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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, y'all, welcome to it the one more can
I say podcast? This this episode rider high at your
boy yep, and that boy well man would be me, Toko.
I'm one of your hosts. Woo woo to that. How
y'all feeling? Man? I might be a little out of
it during this POT because I stayed up two three
point thirty in the morning playing the new college football
gust Jesus. I have enjoyed it immensely. It's amazing. It's good.
(00:26):
It's so good. It's so good. I got one more night.
I always get myself two days when the game first
comes out, then then the weekend. But still that's a
whole nother story. All right, that lady over there, you
heard man, she's the first thing that pot, the only
lady of the posse. Fuffy and fine, k king, what's happening?
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Hello? I like you guys.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Hey y'all, Hey, Zach, you did not give your sister
a woo woo woo.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
He usually don't. I don't know why he's beefing with
me this week. I ain't even did nohe I don't know.
I woke up today my house was flooding, so I'm stressed.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
I thought y'all were both mad at me because I
left y'all, But y'all took that on the chair very nicely.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I'm used to you now, we know. Yeah, I know
what to expect. You fool me once, shame on you,
fool me twice, shame on me. I know exactly who
I'm dealing with. He will invite you somewhere after that.
You on your then, and he.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Will leave you. He will leave. He will disappel you.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
The best thing you go get out of him. He'll
answer the phone when you outside. Yes, but that's it,
and that's it after that. Oh yeah, his food. Don't
get hungry around him either, he's not.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Oh no, nothing.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
He liked the people at at like the stores where
they throw away the food. I saw him. I asked
some of his food. He told me, now then through
the rest away.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Ain't that great?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
I said, damn, you like the god I be thinking.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
People will Actually I have my hands on a lot
of them chips.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I didn't. I don't ask you for them. I'll get wrong.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Okay, Well, I'm sorry, y'all hungry?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
And I asked, yes he did?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
He did all that? Man and ass man is the
funny man of the pot comedian. Yes, he is a
stand up comedian. Little bro Zach buy what up, my god?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
What's up, y'all?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
I'm warming up. I'm just cold. It's just cold.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
It's cold in here. It's just a day. It's a
day for me, y'all. Bear with me, pot fam because
I don't know what's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Today.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Stressed. I ate McDonald's. Anytime you see me eating.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
McDonald's, I am stressed out. That is true. Anytime I
have seen you.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
I'm stressed out. That is not like because I don't
normally that's not my well. I love McDonald's. He's for you,
it's but it's my stress reliever, go to. You know
what I'm saying. When I'm stressed, Give me the cheeseburger,
give me a fry, give me, give me a coke.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's like childhood. It's a safe space for me.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
It is. McDonald's is always a good stress food. But
ain't nothing like an Italian fiesta a good tavern style.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You know what I'm about.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Triangles.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I'm about to say something blasphemous, probably, but I'm starting
to enjoy home running in more than Italian fiesta. More consistent,
And I think it's because of the grease and stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Like I'm starting to like a like home running in
we eat I eating.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Plates, just pieces. I can eat about six seven slices
of home running. In Italian fiesta is gonna be about
two or three the time Fiesta depends back there. No,
it's just depending on who back there.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Sometimes if you catch somebody that's really didn't know what
there's usually that middle of the day that sweet spot
probably like before they get tired. Once they get tired,
you don't know what you're gonna get. That's you just don't.
And that's a shame because it's everybody's favorite pizza. So
it's almost like a scratch off lottery ticket. When you
get it, you're like, Oh, is it gonna be greasy?
Is the cheese gonna be all over the place. No,
(03:54):
they made it regular and it's gonna be good. I
see what you're saying. But Home Running is delicious. What's yourn?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
It is great? Mm hmm. Beggars? You like beggars bore
than Home Running?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I just like, yes, I love home running. Though home
running is classic, it's never going away. It's I can't
I don't like that, but beggars lay it on thick,
like what on the cheese, the salt like it's like.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Extra everything cheese, meat, sauce is thick.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
It's too thick. I don't like it that thick.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Paul, you my young y'all like you like your grease.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
You like my young? Yes, that was that's. I never
heard that before. I've never heard yu.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Also, Yeah, that's that's been around forever heard that.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I don't know that.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I've been around forever and I never heard it. All Right,
we're gonna try to fix this energy in the pot
because those two over that are tweaking. You are bothered,
He is one hundred percent by Yes, I'll get bothered later,
but I want to pot. I'll get because Yeah, let's
(05:15):
get to this man. This is having accusations. Actor Braxing
DeMarco Wells is accusing Wait a minute, Braxy DeMarco Wells,
that's a long gas name gang. Anyway, he's accusing Tyler
Perry Studios VP of rape and then he claimed the
alleged rape was covered up by Tyler Perry. That's some
(05:36):
heavy claims that you need receipt.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
On some very heavy claims, very heavy claims.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
What's going on, bro?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Everybody is being it seems like everybody is having some
type of sexual assault case on them.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Everybody just black men.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
M Well, I didn't say it, but I.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Thought it seemed like black man getting all the cases
right now. But then always torn when I say that,
because then they'd be like, oh, well, are you discrediting
people's you know, paying the things that the experiences they've
been through. Okay, And I got in trouble last time
I discredited guys.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Y'all mad at me.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
When I discredited a victim of an alleged victim who was
a guy.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
But I still feel the same way. I may not
say it.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
As much, but I just feel like, I just feel
like dudes can go home, dudes can fight. It's a
lot of things guys can do, in my opinion. But
that's what I'm saying. I was met with a lot
of controversy.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
You should not have what was I don't want to
credit a little and Christian.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Key, y'all did him so dirty was hilarious. Man. He
came back and he went to the gate and you
had to get let in, let in, open.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Open, slow, and you're just thinking about it.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
We are not laughing at victims. But what I'm saying is,
you can't go back. You don't know what happens the
first time. I should can't go back.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
But Tom, we should have more empathy. I know I
need more empathy from male victims. I just feel like
I should. And then I had an enlightening conversation with
our producer and he broke down that I don't like victims,
Like I really just don't. I'm not a fan of victims,
not like that, not when it comes to like cases.
