April 14, 2025 • 8 mins
Shannon and Zane from Edmond went out, and while Shannon was in the bathroom Zane's ex came in and trash talked her. Is this why there is no 2nd Date yet?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Janniton j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. We got Shannon from Edmund
on the phone. How you doing, Shannon?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We want to get you another date with Zaye here
for the second date update. So tell us about your
first date and let's see if we maybe we can
figure out where you went wrong before we even talked
to him.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Give us all the details.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Okay, yeah, so I guess. Yeah, we just we went
clubbing and we ended up drinking maybe too much, and
dance and we kissed a little bit.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Nice. Sounds perfect.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, yeah, And I met him on Tinder and anything
I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
But.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I don't know. It seems like there is more of
a connection between us. We discussed, you know, like some
personal stuff in our chats and our touch and it
seemed like he was someone I don't know that I
like to go on another date with.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Okay, I have the same buy.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
From him, honestly, Okay, yeah, I felt like it was
really mutual, and but I've heard nothing, and I.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Think I've been ghosted.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
I don't know. So maybe he was looking for a
hookup situation which didn't happen.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
By the way, Oh gotcha.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Okay, so you're saying you didn't give him maybe what
he was looking for on Tinder and just letting everyone new.
So he's out, or maybe you did something else.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Maybe maybe there's that do enough. Oh I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I can't get it out of my head. I mean,
I just I really want to understand what I did.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Okay, all right, Well, we'll get him on the phone
and we'll talk to Zane and we'll just ask him why. Okay,
he's avoiding another date with you, Shannon, and then who knows,
maybe he's like, no, I totally want to go out
with her again.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Let's make this happen. So hang tight, we'll get him
on the phone. Coming up. Okay, ok let's do it.
It's TJ Jannet and Jay Rides. Second date update pin
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Okay, we talked to Shannon from Edmund. Now she met
Zane on Tinder. Quit rolling your eyes, Janet. But she
felt this It just felt like more than a Tinder date.
This felt like one they'd go on more dates with
or whatever else it always does. And then he hasn't
responded to her since to go out against it. We're
going to find out what happened right now, we got
Zaye on the phone for the second date update. Thanks
(02:27):
for coming on the show, Zay, and we appreciate it. Okay,
So oh wow, oh no, that good.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Well, so we're at the club right and I mean,
we're dancing, we're drinking, we're having a great time. And
Shannon she's great. She was happy, and she was fun
and you know, she was just like awesome. But then
out of nowhere, she just kind of grew psycho and
she wanted to fight my ex.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
She wanted to fight your ex. Wait what Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
So my ex girlfriend she showed up, which which is
no big deal where you know, we're still friends, were
friendly terms and everything, and and so I go up
and I say hi, and I even introduced s to her,
you know, just trying to be like a gentleman.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
And was like, I want to due, I want to
fight you. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
No, apparently she's in the bathroom and out of nowhere,
just threatens to beat the crap out of my ex
girlfriend in the bathroom, Like I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
You know, hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Did she tell you.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
That Shannon's on the phone, by the way, you know,
And She even had a friend there that was backing
up the story about how you just like wanted to
beat her up.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
That's not what happened. That's her side of the story.
That is not what happened, and you're just gonna believe her.
Did he tell you the rest of the story?
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Wait, waited, Shnon, what is the rest of the story.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, okay, So I go to the bathroom. I even
was like hey to her, and it was really an
awkward situation.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
So I decided to choose the.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
High roads, and you know when I'm peeing, she said,
oh yeah, usually Zaye classier women than that.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
And they knew I could.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Hear that they saw me in there.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I mean they Taal didn't know you were listening to them. Well,
you know, they're.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
They're fixing their stupid faces in the mirror, and I
and I and I get all my way on. I'm like,
keep my keep my name out of your mouth, or
I'm going to kick the crap out of you. That's
literally what happened. That's the whole story.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
So you threatened her, you said you were going to
kick the crap out of her.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, sure you could see it as a threat,
but you could also she was talking trash about me
and she knew I was listening to her. Like, the
whole thing was ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I mean, it sounds believable.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm not saying I don't
believe her side.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
You know, this is the first part.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
You know, you're over here telling me she took the
high road. But I hate to agree with my ex,
but I usually do date classier woman who just don't
go around threatening to beat up people in the back.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Wow zan.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Wow, Okay, so you're so superior to me, congratuate?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Okay, where this is going?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Okay, all right, we're gonna let you go the inane Zane,
thanks for coming on the second day update. We appreciate
you being honest and have a good one.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Okay, thank you so much. All Right, I don't even know.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
I was just trying to tell her to wash her
mouth and not talk about me because she knew I
was there, And if I actually, like literally wanted to
beat the crap out of her, I would have just
done it. And also, I mean, is it trashy to
stick up for yourself? Is that the thing now? To
be like, hey, don't don't don't do that she Haanna,
thanks for coming on the second date, updating.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Sorry this didn't work out for you, Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Whatever, all right, I don't want her to feel like that,
but I'm just saying, okay, so she has a right
to say something, doesn't she like, don't talk about well,
I guess you don't have to say or I'm gonna
kick the.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Crap out exactly. You could say, what does it make
her trashy?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
To be like no, no, no, no, no, I see what
you're doing here, don't mess with me or else.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, obviously that.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Girl's just as trashy if it is trashy, or would
the higher road be like, listen, I don't appreciate you
talking about me like this.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
I'm very classy.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Like all you're doing is saying here, now maybe I'm
wrong four oh five, four six one or two seven or.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Just walk out and he is a good kisser. Oh no,
that's trashy. That's trashy. I mean, I don't know, I
don't know the line. I don't know. I'm not one
to speak here.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Okay, Hey, that guy sounds like you, Oh really to
be like, hey, you know you threatened to beat up
my axe.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Yeah yeah, really why does he care? What does he
you know, what he'd.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Be like to be like?
