October 9, 2025 • 7 mins
Kyle and Alexis from OKC went out. Kyle's boss asked him out, and he said he had a date. So his boss said bring them along. But when the check came it was a different story. So what happened after dinner? We find out with the 2nd Date Update.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three Kyle and Okay, see welcome to
the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Hi Kyle, Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
So? Have you thought any reasons why you're not getting
another date with a Lexus before we get her on
the phone and ask her.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I mean, I'm sure there are several reasons. Yeah, Honestly,
what I think happened is maybe she didn't like how
I acted her on My Boss. You know how you
like put on a show for your boss?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Wait? What your boss was your first you guys.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Worked together on So Lexus and I planned a date
for a Friday night, and two days before my boss
texts me and said he'll be in town with his
girlfriend that day and she wants to do dinner. So
I told him, yeah, I got a date, and he said, yeah, sure,
bring her along.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
First date. Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
She says she was cool with it and everything, but
then that was the last time we talked. So I
think something happened on the date that made her change
her mind about me.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I do think I like her, so, yeah, I'd like
to explore that more that a boss.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Right, when you add a variable out of the norm
variable into a first date that gets weird. Yeah, that's
not doesn't really count. So let's maybe we'll get your
due over first date.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Okay, okay, thanks the second date update with TJ.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Amanda and j Rod on kJ three Lexus, you ready
to do this?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
So we're talking about your date with Kyle, which he
said that.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
You had a date plan and then his boss was
coming into town and made dinner plans for the same
night and you were cool with going along, but now
you don't want another date.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
So that's all he told you.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Yeah, he kind of gifts some important details for her.
Oh really, okay, I'm very annoyed with Kyle.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
First.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
I wasn't you know, excited that our first date was
a double date with his boss and you know it's
a little weird.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Yeah, he said you were cool with it.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Yeah, So Kyle said that his boss, you know, is
going to pay for everything, so we can you know,
go off spendy and you know Ryane and dine basically
for free.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Oh okay, okay, So you're like, okay, well you'll take advantage.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Of this fancy dinner chow. Let's go. So why are
we not going out again.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Okay, So dinner ands and his boss asked how we
want to split the check?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Oh no, Also he made you guys pay. I was like,
oh not at all.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Yeah, I was like, what you know? I thought the
boss was supposed to pay, And then Kyle said that
he and I would just get our own check. Kyle
didn't even offer to own up to his mistake and
pay for me.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Okay, and I ordered.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
I ordered wine and steak, and I ran up a
pretty happy bill pick.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
One hundred and forty five dollars, which is probably more
than you spend when you go out by yourself, right.
It's like, damn, oh yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I would not have spent that much.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I knew I was paying. Okay, so this is this
is okay, Kyle, Kyle's here, Kyle. She kind of thought
she was getting a free dinner and it was one
hundred and forty five dollars for her.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Well, how was I supposed to know? You expected me
to pay for your dinner though.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
I didn't expect you to pay for anything, But you
told me your boss is gonna pay for everything. That's
why I went in the first place.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
But when he wanted to split the bill. I guess
I was supposed to pay for you.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
No, that's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
I'm fine, you know, paying for myself on a date,
but you said your boss to be buying, so I ordered,
you know, more expensive food and drinks that I usually
wanted order.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
As I would too have your boss is buying, we
hit the good stuff? Man? How is that my fault?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Though?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
You told me your boss was paying and we could
order more Sunday stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So you're mad that you tried to take advantage of
my boss and it backfire.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
You're the one who said we did order work.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Sunday stuff because I thought my boss was paying for it.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
If anything, just blame him.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Okay, Okay, let me just let me just say what's
going on here? Okay, I get where you guys are
disagreeing here because it seems like a lack of a communication.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Between Kyle and his boss.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Yeah, okay, So if we have to blame someone, can
we just blame the boss? This was a weird thing
and you guys go out again.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Alexis No, I still blame Kyle.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Oh wow, are you serious?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
You told me it was free, so you should have
paid my tab.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay, all right, blame me, I don't care.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Right, So you guys are going on again to get here.
This is not going not happening. No, it is unbelievable.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Am I in the wrong here or what I mean?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Alexis seems to think you are. Alexis. Thanks for coming
on the second date update. We appreciate you, yes, sir, Okay, bye?
I mean, honestly, I don't know. I don't think you're
necessarily in the wrong for.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
The boss saying to split the chat.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And I don't know if it's your responsibility at that
time to pay for her.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Maybe if you told me it was free and then
it was a five dollars, I think I would just
be a little shocked, like, oh, that's the opposite of free.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Wouldn't you come prepared to pay for your meal money?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I know?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Would you go out with with Kyle again in the circumstance?
