November 6, 2025 • 6 mins
Olive and Tim from Norman went out after he begged her for a date. Then the changes started coming from Olive. Changes? What happened on the 2nd Date Update?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date updates on kJ one three if in Norman
on the second date update, Hello, I.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hey, hey, I swear I just don't understand them. Sometimes
here we go.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
That's why we do the second date update because sexist
don't understand each other. But why in this case don't
you understand Tim?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Well? You see, to him, he practically like begged me
to go out to dinner with him, and now he
hasn't even talked to me since we actually did.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Okay, So he was like he so he was very
motivated for this date.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Yeah, yeah, I mean he asked me out. I mean
he whined me, dying me all that stuff, you know,
paid all the money, like they take me out, and
yeah it was nice. But now he ghosted me, okay.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
And there wasn't there wasn't any sign on the date
that it just wasn't going well.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
No, No, I mean I thought we connected like I was.
I was doing my best flirting, you know, I was
really on my A game. But he or why now
like to any of my messages. So, I mean, good
lucky all forgetting them on the phone.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
What you do we got away to get him on
the phone next goes something like this, Hey, Alep's talking
about you on the radio. You want to defend yourself
and then that's kind of defense modes initiated. So hopefully
we'll get him on and find out why he's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Okay, all right, let's see.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Talk to next second date up to J three, tj
Amanda and Jay rout in the morning.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update
on kJ one three.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Him in here for the second date update. Hi, Tim, Hey,
how's it going guys? Good? I mean, Alive said you
practically begged her to go out with her and then
ghosted her immediately after this date, and she wants to
find out why. So thanks for coming on the show
for the second date update. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Absolutely, you know. I'm I'm happy to talk about Olive
on the radio because none of that is true.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Oh now, I can't wait to hear this. I mean,
you beg me like you were begging me.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
I beg you. I didn't beg you to go out.
I asked you out.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, three times, you asked me three times.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I didn't beg though asking you three times is not okay.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Okay, let's just get over who asked too how many times?
Why are you now ghosting her?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Because it was man, it was absolutely ridiculous. I don't
even know if I would call it a date. She
just like kept comparing me to other guys, you.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Know, and she was saying like you should be.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Like that guy or that guy whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It was.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
It was nuts. I've never experienced anything like it before
coming out. Like we were passing a guy that was
wearing a bunch of chains, and I was like, man,
remember how like popular that was in high school? And
she goes, well, I still like chains. I think you
should wear something. I think you should start wearing them.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
It was just it was a topic of conversation, Tim.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I was just like trying to.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Find that guy though, like and then and then you
were like you saw this guy's long, shaggy hair, and
you were like, man, have you ever thought about growing
out your hair? I really like long.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
And shaggy hair. And I'm just like, why why are
you reacting so harsh to this, Like why is this
such a thing for you for me?
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I think it's a thing for you. You should go
date those guys if you weren't like change and long
hair and whatnot, Like, stop comparing me to everything, dude.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
They weren't the ones, Tim, They weren't the ones who
asked me out. You're the one who lest me out.
Three times. You asked me out, so.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Oh oh, now I asked you out. Hey, who's the
one begging for a date? Right? Like on the radio
you're calling in about this date?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Are you sing? I'm I'm not the beggar, Tim, You're
the one who begged me to go out with you,
So just get your Oh my god, look, hey, you
know you know what I just I like.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Women who aren't absolutely nuts. So have you ever thought
about trying to not be crazy?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Go and shut up? Like obviously he's getting defensive out
of self esteem issues.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So I don't you guys have no idea what I experienced.
Like I'm the problem here, right, come on?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I mean not a match, not at all.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I if you guys agreed to go out at this point,
I'd be like, no, you should.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Ye, I'm going out with this chick.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay, all right? Tim?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Okay, bye him? Thanks for coming on the second day
up day. We appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah, I have a great day, guys.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Okay, care.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Oh my gosh, I feel like you were just trying
to make conversation. I don't know I've said things like
that before, stuff like that observation.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's not like you're trying to say more like that guy.
You're just like observing different trends.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I mean, clearly boyfriend getting defensive. You know, if I
see a guy with the cool hair or like an
actual fashion sense, like I'm going to comment on it.
I'm sorry if he can't deal with that. Great man,
by the way, for what it's worth, Like, I'm sure
I also mentioned some women who look good too.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
You know, right?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
All right, okay, obviously not a match you no, but
thank you for coming on the second date update out
of anytime, yes, any anytime you want. We're glad to
get you on entertain it.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Thank you all. What's going on? Is it the full?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Why is everybody so like this?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Like?
