June 16, 2025 • 8 mins
Rebecca from Norman and Cal went out because she thought he was yummy, but dinner was a dish served cold for Rebecca on the date because now Cal won't call her back for another date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is TJ Janatan j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one O three. You got Rebecca from Norman
on the second date update. Hi Rebecca, Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Not having good luck going out with Cal again apparently.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I mean it's it's been a little complicated, I guess,
and I wasn't expecting it.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Okay, but your way into Cal? Right?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Oh my god, Cal is so yummy yummy. Yeah. I
saw him at Starbucks like a couple of months ago,
and we exchanged info, and I kind of wanted him
to like contact me first, you know, But like a
month went by and night and I text him and
I'm like, you know, I'm just trying to be cute.
So I'm like, are you ever going to ask me out?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Or what?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Little ball?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I know?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, I know, I know, I know.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
He did eventually like text me back, and we met
for some adult beverages.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I don't know, maybe two weeks.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Ago, okay, okay, and you you, I mean in your email,
You're like, oh my god, I love him so much.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
I am totally smitten, Like I really really like him.
We had really great conversation and I just felt like,
I don't know, I but like a little chemistry with him.
I mean, I was really feeling it, and I feel
like it was a very like it was a comfortable
first date, you know.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Okay, but why are you on the second date? Update? Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Well, I didn't hear from him during the following week,
so again I made the first move and I texted
him and I was like, so, obviously I'm going to
have to initiate another date with you, kind of like
wink wink, you know, sure, But there was no reply.
So the next day I texted him again, like in case.
(01:51):
You know, people get busy and their phones get full
of messages and maybe they don't see it or whatever.
But I texted him again and I'm like, you want
to get together? Questioner, And then he didn't reply again.
I mean, I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
The date was great, okay, but.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
There's a chance yeah, yeah, but there's there's a chance
you did something and you're willing to find out and
maybe we'll get you another date with cal. So okay,
you hold on a second, Rebecca, and we'll try to
get this all figured out for you.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Okay, Okay, It's TJ Jannet and Jay Rides. Second date
update on kJ one O three. We got Rebecca from Norman.
She called us.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
She's like, oh my gosh, Cal, He's yummy and I
love him so much and I want to go out
with him again. And Cal's just like grin, really cashual,
he was really Casha about getting back to her for
the first date and now nothing since Cal's on for
the second date. Update, Cal, thanks for coming on the
second date.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Update? What's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
You know?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
So far?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
She thought everything was comfortable and good conversation and all that.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
When are your conversation? We had that, uh, except it
was one thing. It was all Rebecca in that conversation.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
What do you mean by that?
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Like, Yo, I've never in my life ever met someone
who likes to talk about themselves this much. It was crazy,
like ninety percent of the conversation was Rebecca ninety.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Talking about Caw you you told me.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
All but you saw Rebecca's on the phone. By the way, Cal, well.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Rebecca, listen, dang, this is exactly how the conversation went.
You asked like, do you have any pets? Right, and
I'd say, yeah, I have a boxer. Then you go
on and on like, oh my god, my neighbor had
a boxer when I was a kid, and he used
to poop in that yard. And so my mom hate
a dog. Oh yeah, my dad liked to watch boxing,
(03:45):
so he liked boxes too. So I've never had a dog.
My mom got me a dog. Now now I'm an
a doctor the dog. And you went on and on
and on for five minutes. I didn't even get a
chance to get a word in.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
It was not like that at all. It wasn't like that.
You guys.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
You literally asked me a question just so you can
answer it about yourself. That's a conversation.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
That's what you do on a date.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
You went off for like five minutes about ordering a
swim suit from Amazon.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Oh yeah, my god, you don't get Janet Janet, Yes,
how hard is it to find a bathing suit? Like,
I'm always out there looking for a babies, I go
to Target looking for looking for I'm always looking for Okay,
I absolutely have to try it on. But this one
I just ordered off of Amazon and it was so
beautiful and like nobody's wearing it. Want to if I
(04:44):
can vent you the link, I will. One of those
bases you have to.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Cal's trying to say something.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Here you right there, see perfect example. You see that
that's exactly what I.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Had to do. Oh the night you said that I
was going on for like five minutes, and that was
not five minutes. I was just I mean, that was
like a minute.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
And not even I mean it felt like five minutes
to me.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Okay, you agree, Okay, Cal, Okay, Okay, Okay, I get
what you're saying, Cal, but I mean, listen, we'll send
you guys on another date. Rebecca might just sit and
listen and let you talk this time.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Listen, we don't we don't need any more dates because
I learned everything possible about her, like I could write
a book about her.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
My god, you are exaggerating.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Okay, Okay, all right, all right, Cal, we're I guess
we're gonna, like I heard it, by the way, call,
I heard, we're gonna.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Let you go. But thanks for coming on the second
date update.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Okay, all right, thank you, you guys. Have a good one.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Okay, bye, Cal, Bye.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I don't understand, like I didn't know that he had
that that side to him, honestly, whatever, I guess he
wants a girl to just sit there in silence, and
I just I find that so like totally and completely boring,
Like I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I can't live my life like that. Sure.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Honestly, I'm gonna take you that like from Amazon because
they're really really cute.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Beating Yeah, I totally need it. Okay, uh, you guys
being too.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Why don't you and Janet go on a date because
Cala's out?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Very Yeah, you guys go have coffee and Rebecca, thanks
for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Okay, oh my god, thank you guys. I love you guys,
We love you too. You're fine, she is fine. Yeah. Yeah.
