March 28, 2025 • 8 mins
Tim and Amy from Oklahoma City went out, and Tim had a eating habit that may have made Amy not want to go out again. We find out with the 2nd Date Update.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J, Jannat and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one oh three. Let's get right into this.
Try to get Tim from Okay, see another date with
Amy on the second date update. Thanks for coming on, Tim,
So tell us about your first date with Amy.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
We went out. I took her out a nice state dinner.
We were flirty, we're talkative, everything's going well. And then
at the end of the night, you know, I say
I'll talk to you soon, and she says that's great,
and then I haven't heard from her since she wrote
with her my calls. I got on. I actually started
to chat with her on Facebook. Yeah, and we got
(00:37):
you know, and after like, you know, two or three sentences,
she got off. You know, she made this excuse she
had to go do something, and that's the last I
heard of her. So I'd really like to know what's happened.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
And since she's changed her profile and canceled her accounts
and she's I don't find her anymore, she's running from you.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yeah, you know, you know, we hinted about going on
other dates, so it was I don't know what happened there.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Okay, Okay, well, this is what we do. We get
Amy on the phone. We're gonna find out what you did,
what happened to you. Let's say what.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Her problem is.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
What her problem is?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Okay, it can't be you, Tim, and then we'll try
to figure this out and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Okay, all right, sounds goot.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Okay, hold on a second, Tim, all right, take a break,
play a couple of songs. We'll figure this out. Second
date update kJ one three TJ Janet Jay Rod in
the morning. It's TJ Janet and J Rodd's second date
update Paul kJ one O three from OKC. Took Amy
on a fancy first date. Okay, uh, but it won
so fancy that she wants to go out with him again, apparently,
(01:40):
So we got Amy on the phone.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I think we need.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Your side of the story happened here. We can't figure
out what Tim did.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Okay, Well, let me start by saying, he seems like
a real gentleman. You know, he was clean cut and polite,
and he had good manners, just a really nice ever guy.
So when he, you know, asked me out, I was
happy to go. And he said we're going out for
steak dinner. So I'm thinking, okay, we're going someplace like
(02:12):
a little bit nicer. We're going someplace, you know, kind
of fancy. And we ended up an outback, which which
is fine. You know, that's totally fine for a first day.
I was expecting a little more, but it's it's not
a deal breaker, okay, And okay. So we're eating our
steaks at dinner, and he ordered the New York Strip,
(02:32):
which I never ordered that because it has just so
much sad on it. I can't deal with that. Yeah,
but I noticed that halfway through dinner he was spitting
food into his napkin, like he would chew up his
steak and then he would spit it into his napkin
(02:53):
and then set it on the plate. So like the
first time he did it, I just lai, didn't say anything.
But then the next next time he did it, I
was like, is there something wrong with your sake? He
just said no, no, no, no. You know, I like
the flavor of the fat, but I want to stay
lean so I don't swallow it. And that went on
(03:14):
for the entire dinner. It was totally disgusting, and by
the end of the meal there were all these like
little pieces of chewed up food all over his plate.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay, hold on a minute, Tim, you're there. Yeah, Okay,
Tim's on the phone making it sound.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Like there was a dead cow on my plate. I mean, well,
well there was, but it was like there was maybe
maybe two free chewed up bikes on my plate.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Now do you think one chewed up bite of steak
on your plate is enough?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I covered it with a napkin. It's not like I
was chewing a steak up and spitting it on her plate.
I was chewing it I put I discreetly put it
on my napkin, and I covered it with a napkins.
I not. You know, I like the taste of fat,
but I don't want to eat it.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Wow, Okay, you have no idea how gross that is
to you?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I mean me, me spitting the fat out or swallowing it.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Well, from my perspective, a chewed up piece of meat
on the plate is more gross. I mean, who spits
out chewed food on a date? I don't think you
were a little kid.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
That's where you take your napkin and you're all discreet
and you wipe your mouth.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
And I was discreetly putting it in my napkin.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Wait a minute, so Amy, there's there's no chance of
another date here, right, No, thank you? Okay, what if
he was just trying to chew the food for you
like a baby mama burrow? No, Tim, anything else you
want to say to Amy before we let her go?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Well, I had a good time on our dates.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Yeah it's okay. Yeah, thanks Amy, thank you? Okay, goodbye, bye, Tim.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Let's just now I have something to think about, and
maybe I won't do it the next time. But the
thing is, this is how I hate steak. So the
woman I'm gonna be with is gonna know this is
how I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I like your attitude.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I'm not changing you know what's gross on that.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I don't mind like somebody trying to be discreete putting
it in their napkin or something.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
But for you to say.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I like the flavor, I don't want to I want
to stay leading.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I want to stay lean.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
That what is that that good.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
J would fry up fat? I'll fry up fat and
need it.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Man.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I'm that's that's some good stuff. The only difference is
is I don't worry about stayin as lean as you do.
