Surviving In A MAGA World

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hi, I'm Adam Etha Vitable and I'm Sarah.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
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happened to lun because we all know.

Speaker 4 (00:30):
Dating kind of sucks?

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Did you miss us?

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Through a combination of life getting in the way, burning
out on making content while we live in the darkest timeline,
and a lack of inspiration on both of our parts,
we took a break from DCS and while we haven't
figured out the future of the podcast, we know we
had something to say about the stupidest and most ignorant
people in the country having their voice heard and reaping
exactly what they're going to sew.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
But before we get into the dumpster fire that is
the United States, we'll give the inside scoop on what's
been going on in our personal lives and what are
your thoughts? How are you coping. You can reach out
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(01:15):
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the hotline or email us at Dating Kind of Sex
Podcast at gmail dot com. Today, well, Adam, we are
back from a break, and clearly we don't know how
to do a podcast because we've already had a couple
of fumbles in the first two minutes. So there's been
a lot going on. And let's just recap. What's been

(01:38):
going on in your life? Are you dating anyone? How's
Tulsa going? How you feel in all the things?

Speaker 2 (01:44):
It's been a while. I can't remember what the last episode.
Who does Was it like March or April or something
like that.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
No, it was July before I went to Pachges.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Okay, July, okay, I'll be right before Paris. Yes, that's right,
that's right. So it hasn't been that long. A few
months is not a big deal. But well, Tulsa's Tulsa's
doing well.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
I just decided to renew my lease for for the
apartment I'm in for one more year. I'm gonna I
said I was going to give Tulsa two years regardless,
I kind of see myself leaving after two years, so
I think, you know, it'll be enough, But I feel
like I want to be somewhere with I don't know,
like mountains or ocean or something like some type of
geographical landmarks that are worth mentioning. There really isn't anything

(02:21):
here like that, and I kind of miss that. I
miss nature. Now there is nature here, which it sounds
really like there's you can go out, there's woods and stuff,
but it's just not the same.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
So I don't know. But so I am.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
I am here for another year. And you know, there's
no such thing as climate change. So it's been eighty
degrees here all the way up until just recently, and
now it's only seventy.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
So that's that's lovely.

Speaker 4 (02:43):
I love that.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah, yeah, you know, so of course we're not all
going to be burning in hell for the rest of
the rest of our natural born lives. I have not
really been dating and just hasn't really been worth the effort,
especially with when I'm thinking that I might not be
here from you know, the other than a year, and
trying to date someone just for like that short period

(03:05):
of time doesn't seem worth it.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
So I haven't really been putting any effort into it.
I've I've met some people.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
And spend some time, you know, hung out with some
people and everything, which is which has been fun. And
I've had my group of friends and I've made additional friends.
So that's that's fun.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
That that's a.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
Fulfilling way of spending my time. I've found and I uh,
I otherwise, Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
I don't don't.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
I can't believe it's already been four months, honestly because
I talked to you pretty much almost daily and so
for like you and I can communicate on a regular basis.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
But like you know, I feel like time is just
kind of like flown by.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
It was like we were all full kind of hope
and optimism you know, only like a little while ago,
and now it's just it's all you know, naysing and doom.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
So I don't know, but.

Speaker 4 (03:48):
Yeah, recently, can we start the can we start the
episode on like a positive positive positive things?

Speaker 1 (03:55):
I know, I know, and I'm already I'm already being
a downer. Hey, it's gonna be did this this week
and thought not a week ago?

Speaker 4 (04:01):
No, no, no, okay. So so for the listeners, I called
Adhaim and was like, you know, we should do an episode.
Let's just talk. This was Wednesday after the results, and
Adam's like, if we do a podcast today, I'm gonna
go to prison.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Right We cannot record an episode right now. We will
have the secret Service at my door. So let's not
let's avoid that. Let's take a week to cool off.
And I'm still working on that part. Fun things that
I've done ill, I will talk about a couple of
things I had.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
I did. I had I gone to the Shrek Rave
back when we've talked before.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Oh fuck, yeah you did.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Okay, So I had a Shrek Rave and so Lisa
came into town as well, and then we all went
out to this Shrek rave. Everybody was dressed as different
Shrek characters from the movie. It was fucking hilarious and
it was an amazing time. My friends didn't think I
was having fun because I was just kind of chilled.
I found I found a table, so I was just
like kind of chilling at the table watching people like
dance and have fun and just having drinks and it
was great, Like I actually really enjoyed it. So that

(04:55):
was that was a great, really kind of a fun thing.
They did a Halloween, big Halloween event recently at this
at this club that I went to, and so my
friend's all dressed up. I didn't really go into a
cook I mean, I went to a costume, but it
was a lame costume. I just put red blinking lights
on myself and was an amber alert. So nothing, no,
very low effort. But I went with them to this

(05:15):
big event. Was supposed to be paid VIP prices for
an open bar, so he paid a VIP prices for
an open bar and there was they ran out of
vodka by like eleven thirty, so which was just yeah,
that was that was kind of a kind of obnoxious.
And then recently they had it's a it's a new thing.
I think it started in New York maybe kind of

(05:37):
a franchisable dating type of new approach to dating called
Pitch a Friend. And what they do is they invite
people to literally like pitch their friend. So it's like
you set up a little PowerPoint presentation, you do like
a three to five minute presentation at like usually it's
a bar or some type of venue like that on
a weeknight, and you you pitch your friend to anybody

(05:58):
who might want a date. And they had to do
like a little mixer afterwards, where like if you are
if you're single, you can walk around and to chat
with other people if you want. But they're like, they'll,
you know, keep everybody's information, like their contact info, their
social media stuff and everything up on a on a
like the screen so people can reach out to anyone
they might find interesting. I want to get in touch
with kind of a novel idea.

Speaker 4 (06:20):
Did you think it was lame at first when you
first heard about it?

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yes, yeah, And I was like I was an interesting
I was like, I, well, what I didn't think it
was lame. What I said was kind of shitty actually,
and I'm gonna repeat it because I you know, that's
just who I am.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Is I submitted I sent the link to the group.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Chat girls that I have, which is like there's five
five girls in a group chat that are my friends
that I go out with and do stuff downtown, and said,
does anybody want me to pitch them? And one of them,
was like, yeah, absolutely. I was like, do you want
us to pitch you? And I was like, no, I
don't think I would date anybody that would go to
one of those events. And that's not it harsh, I mean,

(06:57):
but it to me, it's just I didn't mean it
like like the there's anything wrong with those people.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
It's just I found like the people who.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Were going to like try to go get pitched and
I mean want it like in like that's that has
like a need to date that I don't have, Like
that that's a desire to date that that I'm like,
that's that's just effort to like, I don't want to
put that much effort into dating.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
It's way more effort than even being.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Yes, yeah. So it's like it's a lot.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
I was like, and I don't I'm not gonna put
that so I don't like, I don't think I want
to date someone who like is so interested in dating
that they would do something like that. Not that the
people there are shitty people. So I want to want
to clarify that. And it was actually a relatively fun,
fun night. There were ten people being pitched, so there
were ten pitches. There were I would say like maybe
sixty to seventy people there.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
So it's a pretty good group of people.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
It was like a Monday night, which was you know
for that that's that's pretty good, especially you know Tulsa.
It was it was early Tulsa kind it tends to
get busy later later at night, I found but so
I I pitched one of one of my friends and
it was fun and she actually ended up at the
end of the night. I was talking to a guy
there and then we all went to a second location
for some karaoke and.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
He ended up. She told him that she was going there.
He ended up showing up and they were doing karaoke
and stuff that night. So that was that was kind
of fun.

Speaker 4 (08:12):
Question for the people that were being pitched, like the
ten people they were pitching to the audience or were
they also pitching to people who were being pitched as
well of that pool of ten people, well as anybody.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
So you're all sitting there's one big audience.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
So then they're like, you know, our first someone got
up and is like, I'm pitching Bob and then just
goes through a little slide show about why Bob's great
and then has a final slide with his you know,
his Instagram and phone number, and you know, if anyone
wants to reach out. And then at the end of
after all ten pitches, and they kind of they gave
everybody who anybody who was single could have a green
sticker you could put on your shirt and you can
just kind of wander around just chat with people, you know,

(08:46):
and just to then just just talk to anyone you
wanted to, so or if you were going to be
shy about it, you could just probably look the person
up on Instagram and then like send him a DM
saying hey, I saw you at the pitch thing and
you know.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
Just wanted to chat as well.

Speaker 4 (08:57):
So it's really kind of optick.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yeah, the stick was it was yeah, it was. Yeah.
It was kind of a fun little thing and it
was yeah, it was. It was like I said, it
was interesting, it was interesting. I'm glad. I I'm glad
I did it.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
It was it was fun pitching my friend. I wanted
to do something, you know, I wanted to because I
like presenting it like you know, so I had to
and I made it a little funny presentation.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
It was. It was amusing.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
People laughed at it. I would say, without patting myself
in the back. It was probably the better.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah, this is what I do, so yeah, so it
was it was fun.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
Another one of my group chat friends then was like, oh,
now I want you to do me too, and I
was like, eh, I did it like it wasn't you know,
I've already done it once. I don't think I don't
think I want to do it again. I don't think
I can come up with another concept like I did.
But I can't, you know, duplicate the thing I did before,
which was a little funny thing.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
So I don't know.

