Alexis and Justin from OKC should have held the ranch dressing or something because their 2nd date got blocked because of a salad. So what's the story? We find out with the 2nd Date Update.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Got Alexis from Okayseye on the Second Date Update. How
you doing, Alexis?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Hi, Hi, welcome to the Second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
So, what's the story about your first date with Justin?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Yeah? So I met Justin at my friend Kelsey's householding
party just like a couple of weeks ago, and we
were standing in line for tacos and he made this
joke just like how.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Glak should be free.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
And I may have laughed like.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Way too hard, probably, but it was cute.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It was really that funny. But he was cute, and
I guess you ended up going on a date then, right.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, maybe it was a little too much, but yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
We talked most of the night and I ended up
giving him my number.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
So then just a couple of days later, he.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Texted me and asked me out to dinner, which yeah,
I love that.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Okay cool, So what do you guys do?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
We went to Charleston. It's super chill, not too fancy,
and yeah, before we even had the date, he was
talking about us going kayaking together sometimes, so I was like, okay,
clearly he's picturing us hanging out more.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, so what so did you blow it on the
date or what.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Happened, you know, maybe because ever since the date, it's
been nothing like he hasn't texted me back, no plans
like he had said, and he's totally gone quiet. So
either I'm totally misreading everything or I did something wrong
and I just want to know what happened, like why?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, all right, he had set up the second date
before he got to have the first date with you,
and something went awry. Okay, you know how this works.
We'll get Justin on the phone and we'll just ask
him why he seems to be avoiding that kayaking second date. Okay, okay,
hey Justin, Welcome to the second date update. Thanks for
coming on. Hey, Alexis told us that before you even
(01:42):
went out to your dinner date, you had said and
then you know, sometime in the future we'll have to
go kayaking or something kind of setting up a future date. Yeah,
sounds like it. But you aren't answering your text now.
So what happened on that first date to change your mind?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Yes? Well okay, So I'm eating my burger and I
noticed that.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
She's using a fork and a knife cutting up her
salad like it's a stick, like the entire thing, every
every single leak, Like she just sat there for ten minutes,
just light thing and sectioning it like a surgeon or something.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, hold on a seconds so you're like, I listen.
I can't date someone that cuts their salad. That's your thing.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I don't know. It just felt super odd.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Like it gave me anxiety, like watching her do it,
like I was almost done with my burger before she
even took a bite.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
It was.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
It was weird.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
But like if that's how she eats the salad, what
else is like that? Like what else does she do?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
You're cutting up your salad? Gave you anxiety?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I guess I can't relate because I shovel food in
your most I'm done with my food always first. But Alexis,
come on in here, you cut your salad.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Alexis, you're ghosting me over how I eat a salad?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I thought you were. I thought you were building a puzzle,
not eating lunch.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Don't I guess I don't get. I don't get. So
she's cutting her salad? Is it like a like a
no normal like cheft salad?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Or is a.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Wedge or alexis? So, so do you cut up like
every little bit of your salad and then you eat it.
Is that what it was going on?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Salads are messy, guys. It's not that deep. Like I'm
trying not to get a ranch all over my face.
So we're sitting there talking on a date, like I
don't understand you.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Just get that.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I get like you you're kind of don't want to
eat when she's preparing. You know, that's you know, But
I guess I don't really understand why this is such
a big deal.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Well it was like it was it was clinical, like
like like she had a system like like you cut
and then you rotate your plate and then you cut
the more like a three D printer or something like that.
Like it was honestly unnerving.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Hmm. So okay, so I didn't want let us on
my chin. I'm now extra. I just I cannot believe
this is a thing.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I really can't.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
I mean, I just I just got the vibe that
you're super particular.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
About stuff and I'm not in it.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Okay, So you build because.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I use a fourth like an adult and yeah that's ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Okay, so justin, so justin I get this adult. I
am not one that would cut my salad. I'm one
like you that just wants to eat my burger. But
if she wants to take her time eating, is that
really like? No second date? No going kayaking because of that?
You're out? No, you're out?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Wow, Okay, all right, all.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Right, justin We're gonna let you go. Thanks for coming
on the second date.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Uptake, Yeah, thank god?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
All right, see it, man, buddy, nothing, I've had salads
where like the leafs have come like extra big, you
kind of gotta cut them down. Alexis how long? How
long are we taking to cut up the salad? Because
five minutes, I mean if he's almost done with his burger.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Ten minutes, I mean maybe maybe a little longer.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
But I just I'm gonna think about it now. I
promise you that I'm never.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Gonna eat a salad and not sign it.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I'm picturing you. I'm picturing you elbows out and yours like,
and you're just talking to him. All your elbows are
just kind of bouncing up and down. Yeah, so it
have like a chef. And maybe the problem is you
were still talking and he's trying to eat his burger,
and you know, once you start eating the talking stops
ready to see what I'm like flapping my arm. I'm
(05:11):
picturing you do that for ten minutes, and now that
I'm doing it, I gotta say, maybe it would be
a little annoying if you're that kind of a person.
