August 22, 2025 • 8 mins
Shelby and Braden went out, and things seemed like they would work out. They even planned another date, but Shelby had to leave town for business but still wanted Braden's help to fix her fence. So what happened to their next date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date updates.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three Shelby from Edmund on the second
date update, Hi, Shelby, shall be Hi. I understand the
little blind date thing with the Braiden and it went
pretty well.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Hello, Well, you know, I mean he's definitely my type,
stuper sweet. Okay, you know, not necessarily a blind date,
but I mean my friends thought it such, you know,
I mean, I guess that is a blind date.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Somebody abouch.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I guess you know she knows that we're both hopelessly.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Single, and uh, why are you hopelessly?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I've just had some bad luck in my relationships, and
I mean, I guess Braden also hasn't found the right
fit yet.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Sure, so that's that's supposed to be you.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I'm hoping I'm the right fit.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Okay, why are you on a second date? Update?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Then we went out to lunch on our first date
and it was super were cool, like.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
It was comfortable.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
You know when you're vibing with someone and it feels effortless.
So that was great. And I was planning to split
the check, but he insisted because my fence recently blew
over and I have to get it fixed, and he
offered to come over and fix the fence for me,
and it's all my dreamy. So that was almost a
(01:27):
month ago, and we've had some scheduling issues with our
second date and now he's not really answering back or
really communicating.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
At all anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, and don't need to get my fence fixed? So
are we going out again? Is offer to fix my sense? Still?
You know, I just have no idea.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Hey, you want to go out again and be if
he's just ghosting you and wants something to do with you,
you got to find someone to fix your friend.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Spend the money on that. We will get him on
the phone and ask him. Okay, okay, all right, all right, we'll.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Take a great play a couple of songs and we'll
see what's going on. Second date update kJ went on
three tj Amanda and j Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
This isj Amanda and j Rod's second date update on
kJ one. O three There, Braiden, Yeah, you got Braiden. Braiden.
We're trying to figure out.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I know j Rod filled you in in his text,
but you had a great kind of blind date with Shelby.
You've had some scheduling issues for going out again. But
you know, she definitely wants to go out again. But
also you offered to fix her fence, and she's trying
to figure out are you ghosting her?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
And she has to you know, there's a lot going
on here, Braiden.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
I guess I'll give you the story from my side
of things. On that first lunch date, we were having
a great time, but she she mentioned her friends had
recently blown over in a storm, and you know, I
said that that was the thing that I could fix
for her, no problem. And I was supposed to come
to her house that Saturday, take a few hours, get
(02:54):
her friends standing again, and as like thank you, she
was going to take me out for our second day.
She was gonna buy me a steak dinner. So the
day before she calls me tells me she abruptly has
to leave town, cancels her dinner, right okay, which like
no big deal.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
These things happened.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
But then the follow up text was her sending me
her address so I could still come fix her fence.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
I feel good about this. I don't see any problem.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
I I kind of give where you're going, like I'm
not a free on call handyman. I was fixing her
friends to help her out. But like also there was
like the thing that she was gonna buy a dinner date.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Yeah, one who goes out of town a lot.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
This is a thing.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Like it's she had.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
To go out of town.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
It doesn't mean the fence doesn't still need to be fixed, Shelby.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Are you here, Shelby Brandon, Yeah, hi' me. Yeah. I
wasn't expecting you to be my free handyman. You offer
to fix my fence. I'm like a little taken back
by that.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Well, I mean sure, but like with the understanding that
we were going to be going on dates.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Or you know whatever, that was my understanding too.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Well yeah, but then you canceled the dates.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I had a conflict. But I'm still planning on taking
you out to dinner and she wants That's.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Why we're doing this. She wants to go out with
you again. Yeah, completely.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean it's it's been three weeks and you haven't
tried to take me out to dinner at all.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
The first I need you to reply to my text Shelby.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
You haven't been texting me asking me out for like
wanting to go on a date. You keep asking me
when I'm going to fix your friends.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I mean, I do need to know if it's like
that's totally separate, even though it's like part of the
same thing. I still need to know if you're going
to do it or if I need to hire somebody.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
S You're probably.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Give me the dinner.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
It seems like there's a lot more interest in getting
the fence repaired than there is in going out with me.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So, Braiden, so are you saying you don't want that
second date anymore?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
I mean, at this point, yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I just have to say, like, I'm sorry, you're taking
this the entire wrong way, like I'm on the radio
trying to go out with you again, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
And trying to get your comforts.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Okay, all right, Braiden, listen, I get what you're saying.