I could see it being a little much.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
If it's not something like, for instance, if you're that
excited on our date telling me about your swimsuit and
I don't get women's swimsuits, I don't really be like, Okay,
great this this. It might have been thirty seconds, it
could be seemed like ten minutes. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Yeah, but wait, but but what but I mean, she's
excited to talk to you. No, on that first date,
I would get it. It would be like, oh, she
likes me. Like if you and I went on a
date Janet and.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I talked about Minnesota Vikings football for five minutes, would
you be like, I don't care like enough already.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Thought you were yummy. I would be like, I.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Know, but it was the other way around. He's the
one he didn't say yummy. She was the one who
was all yummy, yummy.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
She went full ADHD on the first date. She needs
to kind of like keep it on the d L
you let them know your full ADHD until like your officials, okay,
you're like third date.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
That way they can put up with you.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Yes, well, I mean my boyfriend does so like they
gotta like you gotta.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Ease them into your full ADHD.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
But that's that's what came of mine.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yes, yeah, okay, that that is a really good way
to put it. That she's just got everyone in my
family except for my wife. It's all comes from my
from is like that they're just bubba up a buba bubah.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
But I'm sure. I mean sometimes my wife's like I
don't care, but like your husband, she loves me. She
puts up with it.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Yeah, she needed so whatever her name was, like needs
to have like a cup of like calming.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
To eat before it.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Here's some camera man, go enjoy this some drink and
cheer yes, yes.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
No coffee.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
And that's that's.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Okay, well, I'm glad that you admit it. We're all
admitting that we have ADHD, and sometimes we don't have
control over our brains or our mouths.
This is TJ Janatan j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one O three. You got Rebecca from Norman
on the second date update. Hi Rebecca, Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Not having good luck going out with Cal again apparently.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I mean it's it's been a little complicated, I guess,
and I wasn't expecting it.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Okay, but your way into Cal? Right?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Oh my god, Cal is so yummy yummy. Yeah. I
saw him at Starbucks like a couple of months ago,
and we exchanged info, and I kind of wanted him
to like contact me first, you know, But like a
month went by and night and I text him and
I'm like, you know, I'm just trying to be cute.
So I'm like, are you ever going to ask me out?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Or what?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Little ball?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I know?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, I know, I know, I know.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
He did eventually like text me back, and we met
for some adult beverages.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I don't know, maybe two weeks.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Ago, okay, okay, and you you, I mean in your email,
You're like, oh my god, I love him so much.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
I am totally smitten, Like I really really like him.
We had really great conversation and I just felt like,
I don't know, I but like a little chemistry with him.
I mean, I was really feeling it, and I feel
like it was a very like it was a comfortable
first date, you know.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Okay, but why are you on the second date? Update? Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Well, I didn't hear from him during the following week,
so again I made the first move and I texted
him and I was like, so, obviously I'm going to
have to initiate another date with you, kind of like
wink wink, you know, sure, But there was no reply.
So the next day I texted him again, like in case.
(01:51):
You know, people get busy and their phones get full
of messages and maybe they don't see it or whatever.
But I texted him again and I'm like, you want
to get together? Questioner, And then he didn't reply again.
I mean, I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
The date was great, okay, but.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
There's a chance yeah, yeah, but there's there's a chance
you did something and you're willing to find out and
maybe we'll get you another date with cal. So okay,
you hold on a second, Rebecca, and we'll try to
get this all figured out for you.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Okay, Okay, It's TJ Jannet and Jay Rides. Second date
update on kJ one O three. We got Rebecca from Norman.
She called us.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
She's like, oh my gosh, Cal, He's yummy and I
love him so much and I want to go out
with him again. And Cal's just like grin, really cashual,
he was really Casha about getting back to her for
the first date and now nothing since Cal's on for
the second date. Update, Cal, thanks for coming on the
second date.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Update? What's going on?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
You know?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
So far?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
She thought everything was comfortable and good conversation and all that.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
When are your conversation? We had that, uh, except it
was one thing. It was all Rebecca in that conversation.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
What do you mean by that?