(07:44):
But he was just saying, like I always feel like
dudes have more power than they than they actually I
feel like people are like a product of their And
this this is outside of the sexual assault, since I'm
talking about like when you're not happy with your life
or different things going on, I just feel like you
should grab yourself by the bootstraps and work your way
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out of.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
That situation or whatever the situation you're going through.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
And I have a hard time finding the empathy, you
know what I'm saying when it comes to guys in
these cases, and I feel like I need to do better.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
At that for real. Well, yeah, I feel bad for victims,
but dude, Yeah, I feel bad for victims. I'll leave
it there. But again, even though let's just say if
it's true or something, there is some truth of it.
The black people are getting this stuff laid out in
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front of the world, and it might not be in
front of the world, might just be within our black network.
A lot of times they were saying stuff. But white
people don't really know what's going on about the Tyler period.
I don't know because it's coming through our sites, right
It's coming through all of our blog sites, the ones
that we go to the a lot of white folks.
Is it Is it making news? This allegations that made
(09:01):
did it make world news? Did it make America?
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I don't know about this allegation, but any allegation tied
to a powerful black man makes national news headlines. It
comes from our sources and then it goes to the
masses quickly, swiftly. That's from Michael Jackson, Tyler, Perry Diddy,
R Kelly, you know. And the crazy part is, I mean,
(09:28):
they a lot of them did what they're being accused of,
so and that and that aspect is nothing to defend there,
like you did what you got caught doing, and it
should be news.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
But you know Fitch owners, the Amber Crime and Fitch
owners have been and that's real. Yes, if you, if
you any of you pop fam go look at what's
going on with Amber Crime and Finch and the people
that we used to run it for CEOs of it,
uh and just go read that case and you it's nasty. Absolutely,
(09:58):
it's nasty, but it ain't nobody talking about it.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
But that makes national news.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
However, on the reverse, we in our circles don't bring
that up on our platform.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
Because we don't know the owners of Ambercrombie and Fitch.
That's part of it too, don't We don't know these
people and they don't.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
It's not gonna get as many clicks.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
You know what I'm saying, where I see the biggest
disparity is like, for example, very popular quarterback Ben Rothlisberger
caught them sexual assault charges, you know what I'm saying,
was accused of rape twice. And then you have somebody
like Deshaun Watson who played for the Browns to lose
his contract, who was called of not rape but sexual
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assault for showing his privates to you know, masseuses and stuff,
and that got way more spinning and they both quarterbacks,
starting quarterbacks in NFL, both make a lot of money.
That got way. They got talked about way more then Deshaun.
The stuff that Brett Favre was doing, the illegal breadth,
I'm talking about famous white folks.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Brett, the stuff that Brett arv was.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Doing got talked about a lot less than Vic than
Vic fighting them dogs, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
So it's just I feel like when.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
I'm not saying that these black men didn't do the things,
I'm not defending them. Whether they didn't, I'm not saying
that to say that they didn't do it and they're
being framed. I'm saying that to say we are. I
get tired of black men having to be the poster
child and the face of these things.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
And we ain't talking about nobody else, right, So I
think we all have microphones. Let's start bringing some of
those people you mentioned to the table. You knew about them.
I've never heard us discussing here. We show talked about
Deshaun Watson, but we talk about the headline. So but
they don't be on the headline. Well, if you know
about it, let's talk about it. We are the headlines.
We create the headlines, so we need to start bringing
them up in conversations, just like we bring up our people.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
We should.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Right, you're right about that.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Okay, people, No, I like some drama head. Somebody say
something to me, say something about Arkell kik No, but Elvis.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
I'm gonna start using Elvis as the example.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
That's funny, y'all.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Elvis, you ain't wrong because that that was definitely a pedophile.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
I saw the movie No that the Elvis stuff is
so wild.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
It's wild, but the Elvis. But I'm just saying that
Elvis can live on. I think that's our issue.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
People dressed up like them every year folloween.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
And that was like, yo, I like that Elvis is wild,
Like it's wild, and I'm like, we're not gonna go
down at that dark road. Look, pot family, you want
to go do some infra and find some more info
about what Elvis was doing with Priscilla Pressley. Let's go ahead.
(12:48):
Was that the daughter of Priscilla Puss is the wife? Right?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Yeah, okay, it was wild?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
Okay, cool? Oh yeah it was wild all right. Temple
University launches a fall course dedicateds for kittich Lamar's life,
culture and influences on the musical impact now Temple. I'm
a k DO I fan now more than ever, like
most people. But I don't know if this course is
this is easy, Hey, this is for the football team. Really,
(13:17):
you think which one is better, Kendrick or focusing on
on hip hop as a whole. I don't. I don't.
I think there's a course dedicated to one rapper is
crazy to me.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
They've done this many times with different things going on.
They'll focus on one thing. I think taking hip hop
as a whole is just too much to you in
one In one course.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
You break it up, and you break it up. You
break it up in sections, you break it up in
early hip hop, you know, the two nineties, two thousand,
gangster rapp. There's plenty of subcultures and hip hop that
you can break down other than one person's impact on culture.
Because I don't think. I don't think. I don't know.
It just seemed like a layup class. Seem like when
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I took basketball. Sound like I hate the study. You
don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
You don't know that it's so many layers to teach from.
You know what I'm saying. You can dissect lyrics, you
can talk about symbolism.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
You can talk of it. You know, when you teach
it's you might learn.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
We might retain one or two things from a class
that last all semester. You know what I'm saying, That
we actually keep with us. So it's not reason. It's
no reason to just have this big broad spectrum when
you can focus on this. Well, it's nothing wrong with
doing it the way they're doing it.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Bro Nope, sounds like a football layup class with me.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
I don't think an easy class.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
I can't never an easy class. I mean, I just don't.
I don't think it's a good I think breaking it,
putting it to one person, not hating on Kendrick Is.
If it was if they said Drake, I'd be like, man,
that's weird. If they had to say it was jay Z,
I'll be like, man, that's weird. Really yes, because one person,
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one person has not done anything more than the next
person in this in this culture that we have of
hip hop, everybody has done put a little brick there,
some people put more bricks there. But I feel like
as a whole, as a whole hip hop, it's not
about one person.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
It's just not that about one person.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
That's what I'm saying, right, I said, why was you taught?
But it's his impact on music and culture. I don't,
I just, I just I just don't agree with one person.
I just don't agree. It's it's okay if you look
it up.