Speaker 1 (05:11):
I would, Yeah, I would. That's just maybe so maybe
you're yeah, maybe you're not wrong, Kyle. But oh good,
Thank you guys. Your boss was a big time dude.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Yeah for rillsies another date.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Thanks man, thank you.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I am curious to know what our listeners saying four
or five for six one two seven, Like, you know,
should he.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Have foot the bill?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
You know?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Did she kind of shoot herself in the foot by
taking advantage of the boss? If you normally wouldn't spend
that much, but someone else is paying, so you run
up the score and I run up the bill on
his boss.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Maybe this question is like, who's this girl, I don't
know running up one hundred and forty five dollars bill.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
That might be why he split it.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
It was just him.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Maybe you would have eaten for free. Yeah, it might
be her fault. I don't know, but feel free to
call and chime in on the second date up take.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Okay, So, first of all, I think you should always
come prepared for situations like that.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
But in my personal opinion, if I'm going on a
date with.
Speaker 5 (06:09):
A guy and he tells me, oh, it's okay, my
boss is going to pay, everything's going to be free.
Speaker 6 (06:15):
He is giving me his word that it's going to
be free.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I shouldn't have to worry about it now when the
bill is being split and it's his mistake, whether it's
his boss's fault or not, I think as a man,
he should have stepped up and been like, Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
I'll pay for this because I assumed.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
That it was going to be paid for by my boss.
This is my mistake.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I agree with you.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Yeah, instead of just being like, okay, well, that's not
my fault, it kind of is your fault. You've told
us or told me that it was going to be free,
it was all going to be taken care of.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I like what you said about you being true to
your word, Like that doesn't matter if you're a guy
or a girl or anything.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
It's like if you said something was going to be
x y z and you to be x y z.
So yeah, I agree with you on that.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And also there's one thing I'm good at. It's turning
something stupid into a positive thing, and.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
That would be like I guarantee second date.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I am so sorry. I will make this up to you.
Can I pay for it? Let me take you out?
I mean, I owe you big time. Let's go on
another date just you and I I mean, let's let's Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
And you just get blaming his boss.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Right like you y'all do like also saying it's not
my fault.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
It's not my fault, but it.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Kind of was in my opinion, it was.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it just needs to be some accountability
on his part, but also a little accountability on your right.
I was taking advantage of your boss by running up
one hundred and forty five dollars.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Tax, but she was on what he's agreed, you know again.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Which might be the reason that the boss was like,
I can't run this through corporate.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
This woman that doesn't work for it is this person's favor.
All right, good call, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
You're welcome by
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three Kyle and Okay, see welcome to
the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Hi Kyle, Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
So? Have you thought any reasons why you're not getting
another date with a Lexus before we get her on
the phone and ask her.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I mean, I'm sure there are several reasons. Yeah, Honestly,
what I think happened is maybe she didn't like how
I acted her on My Boss. You know how you
like put on a show for your boss?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Wait? What your boss was your first you guys.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Worked together on So Lexus and I planned a date
for a Friday night, and two days before my boss
texts me and said he'll be in town with his
girlfriend that day and she wants to do dinner. So
I told him, yeah, I got a date, and he said, yeah, sure,
bring her along.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
First date. Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
She says she was cool with it and everything, but
then that was the last time we talked. So I
think something happened on the date that made her change
her mind about me.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I do think I like her, so, yeah, I'd like
to explore that more that a boss.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Right, when you add a variable out of the norm
variable into a first date that gets weird. Yeah, that's
not doesn't really count. So let's maybe we'll get your
due over first date.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Okay, okay, thanks the second date update with TJ.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Amanda and j Rod on kJ three Lexus, you ready
to do this?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
So we're talking about your date with Kyle, which he
said that.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
You had a date plan and then his boss was
coming into town and made dinner plans for the same
night and you were cool with going along, but now
you don't want another date.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
So that's all he told you.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Yeah, he kind of gifts some important details for her.
Oh really, okay, I'm very annoyed with Kyle.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
First.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
I wasn't you know, excited that our first date was
a double date with his boss and you know it's
a little weird.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Yeah, he said you were cool with it.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Yeah, So Kyle said that his boss, you know, is
going to pay for everything, so we can you know,
go off spendy and you know Ryane and dine basically
for free.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Oh okay, okay, So you're like, okay, well you'll take advantage.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Of this fancy dinner chow. Let's go. So why are
we not going out again.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Okay, So dinner ands and his boss asked how we
want to split the check?
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Oh no, Also he made you guys pay. I was like,
oh not at all.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Yeah, I was like, what you know? I thought the
boss was supposed to pay, And then Kyle said that
he and I would just get our own check. Kyle
didn't even offer to own up to his mistake and
pay for me.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Okay, and I ordered.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
I ordered wine and steak, and I ran up a
pretty happy bill pick.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
One hundred and forty five dollars, which is probably more
than you spend when you go out by yourself, right.