But listen, you scared him off, Alexis. You scared him away.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Honestly, if it took just that to scare him off,
and I think I dodged a.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Way bigger bullet than eat it right on.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
It's fine, you go, Alexis, Okay, eat your salad the
way you want to eat your salad. I will okay
by Alexis, eat away.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Fine.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
And at the same time, I would be totally annoyed
on a date with my wife and like, take your time.
I'm gonna eat. I'm not waiting for you. But on
a date I'd be like, I can't be like finishing
my whole meal and you haven't taken your first bite yet.
You know what you give them salad? Yeah, you get
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
There, I get it.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Chod chopped salad is what she should be.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Already to chop.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Yes, don't hotter, set me have to sew down? Okay,
annoying not annoying. What do you say? Four or five?
Four six, one oh two seven? And if you want
to chime in on this second date update, Hi mind.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I'm here to give my opinion on the second date update.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Yeah, what are you thinking? Okay for people just joining us,
He was like a little annoyed that she got her
salad and she sat and cut it in for ten minutes,
his knife and fork cutting it up. He's like almost
doning with this burger by time Starving takes her first bite.
He was a little annoyed.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Yes, I'm personally a salad stuff for myself.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I don't cut up my salad, but my husband sitting
across from me every time that I eat one, and
he's making fun of the fact that I have rich
and lettuce all over my face.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Yeah, because the cutting it up every time.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, you get a big leaf and you just kind
of push it in, like like the magician putting the
hanky in his hand, Right, he just kind of is
that how that truck is kind of in your mouth? Right?
I think I think I'm a salad stuffer. I think
I'm one of those two high five you're in everything stuffer.
I know I'm a messy eater. How many napkins do
you use when you go to a restaurant?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Way too many?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, all right, high five. J uses his shirt. You're fine,
we're sloppy eaters. We're not there to look good, We're
there to chow. Okay, thanks for calling. That's right.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Have a good day.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Yeah you two. kJ went on three.
Got Alexis from Okayseye on the Second Date Update. How
you doing, Alexis?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Hi, Hi, welcome to the Second Date Update.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
So, what's the story about your first date with Justin?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Yeah? So I met Justin at my friend Kelsey's householding
party just like a couple of weeks ago, and we
were standing in line for tacos and he made this
joke just like how.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Glak should be free.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
And I may have laughed like.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Way too hard, probably, but it was cute.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It was really that funny. But he was cute, and
I guess you ended up going on a date then, right.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, maybe it was a little too much, but yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
We talked most of the night and I ended up
giving him my number.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
So then just a couple of days later, he.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Texted me and asked me out to dinner, which yeah,
I love that.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Okay cool, So what do you guys do?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
We went to Charleston. It's super chill, not too fancy,
and yeah, before we even had the date, he was
talking about us going kayaking together sometimes, so I was like, okay,
clearly he's picturing us hanging out more.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, so what so did you blow it on the
date or what.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Happened, you know, maybe because ever since the date, it's
been nothing like he hasn't texted me back, no plans
like he had said, and he's totally gone quiet. So
either I'm totally misreading everything or I did something wrong
and I just want to know what happened, like why?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, all right, he had set up the second date
before he got to have the first date with you,
and something went awry. Okay, you know how this works.
We'll get Justin on the phone and we'll just ask
him why he seems to be avoiding that kayaking second date. Okay, okay,
hey Justin, Welcome to the second date update. Thanks for
coming on. Hey, Alexis told us that before you even
(01:42):
went out to your dinner date, you had said and
then you know, sometime in the future we'll have to
go kayaking or something kind of setting up a future date. Yeah,
sounds like it. But you aren't answering your text now.
So what happened on that first date to change your mind?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Yes? Well okay, So I'm eating my burger and I
noticed that.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
She's using a fork and a knife cutting up her
salad like it's a stick, like the entire thing, every
every single leak, Like she just sat there for ten minutes,
just light thing and sectioning it like a surgeon or something.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Okay, hold on a seconds so you're like, I listen.