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Well, she does kind of have a point a dudate
class deer women.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Excuse me that.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Okay, I'm signing with the girl on this one because
I feel like, first off, she's with the exes with
her friends in the bathroom. So you have how many
ever people versus one?
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (07:29):
So yeah, back someone up in a corner. I think
that they have the right to defend themselves first off.
And they're talking about trashiness. That's trashiness that they're going
to talk about somebody you don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
It's all right.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Listen, anytime any sort of anything happens inside a bathroom,
it goes from normal to a little bit.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Just a little bit wait, wait.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Wait, who's there? Is there someone else? Are you in
a bathroom?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
My gosh, hi, boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Give give them your input, give him your input on it.
He made a good point earlier.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Saying it could be trashy to try to, you know,
call my.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Out and fight them in the bathroom just because they
said something. You know, you could take the higher out
and say, you know, just ignore them and whatnot. They're
just an ex and they're not going to be significant.
But either way, like she was saying, it's trashy to
sit there and try to call some money out in
the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
While they're on the toilet.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
There, you can't. The rules are, you can't call someone
out when their pants are down. Okay, you have to
wait till their hands are You have to wait till
the hands are dry. Okay, all right, thank you, beautiful couple.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Okay, bye.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I love when couples call and both give their side
of the advice.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
We get a two for one.
This is t J Janniton j Rod's second date update
on kJ one O three. We got Shannon from Edmund
on the phone. How you doing, Shannon?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How are you good?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We want to get you another date with Zaye here
for the second date update. So tell us about your
first date and let's see if we maybe we can
figure out where you went wrong before we even talked
to him.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Give us all the details.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Okay, yeah, so I guess. Yeah, we just we went
clubbing and we ended up drinking maybe too much, and
dance and we kissed a little bit.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Nice. Sounds perfect.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, yeah, And I met him on Tinder and anything
I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
But.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I don't know. It seems like there is more of
a connection between us. We discussed, you know, like some
personal stuff in our chats and our touch and it
seemed like he was someone I don't know that I
like to go on another date with.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Okay, I have the same buy.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
From him, honestly, Okay, yeah, I felt like it was
really mutual, and but I've heard nothing, and I.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Think I've been ghosted.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
I don't know. So maybe he was looking for a
hookup situation which didn't happen.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
By the way, Oh gotcha.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Okay, so you're saying you didn't give him maybe what
he was looking for on Tinder and just letting everyone new.
So he's out, or maybe you did something else.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Maybe maybe there's that do enough. Oh I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I can't get it out of my head. I mean,
I just I really want to understand what I did.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Okay, all right, Well, we'll get him on the phone
and we'll talk to Zane and we'll just ask him why. Okay,
he's avoiding another date with you, Shannon, and then who knows,
maybe he's like, no, I totally want to go out
with her again.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Let's make this happen. So hang tight, we'll get him
on the phone. Coming up. Okay, ok let's do it.
It's TJ Jannet and Jay Rides. Second date update pin
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Okay, we talked to Shannon from Edmund. Now she met
Zane on Tinder. Quit rolling your eyes, Janet. But she
felt this It just felt like more than a Tinder date.
