December 3, 2025 • 8 mins
Shelly and Carson from OKC made plans to go on a date to watch the OU game, so what caused them to hit the pause button on the 2nd Date? We find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Amanda and j Rud's second date
update on.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
kJ right Shelly and Okay, see welcome to the second
date update.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Shelly.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Oh, hey, hey, thanks for having me you guys.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Now, I know you're.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Trying to go out with Carson again, but you guys
have history.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
What's the story of you and Carson?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Back in college at OU.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
You know, our roommates were dating, so we kind of
had no choice but to, you know, see each other.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
A little bit here and there.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
You know, we were.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Familiar with each other's faces, so we definitely knew of
each other.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Okay, so how did you end up going on this date?
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I was at Walmart the other day and then I.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Look up and boom, like there he is.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
And I'm not gonna lie. He was looking so good
A damn.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
I was like, oh, hello, like is this the same Carson?
And we're both like, hey, oh my gosh, good to
see you.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
You know what.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
It felt comfortable and like we were old friends.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
That's when I kind of like I have a really
good intuition. I felt like there was just a little vibe.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
I was like, Hey, why don't you come over.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
And watch the Ou Alabama game?
Speaker 5 (01:06):
And he was like, yeah, okay, that that sounds great.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Oh okay, I don't know. Us have felt really good though,
like come to my house. Yeah yeah, college acquaintance great.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Hey, So it was good.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
It was like this first date energy but kind of chill, pretty.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Laid back, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
It just felt so comfortable.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Okay, Shelly, why are you on the second date?
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Update?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Here?
Speaker 2 (01:29):
What what happened? That sounds like it was perfect? And
here we are?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah, well he left it halftime.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
Oh, just like okay, gotta go. I think I'm gonna
head out.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Good seeing you and like what kind of gives me
a high five? His like fist bump weird thing, and
I was so taken aback, I'm like wait what, like,
am I wrong?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Were we just having a great time here?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Did I do something weird? Did something happen? And maybe
I didn't see? No contact since then, I have tried.
I've gotten no text back, Like.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay, all right, all right, all right, okay, cool, okay,
hmm we will figure this out.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, yeah, we.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Will get Carson on the phone and we'll try to
figure out what the story is here, and who knows,
maybe it's a misunderstanding. Hopefully we'll get you guys to
at least be friends or something. All right, we'll do that.
We'll take a break, play a couple of songs.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
We do that.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Coming up to second date update kJ went up three
TJ Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
The second date update with TJ Amanda and j Rod
on KJE three.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Bring Carson into the second date update A Carson, good.
We understand that you knew Shelley from back at oh
you kind of in the same circles, But when you
saw each other at Walmart, I mean, she admitted you
look good, and you obviously agreed to go to her
house and watch the Oh You game. I like, so
(02:53):
you probably thought she looked good too, but yet she
can't get you.
Speaker 7 (02:58):
To reply, Oh okay, no, man, look I like Shelley
and she looked good.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
We went to go watch the OU game and she
did not have a TV. She pulls out this iPad
like she's presenting a power plant. I's sitting on a
candle and I'm sitting there like, is this for real?
We're watching the biggest game of this season on a
screen that's basically the size of a notebook. Oh no,
So yeah, I felt bad, But I left at halftime
and went to watch the game on bad Buddy's house
(03:31):
because you know, I actually wanted to watch the rest
of the game.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Interesting, but just no TV.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
You know, it's the biggest game.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Wait, Shelly, Yeah, come in here, Shelly. Shelley's here, Yeah, Shelley.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
You could see it though, right, It's a screen was
right there in front of us, like yeah, but.
Speaker 6 (03:51):
It was tiny and the sound was bad and I
couldn't focus on the game, Shelley.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So you don't have a TV.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
No, I didn't feel the need to have one. Whatever
I want to watch.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I watch on my iPad.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
It is fine. I don't need a giant TV. I'm
not going to pay like five hundred dollars.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
And maybe more or something that does just what my
iPad does. And I can even take my little iPad.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
You don't invite someone over to watch a game and
then hand them a six inch screen.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
You didn't have to leave like that, though, Carson, you
could have said something.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
I would have.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I am not trying to be difficult.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
I seriously thought it was fine like that.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
That's how I watch things.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
We were we were you cool, But I'm not doing
another iPad my eyes are still recovering.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
You gave on an iPad, but oh my, my, my,
rods and coals.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
It could be something you gonna focus next time. Maybe
on the next day. We don't do iPad, I mean,
are we going to do a next day? Carson? Are
you just out altogether?
