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Speaker 1 (00:02):
With Cape Rigging podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Switch You Remember with Kate Richie. Welcome to the podcast today,
A simple one. Right, we're taking your calls. Were you
in the right place at the right time. I received
an Instagram direct message yesterday from someone who played a
huge part in my life.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Twenty seven, twenty eight years ago. Whip.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It was one of the greatest days of myself and
my mate's life. Was the nineteen ninety eight AFL Grand
Final when the La Crows won their back to back premission.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Right place, right time.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
We got to be there and something happened that day
that I will never ever forget. And my child has
been missing ever since. I don't know where they are
and no, but you've got to hear what happened on
this day and the person that got in contact with me.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
It's in the podcast. This is the Fitzian with Cape
Ridge podcast.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Nicholas Cage an amazing actor. Hey, I didn't know if
you know this, but I had to look after his
kitten one with my cat, and I did looked after
and you know, he didn't want to cat originally.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
I'm looking for a truffle berg. So he got both
and I love it.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I'm so confused, but I love it.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
I'm slightly obsessed because I don't understand how this guy
has a career in Hollywood.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
No.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Well, I love him as an actor, but he's out there.
This story is out there.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
You know.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
He was in Australia filming of The Surfer, which is
the trailers out. Now, when's the movie out, Tommy, It's
out pretty soon, is June fifteen.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
You can watch it on stand.
Speaker 4 (01:42):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
So while he was here, he was interviewed I'll get
to the I'll get to the amazing bit very soon.
But he was also asked about Nicholas Cage. Are you
aware of a couple of these bands. One there's an
Australian band that's called Nicholas Cage Fighter, and he knows
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about the band and he loves the band.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
The other one is someone said, have you heard about.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Nicholas Cage against the Machine?
Speaker 3 (02:19):
And he doesn't know about them.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
But there's a band out there that does Rage against
the Machine songs.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
But the lead singer dresses.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Up as Nicholas Cage and he performs the songs in
Nicholas Cage's voice.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
It's amazing. It is unbelievable. But this is the story.
Just quickly.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I need to talk about this because they were asked
about He was asked about Nick Cave, the Ossie musician
who's an absolute legend.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Have you ever met Nick Cave?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Someone said that you've been mistaken for Nick Cave before,
and he said, I don't think that there's a day
that goes by where I'm not mistaken for Nick Cave.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
People also say, hey, Nick, you were great in The Hunger, which.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Is a David Bowie Milk film that Cage wasn't even in.
But he said, he said, I do remember that Nick
Cave was very nice to me. We were at an
animal sanctuary I believe it was Selly Animal Hospital in Texas,
and he was terrific. I went up to him, I
said hello, I shook his hand, and I said one
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thing to him. I said, Nick, only one letter separates
us your Nick Cave.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I'm Nick Cage.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
I don't think he would have known. I don't think
he would have had any idea.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Wow, that is senerrated by one letter from Nicholas Cage.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Do you wonder if Nick Cave remembers the story, Tommy,
can we try and get Nicholas Cage on the show. Yes,
Tommy Nicholas Cage against the Machine as a red room.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Yeah, I mean, they're not crazy ideas.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
This is the Fitting and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
There's moments in your life you're in the right spot
at the right time, and I would love to hear
from people thirteen twenty fourten if this has happened to
you and you've just gone, oh my god, I cannot
believe I'm here and what's happening around me.
Speaker 5 (04:12):
Oh so you're not talking about those videos where someone
will be standing on the side of the street and
a tire or cume los and it'll just miss them,
those amazing videos.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah, well said mate.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I wasn't really sort of looking for that, but yeah,
if you've got a story like that thirteen twenty fourteen,
get involved, because I've spoken about this before numerous times.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
The nineteen ninety eight AFL Grand.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Final, and we went there for the ninety seven Grand Final,
couldn't get in, so we had to watch it across
the road at Punt Road, so we couldn't get in
to watch our team win itep So we went back
in nineteen ninety eight and we got tickets. It was
an unbelievable experience. And before the game started, a made
of mine, Timmy Boston and I. We were standing there
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having a beer, and out of nowhere, a guy popped
up and he's, okay, volunteers, you got to come and
grab your red overalls and follow me down underneath the MCG.