Speaker 2 (09:47):
But but it's a cool idea and it's a it's
a franchise that they have all across the country.

Speaker 1 (09:51):
Now they're trying to like, you know, promote it. The
woman who was doing it, I was asking her later,
I was asking her.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
About the like how do you make money? Like how
is this something that like benefits you running this, you know?
And she said that actually they have a like a
the franchise team or whatever they like. They have a
whole packet that they can help you send the bars
and stuff to try to get to the bar. Actually
will pay to have people there, which.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
Is really impressive.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
I would never think that bars would do that, like
would be willing to spend any money on on that,
you know, like because bars and bars are notoriously cheap
when it comes to trying to get people in there
their bar, like they're just they're you know, most bars are,
but they actually, Yeah, if you can find a good
venue that that's willing to I don't I don't know
what it is, but I'm not gonn guess it's not
a lot.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
I'm probably a company with seventy people on a Monday.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Night, seventy people. They were all drinking like it, like,
so it was good for them. It was actually good.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
And I was like, they took a bunch of pictures
to show to the next place. But but you know,
like it is a little bit of a risk and everything,
but but yeah, I'm so she you know, and she
did that and the pictures.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
It's free for the person to pitch.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
You give them a five dollars venmo to like secure
your spot so they know you're actually serious, You're not
just you know, gonna take you say you're gonna be
there and they not show up and then you get
like a drink ticket when you get there.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
So yeah, yeah, so cool concept.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
And uh, and so I would suggested, if you know,
if somebody really does want a date and you want
to do something different, just try a new approach. Then
this is definitely a new approach and it might be
a good way to break some ice with some new
people if you bring you know, if you have a
group of friends and you all go out, it could
be could be kind of fun for that. So look
for the It's just called like I think, pitch a
friend always, Like I'm the one that tells is pitch
a friend Tulsa. So uh, where a city you're in,

(11:30):
you could probably find.

Speaker 4 (11:30):
Something like that very cool.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
Yeah, any else been going on in my life that I
do anything else?

Speaker 4 (11:37):
M I don't think so, I don't know. I feel
like job, you know, it's like job.

Speaker 1 (11:42):
Yeah, yeah, the job stuff that I don't I don't know.
Yeah that I never talked about a bitch about.

Speaker 4 (11:47):
That work is boring. Who cares?

Speaker 2 (11:49):
I know, I know I have nothing really else to add.
So many little things that I could go into, but
I'm not going to get into it. Fair But yeah,
that's yes, I'm alive, doing fine. Otherwise.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Oh, there is one last thing I was gonna say.

Speaker 2 (12:07):
We had talked about the woman I went on the
day with who did the ice baths, who I haven't
really like have no real So we've were still friends
and I've I've done something like material that I've written
about her. She was there at a show and I
performed it, and she was like so deeply embarrassed, like
but even though it wasn't like I didn't mention her
by name, but she was like, I've never had that happen.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
She and I stayed friendly.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
We ran into each other recently and uh, and she
wanted to do and I think I told you about this.

Speaker 1 (12:30):
To an addition to the ice bats, she does.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
These really painful eye drops that are called like sen
and sonanga andanga something like that. But they're they're supposed
to be like something that like she's she was telling
me why people do them, is they they they bring
out dopamine. They like you know, they're they're they have
but they they hunters might use them at night because
it helps like sharpen their eyes and like you know,

(12:53):
like helps them see you. They improve their night in
their night vision a little bit.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Too, and all this stuff.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
So she's really gotten into like just torturing people recently,
she's just a better, better her thing, and she's like,
I want to torture you. Sometime we do an ice
bath and I was like, sure, but I can't fit
in your ice bath thing because her ice bath thing
is like one of those behind the bar coolers that
you know, like the the or like I like if
you mentioned like one of those you open up that
I had, like a convenience store that has like the ice.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
Cream in it or whatever, you know what I mean,
like one of those.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
She can get in that filled the dice and water.
No problem, I'm not gonna fit in that. Like I
might be able to. I might be able to get
my like my torso in there or whatever, and I
might be able to even sit in it, But even
sitting in it, I'm just still going to be like
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
Going to fit my body into there. That's not and
not with any you know, any issue. She's just not
gonna happen. So I was like, I can't do that.
She goes, well, can I do the IY drop? Sometimes?
So I was like sure. So today she came by
if I tell you this, yeah, when we spoke earlier, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
She came by it like noon and we were hanging out.
She's all right, are you ready? And I was like sure,
She's like, all you might want to sit down. I
was like, really like their eye drops, and she's like.

Speaker 1 (13:51):
Yeah, you might want to, and she like, can I
put them in? I was like, okay, sure.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
So she had me sit in my chair and like
put my head back and close my eyes and then
she kind of put it one drop on each like
on each like corner of my eye and then had
me just open my eyes and kind of like let
them all, you know, drip and drip in and uh.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
And it was crazy, like so I did that.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
And immediately immediately like just excruciating pain. And but the
weirder than that, which which was weird than that, it
was the immediate rushing in my ears, like like you
just were on the like outside of a plane that
was flying by, you know, Like I mean like it
was just this roaring in my ears that I couldn't

(14:33):
It felt like I was underwater for a second, like
it was.

Speaker 4 (14:35):
Like that something.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
But yeah, yeah, it was. It was so bizarre. It
last that lasted about about ten seconds, the like the.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
The roaring, but it was really weird because I did
not expect that, and then it was just like excruciating pain,
and like I tried to open my eyes, like I
I closed my eyes when it started to hurt. I
tried to open my eyes, but they were just watering
so bad that it was just like you know, you
just so she gave me some tissue and so then
I just sat there and just like breathed pain for
for like for four minutes until it went away and

(15:03):
then it felt fine and then it stood kind of
wiped my eyes out because my eyes like said, we're
just like pouring tears out, like you just like literally
pouring tears. And that was it.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
But it was I was like, I don't see any
value here, Like I don't see.

Speaker 4 (15:16):
My next question was that a good experience? Did you
feel anything else? Is this approved by a doctor?

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Like it's definitely not approved by a doctor.

Speaker 4 (15:24):
Yeah, immediately, I'm never doing that.

Speaker 2 (15:26):
Yeah, but but you know, she does all types of
crazy shit like that.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
So she was just like, yeah, it's just you know
sometimes people do it, and it like in addition to
other things like when you take rooms or something like
you give yourself a little pain like that, and she
says it's supposed to release dopamine. I didn't have any.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
I took a nap after she left, so I don't
know if that's considered that. I don't think it's a
really opposite of dopamine. But yeah, I really like it
didn't really do any positive for me. It didn't do
any negative either. It was just five minutes of pain.
It's just it's been like if you just squirted yourself
in the eyeball with like hot sauce and had to
sit there for five minutes and let it.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
You know, let it go away, is really all the
all it really felt like. And she did that.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
Sometimes when people don't have that, they'll use like tabasco
sauce or something like that as instead.

Speaker 4 (16:07):
I have so many problems with this. They squirt fucking
tabasco in their eyes.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
Instead, they'll make a kind of concoction with like tabasco
and something else, and like they'll use that.

Speaker 4 (16:17):
That shit does not go anywhere near your goddamn eyes.
Are you fucking stupid?

Speaker 1 (16:22):
You know, it's just crazy. So yeah, my god, yeah,
this is It was interesting.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
And she was like, well, thank you for trying, and
I was like, I'm I'm always uh willing to try
something new whatever, you know, Like I knew it wouldn't
be like that big of a deal, but it was
just it was just it was weird. It was very weird,
and uh, I'm I don't really have much else to
say about it, except I wouldn't necessarily recommend it to
anybody either, because it's not like I had this, you know,

(16:47):
like I've done things before like I did, like the
zen floats and things like that, were like I actually
felt relaxed whatever like, and.

Speaker 1 (16:52):
I could see the ice bass waking up and having
you feel energized. I could see that.

Speaker 4 (16:56):
But something going in your eye that could potentially damage
your eye sight. I would not say, yeah, go ahead
and put that shit in.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
My ear would potentially damage your ice fucking.

Speaker 4 (17:06):
Know how your body's going to respond to that. It's
not tested by anything.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
To me. This was just it was just like a
painful thing.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
It's like the time I thought if you put icy
hot on your balls, it'd make you like ejaculate across
the room, and I tried it, but then in the
process of trying to jerk off, I got the icy
hot on the tip of my dick, and so then
it went into my urethra and then I just was
basically curled up in a ball on the floor, crying
my eyes out, like until it until it washed out.
I was like, I didn't learn anything from that either,
you know, and I didn't get to ejaculate across the

(17:33):
room either, So it was really just a sad experience overall.

Speaker 4 (17:37):
So this was like that but for your eye. Basically
you did get a lot of tears. Though.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Yeah, I guess, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
I guess it works.

Speaker 1 (17:44):
Yeah, I guess. I guess we'll see. But yeah, so
I had to try. She suggested it.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
And I was like, all right, fine, sure, sure, I know,
but maybe don't try it.

Speaker 4 (17:55):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
But anyways, what's going on to you?

Speaker 4 (17:58):
I got nothing to say, nothing positive to say about
that from my side of the world.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
The Paris Olympics.

