Ten Good Things in 2025

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hi, I'm Adam.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Ethavitable and I'm Sarah.

Speaker 1 (00:05):
This is the dCas Podcast, a podcast about love, sex, culture,
and society. This week we'll be focusing on a few
good things happening amongst the chaos of twenty twenty five.
Enjoy the show whether you're.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Married or fingle brnging and on Witzmanner's back at your place,
Listen to us and be getting buck a tenderb and
mumble of plenty of young trying and trying and happen.

Speaker 4 (00:27):
To blunk because we all know dating kind of sucks,
and in a blink.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
Of an eye it's March. Well, we spent the first
two months of the year saying to each other we
should talk about this on air, as we spent time
on the phone pretty much every day reviewing the latest
and greatest horrors and atrocities. And I think we were
just too shell shocked and busy with life to figure
out what we want to say. But better late than ever,
here we are.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
That's right. Sure, Well, I'm probably are at least making
this episode in the first quarter of the year, but
with each day it seems like it's a week long.
And yeah, it is hard to believe that it's already March.
But we think the best way to just digest everything
that's been going on is to also bring in some
much need to positivity, and so we're going to catch

(01:14):
up with our lives first and then talk about some
good things going on in the world, and then you know,
maybe wrap it up with things terrible, things that are
going on in no particular order. So, Adam, let's talk
about the real reason why we haven't recorded an episode
in a couple of months.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yes, I'll take responsibility if I have to, for you were.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
To be fair, you were sick for most of January.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
It feels like, you know, I actually forgot that I
was sick. Everything else has happened. Yeah I was. I
got knocked on my ass right around the beginning of that.
I feel like the New Year was when I really
got knocked on my ass, and yeah I had that,
and I just, yeah, I wasn't feeling it. I just
like we were about to record and I was like,
I just can't think about trying to record. Like it

(01:58):
just feels because it so you and I ran to
each other and I ran. I don't mind ranting online,
but it just feels like sometimes you know, my rants
were used to be the minor part of our shows,
like they used to be, like the small.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
It used to be used to be.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Uh huh sometime, I'm saying it used to be like
just I would go, we would talk about a topic,
and then I would have a minute, you know, a
minor rant, just something small, and like the idea of
it being just a full rant for the entire time
was emotionally draining and I just couldn't do it. And
so I finally am here and ready and happy to
talk about some things because I think at this point
it's just gotten so absurd that you just we have

(02:33):
to talk about it. And I really feel like that
that's really where we are right now.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Well, I also think too, with the news that happened
in January, we were like, should we talk about it yet? No,
Let's wait and see. Should we talk about it yet? No,
let's keep waiting. And now it's March.

Speaker 1 (02:47):
I think we were all just waiting for Luigi to
show up, and he didn't, so now we have to
talk about it, because.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
I mean, he did show up with some nice ankles.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
I heard, there's something I heard there's some type of
sex video.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Now the first track of the ankle.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, no, no, no, there's now a thing saying that he
actually has recorded like they found in it, like in
his phone or something like a whole bunch of like
hardcore sex scenes.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
No like him.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
Okay, but I think I didn't know that. So that
was something that popped up today. I was like, whoa, yeah,
and all people are like I need to see those
for research purposes, just in the sake of you know,
you know, journalism, which is pretty funny. But yeah, so
why do we how do we recap the last last

(03:34):
two and a half months, three months? I guess, yeah,
I mean it's it's only it's in the beginning of March,
so it's only actually been two full months.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah, but we stopped recording before the holidays to get.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
Yeah, I round up. I don't even remember Christmas, like
in any I don't remember anything about Christmas whatsoever. I
don't remember. I know I didn't really celebrate because I
normally don't do anything. But like I feel like my
group of like group chat friends, they did something thing
for Christmas and I just didn't do anything at all.
I think I just stated and play video games. I
really don't remember that and then I was gonna do

(04:07):
something for New Years, but I wasn't really feeling great,
and so I stayed in and that was good. And
then I was sick for a bit and I've started
now a new new thing that I do now every
morning because I was drink water in the morning.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
That's you know, really not coke or diet coke.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
I think I've told you I don't drink coffee your tea,
but in the morning, I always have a bottle of
water sometimes too, that's my like my morning stuff. And
then I'll drink a diet you know, coke zero for lunch.
But I've now started putting a thing of emergency in
it every day. I was like, at least I get
my vitamin you know, vitamin c uh boost every day.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
And I've actually, you're not taking vitamins because I.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
Don't take because I'm terrible taking vitamins.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
And dude, you're like closer closer to fifty.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
Supposedly, I said, I'm terrible vita. So I I you know,
I got I can't take pill vitamins because they make
me nauseous, which my mother had the same thing, so.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
She couldn't take gummies.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Well, yeah, so I had the gummies for a while,
but then I wouldn't take them enough, and then they
would all like morph into like together because I didn't
take them frequently enough. So at least now I'm getting some.
I'm just you know, drinking with my water in the morning.
So that's that's that's a plus.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
Some as in just one vibe.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
I think Emergency has more than just Vitamin C. I
feel like it's it's got a few other packs.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Really, Okay, I don't maybe I couldn't tell you the
last time I took VITA and see maybe college when
I was also not taking care of my body and
getting sick a lot.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Yeah, but I haven't been sick, you know. I haven't
been sick in the last couple of months, so that's good.
I had had some great you know. So yeah, we
made it to the new year, and then it's funny
like January, all of a sudden, I said, I remember
when I first moved here that I was going to
give it at least two years. And we talked about it,
and I said, I feel like it takes at least
a year to really get to know a place, to

(05:44):
really like kind of have a good understanding of of
of an area and really start before it feels like home.
And I feel like you kind of felt that way
with Seattle too, right, Like it takes that first year
to even really start to feel like you kind of
know your way around and you know things and everything too.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Because everything's new. Yeah, so everything feels more exciting in
the first year basically.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah, and it also feels like is it permanent and
you know, it feels it has it has like a
it doesn't it has an impermanence to it. And so
finally it was weird. But I feel like once I
kind of felt better in January and started like doing
things again, it immediately felt like a very different environment.
Like I felt a little more involved. I started booking
actual comedy shows. I started like, you know, doing doing

(06:23):
some things like going out to you know, doing more,
and it's been it's been kind of nice. And I
started really kind of maybe embracing the community a little
bit more. So that's that's been. You know, what I've
been doing mostly is I've been going on on a
few more dates. I've been booking comedy, I've been performing,
and I've been hitting up my.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
Local photo shoots.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
Photo shoots and my local dive bar as well, where
I'm a regular now and my group tef friends are
really impressed when we go to this one bar. And
by the time it's like you walk in at the
end of the bar and then you go to the
register which to place your order or whatever. You know,
by the time I get to the register, they usually
have my drink sitting there, and my friends are always
impressed to that, like how you haven't been here. You've

(07:04):
been here the same amount of time we have, and
somehow like they know your drink to such a degree
that they already have it sitting there. Yeah, and photo
shoots was funny because we had it snowed like crazy here.
Uh you know, we don't get much snow until but
when it does snow, it shuts down the entire town
and now of the snow, but it froze, so it

(07:25):
snowed all day. I would say that it was it
was enough snow that people were like having snowball fights.
You couldn't really make a snowman with it, but it
was enough. It was probably you know, probably a foot
maybe two feet of snow, like it was a lot,
and then you can.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Build a snowman with that meant that much snow.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Like two feet is if you think about like what
you pressed, it really is not much two feet is
is really you know, like that's not a lot of
snow for for me making a snowman.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
Twelve inchest is a lot of snow for a lot
of places.

Speaker 1 (07:52):
A foot yeah, okay, but but it was, you know,
it was a lot. But it also, like I said,
it froze immediately too, like and then it then it
dropped from like snow weather to like six degrees seven
degrees out And I had told my friend who's also
a model, that if we if it did snow on
this Tuesday, I was like, we need to go out
and try to take some cool snow shoot you know,
shots and everything while while it's there, because it's not
gonna be there for long. So we took the afternoon

(08:15):
and we went to like this one park that was
completely snowed over, and she had like a blue dress
and thought'd be really cool just to have her like
little gold blue and stuff with snow. But it was
so cold, like I was bundled up and couldn't wear
gloves because I couldn't operate anything with gloves. So it's
no gloves, and I so I went out in the
middle of the snow, set up my my equipment, and
then like she was in the car with all the
heat on because all she was wearing was a dress,

(08:35):
like a little tiny slip of a dress, you know,
it wasn't like a full dress. So then she ran
out in the snow. We spent like two minutes taking
photos and then like I started, it started to get
like she was getting freezing, so then she ran back
in the car, and then I brought all the equipment.
Then we went to a couple of other places but
I don't know. And then we went to a couple
of other places and did some some shots and then
we're sitting in and actually the one the only, the

(08:57):
only place in Intelsa that was open in the end,
late afternoon, early evening, it was was this bar that
I go to called Arney's. They're open every day regardless,
like it doesn't matter what it's gonna be, like there
could just they're always going to be open. Every other
place in town is closed. So there's no traffic, no
cars anywhere. There's like two people in the bar and
the bartender and we're sitting in there having just kind
of having a drink, just trying to like, you know,

(09:18):
kind of warm up a little bit until we try
something else. And I said, well, you know what would
be cool we be like a shot in the middle
of the street, like of downtown Tulsa, where there's no
traffic and just like in just snow you can't usually
get that there's always gonna be cars coming by. And
she's like, well, yeah, I've got you know, I've got
just like a pair of panties or something with like
a bra that would they would do great. I was like,
how about just topless? Would be fine with that? She goes, yeah, yeah,

(09:39):
let's do that. She goes, I don't care to see me.
This is fun.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
And what is the temperature outside?

