Arroe Unplugged Page Two Thousand Two Hundred Eighty Nine The Daily Mess

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say
yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.
So let's turn it into a tool. This is Arrow unplugged.
I'm always asking questions and the reason why is because
the fund actually begins when you start researching for answers
such as what is the best way to live with

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political disagreements? Plus how do you mend a broken family?
My name is Arrow. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf.
That means I stand on the sidelines and do nothing
but watch, listen, study, then activate. I call it the
daily Mess, a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah,
it's my morning pages. As a receiver of thoughts and ideas,

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we as people tend to throw things to the side
so we can deal with it later. Yeah. Right, when
a subject arrives inside of me, I know it's time
to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal, but
by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This is
the daily mess. What is the best way to live
with political disagreements? There's an elephant in the room right now,

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and nobody wants to talk about it. And if it
is brought up, years of connection can be lost within seconds.
The Center for Media Engagements recently did a study on
how we should approach the subject of politics and the
indifferences that we all face. The goal is to locate harmony.
Their first step is to focus on the people, not

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the politics. Find common ground, stick to the facts, and
at all times avoid confrontation. Never stop being an advocate
rather than an opponent, and always pick your battles. According
to the Center for Media Engagement, they teach us not
to take other people's comments so personally be open to listening.

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In fact, journalist Chris Cuomo recently told his listeners, Hey,
go learn something, Listen to what they have to say,
limit emotions and discussion. You always have the power of
choice to walk away, avoid words that might trigger others,
and more importantly, put the attention on policy instead of party. Hey,

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coming up next, how do you mend a broken family? Hey?
Thanks for coming back to the daily mess. So how
do you mend a broken family? Show me a circle
of relationships that haven't been disrupted by very tall mountains
and very deep valley floors. When it comes to family,
it's personal and quite emotional. Cay Inte Therapy shares the

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tips of bringing peace to the center of your street,
starting first with checking in with yourself. You are you
ready to move on? They strongly suggest you don't push it.
Letting go of your anger can be an impossible task.
It steals from your inner piece, especially in the years
after you've lost your siblings and they aren't around to

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start things all over again. Make yourself available for realistic expectations.
Don't rush into a heat. It took a long time
to create the disagreement, then the struggle with it. A
total cease fire will take time, and if you need
closure from the past, address it. But everyone has got
to agree to go there. The most important stop and

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this is not a cop out. Do all you can
to seek professional help. They really do have answers. I'm
maerow and that's the daily mess.