Speaker 6 (05:00):
I'll have to think about it.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Okay, Okay, see okay, Carson, Carson, We're gonna let you go. Okay, Buddy, Okay, okay, Banks, Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Shelley, are you surprised that his reaction?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Apparently the screen size was an issue.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
I didn't think it made me undtable, but I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Learning everybody that's a normal thing.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Thank you, guy, should try it.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Yeah, no, I'm not going to. No, I just have
a TV. I have a TV in every room. Yeah,
I have one that.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Said okay, well, thank you for helping me get the
second date. I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah, we'll see. We'll see if that happens. Oh yeah,
we'll see. Go get them, Shelley, good luck, good luck,
Thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
All right, bye bye. He's not going out. I know,
I mean, I mean, maybe I'm wrong. What do you
think four? TV? Four or five?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Four six, one two seven. I would be annoyed at that.
I would be annoyed at that.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, it would be was it obviously? Obviously you don't care.
I don't care. Listen, there's one thing. There's a difference.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
You're watching Stranger Things on an iPad and oh you Alabama, and.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
He said we're gonna watch Wicked on an iPad. I'd
be like, nowhere, see, okay, I'll see. I get it.
What do you think when he said you don't think
about it? Is he thinking about her?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Or was he just you know, just trying to sound
good on this call, you know, four or five, six seven.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
If you want to chime in, girl.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Let it go like that.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
You say she's the one who shouldn't go out with
him again?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Yeah, because like, okay, people are on.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Like different income levels. You don't know what.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
She's got going on, people have different medical issues.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
We don't know her story, and he barely knows her story.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
And just like you could have been like, hey, let's
go to a bar and watch the game, or hey, I.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Really am into this game, let's go to my friend's house.
But he left you.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Not only did he sneak away from you, but he
can't even say.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
It with his chest that he wants to go on
another day.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
With you, and don't ever let her.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Man treat you that way.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Yeah, your viewpoint on that now listen.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I will say I disagree with your just fly by
night opinion of not having a big TV for a
big game. But the one thing that made me change
my tune about this deal is when you said he
snuck away from you and then he didn't even have
the guts to say, nad, I don't want to go
out with you again, but we all kind of knew
he wasn't going out with her again, Okay, okay. And
(07:32):
also the monetary fact of it too, Like that's a
really good point, like maybe you don't have enough money.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
For a TV.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Tad costs about five times as much as a TV,
just throwing that out there, Okay, okay, Well I really
don't want.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
To watch a game on that though, spend the money.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
There you go, I'm on, there you go. All right,
that's so true. I got mine from my last job.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
You're right, except about the part about not need a TV. Okay, Mikayla,
thank you for your call, of course, all.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Right, bye? kJ Widdle three T J Amanda and Jay
Rodd in the morning,
This is t J Amanda and j Rud's second date
update on.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
kJ right Shelly and Okay, see welcome to the second
date update.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Shelly.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Oh, hey, hey, thanks for having me you guys.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Now, I know you're.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Trying to go out with Carson again, but you guys
have history.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
What's the story of you and Carson?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Back in college at OU.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
You know, our roommates were dating, so we kind of
had no choice but to, you know, see each other.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
A little bit here and there.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
You know, we were.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Familiar with each other's faces, so we definitely knew of
each other.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Okay, so how did you end up going on this date?
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I was at Walmart the other day and then I.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Look up and boom, like there he is.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
And I'm not gonna lie. He was looking so good
A damn.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
I was like, oh, hello, like is this the same Carson?
And we're both like, hey, oh my gosh, good to
see you.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
You know what.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
It felt comfortable and like we were old friends.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
That's when I kind of like I have a really
good intuition. I felt like there was just a little vibe.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
I was like, Hey, why don't you come over.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
And watch the Ou Alabama game?
Speaker 5 (01:06):
And he was like, yeah, okay, that that sounds great.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Oh okay, I don't know. Us have felt really good though,
like come to my house. Yeah yeah, college acquaintance great.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Hey, So it was good.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
It was like this first date energy but kind of chill, pretty.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Laid back, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
It just felt so comfortable.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Okay, Shelly, why are you on the second date?
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Update?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Here?
Speaker 2 (01:29):
What what happened? That sounds like it was perfect? And
here we are?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah, well he left it halftime.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
Oh, just like okay, gotta go. I think I'm gonna
head out.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Good seeing you and like what kind of gives me
a high five? His like fist bump weird thing, and
I was so taken aback, I'm like wait what, like,
am I wrong?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Were we just having a great time here?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Did I do something weird? Did something happen? And maybe
I didn't see? No contact since then, I have tried.
I've gotten no text back, Like.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay, all right, all right, all right, okay, cool, okay,
hmm we will figure this out.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, yeah, we.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Will get Carson on the phone and we'll try to
figure out what the story is here, and who knows,
maybe it's a misunderstanding. Hopefully we'll get you guys to
at least be friends or something. All right, we'll do that.
We'll take a break, play a couple of songs.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
We do that.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Coming up to second date update kJ went up three
TJ Amanda and Jay Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
The second date update with TJ Amanda and j Rod
on KJE three.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Bring Carson into the second date update A Carson, good.