Speaker 4 (15:39):
The course was developed by a brother named Timothy Wellbeck, Okay,
and it's about impact on hip hop, black identity and
self app accusation. I know that I might not say that, yeah, actualization,
self accusation. So it would explore sochio economic and cultural
conditions of Compton and the urban police policies that shape
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the stories in his music.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
This this sounds hard to do. After that long ass
definition that you read, it still sounds like a lap, doesn't.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
This is I can't believe you hating on Kendrick like this.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I'm not hating I like it.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
You don't like Drake today. Yes, you're hating on Kendren
for no reason.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
He was like, Kendrick ain't done nothing, he ain't putting
no bricks on the wall.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Then you do it and do nothing.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Better than jay Zo.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Nobody's colleges do this. These colleges and universities do that
because it attracts freshmen. So it's like, oh, I can
take the Kendrick Lamar course. The whole time, they're finna
get in there and have real assignments and real studies
about finances and all this other stuff that they probably
don't realize. But it's a it's a buzz word because
we're so stupid that all we care about his celebrity culture.
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So everybody's like, oh, I want to take the Kim
k course. Oh I want to take the Lamark course.
That's the only reason his name is being put in it.
And he's the biggest rapper of twenty twenty four, so
they had they just using it for a buzzword.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
I think sounds like a damn course. It sounds like
over the course. Yeah, sounds like a layup to me.
Fuck that. I don't care about that easy ass class. Anyway.
I took basketball, so I shouldn't talk.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
You took a course called basketball.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I took literally why did you say that like that?
Speaker 3 (17:30):
You never seen it be called like basketball.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
It was like basketball.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
One, Yeah, it was. It was basically he just went
in there hooped. I got to work on my game.
If you got if you got to be in basketball
is because he didn't show up.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
I gave and this is a terrible story to tell,
but I gave my teacher, uh.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Oh, some weed and one hundred dollars.
Speaker 4 (17:56):
And I'm not gonna say, but I gave him my
teacher some weed undred dollars and.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Got a what in college?
Speaker 2 (18:05):
This is why did.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
And you know what he said?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
And then he used to say, look and the lesson
in life is that he talked was everybody don't pass
things the same way. What some people study, some people pay,
some people do this, some people do that, you know,
with a handshake. And the thing is imagine somebody telling you,
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they say, hey, if you take such and such class,
just give him this, this and this and you'll get
an ad. And he was like, but you got to
show up, like it ain't like you can't do that
and not come to class. But you know, if you're
missing some assignments or something, you good, you could just boom.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
Break them off. He cool.
Speaker 4 (18:47):
So imagine how scared I was sitting there class with
turn in my pocket like it.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Was a setup.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Shake his hand, he said, what got out of there?
This is what's wrong with the word.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
No that that that wasn't happening. That's how you We got.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Doctors and lawyers out here with degrees, and they then gave.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
The teacher some weedk some weed and one hundred dollars.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
I'm scared weeding one hundred dollars to get any I
passed that class. It was elective though it wasn't a
major course, but it was.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
It was an elective.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
I figured out the hustle. The college was a hustle.
There's a hustle.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
What was your hustle?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Show up? Uh huh. That's that's the key. Yeah, that's
the main key. You'll get it. You will pass if
you show up. Because they get teachers given they just
like they regular people. They get mad. They get mad
as ship when they show up to that electure hall
and it's half field and they know they got four
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hundred students supposed to be in there and it's twenty
in there. They pissed. They're like, I could have stayed
at home. I would say, show up and said in
the front, Oh you were brave.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
No second row.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
If you sit. If you show up and sit in
the second role, they believe that you smarter than you are.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
That's a good tip.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Yeah, the teachers will believe that that you smarter than
you what you really are, because you're not. And for
some reason, they look for the people cheating over your head.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
They like, you wouldn't cheat right in front of my face.
You can cheat writing in plain sight? Who the time
you up there selling weed?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
He's selling weed, Zach, Congratulations of the aren.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I remember one of my teachers said, and this is
one of my mass calm teachers. They was like, hey,
who all want to be on the radio?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Now?
Speaker 4 (20:34):
Mind, this is a mask whole class race. They hand
y'all ain't gonna make it.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
That was the next word. She was like, y'all ain't
gonna make it.
Speaker 4 (20:43):
Y'all gonna y'all better learn sales, y'all better get a
good job because y'all ain't gonna make it.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
And when I tell you, everybody in the class was
just so hurt. They were like, I can't believe she's
crushing our dreams.
Speaker 4 (20:54):
And I wasn't mad because I knew she wasn't talking
to me. And I remember I came to the end,
I was like, yeah, she was like, sec, I want
to talking about you.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
You're fine.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
I used to shoot skits in her class and everything
like real life like YouTube skits.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
I used to have cameras. Can I shoot this in here?
She'd be like, yeah, go ahead, Wow, got I got
ridden up in the class. That's the difference going to
PWI then going to a black college. Because one of
my fraternity brothers we had mass calm together. We had
one our mass calm electives together, and we was in
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there and he had to get up and do like
a speech and he was probably like me, him, maybe
like one other black person and like it maybe like
four of us in there. This dude goes finishes the speech,
it says sexual chocolate so funny, and drops the mic
and does the whole and gets off stage. Yeah, and
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the teacher was pissed. I was hollering loud on you holler,
I'm in there. I'm laughing, my mister Mason, I need
to see you at the class. Did they get the joke?
They didn't get the joke. They didn't get the joke
I had. I had. I actually had to go see
the boy, the dean of the telling uh radio TV
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school you got for laughing was because he like he
dropped the mic. That was destructive the school property. It
wasn't funny it wasn't funny, and I was like I
had to go in there and explain it. I didn't
get in trouble because my mass Colm teacher has seen
uh seeing was Hall of Nights coming to America. She
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had seen it, so I was like it was it
was a joke. It's like, okay, cool, but that's just
the difference.
Speaker 4 (22:36):
That's crazy that they so they probably didn't never seen
it before and thought you were just yelling sexual chocolate
out and dropping stuff. So that's how they they didn't see,
like this is a movie reference.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Stop it. You shouldn't go to the dean for that.
I lost it, like bad.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Chair he hit the wall just like he do here.
