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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It sits in with Kate podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Welcome to the podcast Animal Special. This podcast we like
to dedicate it to the Urban family. It's Tom imitating
a lion mating at the zoo.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Yes, that was actually weirdly.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
I think Terry Court at some point, Yeah, speaking of
the LANs.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Right, okay, Well, when I was at Taronga Zoo last time, yes,
the lions were in mating season and I then had
to have a check to the kids and why they
were doing that funny from behind wrestle.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Yes, as long as the whip flees aren't in mating season.
That's that's the ninth up.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
To fifty times.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Oh, yes, weird.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
You had David Attenborough filming in the course.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
It'd be nice if you could try it with your
wife next week.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Only reason he wanted to last on. Hey I heard
a weird fact about a zoo.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Do you want to hear it?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Apparently maybe we cut this out, but there's a shoot
to kill order on chimpanzees, but no other animals, as in,
if a chimp gets out, it's so dangerous.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
That they shoot to kill.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
But even the lions, they just try and get back into.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
The They just talked to the line they excuse me,
I've got I want to hear row. I'll throw a
bone over the fence and you go, I don't think
it works like that, Chess.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I'm telling you what I read into.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Me Amazing animal podcast for you today. Enjoy.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
This is the.
Speaker 6 (01:20):
Taylor swift Can I get our residents swifty on Jess
because there is a rumor going around that she's about
to release Reputation in the full album Taylor's version. There's
a few easter eggs happening at the moment. Do you
know about this, Chess.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yes, I'm one hundred percent across this on every platform.
Fits very, very exciting for Swifties.
Speaker 6 (01:42):
So she's the rumor is there's a theory going around
that she's going to announce the new album at the.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
American Music Awards. When are they? That's at the end
of May. We're not that far away.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
It's actually today it kicks off. I've got a Swifty
countdown going. We're only sort of a couple of hours
away from from the red carpet, right just doing.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
All the Swifties. Are they all at your house the
moment and not all of them.
Speaker 7 (02:01):
At my house?
Speaker 4 (02:01):
We do kind of cross international Sweetnesses or Someoneline.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
So but we spoke about this the other da ages.
Speaker 6 (02:08):
I thought she was going to buy her back catalog back,
so that might be.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
I think it sits separately because if she's going to
release Reputation today, that's the rumor, that's what all the
Easter eggs have been leading to, which of course was
the album she released in twenty seventeen, has some amazing
songs on there. If she releases that, I think that
completely sits separate to the Masters. As we talked about
the other day, this was really really the catalyst for
the Eras tour and for her to get so big
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was reliving each of these errors. And I mean, if
you think about it, we're getting an album that already
exists that she's not going to sound too different on
with just maybe three new tracks.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
And having seen a photo the other day of her
man getting into the car without a shirt on from behind.
It's called the Hairy Back Catalog, but I believe that's
also the front cover of the new album.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
Well, there was a few chunks of hair that were
missing as well. Could she be frustrated recording the new
Taylor's version Reputation and ripping a.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Few cho.
Speaker 6 (03:05):
Oh my god, we'll keep you, we'll keep you updated.
But the AMAS are on today. Will Taylor Swift announce
reputation Taylor's version.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
This is the Fitting and Whip with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
We're only a few days away from winter.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
I think we're in for a big winter, especially after
the rain that we caught last week. Do you know what,
just to rub it in even more, I mean that
the floods. Let's go out to Port mcquarie. Now, what
a beautiful part of the world. Port mcquarie is, but
there were intense floods there with the rain coming down
on the mid North coast last week, there.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Was an incident that happened. Do you know what, You
just don't need this.
Speaker 6 (03:43):
But a guy was out there rescuing a few passers
by whip that got caught, yeah, on roads and stuff
like that.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Went out of nowhere.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
A kangaroo approached him and because he was in the water,
I sort of knee deep. Cagaro can get to you
in the water, put their arms around you and try
to drag you down.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
He said. It was literally like a boxing match, And
I knew I.
