April 25, 2025 • 8 mins
Bradley and Jamie from OKC went out on a great first date, but then when Jamie wanted to go out again, she got a text from Bradley saying he had a change of heart. So what changed? we find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janatan j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. I Jamie, I.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hey, Jamie needs the second date update because oh, her
date was so awesome and now Bradley wants nothing to
do with you.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
So I explain, explain the whole situation, Jamie.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, I don't really know what's going on. But we
went out like two weeks ago. We met first snow cone.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Okay, like a teen date is what it is right there?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Well, it was a blind date, so this was kind
of our pre first date meeting. You know, we'll have
the snow cone, we'll take a walk, we'll make sure
we're not serial killers.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Okay, and howel place allow?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
That felt good?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I mean I like him, and he seemed to be
in the meet. He said he'd never been set up before,
so like he didn't know what to expect, but he
he said that he was pleasantly surprised, so kind of good.
Yeah right, okay, but I thought so I checked him
the next day and I say, hey, it's nice to
meet you, and you know, can't wait to have dinner
(01:04):
with you soon because we planned our actual date. While
we're out and I get back, I have had a
change of heart. He says, what what Yeah right, yeah, hello,
and so I'm like, I checked him back. I go
about what me? And then he says, it's stupid, don't
(01:24):
worry about it. It's not you, it's me.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
The worst that you can hear. You know what that means?
That means, yeah, okay, okay, I need to know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I've never been it's not you, it's me before and
I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Now you are, Well, congratulations on your first It's not you,
it's me.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I've had a million of them. It's a new life experience.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
And you know how this works. We're gonna get Bradley
on the phone. We're gonna you know, you just sit
back and listen. We're gonna try to get him to
answer honestly. What about you made him? Yeah, say it's
not you, it's me. Okay, Thanks, We'll take a break,
play a couple of songs, and then we'll check in
and try to figure out what's going on with Bradley.
Next Second date update kJ What All three? TJ Janet
(02:09):
and Jay Route in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
It's TJ Janet and j Rod's second date Update. I'm
kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Jamie went on a date with Bradley. Bradley since has
said I've had a change of heart.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's not you, it's me.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh okay, Bradley. We all decided that whenever someone says
it's not you, it's me, it actually is you. I mean,
it actually is about that person and the person.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
Yeah, oh, I don't.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Know if i'd say that it really isn't It really
isn't about her.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
It's more about my sister. My sister's name is Jamie, okay.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Okay, yeah, And I don't know.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
I just can't be dating somebody with the same name
as my sister. Like why if we go out another
date and then like five or ten or twenty days later,
we're in a passionate situation and she's like, oh, Bradley,
and I'm like, oh, Jamie, which is weird because it
is Jamie.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
And that's okay, okay, I've never thought of that.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Overthink it my being serious right now.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Jamie's on the phone, by the way.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah that is. It's just so stupid, Bradley.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
What are you doing.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
It is stupid.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
It is stupid.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I told you it was stupid, but it could I
don't know scar me for life if I was just
screaming my sister's name and passion.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Is the weirdest thing.
Speaker 7 (03:30):
Maybe don't scream presumptuous.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
And also it's it would be my name if you
were you know, I mean what.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Yeah, and we assume Jamie like your Jamie and my
sister is Jamie, and there's no way you can't both
not be Jamie at the same time.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
Like I said, it's got nothing to do with you.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
That's a strange reason.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I think she's gonna think of his sister when we're kissing.
Then yeah, maybe he shouldn't meet someone.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Named Jamie because I need to leave the room.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
That's weird on his own level.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So Bradley, you're not gonna go out with Jamie and
gamy because of the name.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I think she's awesome, but it's I just can't get
it out.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
Of my head.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
It was a blind date.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
It was really cool.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Then all of a sudden, same name is my sister.
Like I felt like I was putting this on the
rock at.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
A hard play. Oh, Brady, you know what, Bradley, here's
the deal.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Here's the deal, and I'm gonna say this is good
for Jamie and I'm just assuming here, but this you're
You're like, oh, I'm gonna meet this girl named Jamie,
and somewhere on the date, you thought, boy, I'd really
like to spend some quality time with James Jamie.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
No, it's my sister. Is that kind of how it went, Bradley?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Okay, all right, mid dirty thoughts, you thought about your sister.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Okay, Bradley, we're gonna let you go. Thanks for being honest.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Okay, Yeah, we're gonna let you go, Bradley.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Okay, bye, Bradley.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Jamie's ready to let you go to Okay, Bradley's gone.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Jamie weird, weird. Yeah, I'm with you. That's just what
I mean.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Well, it wasn't me.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
The thing about it is, though, when he was talking
about it before, he said, five ten, twenty days later,
he saw a future with you, but the name.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Weirded him out. The name weird him out. That's kind
of I don't know, right, The thing.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Is pretty presumptuous. I mean, I said I liked him.