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Seven degrees? It is seven fucking degrees. So we we
go to her cars parked on the curb. We get
in her car. She has the heat on, she has
heated seat, she has everything, everything's heated, and she's just
waiting and I'm waiting and I'm stepping out in the
middle of the street to make sure there's no cars
coming and going to give her the signal, and she's
stripping down. So she's ready to just immediately jump out

(10:04):
of the car, come over, take photos, and then jump
back in. And so then this truck pulls down the street,
so I'm waiting for that, and it pulls in behind
the car, and I realized that I think it's the
owner of the bar. I was like, oh, then he
doesn't and she doesn't care, you know whatever, So that's fine.
But he pulls in behind us, Okay, we're going to go.
So then I'm like go. So she jumps out of
the car, runs the street, spends maybe three minutes taking
photos because like that's really I'm just like quick, quick,

(10:24):
qicklessen because I can know she's freezing her ass off,
and she's topless and just wearing panties and shoes and
she's just like dancing around on the street where they
got a bunch of cool shots. And then she jumps
back in the car again, and she does that and
then gets ready and the heat starts bundling up again,
and the truck opens and it is the owner and
he says I said hi to him, and he says, hey, yeah, yeah.
So I thought today would be really great with no

(10:44):
traffic and not a lot of people, would be a
really great day for me to teach my fifteen year
old son how to drive in the snow. And I
was like, oh my god, he goes yeah. So I
feel like, yeah, I think he just had the best
day of his life. He's going to be talking about
that literally for the rest of his life. He's gonna
be like in his forties and be like, yeah, this
one time when I was a teenager, there was no

(11:05):
no one in town and there was somebody like literally
like naked in the street taking getting photos taken. It
was the weirdest thing ever, you know. But yeah, And
I talked to him later and I was like, uh,
you didn't carry goes No, No, it's fine. Whatever. The kids
have seen I own a bar, like, they've seen a
lot many things, you know. But it was just so
funny because I wasn't paying attention to my son was like, hey, Dad,

(11:26):
why is that woman naked in the street? You know,
she's she's really wow, she's really naked. And He's like, yeah,
it looks like she is. And so that was that
was really funny.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
It's great.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
Yeah. So we did a few shots like that. Some
of them came out great, some of them didn't. Just
because literally, like she was trying so hard to keep
just staying neutral with her like her expressions and everything,
but she was so cold that her face was like
and a few of them well they literally like scrunched
up like you know, like as you would as when
you're cold. And uh so, but it was it was
really fun. I had great time to do it, and
I got a couple. I got like two really great shots,
which is really all I all I could hope for

(11:59):
something like that. So that was that was fun. And
I'm glad that she, you know, put the effort into
doing it.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
Question, would you do it again?

Speaker 1 (12:10):
Yes, she would do She was happy. She was really
happy with everything too good. So yeah, so that that
was fun. And then apparently though she didn't really eat
that day, so also had was the drink that we had,
and then she went home and didn't need dinner, and
then like the next day it was like almost fainted
and stuff like that. And I was like, is that
because you were in the cold for so long? And

(12:30):
I started feeling bad about she from me. She promised
that it wasn't, but I still felt a little bad.
But each time I was like, as soon as you're
not Okay, let's that's fine. I didn't want to like
push her anything. I made sure she was one hundred
percent like into it, and she's like, no, this is
fun and it is fun. Second, right, not in three minutes,
you can't you know, like you know, it's not it's
not going to tell you that quickly.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
But if she never warms up again, well right.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
Right, yeah, well yeah, so she keeps getting Yeah, but
I mean we had her heat like we were getting
overheated in the car to that degree too, like once
we were back in the in the car. But it
was interesting. But she really dressed for though, because she
had she had like electric socks and pants and her
jacket and her like gloves were all like usby would
plug in so you could charge them and then they

(13:13):
actually heat up. So like she like her socks were
like heated socks and thing, which was I was like,
this is the way to go because she's also tiny,
so like you know, when it's cold, she's really getting gold.
But yeah, so there's that. That was fun, you.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
Know, just a normal day for you, normal day for me.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
Yeah, my normal day is going out in the middle
of the snow taking naked photos. Absolutely, but you know what
else is happening. I got you know, I got sucked
in by TIMU is something that happened?

Speaker 2 (13:43):
Do you sound like a grandparent?

Speaker 1 (13:45):
I got scammed? Why didn't get scammed? Per se? I
mean I just got sucked in by them because like,
I needed some supplies for a photo shoot, and I
was looking around to the places and they actually had pretty,
you know, pretty decent prices for what I wanted. So
I ordered some stuff from them, which is great, and
they started offering all these free credits and all these
like you know, free things and free gifts if you

(14:06):
do this, and so I was like, let me try
to maximize this. So the next time I need to
place in an order, I was like, I want to
get free ship, and so I tried to maximize my
order with the free gifts and and I actually did
work to the degree that like I got there's like
eight free gifts that I got. I just had to
make sure I logged in every well, so some of
it is so I might I'm try to log in

(14:26):
every day and get and like, and you have to
claim your free gift every day, and then shipping is
free and they ship it out to you. So I
did get actually free things, and where I found the
value probably was like things like I got a power
bank for my like you needed to charge any USB devices,
you know, like one of those that holds like up
to four charges, and that's actually pretty good. I got
like a you know, a power strip that I needed,
which is good, and I got a few like and photos,

(14:48):
like accessories for photo shoots were pretty cool. But then
I did something like I there was like a I
was like, I feel like I need more bawls and
plates and forks because I just I seem like I'm
always like almost my last one, even though I do
dish is pretty frequently. So like they had a selection
that was like you know, ten forks and spoons and
plates and bowls, and it was a free thing. So
I was like, yeah, I'll get it. And then I
get it. I'm like, this is a the fork is

(15:11):
like you know, like yeah, well, no, it's it's for
people who maybe are not me. It's I would say, uh,
maybe for an Asian Asian population, maybe with smaller hands
generally speaking or whatever. I wouldn't say it's four kids.
I think it is an adult thing, but I think
it's just for tiny adults. I think it's for It's
just like if I were to go through and like
walk around in Japan or China, where I just would

(15:32):
not fit in in most places, the same type of
thing like it just it was such a tiny fork
like it was just like they're all so tiny, the bowls.
I can palm the bowl in my hand like and
it just feels like it's a cup, you know, Like, so,
I mean I still have some value and the exactly. Yeah.
And then did you see the sex story one?

Speaker 2 (15:52):
No, I try not to pay attention to your dumbash
it on. So I saw you bought something on TV
and I just scrolled past it and rolled One of
the things.

Speaker 1 (16:03):
That I was like, all right, I'll try this was
a full It was a full Torso sex toy. So
basically it's like a full Torso realistic skin just with
a vagina and a butthole.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
That was Yes, that's what that was.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
So I was like, I want to try these one
that could be kind of fun, you know, that could
be kind of fund out, like a full body thing
you could just you know, just totally go to town on.
So I got it, and then I get it and
it's it's as big as a pall. It's basically yeah,
like it's like a flesh light, but like it really
it's just such a miniature torso. And I was like,
if I I would have just gotten a flesh light,

(16:38):
if I wanted like something just to like jerk off with,
I was like, this is gonna be something to fuck,
but no, and this is just something that, yeah, it's
so ridiculous, and so of course I had to post
I have it. It took it took so much lube
because it was yeah and I and and like so
like at one point I had like a fleshlight type

(16:59):
toy years ago that I used that was interesting. It
had like just a it had a mouth on one
end and then like all these little ribbed parts inside
and then a hole on the other side you clean
it out or whatever. So this one, it was like
it was that the holes were so small because it's
basically miniature towards that it was ridiculous. So finally when
I was like, like it almost hurt at first, and
then I was like, okay, I'm in, you know, and
then I had the load. Yeah I'm in, uh, and

(17:20):
so then and then it felt good on the inside. Yes,
it felt good. It didn't it didn't last long whether
it was good, which is great. But then here's the
worst part, and you're gonna love this, is that there's
no hole for it to come out at the end.
So then it's just like a depository for come like
it is just like it's just like holding all the commonside.
And so then I tried to like wash it out,
so I'm like spraying. I'm in the shower and I'm
like spraying the shower in the hole and so then

(17:43):
like comes like shooting out of it like as you spray,
like the spray, and it's just like, yeah, it's like
if you you know, like if you spray a spoon
and you just turn the hose on, like you turn
like that's what it was doing. It just like And
so I think I cleared it enough, but i also
don't want to use it anymore because I'm like, I
don't like the com has nowhere to go. Yeah, it's
that's gonna be yeah, So that would be I'd rather Yeah.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
So anyways, okay, speaking from the guy who had a
cupful of immediate trash, like you said you couldn't clean
it out properly. I already knew where that was going.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
I think it's cleaned out properly. Finally though, I think,
but yeah, it's not really something not really worth it.
But so that was my TEAMU issue, you know.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
Jesus, So what have we learned? What if we learned?

Speaker 1 (18:28):
Yeah that I need to pay attention to dimensions, but
when they're Chinese, it's kind of hard sometimes to figure
out what the dimensions of things are.

Speaker 2 (18:35):
So you would do it again?

Speaker 1 (18:37):
I was a full torso hell, yeah, well that would
be fun, that would be awesome.