Speaker 6 (04:10):
Had to protect my nether region because they can kick
you down there, that's right, But he said no, he
wasn't trying to kick me. He was actually trying to
drown me. So after attempting to move away from the
marsupial that there was another onlooker by the name of
Kirsty Lee's. Kirsty said, I saw the kangaroo. It was
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as big as a car.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
James tripped and fell into a flooded area, and then
he looked over and the roue jumped on him and
tried to drown the man holding him down under the water,
saying it wasn't until another onlooker came to james assistance
that he was freed.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Well, there was a report last year, I think sometime
fits where they were talking about kangaroos and the danger
of dogs near water, because kangaroos go out of their
way to try and drown a dog. So it's almost
like to have an understanding in water how to get
rid of any threat, and they know to try and drown.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
See, most dogs will go a kangaroo, So when they
see a kangaroo, they'll bark and chase after it. So
as soon as a kangaroo jumps away, a dog will
run after a kangaroo.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
My dog does that, beast, he does that.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
But you right though, when he's talking about covering his
nether regions. Then they can balance on their tail and
lift both legs into the air, both their hind legs
into the air. And if their claws what would you
call them, not even nails, their claws.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
The clause and they can rip you grow.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Imagine that would would rip your whole crotch out.
Speaker 6 (05:42):
Well, Tom, you must have been you must have been
by a kangaroo on the weekend because something is uge.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
You must suppose I serve run at the zoo for
that incident.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Stay on that side of the fence, Tom, Did you
know what?
Speaker 6 (05:58):
And I want to talk about this as well, Tommy,
because there was a I want to talk about this
here that there was.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Wasn't there a half gone completely blank?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Now?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
What? No?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
No, what I want to talk about was that the
dogs that detect violence. Do you know that dogs could
detect violence whip so they know it's coming before it
comes in a house?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Really?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Now, I would think were the kangaroo. Don't Animals have
a bit of a sense of six sense, a third
sense where another sense where they know Okay, there's flood
regions here. Everyone's obviously helping each other out here. Why
does a kangaroo go well instead of helping up and
maybe cleaning up the mud that's around the area here,
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Why do I have to drown this poor bloke?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Thatt's just trying to help out.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Remember the Boxing Day tsunami in Thailand. That was a
big one because all the animals could tell there was
a change in pressure and they took to the high ground.
So all the elephants, all the animals went up the
mountain before the tsunami arrived because they knew it was coming,
because I think it's a pressure system in their brains.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
Do you know what I just It just reminded me
with Beastie, our dog. But sometimes I will be in
the office working whip, and out of nowhere, the dog
will come and sit next to me. And then I'm
not joking. Five minutes later you'll hear bj yelling at
the boys about something that they've done in the house, right,
and you know the dog knows the argument's coming, The
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screen's coming.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Oh dogs must thirteen twenty fourteen.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
If this does happen with your pet, do they do
they sense that something's coming or there's friction in the
house before it actually happens.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
What about the cat that was lived in the nursing
home and the cat knew when someone was going to
pass away and would just curl up on the end
of the bed, mentioning if you're halfway through a movie
the cat turns up in your room, Yeah, tries to
snuggle get out, We're not dying.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Well that they don't. Can't dogs sniff out cancer as well?
Speaker 8 (07:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:56):
I tell you.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
I tell you what dogs are really good at. They
are good at picking personalities. Like if they for some reason,
you see a dog, if there's a dodgy bloke that
goes over to pat your dog, you can tell straight
away that your dog is threatened by that person.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
They must pick something up.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I know. The other one too, is how some dogs
will bark at certain types of people. That can happen
a lot. It's fascinating, But you're right. Our dog or Jesse,
growing up outside the fact that she had a prolapse volver,
she could tell if the weather was turning bad because
she would hide under the stairs before the storm arrived. Na,
she was just trying to get away from Is that
what it was, Emily? And men, I your dog are
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saved you? Is that right?
Speaker 9 (08:38):
Oh?
Speaker 10 (08:38):
So to speak, he's given me a good warning.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
What happened to?
Speaker 10 (08:42):
I've grown up with eppletsy. I still have it now,
but I'm seizure free. And a number of times when
I was younger, my dog would walk into the room
and just sit by me, probably about a minute or
so before I would collapse and have a seizer. And
it must have just smelt something.
