October 3, 2025 • 6 mins
Melissa and Cameron from OKC went out on a date. They talked about another date, but then she sent the text "Can we talk?" Trigger warning for Cameron, but is this why there is not another date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Ron's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one three. Lissa, Okay, see hi,
I know that that's hi. El another date with Cameron.
Because you have no idea what's going.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
On here, I'm so confused.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Tell us about it.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Okay. So Cameron and I went on a date, like
it's been almost three weeks, you know, typical first date conversation,
but like, I think it worked really well. And you know,
at the end of the date, I told him, you know,
I had a lot of fun, like we should do
it again sometime, and he said, like, definitely, text me,
you know. So I waited the appropriate amount of time
(00:37):
and I sent him a follow up text, you know, hey,
busy this weekend?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
You know.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
He responded like not sure, you know, and then I said,
you want to get together and he was like, oh,
I remembered I have something this weekend. And then like
radio silence, he like ghosted me, okay.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Old brush off, Yeah Sunday that weekend and we don't know.
This sounds like one of those deals where it's like,
now keep her on the line just in case something
better doesn't come along.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Ye.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Yeah, I don't like that, Like I'm just like I
can't figure it out, like did I thought everything went well?
Like I just like, it's like I want to know
what did I do? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yeah, okay, I want to know too. I want to
And maybe it is maybe he's just like I don't
have time for this right now, but you're still I
don't know. We will get him on the phone and
we'll try to figure this out for you. Okay, okay,
all right, we'll take a break, play a couple of songs,
and we'll see what's up here with this second date
update kJ one O three tj Amanda and j Rod
in the morning. This is TJ Amanda and j Rod's
(01:40):
second date.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Updates on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Cameron on the second date update, Cameron, Well, we actually
have a question about your date with Melissa, because you
went on your first date and I guess at the
end of the date, you're like, oh, this is fun,
text me we'll go out again. And then she texts
you and you're like, oh yeah, what are you thinking
to never reply? You just went away.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I mean, listen, I was I was legit when I
told her to text me. I had a good time.
I wanted to see her again. Well, here Listen, I've
been talking to my friends about this. You tell me
see if you can translate this text for me. Okay,
just do you have time to get together and talk?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
That sounds bad, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Your question is like, uh, hey.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
But why let's get together and talk? Like, hey, what
do you want to do? How about we just get
together and talk? Because it's very literal, because what else
would you do?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Right, that's exactly right. That's that's the unspoken part. Like
we get together, we're gonna talk. That's what we're going
to do while we go to the movies, or we
go to dinner, or we go to kick coffee or
we go for a walk. Like when you focus on
the talk, right, Like that's that's we're going to talk about,
Like you're gonna like I don't know you're gonna that's
like I said, that's the breakup thing or that's just
(02:55):
not something I'm looking to be a part of it.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Like talk and like sounds like a bombs about. Right,
there's no relationship here, so it's not like that. It
could be like, oh the end of something, Melissa, Oh well, okay, Melissa,
let's get together and talk what's talk?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
What?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
What's the heavy talk?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Apparently that's something people say, like, hey, you want to
get together and talk, like hang out and that like gonna.
I just met you. I'm not going to propost my
like love to you or like a like emotional thing.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
She's gonna like she's got something really that she needs
to like talk about. We gotta we figured, we gotta
like talk.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Melissa, What were you saying? What were you trying to say?
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I was like, you know, hey, like let's get together,
grab a drink to talk, get to know each other
like people do on a date.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
A normal person have a normal person All right, hold on,
so let me finish. Yes, a normal text from a
normal person would say, hey, can you meet for a drink?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Can you know?
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Implying the book, We're going to have a drink and
then yes, of course we'll have conversation while we do that.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Let's get together and talk. Does not like imply like,
hey you want to hang out and talk.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
It feels like a trigger word for guys outrigger words.
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Oh, I think this is gonna. I don't know where
this is going, and I don't want to find out
which is ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
There's a lot being taken away from just this one text.
I feel like there's space for other dates.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
But does he analyze every move I make?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Like this?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, Cameron, she's already explained that having the conversation was
going to be the fun part of the date, and
we'll have a drink or something too, but it was
really let's get together and let's just talk, like, what
do you want to do tonight? I don't know, let's
just talk, okay. I mean, would you like to go
and try another day with Melissa? Based on knowing this?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh no? And now that I've seen this immature side
of Cameron, I don't think I want to go out
with him anymore.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
You don't want to go out with him anymore?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
If he's going to overanalyze, then maybe that's not your back.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Sounds amazing, sounds amazing.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I don't think you mean that.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
It sounds amazing.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Okay, Yeah, I think it was a stamp. All right, Cameron,
We're gonna let you go, okay, Bud, Okay, bye, Thanks
for translating cameron sarcasm for as Avanda, Just like, Hey.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
I think I like you, but I like, I want
to know who.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
You are more.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, you meant it in the literal sense of let's talk,
let's have the talk.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Yeah, I get that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
So like, what is there even to talk about after
one date?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah? Yeah, okay, So I'm gonna I'm gonna I don't
need to man explain this, but I'm going to translate
into I don't care what we do. I just want
to hang out and get to know each other. That
would make a sense, And can we get together and talk?
Just men, men freak out at that.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
The tea works these boys.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
But I like the boldness of what you said. It's
a tea word. I want to spend time with you. Well,
let's don't say the tea word around us. We run, Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I will never text the word talk to another name.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
You already text them, You already text them. Thank you, Melissa,
Thanks guys.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
All right.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Feel free to comment on the second date update four
oh five four six one o two seven if you
want to chime in.
