December 8, 2025 • 7 mins
Tony and Alania from OKC went out, and she thought it was going to be a nice experience....till he showed up. She was expecting way more. So what needs to be addressed about this date? We find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Date update on kJ one three Tony from Okay see
on the second date update. Welcome buddy.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Hey, Hey, how's it going, guys?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Trying to figure out why you're not getting another date
with the Elena? So what what's the story of this
first date?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Well? I didn't really know Elena very well, but we
had a couple of mutual friends and they kept telling
the two of us, so we should meet so and
that's sure, Yeah, messaged her. She was cool, She's funny,
super cute, definitely someone that I wanted to get to know.
We ended up going out for drinks and apps. Vibe
was awesome. Conversation never really hit that weird wall, and
(00:37):
I legit thought that we clicked and I left thinking,
all right, this could probably go somewhere. So a few
days later I text her said I had fun. We
should do it again, and she said, yeah, it was fun.
Thanks for a nice experience.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Why do you laugh at me? Is that a closed door?
Is that?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
What?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
That is? An experience?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
It's interesting. I don't know where this is at some
times it is an experience. Yeah, that was experience, an
interesting experience. Yeah, okay, was there a dot dot dot
in the middle. That was a nice experience? Anything else?
Is that it?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Or no? I mean that was it? And like that's
verbatim the last actual message that she responded to. And
it's been over a month.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Oh wow, that's a long time.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Okay time.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, I you know, I figured you guys could probably
help me out because I have no idea what I
did wrong and drive me nuts, Like I just want
to know.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I'm glad you came to us. I'm sure those mutual
friends already know, but and maybe don't want to tell you.
So that's what we're here for. We'll get Elena on
the phone and we'll try to figure out what she
meant by nice experience.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Okay, sure, all.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Right, we'll take a break, play a couple of songs,
and we'll see what's up with that. For the second
Date update kJ went o three, tj Amanda and Jay
Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
The second Date update with TJ Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
I gotta get Elena on the second date update. Hi Elena, Helena, Hi, Hi,
you had your day with Tony.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
It was something and I'm not going out with him
again because this.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Was Friday night drinks and I was in a dress,
I had full hair, full.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Makeup, and this man shows up in jim shorts, a
T shirt, in a baseball hat.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
It looked like he was on his way to help
someone move.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You just went like, is this awful for you? This
a nightmare for you, Amanda?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, you gotta try a little bit, right, come on,
Yeah it was.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
It wasn't like it was riding bikes, are going to
get coffee or anything like this.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
It was like it was a.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Friday night at a nice bar and where everyone was
looking good. I looked good and I wanted to look
nice for my date, and he just showed up like
he was on his way to the rec center to
go play.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Basketball or something.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Okay, all right, Tony, Tony, you did not tell us
that you showed up and like you were looking to
get ready to move, like shorts and a T shirt.
How going to work like I do in the morning.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Well, you said you said casual, Like that's literally the
word that you use, casual, So I dressed casual.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Casual does not mean jim clothes, like casual means jeans
and in khakis, like a button down or college shirt.
Something that says I put effort in this, not I'm
running the Walmart.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Don't put this on me.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Like you said casual. I didn't say that, So I
just followed the instructions. And maybe your definition of casual
is outdated. Okay, you should look that.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
I'm going to look it up right now.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Okay, yeah, please look it up. I promise you it
doesn't say Jim shorts on a first date.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I promise you out something. Sometimes the first thing I
see here is relaxed and unconcerned. Well you were unconcerned
that I'm very casual, and so is he.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Maybe you should be more concerned. I think I just
need someone who just understands it and just tries a
little more. I just I don't think it'll work.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
That's what you said, Amanda, like you gotta try, you
gotta try.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Doesn't dress to impress Tony.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
They need someone that tries a little bit a little harder.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Well, great, And I think I need someone that understands
what the word casual needs. Okay, that's fair, that's fairy.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
You need a sporty girl.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Okay, okay, so later you're out. Yeah, yeah, thanks for
coming on the second date update. Thanks Amanda. Yeah, you're
you're you're into fashion. You're shaking your head? Is was
he not casual for you? What is like most of
my college dating career, I just gave up because I
was like every date was like, oh another baseball hat.
You know, sorry, I can't do it. I'm sorry, but
(04:42):
lots of girls are okay with that.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Wait, you know what, maybe I should be the one
complaining because I didn't know we were going to a
beauty patch.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Fact, that's right, she said casual.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah, she said the different definitions of casual, Like, I
get that. Yeah, I showed up casual and apparently I
didn't match her level of whatever that was. But at
least now I know casual doesn't mean casual. So fine.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I have beautiful friends who wear gym clothes every day.