Speaker 6 (08:59):
Rawed you knew it was coming, Emily, Did it ever
help you down the track thinking oh, what's the dog
doing next to me? I might have to stand up
and be around mom and dad just in case I
need help.
Speaker 10 (09:11):
I never really had more than like about thirty seconds
to a minute or so, but I think about the
third or fourth time he came by me, I thought, oh,
that's weird, and I'd quickly sit down so instead of
falling and passing out and here, oh my god, I
just go from a sit into a lame position coming home.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
That is extraordinary. What type of dog is it?
Speaker 7 (09:30):
Oh?
Speaker 10 (09:30):
He was a cross cattle cat kelpie. This is fascinating, Yeah,
cattle kelpie.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Growing up Kate and Woodcroft what do you have, Kate?
Speaker 11 (09:40):
Oh, we have a rag dog cat that found my
mum's cancer. It was very, very small, but he kept
like touching her on that spot and licking her clothing
on that spot, and she just thought, something's not right.
When does the doctors have a scan found the cancer?
Speaker 9 (09:58):
That the doctor said probably would have taken.
Speaker 11 (09:59):
Them in ten years to find.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Okate, where was the cancer?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
She has?
Speaker 11 (10:05):
Breast cancer is very common, I guess, but yeah, so
a cat.
Speaker 9 (10:11):
It just was very.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Consicted, very very Kate, do you still have that cat?
Like I would have thought after a moment like that,
if that happened in my house, I would have got
the cat and said, go over me, have a look
at me.
Speaker 11 (10:23):
Yeah, we do still have the Cat's see now. So
he's bit of an old man now.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
But he's a lifesaver.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
Is amazing.
Speaker 6 (10:34):
So Kate, bring the cat into the studio. We might
deceive if the cat can go over over all of us.
If that's okay, Kate, We'll just get a check fi
owner in Sylvania tell us about your cat.
Speaker 7 (10:48):
Yes, that was my mum's cat, and my mum also
had cancer and we hit her at home and sort
of the last stages and two days before she passed,
the cat disappeared for two days, and then on the
last day, the cat came back and stayed with her
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the whole time until she passed.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Oh God, that is so it eats?
Speaker 2 (11:14):
We eat? Is we?
Speaker 6 (11:16):
I wonder if it's a pheromone or I wonder if
it's a smell that it has, or if it just
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
What you would think. The body releases something that brings
the cat towards you, My God, Jimmy and Bexley, Hello,
here you going, Jimmy, your German shepherd save your life?
Speaker 8 (11:31):
Yeah, pretty much when I was when I was a kid,
I was about four or five. She was only about
six months old. I decided to dunk my head in
a full bucket of water in the backyard, and I
was upside down, sort of struggling to breathe and stress
them out, and she sent the stress and started barking
like crazy, got my mom out in the backyard. But
by that time I'd realized and sort of stood up
(11:52):
and all the water drained off.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Yeah. See, the German shepherd knew something wasn't right. Thanks Jimmy.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
No, I was just going to say so that German
Shepherd's not around anymore, Jim, that would have been a sad.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Day when that when when when the German Shepherd.
Speaker 8 (12:08):
Passed, I definitely I actually hit it in the garage.
I didn't want the old man to go and put.
Speaker 6 (12:13):
It down, you know.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Oh, N can imagine. It's the worst.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
I mean, I was barking. Sorry, I was laughing when
Tommy did the ice bucket challenge.
Speaker 12 (12:22):
Oh yeah, that's what happened when Yeah, slightly less dramatic.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
You didn't know it's going to have to ask. You
had a story about a pet, Is that right.
Speaker 13 (12:29):
I've got a little dog by the name the name
of Millie who's quite protective, and so whenever I'm showering,
she used to sit outside the shower and stares.
Speaker 5 (12:38):
At the door.
Speaker 13 (12:39):
Really and I was showering the other day and she
was losing her mind and kept running out of the room,
coming back, running out, coming back. So I thought there
must be someone at the door. When I went out,
she went and had sat next to where my phone
was sitting, and it was ringing, but it was on silent,
so she was letting me know the phone was going off.
