April 11, 2025 • 7 mins
Sam and Angelica went out. She got his number a while back, and finally called him. Then Sam ghosted her. We find out what happened
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one O three. Okay, let's help out
Sam from OKAC. How you doing this morning? Sam?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I guess I've been better, but I'm okay. How about you? Wow?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Sam? Okay, let's get you another day with Angelica. Tell
us about the whole story about your first date for
the second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
And the first date went all right?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
So I met I met Angelica through a mutual friend.
Had to have been sometime last summer when I originally
met her last summer, and she she asked my buddy
if she could connect with me and asked for my number.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I said sure, you know, that's cool. You know, I
guess I don't know if it took her a whole summer, a.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Whole half a year to want to connect, but whatever,
you know, I guess they made a good first impression.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Delayed first impression. Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Wait. So so you just went out recently then, is
what you're saying?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Yeah, we just went out recently. Typical first date, went
for drinks with a little bit of live music going on,
good vibe, you know, good first date. Connect, you know
over text, you know we'd be texting each other, stuff
like hey, how's your day? You know, very very casual chat,
very normal casual chat.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So this was after the date, after the date, you were.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Talking yes percent okay, but then blanke, out of the blue,
she just stopped texting, you know, no replies, no hey,
how are you go? You know, I scroll back through
my text to see if maybe I said something to
a fender, and you know, everything looks normal, normal to you.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, let's ask her. Okay, all right, so you know
how this works. We'll get her on the phone and
find out. Okay, please do yeah, thank you. Okay, we'll
take a break, play a couple.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Of songs, and we'll see what's up here.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
For the second aid update, kJ went on three TJ Janet,
Jay Rout of the morning.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
It's TJ Janet and Jay Rides. Second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So Sam from OKC went long story short, went on
a date with Angelica.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
They even text back and forth after the date. How's
your day going? Like that kind of stuff, when we
going out again or whatever, and then she just like disappeared,
She's gone, she's got Sam looked at his text, He's like,
is it something I said? I don't know. We're like, well,
let's just ask Angelica, who's on the phone with us
right now.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Thanks for coming on the second date update Angelica.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
No problem. How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Well, we want to know how you are. What's the dale?
Why are you avoiding? It seems like you're avoiding going
out with Sam again.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I don't know, Like after our date, okay, we would text,
you know, as you do, like when you like someone.
So we were texting and everything's normal, okay. And then
I was texting him and I asked him, Hey, do
you have any plans for today?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
And he texted bag and.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
He was like, just work and getting a massage. And
I was like, okay, okay, he's getting a massage.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Like whatever.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
And then a few days later I text him again
and I say, have you had dinner yet? Do you
want to meet up? And he texts it back and
he goes, I'm about to go into another massage and
I go, how about after? And he goes, it was
already seven thirty and he's getting a massage at night.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
It just seems really weird to me. We're three massage
is a week at night?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Okay? I mean maybe that's one you can get him in.
I guess, I don't what, I don't know. What are
you saying here?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Like?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Are these just massages?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
You know?
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Or okay, Sam, a nice massage.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Sam's on the phone here, Sam.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Oh my god, I'm not really sure where you're going
with this, Angelica.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
I mean, like, are these regular massages? I guess is
what it's like nighttime?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Three times a week at night at night. I don't
get with the time of the day, three times.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
A week at night. I just like what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Wait, wait, he stressed.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I kind of get where you're going, Angelica, Like, are
these like massages?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Are these like? Okay?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So okay, right, so you're saying, Angelica, a man getting
three massages a week at night?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Is your Now? I can't go out with this guy again?
Deal breaker? Like no second date here, I don't.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
I just really doubt that it's just a massage.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
What are these it's just a massage? I mean, I
work hard all day.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I'm up early in the morning to go to work.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'm at work all day.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
And then when I get out of work, I.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
My muscles are are tight.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
So I go and I get a massage.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
It's got bad ergonomics. Okay, So Angelica, I'm gonna ask you. Okay,
he's got tight muscles. Okay, he gets a massage. It
happens to be in the evening. Do you want to
go on a second day with him. We'll send you out,
we'll pay for your dinner, we'll do the whole deal.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
No, I don't. I don't believe that it's just a massage.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Like, I just don't, Sam, I mean anything you can
say here to plead your case, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm honestly at a loss of words. I don't know
what to tell her. I don't know what to say.
I'm no, I met a loss of words. I got nothing.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
So you're out, Angelica.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
You're like, no, I'm going I want none to do
with these massages at.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Night, to massage that night.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Okay, all right, Angelica, we heard all that. Yeah, I
guess this doesn't make me want to go book a
massage right now.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I don't know if I will at nights. I don't
want that rumor going around. Okay, Angelica, we're gonna let
you go. Okay, thanks for coming on the second aid update.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Okay, Bye, I mean I understand what she's in flying,
but it doesn't make any sense. If I was going
to do that, I could do that at any time
of the day. She kept saying at night, but didn't
work at night.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Three massages a week at night, Thanks for coming.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
On the second date update, Jannai was I could get
three massages me.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Too, Right. The question is you want your man getting
three massages at night? Okay, all right, bye bye, Samy
or my friend Molly already sending messages. She says, why
she want to yuck his youm be curious, not judgmental
quote from Ted Lasso. But then she also says, yo,
he can afford three massages a week. Wife him up,
so you can get three massages a week too.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
If he's getting them, you can't. You can't afford all that.
