April 8, 2025 • 7 mins
Jodi and Alex from OKC went out. Jodi said she hasn't heard from him in 3 days and wanted to know what happend. IT'S BEEN 3 DAYS!!!! So what is keeping him from calling back
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Jody from Okacy really needs to go out with Alex again.
You felt all the vibes on the date, Jody, I know,
and now you're on the second date update, So tell
us the whole story.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
How you went on the date, what happened? Where are
we now?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
I was with some friends and he was too, and
we were just, you know, drinking, and he came over
bought me a drink, and then we just sort of,
you know, like hung out together all night with our.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Group of friends.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
And then before he left, he asked me for my
number so he could call and take me up sometime.
And then a few weeks go by and he finally
texted me and asked me out for a drink. So
we met, had a couple of drinks, and you know,
the next thing, you know, we order some food. I'm
having a great time, and you know, he thinks we
(00:49):
having a good time too.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
We were at the place for probably like two hours.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Okay, so the vibe, the vibe is like this is
going well, and then we order some food, so that
means we want it's going really longer. Everything's good. Two
hour date. That's a pretty good first date. It's a
pretty good length. I'm feeling good about this so far.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
And then at the end of that he asked me
if I wanted to go out to dinner next weekend,
So of course I said yes, Okay, But since then
I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Okay, you tried to contact him.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Yeah, I texted him a few times and called a
couple of times.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Huh and nothing. Nothing, Okay, what did you do?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
And there's no red flags or anything that happened on
the date that makes you go, oh, you know what
I said that about his mom or I nothing like that.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
No, nothing, you never know.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
You don't say something about my mo You're gone? All right,
all right, we will talk to Alex next.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
See what's up here.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Second date update kjwele three E, TJ Janet, Jay Out
of the Morning.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
It's TJ, Janet and Jay Rides. Second date update pun
Kate D one three.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Let's just get right into this second date update because
Alex doesn't have a whole lot of time to talk.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
So Alex, here's the question.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Jody called us said, you guys had a great first
date and now you're kind of blowing her off or
going out again.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Why is that.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I've been busy? The simple answer is, you know, I'm busy.
I have a job and I just have a life.
I've a lot of things going on. It's like, I
don't know what her deal is. Really.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Oh yeah, too busy to call, too busy to you know,
cancel a date, you know, text back. You're you're so.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Busy you can't even text back.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
No, it's it's been three days. It's not like it's
been two weeks. Like we already set a tentative plan
for next weekend.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Wait, you just went on Wait it's been three days
since you went You just went on the date this weekend.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yeah, like I said, we went out Saturday, which was
three days ago. And I'm sorry I haven't got around
just like setting up something for next Saturday. But like,
if I'm good at math and I have four more days,
and I feel like she's she's a little insane to
be calling me and texting me and then calling our
(03:10):
radio stations when we have a.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Plan to expect somebody to return your calls in text.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
By the way, Jody's on the phone with us right now. Uh, Alex,
is that Is that insane?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Is that insane?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, we're not in a relationship, so to like to
yell at me for not texting back, like we went
on one day and I even asked her and was
planning on a second date on Saturday. Honestly, you know
you need to chill and just take a breath.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Don't give why you're so annoyed by me texting you, Like,
why can't you just text me back?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Like I said, we're not in a relationship. I don't
have time to text you all the time. I don't
play on my phone all day. A lot of the time.
I go without my phone, Like I said, I have
a big boy job and we work, we do things.
You know, I would invite you to get some medication. Seriously,
I think you have issues.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Wow, you're a joy.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah, it's completely reasonable to have text conversations with people.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
You're not in a relationship with.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
You should try it sometimes.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
No, it's completely unreasonable to text the person like five
times and call me twice when I told you I
would talk to you Saturday, when you don't hear back.