Speaker 6 (12:58):
So you use your cat as a personal assistant Ash,
I do, yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Wasn't Christian in a catsuit?
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Was it?
Speaker 2 (13:05):
But just sitting outside the shower, I think it is
this the only way I can get a look.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
You, Harvey.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
The love's already died. He's bought a cat suit. This
is a disaster.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
This is the Fits and Whip with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Let's talk about the footage you're going to see absolutely
everywhere today leading the news is the footage of Emmanuel macarn.
He's landed in Vietnam with his wife Bridget. Now as
the doors open, you can see Emmanuel standing there at
the top of the stairs on the jet and his
wife's Bridget hands come out and give what looks like
(13:42):
a two handed don't argue to the faces.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
It's a push to the face.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Yes, it is, with both hands. It's quite confronting because
he could say, there's no place man or woman to
the way the abuse is coming from. It's unacceptable. What's interesting, too,
is to see him sort of startled by realizing the
door is open and everybody just saw that. So straight
after the push to the head, he kind of straights
up to the door and looks and realizes that everybody
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because there was a live stream would have seen that
it wouldn't be them.
Speaker 6 (14:15):
She wasn't wiping off a piece of beef stroggen off
that he may may have had on his lip or
something from the feet.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
And I mean it's certainly an aggressive way to get
the strogen off off the lip. What happens then two fits.
As they continue, they meet at the top of the
stairs and sort of wave to the people greeting there.
He puts an arm out as if to say, I'm
here for you. Let's look united as we walk down
the stairs. She ignores his offer of the arm and
holds onto the handrail and makes her way down the stairs.
(14:44):
Almost separately. There's the offering of the arm and then
she says thanks, but no thanks, I've got the beef
stroggen off off your lip. I mean, we can try
and have a bit of a laugh about it, but
at the same time, it's a pretty ugly scene and
there's a bit of a serious side to it. So
ash this story here. And I saw this footage late
last night. He came out and tried to suggest it
(15:06):
was a deep fake.
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Is that right?
Speaker 13 (15:07):
Well, he did initially try and yeah, suggest it was
a deep fake that emerged, but he's now addressed it.
He's now saying that they were bickering or just fooling
around and that people need to calm down. So he's yeah,
backflipped on that initial claim and is now saying it
did happen, but they were just turn around.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
You know, it's hard to know obviously what's taken place
in the lead up to this moment. But the minute
you see something like that, which is really from something
that might happen behind closed doors that you don't normally
see in the public space, you think what else goes
on behind closed doors? You think, is this commonplace for
these two?
Speaker 6 (15:46):
Well, and it would be very very hard because you
are in the spotlight every like, I mean, you can't.
I mean, there's nowhere where you could get any time
to yourself now when you are the French president.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
I mean, it's a tough job for her, very tough
job for her as well. She's in the spotlight as well.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
But I mean, like you could argue, I mean, because
of the color of her jacket fits, you could argue
that it wasn't her that pushed him in the face.
It might have been a jet Star flight attendant or
even virgin based on the color of the jacket.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
I mean, Tommy, you most Saturday nights, you immediately say
that there.
Speaker 6 (16:25):
Was deep there was a deep fake fake video of
you that's been circulated around. Do you usually get away
with that, tom before people realize it was you with
the leather masker?
Speaker 12 (16:34):
Yeah, it's just the whole being on the private jet
that normally brings me on the tros.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah, because I don't think you fly private.
Speaker 7 (16:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
No, interesting too. I mean the story of these two fits.
Are you familiar with the fact that she's seventy two
and he's forty seven?
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Is she Yes?
Speaker 2 (16:50):
She was his school teacher. Nah, Whyn't that right? Tommy? Yeah, Yeah,
she was his teacher.
Speaker 12 (16:58):
Yeah, it's quite it's quite unusual. He was fifteen, yes,
and she had I think three kids when they got together.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Yeah, and then they got married. See what might be
happening here was he didn't hand his homeworking.
