March 24, 2025 • 7 mins
Jackson And Courtney From OKC went out, but something happened with his friends. Did he get get ghosted because of them? We find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is TJ, Jennet and j Rid's second date update
on kJ one O three. Janet's actually off today, but
we have Jackson on the phone for the second date update.
How you doing, Jackson?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Trying to figure this out?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Okay, well, we're going to find out why you're not
getting another date with Courtney. So what tell us about
the first date?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
It was good, like the way we meant was. I
was at seven to eleven. She was like, you look familiar,
and I was like, do you look familiar too? And
next thing you know, we're talking in the parking lot
for a bit, trying to figure out how we knew
each other. Turns out we were both at a mutual
friend's wedding. Turns out she remembered me from the wedding
(00:40):
because you know, she had a little I caught her eye,
and you know, I guess she caught mine too, since
we recognized each other. So she asked me out and
on the date she said this was fun. We should
do it again, which I guess is translation for I'm
not going to reply to your tech at I have no.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Desire to ever talk to you again, right, and by
that I mean no, thank you?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, all right. Interesting, Okay, she asked you out. She said,
let's do it again at the end of the day,
and now you can't get her to respond. Okay, So
well you know how this works. We will get Courtney
on the phone and try to figure this out for you.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Ok Jackson appreciate it, thank you?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
All right? All right, well take a break, play a
couple of songs and we'll do that. Coming up. Second
eight update kJ one on three, TJ Janet, Jay Rod
in the morning. It's TJ Janet and J Rods second
date update on kJ one three. Janet's off today, but
we're trying to figure out the second ate update for Jackson,
who turns out they had a mutual friend. They had
seen each other at a wedding at one time, and
(01:42):
so but that was it. Yeah. But once they figure
that out, Courtney asked him out and at the end
of the date said we should do this again. Yes,
and then since I won't respond to Jackson. So Courtney,
thanks for coming on the show. What's the deal? Why
are you avoiding Jackson after what seemed like a pretty
good first date?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Well, I mean I did.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
I had a really good first date and I even
texted the friends that we have in common. And I
was like, oh, I just went out with Jackson and
it was great, and I mean she texted me back
immediately and there were just some red flags. She just
said to me, you know, he hangs out with the
wrong guys. His friends are jerks, and wow.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Did he seem like a jerk to you? You know,
like she had red flags? But I mean you liked.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Him, right, I did like him.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
I mean definitely, I had Like I said, I had
a great time. But you know, I mean, you go
on a first date. You don't go on a first
date with someone's friends, So usually people are similar to
the people they choose to hang out with.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Are you saying birds of a feather flock together?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Interesting? Okay, I wouldn't say that ever, but sure, okay, yeah,
because that's lame. Okay. So I was just saying, okay,
all right, well, well let's get Jackson. Jackson's here, he's
listening to this. Let's get Jackson on the phone. Jackson, Uh,
are you a jerk because your friends are jerks?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I don't think so. I'm actually a little shocked. Did
she actually call me a jerk?
Speaker 4 (03:22):
She said, you hang out with some like obnoxious guys.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Okay, you know that little I think I know the
group of friends she's talking about. They're not really jerks.
They're just you know, they're a little a little extra.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
We all have those friends are a little extra. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Who I seem obnoxious to you?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Not on the first date? No, like I said, it
was just sort of I mean, like I said, I
texted my friend to say that I was excited. I
was not thinking that she was going to text back
and tell me, you know whoa your horses, and like
that's what she said, and it just gave me. It
just made me think. It was like, maybe I don't
(04:08):
need this.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, Courtney, he doesn't seem like a jerk right now. Now,
you said you didn't think he was like a jerk
on the first dates.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
So don't you think it's like worth a second chance,
a second you know, yeah, for you know, a second date.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I'll definitely think about it. I will definitely think about it.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Okay, I'm not. Well there you go, Jackson.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Okay, those guys are friends that I've had since middle school.
You know, they're they're more like brothers and as a group,
you know, I won't lie. We can get a little active.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
You're extra, you're active, you're active.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I mean we goof around like okay, okay, it's not malicious,
it's just overall, they're a bunch of good guys.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You know what, I think a good Courtney think about it. Okay,
but I'm gonna throw out a good word here because
I fit in this group. Okay, you get with the.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Guys you grew up with and you get a little immature.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Does that seem to fit Jackson?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Not the word I would Well, Okay, I'm trying.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
To use the words extra. I'm trying to help you out, Jackson.