He got up that chair around hit the teacher was like,
let me see you in the hallway. People fall out
the jail when that radio school.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
That must be a thing because they did that to
us too, Like who I want to be on everybody
resident and they say okay to of y'all gonna make it.
Yeah they told they did, y'all gonna make it. Everybody
else ain't gonna make it?
Speaker 2 (23:22):
Yeah they did.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Yeah. I said, well they were talking to me.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
They didn't lie.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
I was literally going viral on world Star. When she
said it, I never forget come on talk that ship.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
I was.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
I was going viral on world Star for my video
racks on racks on Rack.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
It was on world Star, and I kept getting notifications
when she was saying it, so I was so happy
she wasn't talking to me.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
Woral Star was like shame.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
It was Yeah. When she said I was like, Okay,
he made world start. That was the whole thing, especially
when they got popping. How about this man. TikTok is
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ahead of its expected sale. Now that new app is
expected to launch September fifth, according to reports, I'm just
gonna get on it. Man. I'm not going whatever the
(24:07):
new thing is. I missed the wave on TikTok and
it ain't be able to cash out early. So whatever
this new version is, I gotta be able to cash out. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
I can see you now.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
I can't miss another app of Michigan cashed out. I
can see you now.
Speaker 4 (24:22):
I just hope that the new version isn't restrictive, like
so restrictive that you know, we like TikTok because you
can see so much.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
You know, your access and stuff.
Speaker 4 (24:31):
I just hope the US version isn't like kind of
like restrictive to the same way that like Instagram and Facebook.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Oh, it's gonna definitely be that. It's definitely that everything
in life is good until the fars get involved.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
Okay, Like what else happened to me?
Speaker 3 (24:45):
I'm just saying, you know, everything can be going fine,
waves being made, great, things happening, and then here come
to fans for nothing.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
T TikTok won't bother nobody, you know, like TikTok was
still in information like every other the app.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
So what do it matter? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
We having a good time over here. It's good for
everybody's mental health. People are flourishing, paying their bills, making
lots of money, and then here comes the fucking Feds
every time.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
So salty.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
It's like, I mean, everything you know I heard, I've heard.
I've heard that weed was better, you know, before it
became legal. Everybody say it ain't anything. I don't smoke,
but I hear the smokers say before it became legal
it was better.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Well I tell you it was.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
It was less dangerous.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
Yeah, now you got a camera. Now you ask what
y'all got on the low side.
Speaker 4 (25:36):
And I don't know if it's my age or because
we became legal, But now it's kind of like I
don't want the strongest. You know, when you was coming up,
you'd be like, give me the best. I want it
the best, the top of the line. I don't want
that no more. Yeah, y'all got some me it.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
It's something going on.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Give me a little reck. I loved it legal, God
bless it.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh you like the hot see No.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
I like knowing. I like being able to say, hey,
what is this and they're gonna say it's gonna make
you feel like this, and then later on it'll start
you'll start feeling like this or take this when you
want to sleep, Take this when you want to I
like I like that. We being legal is amazing. It's
better instead of having one of your boys telling you, man,
(26:17):
this is the blah blah blah, and it gave us
some stupid.
Speaker 4 (26:19):
Ass name this that money nuts like monkey nut.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Yeah, I got the monkey nuts.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
It just came in from Cali. Everything just came in
from Cali. That's how they got you. Man. I'm gonna
tell you everybody else got this. This just came to Cali.
They picked it off the side of the hill because
this is where where they grow it at. The sun
is on it all the time in the soil. They're like,
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any you and I in the past science class, how
do you know all of this? You was one of
the stupidest ever man, and now you're a botanist.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Get out here, bro, respect to the weed.
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Man.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
That's crazy, y'all. Y'all went legit.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Do you remember they used to do it?
Speaker 4 (27:09):
And you're like, they got see this is a female
bud and then a female bud and they started explaining
it like that.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
You'd be like, bro, you don't even understand this. Yeah,
this this is crazy right here.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Yeah. All type of names, all type of names, all
type of all type of names. These people still name it.
I've seen some packages and names on shit. Like, what
are y'all doing? Bro? It's somebody in there that got
Campbell and learned how to make make labels and they
going crazy with it. There go ahead, man. Amy Amy
(27:44):
officially files for the divorce from Dwight Howard after six
months of marriage. Well, I mean we kind of maybe
knew that was coming.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
Yeah, I didn't even know Dwight how was married. That's
how I missed it. I didn't know he was mar
So yeah.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
They got engaged in like the December and then secretly
married somewhere in there, and now already were in July
in this time for.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
A divorce, girl girl, So how long has they How
long were they married?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
I don't know they got they snuck and got married
and from but they were engaged in December and.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
They getting divorced now in in July. Okay, Well, I
said I'm for this though, I am pro quicker divorces.
Get in, get out if you know it ain't gonna
If you know it ain't it, get out of that.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Are you supposed to work it out?
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Side all that? Working it out?
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Thirty forty years of resentment you dodnet built up on
that person. Now you hate you, living this life that
you don't like. You've been new you want to leave?
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Can I ask you a question? Go ahead? Did you
go to the counseling? You heard what I said?
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Say, I hit a session up?
Speaker 1 (28:54):
You hit a session up? I hit the one session?
I hit one session.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
One session is crazy, I mean I mean more than
one y'all. Y'all did was introduce each other to the therapist.
You did one session, but what it was one one?
Speaker 1 (29:07):
One?
Speaker 2 (29:08):
You need more than one. All I need is one.
You you need it more.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
I did one. I did a session. You need not.
I wasn't married. I wasn't married, but I was trying
to figure it out. I did a session.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
This toxic. You taking girlfriends to therapy.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
Well, this wasn't necessarily girlfriend girlfriend, a girl? What was
the baby? It was like the lady, the lady said, Lady.
The lady looked at me, and it's like they're like,
it's best that you. You probably should should stop. Wow,
She's like I can see she is like I can
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see it on your face. She was like it was like,
it's nothing you can do to say. You weren't even
like I didn't want to be there. It wasn't my
idea to go. I went, and I just like, this
is this is not gonna work. M it's not gonna work.
You wouldn't go, like if you were in a long
term relationship, Kiki and you're trying to make it work,
you wouldn't go sit down with a therapist.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
No, I would do pre marital therapy. So like before
we get Why are you getting mad at that?