Buy that membership. It's not that much more for three.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Massages couples massages a week at night. Yeah maybe, Okay,
I don't know if you want to chime in four
or five, four six, O one oh two seven,
This is t J Janet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one O three. Okay, let's help out
Sam from OKAC. How you doing this morning? Sam?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I guess I've been better, but I'm okay. How about you? Wow?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Sam? Okay, let's get you another day with Angelica. Tell
us about the whole story about your first date for
the second date update.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
And the first date went all right?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
So I met I met Angelica through a mutual friend.
Had to have been sometime last summer when I originally
met her last summer, and she she asked my buddy
if she could connect with me and asked for my number.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
I said sure, you know, that's cool. You know, I
guess I don't know if it took her a whole summer, a.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Whole half a year to want to connect, but whatever,
you know, I guess they made a good first impression.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Delayed first impression. Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Wait. So so you just went out recently then, is
what you're saying?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Yeah, we just went out recently. Typical first date, went
for drinks with a little bit of live music going on,
good vibe, you know, good first date. Connect, you know
over text, you know we'd be texting each other, stuff
like hey, how's your day? You know, very very casual chat,
very normal casual chat.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So this was after the date, after the date, you were.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Talking yes percent okay, but then blanke, out of the blue,
she just stopped texting, you know, no replies, no hey,
how are you go? You know, I scroll back through
my text to see if maybe I said something to
a fender, and you know, everything looks normal, normal to you.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yeah, let's ask her. Okay, all right, so you know
how this works. We'll get her on the phone and
find out. Okay, please do yeah, thank you. Okay, we'll
take a break, play a couple.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Of songs, and we'll see what's up here.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
For the second aid update, kJ went on three TJ Janet,
Jay Rout of the morning.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
It's TJ Janet and Jay Rides. Second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So Sam from OKC went long story short, went on
a date with Angelica.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
They even text back and forth after the date. How's
your day going? Like that kind of stuff, when we
going out again or whatever, and then she just like disappeared,
She's gone, she's got Sam looked at his text, He's like,
is it something I said? I don't know. We're like, well,
let's just ask Angelica, who's on the phone with us
right now.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Thanks for coming on the second date update Angelica.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
No problem. How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Well, we want to know how you are. What's the dale?
Why are you avoiding? It seems like you're avoiding going
out with Sam again.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I don't know, Like after our date, okay, we would text,
you know, as you do, like when you like someone.
So we were texting and everything's normal, okay. And then
I was texting him and I asked him, Hey, do
you have any plans for today?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
And he texted bag and.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
He was like, just work and getting a massage. And
I was like, okay, okay, he's getting a massage.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Like whatever.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
And then a few days later I text him again
and I say, have you had dinner yet? Do you
want to meet up? And he texts it back and
he goes, I'm about to go into another massage and
I go, how about after? And he goes, it was
already seven thirty and he's getting a massage at night.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
It just seems really weird to me. We're three massage
is a week at night?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Okay? I mean maybe that's one you can get him in.
I guess, I don't what, I don't know. What are
you saying here?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Like?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Are these just massages?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
You know?
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Or okay, Sam, a nice massage.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Sam's on the phone here, Sam.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Oh my god, I'm not really sure where you're going
with this, Angelica.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
I mean, like, are these regular massages? I guess is
what it's like nighttime?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Three times a week at night at night. I don't
get with the time of the day, three times.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
A week at night. I just like what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Wait, wait, he stressed.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I kind of get where you're going, Angelica, Like, are
these like massages?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Are these like? Okay?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So okay, right, so you're saying, Angelica, a man getting
three massages a week at night?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Is your Now? I can't go out with this guy again?
Deal breaker? Like no second date here, I don't.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
I just really doubt that it's just a massage.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
What are these it's just a massage? I mean, I
work hard all day.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I'm up early in the morning to go to work.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'm at work all day.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
And then when I get out of work, I.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
My muscles are are tight.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
So I go and I get a massage.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
It's got bad ergonomics. Okay, So Angelica, I'm gonna ask you. Okay,
he's got tight muscles. Okay, he gets a massage. It
happens to be in the evening. Do you want to
go on a second day with him. We'll send you out,
we'll pay for your dinner, we'll do the whole deal.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
No, I don't. I don't believe that it's just a massage.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Like, I just don't, Sam, I mean anything you can
say here to plead your case, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm honestly at a loss of words. I don't know
what to tell her. I don't know what to say.
I'm no, I met a loss of words. I got nothing.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
So you're out, Angelica.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
You're like, no, I'm going I want none to do
with these massages at.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Night, to massage that night.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Okay, all right, Angelica, we heard all that. Yeah, I
guess this doesn't make me want to go book a
massage right now.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I don't know if I will at nights. I don't
want that rumor going around. Okay, Angelica, we're gonna let
you go. Okay, thanks for coming on the second aid update.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Okay, Bye, I mean I understand what she's in flying,
but it doesn't make any sense. If I was going
to do that, I could do that at any time
of the day. She kept saying at night, but didn't
work at night.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Three massages a week at night, Thanks for coming.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
On the second date update, Jannai was I could get
three massages me.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Too, Right. The question is you want your man getting
three massages at night? Okay, all right, bye bye, Samy
or my friend Molly already sending messages. She says, why
she want to yuck his youm be curious, not judgmental
quote from Ted Lasso. But then she also says, yo,
he can afford three massages a week. Wife him up,
so you can get three massages a week too.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
If he's getting them, you can't. You can't afford all that.
Buy that membership. It's not that much more for three.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Massages couples massages a week at night. Yeah maybe, Okay,
I don't know if you want to chime in four
or five, four six, O one oh two seven,
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