But okay, all right, Jackson, you Courtney, you get in
touch with Jackson when you're ready and uh and good
luck guys, Okay, thank you. All right, maybe we have
a date there. I don't know, but yeah, no, listen,
we we have our group of immature friends. Does Amy
(05:34):
like know that? You know what I'm saying, all my guys, Yeah,
well she gets it. Yeah? Does she get annoyed sometimes?
By all the time we're immature, But but then we're
different with you were were we have multiple personalities.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Well, I like to think onions like lots of layers.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
We have the immature side and then we have the
just a little less immature side that we use when
we're hanging out with you. They were the sweet side,
right wrong four or five, four, six, one or two
seven if you want to talk about it, the second date,
up date kJ one or three t J Janet J
out in the morning.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I don't think that people should be faulted for who
they're friends with. I mean, if you if you have
friends from middle school, they knew you at a different
stage in your life, right sure, and obviously they've stuck around,
And I don't think that's the reflection of who you
are as a person.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, I mean there's a there's a little bit of
that in there, obviously, but it doesn't mean that's who
you always are. I have friends from church that when
I'm around them, we act differently. That part of me
is out there, and I'm sure that part of them
is out there. But it doesn't mean that they don't
have friends, that they don't have the j Rod in
their life. It is the devil on the shoulder, and
(06:50):
when I'm around j Rod sometimes I act like that.
I think it's okay to have, you know, different personalities,
But when I'm around my wife, I'm the sweet, loving,
still in mature, but less obnoxious husband. H J Rod said,
birds of a feather, Yeah, which you know is kind
of trite, but it's also kind of true. When you're
(07:11):
with people, it might bring that part of you, but
it doesn't mean that's who you are. It doesn't define
your character all the time.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
I'm just saying, when my boyfriend is gaming with the bros,
it's a lot different.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Really, you cannot judge a guy by his gaming with
the Bros personality right now? All right, thanks for calling
kJ Little three t J Janet Jay Rod in the
morning
This is TJ, Jennet and j Rid's second date update
on kJ one O three. Janet's actually off today, but
we have Jackson on the phone for the second date update.
How you doing, Jackson?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Trying to figure this out?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Okay, well, we're going to find out why you're not
getting another date with Courtney. So what tell us about
the first date?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
It was good, like the way we meant was. I
was at seven to eleven. She was like, you look familiar,
and I was like, do you look familiar too? And
next thing you know, we're talking in the parking lot
for a bit, trying to figure out how we knew
each other. Turns out we were both at a mutual
friend's wedding. Turns out she remembered me from the wedding
(00:40):
because you know, she had a little I caught her eye,
and you know, I guess she caught mine too, since
we recognized each other. So she asked me out and
on the date she said this was fun. We should
do it again, which I guess is translation for I'm
not going to reply to your tech at I have no.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Desire to ever talk to you again, right, and by
that I mean no, thank you?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, all right. Interesting, Okay, she asked you out. She said,
let's do it again at the end of the day,
and now you can't get her to respond. Okay, So
well you know how this works. We will get Courtney
on the phone and try to figure this out for you.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Ok Jackson appreciate it, thank you?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
All right? All right, well take a break, play a
couple of songs and we'll do that. Coming up. Second
eight update kJ one on three, TJ Janet, Jay Rod
in the morning. It's TJ Janet and J Rods second
date update on kJ one three. Janet's off today, but
we're trying to figure out the second ate update for Jackson,
who turns out they had a mutual friend. They had
seen each other at a wedding at one time, and
(01:42):
so but that was it. Yeah. But once they figure
that out, Courtney asked him out and at the end
of the date said we should do this again. Yes,
and then since I won't respond to Jackson. So Courtney,
thanks for coming on the show. What's the deal? Why
are you avoiding Jackson after what seemed like a pretty
good first date?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Well, I mean I did.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
I had a really good first date and I even
texted the friends that we have in common. And I
was like, oh, I just went out with Jackson and
it was great, and I mean she texted me back
immediately and there were just some red flags. She just
said to me, you know, he hangs out with the
wrong guys. His friends are jerks, and wow.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Did he seem like a jerk to you? You know,
like she had red flags? But I mean you liked.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Him, right, I did like him.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
I mean definitely, I had Like I said, I had
a great time. But you know, I mean, you go
on a first date. You don't go on a first
date with someone's friends, So usually people are similar to
the people they choose to hang out with.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Are you saying birds of a feather flock together?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Interesting? Okay, I wouldn't say that ever, but sure, okay, yeah,
because that's lame. Okay. So I was just saying, okay,
all right, well, well let's get Jackson. Jackson's here, he's
listening to this. Let's get Jackson on the phone. Jackson, Uh,
are you a jerk because your friends are jerks?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I don't think so. I'm actually a little shocked. Did
she actually call me a jerk?
