March 31, 2025 • 8 mins
Will and Amy from OKC went out. He thinks she's an 11!! So how is his self esteem messing up the chance of a 2nd Date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is t J Jannet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ thre Hi, Will how you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:08):
We want to get your second date with Amy? So
why Okay, you had this date with Amy. She's not
getting back to you to go out again. Just tell
us about the whole experience.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I mean, I don't know, dude, I don't know if
I'm just like out of Amy's league or what I mean. Well, okay,
so here's where it is. She's the most beautiful girl
I've ever dated. Okay, and she actually, for this one
asked me out, which kind of shocked me.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
That's cool.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Now what now?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
What do you I mean?
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Like, like, what number would you give her compared to you,
like on a scale of one to ten?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Oh my god, compared all right, compared to me, she's
like an eleven. First of all, I'm probably like a
six and a half, you know, you know, compared to her,
But like, dude, like eleven, like in a natural beauty
kind of way, like she just has just like I
don't know, that's kind of like Kristen, this is beautiful.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Nice okay, good kind of girl next door, but amazingly
beautiful all at the same time. Yeah, and okay, any
signs on the date. Everything seemed good when you were
going out.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
They seemed great. Yeah, like she was like interested, it
seemed like she was having a good time. We were
like clicking. Yeah, it was good, good chemistry.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
She mentioned going out again, which again I was just
like wow, because I'm you know, she's like this amazing,
beautiful person. I'm just like this. I don't know. I
just feel like I'm a slumpy little dude, like I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Will You're just you're just well, Okay, it's so.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
I mean, so have you tried talking to her? What's
where are we right now?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
I texted her a few times after this past date,
like when we're gonna go out again? She finally texted
back like you're great, but sorry, I'm gonna move on.
I was just like, did I do something?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Like?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Did I say something? She has not gotten back to me.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, because she asked you out and she mentioned a
second date and now she's gonna move on. So so
that sounds like you did something. Yeah, but we don't
know what. So we're gonna get Amy on the phone.
Get here side of the story. We'll let you just
listen in so she'll be honest and then you know, we'll, uh,
we'll see if we can get you another date with
this amazing eleven.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Okay, okay, it's TJ Janet and j Rids second date
update on kJ one three.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Hi, Amy, how you doing?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Pretty good? How are you?
Speaker 4 (02:28):
We're good? We're good.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
So we we know that you heard Will actually on
the radio explaining your date, so we don't have to
fill you in too much. But but what's the deal, Like,
why don't you want to go out with Will again?
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Okay? First of all, Will, you're not a six and
a half. I think you're very attractive, and that's why
I asked you on the first place.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Hey how about that?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
And so the mom I boring? Do I smell that
or something?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Why?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Why? Why? No second date with Will?
Speaker 5 (02:59):
I just you know, I keep telling him, oh, oh,
there's nothing wrong with you. And I actually I asked
you out because I thought you were attractive and you
just seem like so humble.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But I just feel like you're gonna s Yeah. But okay,
but hello, but but it's like false humility, like you
have like a self esteem complex.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
I mean, you probably make an amazing boyfriend. And I
don't want to sound mean, but you I don't. You're
always saying I don't know why you want to go
out with me and you or you said that I
was more attractive than.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You, and you are way more attractive than me.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
He said you're eleven. You heard it all said six
and a half.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Yeah, yeah, I don't think I am. And what does
it matter? Like I asked you out, okay, I was
enjoying the date, and you felt me to constantly tell
me how great I am and put yourself down and
I don't know, it's just exhausting. I think he building
up yourself esteem.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, but you are great. I'm I don't know, not
as great.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Would you please stop saying that? And like, even if
it was true, like quit telling everyone about it because
I thought you were great and you felt to me
to spend the whole day telling me I was wrong.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
My wife Amy and I do this day different.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Because you know, but we call it fishing because you're
fishing for a compliment.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
So you're throwing the line out there trying to get something,
so I don't know, will doesn't seem like a fisher.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Well, let's just okay, we're gonna throw this out there, Amy,
this is enough that no second date you.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I mean, we'll pay for it. Well, we'd love to
see you guys go out again.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I can't do it. I mean I don't. I can't
be his pep talk coach.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Like.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
I love that you're humble, Will, but you need to
get some confidence that you're attractive and a great guy,
because you really are.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
All right, well that's yeah. I figured I was like,
out of your league. Didn't I have a chance?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
But I try and I you know, but Will, she's
not saying your she's out of your league.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
She's saying that you're not. You just need to quit
thinking that you you aren't in the same league. I mean,
is that it, Amy?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Yeah, it's making you less attractive. The more you tell
me about how like just being so self deprecating and
how much more attractive I am than you, it's like
too much.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, okay, Amy, thanks thanks for being honest. We appreciate it,
and thanks for listening because you heard the first part,
so we appreciate you listening to kJ went on three.