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Okay, don't worry about now, I'll finished what you gonna.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Do, Well, I'm getting married or not.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
I was, I'm gonna do pre marital therapy, but we're
going to for a goal to get to something we're not.
Speaker 2 (30:34):
I'm not going to therapy just with a man for
what you just.
Speaker 3 (30:39):
You just got said Tom going to therapy with a girlfriend.
But I go to premyital therapy a boyfriend. No, that's
pre marital is a fiance and y'all have a wedding date. Yeah,
that's you Probably should get enough pre marital therapy.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Ship now you can talk about that.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Would have said, y'all, I could have worked all that
stuff out and pre mad.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
Or you could have just realized that wasn't it. You
know what that date we got? You know that date
we got?
Speaker 2 (31:19):
Yeah, man, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (31:22):
I'm going to Yes, I highly suggest that for what
you do when you in it already in your marriage,
you should be working through your marriage. You know, I
believe the word, and I think you should be working
through your marriage. But see, y'all, a lot of y'all
getting married for the wrong reasons. You want to talk
about why I ain't married, baby, I'm when it happened.
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It's for death, life and death. Okay, that's fine, and
that's fine. I'll wait till then, but I'm not gonna
get in it and get out of it for what
that's wasting everybody time listen, ill something pre married therapy,
talk your issues before you go. And now you got
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to pay all this money to get out of it.
Speaker 4 (32:04):
I'm gonna tell you all this. Everything ain't for ever.
Everything ain't fa and if it ain't, it ain't. Okay,
but you should you should be thinking forever. When you
get married, you should think it. But if it don't,
you should think it. But if it doesn't happen, it
doesn't happen. And I tell you this, if you don't
get married, that's fine too. I think they got to
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get married to have a successful full life. I don't
think that that's crazy to me.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
That's would be bothering me the most ask people be like, oh,
I just I ain't had no kids, I ain't got
no marriage, I ain't got this that was programmed in
the year you that was programmed You thought that that
was that wasn't I guess what I'm trying to say
is that wasn't a concept that you came up with
on your own.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (32:51):
You've just you've been told that through stories and fairy
tales from the beginning, you have been sold that that
that is what it was. Because if that's what it was,
more marriages would be successful. It would be more people married,
and it would be it would be people would have
you know, we would be if every man, if every
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eligible man, I'm gonna talk, let.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
Him cook, because I'd have tapped out. I don't know
what the fun you're talking about over there?
Speaker 2 (33:26):
Let him kind a lot going on.
Speaker 1 (33:29):
To this, Like what man, Ship talk? God something? You
talking so much? I got thirsty. I don't know what
the fuck what is he talking about? But go go,
go go ahead, let him cook. God, for the love
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of God.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
You don't want to want to be married, and.
Speaker 1 (33:59):
You don't know.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
I'm not against marriage. I just don't think that everybody
has to be married. Everybody thinks that they should.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
I was just like, Ship, I'm sorry I was doing this. Mom.
I was like, man, I would have been jogging my
ice cubes. I They're like, all right, bo.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
I know I sound like the stress drunk, you do,
but I know, I know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
I'm matter though. That's what happened to y'all bring your
child support. It's like I'll block out when you bring
her marriage. He blocked the funk out out, Like look,
I'm just shouldn't have did this ship.
Speaker 3 (34:49):
Say triggered me when she told us you should be
looking for forever. It ain't all the time now, but
I'm gonna tell you that he's here.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Here's the point I'm.
Speaker 4 (35:03):
Trying to make, and I'm gonna leend itwhere if every
if every eligible single man married every eligible single woman,
there would still be thousands and millions I bet you
of women left over because it ain't enough.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
So some of y'all gonna be seen what and that
that's the worst point.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
That's reality.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
I'm gonna tell you. I said this, I said, this
is just a piggyback on it. I think this is
my this is my thought, this is my thought, and
this is probably because what Kiki's. It kind of goes
with a little bit what Kiki said a long time ago.
She was like, I was in relationships with dudes that
I know didn't like me. They like she was like
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and I was like, what are you mean. She was like,
they just you know, people get in in relationships to
be in relationships. I think if you even though my
last relationship went to ship, it went to ship. But
the reason that lasted long, I always say, the reason
that lasted long because I fucked with her, Like we
had a lot of other shit going on, but at
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the core of it, like that's why we stayed so
long because I liked her. I like, see, was my friend.
When we went on trips. I remember bro going on
a trip and I always I was like, going on
a trip was always I don't know if y'all think
it's like a barometer where you could tell if the
relationship going because you're around twenty four to seven, it's
like all right, And most times that I went pretty
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much every time and I went on a trip with somebody,
I was like, eh, that's so true.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
That is yes, when I when I get ready to
leave a relationship is usually on a trip and I'm like,
oh yeahen we get back, this is over, Like we
drinking free magarinas and I'm sitting there like this is it?
Speaker 1 (36:46):
Yeah, what y'all doing on trips?
Speaker 3 (36:48):
It's just a I don't know. Something about your mind
is clear. I don't know, man, It's like I just
be like, look, I can see you clearly, and I
know this is it.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
Cause that's the most Usually when you want a trip
with something body, that's the first time that you around them,
not spending the night. Twenty four Sunday, y'all gotta be
on it and like I said, what are y'all doing
with your girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (37:11):
Bro I twenty four seven on.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
I've been in in some of the most beautiful places
with women and they have turned it into hell, like
they don't want to Like we're on the resort and
you want to stay in the room. They have a
fun outside.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
You don't hear the fun, right, You gotta argue free
everything inclusive. If you want to fight.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
We be getting drunk and laughing as I fall out
the Lazy River like yet drunk, that's like, but instead
you arguing because they say they don't want to go
watch the karaoke that's fun. Let's get drunk and watch
people I can't sing.
Speaker 2 (37:53):
Yeah, it's gonna be funny.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Bring clarity for it to Zac's uh situation. It wasn't
point broke and a season and everything over there to
what he was saying. If we all just follow the
word and we can we find somebody to build a
life with, maybe we can fix the gap of all
these the less men that there are women, because the
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married people will be having children, and.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Then we can have more men to match the women ratio.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
Pick your partner wisely. I know you say Disney taught
us that we gotta have this fairy tale. No, Disney
is a part of it. But that word give you
the script on what you need to be doing in life.
