Victoria and Nathan from OKC went out, and he thought she was really into him. But turns out she's really into everyone. why is she so touchy feely? Did this keep them from going out again?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is TJ Janatan j Rod's second date update on
kJ one O three. He got Victoria from Okay see
on the second date update. Hi Victoria, Hi, I want
to get you another date with Nathan, which you guys
met on an app right, Yeah, we met.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
On hins like three weeks ago.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Okay, obviously it was a match. He went on a date,
right yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, and he was pretty flirty right away, so I
was really optimistic. I'm like, I like this. So we
met up for tacos at this food truck thing and
he showed up looking smoking hot, like we were definitely vibing.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
So we were sitting clothes on the bench near the
food truck and my knee was touching his and I
touched his arm a couple times, and I was laughing
at all his jokes, but he was legit funny. He
put his hand on my back, and I was like, okay,
he likes me, you know, like I thought we were
headed to possibly a second location.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
O gee, That's what I was wondering too.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Did you like I mean, it seemed like you were
moving kind of fast.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Did you like kiss or do anything? You know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
I mean, all the green lights were there, like.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
We had a couple of kisses, and but at the
same time, like at the end of the date, he
was different, like he was laughing with me. At first
he put his hand on my back, but then like
when we were like going to say good night, he
did not kiss me, and he said he had to
be up early, and.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
He gave me a hunk huh huh.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
And then like I texted him the next day nothing.
I texted him a few days later nothing, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
So something's up, something's weird, something okay, And you were
without giving too much information, like it wasn't like you
shut him down.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
He kind of shut you down.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I'm still wondering what's going on.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Okay, well, you know this works.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We'll get Nathan on the phone and we'll just ask
ask him what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Okay, okay, all right, and we'll talk to him.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Next second date up date kJ with all three, TJ Janet,
Jay Rowd in the morning.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
It's TJ Janet and Jay Rods Second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
We got Nathan on the second date update. Thanks for
coming on, man. We're trying to figure out what happened
between you and Victoria her words, not ours.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
She said it was very flirty.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
She thought it might even go to a second location,
and you kind of kind of shut it down at
the end.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
So well, I mean, look, Victoria's Victoria is hot, and
I definitely had a good time with her.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
But but well I got kind of turned off by
how how available she was, Like, you know, she was
really overly touchy.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Wait wait wait, wait, wait wait, wait wait a minute,
wait she was too touchy for you?
Speaker 6 (02:35):
Well, I mean there was there was this dude that
took our order. There was this random guy that like
came by and complimented her shoes. You know, she put
her hand on his chest and last, and I'm like what.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Wait, so so it wasn't so she was touchy with you,
But then you're like, well, she's touchy with the guy
who took your.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
Order exactly, okay, exactly, And you know, it was just
kind of like it just kind of felt like she
was just like really overly available, really touchy feely, like
with everybody, and this was kind of a turn off
Victoria or something.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
What's what's Victoria's here?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yes, I'm just like hold on, what, like it's cool
when I touch you but it's not cool when I'm
friendly to people. Now the flort monster or something.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Well, I mean, I'm just saying when you were touching me,
I thought, wow, she's like brilliant into me. But I
guess you're just really into every guy you meet.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
No, Nathan, I'm just that's literally who I am. I'm
just really friendly and I'm bubbly. I talk with my hands.
I like to connect with people surely. So wow, dude, Wow, Okay,
you don't get to police my personality just because we
had one day.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Hey, Victoria, no one's policicing. Okay, you get touched whoever
you want, obviously you already do.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Excuse me, Wow, what do you saying here, Nathan?
Speaker 6 (03:59):
Yeah, I'm just saying that I'm not trying to date
the apple that's been picked over by every shopper at
the store.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
All right. Oh wow, okay, so maybe next time I
have an idea. Next time, don't flirt back if you
feel this way, and you're gonna turn around and shame
me just for being myself. Like I wasn't putting on
a show. I was actually being me.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Listen, we've all met the person that's just touchy. They're huggy.
I'm a huggy guy. If I walk up to someone,
it could be a bro, it could be whatever. I'm like, hey,
hug huh, what's up?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
And if we were on a date and I hugged
you first, it doesn't mean I like you any less
than these other people.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I'm just a touchy person, right, Absolutely, I'm friendly. She's
just being herself, Nathan.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I'm okay, then listen, I'm just gonna be myself by
saying that, it's just a no for me, that's all.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Wow, okay, Wow, Well that's really disappointing. But I would
rather actually be single than be with somebody who wants
me to turn it down.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Sorry, all right, well, Nathan Tans for coming on the
second date? Updates, You're going, okay?