It sounds so fine.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Thank you, thank you. It sounds like you're this definition
of casual, relaxed and unconcerned. Yeah, so thanks for coming
on the second date update, Tony, Sorry this didn't work
out for you, buddy.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Bye, all right, and now I know what business casual means.
It means like, uh, relaxed business attire, but really unconcerned
at all about what it looks like.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
It's really a thing right now, Like everyone's dressing.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Athole but on a date, is it?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
See that's where it gets truck. Yeah, yeah, I don't
four h five for six one on two seven. If
you want to chime in on the second date updates, Hey,
I don't, Guys, I'm reaching from Oklahoma's ritchie. What are
you thinking?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Well do it?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Don h Did you put it in a little effort?
Speaker 4 (05:52):
You know, even if it's a uh it's the first
day you have to dress and.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Prays, you know, you have to put a little bit
more of the effort than plus it's cold.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, well judging this date was a few weeks ago,
so maybe that's uh. But yeah, j wear shorts all
the time, Yeah, shorts and sweatshirts. Yeah, so uh yeah, Okay,
what Jay Rud has on this morning? Short sweatshirt, a
hat that looks like comfortable not casual. Does that make sense?
Like he dressed comfortable yeah, not casual. Yes, and that's
(06:28):
why I never got a second day.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
You're richie brothers.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Thank you do by kJ Little three.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Good morning sunshine, Judy ruber Driver, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry,
I woant have kicked you to the curb before I
even shut the door when you walked in.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So you show up looking cute for a Friday night
date and he's got jim shorts and a T shirt
and a baseball cap and you're like, nope, sorry, we're
not doing this.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Yeah, you gotta go. Yeah, we ain't doing that because
if that's his casual I'd hate to see what his
dress up is. Why take the hat off, buddy, you'd
be lucky. Nobody's going to give you a second date.
And if you're looking for somebody that's casual like that,
you better go down the Southwest fifteenth to the Court
and find you a woman. Wow, I'm just I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, well she said, I'm taking a note real quick.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Where was that again?
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Okay, all right, thank you Judy for your very strong
opinion this morning.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I love it. Oh my lord, that's he's nuts.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
By Judy.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Good day. Yeah you so okay.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Yeah, if you missed the second eight update, it's probably
when you're gonna want to catch It'll be up on
our second Aight Update podcast on the iHeart Radio app.
So very soon, so
This is tj Amanda and j Rod's second.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Date update on kJ one three Tony from Okay see
on the second date update. Welcome buddy.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Hey, Hey, how's it going, guys?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Trying to figure out why you're not getting another date
with the Elena? So what what's the story of this
first date?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Well? I didn't really know Elena very well, but we
had a couple of mutual friends and they kept telling
the two of us, so we should meet so and
that's sure, Yeah, messaged her. She was cool, She's funny,
super cute, definitely someone that I wanted to get to know.
We ended up going out for drinks and apps. Vibe
was awesome. Conversation never really hit that weird wall, and
(00:37):
I legit thought that we clicked and I left thinking,
all right, this could probably go somewhere. So a few
days later I text her said I had fun. We
should do it again, and she said, yeah, it was fun.
Thanks for a nice experience.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Why do you laugh at me? Is that a closed door?
Is that?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
What?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
That is? An experience?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
It's interesting. I don't know where this is at some
times it is an experience. Yeah, that was experience, an
interesting experience. Yeah, okay, was there a dot dot dot
in the middle. That was a nice experience? Anything else?
Is that it?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Or no? I mean that was it? And like that's
verbatim the last actual message that she responded to. And
it's been over a month.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Oh wow, that's a long time.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Okay time.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, I you know, I figured you guys could probably
help me out because I have no idea what I
did wrong and drive me nuts, Like I just want
to know.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I'm glad you came to us. I'm sure those mutual
friends already know, but and maybe don't want to tell you.
So that's what we're here for. We'll get Elena on
the phone and we'll try to figure out what she
meant by nice experience.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Okay, sure, all.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Right, we'll take a break, play a couple of songs,
and we'll see what's up with that. For the second
Date update kJ went o three, tj Amanda and Jay
Rod in the morning.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
The second Date update with TJ Amanda and j Rod
on kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
I gotta get Elena on the second date update. Hi Elena, Helena, Hi, Hi,
you had your day with Tony.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
It was something and I'm not going out with him
again because this.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Was Friday night drinks and I was in a dress,
I had full hair, full.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Makeup, and this man shows up in jim shorts, a
T shirt, in a baseball hat.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
It looked like he was on his way to help
someone move.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You just went like, is this awful for you? This
a nightmare for you, Amanda?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, you gotta try a little bit, right, come on,
Yeah it was.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
It wasn't like it was riding bikes, are going to
get coffee or anything like this.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
It was like it was a.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Friday night at a nice bar and where everyone was
looking good. I looked good and I wanted to look
nice for my date, and he just showed up like
he was on his way to the rec center to
go play.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Basketball or something.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Okay, all right, Tony, Tony, you did not tell us
that you showed up and like you were looking to
get ready to move, like shorts and a T shirt.