Speaker 2 (18:42):
No, I mean buy something off.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Oh oh yeah, No, I still have a few final
things coming in. I think I'm done ordering anything from there.
I will order, like I said, accessories for photo stuff.
I will order because I feel like they have a
ton of stuff really cheap when I need a lot,
Like I'm doing a photos you where I need gold
coins and so I've ordered like fifteen hundred gold coins
from them, and I think it costs me maybe like
eighty dollars, you know, and which is not bad. So
like that's not that I can handle, you know, But

(19:05):
I just have to not trust. I have to trust a.

Speaker 2 (19:08):
Lot of gold coins.

Speaker 1 (19:09):
Well, because I'm doing a bathtub shoot where I want
the person to be bathing in gold coins and that's
still not enough. Like I like, I have it in
a like a tupperware a giant not a teper like
a rubber maid container now and it barely like it's
it's really not a lot. I'm like, God, I feel
like I need like maybe like ten thousand gold coins,
but that's way too much.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
So can you fill the tub with other plastic containers?

Speaker 1 (19:29):
That's what I think with the bacon shoot was like,
because a thousand beuse bacon really wasn't enough either. Is
that I got in the tub and then Lisa filled
in pillows around me, like to fill up the other space,
and then the bacon on top of that. So that's
probably what I'm gonna do. Or I'm gonna take the
gold coins and kind of like maybe glue them to
like a fabric or like a netting or whatever so
they're all like together, and then when you put it

(19:50):
on someone, you won't be able to tell that it's
all together, you know, or something like that. I like
that yet, Yeah, so I gotta figure that out. But
now I know now I have way too many gold coins,
so I know, I know it's it's somebody like I
don't know what to do with these after the photo shoot.

Speaker 2 (20:06):
It's getting ready for Saint Patrick?

Speaker 1 (20:10):
Is that your Irish accent? Can we can we let
it go? Please?

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Getting ready for Saint Patrick's Day?

Speaker 1 (20:23):
Wow, that was amazing. Yes for getting ready terrible? Yes,
of course it was terrible, But that was also.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
For the reason I don't do accents the fuck.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
All right, I'm I'm the'm talking about that stuff. We're
gonna get to you in a minute. But oh, I
also want to other people know I am very active
right now on threads and I'm enjoying it, and I'd
like more people to follow me on threads and follow
me on Facebook. Even if you don't add me as
a friend, you can follow my Facebook, and not just
because I'm monetizing it so I want more people to
see my ship, but also just in general. I'm actually
using Facebook to like to just post stuff and actually

(20:59):
get engagement and it has so if you are listening
and you want to follow me on threads or Facebook,
gets avisable for both of them, and that would be
great because I'm trying to build that right now. Just
since Twitter is dead, and you know, there's not really
another option. Blue Sky is not really taking off, and so.

Speaker 2 (21:16):
Roy doesn't think Twitter's dead, but it's not dead for
his reason of using Twitter, which is ship.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
Oh yeah, No, I mean I'm still on there and
I paid a lot of times because there is still
a lot of news on there and stuff that I
actually listened that I pay attention to. It's just dead
for comedic engagement, for like being a comedian or any
type of content content creator. It's dead like things like that,
like for what it used to be good for. That
part's dead, got it. Yeah, but it's still there's still
plenty of shit posting and ridiculousness on there, that's for

(21:44):
damn sure. Yeah. So we're gonna find out what's going
on in your life. But before we do that, we
are going to take a quick break, so we'll be
right back. Why don't you tell me a little bit
about what's going going on in your life and tell
the listeners.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
Let's see, I had a birthday. Well you know, actually,
yeah we both did. I got old. I got old.

Speaker 1 (22:08):
No.

Speaker 2 (22:08):
I think over the past couple of months, honestly, I've
really connected with my friend group even more than before
the holidays, and that's been that's been really great. I
have a good girl group now where we've had a
couple of girls' nights already this year, and that's been
fun because it's like the three of us and then
our boyfriends are all friends. So we'll get together and

(22:30):
we'll talk about sex stuff and then they're just like, oh,
what did you guys talk about? We're like whatever. They're like,
are you serious. I'm like, yeah, well that's what we're
talking about. So it's been really good to hang out
with that group of girls.

Speaker 1 (22:45):
That's great. I think there are so many sometimes when
they if they really knew like what people will talk about,
you know, it's it's because cause I get to be
part of the girl group, like the group chat and
they just pretend that I'm one of the girls when
they talk about everything, and so like it. It's always
interesting to hear the topics that get discussed.

Speaker 2 (23:04):
Honestly. Yeah, and it's not even me who brings up
the crazy shit either, it's one of my other friends.
She just she has no filter in the best kind
of way when she's comfortable around people and the drinks
are flowing. So she started this conversation about anal and
just her asshole. The conversation was about her asshole at first,
and just transformed this whole conversation into anal and just

(23:27):
ass play in general. And it was actually a really
funny conversation. But when one of the other girl's boyfriends asked, like,
how was how was girls' night and we told him
what was said, he's very shocked, like his poor baby
ears just we're not ready to hear what we were
talking about. But yeah, so that building connections in Seattle

(23:47):
has been really good and also just poll in general.
It's one of my goals this year to get better
at heels classes. I got heels for Christmas. Roy bought
me some new pole wear as well, and I've been
taking my regular classes. But I actually just installed a
pole into my office area so I can, you know,
access stuff and do moves more on my own. Even
though I feel like it is I can't just jump

(24:09):
on the pole and do a move. I need to
warm up and warm up the pole, so it's not
exactly one to one I can easily just do something.
But I am getting a lot better and I'm in
I've started with level one classes to now I'm at
level three and I still suck ass in level three
and I've been taking Level three since I want to say,
October of last year, but I've slowly gotten stronger and better.

(24:33):
So I mean there is progress in that. It's just
going to be you know, there's crazy shit that no
one can just do after seeing it done once and
go yeah, I can do that. You know, it's just
the fuck.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
I think it's fantastic that I want to say, seven
years ago when we first actually physically met and we'd
have been doing the podcast for you know, for like
six months, and then you came to Florida for Christmas
and we met at ale House and then we went
to Dancer. I remember I joked about you going to
Rachel's for amateur night and trying and like and we

(25:06):
would but I'm saying we joked about it, but you
were very like I would like I would like it was.
It was a very different you that I love that
that that like full circle of coming here now that
now you're like you enjoy the classes and like and
the trying with the heels and all that stuff. Like
I'm like, I could totally see you now deciding one
night just for the hell of it. Just be like
I'm gonna do an amateur night, just to see what
it'd be like at an actual club. Like once you

(25:28):
get good nothing, you're proud of it. I could see
you do with that. It's just I feel like it's
so funny that it literally seven or eight years later,
like it's it's it's a whole different Sarah.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
Yeah, I mean it's more of a hobby because before
I was looking, I wasn't really looking at pole dancing
as an exercise as much as I am now, where
it's incredibly physical and fucking tip it's strength training and
cardio depending on what you're doing. And before that, I
was just running and doing regular gym classes, so I
was not putting two and two together of how much

(25:56):
physical activity it actually took right to do those, Like, yes,
it's impressive, but I didn't think it was that demanding,
and I was wrong, obviously, And I don't know just
I don't work out any other way, but polled out
and it's a hobby but also a form of physical activity,
and I like that that's combined into one versus I

(26:16):
don't know, running or something else. I think that's more
more fun for me, and then also I'm thinking more
about the future of I've always liked to perform. I
used to, you know, coach a color guard team, do
color guard stuff, dance and all of that, and this
kind of scratches that itch that I haven't been able
to do in a really long time. And I've actually
started thinking, you know, in the next year or so,
now that I've gotten a lot better and I've only

(26:37):
been doing poll for a year and some change, but
I think I actually want to compete in certain categories
when there's circuits that come into Seattle. I think that
would be fun. And I take classes with a couple
other girls who competed and actually meddled, and they're like, oh,
it's not that serious.

Speaker 4 (26:53):
You know.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
You could just create a little two minute routine and
perform and it's very much like a showcase more than
it feels like a competition, which is fun. So that's
kind of my goal by the end of the year
is to compete in some form of poll competition. So yeah,
that's I mean, that's the momentum for practicing more of
my at home pole and doing all that, and you know,
job security if I get laid off tomorrow. I got

(27:15):
a backup job in the fucking bag. And I've legitimately thought,
you know what, other because I the girls, some of
the girls in my classes are strippers. They're not, you know,
publicizing it by any means, but I've found their social
media is just from sharing stuff with other instructors that
I'm like, oh, they work at that strip club. Interesting,

(27:36):
well write that strip club's name, dom just in case
you never know.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
I don't know, have you go market? Have you been
to one yet? Dude?

Speaker 2 (27:45):
I have been trying to get my Seattle friends to
go to a fucking strip club and Froyd's never been
to a strip club, none of it. I'm the only.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
I know I know trying to get them to go.
This is amazing. I love this so much. It's just
like this was like proud.

Speaker 2 (28:04):
This was like New Year's Eve or some random night
all at one of our friend's houses and we're like, oh,
what could we do? And I'm like, guys, let's just
go to a fucking strip club. Why not? They're like,
I don't know or no. It was like we were
going to be home for Christmas Eve or Christmas or
some shit, and I just suggested to the group, that's
what we should do, and obviously we didn't do it.
But I've been trying to, like slowly, let's let's build

(28:26):
a plan to go to a strip club one night
and just enjoy it. Because my other girl, the other
girl in my girl group, she started taking poll classes
probably like five or six months ago, and she's come
over and worked out on my poll and so we
have our little thing going too. So I think we
should just it's a community thing. We should just all
go to the strip club.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
I feel like maybe your group should go, Like if
if none of the guys want to, like, maybe just
the three of you should just go and make it
a girl's night. Sometimes you might have a good time.