Speaker 4 (18:07):
The Paris Olympics, Yeah, I guess you can start with that.
I went to Paris for a week and a half
and had a really good time. I posted a lot
of content while it was over there, had a lot
of videos go super viral, which was also pretty wild,
but it was, you know, a topic. I think a
lot of people wanted more inside scoop and inside on

(18:27):
so I was happy to create that type of content there.
Learned a lot about traveling with others again, because you know,
Roy and I have traveled outside of the country every
once in a while. We've been to Mexico, we've been
I guess we've traveled other places around the US too.
This year specifically and traveling with him, I'm fine, but

(18:47):
just traveling in a large group. And large group it
was five of us. I think could have been better
towards the end, but I don't think it was terrible.
I just think, like I can't travel with my mother anymore.
And sorry, Mom, if you're listening to this, she's gonna
be big mad. But it was a lot for me,
and I just prefer to either travel with people who
are super well season seasoned travelers or by myself. Right,

(19:12):
it's either one or the other. Like I cannot do
anything else, and I don't like groups, and that's kind.

Speaker 1 (19:17):
Of what I'm like.

Speaker 2 (19:18):
I always known that, like you and I could travel together,
but only if we got there on our own rooms
and then one hundred percent like it has separate buildings
even maybe.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
But potentially yea, yeah, no shared walls.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
Just because of my snoring alone but yeah, but more
than that, just I think we would need like we'd
have to do our own thing. It would be like
we have a couple things playing that we do together.
Otherwise it's just do whatever you're gonna do and go
off on our own and that's that's it.

Speaker 4 (19:42):
Yeah, that's how I prefer to travel too. So and
then I realized, oh, and there were arguments amongst our
group because Roy and I wanted to break off and
do our own thing. And then my sister was like, well,
I thought we were all doing all of the things
together all the time, and I'm like, I need to breathe.
I can't be in a group set the entire two
weeks of a trip. I will actually go insane. And

(20:05):
so we learned that and just finding the groove. I
eventually in the middle, we did find the group. But
at the beginning it was like every day we're eating
all the meals, doing everything, and it's like being on
a reality show. Eventually, when all these people are together
and doing all the same things day after day, something's
gonna happen. And so just realizing who I am as
a travel I don't think it's a bad thing. I

(20:26):
just think lesson learned. I won't sign up for something
like that again, or if I do, it's with even
less people, like maybe three people. But yeah, that was
the trip overall was fantastic and I want to go
to more Olympic Games in the future. So I'm already
thinking La twenty twenty eight. I've signed up to volunteer
for Milan twenty twenty six for the winter. I mean,

(20:47):
who knows if I'll even go or get it or whatever,
but I figured why not just apply and throw my
name in the hat and see what happens.

Speaker 2 (20:53):
So are your yeah Olympic are you your videos about this?

Speaker 1 (20:56):
Are they in your highlights on your Instagram?

Speaker 4 (20:58):
You did you, like, say them on Instagram? No?

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Are they're okay? Are they're just in your reels in general?
Though you can scroll through. Yeah, I didn't know if
you made a highlight like of all your pair of stuff.

Speaker 4 (21:07):
I did an Olympics highlight, Okay, Well, but it's not
all of the reels in one, Okay.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
I was just gonna say.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
But yeah, So I'm gonna suggest if anybody, if you
haven't checked out our Instagram, you should be, cause I like,
it was really fascinating for me, like watching a lot
of the stuff I didn't know, stuff about the Olympic
houses and things like that. Like all that stuff was
real interesting. So like you're your reels and you're your
postner that we're really interesting. So check out your Instagram
highlights on if you haven't already seen her stuff, I
would recommend that.

Speaker 4 (21:31):
Yeah, that was our favorite part, and that was something
that Roy and I broke off to do and then
it ended up being the coolest experience and then we
did more with the rest of the group. But I'm
really happy that we kind of discovered that while we
were there, and yeah, had a totally great time there.
Other travels, Roy and I went to Arizona in Utah
last month with his family and did a week long trip. Again,

(21:51):
had a good time, but you know, it's just the
balance of being in the group versus being just a couple.
So we actually ended up when everybody left and went home,
we ended up driving to Utah and spent three days
together in Utah and had a really good time there.
So we got a little bit of like our lone
time versus like being with the family, which was good.
And then coming up actually next week I leave for

(22:12):
a solo trip to Taiwan for a week because I
love leaving the country during Thanksgiving because I hate Thanksgiving.
So I'm super excited. I found a cheap flight under
seven hundred dollars round trip from Seattle, and I just
figured I couldn't beat it. And the hotel price was
reasonable too, And I've never been to Taiwan, so why
not now?

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Shed a hotel not an airbnb.

Speaker 4 (22:33):
Yeah, I'm not I'm not even going to mess with
an airbnb. All the hotels were pretty reasonably priced too,
and they're super nice.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
So yeah, have you been there before?

Speaker 4 (22:41):
Never been there? No? On The only country I visited
in Asia has been Thailand, so and that's been almost
that's like eight years since I've been to Thailand, So
I think it was time to go back to that
side of the world.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
Yeah, especially while you're on the West Coast.

Speaker 2 (22:55):
I really Oh yeah, you're at your axis is so
much easier than for.

Speaker 4 (23:00):
It's still long, it's still it's a thirteen almost fourteen
hour flight to get over there, and then it's eleven
and a half hours back. But around this time last year,
I was traveling to South Africa and I had twenty
four hours of air travel plus a layover to get
down to South Africa, and that was actual hell. So
just one flight to get to my final destination. I

(23:22):
think I'm okay with I will survive. I'm going to
sleep train, so I'm not going to be super jet lagged,
even though I baked in a day for just being
completely fucked with the time zone. And uh yeah, so that's.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
That's the one thing that that's keeping me from wanting
to travel is honestly flights. The just the length of flights.
I mean, you know, airline seats aren't comfortable when you're
a three hundred pound person anyways, you know, But even
if even if you have the luxury of you end
up with a flight that has you got a space
next to you so you can stretch out a little bit,
even with that, it's still just uncomfortable, Like it's just

(23:54):
and I just can't imagine having to sit there for
that long.

Speaker 1 (23:58):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (23:59):
I mean, I to be like that when the max
flight time I would take was three hours and then
anything over that felt like hell. But now that I
live in the West Coast and really my options are
four hours or more if it's under if it's under
three hours. I'm really excited. And that's if I'm going
to California or you know, anything on the West Coast.
But everything else is at least four to five hours,

(24:20):
so I just kind of have to suck it up
and do it.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (24:24):
So yeah, I mean thirteen and a half is still
really fucking long. But yeah, I've been conditioned now. Just
long flights, right right, just you have the good pack
the stuff. And we've talked about this on like the
what desease of just what to pack for long haul
flights and things to prepare, so I'm prepared and not concerned.
I'm more I'm more looking forward to the trip itself.

Speaker 1 (24:45):
But well, that's great, that's great. And then so you've
got so you're you're what's we'rerighting for Thanksgiving? Since you're
abandoning him.

Speaker 4 (24:52):
He's going to Portland to visit his sister, and his
dad and stepmom are actually flying in because his stepmom
will be in town for a conference, so he'll get
some family time as well. And then they leave around
the same time that I come back, so oh that
works obviously. Yeah, and then we're just gonna spend Christmas
year we're not doing anything crazy, and I don't even

(25:12):
have Everyone's asking you, oh, what are your travel plans
for twenty twenty five? I have zero right now. I
have no plans yet. It's kind of I mean to
think about it. This time last year I didn't have
any plans for the following year. I'll probably form them
sometime in December, but I got nothing right now. I
just know I do not want to be here because
it's already fucking dark at four thirty. And that's the

(25:34):
difference the rain whatever, the darkness is soul crash.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
That's what bothers you. Yeah, I could see that.

Speaker 4 (25:41):
Yeah, yeah, But yeah, besides that, everything's good. Ryan and
I are happy and just just chilling in Seattle. Nothing
crazy to report back.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
Yeah, yeah, Well, I mean that's good though that.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
I'm looking forward to seeing what you what your next
travel plans are going to be like though. But I'll
have a passport too, so maybe twenty five I'll actually
finally start to travel a.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
Little bit more.

Speaker 4 (26:03):
Why'd you get a passport?

Speaker 1 (26:05):
Why? Just in case?

Speaker 4 (26:06):
Why did you? Why did you find it?

Speaker 1 (26:08):
I figured I figured I m as well do it.

Speaker 2 (26:09):
While the federal government actually operates stuff and has like
function it is while they have a probably have systems
set up to actually do things properly, you know, because
you could do it online now. Back when when I,
like when I first started traveling, I was gonna is when.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
I originally had to renew it, and I have been.

Speaker 2 (26:23):
I've been traveling with a folder that had a paper
application that I had filled out, printed out and filled out,
and photos that I had had taken and I need
to just mail it in with a check basically to
get it done.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
And I just kept putting it.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
Off and just been sitting in my car this entire time,
just sitting like in a in a package in my
car of like important documents.

Speaker 4 (26:44):
And they find someone could steal if they decided to.

Speaker 2 (26:46):
Break into your oh absolutely, because it'd have my security
card and everything, had all of it.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
If they broke my car, they could have so stupid,
you know, but it's just been sitting in there. They
would be able to find it.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
My car still has I never actually fully unpacked my
car from moving from traveling for three.

