March 27, 2025 • 6 mins
Tessa and Travis from OKC went out, and they thought it was awesome....till her mom had some really personal questions. Is this the reason there hasn't been a 2nd Date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Jennaitan j Rods second date update
on kJ one O three. You go on what you
thought was at least a good enough first date that
you'll go out again. That's what Tessa thought, right, You
had a great date with Travis.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
And now nothing. What What what happened? Tessa?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Well, you know, Travis had actually been asking me out
for you know, like a couple of years ago. I'm
a single mother with an infant, so.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I wasn't really into dating at the time, you know,
So but then I ran.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Into him recently and he mentioned that, you know, we
should get a drink, and I was like, okay, cool, yes,
And so I was really excited, you know, just to
like go out on a date again, so, you know,
because it had been a while since my divorce. So
he picked me up and we went out for a
beer and we just we just kind of really talked,
you know, it was it was nice, you know, I thought, like,
you know, it was a good connection.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
And so like my mom was watching my son.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Right, so we didn't stay out too late or anything.
And he mentioned that, you know, we would you know,
get together again. So I just I went home and
I've spent two weeks now, and I've texted him a
few times and and he's not answering me. So I'm
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I'm what did you do? Tess up? What I've been.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Like racking my brain. I'm not sure if I screwed
something up or you know. That's why I wanted you
guys to figure it out, because he's probably too nice
to ever tell me, you know, because he's really like,
you know, a gentle, nice guy. But wow, I don't
know what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
You're like, ya, can we define soon time for him?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
We should get together soon. That means a couple.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Of years week, you know, I mean really?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Okay? Gotcha? Okay, Tessa, Well you know how this works.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We're going to get Travis on the phone and you
just sit back and listen.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
We're going to try to get him to you know.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
It's like you said, he's probably too nice to really say,
but we're going to try to get out of him
why he doesn't want.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
To go out with you.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Okay, Okay?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Cool.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Second date update coming up on kJ one ALL three.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
It's TJ, Jannet and Jay Rides. Second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So Tessa from Okay, see he called us for the
second date update.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
It's like I can't get another day with Travis.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Travis is on the phone with us. Thanks for coming
on the second date update. Are you ready to tell
your side of the story? Travis? Uh?
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Yeah, sure? Okay, So the date was good until I
dropped her off.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
What happened when you dropped her off?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
She introduced me to her mom, who asked me, after
you slept with a lot of women, because my daughter
doesn't need that in her life right now?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Wow, you got that, mom?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Say, dang, yeah, did that really happen?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Hold on, Tessa's on the phone, Tessa, your mom.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Your mom asked, Travis, he sleeps with a lot of women?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Did you really say that?
Speaker 5 (02:54):
I don't know verbatim that's what she said, but it
was very close to that.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
If it was any you're within ten miles of that.
That's terrible.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Wow, I'm sorry, Travis.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Chessa doesn't need a guy that's got a bunch.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Of women in her life right now.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Stables, Oh no, the intense.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
To get grilled about my love life by my bab's mom.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I guess he's just trying to protect me, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
But oh, my gosh, protect you from what, like I'm
a predator?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, exactly, we don't.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, no, no, no, I don't think it was anything
like that. You know, on my ex he was like
a real player when we met and we just got
married and then my mom, you know, she doesn't want
me to go through that again. You know that was
a big drama, Travis.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I'm not I'm not being Tessa's mom here, but are
you a player?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Travis? How you play.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
A uh my game is actually pretty average.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
You're like a bench player.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You're an extreme dating back. Travis is a JV players
what he is? Okay, okay, so let me ask you this, Travis.
Do you want to go on a second date or
you kind.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Of like, as long as I don't have to give
my dating resume, you know, oh.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
My god, I promise, I promise I'll.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Never leave you alone with her ever again.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Even if this goes like all the way to the altar,
You'll never have to be alone with my mom again, right.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
As long as this was coming from your mom and not.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
You, cool Yeah, okay, okay, No.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
It's just my mom. You know, I'm just an only child,
and I guess she just wants to protect me.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
But I'm not like that, Tessa. You were already hurt once.
I can understand the protection things. She just wants to
go through it again. But yeah, that question.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I don't want to be asked by anyone's mom how
many women I've been with?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Let how many women have you been with? None of
your dang business?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Okay, so only KYL syndrome.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah that's probably true, so true.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Okay, Well, uh well you guys get all set up
on going out again. Okay, second day by Travis. Okay, Bye, Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Tessa, that went okay, didn't I? That went okay?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Yeah, that was pretty good. Oh my gosh, I can't
believe my mom though.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Oh yeah, call her and give her, like, you know,
an earful.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yes, indeed, I am. I mean you got to, like
you know, back off a bit.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Okay, bye, Tessa, Bye. I think we just foiled her
mom's plan.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I think I think we just got her another day.