Speaker 12 (17:13):
Well, so the very good but yeah, so quite an unusual. Yes,
start to their their relationship.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Well, it's like the movie The Graduate is Usin Hoffman.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Yeah, so I wonder where that goes from here. I mean,
he's obviously going to have to answer more questions on this.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I mean, like like Ash said, you know, he's already
come out and said this was just playing. This is
mucking around. Everybody settled down. But I don't think anyone's
going to sit back and say, okay, we'll accept that
and move on. It wouldn't surprise me if he has
to come out with more of an official stand and
maybe somebody wants to hear from her. You're right, there
is a serious side to it.
Speaker 6 (17:49):
This is the Fitzian Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
We're on.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
It's time for start haepe Ritchie time. Still standing?
Speaker 6 (18:01):
Now?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
How good is this game? Representing Blacktown?
Speaker 2 (18:07):
This morning?
Speaker 3 (18:08):
In the red corner? Michelle? Welcome Michelle, Thank you?
Speaker 2 (18:13):
Okay, Michelle, do you go?
Speaker 3 (18:15):
How do you go with? I'm still standing, Michelle.
Speaker 7 (18:18):
We play with the kids every morning. We do pretty well.
Speaker 8 (18:20):
I've got Lincoln.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Here, were all right? Lincoln is your secret weapon? Good luck? Link?
Speaker 3 (18:26):
Yeah, come on, Link, you can do this.
Speaker 6 (18:28):
You're up against green achere this morning. Ryan's there, Dad's
doing school drop off this morning.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
Who have you got in the car with you? Ryan?
Speaker 8 (18:35):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (18:39):
Someone needs to get a TV. How many kids you
got there right.
Speaker 8 (18:42):
We've got three with me.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Oh wow, okay, good luck team Ryan.
Speaker 6 (18:47):
Have it on speakerphone, Dad. You can use the kids
if they know the question. Michelle, You're going first, get
one wrong? Power goes over to Ryan. Whoever has the
power at the end of sixty seconds against one hundred dollars?
Here we go, Michelle, Your sixty second starts now. Eleven
is a character from which hit series Stranger Things. Over
(19:08):
to Ryan Ryan, True or false? Beyonce and jay Z
have twins True True is correct. Harrabo is best known
for making what oh Gummy Bears lollies? Over to Michelle Michelle,
which band released the twenty twenty song heat Waves Nats
(19:32):
Glass Animals? Back to Ryan, Ryan, what state is home
to the Barossa Valley? Nats South Australia? Back to Michelle,
which singer sings hips Don't lie? Michelle from Columbia?
Speaker 3 (19:49):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (19:49):
What reality show is tonight at seven thirty on Channel seven,
It's about finding love?
Speaker 3 (19:59):
No incorrect?
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Ryan, Ryan's one a top round. It was ugly, but
we got there and Ryan, you and the three kids
of one of this morning, Ah beautiful. You've got one
hundred dollars. Guys, we only got through.
Speaker 6 (20:16):
So this is the Fitzian Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
Let's pick this topic up, because why is it that
women like a bad boy? Research from a human normal
university fantastic news.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
What a normal university?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Not just a yeah it's a normal university. They've revealed
that men with psychopathic traits are rated by women as
more attractive. The study included five hundred women. They looked
at fun as the men, and they had varying degrees
of dark traits, and as it turns out, the women
seem to rate the men with the dark traits higher
(20:56):
than those kind, softer looking individuals.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (21:01):
Yeah, until you want to get married?
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Am I right? I think I think we all know
that there.
Speaker 6 (21:07):
I mean, there are there's a women that you've met
in your life before who are who struggle with relationships
and you were.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
And you say to yourself, you're always with the same
type of guy, idiot. It goes down the same path
every single time.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Every ex girl friend of mine has ended up with
an idiot. It's an unbelievable trait that they have.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
So psychopathic, psychopathic, Yeah, go for it.