How about how about this just don't text me anymore? Jody?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Wow? Oh wow, that was planning so this this didn't
go well, so there's no okay, well, and I.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Mean, you guys are obviously not going to get along,
so we won't do this on the radio anymore.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Lex thanks man, We'll let you go. Okay, thanks guys, Okay,
all right, thanks.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Wow, that that wasn't what we were expecting, was it.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
No? Not at all? No.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I mean, do you do you think you were pestering
him with your texts?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
You know what I'm saying? That so much so that
he would be like, oh, I'm not texting this. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
I didn't think so, you know, I texted friends all
the time. It's no, you know, no big deal.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Well, and you would think that even even like going, hey,
I'm having a busy day, let me let me text
you later, or you know what I'm saying, like like
we were gonna go out again. So I would think
that you would be cool with me texting a few
times maybe during the week.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Jody.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Sorry, we didn't get you another date, but.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Uh I think that's fine.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
That's okay with me.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay, you'll be fine, all right, Thanks Jody, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Was he being kind of.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Like like a little too sensitive to a couple of texts,
what do you say? And he was like, five texts
and two calls in three days.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I just don't.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I don't anybody that's like, I just I am too
busy to text you back. I'm like, then you don't
want to.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
But again three days, I mean he might have even
he might have even gotten around the texting here, but
now he's like, wait, now you're calling me with the
radio station, Like was this was the fact that we're
on the second date update three days after the date
kind of sign if what he's dealing with or is
it like, you know, dude, just get over it. That's
(06:22):
we're in the text day at A Yes, exactly, okay, four.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Five, six seven.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
If you want to chime in on the second date
update kJ WTLE three TJ Janet Jr Out in the morning, I'll.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Take Yeah, sure he did. He said, I'll see you later.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
If you think about the people you text back immediately,
those are people you want to have communication with, sir.
If you're putting me on it, oh, i'll text you
back in three days, you don't really want to have communication.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Sure, but but but again they've been on one date.
It was it was literally two nights ago. It was
Saturday night. Okay, and think of who should be above
that part, my boss, my kids, my wife and he
doesn't have a wife, but my wife.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Maybe it's the second up.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You're right, she should have wait, didn't know, wait until Saturday?
Guy here, and did she didn't hear anything? First thing
Monday morning. I'll call the guys.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
We'll get that through.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Later on.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, see, I think that's the other thing too. He
might have been his mind going Okay, I don't need
to return this text because it's not till later in
the week.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
But now you have me on the second date update. Yeah, no, no,
I'm annoyed.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
So yes, it's on him, it's on her, it's on us.
I mean it's it's kind of everyone's fault here, but
uh or norm but nobody's fault the same thing.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Thanks for calling Kevin my morning. Well that means I'm
not the only one getting blasted like that. I see it. Kevin,
You have a good morning.
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
On kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Jody from Okacy really needs to go out with Alex again.
You felt all the vibes on the date, Jody, I know,
and now you're on the second date update, So tell
us the whole story.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
How you went on the date, what happened? Where are
we now?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
I was with some friends and he was too, and
we were just, you know, drinking, and he came over
bought me a drink, and then we just sort of,
you know, like hung out together all night with our.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Group of friends.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
And then before he left, he asked me for my
number so he could call and take me up sometime.
And then a few weeks go by and he finally
texted me and asked me out for a drink. So
we met, had a couple of drinks, and you know,
the next thing, you know, we order some food. I'm
having a great time, and you know, he thinks we
(00:49):
having a good time too.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
We were at the place for probably like two hours.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Okay, so the vibe, the vibe is like this is
going well, and then we order some food, so that
means we want it's going really longer. Everything's good. Two
hour date. That's a pretty good first date. It's a
pretty good length. I'm feeling good about this so far.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
And then at the end of that he asked me
if I wanted to go out to dinner next weekend,
So of course I said yes, Okay, But since then
I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Okay, you tried to contact him.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Yeah, I texted him a few times and called a
couple of times.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Huh and nothing. Nothing, Okay, what did you do?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
And there's no red flags or anything that happened on
the date that makes you go, oh, you know what
I said that about his mom or I nothing like that.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
No, nothing, you never know.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
You don't say something about my mo You're gone? All right,
all right, we will talk to Alex next.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
See what's up here.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Second date update kjwele three E, TJ Janet, Jay Out
of the Morning.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
It's TJ, Janet and Jay Rides. Second date update pun
Kate D one three.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Let's just get right into this second date update because
Alex doesn't have a whole lot of time to talk.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
So Alex, here's the question.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Jody called us said, you guys had a great first
date and now you're kind of blowing her off or
going out again.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Why is that.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I've been busy? The simple answer is, you know, I'm busy.
I have a job and I just have a life.