And she's like, no, I'm babysitting you're young toddler for
you to go out on dates.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I don't need that right now. Maybe that's what she's saying.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I don't know, I don't know if I mean, Tessa,
sounds great, and this is nothing against Tessa, but I
don't think I could date that mom.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, like if mom problem. If after the.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
First date, Mom's already going well, I mean, how many
women have you been with?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Because you know, like that mom could be a problem,
you know.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I'm just saying, yeah, I'm just just mom, don't
I'm sure your mom's lovely testa, but I don't know,
maybe I'm wrong. Four oh five, four six, one or
two seven? Does every woman need a mom like that
in her life? Or and it just made a face like.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Or is that mom gonna ruin Tessa's love life?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Let's discuss kJ went on three t J Janet j
Rid in the Morning
This is t J Jennaitan j Rods second date update
on kJ one O three. You go on what you
thought was at least a good enough first date that
you'll go out again. That's what Tessa thought, right, You
had a great date with Travis.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
And now nothing. What What what happened? Tessa?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Well, you know, Travis had actually been asking me out
for you know, like a couple of years ago. I'm
a single mother with an infant, so.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I wasn't really into dating at the time, you know,
So but then I ran.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Into him recently and he mentioned that, you know, we
should get a drink, and I was like, okay, cool, yes,
And so I was really excited, you know, just to
like go out on a date again, so, you know,
because it had been a while since my divorce. So
he picked me up and we went out for a
beer and we just we just kind of really talked,
you know, it was it was nice, you know, I thought, like,
you know, it was a good connection.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
And so like my mom was watching my son.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Right, so we didn't stay out too late or anything.
And he mentioned that, you know, we would you know,
get together again. So I just I went home and
I've spent two weeks now, and I've texted him a
few times and and he's not answering me. So I'm
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I'm what did you do? Tess up? What I've been.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Like racking my brain. I'm not sure if I screwed
something up or you know. That's why I wanted you
guys to figure it out, because he's probably too nice
to ever tell me, you know, because he's really like,
you know, a gentle, nice guy. But wow, I don't
know what happened.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
You're like, ya, can we define soon time for him?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
We should get together soon. That means a couple.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Of years week, you know, I mean really?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Okay? Gotcha? Okay, Tessa, Well you know how this works.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
We're going to get Travis on the phone and you
just sit back and listen.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
We're going to try to get him to you know.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
It's like you said, he's probably too nice to really say,
but we're going to try to get out of him
why he doesn't want.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
To go out with you.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Okay, Okay?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Cool.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Second date update coming up on kJ one ALL three.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
It's TJ, Jannet and Jay Rides. Second date update on
kJ one O three.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
So Tessa from Okay, see he called us for the
second date update.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
It's like I can't get another day with Travis.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Travis is on the phone with us. Thanks for coming
on the second date update. Are you ready to tell
your side of the story? Travis? Uh?
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Yeah, sure? Okay, So the date was good until I
dropped her off.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
What happened when you dropped her off?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
She introduced me to her mom, who asked me, after
you slept with a lot of women, because my daughter
doesn't need that in her life right now?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Wow, you got that, mom?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Say, dang, yeah, did that really happen?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Hold on, Tessa's on the phone, Tessa, your mom.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Your mom asked, Travis, he sleeps with a lot of women?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Did you really say that?
Speaker 5 (02:54):
I don't know verbatim that's what she said, but it
was very close to that.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
If it was any you're within ten miles of that.
That's terrible.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Wow, I'm sorry, Travis.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Chessa doesn't need a guy that's got a bunch.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Of women in her life right now.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Stables, Oh no, the intense.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
To get grilled about my love life by my bab's mom.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I guess he's just trying to protect me, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
But oh, my gosh, protect you from what, like I'm
a predator?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, exactly, we don't.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, no, no, no, I don't think it was anything
like that. You know, on my ex he was like
a real player when we met and we just got
married and then my mom, you know, she doesn't want
me to go through that again. You know that was
a big drama, Travis.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I'm not I'm not being Tessa's mom here, but are
you a player?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Travis? How you play.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
A uh my game is actually pretty average.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
You're like a bench player.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
You're an extreme dating back. Travis is a JV players
what he is? Okay, okay, so let me ask you this, Travis.
Do you want to go on a second date or
you kind.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Of like, as long as I don't have to give
my dating resume, you know, oh.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
My god, I promise, I promise I'll.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Never leave you alone with her ever again.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Even if this goes like all the way to the altar,
You'll never have to be alone with my mom again, right.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
As long as this was coming from your mom and not.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
You, cool Yeah, okay, okay, No.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
It's just my mom. You know, I'm just an only child,
and I guess she just wants to protect me.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
But I'm not like that, Tessa. You were already hurt once.
I can understand the protection things. She just wants to
go through it again. But yeah, that question.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I don't want to be asked by anyone's mom how
many women I've been with?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Let how many women have you been with? None of
your dang business?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Okay, so only KYL syndrome.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah that's probably true, so true.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Okay, Well, uh well you guys get all set up
on going out again. Okay, second day by Travis. Okay, Bye, Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Tessa, that went okay, didn't I? That went okay?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Yeah, that was pretty good. Oh my gosh, I can't
believe my mom though.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Oh yeah, call her and give her, like, you know,
an earful.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yes, indeed, I am. I mean you got to, like
you know, back off a bit.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Okay, bye, Tessa, Bye. I think we just foiled her
mom's plan.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
I think I think we just got her another day.
And she's like, no, I'm babysitting you're young toddler for
you to go out on dates.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I don't need that right now. Maybe that's what she's saying.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I don't know, I don't know if I mean, Tessa,
sounds great, and this is nothing against Tessa, but I
don't think I could date that mom.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, like if mom problem. If after the.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
First date, Mom's already going well, I mean, how many
women have you been with?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Because you know, like that mom could be a problem,
you know.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Yeah, I'm just saying, yeah, I'm just just mom, don't
I'm sure your mom's lovely testa, but I don't know,
maybe I'm wrong. Four oh five, four six, one or
two seven? Does every woman need a mom like that
in her life? Or and it just made a face like.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Or is that mom gonna ruin Tessa's love life?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Let's discuss kJ went on three t J Janet j
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