Speaker 6 (21:33):
Well, it's it's so, it's would Francis bevan be in
that psychopathic.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
That's no, no, no, he's a he's a psychic. That's
very different.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
I'm sorry, but what he.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Does, that's his laugh there still wearing a shirt, wearing
psychic to wear is Francis Bevan Is. He still had
terrible diabetes which was affecting his eyesight. He would have
known that was going to happen.
Speaker 5 (21:59):
I think he's on the mend. I think he saw
it coming.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Get him back in, Yeah, you'd like him back in.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Yeah, OK, I'll give him.
Speaker 6 (22:06):
Francis's unbelievable story of how he met France. Oh, yeah,
because he was doing psychic readings and his partner's hair salon.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Yes, that's right.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
It was a hair salon. Hair salon, unbelievable.
Speaker 6 (22:19):
You can get your hair cut and find out what's
coming up in the future, which.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
Was weird too.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
There was also a solarium bed there and they offered
massage too.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
They had Stephen was the boyfriend, and he was wearing
jawts at the time. He had very short denim shorts.
They were cut off.
Speaker 12 (22:36):
Francis is to say, in your future, I can see
a bad haircut coming.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Well, it was very accurate, and I could see him
taking at your wallet.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
When you were getting your hair cut. Whip.
Speaker 6 (22:47):
Francis predicted that Stephen was never going to finish it.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Stephen, and I could predict that Stephen, and I'm not
even a psychic, I could predict that Stephen was going
to offer me a massage the same time and he did.
Speaker 6 (23:01):
Now predicted that Stephen would be arrested for that.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
I don't know why the psycho clinic got shut down, Tommy,
and I know that. I mean, anybody that's hearing about
Francis Bevan for the first time. It's a very sad story,
and that Stephen and Francis ended up breaking up in
an onsense over.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
Maybe Francis was looking at another guy, maybe because he's
cross out, he thought there was two coming at him.
Speaker 5 (23:28):
But him and Stephen broke up in and off Francis
This morning.
Speaker 6 (23:33):
Is can we get Francis back on sending our love
to Francis.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
While he was in no direction? Remember we did the
one direction parody and he was in that.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
I think he had a bit of a thing for
you to fits because he would always come in and
say that he thought about you when he crossed Mount
Street to get here. He would advise that we would
often say what he went up to, and he'd spend
hours on military.
Speaker 6 (24:00):
It was a subtle it was only a subtle thing.
Not many people picked it up.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
But he was awesome and he was on my back
at the time.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Let's talk about some of the relationship issues we need
to discuss. Bloke by the name of Tony's come out.
He's a psychiatrist, and he said, I'll tell you about
how relationships should work. And I think there's one point
I want to bring up here too, fits So I'll
go through a couple of the points he wants to
make this morning. He says it's bad to argue, is it?
He said, relationships need to have healthy discussions, and an
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argument can often just be you talking about why you
feel so passionately about something. It's about what matters to you.
It should should not be demonized. You should be able
to have an argument.
Speaker 3 (24:46):
Isn't it?
Speaker 6 (24:47):
Also arguments are healthy, I heard, But it's the way
that you that you end it is.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
The most important thing.
Speaker 6 (24:55):
If you can move on and you're okay with it,
because there are bj I don't argue much at all,
but this is the thing. When we do have an argument,
it's I don't know, it's a bit weird. There's a
bit of silent treatment. And this is not good for
a relationship, is it. No, I don't think it is.
Speaker 2 (25:10):
But at least you've had your moment, as long as
it doesn't become personal. That's around them.
Speaker 6 (25:15):
And to be honest, that was six months ago. I
haven't seen her since. But it's look, I mean.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
When the other day and said, you've been a bad
kisser our entire marriage.
Speaker 6 (25:24):
I'll keep the silent treatment up. I'm going to try
to go for two years.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Steal the air tag in or bag. You should find
her one day. What about this one? Sleeping in separate
beds means a relationship is doomed. This is often steen
as a red flag, but no, it's not. Separate beds
could be the answer. And I've told you about this.
I am in a separate bed and separate bedroom to Lisa,
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my wife, and it works well.
Speaker 6 (25:52):
Benji Marshall is with Zoey Marshall as well. Remember we
discovered that, Yeah, we can love each other too much.
