My Man Doesn't Care To Build A Relationship With My Kids

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:09):
One of us have a five w GC the showers
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and gentlemen, boys and girls, children of all ladies, just
time for loving or leaving them with the best damn
morning show in Chicago. And you know it's gonna be
Ratchet Leon, what happy sacky chill in the rattler ran?

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Who is it child?

Speaker 1 (00:30):
Zacky chill with God in the rattle and run not
chop chop chop chop chop chop chop.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Hit him with the hawks e chop chop chop chop.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
Hey, Hey, hey, hey, if you're on your way to
work chopping out, just do the chop. Come on, just
do the chop. On your way to school, just do
the chop. Ay, just do the chop. Eating a bowl
of sippy Joel, just doodle the chop. Hey, just do
the chop from your side piece house chopping, Just do
the chop.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Ay, just do the drop now, everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:01):
Chop chop jop, shop chop chop chop chop chop.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
Hit him with the hogs.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Chop chop jop chop chop chop chop chop chop chop
chop chop.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Chop your way the word chump it up. Just do
the chop.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Chop it up.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Just do the chop way school, chop it up. Just
do the chop, chop it up. Just do the jop beating,
the pop chopping, Just do the chop chopping. Just do
the chop from your side, peace houseop, just do the chop.
He just dobody chop chop, chop chop with the hogs.

(01:36):
Jo cheechee.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
Okay, let's watch. Okay, let's go, let's go. Let's go
for it over all right, dear Leane and Zach. So,
I've been to dating this dude for about a year now,
and at first everything was cool. We vibed, we had fun,
and it felt like we were building something solid. But
now now I'm starting to really question if we're even

(02:02):
on the same page when it comes to what matters most.
My kids. I've got two teenagers. My daughter's fourteen and
my son's fifteen. They are teenagers, yeah, but they're still
my babies. They got attitudes sometimes what teen doesn't, but
they're good kids, respectful and they peep everything.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Now here's the kicker.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
My man has a seven year old son, and I've
gone out my way to build something with his little boy.
I plan stuff, bring him around, try to make him
feel included in love. I show up for his kid
like he's my own, and honestly, I don't mind, because
that's what it's meant to. That's what it means to
be with someone who has a child. You step up.
But when it comes to my kids, he doesn't even try.

(02:42):
I've asked him straight up why he won't connect with them,
and he hit me with, well, if they grown, they don't,
they don't want nothing to do with me. It's like,
what that's an excuse? How you know if you ain't
even tried. He's starting to fit. It's starting to feel
real one sided. I'm making all this effort with his son,
but he won't even attempt to build something with my team.

(03:03):
And now my kids are noticing. They ain't said much,
but I see it. The energy's off, and I don't
like how that feels in my own home. I'm at
the point where I told him, if you're not gonna
try to build something with a relationship with my kids,
I don't see how.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
This can work.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
I love him, yeah, but I'm a mother first always.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
What should I do?

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Ooh?

Speaker 1 (03:21):
A six six eight a five one oh seven five
Hit us up. What should this young lady doci