Speaker 4 (03:22):
She said, you hang out with some like obnoxious guys.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Okay, you know that little I think I know the
group of friends she's talking about. They're not really jerks.
They're just you know, they're a little a little extra.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
We all have those friends are a little extra. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Who I seem obnoxious to you?
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Not on the first date? No, like I said, it
was just sort of I mean, like I said, I
texted my friend to say that I was excited. I
was not thinking that she was going to text back
and tell me, you know whoa your horses, and like
that's what she said, and it just gave me. It
just made me think. It was like, maybe I don't
(04:08):
need this.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, Courtney, he doesn't seem like a jerk right now. Now,
you said you didn't think he was like a jerk
on the first dates.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
So don't you think it's like worth a second chance,
a second you know, yeah, for you know, a second date.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I'll definitely think about it. I will definitely think about it.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Okay, I'm not. Well there you go, Jackson.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Okay, those guys are friends that I've had since middle school.
You know, they're they're more like brothers and as a group,
you know, I won't lie. We can get a little active.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
You're extra, you're active, you're active.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I mean we goof around like okay, okay, it's not malicious,
it's just overall, they're a bunch of good guys.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You know what, I think a good Courtney think about it. Okay,
but I'm gonna throw out a good word here because
I fit in this group. Okay, you get with the.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Guys you grew up with and you get a little immature.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Does that seem to fit Jackson?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Not the word I would Well, Okay, I'm trying.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
To use the words extra. I'm trying to help you out, Jackson.
But okay, all right, Jackson, you Courtney, you get in
touch with Jackson when you're ready and uh and good
luck guys, Okay, thank you. All right, maybe we have
a date there. I don't know, but yeah, no, listen,
we we have our group of immature friends. Does Amy
(05:34):
like know that? You know what I'm saying, all my guys, Yeah,
well she gets it. Yeah? Does she get annoyed sometimes?
By all the time we're immature, But but then we're
different with you were were we have multiple personalities.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Well, I like to think onions like lots of layers.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
We have the immature side and then we have the
just a little less immature side that we use when
we're hanging out with you. They were the sweet side,
right wrong four or five, four, six, one or two
seven if you want to talk about it, the second date,
up date kJ one or three t J Janet J
out in the morning.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I don't think that people should be faulted for who
they're friends with. I mean, if you if you have
friends from middle school, they knew you at a different
stage in your life, right sure, and obviously they've stuck around,
And I don't think that's the reflection of who you
are as a person.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, I mean there's a there's a little bit of
that in there, obviously, but it doesn't mean that's who
you always are. I have friends from church that when
I'm around them, we act differently. That part of me
is out there, and I'm sure that part of them
is out there. But it doesn't mean that they don't
have friends, that they don't have the j Rod in
their life. It is the devil on the shoulder, and
(06:50):
when I'm around j Rod sometimes I act like that.
I think it's okay to have, you know, different personalities,
But when I'm around my wife, I'm the sweet, loving,
still in mature, but less obnoxious husband. H J Rod said,
birds of a feather, Yeah, which you know is kind
of trite, but it's also kind of true. When you're
(07:11):
with people, it might bring that part of you, but
it doesn't mean that's who you are. It doesn't define
your character all the time.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
I'm just saying, when my boyfriend is gaming with the bros,
it's a lot different.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Really, you cannot judge a guy by his gaming with
the Bros personality right now? All right, thanks for calling
kJ Little three t J Janet Jay Rod in the
morning
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