All right, and I have plenty of confidence. How are
you stop? You already have an Amy? You already have
an Amy.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Okay, bye, Amy, Bye? Will? How you feeling?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I don't know, dude, I feel like I am confident.
I feel like I feel like it's part of my confidence.
I guess I just don't know how to act around
someone who's out out of my league.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Well, beauty sometimes does that though.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I mean, if you get around a beautiful woman, all
of a sudden, you get all like thumbs. You're like,
I always say that, and I've said that before. I
get around pretty girls. I'm like, I don't know how
to you don't around any female? You're okay, Will, Sorry
this didn't work out for you, man, But.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, yeah, that's all good. Thank you guys for talking
to me.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
All right, see you later, buddy, take it easy, Okay, Bye.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
I okay four oh five, four six oh one O
two seven. You, as a woman listening, would you rather
have a man who was overconfident in how he looks?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Like over I know I look good, I'm hot, I
know I look good, like over the top confident, almost cocky?
Or would you rather have a guy who was a
little over humble?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
You know what I'm saying. I'm not really as good
as you. That's what I want to know.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Like like which because he's just a little bit over humble.
But the flip side of that is what if he
was too confident in his looks? Which one would you
rather have? I'd like to know your opinion on this.
For the second date update kJ one O three T
J J.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Right in the morning.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
I think you should get at a second try.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Why because Okay.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
A lot of people have something that you know, maybe
they think they're not tall enough, or you know, maybe
they're not buff enough or whatever it is, but dang,
at least give them a second chance. How many times
I'm pretty sure there's something on her side she has
a self esteem issue on.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
She's not perfect, sure, but you know the difference. She's
not constantly talking about it. And you can only hear
someone talk about how terrible they are at something or
how they're not as good as you, or you can
only hear that so many times before it becomes negative energy.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
You know what I'm saying? Aggravating?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
I agree? I agree, because if you're with me, then
you should only be paying attention to me. I mean,
I think you're wonderful things great, what other people think
doesn't matter. Okay, all right, you and I against the world.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Tell them, yeah, tell them.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
It's a really fine line, like again, be humble. Well,
if that's your thing, yeah, just don't just don't talk
about it all the time, you know, just don't bring
yourself down. Don't put yourself down because the society's already
against you anyway.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
It's almost anti humble. It's almost anti humble to.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Talk about how humble you are.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
I am so humble.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Oh I'm not as good as you because I'm so humble.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
That's really not humble. That's that's uh, if that makes sense. Okay,
high five Carbon, thanks for calling.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Bye bye.
This is t J Jannet and j Rod's second date
update on kJ thre Hi, Will how you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (00:08):
We want to get your second date with Amy? So
why Okay, you had this date with Amy. She's not
getting back to you to go out again. Just tell
us about the whole experience.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I mean, I don't know, dude, I don't know if
I'm just like out of Amy's league or what I mean. Well, okay,
so here's where it is. She's the most beautiful girl
I've ever dated. Okay, and she actually, for this one
asked me out, which kind of shocked me.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
That's cool.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Now what now?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
What do you I mean?
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Like, like, what number would you give her compared to you,
like on a scale of one to ten?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Oh my god, compared all right, compared to me, she's
like an eleven. First of all, I'm probably like a
six and a half, you know, you know, compared to her,
But like, dude, like eleven, like in a natural beauty
kind of way, like she just has just like I
don't know, that's kind of like Kristen, this is beautiful.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Nice okay, good kind of girl next door, but amazingly
beautiful all at the same time. Yeah, and okay, any
signs on the date. Everything seemed good when you were
going out.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
They seemed great. Yeah, like she was like interested, it
seemed like she was having a good time. We were
like clicking. Yeah, it was good, good chemistry.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
She mentioned going out again, which again I was just
like wow, because I'm you know, she's like this amazing,
beautiful person. I'm just like this. I don't know. I
just feel like I'm a slumpy little dude, like I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Will You're just you're just well, Okay, it's so.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
I mean, so have you tried talking to her? What's
where are we right now?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
I texted her a few times after this past date,
like when we're gonna go out again? She finally texted
back like you're great, but sorry, I'm gonna move on.
I was just like, did I do something?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Like?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Did I say something? She has not gotten back to me.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, because she asked you out and she mentioned a
second date and now she's gonna move on. So so
that sounds like you did something. Yeah, but we don't
know what. So we're gonna get Amy on the phone.
Get here side of the story. We'll let you just
listen in so she'll be honest and then you know, we'll, uh,
we'll see if we can get you another date with
this amazing eleven.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Okay, okay, it's TJ Janet and j Rids second date
update on kJ one three.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Hi, Amy, how you doing?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Pretty good? How are you?
Speaker 4 (02:28):
We're good? We're good.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
So we we know that you heard Will actually on
the radio explaining your date, so we don't have to
fill you in too much. But but what's the deal, Like,
why don't you want to go out with Will again?