Speaker 4 (26:59):
Years, so stupid. Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (27:02):
Yeah, my back seat still is full stuff. Like people
can only ride in the front seat right now, and
so then they finally just started announcing. They started advertising
like these get your passport online like websites that would
do it for you, which made me realize that you
could probably just go right to the federal website and
do it.

Speaker 1 (27:16):
And they make it so.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
Easy, like literally, it took me ten minutes online to
get to renew it all. And they actually instead of
you can take a picture online as well, so like
you don't even have to like you can submit a
like a cell phone photo. You can you can take
a cell phone photo and submit that now and they'll
accept that. Yeah, They've made it so streamlined for you
to get your passport renewed and everything and new pictures

(27:39):
and everything.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
Yeah, and like it made it it was like so simple,
and I was.

Speaker 2 (27:43):
Like, that's not gonna last, like, you know, as soon
as soon as as soon as like biocracy starts to crumble,
then you know that that process will disappear because if
everyone's so concerned about ID, how are they going to
make the password process an online one?

Speaker 1 (27:55):
You know?

Speaker 2 (27:55):
So I decided to get that renewed, right, so we'll
be getting that very soon.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
Well good, Well, let's let's take a short break and
talk more about your post election adventures of passports and
things to prepare for. We would take a little break
and we'll be right back. Well for this section. First off,
let's let's give a clap. Let's congratulate all of the
Donald Trump supporters. We Adam and I both wish that

(28:23):
you get everything you voted for. So congratulations.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
Yes, absolutely, it's coming.

Speaker 4 (28:28):
It's coming for you.

Speaker 2 (28:29):
You get you hope, we hope you get everything that
that you you've asked for and everything that you that
you everything you deserve, you know completely frankly, I mean, listen,
here's the thing though, I'm going to say, if if
all those plans actually worked, I'd be happy for that.
Like I'd be great if if prices drop, what do
you say, prices are gonna be cutting half? Gas is
gonna be under under two dollars. There's a variety of

(28:52):
promptses that he made that immediately it would happen within
him coming into office, all wars are going to end.

Speaker 4 (28:57):
So more than concepts of yes, yes, but.

Speaker 2 (28:59):
It would actually know how do we're gonna get there?
They just promises that he made. All wars are gonna end,
I think immediately as soon as he took it, because
because he's.

Speaker 1 (29:07):
So terrifying as a person. You know, they're I'm all
going to just bow down to him.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
There's some other things too, that that he said that everything,
you know, that all women will be protected forever, all
of these things, So you know, if that actually happens,
I will I'll be the first to admit I was wrong.
I mean, I'll be like, oh, yeah, wow, he did.
He did somehow he made it all, made it all happen.
But usually in order to get there, you need to
like have an idea of how to get there.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
You can't just say things and that it just happens.

Speaker 2 (29:30):
So we're gonna see if it's we're in the fuck
around and find out, And she doesn't have like a
fuck around to find out, she'd be like.

Speaker 4 (29:38):
Can we all collectively?

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Yeah, I know, instead of fuck around and find out,
I feel like it should be called something like like
you know, vote like a dumb ass and find out
or something like that.

Speaker 1 (29:48):
Like it's just, uh, you know, I don't I don't
really know.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
But we're here because America as a whole has demonstrated
what they want. Not all Americans, obviously, just a vocal
apportion them. A bare majority of them, I would say
a bare majority of voters know a bare majority of
active voters. Well, maybe that's the way to say, a
bare majority of active voters are showed themselves to be ignorant, racist, xenophobic, misogynistic, uneducated,

(30:20):
and fully incapable human beings who have no sense of
accountability or ability to understand reality and discern fact from fiction.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
Does that maybe a way to put it.

Speaker 4 (30:34):
Yeah, I'm just gonna let you take You have a
lot more anger. Like, Look, I don't want to be
the I don't want to dive to into how the
campaigns were run. But this was always this was always
a possibility. Like, I know, people from the beginning were saying,
there's no way he's gonna win whatever, and I'm just
like I.

Speaker 1 (30:52):
Was saying that.

Speaker 4 (30:53):
You see how the other.

Speaker 1 (30:54):
Camp I was the one saying that.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
I was like, there's just there's I was optimistic about humanity.
I was optimistic about the fact that they already saw
how much he fucked up, They saw what he did
when he lost, and the temperatans me threw the cost
lives and through the constitution under the book bus and thought,
surely nobody's going to continue to support him for that
non after that and after that nonsense, they're going to

(31:17):
see that he like that, he does not care about
anybody other himself.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
But no, I was wrong. I was absolutely.

Speaker 4 (31:23):
It comes down it comes down to marketing. The marketing
of make America Great Again is stronger than We're not
going back or yeah whatever her camp. And that's the
same reason Donald Trump won in twenty sixteen too. It
has a lot to do with marketing to that base.
I think the Harris campaign failed to market to the
correct audience and focused more on Republicans who could be

(31:46):
converted to voting for a Democrat, which sure some did,
But I don't know. I just I always had the
doubt of I don't see her winning, but don't want
him to win, so of course I'm going to vote
for her, But I don't. I don't see the flip
happening like I think a lot of people did. But
now that we're at this reckoning of where do we
go next? I see already a shift in how people

(32:08):
are responding to others online. You have the same rhetoric
that you had in twenty sixteen of be friends with everyone,
be kind to everyone, it doesn't matter who you voted for,
and to some degree, I'm like, yeah, I mean I
can be kind and friendly to people, but do I
really want to fuck with you on a deeper level. No,
not really. You know, I could be kind and like

(32:30):
you said, not go to prison and not say something
that's gonna, you know, get me in some kind of
lesser court case or whatever. But I don't have to.
I don't have to be nice. There are so many
of my family members who voted for Trump, and guess what,
I really don't fuck with them. If I'm around them
at family functions, I say hello and I keep my
fucking mouth shut, because what is the point of fighting

(32:51):
with them? What is the point? And that's why I'm like,
I hope you get everything you voted for, because when
shit really gets bad in a year or two from now,
all I'm gonna be it's gonna fucking laugh because none
of this is surprising. It's upsetting, yes, but surprising not
at all. So this is their lesson to learn, not ours,
because we already fucking know, and we just have to

(33:11):
respond and prepare. We have to be Unfortunately, we're the
We're the fucking doomsday preppers at this point, and we
have to be smart and prepare for worst case scenarios
because realistically, if you've studied history, if you've looked at
trends in the past, things are not going to get better.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
I think too.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
And this is interesting, is that with with them having
full control of the Senate and Congress and House of
Representatives and the Presidency so and arguably the Supreme Court.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
But with with with full control.

Speaker 2 (33:41):
Over everything, they should be able to make amazing things
happen because they now they actually have full control, So
they should be able to push through anything that will
help America, anything that will make America great again. All
of those things should come through like just like a
warm knife through butter. Because there's no majority to fight them,
there's nobody to go against them. And yet we know

(34:04):
that when they don't manage to push anything through, because
they are obviously the largest group of selfish and incapable
human beings that have ever existed, we know they don't
have any accountability either, So they're they're not going to
hold themselves accountable for it. They're going to somehow still
blame the other party and the and the people who
voted for him are aren't going to get it. They're

(34:25):
not going to see that this was because they're incompetent,
because they're when they voted for is incompetent. They're going
to say, well, it's something they're gonna somehow blame Hillary Clinton.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
I don't know how, but it's going to be that's Obama.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
So it's just like even laughing in the end, when
they start getting with it, they're not going to understand
it because like one one great example, and you brought
this up earlier and we were talking, are the absolute
fucking shovel head morons that don't understand that the ACA,
the Affordable Care Act, is the official name of the
nicknamed Obamacare, that those are one and the same. And

(35:01):
when you see these dumb, corn fed motherfuckers sitting around
talking about the fact that they need their they need
their ACA because they don't know, but they're not gonn
get rid of that Obamacare, and they don't understand that
getting rid of the ACA means, I mean, get rid
of Obamacare means that they don't have any of the
healthcare benefits or the disability or the other things that.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
They've had they've been able to get. They can't go
to their doctor's appointments anymore.

Speaker 2 (35:24):
They're gonna still somehow blame Obama for that.

Speaker 4 (35:29):
I've got nothing to I've got nothing to say. That's nice,
And again I hope you get everything you voted for.
Thank it is? Is it sad? Absolutely, But I am
past the point of feeling fucking sorry for other people
who can't Even now I want to feel sound like
a Republican. I'm I'm sick of feeling sorry for people
who can't fucking help themselves.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
I agree, you know, I mean so.