We understand that you knew Shelley from back at oh
you kind of in the same circles, But when you
saw each other at Walmart, I mean, she admitted you
look good, and you obviously agreed to go to her
house and watch the Oh You game. I like, so
(02:53):
you probably thought she looked good too, but yet she
can't get you.
Speaker 7 (02:58):
To reply, Oh okay, no, man, look I like Shelley
and she looked good.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
We went to go watch the OU game and she
did not have a TV. She pulls out this iPad
like she's presenting a power plant. I's sitting on a
candle and I'm sitting there like, is this for real?
We're watching the biggest game of this season on a
screen that's basically the size of a notebook. Oh no,
So yeah, I felt bad, But I left at halftime
and went to watch the game on bad Buddy's house
(03:31):
because you know, I actually wanted to watch the rest
of the game.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Interesting, but just no TV.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
You know, it's the biggest game.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Wait, Shelly, Yeah, come in here, Shelly. Shelley's here, Yeah, Shelley.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
You could see it though, right, It's a screen was
right there in front of us, like yeah, but.
Speaker 6 (03:51):
It was tiny and the sound was bad and I
couldn't focus on the game, Shelley.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So you don't have a TV.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
No, I didn't feel the need to have one. Whatever
I want to watch.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I watch on my iPad.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
It is fine. I don't need a giant TV. I'm
not going to pay like five hundred dollars.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
And maybe more or something that does just what my
iPad does. And I can even take my little iPad.
Speaker 6 (04:13):
You don't invite someone over to watch a game and
then hand them a six inch screen.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
You didn't have to leave like that, though, Carson, you
could have said something.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
I would have.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I am not trying to be difficult.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
I seriously thought it was fine like that.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
That's how I watch things.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
We were we were you cool, But I'm not doing
another iPad my eyes are still recovering.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
You gave on an iPad, but oh my, my, my,
rods and coals.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
It could be something you gonna focus next time. Maybe
on the next day. We don't do iPad, I mean,
are we going to do a next day? Carson? Are
you just out altogether?
Speaker 6 (05:00):
I'll have to think about it.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Okay, Okay, see okay, Carson, Carson, We're gonna let you go. Okay, Buddy, Okay, okay, Banks, Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Shelley, are you surprised that his reaction?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Apparently the screen size was an issue.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
I didn't think it made me undtable, but I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Learning everybody that's a normal thing.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Thank you, guy, should try it.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Yeah, no, I'm not going to. No, I just have
a TV. I have a TV in every room. Yeah,
I have one that.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Said okay, well, thank you for helping me get the
second date. I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah, we'll see. We'll see if that happens. Oh yeah,
we'll see. Go get them, Shelley, good luck, good luck,
Thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
All right, bye bye. He's not going out. I know,
I mean, I mean, maybe I'm wrong. What do you
think four? TV? Four or five?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Four six, one two seven. I would be annoyed at that.
I would be annoyed at that.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, it would be was it obviously? Obviously you don't care.
I don't care. Listen, there's one thing. There's a difference.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
You're watching Stranger Things on an iPad and oh you Alabama, and.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
He said we're gonna watch Wicked on an iPad. I'd
be like, nowhere, see, okay, I'll see. I get it.
What do you think when he said you don't think
about it? Is he thinking about her?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Or was he just you know, just trying to sound
good on this call, you know, four or five, six seven.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
If you want to chime in, girl.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Let it go like that.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
You say she's the one who shouldn't go out with
him again?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Yeah, because like, okay, people are on.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Like different income levels. You don't know what.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
She's got going on, people have different medical issues.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
We don't know her story, and he barely knows her story.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
And just like you could have been like, hey, let's
go to a bar and watch the game, or hey, I.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Really am into this game, let's go to my friend's house.
But he left you.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Not only did he sneak away from you, but he
can't even say.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
It with his chest that he wants to go on
another day.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
With you, and don't ever let her.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Man treat you that way.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Yeah, your viewpoint on that now listen.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I will say I disagree with your just fly by
night opinion of not having a big TV for a
big game. But the one thing that made me change
my tune about this deal is when you said he
snuck away from you and then he didn't even have
the guts to say, nad, I don't want to go
out with you again, but we all kind of knew
he wasn't going out with her again, Okay, okay. And
(07:32):
also the monetary fact of it too, Like that's a
really good point, like maybe you don't have enough money.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
For a TV.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Tad costs about five times as much as a TV,
just throwing that out there, Okay, okay, Well I really
don't want.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
To watch a game on that though, spend the money.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
There you go, I'm on, there you go. All right,
that's so true. I got mine from my last job.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
You're right, except about the part about not need a TV. Okay, Mikayla,
thank you for your call, of course, all.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Right, bye? kJ Widdle three T J Amanda and Jay
Rodd in the morning,
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