They say, so, maybe we need a little bit of
time apart. This article goes on to say, that's why
we're in separate beds.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
We love each other too much.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
You're next to me.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
How can I keep my hands off you?
Speaker 3 (26:09):
I was wondering why you read that one out? I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
The other one here it says you can't get over cheating.
As it turns out, yes you can. While cheating is serious,
it doesn't always define a person. And it's not over sorry,
And not all cheating is the same. Emotional affairs, long
term deception, one night stands, they all have different impacts.
Speaker 3 (26:31):
See, do you know what I've.
Speaker 6 (26:34):
Seen relationships where there's been cheating go on up to
three times.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
Oh my god, the other partner has gone that is enough?
Speaker 2 (26:43):
What like they were caught three times.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
Court three times? Man?
Speaker 6 (26:47):
Because I'm thinking I can understand that if you get caught.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Once and you love that person, it must be very
hard to move on.
Speaker 6 (26:54):
It's not that easy. I understand that. But you know
when it was happening multiple times, and.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
The habit and the routine, Like if you go to
Vegas once and you're there and you find yourself in
a heart shaped bath, we'd say three different women and
the champagne pouring and just ordered cheeseburgers, and the guys
are waiting outside and stuff. But these girls are all
over you, and you've already paid them a whole lot
of money. Then you know, moments like that do not
sort of dictate the future of your relationship, even if
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you do have rose petals in there.
Speaker 6 (27:23):
He's a maid of mine who who's an ex footballer
who has the nickname the Leopard, and you don't want
the nickname The.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Leopard won't change you, spoil.
Speaker 6 (27:32):
We call him the Leo Pard here he is the
Leo Leo Pard because he is never changed in his spots.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Can I talk to you about this one? Because this
one says that your partner should be your best friend
and you should spend all your time together. Tell me
if you'll bj do this thirteen twenty fourteen, Get involved
if you want. Lisa said to me the other day,
when we go to an event, we never hang out together.
And I said, no, we don't because we kind of
we're there to see the people. And I think when
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we go, like we're into a charity event the other night,
and we kind of walk in and you see everybody,
so she goes that way, and I go that way,
and then we check in every now and then on
the night. How are you going, How are you holding up?
Do you want to go soon? Are you doing all right? Okay,
good stuff, I'll be over there if you're looking for me.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Well, are you gravitates?
Speaker 6 (28:17):
It's isn't it nature that you just gravitate to the
boys and the girls to gravitate to the girls.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
D Well, that happens. But you're at an event, so
you're seeing so many different people that you haven't caught
up with for a while. You find yourself just in
separate conversations. But she said, you know, we never hang out,
and then I look for you when I'm ready to leave,
and that's when I say, oh, you can stay if
you want, and I'll go alright, I sleep.
Speaker 6 (28:39):
Well, that's why I love I love a sit down event.
I love a good wedding because you start with your
partner and then you go at By the end of
the night, you just you just you're anyone's plunking yourself
on other tables.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Melissa, Welcome to the show. Do you and your partner
do the same thing? Do you get into an event
or and a party, a party, and you just go
your own ways.
Speaker 9 (28:58):
Yes to your wedding, just parties or friends, barbecues or that,
or the boys will disappear and we're just left their
our own devices and we don't really exist until hours later.
Speaker 6 (29:09):
Can I it's okay now, Melissa? Can I ask you
out of you and your husband? Like if you do
go to an event and you go over to the girls,
he goes over to the boys. Who's the one that
is begging the other one to leave at the end
of the night.
Speaker 9 (29:23):
Probably me, because especially their weddings and that they do
start to get a bit carried away with drinking and dancing.
Here we need to go now, ye, or it's very
hard to find them.
Speaker 6 (29:36):
My old man was a stickler for that, like getting
out of there or sending money. Standing there spat the
dummy with his arms crossed, going, come on, Claire, stop talking,
I said.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Half an hour ago, I wanted to.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
Go home just to grab a guy with the sleety
mustache in the corner of the it's.
Speaker 3 (29:53):
Your son's wedding, mate, it's eight thirty aeth night.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
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