And that's well. Tim. Anyway, thanks for sharing your story.
Sorry we couldn't get you a second date, and then
good luck with the chewing and all that.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Okay, all right, thanks guys, thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
All right, thanks again. I'm not faulting him for doing it,
but I'm not trying to date them on the first
date where and be like this fat taste good and
then spit it into my hand and set it on
the plate and cover with a napkin.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I don't know, maybe maybe you know.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Is she being two whatever? Or is she being the
first day?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Hey, I was calling about the second day update.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay for people just joining us, they got to eat.
He's eating his steak the New York Strip. I think
he would chew on the fat and then he would
kind of put the fat on his fork and put
the fat on the plate because he didn't want to
swallow the fat because he likes to be lean, but
he wants the flavor. But he wants the flavor. It
wasn't just one piece, like oh, I think it was
like three said. I think he said it was on purpose. Yeah,
(06:36):
I mean, listen, it's not something I wouldn't do when
I was alone or I have done.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
That's what. Yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
I think that on a first day or a ten
year anniversary, I don't want to see that out in public,
had a nice or at a restaurant. Please don't sit
out food like that.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Wait, so you'd be okay at your dining table with
your man, go, I'm.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Up with this fat alue. I'm seeing worse. But if
we're out in public and you just met somebody, is
that the first impression you want to give?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And as long as it's not on your tenure anniversary yet.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Know right?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
I like that your limits were on a first date
or ten year anniversary. No, but you know whatever anniversary?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Okay, Well, well see my wife, God bless my wife. Absolutely. Yeah,
he's got patients of a saint. I'm not saying I do.
I'm not saying I chew them. I swallow the fats.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
You do, you eat it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
But j will take the fat that you cut off
your steak off of your plate and eat it himself.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
I wanted to be on the plate.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Were okay, Yeah, this guy, though, the guy on the
second eight update, would chew it and then put it
back on your plate. Yeah, destroy the evidence.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Under what I'm not getting a second Dennis.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
SA something that like your five year old would do,
and you, hey, what are you doing? What are you doing?
You do now, we don't do that. We don't do that. Okay,
thanks for chiming in, all right bye,
This is t J, Jannat and j Rod's second date
update on kJ one oh three. Let's get right into this.
Try to get Tim from Okay, see another date with
Amy on the second date update. Thanks for coming on, Tim,
So tell us about your first date with Amy.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
We went out. I took her out a nice state dinner.
We were flirty, we're talkative, everything's going well. And then
at the end of the night, you know, I say
I'll talk to you soon, and she says that's great,
and then I haven't heard from her since she wrote
with her my calls. I got on. I actually started
to chat with her on Facebook. Yeah, and we got
(00:37):
you know, and after like, you know, two or three sentences,
she got off. You know, she made this excuse she
had to go do something, and that's the last I
heard of her. So I'd really like to know what's happened.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
And since she's changed her profile and canceled her accounts
and she's I don't find her anymore, she's running from you.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yeah, you know, you know, we hinted about going on
other dates, so it was I don't know what happened there.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Okay, Okay, well, this is what we do. We get
Amy on the phone. We're gonna find out what you did,
what happened to you. Let's say what.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Her problem is.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
What her problem is?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Okay, it can't be you, Tim, and then we'll try
to figure this out and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Okay, all right, sounds goot.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Okay, hold on a second, Tim, all right, take a break,
play a couple of songs. We'll figure this out. Second
date update kJ one three TJ Janet Jay Rod in
the morning. It's TJ Janet and J Rodd's second date
update Paul kJ one O three from OKC. Took Amy
on a fancy first date. Okay, uh, but it won
so fancy that she wants to go out with him again, apparently,
(01:40):
So we got Amy on the phone.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I think we need.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Your side of the story happened here. We can't figure
out what Tim did.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Okay, Well, let me start by saying, he seems like
a real gentleman. You know, he was clean cut and polite,
and he had good manners, just a really nice ever guy.
So when he, you know, asked me out, I was
happy to go. And he said we're going out for
steak dinner. So I'm thinking, okay, we're going someplace like
(02:12):
a little bit nicer. We're going someplace, you know, kind
of fancy. And we ended up an outback, which which
is fine. You know, that's totally fine for a first day.