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Bye?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
He seems so annoyed.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
He seems and you shouldn't have to change yourself because
you're just bubbling.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
What do you What do you think of Victoria?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I mean, obviously if you were if you were my wife,
I wouldn't want you to be this touchy with other people.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
But but still, I mean, if that's her personality, let
her be your self.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Yeah, but what do you call him? The touchy police
or something.
Speaker 6 (05:17):
What I mean, what do you?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
What do you?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
Honestly, I've been single for so long that maybe.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I was not realizing how I was coming off. But
at the end of the day, I'm friendly. I'm going
to give you a big hug. I'm going to say hi,
I'm not going to tone it down. I'm not going
to dull my sparkle. So some guy who can't handle
my confidence can feel more special.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Okay, all right? You be you, Victoria, you be you?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, yeah, whatever, he's missing out and I'm going to
find someone that doesn't mind that stuff. That's who I am.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Right on, high fived thanks Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Hey, that was gonna say that was touching, a very
touchy Hi.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Five one okay by Victoria.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
I thank you?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
All right? What do you think at four h five
for six one or two seven?
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Like I mentioned?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
And if my wife did, I'd be like, eh, so
do you want to date someone that's touchy? If you'd
be when you get in a relationship with him, or
you know again, is he touchy?
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Police? And she dodged able and let's talk about the
second date Updake.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Well, I think a boy just needs to order him
a mail order bride that he can have whatever he wants.
But he sounds like he is very very power trip
and you know, you can't change people's personalities and who
they are. That's just for you.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Sure, and you go, Victoria.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Now, let's say let's say they've been dating three months,
they finally put a label on the relationship exclusive, they
see it going somewhere, they've met some parents, they're doing
some things. Maybe at that time, it's like and I
think she would know, Hey, maybe I don't need to
touch the bartender.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
You know what I'm saying, like like, yeah, I mean,
you know, obviously they could have that conversation where he goes, hey,
you know, do you mind not doing that? But to
go into your first date and start trying to like
muld her to what you think is appropriate, that's not cool.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Control freak. You're saying, Yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
I think he's a total control freak. So he probably
has bigger issues than this, right, Probably if she started
dating him he was he would probably be like oh yeah,
and yeah, well listen.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
And also she's not for him.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
If you can't handle someone that's just naturally flirty or
or what they the way they treat people comes off
as flirty, then yeah, you better not date her because
she's naturally friendly. So the second ate up date really
touched you, Sally I really touched you.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Okay, thanks for calling.
This is TJ Janatan j Rod's second date update on
kJ one O three. He got Victoria from Okay see
on the second date update. Hi Victoria, Hi, I want
to get you another date with Nathan, which you guys
met on an app right, Yeah, we met.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
On hins like three weeks ago.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Okay, obviously it was a match. He went on a date,
right yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, and he was pretty flirty right away, so I
was really optimistic. I'm like, I like this. So we
met up for tacos at this food truck thing and
he showed up looking smoking hot, like we were definitely vibing.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
So we were sitting clothes on the bench near the
food truck and my knee was touching his and I
touched his arm a couple times, and I was laughing
at all his jokes, but he was legit funny. He
put his hand on my back, and I was like, okay,
he likes me, you know, like I thought we were
headed to possibly a second location.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
O gee, That's what I was wondering too.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Did you like I mean, it seemed like you were
moving kind of fast.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Did you like kiss or do anything? You know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
I mean, all the green lights were there, like.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
We had a couple of kisses, and but at the
same time, like at the end of the date, he
was different, like he was laughing with me. At first
he put his hand on my back, but then like
when we were like going to say good night, he
did not kiss me, and he said he had to
be up early, and.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
He gave me a hunk huh huh.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
And then like I texted him the next day nothing.
I texted him a few days later nothing, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
So something's up, something's weird, something okay, And you were
without giving too much information, like it wasn't like you
shut him down.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
He kind of shut you down.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I'm still wondering what's going on.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Okay, well, you know this works.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We'll get Nathan on the phone and we'll just ask
ask him what happened.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Okay, okay, all right, and we'll talk to him.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Next second date up date kJ with all three, TJ Janet,
Jay Rowd in the morning.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
It's TJ Janet and Jay Rods Second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
We got Nathan on the second date update. Thanks for
coming on, man. We're trying to figure out what happened
between you and Victoria her words, not ours.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
She said it was very flirty.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
She thought it might even go to a second location,
and you kind of kind of shut it down at
the end.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
So well, I mean, look, Victoria's Victoria is hot, and
I definitely had a good time with her.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
But but well I got kind of turned off by
how how available she was, Like, you know, she was
really overly touchy.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Wait wait wait, wait, wait wait, wait wait a minute,
wait she was too touchy for you?
