December 15, 2025 • 7 mins
Phillip and Kelly from OKC met on IG, and she was looking for a date to see Christmas lights and dinner. But when he picked her up it might not have been what she was looking for.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Date update on kJ one O three hill up from
OKC on the second date update, Hey.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Philip, what's up? Hey guys?
Speaker 3 (00:09):
How's it going?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
So you you you met Kelly through social media or
what's the story? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, so we we follow each other on Instagram, so
we're familiar with each other. Sure, And so she posted
something about looking for a handsome man to take her
out on town to see the Christmas lights. So I
very boldly sent her a message like I'm looking for
a beautiful woman like you to take on a romantic
Christmas light tour with me. And she asked if this
(00:40):
was a date, and I said, well, if that's good for.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
You, and she said yes, nice.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Dude, Yeah, that could have been embarrassing, but you went
for it.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
And for it. I was like, you know, what is
so beautiful? I have to go for it?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Look at you?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Right?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
So, long story short, I took up some sarcruterie and
some fancy SODA's and mid a Christmas playlist. I googled
the best houses in neighborhoods and I picked her up
and we went around town Saint Christmas. Like.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
I like that that's a good idea.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Of a lot of thought into that.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
So when I picked her up, she looked amazing and
seemed really into it, and then her enthusiasm faded throughout
the night, and she hasn't answered my messages if anything,
so I don't really know what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Okay, all right, so hmm, maybe your company isn't as exciting.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Maybe that is it. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
We'll find out why she seemed really excited to go
out with you and then just kind of doesn't care anymore.
But all right, take a break, play a couple of songs.
We'll get this figured out. Coming up for the second
Date update kJ one O three, TJ Amanda and Jay
Rodd in the morning.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
The second Date update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Kelly in the Second Date Update, Hi Kelly, Hey Kelly, Hi,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So, I mean, long story short, Philip said you posted
something on Instagram about wanting a handsome man to take
him out to see some Christmas lights.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
And he's like, I think I'm your.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Handsome man if you want to be my beautiful woman.
And you guys went on this date, but that was.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Kind of it well, yes, my post was about finding
a limo to drive me around town, and I just
wanted to see Christmas lights with a hot guy.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
And I mean Philip is hot.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Okay, so that.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Part he totally nailed.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
But I do feel like he's still over promised and
like underdelivered, Like I'm expecting him.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
To pick me up in a limo.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
You know, he shows up in the Toyota.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Oh okay, so you thought you were going out on
a limo Christmas light date.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Yes, I thought we were going to be in a limo.
I thought there was gonna be Champagne. I mean that's
what my post said, that's what he responded to. Okay,
so he shows up in the Toyota. There's not even
a Champagne. I'm thinking at this point, still thinking we're
gonna go meet the limo somewhere right now. From Oh,
we're riding around in the Toyota. We're eating cheese and crackers,
(03:09):
and we're drinking like poppy soda. Like that's not a
limo and that's not Champagne.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Can I step in here?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Can I?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I can't believe how ungrateful you are.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Ungrateful about what, Like I said, I specifically wanted a
limo to go see Christmas lights.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
You read the posts and responded to the post, you.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Know what, I planned a fun night. I paid a
lot of money for that charkouterie and you're like mocking,
like me ate cheese and crackers.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Well, look, I really am sorry that you're offended, but
you kind of led me.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
To believe that we were gonna go on a limo ride,
and it was just you're driving me around in your Toyota.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Do other men let you treat them like this?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Like what I mean?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
I answered the question. They asked me.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Why I'm not interested, and I told them.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
This is why.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I guess you're pretty enough that other guys would put
up with your attitude. But I'm not gonna sit here
and let you talk bad about me.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
And you're definitely not hot enough to take a girl
on a bargain base make Christmas lights or.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
I'm not begging for dates on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Neither was I.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Honey, you reached out to me, you responded to.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Me, you know what, Okay, don't.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Oh, I feel like this is a match Listen.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Kelly obviously wanted another thing. Philip planned something that I
thought it was a cool date, but.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
You wanted Kelly. I guess yeah, I mean okay, Sorry
this time.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I'm just being honest, so I guess the truth hurts.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I have nothing left to say here.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
This is just ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Okay, Okay, Kelly, we're going, Kelly, We're gonna let you go.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Thanks for me.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I'm still waiting for my Limbo one champagne by.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Kelly's available, So okay, thanks Kelly.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
She fancy.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
I have never been treated like this, like I've had breakups.