I was expecting a little more, but it's it's not
a deal breaker, okay, And okay. So we're eating our
steaks at dinner, and he ordered the New York Strip,
(02:32):
which I never ordered that because it has just so
much sad on it. I can't deal with that. Yeah,
but I noticed that halfway through dinner he was spitting
food into his napkin, like he would chew up his
steak and then he would spit it into his napkin
(02:53):
and then set it on the plate. So like the
first time he did it, I just lai, didn't say anything.
But then the next next time he did it, I
was like, is there something wrong with your sake? He
just said no, no, no, no. You know, I like
the flavor of the fat, but I want to stay
lean so I don't swallow it. And that went on
(03:14):
for the entire dinner. It was totally disgusting, and by
the end of the meal there were all these like
little pieces of chewed up food all over his plate.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay, hold on a minute, Tim, you're there. Yeah, Okay,
Tim's on the phone making it sound.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Like there was a dead cow on my plate. I mean, well,
well there was, but it was like there was maybe
maybe two free chewed up bikes on my plate.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Now do you think one chewed up bite of steak
on your plate is enough?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
I covered it with a napkin. It's not like I
was chewing a steak up and spitting it on her plate.
I was chewing it I put I discreetly put it
on my napkin, and I covered it with a napkins.
I not. You know, I like the taste of fat,
but I don't want to eat it.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Wow, Okay, you have no idea how gross that is
to you?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I mean me, me spitting the fat out or swallowing it.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Well, from my perspective, a chewed up piece of meat
on the plate is more gross. I mean, who spits
out chewed food on a date? I don't think you
were a little kid.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
That's where you take your napkin and you're all discreet
and you wipe your mouth.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
And I was discreetly putting it in my napkin.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Wait a minute, so Amy, there's there's no chance of
another date here, right, No, thank you? Okay, what if
he was just trying to chew the food for you
like a baby mama burrow? No, Tim, anything else you
want to say to Amy before we let her go?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Well, I had a good time on our dates.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Yeah it's okay. Yeah, thanks Amy, thank you? Okay, goodbye, bye, Tim.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Let's just now I have something to think about, and
maybe I won't do it the next time. But the
thing is, this is how I hate steak. So the
woman I'm gonna be with is gonna know this is
how I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I like your attitude.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I'm not changing you know what's gross on that.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I don't mind like somebody trying to be discreete putting
it in their napkin or something.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
But for you to say.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I like the flavor, I don't want to I want
to stay leading.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I want to stay lean.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
That what is that that good.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
J would fry up fat? I'll fry up fat and
need it.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Man.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
I'm that's that's some good stuff. The only difference is
is I don't worry about stayin as lean as you do.
And that's well. Tim. Anyway, thanks for sharing your story.
Sorry we couldn't get you a second date, and then
good luck with the chewing and all that.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Okay, all right, thanks guys, thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
All right, thanks again. I'm not faulting him for doing it,
but I'm not trying to date them on the first
date where and be like this fat taste good and
then spit it into my hand and set it on
the plate and cover with a napkin.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
I don't know, maybe maybe you know.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Is she being two whatever? Or is she being the
first day?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Hey, I was calling about the second day update.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay for people just joining us, they got to eat.
He's eating his steak the New York Strip. I think
he would chew on the fat and then he would
kind of put the fat on his fork and put
the fat on the plate because he didn't want to
swallow the fat because he likes to be lean, but
he wants the flavor. But he wants the flavor. It
wasn't just one piece, like oh, I think it was
like three said. I think he said it was on purpose. Yeah,
(06:36):
I mean, listen, it's not something I wouldn't do when
I was alone or I have done.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
That's what. Yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
I think that on a first day or a ten
year anniversary, I don't want to see that out in public,
had a nice or at a restaurant. Please don't sit
out food like that.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Wait, so you'd be okay at your dining table with
your man, go, I'm.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Up with this fat alue. I'm seeing worse. But if
we're out in public and you just met somebody, is
that the first impression you want to give?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And as long as it's not on your tenure anniversary yet.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Know right?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
I like that your limits were on a first date
or ten year anniversary. No, but you know whatever anniversary?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Okay, Well, well see my wife, God bless my wife. Absolutely. Yeah,
he's got patients of a saint. I'm not saying I do.
I'm not saying I chew them. I swallow the fats.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
You do, you eat it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
But j will take the fat that you cut off
your steak off of your plate and eat it himself.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
I wanted to be on the plate.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Were okay, Yeah, this guy, though, the guy on the
second eight update, would chew it and then put it
back on your plate. Yeah, destroy the evidence.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Under what I'm not getting a second Dennis.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
SA something that like your five year old would do,
and you, hey, what are you doing? What are you doing?
You do now, we don't do that. We don't do that. Okay,
thanks for chiming in, all right bye,
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