Speaker 2 (28:53):
Probably, Yeah, I wouldn't be mad at that. I don't
see why the guys wouldn't want to go either, But
you know, I.

Speaker 1 (28:58):
Mean I remember when before i'd ever been to one,
being like it just feels awkward to me, you know,
until I realized it wasn't as bad as as you
kind of assume. You just you you don't have any
real sense of what the real ones are like. You
only know what it's like like on TV shows and
movies where it's it feels like it'd be awkward as
fuck until yeah, I mean your first time in one,
you're like, oh, this is actually kind of cool, Like
you didn't you didn't realize how how it was kind

(29:19):
of chill.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
I mean I didn't have to get a dance, you know,
of course people and what I put a five dollars
bill in a stripper's g string because you made Oh yes,
I didn't.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Strong I didn't force you. By the way, let me
just say I strongly encourage you to and gave you
the money to do it.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
With money.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
It was like, go put this in here. Yes I
did do that. I didn't. I just want to make
it clear that I did not force her to do anything.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
She had was just like a little baby at the time,
though what I do?

Speaker 1 (29:49):
Would I do that? That was great? Oh man?

Speaker 2 (29:54):
But yeah I have. I have grown up a lot
over that time period to where I am now encouraging
other people to go to a strip club, so becoming
more like you. I don't know, I'm not sure thing happening.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
That's great. Yeah, So we both had birthdays. So did
you do anything fun for your birthday? I don't remember now.

Speaker 2 (30:16):
So I've been so I've been hosting so the girls
groups I've been hosting. I've hosted my own birthday party
at the house and decorated it to shit and that
was crazy. And then I also hosted a Valentine's Day
Galentine's Day party and we made Valentine's Day cards for
the elderly and that was fun.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
The balloons on the ceiling, when was that?

Speaker 2 (30:37):
What was that for my birthday?

Speaker 1 (30:38):
That was your birthday? Okay, that was really cool looking, yea.
If anybody who saw, oh, yeah, of course it was.
But it was really cool looking.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
It was very cool. Putting them up and taking them
down took forever. Yeah, so I will never do that.
It's going to take years before I ever put that
kind of effort into something like that. But it was
really cool and I'm glad that I did it. I
don't know, I've I've flexed my hosting muscles a lot recently,
and now I'm kind of done. Like I did. I

(31:07):
did two big things back to back and then did
a small little girls night and I'm good. You know,
give me, give me wait until summer for me to
plan another thing. Really Oh yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (31:18):
Mean you know I used to throw those giant Halloween parties,
and that was really the only thing I could stand
to host because we would literally start planning them in
June to decorate the whole house for October, and then
then the Halloween party come and go, and then like
when Amy would want to do like Christmas dinner, you know,
for I would host for like twenty thirty people for Christmas,
so that'd be our other big event that we would

(31:39):
have to kind of do, and then I was just
like exhausted by them. So yeah, I can, absolutely, Yeah
you can't. You can't do too many hosting things unless
you have no job. Like if you were just like
you're just like a housewife, I just idle. You know,
you could host it, you could host something every weekend
because it wouldn't matter. You could, and you'd have the
staff of people to help you do it. But in
the real world it's hard to do. Yeah, it's hard
to do.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
Yeah. Yeah, I don't have unlimited resources. And that's the
other thing is it's expensive as as fun as Yes,
you can do it on a cheaper scale to host people,
but to do it the way that I want to
do it, I do end up spending a couple of
hundred dollars on decorations, on the ingredients for the food,
on just the little things here and there that you

(32:19):
buy that you don't realize you're gonna need. And I
don't have that money in my budget right now because
I am trying to save for a million other things.
So hosting is on hold. But uh yeah, besides that,
I would say Roy and I renewed our lease to
continue living in this house. We're happy in Seattle, and

(32:40):
yeah we're good. Like did you things are good? You
do not do not bring it up. Do not bring
it up. I know what I'm bring up. I don't know,
but if you say it, we're gonna have to cut it.
So I'm not sure. I don't know what you're gonna say.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
But if you talk about money, about trying to save
money and things, you're Nope, we can we can talk
about that.

Speaker 2 (33:00):
No, we cannot bring that up because Roy said we can.

Speaker 1 (33:03):
Why we're not going to talk about it. So it's
just we can't. We can't bring it up. It is
a tea you're so confused about we're talking about. Oh well,
I guess maybe maybe in the future episode someone will
he'll let us, let us discuss it, so we'll have
to see. So okay, we won't talk.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
About because I wanted to share that, and then he
was like, are you going to put it on your
close friends story? And he like kind of gave me
that look and I was like, no, I.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
Won't explicitly so you couldn't, couldn't. He just he just
asked a question.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
I wouldn't want. I wouldn't want to just because he
was kind of like, when I won't talk about it,
that's okay, that's okay. Well, besides that, everything's good, we're
respecting down.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Yes, No, that is that is important. That is important.
That's why I asked because I knew this was one that.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
Was going to ask, but I knew you were going
to I mean.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
I was like, yeah, I was close, but I was like,
I can't do it. So yes, we won't go there.
We are going to go on a quick break and then
we come back. We're going to get into we've decided before,
like we talk about some good things because we're real positively,
we're going to talk about all the bad shit that's
happening because we've gotta we got to counter the good
things by like talking about why it's been such a
fucked up year for those of you that have had
your head in the sand in the sand, or maybe

(34:13):
you just woke up from a from a ten year
coma and you're like, hey, it's it's March. What's going
to be going on? Guys? And like, you know, you
want to know what's going on in the world, So, yeah,
what year is it, Who's president? What? Yeah, you know,
we just we want to help you out, So take
quick break and we'll be right back. So the nice
thing about like Sarah and I's relationship is that we

(34:34):
talk pretty much during during the week almost daily, yeah,
pretty much every day, occasionally on weekends, and we usually
usually Sarah's going on a walk and talking and just
getting her daily exercise and while I'm usually either just
waking up or just starting to get some work done
and uh yeah, and it's usually just you know, we'll
talk about whatever's going on. But recently it's just become

(34:55):
a thing where Sarah's just has been purposely like not
like Panta men too much to the news, Like whatever
she catches, it shows up on our feed, she'll see,
you know, but like she's not going after it, whereas
I am like doom scrolling for like, you know, the
first three hours of the morning, like in bed before
I even get out of bed, and seeing everything that's happening,
and so we'll talk about all the shit that's been
going on. So I thought we should maybe, like, let's
talk about some of the crazy shit that's happened, and

(35:18):
you know, and just how amazing of a ship storm
the world is in actually the country is in. I
wan't say the world.

Speaker 2 (35:26):
These are the highlights that you might have missed if
you only.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
Yeah, basically like if you if you scroll past things,
or you only watch like, you know, the Disney Channel,
or or if you just woke up yeah, or or
I said, you know, you just you have no idea
what's been going on in the world, and you just
want to know how bad is it? Or if you're
a Republican and you're like, hey, I think things are
great because you only watch Fox News, and Fox News
doesn't tell you about any of the things.

Speaker 2 (35:50):
I don't think we have a lot of Republicans.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Not anymore anymore.

Speaker 2 (35:53):
We might have still, No, I think I think you've
done a great job of getting them the hell out
of here, which is yes, I'm.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
One hundred percent fine with that. But I'm not mad.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
If Republicans are still here either, because yeah, I mean.

Speaker 1 (36:06):
We might have a few, and maybe there's a few,
we're still like, you know, I don't think things are
that bad, So we can talk about things that are,
you know, like we should start with obviously doge, you know,
which is just by itself insane and like obviously like
the coin, yes, yeah, which is what he named it after.
Because Elon Musk is nothing but a thirteen year old

(36:26):
idiot is really what he is. Like this might be
where I'm going. Atsk is a thirteen year old idiot.
He has the thirteen year old mentality anything to just
be edgy, like the Nazi stuff. I don't genuinely think
he's he's a Nazi. I think he did the salute
because he thought it'd be funny to rile people up,
and then he keeps pushing different things because he thinks
it's it's funny. Now, I do think on the inside

(36:47):
he actually is a little bit of a white supremacist.
Maybe not necessarily a Nazi per se, because he does
tend to like and share a lot of content that
is white supremacist content. But I think his actions are
very much him just trying to rile people up.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Okay, but here's the thing. Nobody voted for his mother
fucking dumb ass. Why are we like, why do we
have to talk about him? If he was not on
the ticket?

Speaker 1 (37:11):
Yeah you know what I mean, Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (37:13):
If that's what's annoying, this was.

Speaker 1 (37:15):
Reversed and instead, if it was Kamala Harris in office
and Taylor Swift had started a her agency to to
you know, to remove a fit to improve efficiency for
the government, it was just randomly deciding to fire people
and things like that. Like Republicans would be like they
would storm the Capitol again, Like that's how angry they
would be. And they're all taking this in the ass

(37:38):
like just and enjoying it because Trump said it's okay.

Speaker 2 (37:42):
I mean, I wouldn't say all Republicans. There have been
the town halls where people are pissed off because of
Elon Musk. There are some people, that's true.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
They weren't at first. They were all like, yeah, it's
gonna be great. You know, He's gonna let me all
the efficiencies, get rid of all the all the parasites.
And then realizing that they're the parasites he's talking about,
because they're not parasites. He just thinks anybody who works
for the federal government as a parasite, and anybody who
gets assistance from the government is a parasite. And so
they they are realizing that they're the parasites. Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
Weird thing about doge is that it sounds like it's
just an agency that was just created out of thin air. Obviously,
he named it after the coin because he because he's
so clever, because comedy is legal. Now, let that sink in.
But that's what he did when he walked into Twitter headquarters.
Do you remember that he carried a sink in? He said,
let that sink in because he bought Twitter. And that
was like, that's when that's when I wish someone who

(38:34):
had probably luigied him at that point, right, there was like, right,
that was the moment that was like, it's a verb.
Now if it might be, if it wasn't already, I
just made it one. It probably already was. But here's
the really instant thing. I don't think you know this
is that people are saying, well, the Doge thing can't
be real, because it was like he has to go
to the congressional funding to become an agency, blah blah blah.

