You’ve said it a hundred times in a hundred different ways: “I wish I could…” “I’m so sorry, but…” “Maybe another time.” But underneath it all is one truth: your “no” never feels like it’s enough on its own.
In this episode, Mischelle unpacks why women feel the need to explain themselves just to set a boundary. We explore the emotional residue from years of being ignored, overridden, or punished for saying no, from childhood to the boardroom.
This isn’t just about over-explaining. It’s about the quiet erosion of your voice, your authority, and your worth when every “no” has to be padded, softened, or swallowed. You’ll hear real talk on what it costs us, how to stop shrinking, and why silence after a boundary can be the most powerful statement of all.
Whether you're navigating family dynamics, workplace pressure, or your own internal dialogue, this episode will meet you in the tension and help you walk out with clarity, strength, and a practice to reclaim your pause.
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