This felt like one they'd go on more dates with
or whatever else it always does. And then he hasn't
responded to her since to go out against it. We're
going to find out what happened right now, we got
Zaye on the phone for the second date update. Thanks
(02:27):
for coming on the show, Zay, and we appreciate it. Okay,
So oh wow, oh no, that good.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Well, so we're at the club right and I mean,
we're dancing, we're drinking, we're having a great time. And
Shannon she's great. She was happy, and she was fun
and you know, she was just like awesome. But then
out of nowhere, she just kind of grew psycho and
she wanted to fight my ex.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
She wanted to fight your ex. Wait what Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
So my ex girlfriend she showed up, which which is
no big deal where you know, we're still friends, were
friendly terms and everything, and and so I go up
and I say hi, and I even introduced s to her,
you know, just trying to be like a gentleman.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
And was like, I want to due, I want to
fight you. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
No, apparently she's in the bathroom and out of nowhere,
just threatens to beat the crap out of my ex
girlfriend in the bathroom, Like I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
You know, hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Did she tell you.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
That Shannon's on the phone, by the way, you know,
And She even had a friend there that was backing
up the story about how you just like wanted to
beat her up.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
That's not what happened. That's her side of the story.
That is not what happened, and you're just gonna believe her.
Did he tell you the rest of the story?
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Wait, waited, Shnon, what is the rest of the story.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, okay, So I go to the bathroom. I even
was like hey to her, and it was really an
awkward situation.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
So I decided to choose the.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
High roads, and you know when I'm peeing, she said,
oh yeah, usually Zaye classier women than that.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
And they knew I could.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Hear that they saw me in there.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I mean they Taal didn't know you were listening to them. Well,
you know, they're.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
They're fixing their stupid faces in the mirror, and I
and I and I get all my way on. I'm like,
keep my keep my name out of your mouth, or
I'm going to kick the crap out of you. That's
literally what happened. That's the whole story.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
So you threatened her, you said you were going to
kick the crap out of her.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, sure you could see it as a threat,
but you could also she was talking trash about me
and she knew I was listening to her. Like, the
whole thing was ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I mean, it sounds believable.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm not saying I don't
believe her side.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
You know, this is the first part.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
You know, you're over here telling me she took the
high road. But I hate to agree with my ex,
but I usually do date classier woman who just don't
go around threatening to beat up people in the back.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Wow zan.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Wow, Okay, so you're so superior to me, congratuate?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Okay, where this is going?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Okay, all right, we're gonna let you go the inane Zane,
thanks for coming on the second day update. We appreciate
you being honest and have a good one.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Okay, thank you so much. All Right, I don't even know.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
I was just trying to tell her to wash her
mouth and not talk about me because she knew I
was there, And if I actually, like literally wanted to
beat the crap out of her, I would have just
done it. And also, I mean, is it trashy to
stick up for yourself? Is that the thing now? To
be like, hey, don't don't don't do that she Haanna,
thanks for coming on the second date, updating.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Sorry this didn't work out for you, Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Whatever, all right, I don't want her to feel like that,
but I'm just saying, okay, so she has a right
to say something, doesn't she like, don't talk about well,
I guess you don't have to say or I'm gonna
kick the.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Crap out exactly. You could say, what does it make
her trashy?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
To be like no, no, no, no, no, I see what
you're doing here, don't mess with me or else.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, obviously that.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Girl's just as trashy if it is trashy, or would
the higher road be like, listen, I don't appreciate you
talking about me like this.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
I'm very classy.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Like all you're doing is saying here, now maybe I'm
wrong four oh five, four six one or two seven or.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Just walk out and he is a good kisser. Oh no,
that's trashy. That's trashy. I mean, I don't know, I
don't know the line. I don't know. I'm not one
to speak here.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
Okay, Hey, that guy sounds like you, Oh really to
be like, hey, you know you threatened to beat up
my axe.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Yeah yeah, really why does he care? What does he
you know, what he'd.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Be like to be like?
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Well, she does kind of have a point a dudate
class deer women.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Excuse me that.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Okay, I'm signing with the girl on this one because
I feel like, first off, she's with the exes with
her friends in the bathroom. So you have how many
ever people versus one?
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (07:29):
So yeah, back someone up in a corner. I think
that they have the right to defend themselves first off.
And they're talking about trashiness. That's trashiness that they're going
to talk about somebody you don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
It's all right.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Listen, anytime any sort of anything happens inside a bathroom,
it goes from normal to a little bit.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Just a little bit wait, wait.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Wait, who's there? Is there someone else? Are you in
a bathroom?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
My gosh, hi, boyfriend.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Give give them your input, give him your input on it.
He made a good point earlier.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Saying it could be trashy to try to, you know,
call my.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Out and fight them in the bathroom just because they
said something. You know, you could take the higher out
and say, you know, just ignore them and whatnot. They're
just an ex and they're not going to be significant.
But either way, like she was saying, it's trashy to
sit there and try to call some money out in
the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
While they're on the toilet.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
There, you can't. The rules are, you can't call someone
out when their pants are down. Okay, you have to
wait till their hands are You have to wait till
the hands are dry. Okay, all right, thank you, beautiful couple.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Okay, bye.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I love when couples call and both give their side
of the advice.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
We get a two for one.
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