(38:54):
Weirdly enough, President Obama actually created an actual agency with
congressional approval and funding to establish technological efficiency and to
help agencies improve their technology and their infrastructures over time.
And it has funding, it has a mandate, et cetera.
And so some clever Republican there are smart Republicans surpriser,

(39:15):
Like there's a really really surprised some really clever Republican
actually realize this and just renamed the agency does so
that they do have So they do have congressional approval
through the Mandate of Technology. Now that doesn't mean they
can just fire people, that that part is overstepping, but

(39:36):
they actually do have the rights to go in and
update the technology as he says he's doing. So that's
just kind of an interesting, interesting thing that there is
suddenly there like so now because people be like, oh, well,
it's purely illegal, which is what I was saying in
the beginning, Well, no, they figured out a way to
try to sneak it in. It doesn't change the fact
that all these savings they say they're having millions of dollars
billions of dollar savings have all been walked back. They

(39:56):
had a website where they had them all listed, and
they changing the numbers and reversing it because they realized
that these aren't actual savings. Like they canceled a bunch
of contracts that had expired in like the eighties and
said this was savings because these contracts existed, counting the
value of contracts that were already completed as somehow being
something like that they were saving money on the contracts

(40:19):
haven't been in effective for forty years. I know, I
can talk about dose for yeah. Just but the all
the all the ship they've done, I mean the fact
they fired a bunch of people and then and then
immediately now they're trying to rehire some people and they
can't find them because they did such a shitty job
firing them in the first place, like you know, things
like nuclear scientists and air control. Fucking Elon posted saying, hey,

(40:43):
we're in the search for for qualified air control traffic controllers.
Air traffic controllers, please reach out if you are because
they fired people that were qualified that they shouldn't have fired.
And yeah, it's and then the other thing I'm Gona
taged that I'm done with dog. The other thing that
they did was they did a search for the world
word like diversity and gender and like a few other

(41:04):
keywords and just deleted entire agencies and websites that had
those keywords in it. Now, the word diversity and diverse
has a variety of meanings, including talking about medical conditions
where you can have diverse medical conditions, diversity of treatments.
So there's whole pages that were essential medical documents and

(41:25):
stuff online that got deleted because they had the words
in them. And these fucking people are so stupid that
they can't even read the goddamn context to understand that
the word just because it has the word diverse doesn't
mean it's about d I. So just let it burn
just and d of course it's just another phrase for racism.

(41:46):
We know that, you know, it's just obviously another It
just hits anyways, So every.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
Day we would talk about whatever new thing is in
the news and whatnot, But it just gets to a
point where you just have to laugh at how fucking
stupid the article you're reading is and the quotes that
are in them, and you're like, oh, this is real life.
This isn't a fake onion post or anything. This is, yeah,

(42:14):
a real NPR article or whatever, because.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
The people who are like making these statements are literally
some of the most emotionally immature, like childish bullies and
morons that I've just that I've ever encountered. I mean,
our Defense secretary is now what a Fox News guy
who won'ted do?

Speaker 2 (42:32):
Yeah, he was like, I don't know who invaded Russia?

Speaker 1 (42:35):
He said that, and then they're like, oh really, and
then they showed the clips of him on the news
talking about Russia and invading Ukraine, and I was just like,
how do you, like, how does I don't understand the
mindset of someone who sees that hypocrisy shown right to them,
that they just their own hypocrisy, And you don't immediately
just go kill yourself because I really feel like that's
the only solution. You should just just die, Just go

(42:58):
walk into the woods into you've never seen again. That's
what that's what they should do, because how do you
how do you live through that? How do you have
any any ability to be a public again?

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Adam, there's no accountability for anything anymore that the integrity
that used to exist with people holding public office. If
there was a scandal, it would fucking wreckue. Nothing is
going to wreckue anymore.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
But I'm not even worried about the public wrecking or
with other people. I'm just like, how do you like,
as a human being, say like I don't know who
invaded who? And then people like, well, here you are
saying who invaded who? Now what? And how do you
just be like, oh, I'm sorry, let me go eat
some carbon monoxide in my car in my garage because
I don't deserve to continue breathing, Like, how do you?
How does that not your response when you are caught

(43:43):
in such a it just being so blatantly stupid.

Speaker 2 (43:46):
Because you're surrounded by other fucking idiots who are propping
you up to continue this narrative that you're all in
on it, So it doesn't matter if someone catches you
in the act of it, Who gives a fuck? Just
it off and keep going with your idiocracy whatever. That's
the whole It's the cronies that they're all hanging out with.
They're all moving in this idiot direction, so if someone

(44:09):
calls them out, who cares?

Speaker 1 (44:11):
They don't give the just It's just yeah, I know
it's just it's a self. It's a self. Yeah, I
just don't understand it as as someone who takes pride
and being integ in being and having integrity. It just
blows my mind to see that.

Speaker 2 (44:23):
The inverse of imposter syndrome the opposite.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
Just there is no there's no too much audacity syndrome.

Speaker 2 (44:30):
Yeah, I guess you had too much on us. If
nothing matters, it.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
Is it's the mediocremand syndrome. That's what it is. Like.
We are basically the guys who think that, you know,
they should tell a woman that she's too fat on
the internet. These are the guys running the country now,
it really is. It's that all the men that we've
talked about for many years, they're somehow in charge for
a little while.

Speaker 2 (44:49):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
And it's exhausting.

Speaker 2 (44:51):
Yeah, that's why do you want to just hit up
all the other things that are changing, Because I mean,
we could talk about this for hours, put all of
our phone conversations into one podcast episode and it would
be ten episodes.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
I think, I know, we really should just record our
phone conversation.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
No, we should not know we should, that's true, that
is not always.

Speaker 1 (45:10):
Yeah, I don't want to talk about all of them,
because I know we we're not going to keep make
this a frown.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
You put this list up here. I was like, let's say, idea,
I put it much bad stuff. Let's just say you
woke up, it's twenty twenty five and Trump is president again,
and you hope that it's just as good as his
first term. And I say good as in nothing, I mean,
COVID happened, but nothing was catastrophic in the way that
it is now. You know this is right because totally different.

Speaker 1 (45:36):
He had these Republicans around him who actually had some integrity,
and they had some some idea of like the actual
patriotism and some you know, belief in the system. And
he one by one eradicated all of them. And now
that of course they're all traders, every single one of them.
And he's removed their security clearances and things like that

(45:57):
because he doesn't, you know, because they dare to speak
out again. And now all he has are the sick
of fans who have stuck around and still thinks he
still think he's a genius.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
I mean, did you see Marco Rubio in the Oval office,
sitting on the couch. He wanted to kill himself. He
wanted to die.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
Yeah, but you know, he was one person that I
was like, you know, I even though I know he
keeps folding every time that he has shown multiple times
he doesn't have a spine, I keep waiting for him
to have a spine and finally be like, this is enough.
Because he was one of the Republicans way back before
the first Trump election that I was like, he actually
has potential, Like I feel like he could be someone
who's reasonable and he is just, but he's been sucking

(46:35):
the Trump dick like ever since and I just don't
I don't understand it. I don't understand why keep job security.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
It's job security. You want the money and the power
and yeah, but your job and hope that he'd hope
that Trump dies so that you can have a job
in the future. I mean, that's it's really just a
that's the plan.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
I feel like Secretary of States would like third in
line to the president, So maybe that's what is. He
just wants to hope that he dies. In jd. Vance's
head is so far up Trump's asset. He suffocates, and then.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
Then he's president, Speaker of the House, and then and
then the Secretary State. Maybe I don't know. I don't
know the order of Secretary of State, but it's up there. Sure.

Speaker 1 (47:14):
Yeah, and I love that. This is the first time
I see jd Vance and like in like two months,
like he's just kind of disappeared for a while, went
off and pissed Germany off for a little while, and
then showed back up again. Because Elon's been hanging around
the whole time.

Speaker 2 (47:25):
Did you see him go to Vermont?

Speaker 1 (47:26):
Oh? Yes, yeah, you got yeah bood going skiing, which
was fantastic. Elon of course, carrying his kid around on
his shoulders at all times because he's literally has a
human shield. Yeah, imagine that, using your child for that.

Speaker 2 (47:41):
Nothing. Okay, here's the thing, bad things. We're going to
wrap up. Nothing should be surprising. Read read an article
and just be mad for a second, and then you
just have to laugh it off or you will fucking cry.
It is that deep. But you can't let every single
news article kill you inside. You have to keep some

(48:02):
resilience of positive I don't try.

Speaker 1 (48:07):
I wanted to talk about the things after this as well,
so we can have a little bit of resilience.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
Sure, Okay, well, yeah, Well let's go on a little break,
and then you can regroup all that anger and turn
it into a positive vibe for the rest of the show.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
We can do that. I might have to rant about
good things.

Speaker 2 (48:22):
Can we can see what we can do, But I
would like a rant about good things. Who wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
All right, let's take a quick break.