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Seriously, I will say anytime anybody has that strong of
opinions that who's right, I'm guessing you listening has an
opinion too, Okay, so is he getting worked up over
nothing that she'd see a guy? Oh that guy, Oh
that guy looks good with his hair like that.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
You should do your hair like that.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Just a suggestion the way you look is wrong or bad. No,
just change yourself to look better. I don't know, or
or is she wrong for like saying that stuff? I
don't know, four or five or six on one to
two seven if you want to chime in on the
second date update kJ otdle three TJ, Amanda and Jay
right in the morning,
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date updates on kJ one three if in Norman
on the second date update, Hello, I.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hey, hey, I swear I just don't understand them. Sometimes
here we go.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
That's why we do the second date update because sexist
don't understand each other. But why in this case don't
you understand Tim?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Well? You see, to him, he practically like begged me
to go out to dinner with him, and now he
hasn't even talked to me since we actually did.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Okay, So he was like he so he was very
motivated for this date.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Yeah, yeah, I mean he asked me out. I mean
he whined me, dying me all that stuff, you know,
paid all the money, like they take me out, and
yeah it was nice. But now he ghosted me, okay.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
And there wasn't there wasn't any sign on the date
that it just wasn't going well.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
No, No, I mean I thought we connected like I was.
I was doing my best flirting, you know, I was
really on my A game. But he or why now
like to any of my messages. So, I mean, good
lucky all forgetting them on the phone.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
What you do we got away to get him on
the phone next goes something like this, Hey, Alep's talking
about you on the radio. You want to defend yourself
and then that's kind of defense modes initiated. So hopefully
we'll get him on and find out why he's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Okay, all right, let's see.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Talk to next second date up to J three, tj
Amanda and Jay rout in the morning.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date update
on kJ one three.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Him in here for the second date update. Hi, Tim, Hey,
how's it going guys? Good? I mean, Alive said you
practically begged her to go out with her and then
ghosted her immediately after this date, and she wants to
find out why. So thanks for coming on the show
for the second date update. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Absolutely, you know. I'm I'm happy to talk about Olive
on the radio because none of that is true.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Oh now, I can't wait to hear this. I mean,
you beg me like you were begging me.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
I beg you. I didn't beg you to go out.
I asked you out.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, three times, you asked me three times.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I didn't beg though asking you three times is not okay.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Okay, let's just get over who asked too how many times?
Why are you now ghosting her?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Because it was man, it was absolutely ridiculous. I don't
even know if I would call it a date. She
just like kept comparing me to other guys, you.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Know, and she was saying like you should be.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Like that guy or that guy whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It was.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
It was nuts. I've never experienced anything like it before
coming out. Like we were passing a guy that was
wearing a bunch of chains, and I was like, man,
remember how like popular that was in high school? And
she goes, well, I still like chains. I think you
should wear something. I think you should start wearing them.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
It was just it was a topic of conversation, Tim.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I was just like trying to.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Find that guy though, like and then and then you
were like you saw this guy's long, shaggy hair, and
you were like, man, have you ever thought about growing
out your hair? I really like long.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
And shaggy hair. And I'm just like, why why are
you reacting so harsh to this, Like why is this
such a thing for you for me?
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I think it's a thing for you. You should go
date those guys if you weren't like change and long
hair and whatnot, Like, stop comparing me to everything, dude.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
They weren't the ones, Tim, They weren't the ones who
asked me out. You're the one who lest me out.
Three times. You asked me out, so.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Oh oh, now I asked you out. Hey, who's the
one begging for a date? Right? Like on the radio
you're calling in about this date?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Are you sing? I'm I'm not the beggar, Tim, You're
the one who begged me to go out with you,
So just get your Oh my god, look, hey, you
know you know what I just I like.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Women who aren't absolutely nuts. So have you ever thought
about trying to not be crazy?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Go and shut up? Like obviously he's getting defensive out
of self esteem issues.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So I don't you guys have no idea what I experienced.
Like I'm the problem here, right, come on?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I mean not a match, not at all.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I if you guys agreed to go out at this point,
I'd be like, no, you should.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Ye, I'm going out with this chick.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay, all right? Tim?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Okay, bye him? Thanks for coming on the second day
up day. We appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah, I have a great day, guys.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Okay, care.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Oh my gosh, I feel like you were just trying
to make conversation. I don't know I've said things like
that before, stuff like that observation.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's not like you're trying to say more like that guy.
You're just like observing different trends.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I mean, clearly boyfriend getting defensive. You know, if I
see a guy with the cool hair or like an
actual fashion sense, like I'm going to comment on it.
I'm sorry if he can't deal with that. Great man,
by the way, for what it's worth, Like, I'm sure
I also mentioned some women who look good too.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
You know, right?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
All right, okay, obviously not a match you no, but
thank you for coming on the second date update out
of anytime, yes, any anytime you want. We're glad to
get you on entertain it.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Thank you all. What's going on? Is it the full?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Why is everybody so like this?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Like?
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Seriously, I will say anytime anybody has that strong of
opinions that who's right, I'm guessing you listening has an
opinion too, Okay, so is he getting worked up over
nothing that she'd see a guy? Oh that guy, Oh
that guy looks good with his hair like that.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
You should do your hair like that.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Just a suggestion the way you look is wrong or bad. No,
just change yourself to look better. I don't know, or
or is she wrong for like saying that stuff? I
don't know, four or five or six on one to
two seven if you want to chime in on the
second date update kJ otdle three TJ, Amanda and Jay
right in the morning,
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