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Like, Yo, I've never in my life ever met someone
who likes to talk about themselves this much. It was crazy,
like ninety percent of the conversation was Rebecca ninety.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Talking about Caw you you told me.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
All but you saw Rebecca's on the phone. By the way, Cal, well.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Rebecca, listen, dang, this is exactly how the conversation went.
You asked like, do you have any pets? Right, and
I'd say, yeah, I have a boxer. Then you go
on and on like, oh my god, my neighbor had
a boxer when I was a kid, and he used
to poop in that yard. And so my mom hate
a dog. Oh yeah, my dad liked to watch boxing,
(03:45):
so he liked boxes too. So I've never had a dog.
My mom got me a dog. Now now I'm an
a doctor the dog. And you went on and on
and on for five minutes. I didn't even get a
chance to get a word in.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
It was not like that at all. It wasn't like that.
You guys.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
You literally asked me a question just so you can
answer it about yourself. That's a conversation.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
That's what you do on a date.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
You went off for like five minutes about ordering a
swim suit from Amazon.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Oh yeah, my god, you don't get Janet Janet, Yes,
how hard is it to find a bathing suit? Like,
I'm always out there looking for a babies, I go
to Target looking for looking for I'm always looking for Okay,
I absolutely have to try it on. But this one
I just ordered off of Amazon and it was so
beautiful and like nobody's wearing it. Want to if I
(04:44):
can vent you the link, I will. One of those
bases you have to.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Cal's trying to say something.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Here you right there, see perfect example. You see that
that's exactly what I.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Had to do. Oh the night you said that I
was going on for like five minutes, and that was
not five minutes. I was just I mean, that was
like a minute.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
And not even I mean it felt like five minutes
to me.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Okay, you agree, Okay, Cal, Okay, Okay, Okay, I get
what you're saying, Cal, but I mean, listen, we'll send
you guys on another date. Rebecca might just sit and
listen and let you talk this time.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Listen, we don't we don't need any more dates because
I learned everything possible about her, like I could write
a book about her.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
My god, you are exaggerating.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Okay, Okay, all right, all right, Cal, we're I guess
we're gonna, like I heard it, by the way, call,
I heard, we're gonna.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Let you go. But thanks for coming on the second
date update.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Okay, all right, thank you, you guys. Have a good one.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Okay, bye, Cal, Bye.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I don't understand, like I didn't know that he had
that that side to him, honestly, whatever, I guess he
wants a girl to just sit there in silence, and
I just I find that so like totally and completely boring,
Like I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I can't live my life like that. Sure.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Honestly, I'm gonna take you that like from Amazon because
they're really really cute.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Beating Yeah, I totally need it. Okay, uh, you guys
being too.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Why don't you and Janet go on a date because
Cala's out?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Very Yeah, you guys go have coffee and Rebecca, thanks
for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Okay, oh my god, thank you guys. I love you guys,
We love you too. You're fine, she is fine. Yeah. Yeah.
I could see it being a little much.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
If it's not something like, for instance, if you're that
excited on our date telling me about your swimsuit and
I don't get women's swimsuits, I don't really be like, Okay,
great this this. It might have been thirty seconds, it
could be seemed like ten minutes. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Yeah, but wait, but but what but I mean, she's
excited to talk to you. No, on that first date,
I would get it. It would be like, oh, she
likes me. Like if you and I went on a
date Janet and.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I talked about Minnesota Vikings football for five minutes, would
you be like, I don't care like enough already.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Thought you were yummy. I would be like, I.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Know, but it was the other way around. He's the
one he didn't say yummy. She was the one who
was all yummy, yummy.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
She went full ADHD on the first date. She needs
to kind of like keep it on the d L
you let them know your full ADHD until like your officials, okay,
you're like third date.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
That way they can put up with you.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Yes, well, I mean my boyfriend does so like they
gotta like you gotta.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Ease them into your full ADHD.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
But that's that's what came of mine.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yes, yeah, okay, that that is a really good way
to put it. That she's just got everyone in my
family except for my wife. It's all comes from my
from is like that they're just bubba up a buba bubah.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
But I'm sure. I mean sometimes my wife's like I
don't care, but like your husband, she loves me. She
puts up with it.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Yeah, she needed so whatever her name was, like needs
to have like a cup of like calming.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
To eat before it.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Here's some camera man, go enjoy this some drink and
cheer yes, yes.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
No coffee.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
And that's that's.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Okay, well, I'm glad that you admit it. We're all
admitting that we have ADHD, and sometimes we don't have
control over our brains or our mouths.
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