Speaker 2 (48:31):
Well, Adam has done some I don't know, breathing exercises
in the past couple of minutes and has calmed down
for the time being. No guarantees though, So we're gonna
we're gonna share some good news and actually give like
a nice sigh of relief that good things are happening
or have happened in recent months. So here's my favorite
good news just because it's a Pacific Northwest story. And

(48:53):
I actually I'll just I love whale. I love seeing
the orcas and the whales and the Pacific Northwest. But
in no November of last year, this l pod group
of whales returned to this area where they were rounded
up and they actually took a handful into captivity and
a couple of whales were killed. And that happened in
like the early nineteen seventies, and since that incident where

(49:16):
they rounded all these whales up, there were no whales
to be seen. They never came back to this area.
It's off this island called Wouldby Island. They never came back,
and this past year they actually came back for the
first time since the seventies to swim through the area again.
It's like, Oh, nature is healing because you know, that's nice.
I like that time has passed and yeah, and everybody

(49:38):
loves seeing the whales and humans. Maybe more of the
episode is human suck, yes, but human suck. But the
whales came back anyways and gave us a second chance.
So that was a really fun community story that I
just love h.

Speaker 1 (49:54):
And actually related to the whales too that now humpback
whales have been singing a lot more. They've noticed and
they've been singing because there's a lot more they've been
a lot more food available for them, so their numbers
have been actually growing, so they've been a lot happier.
So the whales seemed like they're they're doing okay. And
then of course we've had all the orcs taken over,
you know, taken over yachts and knocking boats over, which

(50:14):
is great. I love that. Millionaires those are fantastic.

Speaker 2 (50:17):
Yeah, great news. Let's see Big Brother Big Sisters reopened
their New Orleans location and they had been closed since
a little after Hurricane Kadrina. So now there will be
more mentors to help the youth of New Orleans and
Hurricane Katrina.

Speaker 1 (50:33):
That's huge. Actually, that's that's pretty sick.

Speaker 2 (50:34):
Right, Yeah, yeah, well that's great.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
So there was start off negative was that the federal
government US or just Trump probably pressured the Romanian government
to release the Tate brothers, Andrew Tate and Tristan Tate,
who were both under investigation for human trafficking and rape
on a massive scale. They were under house arrest in
Romania and if you don't know who they are, don't

(51:00):
look them up because they're terrible human beings. They're responsible
for for a lot of the worst things that men
have to say nowadays. But Trump called for them to
be sent to the US, and they originally said that
they went to Romania because the rape laws relax there.
I don't know if you know that that was why
they said that. I do remember that they're also under
they're also under investigation in the UK for fraud. So
then they go to the US and everyone's like, Oh,

(51:21):
it's all triumphant, and he's like he's like posting himself
smoking a cigar on a jet flying into Fort Lauderdale,
being like I'm back or paybacks a bit or something
like that. Of course, I was thinking, like, with all
the FAA issue, why why can't this plane crash? You know,
that would be fantastic. But it did land safely and
both both of the shitheads got off the plane. However,
in positive news and surprising news, the Republican Attorney General

(51:44):
of Florida has announced a thorough investigation into their into
their actions, and is determined that there is enough to
warrant a full criminal investigation and potential prosecution, which I
think is probably dick swinging between Rod Santas and Trump,
but I'm happy to see it because lots of people,
lots of Republicans are actually pissed about this, Like we're

(52:05):
trying to get rid of human trafficking and child molesters
and rapists and blah blah blah, and you're saying all
the people who come across our borders are rapists, like
you know, they're saying, but you're bringing back two of them,
like you're you know, what are we doing? So that
was some good news to see if the tape, if
the Tate brothers get justice in the US, I would
I would love that, Like that would be fantastic if
they thought they were like home free, and if they

(52:25):
end up going to jail there, that would be fantastic.

Speaker 2 (52:29):
That could be continued good, Yes, you could could. Yeah,
let's see. Uh well, Russia's bad news. But everyone is
for Ukraine beating winning the war except for maybe our government.
But most people around the world are pro Ukraine.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
So that's But Italy, I think in Russia, maybe maybe
Italy is going a little freshista right now. Unfortunately they're
they're I mean, sorry, yeah, I know, but they're they're
also taking it because I was looking at the movie
Italy because you're like all these places you can buy
and someone's like, yeah, they're not really friendly anymore, Like
it's not you know, they're they're like, they're not gay friendly,

(53:08):
They're not like there's some issues right now. So they're
they're the current prime mini prime minister, I think is
what they have or president is a direct ascendant of Mussolini,
I believe, so.

Speaker 2 (53:19):
Oh well, you know what, you know what the Italians
did to Mussolini though.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
Well yeah, but but I'm so we'll see if it
continues there, you know, like I like if if her
her reign, but apparently not everybody's happy with it. But anyways, yes,
and did you also notice that? Yeah, back to the
good news. So let's not let'snock get off on this.
Zelenski after after his meeting at the at the at
the White House, where they accused him of not thanking them,
which is just like, what did I see someone say

(53:43):
that's like an abuser being like you didn't thank me
for the gift I gave you or something like while
he's beating her.

Speaker 2 (53:48):
Okay positive, yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:49):
Oh yeah, sorry, well yeah, so so they're accusing is
let's give not thinking thanking him all of these leaders,
like I think there was like a hundred world leaders
that tweeted out we supp ortuah blah blah, and he
won by one, replied to each one of them and
thanked them on Twitter, which I thought was just fucking incredible.
It was like this whole just screenshot of all of
the times he thanked people, like right after that visit,

(54:11):
So I like that that was a that was fantastic Yeah,
we had a private company that landed on the Moon
and it wasn't space X, which I'm really happy with that.
There's another company. Yeah, it's a Texas Space company and
they this is the first moon landing since nineteen seventy two.

Speaker 2 (54:26):
So that's kind of exciting, just like a rover.

Speaker 1 (54:30):
I don't know who's manned or not. To be honest,
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
I just saw that a bigger story.

Speaker 1 (54:35):
Probably yeah, probably, but they're just there haven't been a
because wait, no, it's a first moonland since nineteen twenty two.
We've had rovers on the Moon since then, haven't we.

Speaker 2 (54:46):
I thought so, So maybe it.

Speaker 1 (54:48):
Was was it a man landing? Knowe?

Speaker 2 (54:51):
That'd be crazy that I just am now hearing this
for the first time.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
Yeah, I don't think. Yeah must or that it was.

Speaker 2 (54:58):
Just not NASA that landed on the Moon.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
Yeah, it says lunar landing, but I don't think. Yeah,
I don't know if we I don't know. Yeah, yeah,
so it doesn't say that it does, Yeah it does, I
don't think. So, Okay, so I really think it must
be the.

Speaker 2 (55:10):
Private company's got to get on the Moon first before
they bring someone into space. Maybe I don't know.

Speaker 1 (55:16):
Yeah, yeah, because they were. Yeah, they their lunar lander
touchdown and yeah, so just a soft landing on the Moon.
I don't think carrying ten NASA instruments. It confirmed landers upright. Yeah,
so there's no there's nobody that's it's unmanned.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
Okay, Okay, that's what I thought. Yeah, but I'll be
freaked out for a second that I missed some big like.

Speaker 1 (55:37):
Someone actually like walking on the Moon again, because that
would be that would actually still be pretty.

Speaker 2 (55:40):
Fucking that's a huge story. Yeah. Well, because at the
Kennedy Space Center nerding out, they have this whole video
of like the Last Man on the They interview all
the astronauts who have been on the Moon. In one
of the videos, he's like the last man on the Moon.
He's like, I hope we can go back one day,
and it's this all sentimental thing.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
So yeah, maybe, yeah that's a positive. What else do
you The fascist lost in Germany. I'm happy with that.

Speaker 2 (56:03):
That's old news.

Speaker 1 (56:04):
But sure, well yeah, yeah, isn't it old news? But no,
they last again the most recent election, the party that
Elon Musk went over and supported a yeah that you know,
he told him that maybe Germany should just forgive and
forget Nazism. Basically, maybe he is a Nazi after all,
like it, maybe he really is a fucking Nazi. But okay, anyways,
but that party lost, so that was a positive. They

(56:26):
did not gain the foothold that people were worried that
they would. So there's some positive news there. So Germany's
Germany two time. Yes, yeah, multiple losers. Fascist. They keep losing,
but they keep trying and they keep sneaking into it somehow.

Speaker 2 (56:40):
It's just like the game Secret Hitler.

Speaker 1 (56:42):
Yes, just like the game Secret. You never know, you
never know where Hitler is going to be.

Speaker 2 (56:48):
It's a very good game. But man, we played that
at my birthday party.

Speaker 1 (56:51):
I was like, this is kind of dark. Yeah, it's
definitely dark one. There's a bunch of variations in that too.
Instead of Hitler, were your other things? But I've been
playing actually the Sniper Elite game where it takes place
in World War two and you're like going against the
Germans and like you're you know, trying to basically snipe
things and sneak around and do objective objectives to you know,

(57:11):
turn the tide of the war. But then the final
episode is killing Hitler. So yeah, and so they have
different different versions to where like Hitler is like one
one where he's like, you can kill him variety of ways.
You can like give him the ships and then put
a bomb on his toilet so he actually like literally explodes.
Oh yeah, it's great. Yeah yeah, and you're like you
can you can, like there's like eight different ways you

(57:32):
can kill them, and like it's great. So it's a
lot of fun, all right.

Speaker 2 (57:38):
Cool.

Speaker 1 (57:39):
Yeah, so there's some good news. Oh and finally, the
ozone layer has improved significantly. The whole the ozone layer
has gotten much much smaller thanks to actual efforts, like
climate efforts have helped significantly. So that's that is a positive.

