.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Dude, listen, I mean you know I get that being
from the Zury.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Well, nothing, I'm not good. I'm not I'm not gonna
play this game.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Okay, Jill, would you do you still want to go
on another date with Nathan?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Yeah, no, We're done. This is ridiculous. You can you
can go now, Bye bye, Nathan, good luck? Okay in Oklahoma?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You know what, this was great. I'm glad I did this.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Alright, Wow, someone not even from Oklahoma.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I don't even live in Dulcie anymore. I moved in
middle school. But like I I, you know, I guess,
I guess I'm trash all of that stuff thaty girls
they're just trash.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
No, but I he didn't think you were trash on
the date.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
So like, obviously these boys got to talking to him,
convinced him of something that is completely untrue.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Yeah, you don't want to date someone that listens to
the boys.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Opinion dude exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I know.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Okay, well, Jill, sorry you didn't get another date.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
But you know, Nathan, he ain't from here. He don't know. Yeah,
I don't think you need to be dating this dude. Thanks, Joe.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
It's interesting because when we first talked to her, she
was like, you know, I'm I'm dating a mature man.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
He's not a boy.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah, but yeah, he turned into like like middle school
behavior when all the guys at work.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Go, oh, don't date a girl from Dell City. They're trash.
He's like lashing girl. Okay, I'll give into pure pressure,
you know what I mean? I love the cocktails. Is
not indicative of maturity. We've established.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Yes, I don't know if you want something to have
something to say about this four O.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Five for so, he needs to learn that Oklahoma girls
don't mess around.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Because I'm not the wrong with the Dell City girl
from Del City.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I'm doing just fun. Yeah, yeah, you are, that's right.
I also, I also.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
He needs to learn but she's a queen.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
That's right, that's right.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Listen, El City queen. I could eat you. I could
get if he was from like Edmund Norman somewhere else.
And he was like, I don't know, I've never had
good luck with girls from Del City where.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Just different people of state.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
It's from Missouri, like he's from darn near Illinois. Okay,
yeah Illis Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Yeah, people from Missouri. We don't know. You know what
I heard.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I heard don't date a guy from Missouri because they're
all simple. A lot of people from Missouri, and every
time I go through Missouri, they're.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Actually kind of route.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Okay, wait wait wait, wait no, now, don't don't be him.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You you just flip when he goes low, you go hi.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
I'm just saying, don't come to our state and trash.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
That's right, that's what you're stating.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
All perfect, yeah, okay, okay, all right, high five?
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Yeah you glad you defended yourself.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
All Del City girls, Okay,
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