How going to work like I do in the morning.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Well, you said you said casual, Like that's literally the
word that you use, casual, So I dressed casual.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Casual does not mean jim clothes, like casual means jeans
and in khakis, like a button down or college shirt.
Something that says I put effort in this, not I'm
running the Walmart.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Don't put this on me.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Like you said casual. I didn't say that, So I
just followed the instructions. And maybe your definition of casual
is outdated. Okay, you should look that.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
I'm going to look it up right now.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Okay, yeah, please look it up. I promise you it
doesn't say Jim shorts on a first date.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I promise you out something. Sometimes the first thing I
see here is relaxed and unconcerned. Well you were unconcerned
that I'm very casual, and so is he.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Maybe you should be more concerned. I think I just
need someone who just understands it and just tries a
little more. I just I don't think it'll work.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
That's what you said, Amanda, like you gotta try, you
gotta try.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Doesn't dress to impress Tony.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
They need someone that tries a little bit a little harder.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Well, great, And I think I need someone that understands
what the word casual needs. Okay, that's fair, that's fairy.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
You need a sporty girl.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Okay, okay, so later you're out. Yeah, yeah, thanks for
coming on the second date update. Thanks Amanda. Yeah, you're
you're you're into fashion. You're shaking your head? Is was
he not casual for you? What is like most of
my college dating career, I just gave up because I
was like every date was like, oh another baseball hat.
You know, sorry, I can't do it. I'm sorry, but
(04:42):
lots of girls are okay with that.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Wait, you know what, maybe I should be the one
complaining because I didn't know we were going to a
beauty patch.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Fact, that's right, she said casual.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah, she said the different definitions of casual, Like, I
get that. Yeah, I showed up casual and apparently I
didn't match her level of whatever that was. But at
least now I know casual doesn't mean casual. So fine.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I have beautiful friends who wear gym clothes every day.
It sounds so fine.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Thank you, thank you. It sounds like you're this definition
of casual, relaxed and unconcerned. Yeah, so thanks for coming
on the second date update, Tony, Sorry this didn't work
out for you, buddy.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Bye, all right, and now I know what business casual means.
It means like, uh, relaxed business attire, but really unconcerned
at all about what it looks like.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
It's really a thing right now, Like everyone's dressing.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Athole but on a date, is it?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
See that's where it gets truck. Yeah, yeah, I don't
four h five for six one on two seven. If
you want to chime in on the second date updates, Hey,
I don't, Guys, I'm reaching from Oklahoma's ritchie. What are
you thinking?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Well do it?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Don h Did you put it in a little effort?
Speaker 4 (05:52):
You know, even if it's a uh it's the first
day you have to dress and.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Prays, you know, you have to put a little bit
more of the effort than plus it's cold.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, well judging this date was a few weeks ago,
so maybe that's uh. But yeah, j wear shorts all
the time, Yeah, shorts and sweatshirts. Yeah, so uh yeah, Okay,
what Jay Rud has on this morning? Short sweatshirt, a
hat that looks like comfortable not casual. Does that make sense?
Like he dressed comfortable yeah, not casual. Yes, and that's
(06:28):
why I never got a second day.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
You're richie brothers.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Have a good day.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Thank you do by kJ Little three.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Good morning sunshine, Judy ruber Driver, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry,
I woant have kicked you to the curb before I
even shut the door when you walked in.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So you show up looking cute for a Friday night
date and he's got jim shorts and a T shirt
and a baseball cap and you're like, nope, sorry, we're
not doing this.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Yeah, you gotta go. Yeah, we ain't doing that because
if that's his casual I'd hate to see what his
dress up is. Why take the hat off, buddy, you'd
be lucky. Nobody's going to give you a second date.
And if you're looking for somebody that's casual like that,
you better go down the Southwest fifteenth to the Court
and find you a woman. Wow, I'm just I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, well she said, I'm taking a note real quick.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Where was that again?
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Okay, all right, thank you Judy for your very strong
opinion this morning.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I love it. Oh my lord, that's he's nuts.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
By Judy.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
Good day. Yeah you so okay.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Yeah, if you missed the second eight update, it's probably
when you're gonna want to catch It'll be up on
our second Aight Update podcast on the iHeart Radio app.
So very soon, so
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