Go work better than that. I tried hard to make
a fun date seeing Christmas lights, which was what she wanted. Sure,
I wouldn't let my worst enemy date her. That's just insane.
If you're so focused on being wined and dined instead
of having a good time with a handsome man, I
(05:40):
don't want anything to do with you.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Let's be real. Charcouterie is not the cheapest thing in
the world. Maybe you know I spent.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Like fifty dollars on that charcuterie board. Cracker puppy is
not either.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Honestly, Probiotics, that's.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Right, Biotics, thank you. Honestly send me the map of
the houses you went. I would do this exact date
with my wife.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
If she won't know it, I kid you not. There
are some amazing houses. I will send it to you.
Do not worry.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Sorry to get you the other day with Kelly and
sorry that just was that was awful, but thanks for coming.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
On the second date update. The only different CJ would
it would be lunchables.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
So yeah, my friend Molly said to me all sorts
of right now, ooh, the pretty tax she got, pretty privilege,
it says, I don't know your thoughts pour five six
one o two seven. Listen, I get her going well.
(06:38):
I had asked for a lima or whatever, but I
thought dude worked hard to make something.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
You know, just I don't know her effort. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
And then he's not hot enough to do a bargain
basement date. So if he would have done a more
expensive date, does that make him hot?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I don't know. It was a tricky one.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
He overpaid for Charcooterie, Aldy for the wind.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
None is Molly, Thank you, Molly, Molly for the wind.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Okay four O five four six one two seven. If
you want to chime in on the second eight update, exactly.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
He came up with something like that are you kidding me?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Right?
Speaker 5 (07:09):
If if my boyfriend, like when we first started talking
or something, if he decided to do that, I'd be hooked.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I'd be like, that is so considerate.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
You know, I don't think that too.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
She said, you're not hot enough to do this bargain
days basement date. But if there was someone I maybe
was kind of mildly attracted to and she went to
that kind of effort to have a fun night, I'd
be like, it says a lot this. This girl's cool,
and I make me more attracted to her.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
They might have say more about their character.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Shoe, she's got a wine and she's got a wine budget.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
He's are a wine taste, taste for wine, and he's
got to.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Be your budget.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah, you're out there. We know what you meant. Okay,
it takes Taylor, you know what I mean. Okay, but
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Date update on kJ one O three hill up from
OKC on the second date update, Hey.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Philip, what's up? Hey guys?
Speaker 3 (00:09):
How's it going?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
So you you you met Kelly through social media or
what's the story? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, so we we follow each other on Instagram, so
we're familiar with each other. Sure, And so she posted
something about looking for a handsome man to take her
out on town to see the Christmas lights. So I
very boldly sent her a message like I'm looking for
a beautiful woman like you to take on a romantic
Christmas light tour with me. And she asked if this
(00:40):
was a date, and I said, well, if that's good for.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
You, and she said yes, nice.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Dude, Yeah, that could have been embarrassing, but you went
for it.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
And for it. I was like, you know, what is
so beautiful? I have to go for it?
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Look at you?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Right?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
So, long story short, I took up some sarcruterie and
some fancy SODA's and mid a Christmas playlist. I googled
the best houses in neighborhoods and I picked her up
and we went around town Saint Christmas. Like.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
I like that that's a good idea.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Of a lot of thought into that.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
So when I picked her up, she looked amazing and
seemed really into it, and then her enthusiasm faded throughout
the night, and she hasn't answered my messages if anything,
so I don't really know what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Okay, all right, so hmm, maybe your company isn't as exciting.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Maybe that is it. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
We'll find out why she seemed really excited to go
out with you and then just kind of doesn't care anymore.
But all right, take a break, play a couple of songs.
We'll get this figured out. Coming up for the second
Date update kJ one O three, TJ Amanda and Jay
Rodd in the morning.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
The second Date update with TJ, Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Kelly in the Second Date Update, Hi Kelly, Hey Kelly, Hi,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So, I mean, long story short, Philip said you posted
something on Instagram about wanting a handsome man to take
him out to see some Christmas lights.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
And he's like, I think I'm your.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Handsome man if you want to be my beautiful woman.
And you guys went on this date, but that was.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Kind of it well, yes, my post was about finding
a limo to drive me around town, and I just
wanted to see Christmas lights with a hot guy.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
And I mean Philip is hot.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Okay, so that.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Part he totally nailed.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
But I do feel like he's still over promised and
like underdelivered, Like I'm expecting him.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
To pick me up in a limo.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
You know, he shows up in the Toyota.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Oh okay, so you thought you were going out on
a limo Christmas light date.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Yes, I thought we were going to be in a limo.