Speaker 4 (35:49):
Like we're so the people who obviously didn't vote for him,
we got to help ourselves. We got a plan for
the future and be fucking smart, and let's let's talk
about strategy and just maybe the trends we're gonna see
and then the strategies and other considerations to make. As
you start thinking about him being inaugurated the day after my.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
Birthday, one thing before we get into that, yes, it's true,
that is I forgot. That's one of those The interesting
thing that I've seen too, is that you know, the
the group that they've voted for him, they're all about,
you know, fuck your feelings, and you know everyone's a snowflake.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
You can say, but they are.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
They seem so pressed right now with the fact that
we're not patting them on the back and being supportive
and being you know, amazing, And they don't seem happy
that Trump won. They still seem angry that we're not
all happy with it, you know what I mean, Like
like because if if Harris won, I'd be thrilled. I
wouldn't be walking around every every person over Trump just

(36:48):
be like why aren't you happy? Whence I would be
thrilled because I'd be willing to see what you know,
I don't think I'm okay, great, let's see what we
can do, you know, Like I would be so excited
for the future. I would have hope in my heart
and optimism. They are still just trying to like antagonize people,
and they're getting so mad when now we're like, we
don't care anymore, sorry, Like and they're like, I've I've
had so many people who like just like reach out

(37:08):
through different social media things, trying to like antagonize because
they're like they want to, like like a bully who
just like ha ha, and then like once once you lose,
they're like ha ha, Like yeah, sorry, I'm done, Like
I'm done arguing with you, I'm done talking to you, like,
I'm not going to engage. And it's like, I don't
these people are so unhappy. I just they're they're so unhappy.
They're never going to be happy.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
And I don't know what what what.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
Like how to even wrap my brain around that, because
that that makes me sad.

Speaker 4 (37:36):
Basically that they're never going to be happy. You look
the other way and you don't concern yourself, like and
that's the point I'm at. I just I do not
concern myself with their problems, their feelings, whatever issues they're
going through. Don't care. That's great whatever, have your fluorid whatever.
Because I know people who voted for Trump because they
want better food. And do we know about the listeria

(38:02):
outbreaks that are happening across the country and who's to
blame for that even though currently is happening under the
Biden administration, who rolled back all of those protections and
company like policies that other organizations have.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
You know, like you has like they have, you know,
stricter rules that we can put in food and things
like that, and their food doesn't have as many chemicals
and because it's they're not as much about preserving things,
and they also don't have to feed as many people,
you know, like the you know, our country is a
mass manufacturing company the country because we have a there's
a lot of people, and there's a lot of things
you need to be able to create that will last

(38:37):
for a while. But having someone who wants to, you know,
improve health is great. Having someone who's insane person.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
Do it is I agree, and is going to do it.

Speaker 2 (38:47):
Without any actual basis in science and logic is terrible.
Like that's the thing, and then that's the terrifying thing.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
Ah.

Speaker 4 (38:55):
Yeah, Like I'm all for improving health care, improving the
cost of goods, improving are you know, the food that
we Those aren't things that I'm against. I just the
approach of doing it I disagree with.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Exactly.

Speaker 4 (39:08):
We want the same things. The approaches are vastly different.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
This is this. I didn't tell you this.

Speaker 2 (39:14):
I have a friend on Facebook who is very much antagonistic.
I stay friends with their regardless. But she lives in Florida,
and she said, what rights have we lost as women?
Are we going to lose? And I was like, the
right to abortion? You're in Florida and she said, what
right to you? Like, what do you think we can't
do now? I said, you can't get an abortion after

(39:35):
six weeks. She's like, sure, we can't. I've had a
friend who did. She was, yeah, she was, she was
in her second trimester. And I said, in Florida. She
said yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:44):
I said, well, maybe it was when.

Speaker 2 (39:46):
The law was not an acted or not, maybe like
the law had been challenged or something like that. I said,
but the law as it is says, if it's more
than six weeks, you can't have an abortion unless the
life of the mother is at risk. And she's like, no,
it's not that's just fake news. And so I legitimately
copy the law from Florida's own website where it very

(40:06):
clearly says and I said this, and she's like, well,
you just don't need to be spreading misinformation if you
don't know what you're talking about. And I was like,
I'm giving you the actual law. This isn't misinformation. Like
I'm trying to tell you that the law right now.
Maybe your friend locked out, maybe she found a plant
paranento place where the doctor doesn't give a shit, and
he's just like, I'm going to do it. Anyway, it's like,
maybe that's the case, which is amazing. If so, like
my props for that. If that's great, but I doubt

(40:28):
that a lot of places are willing to do that,
and I think most places are not. And the law
asset stands right now.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
Is six weeks. So and she goes, well, that's ridiculous.
You can't even tell if you're pregnant or six weeks.
And I'm like, that's my fucking point.

Speaker 4 (40:40):
That's the point. Yes, that's the point. And so yes,
And on top of that, the downward effects of just
that law causes all of these healthcare professionals to want
to leave the state. It's happened in Texas. It's just
a ripple effect.

Speaker 1 (40:57):
Of every other Oklahoma.

Speaker 4 (40:59):
Yeah, and so they're moving to blue people are moving
to blue states. Can't fucking blame them. But they're moving
to other states that have better protections for health care
providers because god forbid, you get sued for doing your
job exactly save someone's life.

Speaker 2 (41:15):
All Right, Anyway, we've ranted, we should probably have something
productive to say as well, should we not.

Speaker 4 (41:21):
Okay, so let's chat. Obviously we've talked about we've talked
about abortion, just now with Trump in office, how are
women going to respond? And I've seen a lot of
commentary online about four B movement really blowing up in
the US after he has inaugurated, and that was my

(41:42):
first thought of Yep, we're not gonna have kid, We're
not having sex with them anymore, relationships, We're not having kids,
fuck any of that. We're just going to keep men
over there and we're going to do our own thing
because the repercussions of potentially getting pregnant or anything else
is just not worth it. So and they don't. They
clearly voted for Trump. Certain white certain groups have been

(42:05):
voted for Trump, So you don't, you're showing you don't
give a fuck about us.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
So yeah're not for those that don't.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
Maybe we did a full upside on the four B movement,
but it is a movement that is based out of
South Korea where women were just stopping all the four
of the four bees where dating, having sex, with marrying,
and having children sex marriage, So that it was a
movement that that is, you know, was very has been

(42:32):
become very popular, and we talked about it, I mean
literally like six months ago, nine months ago, whatever, So
you know, it is something that now it feels like
it should be a reality. And even as a man,
I'm agreeing with that.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
Now.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
I think that women need to worry about themselves. Men
have clearly demonstrated. American men have clearly demonstrated they don't
actually like women. They have done that in their voting.
Two times we've had qualit five candidates who were better
than a dumpster fire. You both times get obliterated, showing

(43:07):
that that that's not coming just because of their campaigns
and things like that. That comes from a sense of
deep rooted misogyny when when you're seeing the men that
have overwhelmingly voted for Trump. But men have shown that
they do not actually like women as human beings.

Speaker 1 (43:22):
They want women to.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
Keep their mouths shut, give them kids even, you know,
and just and not try to argue too much. And
you know, you can have an abortion if they say
you can have one.

Speaker 4 (43:33):
Basically, well, now the rhetoric of your body, my choice
is right is going around online, which is just infuriating.
And so yeah, you want to fuck around and say that, yeah,
I'm not talking to a man if I don't have to.

Speaker 2 (43:48):
Yes, so yes, and and world world class in cell
Nicholas Fuentes, the Nazi who has his own little radio
show that pee that way too many people listen to.
I don't unders why anyone could listen to his voice
and not want to immediately punch him, Like through the screen.
He's just grating, but he's also just not intelligent sounding

(44:08):
in any way. He was, you know, screaming this and
making it so excited. You know, your body, my choice,
And I don't know if you saw what happened as
a result of that, but no, I.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
Can't concern myself with insult news. It's just I can't.

Speaker 1 (44:24):
Well.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
He being a huge one who's been who's visited, spent
time with Trump and actually been you know, been with
Marjorie Taylor Green like people who he's actually had this
legitimacy in their eyes. He put this on Twitter and
within minutes was docksed and his home address and phone
number were immediately sent out to millions of people. He

(44:48):
had to change his phone number and then had to
move in with his mom because his house was now
public information and people kept saying, hey, you're you know,
your your house my choice, and uh, your info my choice.
And then some someone apparently rang the doorbell of his house,
and he pepper sprayed them as soon as they he
opened the door, pepper sprayed them and and now is

(45:10):
uh they're pressing charges for assault as well. So anyways,
like it was, it was just fantastic to see like
he thought he had something, and as soon as he
was no longer behind a keywoard, he realized that, oh yeah,
he fucked up. So the other answers to your body
my choice are you know, if if you're gonna go
to jail for an abortion, mine as we'll kill your

(45:30):
rapist my bullet's your choice. Uh, you know things like that.
There's there's there's also uh there there's been a lot
of different yeah, memes and graphics that are like someone
says your body my choice and then it like has
a clip of like Frank from It's always sending Hdelphia
Danny DeVito going, Uh so anyways, I just started blasting
away and he's like got a gun in his hand.

Speaker 4 (45:49):
You know.

Speaker 2 (45:49):
So basically, if you have a if you have a threat,
that that's a threat. And any man who says that,
I don't care if there's it's a joke, I don't
care if they or they they're saying it's a joke.
It's not h A man who says that to anyone
is not someone who's safe for women to be around
any capacity.

Speaker 4 (46:07):
Yep, which leads to my next point. Maybe women should
buy guns and take shooting lessons if the Second Amendment
is super important to these men, and they probably are
already caring. And the other thing is if we're going
to say yeah, we're four b we're not going to
deal with men anymore. Men like that are not going

(46:28):
to like being told no. And the next level is
them getting physically aggressive with you. So it might be
in your best interest to pick up a gun, figure
out some courses for and look, I'm not like a
huge gun fan myself, but definitely had me thinking, hmm,
if I knew how to shoot a gun and I
had a better shot, maybe I would feel more comfortable

(46:50):
owning a gun if I ever encountered a situation where
I could arm myself. Now, do I think it's unnecessary
for right now? No, but I think with escalated tension
over the next few years, just predicting better than have
experience shooting a gun.