Speaker 6 (02:35):
Well, I mean there was there was this dude that
took our order. There was this random guy that like
came by and complimented her shoes. You know, she put
her hand on his chest and last, and I'm like what.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Wait, so so it wasn't so she was touchy with you,
But then you're like, well, she's touchy with the guy
who took your.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
Order exactly, okay, exactly, And you know, it was just
kind of like it just kind of felt like she
was just like really overly available, really touchy feely, like
with everybody, and this was kind of a turn off
Victoria or something.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
What's what's Victoria's here?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yes, I'm just like hold on, what, like it's cool
when I touch you but it's not cool when I'm
friendly to people. Now the flort monster or something.
Speaker 6 (03:22):
Well, I mean, I'm just saying when you were touching me,
I thought, wow, she's like brilliant into me. But I
guess you're just really into every guy you meet.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
No, Nathan, I'm just that's literally who I am. I'm
just really friendly and I'm bubbly. I talk with my hands.
I like to connect with people surely. So wow, dude, Wow, Okay,
you don't get to police my personality just because we
had one day.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Hey, Victoria, no one's policicing. Okay, you get touched whoever
you want, obviously you already do.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Excuse me, Wow, what do you saying here, Nathan?
Speaker 6 (03:59):
Yeah, I'm just saying that I'm not trying to date
the apple that's been picked over by every shopper at
the store.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
All right. Oh wow, okay, so maybe next time I
have an idea. Next time, don't flirt back if you
feel this way, and you're gonna turn around and shame
me just for being myself. Like I wasn't putting on
a show. I was actually being me.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Listen, we've all met the person that's just touchy. They're huggy.
I'm a huggy guy. If I walk up to someone,
it could be a bro, it could be whatever. I'm like, hey,
hug huh, what's up?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
And if we were on a date and I hugged
you first, it doesn't mean I like you any less
than these other people.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I'm just a touchy person, right, Absolutely, I'm friendly. She's
just being herself, Nathan.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I'm okay, then listen, I'm just gonna be myself by
saying that, it's just a no for me, that's all.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Wow, okay, Wow, Well that's really disappointing. But I would
rather actually be single than be with somebody who wants
me to turn it down.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Sorry, all right, well, Nathan Tans for coming on the
second date? Updates, You're going, okay?
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Bye?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
He seems so annoyed.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
He seems and you shouldn't have to change yourself because
you're just bubbling.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
What do you What do you think of Victoria?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I mean, obviously if you were if you were my wife,
I wouldn't want you to be this touchy with other people.
Speaker 5 (05:10):
But but still, I mean, if that's her personality, let
her be your self.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Yeah, but what do you call him? The touchy police
or something.
Speaker 6 (05:17):
What I mean, what do you?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
What do you?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
Honestly, I've been single for so long that maybe.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I was not realizing how I was coming off. But
at the end of the day, I'm friendly. I'm going
to give you a big hug. I'm going to say hi,
I'm not going to tone it down. I'm not going
to dull my sparkle. So some guy who can't handle
my confidence can feel more special.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Okay, all right? You be you, Victoria, you be you?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, yeah, whatever, he's missing out and I'm going to
find someone that doesn't mind that stuff. That's who I am.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Right on, high fived thanks Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Hey, that was gonna say that was touching, a very
touchy Hi.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Five one okay by Victoria.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
I thank you?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
All right? What do you think at four h five
for six one or two seven?
Speaker 6 (05:59):
Like I mentioned?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
And if my wife did, I'd be like, eh, so
do you want to date someone that's touchy? If you'd
be when you get in a relationship with him, or
you know again, is he touchy?
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Police? And she dodged able and let's talk about the
second date Updake.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Well, I think a boy just needs to order him
a mail order bride that he can have whatever he wants.
But he sounds like he is very very power trip
and you know, you can't change people's personalities and who
they are. That's just for you.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Sure, and you go, Victoria.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Now, let's say let's say they've been dating three months,
they finally put a label on the relationship exclusive, they
see it going somewhere, they've met some parents, they're doing
some things. Maybe at that time, it's like and I
think she would know, Hey, maybe I don't need to
touch the bartender.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
You know what I'm saying, like like, yeah, I mean,
you know, obviously they could have that conversation where he goes, hey,
you know, do you mind not doing that? But to
go into your first date and start trying to like
muld her to what you think is appropriate, that's not cool.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Control freak. You're saying, Yeah, okay.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
I think he's a total control freak. So he probably
has bigger issues than this, right, Probably if she started
dating him he was he would probably be like oh yeah,
and yeah, well listen.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
And also she's not for him.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
If you can't handle someone that's just naturally flirty or
or what they the way they treat people comes off
as flirty, then yeah, you better not date her because
she's naturally friendly. So the second ate up date really
touched you, Sally I really touched you.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Okay, thanks for calling.
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