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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Second date update on kJ one O three, we got
Tanner from Mustang on the second date update.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Ready to do this, Tanner.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Ready, thanks for having me guys.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Okay absolutely, okay, So so okay, so you had this
date with Shelley, Like, how did this all go down?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:19):
So I met Shelley on bubble and she was really cool.
We vibed like immediately, and I just I really wanted
to go out on a date whe her. We were
texting for a couple of weeks and then we finally
decided to meet up. We had like a really really
great dinner. She was funny, You're like into the same stuff,
(00:43):
same movies, even admit that she wants watched Judge Judy,
which like my grandmother loves Judge.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
Juice.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Doesn't love Okay, exactly a weird adorable.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Okay all right, so okay, all right, So so you
you felt pretty good?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Oh it was awesome. There was like zero awkwardness, which
is rare on a.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Day break that everybody.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
That's the whole thing.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
Like, I can't imagine where the hiccup happened. Like I
walked her to our car. We had a nice hug.
I hug her good night, Like I didn't.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Push any more than that.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
I was trying to be like a total gentleman, and
like everything seemed cool and then just.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Like goof, there was like one really dry.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
Reply from one of my follow up texts and then
absolutely nothing after that.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
So stumped.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Okay, And and the hug I mean felt like you know,
she was hugging back. It wasn't like.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
It was one of those hugs less than like, you know,
five six seconds. It was like a quick in and out.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Well okay, so something happened, so okay, all right, Well
maybe it was a hug goodbye.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
All right, Hello, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
We'll get Shelley on the phone and well we don't
have to guess at all.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We'll have her tell us exactly why she seems to
be avoiding a second date with you.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Okay, Tanner, that's awesome, Thank you guys, thank you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Okay, we'll do it. Next Second Date Update kJ one
O three, tj Amanda, j Rod in the morning.
Speaker 7 (02:25):
The Second Date Update with TJ, Amanda and.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
J Rod on kJ one three.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Hi, Shelley, welcome to the Second Date updates.
Speaker 8 (02:33):
Kelly, Hey, how are you.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
We got we got to find out what's going on
with you and Tanner from Mustang, and he told us,
you know, you guys met on Bumble.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
The vibes were there. You had a great first date.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
You actually he felt it was a mutual hug at
the end of the date.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Okay, what's your side of the story, Shelley.
Speaker 8 (02:51):
Okay, So Tanner, he definitely charming. You know, I really
had a great time. We had so much fun.
Speaker 9 (02:57):
As you were leaving, I was pulling out the parking
garage and I saw his car next to mine and
it was in the back seat. There was like a
full on baby car seat, like securely in fall.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Like okay, so you're pulling.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Out the parking garage. You look over, Oh hey there's Tanner.
Ain't Tanner? Yeah, whoa, Well, why is there a baby
car seat in the backseat of your car?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (03:24):
Just you know, like it caught me. It's like it
just caught me, and I'm just like I'm sitting and
I'm just thinking like, Okay, either this man has a
kid and he didn't tell me about or it was
screaming like secret family, double.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Lights, secret family. Okay, Tanner, let's get into the conversation, Tanner, you.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Got you had a kid car seat in the back.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Of your car. Seat is not mine? What is your car?
Speaker 8 (03:49):
Who is it?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Yeah, well, yes, it's in my car obviously.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
But it's it's not for my kid. It's my sister's kid.
I watched. It's my nephew, Grayson. I watch him like
three times a week, so.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
I want I just watch him sometimes.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
That's why I have the car seat in my in
my car.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Safety first.
Speaker 9 (04:10):
I like, okay, so you watch him sometimes and you
have your own feet.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
From sometimes I don't.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Yeah, okay, it's it's a few nights a week.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
So my sister's a single mom.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I'm just trying to help her out. I don't have
a kid.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
See this sounds reason, Shelley. That sounds reasonable.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
He's got to transport the kids safely.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
That sounds like a reasonable explanation.
Speaker 9 (04:30):
I mean, that's really two more layers that you gave
me on a date.
Speaker 8 (04:35):
Like you went from no kid to.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
My nephew to multiple nights a week, Shelley, I didn't
want to leave the date with Hey, I'm a part
time babysitter three nights a week from my single mom.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
That's like a second date conversation.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Maybe yeah, I mean, well why not?
Speaker 9 (04:51):
I mean I can appreciate that one who's a good
uncle helping out his single mother's sister.
Speaker 6 (04:55):
That's like fine, okay, yeah then very one of my
case about it?
Speaker 7 (05:01):
Now?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, Shelley, so are you good?
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Now?