Speaker 2 (47:05):
Than not, Yeah, and I would I would say it's
funny in a law like in the past, I would
say that, you know, that's the wrong thing to say,
is to like, well, women should learn how to defend themselves.
Should never be the thing we should say. We would say, well,
men should just stop doing this behavior.

Speaker 4 (47:20):
We know that's not going to happen, though.

Speaker 2 (47:21):
But that like, we're getting to the point now where
because of who's president, because of what's because because we're
we're excusing behavior like this, it has empowered the wrong
kinds of people to feel like they have more power
than they should and given them the ability to maybe

(47:42):
consider that like bypass the law just for their own benefit.
And so I see, I do predict the amount of
you know, potential assaults on women going up because men
start to feel enabled by what they see on social
media and by people like Andrew Tate and Nick Quentes
and people like that saying these things, and they they're

(48:03):
so terminally online that they don't understand the reality of it,
and they will push push through things.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
And I think that I think that's a that's so, yes,
I think.

Speaker 2 (48:14):
Now it might be a good time to learn to
have at least this at your disposal so that you
you you know, have the ability to I also think too,
it's important for women to not gate keep things like
the four B movement. And what I mean by that
is one thing that the left versus the right is

(48:35):
is terrible at the left is terrible. At anytime anybody
doesn't do anything exactly right, they get kind of like, oh,
you fucked up, and like it like it's it's it
starts to like cannibalize itself and and like people get
mad at at the minor minor quibbles instead of.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
Being like, hey, we're all on the same team.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
Yes, maybe somebody didn't do everything right, but like their
intentions are pure and they're trying to do right. And
I've seen that with some women talking about, well, if
you're in a relationship, you can't in the four BE movement,
you know, like if you're in a heterosexual relationship, you
like you shouldn't talk about it.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
I've actually seen that.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
How about how about not how about anybody who's yeah, yeah,
because you're interacting with men, you're you're obviously you're being hypocritical.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
Why by saying this?

Speaker 2 (49:15):
And I think that that's that does not serve the
purpose that it needs to agree that, you know, trust
that women who are you know, allies, women who did
not vote for Trump, women who are not you know,
filled with internalized misogyny, have chosen a partner who is
is also an ally and that they can still support

(49:36):
and be a valuable aspect of the FOURB movement without
you know, breaking up their relationship.

Speaker 4 (49:43):
So yeah, it goes back to just talking about it
and sharing that message with other women who might be
frustrated with the dating scene or whatever they're sick of
dealing with shitthead men online, to say, oh, did you
know about this movement? Like that's my impact. Even though
I am in a relationship with a man and he
is a very respectful man. I'm not going to stop

(50:04):
being in a relationship with him just because of the
four BEING movement, but I will try my best to
progress this movement forward by talking about it with others.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
Right, and so, so, you know, one thing that we
didn't think too is well, what what can women.

Speaker 1 (50:16):
Do like if they they're not dating men?

Speaker 2 (50:18):
You know, like, yeah, make you know, go make friends,
make friends with other women, Go do things that make
you happy.

Speaker 1 (50:24):
Work on, work on, you know.

Speaker 2 (50:25):
Being satisfied with yourself and giving yourself the best life,
do the things that you've always wanted to do, and
don't worry about involving men with him, and you know,
the energy you put into into dating, you know, maybe
put it into you know, something that that really fuels
your passion that that might be the better way to
do that and to you know, start to learn to

(50:47):
really be happy being alone. And I think that once
We've talked about as many times that once you're once
you're happy like on your own and like as a soul,
you know, single human being, then it makes dating a
lot easier because then you only look for times when
people's presence enhances your experience, they don't detract from you.

Speaker 4 (51:05):
Totally agree. Yeah, other things that women can do outside
of just not dealing with men. I would say, if
you are on a birth control pill right now, I
would say, like, look up if potentially you want to
get an IUD and book an appointment, or get your
birth control and try to pick up all twelve months now.

(51:27):
I'm on the pack right now, and I get three
months at a time, so I'm considering my options there.
But I'm also stocking up on Plan B. It has
a four year shelf life, and so I have one
already here at home, but I'm considering buying a second
one just so it lasts the four years, because I
just think these resources are going to be more challenging
to get, especially if you live in a red state unfortunately.

(51:50):
And I would also say two outside of just reproductive rights,
to purchase any foreign goods before January. So if you
need to get your car fixed, do it now. If
you need to stock up on something that is shipped
in from China or from somewhere else, try to get
it in now and make that purchase now, because the
expectation is it will be more expensive if you wait

(52:12):
a couple of months.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
Yeah, and I agree with all those things. I do
think that you know right now there are I will
I think Amazon Sales Plan B as much as I
hate to suggest supporting Amazon right now, that you know.

Speaker 4 (52:27):
HSA store, the HSA store does, and you could if
you have an HSA you could use that card and
it's tax free. That's where I purchase it through, and
it is it's the standard price. It's fifty dollars for
the pack for what one pill in the plan. I've
never opened it, but I just believe there's just one
pill in there, but it's the same price as what
you would get if you went to a pharmacy, So

(52:48):
you can buy it online there, or you could just
buy it at a pharmacy.

Speaker 2 (52:51):
God, I wish birth control really should be something you
can just order anywhere and just get shipped to. It's like,
it's crazy, it's not, but that's a whole story. But yeah,
I definitely get try your appointment. I do it as
soon as you can, because you know, you don't know,
especially where you live. If you live in a place
where you can't for some reason, get Plan B. You know,
if you have friends in other states where they can

(53:13):
order it and send it to you, that might be
something else to consider as well.

Speaker 4 (53:17):
And besides people in relationships, right, we're all not having
sex with men if you're doing the four B movement,
but it is still good to be prepared and have
those things just as a backup.

Speaker 1 (53:27):
Yeah, especially like why would plan B.

Speaker 2 (53:28):
And of course plenty of people that are on birth
control just to regulate other things other than having sex,
which you know, the men who regulate that don't understand
understand the existence or why it exists, and the foreign
goods things that's gonna be crazy too, Like I mean,
it's just it's amazing how many things we import, and
who knows what's going to happen with that, so it's
hard to predict.

Speaker 1 (53:47):
But I would say, yeah, I would say a lot
of your staple.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
Items would be important to just make sure you have
enough for for a little bit. Get them will They're
cheap so that you don't have to like feel like
the pinch initially financially when you have to try to
order them.

Speaker 4 (54:00):
Obviously, don't go stockpiling like crazy. Leave some for other people,
but just buy what you need. Don't be stupid like people.

Speaker 2 (54:06):
Lets instead of toilet papers, get a fucking bidet. I'm
gonna like it once again, Like I'll tell you what
I have a biday. My toilet paper usage is you dropped?
I mean you still you pat yourself dry a little
obviously like a pieceer, but it's not like, not nearly
the issue anymore. And yeah, I really would recommend a
bidet for so many people. It saves so much money.

Speaker 4 (54:26):
Adam is endorsing a the day.

Speaker 2 (54:27):
It'll make a bad day and do a bidet.

Speaker 4 (54:35):
Another thing that I wanted to touch on, just because
I do live in a blue state now, and I
specifically moved to Washington State. One of the main reasons
was I don't want to live in the red state anymore.
And I recognize that privilege. And I know it cost
me nine thousand dollars to move from Tennessee to Washington
just moving costs and shipping a car and every it's

(54:58):
not cheap. But if you have if moving is something
on the horizon or something that you've been considering, I
would say, just look at states that voted blue, So
everything on the West coast I'll see in Washington or
Oregon or California, and consider those resources. But I do know,

(55:18):
like a lot of people who have reached out to
me about oh, I love that you're in Washington State,
and I love all the good news coming out about
Washington State post election, I do recognize it's not going
to be possible for everyone. And there is also a
lot of conversations online happening around moving to other countries
and finding countries that you'll feel safer in. But that's
even a larger hurdle too. So if you can move
even just to another city, that's a privilege. So I

(55:42):
know that's what a lot of people are considering right now,
and if you can, great, If you can't, you can
make do in the city that you live in. You
just need to prepare in other ways, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:52):
It does.

Speaker 2 (55:54):
This person I was talking about abortion that we talked
about earlier, where she was like, well, even if it
did become like this, they can only just go to
other state and have an abortion. And I was like,
that takes that's the privilege of being able to, like
what just fly somewhere. You know, not everybody has that
that money. A lot of people are at subsistence level
and can't just afford to do that, and those are
people that are gonna be hardest hit by this, or
people who are at subsistence level or lower. And so, yeah,

(56:17):
sometimes you can't just move. But sometimes if you look
at the fact that if you if you have a
shitty job right now and you're like, I don't know
what else to do, and if you just sold everything
like that, you you know, can't nail down and essentially
just put it in a car, you could move to
another state.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
It's not it's not.