I didn't say it was going to happen to bed
with him exactly.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
You know, but a moment of passion kicks in, Jamie.
You know what happens. I'm sure you're going to be
calling his name.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Oh oh, Bredy Cooper Bradley.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Cooper, Bradley's a name called. Okay, bye Jamie. Sorry we
didn't get you another day.
Speaker 7 (05:38):
Oh that's okay.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I didn't.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
I turned it out.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I didn't want it.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
Thanks, guys, I.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Don't is it as? Is it weird?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
That's not weird, It's not like that's so let's say
not a reason his reason?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Well, let's say your brother's name is Ray.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
That's that's your husband's name, and your brother's name is Ray,
and the next time you go Ray, they answer that
people are screaming out names.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Do people scream out names? Apparently? This is okay Ray? Four?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Or five?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
For six?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
One two seven?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Ja.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
My friend Carmen, Okay, her husband's name Sal, I kid
you not eight.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Probably people in her family have the name of Sal.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Like you say, you walk in family gathering Sal, and
it's like fifty people.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
They were just bad with names.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
So that's how it is in their family. Okay, let's
let's talk about this if you want to.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Talk about it. Okay, So.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I already know you're calling about the second date updated
for people just joining us.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
He couldn't date.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Jamie because he he kind of realized, Hey, I like
this girl. I might want to like do some you know,
some intimate with her. Oh, she has the same name
as my sister. I can't be calling out my sister's
name in the middle of getting from cash.
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Yes, yes, okay, even even though I'm female. Immediately my
mind went to people that are like juniors and seniors
and Henry b A and stuff like that, like you
know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Are they random?
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah, yeah, you're calling out now, you're calling out his
dad's name.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
I love that, you.
Speaker 7 (07:36):
Know, And so you don't think about like like when
you name your son after his dad or whatever, you
don't think all of a sudden or maybe if he's
a third you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Yeah, it's like the Sabrita Carpenter song. You'll have to
taste me when he when he's kissing you. Yeah, yeah,
Henry the Seventh is thinking that.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Hell I heard you, Henry the eight Yeah, it's true.
You'll just have to tease me one right now.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, always a pleasure page.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Thanks for calling.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Thanks
This is t J Janatan j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. I Jamie, I.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hey, Jamie needs the second date update because oh, her
date was so awesome and now Bradley wants nothing to
do with you.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
So I explain, explain the whole situation, Jamie.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, I don't really know what's going on. But we
went out like two weeks ago. We met first snow cone.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Okay, like a teen date is what it is right there?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Well, it was a blind date, so this was kind
of our pre first date meeting. You know, we'll have
the snow cone, we'll take a walk, we'll make sure
we're not serial killers.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Okay, and howel place allow?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
That felt good?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I mean I like him, and he seemed to be
in the meet. He said he'd never been set up before,
so like he didn't know what to expect, but he
he said that he was pleasantly surprised, so kind of good.
Yeah right, okay, but I thought so I checked him
the next day and I say, hey, it's nice to
meet you, and you know, can't wait to have dinner
(01:04):
with you soon because we planned our actual date. While
we're out and I get back, I have had a
change of heart. He says, what what Yeah right, yeah, hello,
and so I'm like, I checked him back. I go
about what me? And then he says, it's stupid, don't
(01:24):
worry about it. It's not you, it's me.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
The worst that you can hear. You know what that means?
That means, yeah, okay, okay, I need to know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I've never been it's not you, it's me before and
I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Now you are, Well, congratulations on your first It's not you,
it's me.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I've had a million of them. It's a new life experience.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
And you know how this works. We're gonna get Bradley
on the phone. We're gonna you know, you just sit
back and listen. We're gonna try to get him to
answer honestly. What about you made him? Yeah, say it's
not you, it's me. Okay, Thanks, We'll take a break,
play a couple of songs, and then we'll check in
and try to figure out what's going on with Bradley.
