June 6, 2025 • 6 mins
James and Julie from OKC had a great night...even went back to his place. Was Julie outwhen she thought she walked through a petting zoo in his apartment? We find out with the 2nd Date Update
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J, Jennit and g Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Got James from OKC on the second date updates. Tell
us the whole story. We're gonna try to figure it out.
Why you're not getting another day with Julie.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Yeah, trying to figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
We met at a happy hour a few weeks back,
and she recognized me from elementary school, which is wild
because I recognized her at first. She said, we're in
like the second grade, same teacher, but.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
You must look very similar to your second grade south Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
I thought it had a glow up, but I guess not.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Babyface. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
So we talked for like an hour at the bar.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
We were each there with our different friend groups, but
things just clicked and we decided to ditch the group
and go grab dinner together, just the two of us.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So that was your first date, like that night, you
guys went.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Out instantly that night.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, it was just kind of fun reconnecting and it
was actually great, like the easiest conversation I've ever had
with someone. Like after dinner, she actually suggested to go
back to my place, so telling her about my patio setup,
which I'm I love, you know, building that out, Like
I've got like the string lights and like the fridge
with drinks, and it's like an awesome setup and she
(01:11):
wanted to come check it out.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Okay, cool, nice, you don't have to give details. But
how how did this end?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Well, we have to ask without asking, you know, I.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Mean we hung out for a while, you know, we
just kind of chilled, had some drinks. Like she didn't
seem to have any red flags at all, Like there
was zero weird moments, and then she left and she
has not responded to a single text.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
All right, well, you know this works.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
We're going to get her on the phone and ask
Julie why she doesn't seem to want to go out again,
and who knows, maybe.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It's just a misunderstanding.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
You guys will be on another date, okay, thank all right,
we'll take your break, play a couple of songs, and
we'll see what we can make that happen.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
For the second date. Update kJ one all three, TJ,
Jannett and Jay ro out in the morning. It's TJ,
Janet and Jay rides second date. Update Fine kJ one
O three. We got Julie on the second date. Update.
How you doing, Julie?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Well?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
My first question is how did you recognize James from
second grade? Does he look that similar to how he
looked in second grade?
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I mean he does just like you know, an older version. Yeah,
there's still some similarities, you know.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
So that's how you guys found each other. You went
on this date. You know, you invited yourself over to
his patio. But now you don't seem to want to
go out again, and we're trying to figure out why.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Okay, well, let me just say that James is really
really nice. Right, this isn't a personal thing, but honestly,
I just couldn't.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
I have this, like, I.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Don't know, a mini zoo, Like they're just a giant
lizard loose in his apartment.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Oh a mini zoo? Is that what you said? Like
he's got a bunch of like animals and is that
on purpose?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, it's it's a head lizard.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Yeah, it's not just a rando like Godzilla's in the corner.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Yeah, Like, just a giant lizard loose in the apartment.
I think he said it was a pito. Then there's
a tarantula tank on the bookshelf and something in a
cage that was making this.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Weird chirpping, barking noise.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
So were you spooked or what was the problem.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
No, it wasn't the animals as so much as it
was the smell. There was a smell. It hit you
the second you walked in. It's like wet wood chips
and crickets are like rotten old lettuce. I don't know,
I don't know, and I don't want through, so I stayed.
(03:37):
But like I was holding my breath half the time.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Okay, wait, and so but you weren't you outside most
of the time.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Yeah, we were on the patio mostly, but you could
still smell it.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Oh wow, okay, man, okay, James, come on in your James, purely,
you didn't have to come over.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
You literally said, let's go back to your place and
hang out on your patio.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
You invited yourself over.
Speaker 5 (03:56):
Yes, but I didn't think I was walking into like
freaking Jurassic Port, James.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
I didn't know the patio came with like I don't know,
reptiles staring.
Speaker 5 (04:05):
At me through the screen door.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Wait, so, James, what so you have like a bunch
of animals in your house.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
They're not just animals, they're my family, Like they're family pets.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Like it's it's a part of who I am.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So what do you what do you have?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
And Julie, it's not a Tito, his name is Tito.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
It's Tito the tegu Okay, Freda is the tarantula.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
And who goes a sugar lighter? All right, sugar.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Sugar gliders are too, they're cool. What'd you say? Those
aren't pets? What'd you say?
Speaker 5 (04:37):
No, it's just not my definition of pets, you know,
cat or dog, Julie.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
If you were more open and you took a time
to get to know too, you would see that he's
like the cool with pet.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
He's like a dog with scales. Okay. And I do
clean and get used to the smell.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Okay, but that's the thing, Like I don't want to
have to get used to something that kind.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Of grows with me.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Out your place, it was like a pet store.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Every every house has a smell, Julie, Like you must
obviously never visit your grandmother because old people houses smell too,
Like every house has a smell, but.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Not this overbearing kind of rotten growth.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Okay, all right, okay, okay, Julie, I think Tito sounds cool.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Julie doesn't want to be rude. So I'm gonna cut
you off here because his ki it's gonna go down
a road we don't want to go.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Julie, thanks so much for coming on the second date update.
Obviously you don't want another date with James again, so
we're gonna let you go. Okay, Okay, James, any last
thoughts here.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
I mean, if you met Tito, you would know he's awesome.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
See, I'm down.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I want to meet Tito. I guess it's not for Julie.
But thanks for coming on the second date update. James,
Sorry we couldn't get you another date, buddy, that's all right,
thanks for your help. Listen, we've all been in a
smelly house. You get used to it eventually, you go
know's blind.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Fine. If you got a dog, you got a cat,
you gotta you gotta sneaky house. Yeah, you got a
sugar glider. They all got a smell to them. You
just don't smell it after a while. Essence of animals.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Okay,
This is t J, Jennit and g Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one three.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Got James from OKC on the second date updates. Tell
us the whole story. We're gonna try to figure it out.
