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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janatan j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. You go on what you
thought was a great first date, good enough, you're gonna
get it, no doubt you're getting another date, right Dan? Married? No,
I don't know about that. But Dan, you thought you
were getting another date? Right?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Hey? Yeah, I really did.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I didn't think i'd ever be here.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
But what what on the second date update? You never
thought you'd ever actually? Okay, Dan, I hate to tell
you this. I think most people think they'll never be here. Yeah, okay,
well let's figure this out. What what's your story with
with the date you went on?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I mean, I met this beautiful woman in a runners
group on a Facebook.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
You know I just started running in March, so join
a group, and so you know, I mentioned, you know,
we should run together sometime, you know, grab a smoothie,
and she seemed into it. So, you know, we we
went on the run, we talked and you know a
lot of things in common. You grab a smoothie, and
(01:04):
I mean it felt like a really good date.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Let me ask you this because it sounds like, hey,
you want to go for a run person and runners group?
Did she know this? Was a date. Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Go for a run, like get a drink after essentially,
like that's a date a day.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
It felt like, it felt like a felt like Okay, okay, cool, Okay,
so obviously Second eight update something where did this go wrong?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
I don't know a messenger, you know, message her a
couple of times since and she just all she said
back was that I run too fast and she can't
keep up. Okay, So I said, I mean, so went
for it. I said, you know, how about dinner maybe, yeah,
(01:51):
my treat and uh no reply, no.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Reply, not good. Okay, Well you know how this works.
You said you never thought you'd be here, but you're here.
Second eight update. We're gonna get Candas on the phone
and we're gonna try to figure out, you know, what happened.
Why why she doesn't want to even answer your calls
in your text? Okay, okay, it's TJ Jannet and j Rids.
Second date update on kJ one three. Go on, what
(02:16):
you thought was a great first date is gonna lead
to many more dates for some reason. The other person
just completely ignoring you, which which Dan already had something
in common with Candace. They met in a Runners group
on Facebook. Okay. He asked her to go for a run,
have a smoothie. He thought it went well, asked her
to dinner. Since she's completely ignoring him, we had to
track down Candas and find out why. Hi Candace Hi. Okay. Now,
(02:40):
the question that came up when we talked to Dan
is did you think you were just going for a
run or did you know that it was kind of
supposed to be a date?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
No? I knew the run was a date.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Okay, And so you were cool with that? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Yeah, yeah, I agree to the run knowing that.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
It was the date, okay. And did you like Dan
when you met him?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Yeah? I mean, you know, he was very attractive, which
I could tell from his profile picture and the runners
group and everything. And I mean we had a good time,
you know, after our run, we were drinking smoothies and everything.
Can you mention that he had just graduated from UCO?
(03:27):
So I was like, oh, how old are you? And
I didn't know that he was twenty two?
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Is that the Is that the issue? Yeah, that he's
twenty two.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, that is definitely the issue. That's way too young
for me. I am thirty six.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Oh okay, how are you thirty six.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Wait, Dan's on the phone with us, by the way, Yeah,
how are you? You're thirty six?
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Dan?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
You had no idea she was thirty six? No?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
What Yeah, Dan, I'm fourteen years older than you. I
guess I just looked good for my age.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I thought you were like twenty seven.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
He compliment time. Where to god? Way, how old did
you think Dan was?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Darn? I thought you were like twenty eight or something,
which is also that's border life too young for me.
But when I found out you were twenty two, like I,
I honestly think I threw up in my mouth.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Wow, whatever happened to age is just a number? No,
Dan threw up in her mouth, just a little. Look.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
It's great that you're twenty two. I have been there,
I've done that. But I feel like a cradle robber.
You know, you just you just graduated college and I
was graduating college when you were eight years old.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
That does make it sound kind of weird. Yeah, when
you put it that way, does it? Okay? So this
age different is enough that you don't want a second date.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I mean, I'm okay dating a thirty six year old.
You don't look again? But uh, I mean if you're
okay dating a twenty two year old.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
That's look Dan, like, I'm thirty six, I'm divorced, you're
fresh out of college. I feel like I've lived quite
a bit of life since then, and that kind of
makes me feel icky.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
This sounds like the perfect adult film goshop. I'm saying, Oh,
I can see, I see, I see what you're saying. Yeah,
I see what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I mean, I'm here. If you ever want to get
a beer sometime, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Dan, I appreciate that. I will be seeing.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
You're out, Okay, all right, barely here, Yeah, to.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Get a beer? Stop. Thanks, We appreciate it. Okay, all right, okay, okay, bye,
bye bye. That's you know what, though, Cannae sounds awesome.
She sounds a damn cool and I'm imagining how like
fit and you kept saying she was gorgeous and in
no way were you're thinking she's thirty six years old?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Right, okay, Dan, you just like keep looking hot, keep
showing up to runners group, and then one day she's
gonna be a little disperate.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
One day when she's forty one and he's twenty six.
That's not you never know, Thanks Dan, though, go get
it on, Dan, I'm good luck getting older, Okay, to
see your buddy, I'm imagining young, athletic fast Dan, you
know what I mean, like twenty two in a runners group.
(06:36):
Yeah yeah, wow, Yeah, I'm sad that that didn't work.
What do you I mean? Do you think I get it?
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Though?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
But do you think maybe that could work home?
Speaker 4 (06:46):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I think I get it just because she's lived the
you know, more life.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
I know she'sicked by it and it made her throw
up a little bit in her mouth.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
That's not gonna work. The thought of it made her
want to I don't she actually did. I don't know,
feel pretty chime in four five, four, six one or
two seven on a second date update.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
I completely see where she's from. Maybe it's because I'm
thirty six now, I don't know my boyfriend's thirty two
and like that. That feels located. Okay, but I could
I could understand why why she would feel that way
about a twenty two year old. I mean, even if
(07:27):
he's a good.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Guy and everything.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Like like she said, she's been through different things in
her life that he hasn't experienced yet.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
My dad's always told me that an older man like
a thirty six year old man could date a twenty
two year old female because they're more mature, and we
never mature exactly. But if you flip it the other
way around, she's a mature thirty six year old and
we would be immature twenty two year old. Yep, Yeah,
(07:57):
I could see where it's it's definitely a different place.
But it doesn't sound like he's like cougar, you know.
It doesn't sound like he's immature like that. It's just
he just hasn't lived life. Maybe, Jay, you have.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
A son like that age, I know, and I wouldn't
date somebody because.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Wow, because there's like like.
Speaker 5 (08:18):
I'm sometimes I'm like Maximus, why are you doing that?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (08:24):
It's just that I I know absolutely.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
There'd be a little mothering involved. Yeah, absolutely some guys
like that.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Not saying this for him and not for all twenty
two year olds, but high five Taylor. I