And if we was to follow that, the marriages will
be successful.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
Well, Abraham had folks, the brothers, and that Bible had
a lot of wives.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
If you.
Speaker 4 (38:48):
Exactly a pk they had. I want to say, I
was just about to move on one. I just want
to let y'all know.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
You need to counselor here today.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
I'm on the edge today. But it ain't you got
nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is a beautiful thing
if you find the right person. It is. I just
don't think that everybody has to do it to be happy.
It'd be people who be upset with their whole entire life,
their whole entire accomplishments because they didn't do this one thing,
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or they didn't have a kid, or and that is
bogus to me. I'm just like, you throw away your
whole life because you didn't do this part.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
But people have desires, Zach. Everybody desires people the NBA.
I didn't make it, but I don't think the rest
of my life and nothing make the NBA. You don't
have to think that the rest of your life is nothing.
But it's okay for people to desire things that they
want out of life.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
But I don't think they should mope.
Speaker 4 (39:58):
I don't think you should another side to marriage, but
I can't think people they don't see that. They don't
see absolutely, and they may be saving themselves, but I
don't think people would mope as much if people didn't
shame them as much, especially for women. When you're a
woman and you're not married or you don't have children,
you are an immediate Your opinion is devalued in the conversation.
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You walk in the room and the people people judge
you and say you're not accomplished. Nobody cares because you
don't have those things. So it's not just people walking
around open, it's people.
Speaker 2 (40:29):
It's y'all. Put them projections on people. You know you
ain't getting married.
Speaker 1 (40:33):
Okay, yeah, they do that. They like they're like, I
mean a god is by hisself. Women, No, they do that.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
Test me in I'm saying people do that. Women, Maybe
you could go.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
You can get a master's degree as a woman, run
a five a fortune, five hundred company win awards across
the world, get a Grammy, and when you go to
the cookout, they're gonna ask you when you're getting married and.
Speaker 2 (40:59):
When you have some kids.
Speaker 3 (41:01):
So if we stop putting those unrealistic pressures on everybody,
then maybe people will feel happier and fulfilled.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
And that like, did that what you're talking about?
Speaker 3 (41:11):
My generations generation to that, Grannyes and them old aunted
Your generation started that stuff. No, bro, no, when they
couldn't work, that's all he was doing.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
And it just no.
Speaker 4 (41:25):
But I'm saying that carried on from generation to generations.
Now want to it's your generation that did it.
Speaker 2 (41:31):
That was your fault. He just did that to me.
But now it's your generation who did that.
Speaker 1 (41:37):
How I do that to you?
Speaker 2 (41:38):
You just you say you ain't you're gonna die.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
You go to that. I think it's funny.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
It is funny.
Speaker 3 (41:45):
But what but what I don't think that you're less
than well, that's how it sounds. I don't think that
you're less because we were talking about premarital counseling. But
if you tell a woman like you're never getting married,
that's like it's a negative kind of like it's like
I'm missing out on the prize. But then you turn
around and say marriage just sucks and we shouldn't do
it and it ain't enough, And let me tell you something,
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No it's not.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
But just think about this thought. You know I'm saying,
I'm gonna say some masculine and I am tired to
the longest hold on.
Speaker 2 (42:20):
I gotta address this.
Speaker 4 (42:21):
I got the longest running relationship in this motherfucker what
you and what I'm trying to say is it doesn't.
Speaker 2 (42:29):
Here's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
If you have the if you got the longest running
relationship in here, it don't matter.
Speaker 4 (42:37):
If you get what I'm saying is you got fulfillment,
you got a partner, you got companionship.
Speaker 2 (42:41):
That's what the fuck we all here for. Why are
we so worried about the title.
Speaker 3 (42:45):
Even if I didn't have a long last relationship it
should I should be okay with that because on the okay,
it should be okay, I've been saying buck.
Speaker 1 (42:54):
The kids and the okay, you know what, he everybody,
We're gonna move on. But to everybody's point, to everybody's point,
the first thing you say about a woman by herself
and my marrid is what's wrong with it? Every every
that is that is man women. I don't even think
dudes get get that. I think women get get when
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you don't have kids. But a woman, when after a
certain age, a woman like, why he don't have kids?
What's wrong with him? Is he not? You know?
Speaker 2 (43:24):
That's what it is put on me in It's unfair
on both ends. It's just that that. That's the reality.
Speaker 1 (43:29):
Though. Stop shaking each other, everybody. You might want to
clip this up. Take this over. He's gonna go crazy
on somebody. Your thug had a message for someone, uh,
he tweeted out, which, Okay, if you're a rapper and
a rat, you gotta go gospel. Twin. What if you're
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a rapper and a I think you you're a rapper, bro,
You're not a gangster. Now, if you're a gangster and
you a rat, that's a whole nother situation. If you're
a rapper, you a goddamn entertainer, and if something happens to.
Speaker 2 (44:11):
You, you telling facts.
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Yeah, I don't know the rat rules.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
Because the young thug called Kid Cutting your rat, right,
So I understand it. Like if I guess if you
rapping and portraying that gangster lifestyle and you're getting on
the stand telling on people, I guess that's what you
consider a rat.
Speaker 1 (44:25):
But Kid cut he don't even make that type of music.
Speaker 4 (44:28):
He just an artist who got blew up and got
on the stand and talked about his experience and was
subpoena to go to court.
Speaker 1 (44:35):
And then you're like, oh, look at Cutty being a rat.
Speaker 4 (44:38):
Hey man, I don't know the rules the and I
think it's not smart for you to be talking like
this on probation. In the first place, you are on probation,
you know you got this super and if you violate
you it's tough for you. So I don't know why
he's talking and speaking on this so heavy right now.
(44:58):
It's almost like how i've you know, how I want
Drake to stop talking to Kendrick. That's how I want
thug to stop talking about rats. Thug can't talk because
he's a gainster.
Speaker 1 (45:08):
He can't. He has no other thug is a is
a gangst. He that can rap, that is and knows music.
So every time he opens his mouth, he is going
to always say something that a street dude, a gangster
will say, because that's who he is. He just got
to stop talking because, bro, you ain't got to tweet it.