Speaker 2 (56:33):
It is hard, but it's not as hard as it
might feel like it. Really it really sometimes it's the
actually the fear of moving, that's the the thing, you know,
the fear.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
Of the unknown.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
But if they're what I was I was talking to
start earlier about, like, you know, Washington State is expensive,
so it's California, so it's parts of Oregon as well.
You know, they're they're expensive to live in. But if
you have the the concept the way that a lot
of people live there multi family units. You know, you
you rent a you know, a three bedroom house, and
you have you have an extra person who so you
have multiple incomes coming in, you know, more than just

(57:03):
you and someone else, you have you three or four incomes.
It makes it much more reasonable, I mean, and then
to a point that it's actually affordable. You know, it's
not the ideal that that's how it has to be,
but like there are ways to do that. And so
if you are stuck somewhere, you know, maybe reach out
to people who live in other areas, see if they
they can use a roommate, see if they would be
you know, consider those types of things, and then you know,

(57:26):
figure you're how to get there. But once you get there,
you're you're going to also be able to benefit from
the policies of that state and a lot of blue
states are much more supportive of people at that substence
level and lower. So sometimes you feel like you're stuck.
But if you can actually get to the other states,
you might also be able to at least take advantage
of some of the programs that are there to help

(57:46):
you get back on your feet.

Speaker 1 (57:47):
And that that's something to keep in mind as well.

Speaker 4 (57:50):
Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't say, now that Trump is
about to be inaugurated to just say, Okay, I'm bouncing
right now, I'm immediately moving to a blue state. I mean,
you don't have to be that, you know, rash with
that decision, but I would say feel it out. See
how you feel in a year. If you still feel
like tensions are high in whatever place you live, maybe
it is worth considering. And for me, just my experience

(58:13):
living in Tennessee, I was so pissed about everything all
the time, with Governor Bill Lee, with this fucking Marsha Blackburn,
with all the terrible policies being just I mean, there
are some good politicians in Nashville and in Tennessee, but
the majority of them were not and they did really
shady things. And I would follow the news and I'm like,

(58:34):
I feel like nobody cares. I feel like nobody cares,
and I just had a breaking point of I cannot
physically fucking do this anymore because I'm so stressed. I'm
upset that I live in a place like this and
I can't go back to Florida because it's just getting
as bad as Tennessee, and so Roy and I were like,
what's gonna be better, especially when like I thought I
was pregnant and considered like my options if I was

(58:55):
pregnant with where I would get an abortion, and that
was super stressful. I was like, I can't go through
that shit again. I will not go through that shit again.
So like, where is it going to be worth it
for me to live? And that's when I made that decision,
and I haven't looked back. And I will say again
recognizing my privilege, but I will say I although I'm
upset that Donald Trump won, I feel like a sense

(59:15):
of calmness because I live in a blue state where
I'm like, I mean, yes, things could go get to
a federal level, and like where fuck, no matter what
state you live in, for sure that could definitely happen,
which is part of the reason you prepare, but there
is a level of calmness of at least the people
I voted for at a local level have my fucking
back and I feel that, and at least my community
around me feels the same way that I do, and

(59:37):
I'm not an outlier anymore, because feeling like an outlier
makes you feel crazy, like you're going insane because you're
the only one who feels that way until people start
to have bad things happen to them, and like you
don't want that for your community too. So I would say,
you know, if you can't, like I said, if you
can't move to another state, at least find a community
that also supports you in that because there is hope

(59:58):
and there's good things in that community. In a local
community that feels.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
The same way. What else do you want to add.

Speaker 4 (01:00:07):
Anyways, Well, I mean, we already talked about buying stuff
in the future before the tariffs and stuff. But I
know Christmas is on the horizon. This is a season
where a lot of people spend a lot of money.
But me personally, I'm trying to be more mindful of
that and save more money, even though I'm going on
a big fucking trip that I have saved four already,
but saving some extra money just as a safety net

(01:00:30):
for down the road, because let's be real, we don't
know what's going to happen. We could go through an
economic downturn, we could not, and that would be great too.
But just to have a little extra cash in your
wallet at the end of the day and save up
an extra couple of thousands of dollars if you can
by cutting back on mindless spending because of Christmas time

(01:00:50):
or whatever. If you can do it, great, And I
would consider everybody to just kind of cut back where
they can and save for the future.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
Yeah, I agree with that as well.

Speaker 2 (01:00:58):
And the only thing I would add on all of
this too is that if you you've just found that
basically half the population isn't doesn't care about your well being,
and doesn't care about your.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
Safety and your health, how do you.

Speaker 2 (01:01:14):
Screen out the You know that we always have this
issue of saying men blah blah blah, and then someone
always chimed to not all men. How do you how
do you figure out who's who's worth interacting with and
who's safe for you to even talk to?

Speaker 4 (01:01:29):
I mean, first off, profile I mean, if we're saying
profile wise, I would say anyone who puts monitors.

Speaker 2 (01:01:37):
I'm just dating profile stuff. I'm just saying, like even
just like in like in real life, when you meet people,
like you know, you can.

Speaker 4 (01:01:42):
Pick up on the vibe really quickly. If you had
that intuition of talking to someone and they low key
give shitty vibes or like, oh they're kind of they
make an offhanded comment that you don't like, pick up
on that immediately and just stop fucking with them.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
Yeah, that's that's true. That's true.

Speaker 4 (01:01:59):
I mean, like you're not You're never gonna ask someone
in person that you're speaking to, oh, and did you
vote for Trump? Because they're never going to fucking tell you,
and then that's gonna be an argument that you didn't
want to have in the first place. So I would
just say, you know, pick up on the social cues
and the shitty the shittiness sooner as and just be
more aware of the people that you're conversing with and go, ah,
maybe they're not a good person, Maybe I don't want

(01:02:21):
to align myself with them because I'm just getting a
weird vibe, and just pick.

Speaker 2 (01:02:25):
Up I would say the way that they talk about
things like if they the way they talk about, for example,
the news or or finances or their job, like you
can kind of hear oh for sure, Like you know,
like obviously there's there's phrases like the fake news or
the mainstream media, Like there's certain catchphrases that are like
ingrained in these people's heads that make them someone who like, oh,

(01:02:48):
I don't think that's someone I want to you know,
we're anti vacs obviously, Like there's there's there you know
that they're gonna have certain phrases as well, So will.

Speaker 4 (01:02:55):
Save us all? Or Jesus and like not to shit
on religion, but like that is been the rhetoric behind
a lot of people who voted for Trump is like
he will always rain and the Lord will protect us
no matter what. And I'm like, I know you didn't
say you voted for Trump, but I know you voted
for Trump. So like between the lines with some of
those posts too, and it's like and.

Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
You know, bitch, if Jesus wasn't in your heart, you'd
deport him. So like, uh, you know, Jesus.

Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
Isn't white, and I don't think you like him if
he wasn't white.

Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
So and if whatever he was pretty whatever he was saying,
you'd call him some type of like woke loser if
he was like trying to, you know, talk about supporting
people and caring for people. Any type of conversation that
relates to says the word, uses the word anyone, use
the word alpha or anything like that, beta, sigma, anything
like that, says simping, things like that, Like those are

(01:03:45):
all like little words that people use that if you
hear them, even in the ifs not referring to you,
but in some of the capacity, I'm like, that's those
are like signs that that person is probably not someone
worth worth talking to.

Speaker 4 (01:03:54):
This is a weird one for me, But when a
guy says female, yep, just females in general, and it
happens a lot in just like a professional setting. Both
like I don't just like weird weird formal setting. I
wouldn't even say, like my job, but just formal settings
where someone's like, oh, this female or whatever, and I'm like,

(01:04:14):
I don't like that, I really for that's a that's
a red flag. That's just like a trigger, not a
red red red flag, but like that's a trigger for
me of like, let me take a step back and
actually evaluate this person, because you just said a word
that really alarm bells went off a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
It very rarely has a positive connotation. People usually only
say female when they're saying something negative, and so that
I think it does go to the like I think
it is almost a red flag. I would say that
there are limited change situations, like the military can sometimes
like people who like went to the military, sometimes female
is and male.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
Is like what they say, So that's that that's how they.

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
Describe, you know, like people who like like describe a person.
But if you're referring to I mean, this is a
good time to remind everybody that that female is an additive,
it's not really an So if you're going to describe people,
how about women, you know and men and you know,
also people who say girls all the time, like you know,
and like I said, like I have I have the
group chat girls because that's kind of like what they

(01:05:11):
call themselves, like it's a you know, but like otherwise,
it's important to realize that it's men and women. You're
not men and girls. And if someone's continuously referring to
like adult women they're talking to as girls, that that
might start to that might be something like a trigger
to keep in mind at least at least at least
something to keep in the back of your mind until
they add up other things.

Speaker 4 (01:05:29):
It's like maybe it's I see that just older generations
also just stuck with saying that too, like my my
dad is not right now.

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
That's why.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
That's why it's like a little thing, because it's because
the thing is, it's like because people think, well, boys
and girls, but also there's guys and girls, and so
there is a a kind of an adult version guys
and girls, like is a is something people say, so
I can understand that, but it's something to keep in mind.
It's one of those things like like a lot of
these things are like a like a like a cup
that you're just kind of adding like a little layer.