It's like, damn, oh yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I would not have spent that much.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I knew I was paying. Okay, so this is this
is okay, Kyle, Kyle's here, Kyle. She kind of thought
she was getting a free dinner and it was one
hundred and forty five dollars for her.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Well, how was I supposed to know? You expected me
to pay for your dinner though.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
I didn't expect you to pay for anything, But you
told me your boss is gonna pay for everything. That's
why I went in the first place.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
But when he wanted to split the bill. I guess
I was supposed to pay for you.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
No, that's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
I'm fine, you know, paying for myself on a date,
but you said your boss to be buying, so I ordered,
you know, more expensive food and drinks that I usually
wanted order.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
As I would too have your boss is buying, we
hit the good stuff? Man? How is that my fault?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Though?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
You told me your boss was paying and we could
order more Sunday stuff.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
So you're mad that you tried to take advantage of
my boss and it backfire.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
You're the one who said we did order work.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Sunday stuff because I thought my boss was paying for it.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
If anything, just blame him.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Okay, Okay, let me just let me just say what's
going on here? Okay, I get where you guys are
disagreeing here because it seems like a lack of a communication.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Between Kyle and his boss.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Yeah, okay, So if we have to blame someone, can
we just blame the boss? This was a weird thing
and you guys go out again.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Alexis No, I still blame Kyle.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Oh wow, are you serious?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
You told me it was free, so you should have
paid my tab.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay, all right, blame me, I don't care.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Right, So you guys are going on again to get here.
This is not going not happening. No, it is unbelievable.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Am I in the wrong here or what I mean?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Alexis seems to think you are. Alexis. Thanks for coming
on the second date update. We appreciate you, yes, sir, Okay, bye?
I mean, honestly, I don't know. I don't think you're
necessarily in the wrong for.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
The boss saying to split the chat.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And I don't know if it's your responsibility at that
time to pay for her.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Maybe if you told me it was free and then
it was a five dollars, I think I would just
be a little shocked, like, oh, that's the opposite of free.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Wouldn't you come prepared to pay for your meal money?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I know?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Would you go out with with Kyle again in the circumstance?
Speaker 1 (05:11):
I would, Yeah, I would. That's just maybe so maybe
you're yeah, maybe you're not wrong, Kyle. But oh good,
Thank you guys. Your boss was a big time dude.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Yeah for rillsies another date.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Thanks man, thank you.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I am curious to know what our listeners saying four
or five for six one two seven, Like, you know,
should he.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Have foot the bill?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
You know?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Did she kind of shoot herself in the foot by
taking advantage of the boss? If you normally wouldn't spend
that much, but someone else is paying, so you run
up the score and I run up the bill on
his boss.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Maybe this question is like, who's this girl, I don't
know running up one hundred and forty five dollars bill.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
That might be why he split it.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
It was just him.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Maybe you would have eaten for free. Yeah, it might
be her fault. I don't know, but feel free to
call and chime in on the second date up take.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Okay, So, first of all, I think you should always
come prepared for situations like that.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Thank you.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
But in my personal opinion, if I'm going on a
date with.
Speaker 5 (06:09):
A guy and he tells me, oh, it's okay, my
boss is going to pay, everything's going to be free.
Speaker 6 (06:15):
He is giving me his word that it's going to
be free.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I shouldn't have to worry about it now when the
bill is being split and it's his mistake, whether it's
his boss's fault or not, I think as a man,
he should have stepped up and been like, Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
I'll pay for this because I assumed.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
That it was going to be paid for by my boss.
This is my mistake.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I agree with you.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Yeah, instead of just being like, okay, well, that's not
my fault, it kind of is your fault. You've told
us or told me that it was going to be free,
it was all going to be taken care of.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I like what you said about you being true to
your word, Like that doesn't matter if you're a guy
or a girl or anything.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
It's like if you said something was going to be
x y z and you to be x y z.
So yeah, I agree with you on that.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And also there's one thing I'm good at. It's turning
something stupid into a positive thing, and.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
That would be like I guarantee second date.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I am so sorry. I will make this up to you.
Can I pay for it? Let me take you out?
I mean, I owe you big time. Let's go on
another date just you and I I mean, let's let's Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
And you just get blaming his boss.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Right like you y'all do like also saying it's not
my fault.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
It's not my fault, but it.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Kind of was in my opinion, it was.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it just needs to be some accountability
on his part, but also a little accountability on your right.
I was taking advantage of your boss by running up
one hundred and forty five dollars.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Tax, but she was on what he's agreed, you know again.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Which might be the reason that the boss was like,
I can't run this through corporate.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
This woman that doesn't work for it is this person's favor.
All right, good call, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
You're welcome by
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