(45:28):
I don't care if he talked to it in conversation,
you ain't got to tweet it.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
Yeah, because what part of the game is that?
Speaker 3 (45:33):
Yeah, and the gangsters, I know, the real gainsters, they
ain't even know social media.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
They don't even know how to work social media. The
real gainst us.
Speaker 1 (45:41):
You know what I'm saying, be like, hold on, let
me tweet this.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
Yeah, Like, what part of the game is that?
Speaker 1 (45:48):
All the apps?
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Why are you on threads talking about you know, rats, Like,
that's not gangster either, So I don't.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Know that's a new age gangster. A lot of people
get into beats over Facebook posts, over videos, over Instagram
post over stories. A lot of stuff that you see
happening in the street happened now happened because of what
happened on social media.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
It's so weird and everybody go live. Why and none
of y'all gangsters, y'all all content creator, right, that's what
you live for real?
Speaker 1 (46:17):
You want to know you influencer like I saying that
I'm scared I'm outside too much. This is the two
people that don't come outside, y'all. I believe y'all gangsters.
Leave me alone, Leave me alone. Shout out to Keisha Cole.
She got her exes Hancho's name tattoo on her chest.
She got it covered up when she was in Chicago
(46:37):
by my dog, Ryan Henry. Uh yep. Shout out to
Ryan who did this piece and my whole sleep? Yeah,
Ryan did this a tidy, this entire sleep. I called
Ryan before he got right. When he was right and famous,
I would see people tattoos like damn, who did that?
Ryan Henry? Who did that? Right? Ryan was on a run,
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still on the run, and I was like, yo, I
gotta get in touch with him. It took me a while,
but when I finally got in, I was like, man,
let me go ahead and get this sleeve. Rian did
this sleep, this entire sleeve and he did he did
this arm.
Speaker 4 (47:11):
I actually talked to him today and asked him to
cover up my baby on my shoulder, and yeah, yeah,
he said he could take care of that for me.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
Please, so please, Yeah, yeah that's what. Yeah, So, yeah,
you got a tattoo cover up Kiki? You're gonna add
to your birds on your hand? Are we getting a
full sleeve from you?
Speaker 3 (47:33):
I hope see you love to make jokes about the
birds on my hand. I hope that I don't have
to add a bird because that's for dead. Everybody that's
dead in my life does they become a bird. So
hopefully your ass stay around. So to make you a
tweety tattoo on my body?
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Bird, don't make me a goddamn bird. Please don't make
me no bird.
Speaker 3 (47:56):
But yeah, I'm not getting any man's name tattooed on
me like a man that I love, a boyfriend or
her husband.
Speaker 2 (48:04):
Would you get Jesus tattered on you because you love
the Lord? I got the Lord's hands tattoos. I would
absolutely get the Lord on me. But I'm not getting
like she went.
Speaker 3 (48:14):
I the moment I saw this tattoo on her, I said,
something's wrong mentally because.
Speaker 2 (48:21):
We just met Hancho. Like we as a world, we
just met him. He ain't. He ain't been on tour, really,
he ain't no songs.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
It's like, we ain't like man, he's supposed to get
your name on him. But real.
Speaker 3 (48:42):
Knowing you, gee, we been knowing you for twenty years,
we don't know him like and you put him not
even if she put him in a prime location, bro
on her. When a woman put you on her titty,
that's a prime prime prime real estate on your body tattoo,
cover up.
Speaker 1 (49:00):
A shout out to Ryan baby, that's crazy or something else.
Speaker 2 (49:04):
Anyway, she and she tough, but I couldn't imagine. I
know me and and I know me, I know my man.
I'm still not getting nobody name.
Speaker 1 (49:14):
That's the time. That is actually, I say, anytime somebody
puts a name on them, it's actually it was just
you ended the relationship. It's a it's already it's about
the end.
Speaker 3 (49:23):
I'm here for like a little symbol, like you know,
a lock of key. You know what I'm saying, half
a hard, half hard.
Speaker 1 (49:29):
And if you do it, and if you do it
at forty, I really take something wrong with you. I
used too old for that. If you did that at
twenty twenty one, your first love.
Speaker 2 (49:39):
You should only have your first love on you. He
should call got to me in her forties.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
Yeah, late thirties, forties, whatever it is. You shouldn't too old.
Speaker 3 (49:49):
Man famous twenty years yeah, forty three, yeah, yeah, you're
putting people on you in your forties.
Speaker 2 (49:56):
Like he a year we don't know and he like
twenty So how is he? Yeah? Twenty five?
Speaker 1 (50:02):
I believes again he stole he stole Quavo name yeap,
what's the hell is he? Twenty five?
Speaker 3 (50:12):
Okay, so he's been your first album came out, he
was being born, and then you get him tatted on you.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
Okay, guess what if.
Speaker 4 (50:22):
You are going to be a cougar and you get
a younger guy, Guess what when Nick Cannon had married Mariah,
guess she didn't have no Nick tattoos. If she did,
they was very small and we didn't see him. He
had Mariah biggest hell on his back. It should have
been the young dude should be whipped. I ain't mad
at that, that's right.
Speaker 1 (50:40):
I still would man that if people was when that happened,
people is on Nick like they was talking about you
a goofy here lame for doing that. I was like
he bagged Mariah Carey, I would have did it. You
put it, you put it on you at the time
when he backed I don't think man.
Speaker 2 (51:00):
I don't believe that you're alive. You ain't putting on
your bad No, you ain't doing that.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
That's that's wild, that's against it. What we got here,
girl tweeted. How why do men wait until you're mentally
checked out to start doing everything you wanted them to
do in a relationship because you're about to leave to
lose you. That's a dumb question. But the reason why
you started cooking with you?
Speaker 2 (51:28):
Do y'all ignore the signs though? I don't want to mine,
move on. I don't want to fight with you today.
I don't want I'm fighting so many battles right now,
and why you want to be one have to fight?
Speaker 3 (51:43):
I come in peace everywhere I go. It's always smoke.
I just wanted to know why y'all wait to the end?
Why y'all wait to it's a great because we're about
to lose you. We're about to lose you.
Speaker 1 (51:57):
That is it. That is why every dude does it.
That's the same reason why when women don't do certain
things with anybody in the relationship is about the end.
Everybody saw us to shape up like ooh, maybe we
could fix it. It's already gone.