Speaker 2 (57:51):
That's a positive given the rest of the climate. Yes, yes,
that's exactly that's good silver.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
That good news. We've got some good news. We're gona
talk about We're gonna we're gonna take our final break,
and then when we come back, we're gonna talk about
the rest of the good news. We're just gonna be
Sarah and I a few extra good things and then
we're gonna wrap up episodes. So we'll be right back.

Speaker 2 (58:12):
Well, I think I kind of touched on a lot
of the good things going on in my life right now.
My relationship is good, poll dancing is going well. I
have a good friend group. I I guess I have
some trips planned in the future. I'm going to Japan
in May with Roy, so we're doing a little couple's
trip to Japan. And found a good deal from Seattle,

(58:33):
So that's exciting.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
That's gonna be so fun. I mean, I I watched
this YouTuber who lives in Japan. She moved there as
a teacher, and she and her boyfriend are there, and
then she quitted jobs a teachering like a real job.
Not the teaching isn't a real job, but I mean that.
I mean, just like as an English teacher is a
very different job in Japan. She got a job in Japan,
but she does all these look like things you might
not expect in Japan, and it's kind of fun watching

(58:54):
all the different cultural things and the differences in like
just all the different apps of eating and dining and
like shopping and all that there too. So I feel
like that'd be a lot of fun.

Speaker 2 (59:05):
See, can I be honest? I mean, I'm not. Maybe
it's just because I went to Taiwan, and I also
hate going to places that are very popularized just on
social media. I'm but I did this when I went
to France for the first time. I was not that
excited and then I had a fantastic time. But just
knowing that I'm going to Japan and I'm seeing all

(59:26):
these videos, I'm like, I don't know, like it's gonna
be a lot of people and it's just gonna be
really packed and crazy. And Roy that's like one of
his favorite countries that he's traveled to. He's like, no,
it's amazing all of these things, and I'm sure it
will be amazing, But I don't know. I get weird
about like places that I just see like everybody else going.
I'm like, I don't know, like is it even worth

(59:46):
me going because everybody else has already been there, and
I don't know, it seems too crowded to have another person.
I don't. I get down on myself, but I'm still
looking forward.

Speaker 1 (59:55):
To the kind of the same way, Like if I
travel somewhere, I don't want to go do what everyone
else is doing. I want to do something different, want
to have an interesting experience. I want to you know,
try to explore the things. And it's also just like
I don't want to do what everybody else is doing,
so I kind of understand that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
Yeah, but I've always wanted to go to Japan at
the same time, so it's one of those of I'm
finally going. But also I think everybody's going to Japan
right now just because of like the US dollar being
stronger than the yen for the time being. But I
don't know. That's what I have going on a mile.
I mean, everything recently has been on your trip.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
What are you guys going to Tokyo? Are you going
to go anything?

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
You're going all over Okay, Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto, Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Okinawa,
which is the islands south of the main We're just
doing like Tokyo and lower. We're not going up to
like Supporo or any like the northern island.

Speaker 1 (01:00:50):
Okay Okay, because I think you might get a little
like frustrated with the crowdedness and like Tokyo stuff like that.
But I feel like if you what's you gonna the
smaller areas can really kind of explore some of those
fun parts of the of the country.

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
Yeah, we have a couple of Yeah, we have a
couple of chill days around Mount Fuji. There's some smaller
towns where we're going to stand in a traditional hotel
and really just chill in the hot springs, and I
think I'll enjoy that part of the trip planning, we
were thinking about going to Disney c which is not
Tokyo Disney but another theme park, and then I started

(01:01:25):
watching videos of how crowded it was and immediately said,
fuck that. I am not spending my vacation shoulder to
shoulder with tourists trying to ride Disney rides. I am
from Orlando, No thank you. But I mean that is
like a thing that people do. They go to the
theme parks. There's like the Universal theme Park in Osaka,
I believe, or yeah, I think it's Osaka where all
the Mario stuff is. I'm like, nah, there's Universal in Orlando.

(01:01:47):
So there's there's some things where I'm like, I just
don't want to be in a crowd of people, so
pass like Kyoto, for example, We're only going there for
like maybe a day or two, and we're not even
going to stay in Kyoto because Roy's like it's just
insane there. So I mean, if we decide we like
it more. We were pretty flexible with our schedule, but
I don't. I had so much crowd anxiety when I

(01:02:08):
was in Taiwan that I think it's going to be
ten times worse in Japan. And I'm kind of since
I just had that happen, I'm anticipating it even more.
And that's what I'm not looking forward.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
To, especially if you'd like, do any of the public transportation,
if you're.

Speaker 2 (01:02:23):
I mean, that's all We're going to take bullet trains
and you know, just any of the trains and metros.
But it'll still be cool. But just being real, there's
there's things about it that And I also don't plan
trips this far out in advance either. And Roy's like, well,
we have to have our all of our itinerary planned
and everything booked and like to the t, like he

(01:02:45):
has it down by the first half of the day
we're doing this, and the second half it is like
all this big itinerary and I'm like, I just go
with the flow. What the fuck is this? He's like, no,
in Japan, it has to be very well planned. I'm like, oh,
this is causing me too much. Trip anxiety. I don't
what did I sign up for? This is a lot?

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
Well, yeah, it'll definitely still be funny. Fine, that'll be good. Yeah,
that'll be That'll be a good trip. And whatever trips
you have, other other trips you end up having, it'll
be it'll be nice too.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
Yeah, we'll figure that out. What about you? What are
good things for you?

Speaker 3 (01:03:16):
Some?

Speaker 1 (01:03:17):
Yeah, good things. One nice thing is that like I
took this last year and you know, kind of went
out to open mics and it's been fun. I got
on a couple of shows and that was it was
nice and it showed me. I was like, you know,
since I took a break from comedy for a couple
of years, there was like nice to get back into it.
I really enjoyed that. But it's showing me that I
really like continue and enjoying it. And then finally this
this year, I got into the clubs here, which is

(01:03:39):
very different, like there's there's it's hard to even explained,
but like the you know, going to doing a local
show that someone puts together, like another comedy puts together
is great. Like that's a fun thing to do. You
go out, you have fun with your friends, you go
do whatever time they need you to do. You know,
you get paid. Sometimes sometimes it's just like hey, just
come out to perform, and you know, you have a
relatively minor, you know, a small audience twenty thirty people
maybe at the most. But like working at a club is

(01:04:02):
just it's a whole other thing. And in Orlando, I
worked at the Orlando Improv a lot. Not only was
I I had a house some sea gig at a
club in Cocoa Beach called Gregory's, which was still that
you know, even though it was like a singular place
that they treated like a club, which was good. But
the Orlando Improv is like, you know, high end club,
which you know it was. It was just it was

(01:04:22):
an amazing experience. But I got to be so involved
in it that I knew everybody worked there. I could
come and watch any any shows that I wanted to, Like,
you become part of kind of like the family there.
You're almost you know, just you're you're not more than
just a comedian. And then I got to book the
like the shows that we had, like we have every
once a month we do like a show with local
comedians where the could come out and do a showcase

(01:04:44):
and invite their friends to come see them at the
actual improv because that stage is just a classic stage,
Like that's the one thing as a kid, I always
loved the idea of being in front of that brick
brick wall and that's the brick wall stage. So being
in a club environment has always been something that I've loved,
and so finally this year I got to start doing
that at the Looney Bin here in Tulsa and I

(01:05:04):
got in front of the new manager who was very
happy to see me perform, and immediately within doing coming
out just to do like a little showcase for her,
booked me to host the like open mic the next night,
and then when I was there, talked to the owner
and then booked me for a full weekend with Bob
kat Goldwaite. So I had a full weekend with him,
and he and I worked together like twelve years ago

(01:05:26):
with the Orlando Improv, so it was great to see
him after twelve years, and he and I talked for
a while and hung out, you know, between the shows
and everything too. One of the sweetest guys in the world,
like so nice, and he lives in Ireland now. He
bought up about a house in Ireland and he's tart
about how amazing it is and how it's great to
be out of the US. And then and then I
got booked just randomly, like the owner just called me

(01:05:47):
the day. I was like, hey, I need a host tonight,
like and it was just nice that he knew that
he could call me for this. And so I'm getting
more gigs there, and every time I've been there, it
just I immediately feel like I love this, Like it's
just I just love the feeling of a club environment
getting up in like somewhere this is all about comedy.
It's purely for comedy and and like to have that
and to do well there, which you know I usually

(01:06:08):
do well and I'm happy with that. So that's that's
been a really positive thing. It's it really got me
back into comedy and writing some new stuff and working
on some new material, which I'm really happy with. And
so that's that's been a big, big, happy, like positive
thing in my life. So that's that's good. Very excited
about what's going to happen after that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
You don't think that that's going to stop you from
wanting to move out of Tulsa, though, because you'll just
find another.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
Yeah, not necessarily, cause like, yeah, I mean I can,
I can do this anywhere. But but I do think
I will say I have been considering. I was like,
maybe this is a three year place, not a two
year place for me, Like maybe one more year because
one more year also would give me a chance to
maybe tour a little bit with from here. And there's
a bunch of clubs and there's other looney bins and
stuff around, and the owner of this one said he'd

(01:06:53):
be definitely recommending me to the other owners to get,
you know, to perform there. So if I can do
that and start establishing a little more reputation, then it
won't matter where I am. I can still still perform
anywhere as long as I'm in the US.

Speaker 2 (01:07:04):
I guess that's a good plan.