This is tj Amanda and j Ron's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one three. Lissa, Okay, see hi,
I know that that's hi. El another date with Cameron.
Because you have no idea what's going.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
On here, I'm so confused.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Tell us about it.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Okay. So Cameron and I went on a date, like
it's been almost three weeks, you know, typical first date conversation,
but like, I think it worked really well. And you know,
at the end of the date, I told him, you know,
I had a lot of fun, like we should do
it again sometime, and he said, like, definitely, text me,
you know. So I waited the appropriate amount of time
(00:37):
and I sent him a follow up text, you know, hey,
busy this weekend?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
You know.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
He responded like not sure, you know, and then I said,
you want to get together and he was like, oh,
I remembered I have something this weekend. And then like
radio silence, he like ghosted me, okay.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Old brush off, Yeah Sunday that weekend and we don't know.
This sounds like one of those deals where it's like,
now keep her on the line just in case something
better doesn't come along.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Ye.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Yeah, I don't like that, Like I'm just like I
can't figure it out, like did I thought everything went well?
Like I just like, it's like I want to know
what did I do? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yeah, okay, I want to know too. I want to
And maybe it is maybe he's just like I don't
have time for this right now, but you're still I
don't know. We will get him on the phone and
we'll try to figure this out for you. Okay, okay,
all right, we'll take a break, play a couple of songs,
and we'll see what's up here with this second date
update kJ one O three tj Amanda and j Rod
in the morning. This is TJ Amanda and j Rod's
(01:40):
second date.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Updates on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Cameron on the second date update, Cameron, Well, we actually
have a question about your date with Melissa, because you
went on your first date and I guess at the
end of the date, you're like, oh, this is fun,
text me we'll go out again. And then she texts
you and you're like, oh yeah, what are you thinking
to never reply? You just went away.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I mean, listen, I was I was legit when I
told her to text me. I had a good time.
I wanted to see her again. Well, here Listen, I've
been talking to my friends about this. You tell me
see if you can translate this text for me. Okay,
just do you have time to get together and talk?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
That sounds bad, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Your question is like, uh, hey.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
But why let's get together and talk? Like, hey, what
do you want to do? How about we just get
together and talk? Because it's very literal, because what else
would you do?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Right, that's exactly right. That's that's the unspoken part. Like
we get together, we're gonna talk. That's what we're going
to do while we go to the movies, or we
go to dinner, or we go to kick coffee or
we go for a walk. Like when you focus on
the talk, right, Like that's that's we're going to talk about,
Like you're gonna like I don't know you're gonna that's
like I said, that's the breakup thing or that's just
(02:55):
not something I'm looking to be a part of it.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Like talk and like sounds like a bombs about. Right,
there's no relationship here, so it's not like that. It
could be like, oh the end of something, Melissa, Oh well, okay, Melissa,
let's get together and talk what's talk?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
What?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
What's the heavy talk?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Apparently that's something people say, like, hey, you want to
get together and talk, like hang out and that like gonna.
I just met you. I'm not going to propost my
like love to you or like a like emotional thing.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
She's gonna like she's got something really that she needs
to like talk about. We gotta we figured, we gotta
like talk.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Melissa, What were you saying? What were you trying to say?
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I was like, you know, hey, like let's get together,
grab a drink to talk, get to know each other
like people do on a date.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
A normal person have a normal person All right, hold on,
so let me finish. Yes, a normal text from a
normal person would say, hey, can you meet for a drink?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Can you know?
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Implying the book, We're going to have a drink and
then yes, of course we'll have conversation while we do that.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Let's get together and talk. Does not like imply like,
hey you want to hang out and talk.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
It feels like a trigger word for guys outrigger words.
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Oh, I think this is gonna. I don't know where
this is going, and I don't want to find out
which is ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
There's a lot being taken away from just this one text.
I feel like there's space for other dates.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
But does he analyze every move I make?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Like this?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, Cameron, she's already explained that having the conversation was
going to be the fun part of the date, and
we'll have a drink or something too, but it was
really let's get together and let's just talk, like, what
do you want to do tonight? I don't know, let's
just talk, okay. I mean, would you like to go
and try another day with Melissa? Based on knowing this?
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh no? And now that I've seen this immature side
of Cameron, I don't think I want to go out
with him anymore.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
You don't want to go out with him anymore?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
If he's going to overanalyze, then maybe that's not your back.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Sounds amazing, sounds amazing.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I don't think you mean that.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
It sounds amazing.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Okay, Yeah, I think it was a stamp. All right, Cameron,
We're gonna let you go, okay, Bud, Okay, bye, Thanks
for translating cameron sarcasm for as Avanda, Just like, Hey.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
I think I like you, but I like, I want
to know who.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
You are more.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah, you meant it in the literal sense of let's talk,
let's have the talk.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Yeah, I get that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
So like, what is there even to talk about after
one date?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah? Yeah, okay, So I'm gonna I'm gonna I don't
need to man explain this, but I'm going to translate
into I don't care what we do. I just want
to hang out and get to know each other. That
would make a sense, And can we get together and talk?
Just men, men freak out at that.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
The tea works these boys.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
But I like the boldness of what you said. It's
a tea word. I want to spend time with you. Well,
let's don't say the tea word around us. We run, Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
I will never text the word talk to another name.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
You already text them, You already text them. Thank you, Melissa,
Thanks guys.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
All right.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Feel free to comment on the second date update four
oh five four six one o two seven if you
want to chime in.
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