Speaker 4 (52:09):
And guess what women do They stopped doing what they
were doing in the beginning, the deeper and more invested
did they get, so it's we just do it the opposite. Yeah,
how many men do you hear complain married men been
married to a woman a long time talking about she
ain't freaking no more, she used to bust it open.
I don't get it no more, won't have sexist often,
that's a very common thing. She don't cook like that
no more? She used to do this, that's common Yep,
(52:33):
I mean, I get it. And that's because of the
times the word I mean, because then I would rebuttal that.
Speaker 3 (52:40):
You know a lot of men who may be saying
that are not doing what they were doing before we
got married either.
Speaker 1 (52:45):
So you know, sex is where people talk about that.
True sex just happens in a relationship like were you
mad at I don't know. I mean, when you with
your woman, you still want to knock her down. But
it's still, like I said, I've been in long term
relationships where it's like, yeah, the sex is fun. But
it's like fun when we like on vacation, it's fun
(53:06):
when it's a birthday. She'd have done she surprised you
and do something, but really you having sex during that
week because y'all rock with each other, y'all, But it's
more about the connection. It ain't about her being freaky
you still, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (53:22):
I just feel like if a guy is putting his
like because y'all a lot of leaders, I'm scared y'all
are the leaders.
Speaker 2 (53:31):
So like y'all set the tone for the relationship. And
if you are doing.
Speaker 3 (53:36):
Everything that you've been doing, I always want to give
it up to you always. But if you ain't paying bills,
if you not keeping your word, if you getting abusive,
if you uh, you know, all these things you've checked
out mentally, then I don't desire I may not desire that.
So that's why a lot of me and be like,
(53:56):
she ain't doing this? She did, but what are you
not doing?
Speaker 2 (54:00):
Disagree? I didn't think you would agree. I I disagree.
Speaker 4 (54:05):
I think let's to disagree with. Okay, I think that
guys are still paying mortgages. I think they're I think
the mortgage.
Speaker 2 (54:10):
Bend in his name.
Speaker 4 (54:11):
He's been paying it ain't never stopped. I think that
he's been doing the things that he's always done. I
just think that women, we don't talk about it enough,
is when you continue to do something for a woman constantly,
it becomes an expectation and not anything special vice. So
she doesn't feel she doesn't feel like that is a
special thing anymore. So she's looking for the next high
(54:31):
and the next thing that you're gonna do. And guys
are kind of like routine based, like I do this,
I do this, I do this, and I do this.
For your birthday, I do this, I bring you files
for this time and like and it's kind of like
we ran out of tricks, I mean doing tricks.
Speaker 2 (54:43):
And then she's like, oh, I'm not satisfied. You're not
spontaneous anymore.
Speaker 3 (54:47):
Yes, doing that, And then you gotta always date your partner.
You gotta keep it like that. You can't just be
in the mode of, you know, I go to work
and then I you know that I paid the mortgage
and I came home and that's it. Like sometime your
text you was doing all this when we was dating.
Speaker 1 (55:06):
That's true, but sometimes like not one I've never had
women hold out sex. I don't know know how that feels,
but I don't know, but I have I've had women
that like would get wear my clothes in the house
and were where my shorts and where my back? And
now this is all back. So when I see you,
(55:28):
I'm not really turned on. You look like you're about
to go hoop. You look like you go hoop. Now,
the women I've dated that like just be in the house.
All of a sudden, you might come in and she
in some yoga pants, she might be cooking in her throng,
like what we're doing that for, like those type of things.
That's the only time where I've seen it in a
(55:49):
relationship with the sex got weird is just because the
woman just was just looking. You know, we visual people.
Speaker 2 (55:56):
Yeah, and guys, I'm gonna tell the truth to guys.
Speaker 4 (55:58):
A lot of times guys let themselves go to you
know what I'm saying, Guys start getting big, they're not
looking as attractive, they're not doing the things that keep
a woman stimulated as well. Because the thing about women,
they me and are physical stimulated. So we just you know,
you get out the shower. Were hard as a rock ready,
But a woman ain't like that. They got to be
stimulated mentally, and then that comes to so you got
(56:20):
to continue to stimulate them mentally. It's the same thing.
But you know, I say this all to say I
ain't told I've never had that problem. Then relationship as
far as like withholding.
Speaker 1 (56:30):
Sex and sex, it's crazy. I never had that.
Speaker 4 (56:33):
If you want to know the fastive way for me
to leave, what you tell me? Tell me, no, tell
me twice and see and see what tell me.
Speaker 2 (56:54):
I can't make this up. Go handle you ben this kicky,
We got you, We've got your sister.
Speaker 1 (57:00):
Go ahead, go handing your business. That was That was
That was because we are in time a time right now.
Speaker 2 (57:11):
I gotta say that.
Speaker 3 (57:12):
Just circled the block and came back and said exactly
what I said to begin with, And now he agreed.
Speaker 2 (57:18):
It's not y'all. I know I'm not crazy.
Speaker 1 (57:21):
You just me today.
Speaker 4 (57:23):
I know it's you, and I just need them to
know I got a problem today. You the funny thing,
he said, let the plumbing, Let the plumber.
Speaker 3 (57:43):
Jesus, I hate you so freaking over the she whispered,
I tell you, yes, crazy, I don't know what but
I think my bathroom had a malfunctioning, so I got
it han.
Speaker 1 (58:03):
To be it.
Speaker 2 (58:03):
I got real.
Speaker 1 (58:04):
Ah, wait a minute, that's too much stress for me,
Thank you. That's that's stress. Didn't mess up anything.
Speaker 2 (58:11):
Just like my love. I might have to get a
new sink holder. What the things? Y'all know what I meant.
I fight real battles. I'm fighting real life battle. I
(58:31):
don't got tap the man fight was that? No, no way,
no matter. Didn't mess up anything. You know, y'all ignorant?
Y'all know exactly what I meant.
Speaker 1 (58:56):
My nigga, what.
Speaker 2 (59:01):
See, I fight real demons.
Speaker 1 (59:03):
I have ship. Okay, we need that lab potfam. I'm like,
I don't know if I'm in frame. I've been all
over the place, all right, man. The final thoughts that well,
was the final thoughts. We will talk to y'all tomorrow
like we are. What more can we say