Speaker 6 (05:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (05:03):
You're all hang out together because it's like, like, I
don't believe a story.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
What story? I'm not. I don't have a kid, I'm
not married.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
I swear on my life, I don't have a secret
baby in my apartments.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Like I see your baby, it's my sister, it's my nephew.
Speaker 9 (05:19):
I mean, maybe you're telling the truth, but you know,
my gun says that there's something off, like, oh, you
just said something in the beginning. I have to not
have to just see a car seat in.
Speaker 8 (05:28):
Your vehicle, Like, so you maybe I should just move on.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
So you think he has kids or family he's not
telling you about.
Speaker 8 (05:34):
I think he's got something going on.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Wow, okay, most possibly, I don't know.
Speaker 8 (05:39):
If it significant part of your life, why would you
not mention it.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
It's our first date. I wasn't trying to like lead
off with that. I'm not trying to hide anything from you,
like I'm being open and honest, Shelley.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Last chance, Shelley, you buying this or no? Watch too
much touch?
Speaker 9 (05:52):
I can't okay on the second date?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Updates are you Shelley.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
Sure, no problem, Okay, it's just so over my like
this is not what I was expecting, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I was not expecting her.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
To catch like a glance of my nephew's.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Car seat and then like it just like set the
whole date on five.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah, And if you think about it, you're a good
dude by trying to help your you know, sister out
and I didn't go far enough or a bad dude
for hiding you're a secret.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Family appreciate that. You know, I don't owe her.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Any kind of explanation when I have a car.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Seat in my car anyway, like it's our first date. Sure,
maybe I guess.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
I could have knuck it into the conversation.
Speaker 7 (06:34):
But like, why sure, I've never had you know, I've
been on multiple dates. Girls have been in my car
with the car seat in fault, and they've never even
asked me about it.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
So like I'm gonna choose to.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Believe that you're a good dude helping out a single
mom's sister, and what woman wouldn't want to go out
with that?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Tanner? So I think I don't know if somehow Shelley
would have known that up front, maybe'd be going out again.
But sorry, we can't get.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
You another day. All right, Well, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Thanks for rita good I'll go talk to you later.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Tanner.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
We believe him, right, that's a that's a valid excuse,
you know.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Okay, right? But right, I think I think we do.
Speaker 9 (07:13):
The first thing he said was that's not my car seat.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
That was the first thing he said. He which is
a drug dealer.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Think okay, but if it ain't he is car seat?
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Yeah, well then you would say that's not my car seat? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:30):
I don't Is she crazy and thinking too much into this?
Or does she have a point there? I would say, dude,
what woman? If you lead with oh yeah, so three
times a week I have my sister is a single mom,
and I most women are gonna be.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Like, oh that melts her heart, right exactly. Women don't
like kids, so may I don't know? Okay, apparently this
one doesn't.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
She should go okay?
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Is he is he keeping secrets or just didn't need
to tell everything?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
On the first date for four or five, six, one or.
Speaker 10 (08:03):
Two seven, I think that Shelly's crazy?
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Why also, Trish Hi, trishhesh Hi?
Speaker 10 (08:11):
Well, first of all, what a great guy that he
has his sister's a single mother and he walked to
his nephew a few signs a week. What a stand
up die.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Right now, Trish, I don't think she had a problem
with a guy watching his single mother's sister child three
days a week. I think her problem was she doesn't
necessarily believe that's why he has a car seat in
his car, like she said, a secret child somewhere.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
He sounded believable.
Speaker 10 (08:37):
Though, right, absolutely, he sounded believable, And give him a chair,
give him a chance to prove.
Speaker 8 (08:42):
That it's his nephew.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 10 (08:44):
Don't give up on it after one date.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Absolutely, don't jump ship. There's a there's a theme on
the on these second date updates, and some people have
actually said this before, Well, I'm glad you know everything,
or you hear a lot.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
You don't even know me.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
How are you making these assumptions about me? So people jumped.
Speaker 10 (09:04):
I think it would have been worked another shot, just
to he sounds like a great guy, somebody out there will.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Want him absolutely.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Maybe the person that will want him is the baby
mama for the baby that he has in the private apartment.
Speaker 9 (09:20):
Child.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
But no, I'm with you, Trish.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
I believe he's a good guy that helps his sister
out and yeah, he loves his nephew and all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
And Amanda.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Amanda brought up a point off the air about car seats.
Speaker 10 (09:33):
Car seats are a pain to get.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
In and out.
Speaker 7 (09:35):
If you're watching a baby three days a week, you're
not taking that carzy in and out for a date.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
You're not doing it.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
You ever tried to get out of a car?
Speaker 10 (09:41):
Smasier to just buy another one and put it in
his car exactly high fives, Yes guy, Okay, I have
a wonderful too.
Speaker 9 (09:52):
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