I can't date someone that cuts their salad. That's your thing.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I don't know. It just felt super odd.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Like it gave me anxiety, like watching her do it,
like I was almost done with my burger before she
even took a bite.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
It was.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
It was weird.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
But like if that's how she eats the salad, what
else is like that? Like what else does she do?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
You're cutting up your salad? Gave you anxiety?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I guess I can't relate because I shovel food in
your most I'm done with my food always first. But Alexis,
come on in here, you cut your salad.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Alexis, you're ghosting me over how I eat a salad?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I thought you were. I thought you were building a puzzle,
not eating lunch.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Don't I guess I don't get. I don't get. So
she's cutting her salad? Is it like a like a
no normal like cheft salad?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Or is a.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Wedge or alexis? So, so do you cut up like
every little bit of your salad and then you eat it.
Is that what it was going on?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Salads are messy, guys. It's not that deep. Like I'm
trying not to get a ranch all over my face.
So we're sitting there talking on a date, like I
don't understand you.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Just get that.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I get like you you're kind of don't want to
eat when she's preparing. You know, that's you know, But
I guess I don't really understand why this is such
a big deal.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Well it was like it was it was clinical, like
like like she had a system like like you cut
and then you rotate your plate and then you cut
the more like a three D printer or something like that.
Like it was honestly unnerving.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Hmm. So okay, so I didn't want let us on
my chin. I'm now extra. I just I cannot believe
this is a thing.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I really can't.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
I mean, I just I just got the vibe that
you're super particular.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
About stuff and I'm not in it.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Okay, So you build because.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I use a fourth like an adult and yeah that's ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Okay, so justin, so justin I get this adult. I
am not one that would cut my salad. I'm one
like you that just wants to eat my burger. But
if she wants to take her time eating, is that
really like? No second date? No going kayaking because of that?
You're out? No, you're out?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Wow, Okay, all right, all.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Right, justin We're gonna let you go. Thanks for coming
on the second date.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Uptake, Yeah, thank god?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
All right, see it, man, buddy, nothing, I've had salads
where like the leafs have come like extra big, you
kind of gotta cut them down. Alexis how long? How
long are we taking to cut up the salad? Because
five minutes, I mean if he's almost done with his burger.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Ten minutes, I mean maybe maybe a little longer.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
But I just I'm gonna think about it now. I
promise you that I'm never.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Gonna eat a salad and not sign it.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I'm picturing you. I'm picturing you elbows out and yours like,
and you're just talking to him. All your elbows are
just kind of bouncing up and down. Yeah, so it
have like a chef. And maybe the problem is you
were still talking and he's trying to eat his burger,
and you know, once you start eating the talking stops
ready to see what I'm like flapping my arm. I'm
(05:11):
picturing you do that for ten minutes, and now that
I'm doing it, I gotta say, maybe it would be
a little annoying if you're that kind of a person.
But listen, you scared him off, Alexis. You scared him away.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Honestly, if it took just that to scare him off,
and I think I dodged a.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Way bigger bullet than eat it right on.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
It's fine, you go, Alexis, Okay, eat your salad the
way you want to eat your salad. I will okay
by Alexis, eat away.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Fine.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
And at the same time, I would be totally annoyed
on a date with my wife and like, take your time.
I'm gonna eat. I'm not waiting for you. But on
a date I'd be like, I can't be like finishing
my whole meal and you haven't taken your first bite yet.
You know what you give them salad? Yeah, you get
what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
There, I get it.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Chod chopped salad is what she should be.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Already to chop.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Yes, don't hotter, set me have to sew down? Okay,
annoying not annoying. What do you say? Four or five?
Four six, one oh two seven? And if you want
to chime in on this second date update, Hi mind.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I'm here to give my opinion on the second date update.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Yeah, what are you thinking? Okay for people just joining us,
He was like a little annoyed that she got her
salad and she sat and cut it in for ten minutes,
his knife and fork cutting it up. He's like almost
doning with this burger by time Starving takes her first bite.
He was a little annoyed.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Yes, I'm personally a salad stuff for myself.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I don't cut up my salad, but my husband sitting
across from me every time that I eat one, and
he's making fun of the fact that I have rich
and lettuce all over my face.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Yeah, because the cutting it up every time.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, you get a big leaf and you just kind
of push it in, like like the magician putting the
hanky in his hand, Right, he just kind of is
that how that truck is kind of in your mouth? Right?
I think I think I'm a salad stuffer. I think
I'm one of those two high five you're in everything stuffer.
I know I'm a messy eater. How many napkins do
you use when you go to a restaurant?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Way too many?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, all right, high five. J uses his shirt. You're fine,
we're sloppy eaters. We're not there to look good, We're
there to chow. Okay, thanks for calling. That's right.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Have a good day.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Yeah you two. kJ went on three.
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