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Okay? First of all, Will, you're not a six and
a half. I think you're very attractive, and that's why
I asked you on the first place.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Hey how about that?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
And so the mom I boring? Do I smell that
or something?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Why?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Why? Why? No second date with Will?
Speaker 5 (02:59):
I just you know, I keep telling him, oh, oh,
there's nothing wrong with you. And I actually I asked
you out because I thought you were attractive and you
just seem like so humble.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But I just feel like you're gonna s Yeah. But okay,
but hello, but but it's like false humility, like you
have like a self esteem complex.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
I mean, you probably make an amazing boyfriend. And I
don't want to sound mean, but you I don't. You're
always saying I don't know why you want to go
out with me and you or you said that I
was more attractive than.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You, and you are way more attractive than me.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
He said you're eleven. You heard it all said six
and a half.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Yeah, yeah, I don't think I am. And what does
it matter? Like I asked you out, okay, I was
enjoying the date, and you felt me to constantly tell
me how great I am and put yourself down and
I don't know, it's just exhausting. I think he building
up yourself esteem.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, but you are great. I'm I don't know, not
as great.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Would you please stop saying that? And like, even if
it was true, like quit telling everyone about it because
I thought you were great and you felt to me
to spend the whole day telling me I was wrong.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
My wife Amy and I do this day different.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Because you know, but we call it fishing because you're
fishing for a compliment.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
So you're throwing the line out there trying to get something,
so I don't know, will doesn't seem like a fisher.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Well, let's just okay, we're gonna throw this out there, Amy,
this is enough that no second date you.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I mean, we'll pay for it. Well, we'd love to
see you guys go out again.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I can't do it. I mean I don't. I can't
be his pep talk coach.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Like.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
I love that you're humble, Will, but you need to
get some confidence that you're attractive and a great guy,
because you really are.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
All right, well that's yeah. I figured I was like,
out of your league. Didn't I have a chance?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
But I try and I you know, but Will, she's
not saying your she's out of your league.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
She's saying that you're not. You just need to quit
thinking that you you aren't in the same league. I mean,
is that it, Amy?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Yeah, it's making you less attractive. The more you tell
me about how like just being so self deprecating and
how much more attractive I am than you, it's like
too much.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, okay, Amy, thanks thanks for being honest. We appreciate it,
and thanks for listening because you heard the first part,
so we appreciate you listening to kJ went on three.
All right, and I have plenty of confidence. How are
you stop? You already have an Amy? You already have
an Amy.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Okay, bye, Amy, Bye? Will? How you feeling?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I don't know, dude, I feel like I am confident.
I feel like I feel like it's part of my confidence.
I guess I just don't know how to act around
someone who's out out of my league.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Well, beauty sometimes does that though.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I mean, if you get around a beautiful woman, all
of a sudden, you get all like thumbs. You're like,
I always say that, and I've said that before. I
get around pretty girls. I'm like, I don't know how
to you don't around any female? You're okay, Will, Sorry
this didn't work out for you, man, But.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, yeah, that's all good. Thank you guys for talking
to me.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
All right, see you later, buddy, take it easy, Okay, Bye.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
I okay four oh five, four six oh one O
two seven. You, as a woman listening, would you rather
have a man who was overconfident in how he looks?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Like over I know I look good, I'm hot, I
know I look good, like over the top confident, almost cocky?
Or would you rather have a guy who was a
little over humble?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
You know what I'm saying. I'm not really as good
as you. That's what I want to know.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Like like which because he's just a little bit over humble.
But the flip side of that is what if he
was too confident in his looks? Which one would you
rather have? I'd like to know your opinion on this.
For the second date update kJ one O three T
J J.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Right in the morning.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
I think you should get at a second try.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Why because Okay.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
A lot of people have something that you know, maybe
they think they're not tall enough, or you know, maybe
they're not buff enough or whatever it is, but dang,
at least give them a second chance. How many times
I'm pretty sure there's something on her side she has
a self esteem issue on.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
She's not perfect, sure, but you know the difference. She's
not constantly talking about it. And you can only hear
someone talk about how terrible they are at something or
how they're not as good as you, or you can
only hear that so many times before it becomes negative energy.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
You know what I'm saying? Aggravating?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
I agree? I agree, because if you're with me, then
you should only be paying attention to me. I mean,
I think you're wonderful things great, what other people think
doesn't matter. Okay, all right, you and I against the world.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Tell them, yeah, tell them.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
It's a really fine line, like again, be humble. Well,
if that's your thing, yeah, just don't just don't talk
about it all the time, you know, just don't bring
yourself down. Don't put yourself down because the society's already
against you anyway.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
It's almost anti humble. It's almost anti humble to.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Talk about how humble you are.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
I am so humble.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Oh I'm not as good as you because I'm so humble.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
That's really not humble. That's that's uh, if that makes sense. Okay,
high five Carbon, thanks for calling.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Bye bye.
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