I don't know if this is what Shelby's doing, but
I get what you're thinking.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Thanks for coming on the second date up day, man,
No problem goes all right, bye, Shelby.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I could have tried harder, but you've probably felt this
wasn't going anywhere. I mean, I.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Didn't ask him to fix my fancy offered. I didn't
know there were conditions involved, and like at the same time,
I did want to go on a date, I wasn't
just did. It was like two separate things that got
mushed together.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I would be word, I'd get the stake dinner, then
my fence would never get facts like I see where
she's frown this pro quo. Yeah, okay, Shelby, We're gonna
let you go. Thanks for coming out of the second
date updates.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Thank you all right, And Molly.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Sent me a message. Molly says, why is she so obtuse?
This is his experience by the man of.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Steak, and it's cheaper than paying a company.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
For fence repair, uh, which she says, he's prime rib
level all caps.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Oh yeah, okay to that voice. He's got that deep voice,
ladies like okay, let me ask you.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
So Molly apparently agrees that the guy was like, heh,
I'll fix your fence, will go on a date. And
if she is indeed just texting him going hey yeah,
just checking on the fence and not mentioning the date.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
But she was out of town though, But he says.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Since all the texts he's gotten has been about the fence.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
And not about the date.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Yeah, okay, I don't know he being over sensitive? Is
is he and Molly being over sensitive?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Or or you know, I don't know? Or is she
a little up to four?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Or five?
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Four or five or six? One two seven?
Speaker 2 (07:11):
If you want to chime in on the second ate
up date, kJ went three, t J, Amanda and Jay
out of the morning.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Hey, I'm just listening to your conversations there with Shelby.
I kind of feel the same way. But I got
a fence company. I'll be happy to fix your fence floor.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Oh really, okay, no steak dinner or you? I mean
you're gonna do it for free? You can charge her?
Speaker 6 (07:28):
Well, it depends on how big it is. But if
it's something small, just send my guys out there and
put it up.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Oh look at you. Quit with you.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Some guys are just nice. No steak dinner needed. Okay,
well wait, now, what what's your name? What's your friends company?
Let's so if she's listening, she can call you. But
also let's give you a plug for being a good dude.
Doesn't need a steak dinner to fix a fence.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Who are you?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
I'm Nick from the Home Revolution company. Cool, happy, we
got our rebsite. Home Revolution code dot all.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Right, I'll call you soon. Cool.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Thanks for coming man all right, bye, Hi jj w Ale,
three TJ, Amanda and j Rod in the morning.
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second date updates.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three Shelby from Edmund on the second
date update, Hi, Shelby, shall be Hi. I understand the
little blind date thing with the Braiden and it went
pretty well.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Hello, Well, you know, I mean he's definitely my type,
stuper sweet. Okay, you know, not necessarily a blind date,
but I mean my friends thought it such, you know,
I mean, I guess that is a blind date.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Somebody abouch.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I guess you know she knows that we're both hopelessly.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Single, and uh, why are you hopelessly?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I've just had some bad luck in my relationships, and
I mean, I guess Braden also hasn't found the right
fit yet.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Sure, so that's that's supposed to be you.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I'm hoping I'm the right fit.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Okay, why are you on a second date? Update?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Then we went out to lunch on our first date
and it was super were cool, like.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
It was comfortable.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
You know when you're vibing with someone and it feels effortless.
So that was great. And I was planning to split
the check, but he insisted because my fence recently blew
over and I have to get it fixed, and he
offered to come over and fix the fence for me,
and it's all my dreamy. So that was almost a
(01:27):
month ago, and we've had some scheduling issues with our
second date and now he's not really answering back or
really communicating.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
At all anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, and don't need to get my fence fixed? So
are we going out again? Is offer to fix my sense? Still?
You know, I just have no idea.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Hey, you want to go out again and be if
he's just ghosting you and wants something to do with you,
you got to find someone to fix your friend.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Spend the money on that. We will get him on
the phone and ask him. Okay, okay, all right, all right, we'll.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Take a great play a couple of songs and we'll
see what's going on. Second date update kJ went on
three tj Amanda and j Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
This isj Amanda and j Rod's second date update on
kJ one. O three There, Braiden, Yeah, you got Braiden. Braiden.
We're trying to figure out.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I know j Rod filled you in in his text,
but you had a great kind of blind date with Shelby.
You've had some scheduling issues for going out again. But
you know, she definitely wants to go out again. But
also you offered to fix her fence, and she's trying
to figure out are you ghosting her?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
And she has to you know, there's a lot going
on here, Braiden.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
I guess I'll give you the story from my side
of things. On that first lunch date, we were having
a great time, but she she mentioned her friends had
recently blown over in a storm, and you know, I
said that that was the thing that I could fix
for her, no problem. And I was supposed to come
to her house that Saturday, take a few hours, get
(02:54):
her friends standing again, and as like thank you, she
was going to take me out for our second day.