Why you're not getting another day with Julie.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Yeah, trying to figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
We met at a happy hour a few weeks back,
and she recognized me from elementary school, which is wild
because I recognized her at first. She said, we're in
like the second grade, same teacher, but.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
You must look very similar to your second grade south Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
I thought it had a glow up, but I guess not.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Babyface. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
So we talked for like an hour at the bar.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
We were each there with our different friend groups, but
things just clicked and we decided to ditch the group
and go grab dinner together, just the two of us.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So that was your first date, like that night, you
guys went.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Out instantly that night.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, it was just kind of fun reconnecting and it
was actually great, like the easiest conversation I've ever had
with someone. Like after dinner, she actually suggested to go
back to my place, so telling her about my patio setup,
which I'm I love, you know, building that out, Like
I've got like the string lights and like the fridge
with drinks, and it's like an awesome setup and she
(01:11):
wanted to come check it out.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Okay, cool, nice, you don't have to give details. But
how how did this end?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Well, we have to ask without asking, you know, I.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Mean we hung out for a while, you know, we
just kind of chilled, had some drinks. Like she didn't
seem to have any red flags at all, Like there
was zero weird moments, and then she left and she
has not responded to a single text.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
All right, well, you know this works.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
We're going to get her on the phone and ask
Julie why she doesn't seem to want to go out again,
and who knows, maybe.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It's just a misunderstanding.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
You guys will be on another date, okay, thank all right,
we'll take your break, play a couple of songs, and
we'll see what we can make that happen.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
For the second date. Update kJ one all three, TJ,
Jannett and Jay ro out in the morning. It's TJ,
Janet and Jay rides second date. Update Fine kJ one
O three. We got Julie on the second date. Update.
How you doing, Julie?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Well?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
My first question is how did you recognize James from
second grade? Does he look that similar to how he
looked in second grade?
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I mean he does just like you know, an older version. Yeah,
there's still some similarities, you know.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
So that's how you guys found each other. You went
on this date. You know, you invited yourself over to
his patio. But now you don't seem to want to
go out again, and we're trying to figure out why.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Okay, well, let me just say that James is really
really nice. Right, this isn't a personal thing, but honestly,
I just couldn't.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
I have this, like, I.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Don't know, a mini zoo, Like they're just a giant
lizard loose in his apartment.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Oh a mini zoo? Is that what you said? Like
he's got a bunch of like animals and is that
on purpose?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, it's it's a head lizard.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Yeah, it's not just a rando like Godzilla's in the corner.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Yeah, Like, just a giant lizard loose in the apartment.
I think he said it was a pito. Then there's
a tarantula tank on the bookshelf and something in a
cage that was making this.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Weird chirpping, barking noise.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
So were you spooked or what was the problem.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
No, it wasn't the animals as so much as it
was the smell. There was a smell. It hit you
the second you walked in. It's like wet wood chips
and crickets are like rotten old lettuce. I don't know,
I don't know, and I don't want through, so I stayed.
(03:37):
But like I was holding my breath half the time.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Okay, wait, and so but you weren't you outside most
of the time.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Yeah, we were on the patio mostly, but you could
still smell it.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Oh wow, okay, man, okay, James, come on in your James, purely,
you didn't have to come over.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
You literally said, let's go back to your place and
hang out on your patio.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
You invited yourself over.
Speaker 5 (03:56):
Yes, but I didn't think I was walking into like
freaking Jurassic Port, James.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
I didn't know the patio came with like I don't know,
reptiles staring.
Speaker 5 (04:05):
At me through the screen door.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Wait, so, James, what so you have like a bunch
of animals in your house.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
They're not just animals, they're my family, Like they're family pets.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Like it's it's a part of who I am.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So what do you what do you have?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
And Julie, it's not a Tito, his name is Tito.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
It's Tito the tegu Okay, Freda is the tarantula.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
And who goes a sugar lighter? All right, sugar.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Sugar gliders are too, they're cool. What'd you say? Those
aren't pets? What'd you say?
Speaker 5 (04:37):
No, it's just not my definition of pets, you know,
cat or dog, Julie.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
If you were more open and you took a time
to get to know too, you would see that he's
like the cool with pet.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
He's like a dog with scales. Okay. And I do
clean and get used to the smell.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Okay, but that's the thing, Like I don't want to
have to get used to something that kind.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Of grows with me.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Out your place, it was like a pet store.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Every every house has a smell, Julie, Like you must
obviously never visit your grandmother because old people houses smell too,
Like every house has a smell, but.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Not this overbearing kind of rotten growth.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Okay, all right, okay, okay, Julie, I think Tito sounds cool.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Julie doesn't want to be rude. So I'm gonna cut
you off here because his ki it's gonna go down
a road we don't want to go.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Julie, thanks so much for coming on the second date update.
Obviously you don't want another date with James again, so
we're gonna let you go. Okay, Okay, James, any last
thoughts here.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
I mean, if you met Tito, you would know he's awesome.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
See, I'm down.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I want to meet Tito. I guess it's not for Julie.
But thanks for coming on the second date update. James,
Sorry we couldn't get you another date, buddy, that's all right,
thanks for your help. Listen, we've all been in a
smelly house. You get used to it eventually, you go
know's blind.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Fine. If you got a dog, you got a cat,
you gotta you gotta sneaky house. Yeah, you got a
sugar glider. They all got a smell to them. You
just don't smell it after a while. Essence of animals.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Okay,
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