Next Second date update kJ What All three? TJ Janet
(02:09):
and Jay Route in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
It's TJ Janet and j Rod's second date Update. I'm
kJ one O three.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Jamie went on a date with Bradley. Bradley since has
said I've had a change of heart.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's not you, it's me.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh okay, Bradley. We all decided that whenever someone says
it's not you, it's me, it actually is you. I mean,
it actually is about that person and the person.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
Yeah, oh, I don't.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Know if i'd say that it really isn't It really
isn't about her.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
It's more about my sister. My sister's name is Jamie, okay.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Okay, yeah, And I don't know.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
I just can't be dating somebody with the same name
as my sister. Like why if we go out another
date and then like five or ten or twenty days later,
we're in a passionate situation and she's like, oh, Bradley,
and I'm like, oh, Jamie, which is weird because it
is Jamie.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
And that's okay, okay, I've never thought of that.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Overthink it my being serious right now.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Jamie's on the phone, by the way.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah that is. It's just so stupid, Bradley.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
What are you doing.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
It is stupid.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
It is stupid.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I told you it was stupid, but it could I
don't know scar me for life if I was just
screaming my sister's name and passion.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Is the weirdest thing.
Speaker 7 (03:30):
Maybe don't scream presumptuous.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
And also it's it would be my name if you
were you know, I mean what.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Yeah, and we assume Jamie like your Jamie and my
sister is Jamie, and there's no way you can't both
not be Jamie at the same time.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
Like I said, it's got nothing to do with you.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
That's a strange reason.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I think she's gonna think of his sister when we're kissing.
Then yeah, maybe he shouldn't meet someone.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Named Jamie because I need to leave the room.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
That's weird on his own level.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So Bradley, you're not gonna go out with Jamie and
gamy because of the name.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I think she's awesome, but it's I just can't get
it out.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
Of my head.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
It was a blind date.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
It was really cool.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Then all of a sudden, same name is my sister.
Like I felt like I was putting this on the
rock at.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
A hard play. Oh, Brady, you know what, Bradley, here's
the deal.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Here's the deal, and I'm gonna say this is good
for Jamie and I'm just assuming here, but this you're
You're like, oh, I'm gonna meet this girl named Jamie,
and somewhere on the date, you thought, boy, I'd really
like to spend some quality time with James Jamie.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
No, it's my sister. Is that kind of how it went, Bradley?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Okay, all right, mid dirty thoughts, you thought about your sister.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Okay, Bradley, we're gonna let you go. Thanks for being honest.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Okay, Yeah, we're gonna let you go, Bradley.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Okay, bye, Bradley.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Jamie's ready to let you go to Okay, Bradley's gone.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Jamie weird, weird. Yeah, I'm with you. That's just what
I mean.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Well, it wasn't me.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
The thing about it is, though, when he was talking
about it before, he said, five ten, twenty days later,
he saw a future with you, but the name.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Weirded him out. The name weird him out. That's kind
of I don't know, right, The thing.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Is pretty presumptuous. I mean, I said I liked him.
I didn't say it was going to happen to bed
with him exactly.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
You know, but a moment of passion kicks in, Jamie.
You know what happens. I'm sure you're going to be
calling his name.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Oh oh, Bredy Cooper Bradley.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Cooper, Bradley's a name called. Okay, bye Jamie. Sorry we
didn't get you another day.
Speaker 7 (05:38):
Oh that's okay.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I didn't.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
I turned it out.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
I didn't want it.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
Thanks, guys, I.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Don't is it as? Is it weird?
Speaker 3 (05:48):
That's not weird, It's not like that's so let's say
not a reason his reason?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Well, let's say your brother's name is Ray.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
That's that's your husband's name, and your brother's name is Ray,
and the next time you go Ray, they answer that
people are screaming out names.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Do people scream out names? Apparently? This is okay Ray? Four?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Or five?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
For six?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
One two seven?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Ja.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
My friend Carmen, Okay, her husband's name Sal, I kid
you not eight.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Probably people in her family have the name of Sal.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Like you say, you walk in family gathering Sal, and
it's like fifty people.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
They were just bad with names.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
So that's how it is in their family. Okay, let's
let's talk about this if you want to.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Talk about it. Okay, So.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I already know you're calling about the second date updated
for people just joining us.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
He couldn't date.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Jamie because he he kind of realized, Hey, I like
this girl. I might want to like do some you know,
some intimate with her. Oh, she has the same name
as my sister. I can't be calling out my sister's
name in the middle of getting from cash.
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Yes, yes, okay, even even though I'm female. Immediately my
mind went to people that are like juniors and seniors
and Henry b A and stuff like that, like you
know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Are they random?
Speaker 4 (07:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Yeah, yeah, you're calling out now, you're calling out his
dad's name.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
I love that, you.
Speaker 7 (07:36):
Know, And so you don't think about like like when
you name your son after his dad or whatever, you
don't think all of a sudden or maybe if he's
a third you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Yeah, it's like the Sabrita Carpenter song. You'll have to
taste me when he when he's kissing you. Yeah, yeah,
Henry the Seventh is thinking that.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Hell I heard you, Henry the eight Yeah, it's true.
You'll just have to tease me one right now.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, always a pleasure page.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Thanks for calling.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Thanks
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