Speaker 1 (01:07:06):
Yeah, so but yeah, but even if it is something
where I move away and have to start over again too,
I know that I can start over and immediately it
can demonstrate that I'm good at what I do, which
which is which was I was scared when I first
got here and it went to the first open mic,
you know, and then I and then I got on
stage and I was like, oh no, this is this
is nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:07:21):
How many years was it between your last time on
stage to when you did that first open mic? Five years?

Speaker 1 (01:07:28):
No, it wasn't quite five years, because because even in
between I would occasionally, like if I was in a
town that I knew there was open mic, I did
a few open mics in between then, So not nothing
like major shows. But I would say that I probably
the last show I probably did was right before the pandemic,
so it was two thousand and like nineteen, I think
is when I last last performed like an actual show show.

(01:07:50):
And then, like I said, I did some did some
open mics and stuff, probably in twenty twenty two, twenty
twenty three, like every now and then when I was on
the road. But this is the time I'm like doing
it like as thoroughly as you know, more and more consistently.

Speaker 2 (01:08:04):
Would you want this to be your full time?

Speaker 1 (01:08:06):
Like No, that's actually kind of been a relaxed with Yeah, okay,
the money's not there. And that's the other thing too,
is I think when I first started comedy, I had
to be out seven nights a week, and I was
out every open mic, and I was making sure I
had to book everything I could possibly book. And you know,
push myself out there and like aggressively good in order
to make this into a living to actually be able
to afford. And now that I can work wherever from

(01:08:28):
you know, and do in whatever my hours I want,
there's a lot, a lot less pressure for me to
make it into a career. And I know now that
I'm good enough that I can skip a lot of
the open mics and I can just go to the
clubs and have them book me and I can make
you know, and that adds it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:43):
I mean, you can you can do a decent extra
fun money.

Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
Yeah, exactly, extra money and just yeah money for whatever.
And so that that is kind of where I'm looking
at now, is this is the better approach. A lot
less pressure now, And that that is because the pressure
was huge and I would stay out till you know,
to in the morning, every night of the week, and
it was just it was it got way too much.
Now if I do that, you know, two nights a week,
it's too much. Almost.

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
So I call you a ten and you're like, I'm
just waking up. I'm like, get the fuck up, dude. Yeah, yeah,
an adult.

Speaker 1 (01:09:14):
And speaking of speaking of waking up, that's actually the
other good, good piece of good thing that's happened to me,
which is just such a ridiculous thing. But since I
moved here, I had to buy a bed, and I
just bought like a shitty two hn dollars mattress from Amazon.
And it's just you know it already, like immediately within
like the first six months is not like like this
is not.

Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
Gonna last surprise.

Speaker 1 (01:09:33):
Yeah, But I was looking at other other beds and
and I found this company that has beds for fat guys.
And they they have a program where they are willing
to you know, for influencers basically where they'll give you
a mattress and you just have to do content for them.
And they're called Big Fig and so I reached out
to them last year and it took a full year

(01:09:54):
for them finally be like, yeah, we want to use you,
and I think just because they were trying to figure
out what's copping with TikTok blah blah blah. But finally
they agreed and they sent me a full mat like
a folk. I got a queen size because that's what
all my sheets were. I should have like economy. I
kind of thought I should have King, but I was like,
but all my sheets, all of my like everything I
have is Queen size, is KINGSI I'm sorry, Queen size,
And do I really need that extra space? I mean,

(01:10:16):
it's me sleep by myself. Queen's fine. So I got
a queen Yeah, I do exactly. So I got a
Queen size bed with it with like a fucking automatic
adjustable bed frame, like the Craftmatic adjustbal. I remember as like,
not as a kid, but when I was when I
was like in law school, Amy and I would be
like in bed watching TV and I would then have
the commercials for the Craftmatic adjustable beds and I was like,
I want one of those Sundays. She's like, absolutely not,

(01:10:37):
we are never getting one of those. I was like,
but that'd be so cool, and she's like, they're for
old people. Well, I'll tell you what, call me old,
because I I fucking love it. I have a button
eye press that lifts the top or it lifts the
bottom where both I can set different settings and like,
so I can just sit up and sleep and I
and I don't snore as much. I know, I've noticed
when I sit up and sleep and uh yeah. And

(01:10:58):
so I got a bed and a frame and then
I have to I have to do some content for
them soon. We're working on that now. But uh yeah,
so big fig and so I'm really happy with that.
And I was like, do you mind if I mentioned
this on the podcast? She goes, no, mention it away
the person that I've been in my contact there. But
it's weird how having a nice mattress can really make
a difference though, Like I.

Speaker 2 (01:11:16):
Mean, from a two hundred dollars mattress to a very nice.

Speaker 1 (01:11:20):
To Yeah, this bed is like I took like thirty
five hundred dollars for the bed in the frame.

Speaker 2 (01:11:24):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you better be the best.

Speaker 1 (01:11:27):
Yeah, it makes it, It makes it really nice. It's very
very firm. At one point I was sitting on you know,
I was kind of sitting on the edge of the
bed and it didn't sag at all, like in any way,
you know, and I'm you know, topping three fifty. It
probably around them if I had to guess my weight,
I don't know scale, but the fact that it didn't
be in any any way whatsoever, you know, like didn't

(01:11:49):
even budge. And then my friend the model, which she
was like she was cold. We got out of the
blankets and at one point, you know, I'm used to
what I lay in a bed. If a woe and
gets in the bed with me, she's gonna roll towards
me because I'm going to create a divot in the
bed that she's not gonna be. But this didn't happen
like she legitimately. It's almost like those commercials where they
used to have like the wine glasses all stacked up

(01:12:10):
and you dropped the bowling ball like it really didn't move,
and I was like, this is nice, Like this is
this firmness is gonna be great and it's gonna last
for a while. So I'm very happy with that. It's
weird to have a thing to be excited about, like
a mattress, But.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
You know, it's how you know you're grown.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
I know, I guess that's a good way of saying old,
but grown.

Speaker 2 (01:12:27):
So I have things, you know, nice things feel nice.

Speaker 1 (01:12:32):
Yeah, yeah, that's true. I mean I do. I mean,
I'm not gonna I'm not gonna argue with you on that.
Nice things do feel nice.

Speaker 2 (01:12:38):
So well, if you have a good thing happening in
your life that you want to tell us about, you
can call the DKs Hotline. It's been a minute since
we've actually listened to the hotline since we've taken a
little break, but you can call the hot line at
four oh seven five one nine zero one eight one.
We'd love to hear all the good and positive things
going on in your life or if you have a

(01:12:59):
you know, a problem that you want us to try
to solve or just talk through with you, we can
do that as well. You can also email us those
questions or comments at Dating kind Of Sucks Podcast at
gmail dot com.

Speaker 1 (01:13:09):
Yeah. Absolutely, and we were happy to talk about relationships, dating,
anything like that. I know this this episode was not
really about that, but we're we're expanding and if you
didn't catch last last our last episode in December, our
goal is to expand the topics and get kind of
beyond just the dating aspect as we rebrand to the
dcast podcast. So we're gonna talking about all touch topics,
but anything you want to talk about, we'll be happy
to listen. You can also join our Facebook group at

(01:13:32):
facebook dot com slash Group slash DCS podcast. If you
are listening to this and you want to watch our faces,
you can see my new beard color which I went
blonde because I want to see a blonde have more fun.
You can watch at YouTube dot com slash dating kind
of sucks. Boo boo.

Speaker 2 (01:13:48):
Boo. You can also follow us on social media. Our
instagram is at dating kind of sucks. My instagram is
at simply Sarah g Underscore. Adams is at Evitable Ada
mentioned earlier in this episode. He's big on threads, so
you can follow him on threads, Audivitable, Blue Sky, Adivisable, TikTok, advisable.

Speaker 1 (01:14:05):
It's actually that's the one thing that's different.

Speaker 2 (01:14:08):
Oh, that one's Adam Avisable. Okay, Well, if you look
up Adam you can Adam you'll find.

Speaker 1 (01:14:15):
Yeah, and I have a couple more followers on Facebook too,
so find me on Facebook. Just I think it's Facebook
slash advisable as well. Yeah, and if you are listening
and you have never left us a rating, we would
love a rating. We're here for you or follow, but yes,
a're rating on you on iTunes, were great, to follow
on Spotify is great. Whatever you want to do for
that would be fantastic. We are going to have more

(01:14:35):
episodes coming in. I've got some ideas for some solo
episodes because we're gonna do some different things. We're gonna
try some new stuff, and we might have a new
logo coming up soon too, so we're kind of excited
about yes, some new branding, so stay tuned for that.
Not whether that we'll just we'll be back when we're back.
I'm not going to promise when it's going to be
because hopefully it won't be.

Speaker 2 (01:14:54):
Well the last time we promised, promise, we're.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
Going to come back already and have fun things to
talk about. That's how That's how I try to judge this.

Speaker 2 (01:15:01):
Fun things because this was so fun.

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
This was fun. I feel like this was a fun time.
But with that yet, we will thank you for thank
you for joining us until next time.

Speaker 4 (01:15:13):
Whether you're married or single or pobly you're a were
hanging on with Sminger's backing your place, listen.

Speaker 3 (01:15:20):
To us as we getting to fuck a tendermin mumble
and plenty of young trying and trying and happen to
bluck because.

Speaker 4 (01:15:25):
We all know dating kind of sucks. Sarah and Adam
ardua a kind. He says stupid shit and she doesn't mind.
They're not doing this so to make any fuck life.
But the chickenoos, feathersday pluck. Why does it work, we'll hear.

Speaker 1 (01:15:42):
With the cruck.

Speaker 4 (01:15:43):
They both know dating kind of sucks.

Speaker 1 (01:15:53):
Dating kind of sucks.

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