I've a lot of things going on. It's like, I
don't know what her deal is. Really.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Oh yeah, too busy to call, too busy to you know,
cancel a date, you know, text back. You're you're so.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Busy you can't even text back.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
No, it's it's been three days. It's not like it's
been two weeks. Like we already set a tentative plan
for next weekend.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Wait, you just went on Wait it's been three days
since you went You just went on the date this weekend.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yeah, like I said, we went out Saturday, which was
three days ago. And I'm sorry I haven't got around
just like setting up something for next Saturday. But like,
if I'm good at math and I have four more days,
and I feel like she's she's a little insane to
be calling me and texting me and then calling our
(03:10):
radio stations when we have a.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Plan to expect somebody to return your calls in text.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
By the way, Jody's on the phone with us right now. Uh, Alex,
is that Is that insane?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Is that insane?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Yeah, we're not in a relationship, so to like to
yell at me for not texting back, like we went
on one day and I even asked her and was
planning on a second date on Saturday. Honestly, you know
you need to chill and just take a breath.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Don't give why you're so annoyed by me texting you, Like,
why can't you just text me back?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Like I said, we're not in a relationship. I don't
have time to text you all the time. I don't
play on my phone all day. A lot of the time.
I go without my phone, Like I said, I have
a big boy job and we work, we do things.
You know, I would invite you to get some medication. Seriously,
I think you have issues.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Wow, you're a joy.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah, it's completely reasonable to have text conversations with people.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
You're not in a relationship with.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
You should try it sometimes.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
No, it's completely unreasonable to text the person like five
times and call me twice when I told you I
would talk to you Saturday, when you don't hear back.
How about how about this just don't text me anymore? Jody?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Wow? Oh wow, that was planning so this this didn't
go well, so there's no okay, well, and I.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Mean, you guys are obviously not going to get along,
so we won't do this on the radio anymore.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Lex thanks man, We'll let you go. Okay, thanks guys, Okay,
all right, thanks.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Wow, that that wasn't what we were expecting, was it.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
No? Not at all? No.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I mean, do you do you think you were pestering
him with your texts?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
You know what I'm saying? That so much so that
he would be like, oh, I'm not texting this. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
I didn't think so, you know, I texted friends all
the time. It's no, you know, no big deal.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Well, and you would think that even even like going, hey,
I'm having a busy day, let me let me text
you later, or you know what I'm saying, like like
we were gonna go out again. So I would think
that you would be cool with me texting a few
times maybe during the week.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Jody.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Sorry, we didn't get you another date, but.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Uh I think that's fine.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
That's okay with me.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay, you'll be fine, all right, Thanks Jody, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Was he being kind of.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Like like a little too sensitive to a couple of texts,
what do you say? And he was like, five texts
and two calls in three days.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I just don't.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I don't anybody that's like, I just I am too
busy to text you back. I'm like, then you don't
want to.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
But again three days, I mean he might have even
he might have even gotten around the texting here, but
now he's like, wait, now you're calling me with the
radio station, Like was this was the fact that we're
on the second date update three days after the date
kind of sign if what he's dealing with or is
it like, you know, dude, just get over it. That's
(06:22):
we're in the text day at A Yes, exactly, okay, four.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Five, six seven.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
If you want to chime in on the second date
update kJ WTLE three TJ Janet Jr Out in the morning, I'll.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Take Yeah, sure he did. He said, I'll see you later.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
If you think about the people you text back immediately,
those are people you want to have communication with, sir.
If you're putting me on it, oh, i'll text you
back in three days, you don't really want to have communication.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Sure, but but but again they've been on one date.
It was it was literally two nights ago. It was
Saturday night. Okay, and think of who should be above
that part, my boss, my kids, my wife and he
doesn't have a wife, but my wife.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Maybe it's the second up.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
You're right, she should have wait, didn't know, wait until Saturday?
Guy here, and did she didn't hear anything? First thing
Monday morning. I'll call the guys.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
We'll get that through.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Later on.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, see, I think that's the other thing too. He
might have been his mind going Okay, I don't need
to return this text because it's not till later in
the week.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
But now you have me on the second date update. Yeah, no, no,
I'm annoyed.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
So yes, it's on him, it's on her, it's on us.
I mean it's it's kind of everyone's fault here, but
uh or norm but nobody's fault the same thing.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Thanks for calling Kevin my morning. Well that means I'm
not the only one getting blasted like that. I see it. Kevin,
You have a good morning.
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