I thought there was gonna be Champagne. I mean that's
what my post said, that's what he responded to. Okay,
so he shows up in the Toyota. There's not even
a Champagne. I'm thinking at this point, still thinking we're
gonna go meet the limo somewhere right now. From Oh,
we're riding around in the Toyota. We're eating cheese and crackers,
(03:09):
and we're drinking like poppy soda. Like that's not a
limo and that's not Champagne.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Can I step in here?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
Can I?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I can't believe how ungrateful you are.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Ungrateful about what, Like I said, I specifically wanted a
limo to go see Christmas lights.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
You read the posts and responded to the post, you.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Know what, I planned a fun night. I paid a
lot of money for that charkouterie and you're like mocking,
like me ate cheese and crackers.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Well, look, I really am sorry that you're offended, but
you kind of led me.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
To believe that we were gonna go on a limo ride,
and it was just you're driving me around in your Toyota.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Do other men let you treat them like this?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Like what I mean?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
I answered the question. They asked me.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Why I'm not interested, and I told them.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
This is why.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I guess you're pretty enough that other guys would put
up with your attitude. But I'm not gonna sit here
and let you talk bad about me.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
And you're definitely not hot enough to take a girl
on a bargain base make Christmas lights or.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
I'm not begging for dates on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Neither was I.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Honey, you reached out to me, you responded to.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Me, you know what, Okay, don't.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Oh, I feel like this is a match Listen.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Kelly obviously wanted another thing. Philip planned something that I
thought it was a cool date, but.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
You wanted Kelly. I guess yeah, I mean okay, Sorry
this time.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I'm just being honest, so I guess the truth hurts.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I have nothing left to say here.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
This is just ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Okay, Okay, Kelly, we're going, Kelly, We're gonna let you go.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Thanks for me.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I'm still waiting for my Limbo one champagne by.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Kelly's available, So okay, thanks Kelly.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
She fancy.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
I have never been treated like this, like I've had breakups.
Go work better than that. I tried hard to make
a fun date seeing Christmas lights, which was what she wanted. Sure,
I wouldn't let my worst enemy date her. That's just insane.
If you're so focused on being wined and dined instead
of having a good time with a handsome man, I
(05:40):
don't want anything to do with you.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Let's be real. Charcouterie is not the cheapest thing in
the world. Maybe you know I spent.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Like fifty dollars on that charcuterie board. Cracker puppy is
not either.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Honestly, Probiotics, that's.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Right, Biotics, thank you. Honestly send me the map of
the houses you went. I would do this exact date
with my wife.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
If she won't know it, I kid you not. There
are some amazing houses. I will send it to you.
Do not worry.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Sorry to get you the other day with Kelly and
sorry that just was that was awful, but thanks for coming.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
On the second date update. The only different CJ would
it would be lunchables.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
So yeah, my friend Molly said to me all sorts
of right now, ooh, the pretty tax she got, pretty privilege,
it says, I don't know your thoughts pour five six
one o two seven. Listen, I get her going well.
(06:38):
I had asked for a lima or whatever, but I
thought dude worked hard to make something.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
You know, just I don't know her effort. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
And then he's not hot enough to do a bargain
basement date. So if he would have done a more
expensive date, does that make him hot?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I don't know. It was a tricky one.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
He overpaid for Charcooterie, Aldy for the wind.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
None is Molly, Thank you, Molly, Molly for the wind.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Okay four O five four six one two seven. If
you want to chime in on the second eight update, exactly.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
He came up with something like that are you kidding me?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Right?
Speaker 5 (07:09):
If if my boyfriend, like when we first started talking
or something, if he decided to do that, I'd be hooked.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I'd be like, that is so considerate.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
You know, I don't think that too.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
She said, you're not hot enough to do this bargain
days basement date. But if there was someone I maybe
was kind of mildly attracted to and she went to
that kind of effort to have a fun night, I'd
be like, it says a lot this. This girl's cool,
and I make me more attracted to her.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
They might have say more about their character.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Shoe, she's got a wine and she's got a wine budget.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
He's are a wine taste, taste for wine, and he's
got to.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Be your budget.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah, you're out there. We know what you meant. Okay,
it takes Taylor, you know what I mean. Okay, but
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