Speaker 1 (01:05:59):
Of or too until it overflows. And when it overflows,
like that's too much.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
You know, like these are all they I'll just kind
of add to it. But I definitely think that, you know,
most of all, did just find your community, find people
who will support you, who you can support as well.

Speaker 1 (01:06:15):
Don't despair that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:17):
I think that's that's that's something I mean, the the
amount of calls to suicide hotlines after the election, especially
among trans and queer population, escalated, uh like astronomically. And
so you know, I think that I tell people, you know,
you're you're not alone. I think it's important for people

(01:06:37):
to know that.

Speaker 4 (01:06:38):
And there's a huge group of people who didn't fucking vote.
Don't forget that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:44):
You're a vocal country, you know.

Speaker 4 (01:06:46):
Yeah, we don't wear red hats, so we're harder to
pick in a crowd, right, but we're fucking here, and
we also side with you, like we feel the same
things you do to some degree, and we're we all
want the same things on this side. So just know
that we're out here. We're just not wear We're not
as We're not wearing fucking hair ash shirts or never

(01:07:07):
Surrender shirts or fucking maga hats. We're just we're here.
We're quiet.

Speaker 2 (01:07:12):
Yeah, we're just people who have empathy and compassion and
actually the ability to understand logic and facts and things
like that, and and so that.

Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
Plenty of us exist.

Speaker 2 (01:07:21):
And it is more than the majority, Like that is human,
it's more than the majority of Americans.

Speaker 1 (01:07:27):
This election is not the majority of Americans. It was
a majority of the.

Speaker 2 (01:07:30):
People who actually voted, which is still something like a
third of the country.

Speaker 1 (01:07:36):
So keep that in mind.

Speaker 2 (01:07:38):
There's a lot of people that don't vote, there's a
lot of people who can't vote, not eligible, etcetera. But
like so like it is not is not the majority
of the country. So you're not alone, and that is
extremely important for people to remember. Of course, we're all
we're we're you know, we're around and you know, I want.

Speaker 1 (01:07:54):
People just to feel feel comfortable to uh to you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:56):
Know, I'm I'm I'm the person that everybody always reaches
out to, and I am I want people to know
that they always can via whatever whatever means necessary.

Speaker 4 (01:08:04):
That's so true. And by reaching out, you can also
reach out to our DKs hotline at four zero seven
five one nine zero one eight one. We haven't plugged
it a lot this episode because you've been chatting about
a lot of other things, but that that is a
resource where you can always reach out and we'll listen
to your message, respond back, play it on air.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
Yeah exactly, or email it's at Dating kind of Sucks
podcast at gmail dot com. Before we get to the
rest of our stuff too, I do want to talk
about I don't know what we're going to do with
the podcast for the future right now, we're still trying
to figure that out. Because Sarah isn't dating than doing
dating talking about.

Speaker 4 (01:08:35):
Dating staff it's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:08:36):
It's hard for.

Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
Her, and because I'm not really doing too much dating
like it's the and and because you know, things seem
like there's just a lot more to talk about that
has nothing to do with, you know, dating dynamics that
we're we're trying to figure out what to do, whether
we you know, keep this going, whether we decide to
sunset it and you know, do something separate, or I.

Speaker 1 (01:08:56):
Don't know, we really don't know. We're still still figuring
it out.

Speaker 2 (01:08:59):
But we want people to, you know, stay stay with
us for now because whatever we do, we will you know,
we'll obviously be doing another well we'll do at least
another episode to talk about talk about that talk about
the future too.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
So I would recommend that if.

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
You are part of the uh, you know, if you
are one of our listeners and you haven't joined the
Facebook group, that's something that I'd recommend, and that that's
uh you know, you just go to Facebook dot com,
slash group, slash DKs podcast And I've been considering starting
a discord, but I don't know how many people I
have that are technologically savvy enough that would actually want
to be part of that. But uh yeah, like I

(01:09:33):
think most people don't know what a discord is unless.

Speaker 1 (01:09:35):
You're really nerdy, so I do. But yeah, oh I'm
impressed it only douse Roy.

Speaker 4 (01:09:40):
No, I had to do it for an influencer things.

Speaker 2 (01:09:43):
Like we actually both had to join discard for for
an influencer thing one time too. That one went terribly wrong,
you remember that, the one that we had that was like, yeah,
that was awful. I'm not going to pitch our patreoon
because we're not going to put any bonus contact up
there right there, right now, and I feel like, save
your money on other things.

Speaker 1 (01:09:57):
We'd like, let's not worry about that.

Speaker 4 (01:10:00):
Yeah, we got to figure out what we're doing.

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
Yeah, but but yeah, but you can also you know,
subsgard to our YouTube.

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
We have you know, episodes up there. I need more content.

Speaker 2 (01:10:08):
I'm still going to continue to create content now that
I'm you know, it's still my plan.

Speaker 1 (01:10:11):
I just needed a break.

Speaker 2 (01:10:12):
That's YouTube dot com slash dating kind of sucks, and
of course our Instagram at dating kind of sucks.

Speaker 4 (01:10:18):
And then of course our personal tiktoks Adam needs to
create more content on TikTok. His is at adam Aviatable
and mine is at simply sarah g Underscore and mine
is just a place for travel and.

Speaker 2 (01:10:27):
Which is also your Instagram too, right it is also
I do recommend if you haven't followed Sarah's Instagram yet,
this is a good time to do so, especially because
obviously with us making less a fewer episodes, you can
see a lot of our content, and our content has been,
you know, pretty good, So I would definitely recommend following
our Instagram.

Speaker 4 (01:10:42):
Not fantastic, just pretty.

Speaker 1 (01:10:43):
Good, fantastic content.

Speaker 4 (01:10:45):
I'm fucking with you. It's fun, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:10:48):
I'm I'm still on Twitter, our ex that hell site.
It has gotten worse and worse every day. But if
you are joining all the new social media's, you can
find me on blue Sky and on thread as evitable,
and I'm going to start posting there.

Speaker 1 (01:11:03):
So Twitter from now on, because I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:11:05):
Going to skuy is really picking up because it's made.
It's created by the people who actually created Twitter, with Jack.

Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
From Twitter did it and now he left it and
he's trying to get people to stay with Twitter.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
Which is really weird. So he's problematic.

Speaker 2 (01:11:18):
But like everyone else behind a blue sky is a
is a good is like good there, And it's a
decentralized type of thing, so it's not as it's not
something that someone can just take over either, which is.

Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
A good thing.

Speaker 2 (01:11:28):
So yeah, that is good, so you should give it
give it a shot.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
That and I said, Threads actually isn't too bad either,
like they've been doing a better job like increasing engagement
things like that. I kind of have a little bit of.

Speaker 2 (01:11:40):
What I like about threads is that it will it
propagates throughout Facebook and Instagram sometimes, so that if you
have a thread that really does well, it'll just show
up on Instagram or Facebook like in there uh people's
feeds and so like it can actually boost your engagement
sometimes that way. So from like a pure engagement standpoint,
I kind of like that.

Speaker 4 (01:11:57):
But what's Facebook?

Speaker 1 (01:11:59):
Yeah, what's face spook? That's true. And then yeah, of
course you know we're on Spotify. You can follow us there.

Speaker 2 (01:12:04):
We're on iTunes if you haven'tny given us a rating,
We've been asking for seven fucking years to get rating
and review on iTunes, So maybe maybe you're not going
to by now. I don't know, it doesn't matter. I
don't care.

Speaker 4 (01:12:16):
They've lost hope, we've lost hope.

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
We've all lost hope. Yeah, you know, what's a what's
the five star rating? Anymore? Anyways? We have we have,
we have hundreds of them, but you know, w what's
another one just to help us?

Speaker 4 (01:12:28):
Fuck it?

Speaker 1 (01:12:28):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:12:29):
I mean, listen, when you've got Joe Rogan and Nick
Flentas all with the best top podcast, who gives a
ship what ours has? Because you know everybody wants to
listen to them and rant about them stupid the.

Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
Right ones there. Clearly, when you have more, you're.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
Just right exactly that more just means more means right.

Speaker 2 (01:12:47):
Yeah, So we'll be back whenever we decided to come back.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
Is it likely to be before the end of the year.
I'd like to think so. I'd like to think have
one before.

Speaker 4 (01:12:55):
The end of the year, probably in December.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
Yeah, probably December because with you being gone and all that.
But then yeah, well we'll do something. But I hope
to hear from you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
If any of you has anything, you have, any like,
anything you'd like to ask or reach out about, please
please don't, please, don't hesitate.

Speaker 4 (01:13:11):
There is hope out there. Don't don't despair. We're here.
This past week has been hell. Yes, get it, we
get it, We got it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
Until next time.

Speaker 4 (01:13:22):
Until next time.

Speaker 3 (01:13:24):
Whether you're married or single or probably you're a praying
and I Wistminger's back at your place, listen to us
as been getting no buck, A tendermin muffle of plenty
of young trying and trying and happen to bluck because
we all know dating kind of sucks. Sarah and Adam

(01:13:46):
are Dulova kind says stupid shit and she doesn't mind.
They're not doing with this, so don't make any fuck
light but a chicken woos panday pluck. So why does
it work? We'll hear with the bruck.

Speaker 4 (01:13:54):
They all know.

Speaker 3 (01:13:57):
Dating kind of sucks.

Speaker 1 (01:14:00):
In lady kind of sucks

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