She was gonna buy me a steak dinner. So the
day before she calls me tells me she abruptly has
to leave town, cancels her dinner, right okay, which like
no big deal.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
These things happened.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
But then the follow up text was her sending me
her address so I could still come fix her fence.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
I feel good about this. I don't see any problem.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
I I kind of give where you're going, like I'm
not a free on call handyman. I was fixing her
friends to help her out. But like also there was
like the thing that she was gonna buy a dinner date.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Yeah, one who goes out of town a lot.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
This is a thing.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Like it's she had.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
To go out of town.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
It doesn't mean the fence doesn't still need to be fixed, Shelby.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Are you here, Shelby Brandon, Yeah, hi' me. Yeah. I
wasn't expecting you to be my free handyman. You offer
to fix my fence. I'm like a little taken back
by that.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Well, I mean sure, but like with the understanding that
we were going to be going on dates.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Or you know whatever, that was my understanding too.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Well yeah, but then you canceled the dates.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I had a conflict. But I'm still planning on taking
you out to dinner and she wants That's.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Why we're doing this. She wants to go out with
you again. Yeah, completely.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I mean it's it's been three weeks and you haven't
tried to take me out to dinner at all.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
The first I need you to reply to my text Shelby.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
You haven't been texting me asking me out for like
wanting to go on a date. You keep asking me
when I'm going to fix your friends.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I mean, I do need to know if it's like
that's totally separate, even though it's like part of the
same thing. I still need to know if you're going
to do it or if I need to hire somebody.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
S You're probably.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Give me the dinner.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
It seems like there's a lot more interest in getting
the fence repaired than there is in going out with me.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
So, Braiden, so are you saying you don't want that
second date anymore?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
I mean, at this point, yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I just have to say, like, I'm sorry, you're taking
this the entire wrong way, like I'm on the radio
trying to go out with you again, yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
And trying to get your comforts.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Okay, all right, Braiden, listen, I get what you're saying.
I don't know if this is what Shelby's doing, but
I get what you're thinking.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Thanks for coming on the second date up day, man,
No problem goes all right, bye, Shelby.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I could have tried harder, but you've probably felt this
wasn't going anywhere. I mean, I.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Didn't ask him to fix my fancy offered. I didn't
know there were conditions involved, and like at the same time,
I did want to go on a date, I wasn't
just did. It was like two separate things that got
mushed together.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I would be word, I'd get the stake dinner, then
my fence would never get facts like I see where
she's frown this pro quo. Yeah, okay, Shelby, We're gonna
let you go. Thanks for coming out of the second
date updates.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Thank you all right, And Molly.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Sent me a message. Molly says, why is she so obtuse?
This is his experience by the man of.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Steak, and it's cheaper than paying a company.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
For fence repair, uh, which she says, he's prime rib
level all caps.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Oh yeah, okay to that voice. He's got that deep voice,
ladies like okay, let me ask you.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
So Molly apparently agrees that the guy was like, heh,
I'll fix your fence, will go on a date. And
if she is indeed just texting him going hey yeah,
just checking on the fence and not mentioning the date.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
But she was out of town though, But he says.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Since all the texts he's gotten has been about the fence.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
And not about the date.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Yeah, okay, I don't know he being over sensitive? Is
is he and Molly being over sensitive?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Or or you know, I don't know? Or is she
a little up to four?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Or five?
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Four or five or six? One two seven?
Speaker 2 (07:11):
If you want to chime in on the second ate
up date, kJ went three, t J, Amanda and Jay
out of the morning.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Hey, I'm just listening to your conversations there with Shelby.
I kind of feel the same way. But I got
a fence company. I'll be happy to fix your fence floor.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Oh really, okay, no steak dinner or you? I mean
you're gonna do it for free? You can charge her?
Speaker 6 (07:28):
Well, it depends on how big it is. But if
it's something small, just send my guys out there and
put it up.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Oh look at you. Quit with you.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Some guys are just nice. No steak dinner needed. Okay,
well wait, now, what what's your name? What's your friends company?
Let's so if she's listening, she can call you. But
also let's give you a plug for being a good dude.
Doesn't need a steak dinner to fix a fence.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Who are you?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
I'm Nick from the Home Revolution company. Cool, happy, we
got our rebsite. Home Revolution code dot all.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Right, I'll call you soon. Cool.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Thanks for coming man all right, bye, Hi jj w Ale,
three TJ, Amanda and j Rod in the morning.
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