And we just happened to be in the right place
at the right time.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
My maid and I looked at each other and said,
let's follow them.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Great, so we went down underneath the MCG and then
all of a sudden, this guy's just throwing out these
red overalls and he's going, okay, so remember, guys, we've.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Got to be quick. We get in, we get out.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
And that's it. The day is done, all right, So
they're all volunteers. We didn't know what was happening. Then
Whip with an ushed out onto the middle of the MCG,
and my maid and I were in the middle of
the MCG before the AFL Grand Final. All of a
sudden a car comes out of nowhere and it's Muhammad Ali,
the greatest boxer of all time. He was the special
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guest and he was driving right next to us.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
We were walking next to the car.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
We were supposed to be volunteers, had no idea what
was going on, and we're shadow boxing Muhammad Ali and
he's right next to us.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Why have I never heard this story?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
I've told this story numerous.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Timeshammad Ali in the red overalls Muhammad Ali. Then what happened, right,
is that we this was before, this was pre game,
all right. So then all the people in the red
ovals came off the ground and the game commenced and
we took off our red overalls. We then watched the
Crows go on to win the Grand Final. We were inebriated,
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we were celebrating. It was the greatest day ever. We
looked down onto the oval and everyone in red overalls
was then taking out the stage for the presentations after
the AFL Grand Final. So we run down of the fence,
put our red overalls on, and the security guard looks
at us.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
And goes, hurry up, guys, you're running late the field.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
So we ran out into the field in our red
overalls and celebrated with the team that we love wow
in these red overalls. I received I received a DM
on my Instagram page yesterday by a man called Brad
who happened to be there that day.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Brad, Welcome to the show, buddy.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
Yeah, this is an unbelievable story, Brad, and fourteen years
of radio with the Big Guy, and I don't think
I've ever heard this story.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Can you validate this story?
Speaker 7 (07:20):
Yeah, I can definitely validate it. We were in the
army at the time, and we were as sort of,
as he said, in charge of putting out the stage
and setting up the speakers and things like that, and
a couple of young guys from Adelaide just sat behind
us in our section and we're just sort of having
a chat and one of my friends recognized fifty from
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the draft I think it was at the time or
he was going into the draft or something like that,
and we just got chatting, and all of a sudden
we found an extra set of red overalls and ushered
the metal on the ground, and as he said, like
a few minutes later, Muhammed Ali comes past in the car.
We're probably a meter and a half two meters away
from the Great Man. And so in the middle of
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the field.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
Were you a legitimate volunteer or were you helping organize this?
Speaker 8 (08:07):
No?
Speaker 7 (08:07):
No, So we were in the Army at the time,
and so we were back up people, just set up
and sort of not extra security or anything like that,
but just in case, you know, something happened. So as
part of the austrain Defense Force football team, we used
to do that every year, set up a stage and
and to sort of comment, you know, yeah, basically.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Yeah, gotcha.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
So Brad, when I say right place, right time, I
just thought that we were in the right place. But
you guys had recognized me beforehand and sort of ushered
us down at the same time and knew that you
were going to give myself and my mate the red overalls.
Speaker 7 (08:46):
We didn't really know. We just thought I would be
a good joke just to see a couple of young
folks from Adelaide who was watching the footing out under
the field, so sort of just and it's amazing because
this stuck with me over these years, you know, you know,
following you on the radio and football and stuff, and
it was just there would there.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Would have been nothing subtle about it. I can imagine
young volunteers helping out a couple of people from the
army and then some guy at six foot six wearing
overalls that don't fit him so they're chopping his crotch
in half and he's got ankle freezers.
Speaker 7 (09:17):
That's correct, and twice at the time he did have
a bit of hair, so there wasn't all that he
would have fit in with the soldiers. Like myself, it
was a trip. It's the Mulody's looking thing.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
Oh, I love that, Brad.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Brad, can I just say on behalf of myself and
Tim Boston, one of my very good friends. It was
one of the greatest days of our life being Crow's
supporters and seeing your team, and that doesn't happen very often.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
So Brad, I just want to thank you from the
bottom of my.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Heart for one of the I thought it was right place,
right time, but you guys had picked me out, So
thank you for looking after us that day.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Brother lost.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Brady. Throw it out there though, right place, right time.
If something happened to you and you couldn't believe the
moment you found.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Yourself in, but you just went with it.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
Like Fitzi's story, Jenny and Mossman, what's your story?
Speaker 9 (10:06):
So I was holidaying as a teenager with my family
in Europe and we had done a day trick to Monaco. Yeah,
and there was someone that sort of approached this. They
heard that we were Aussies obviously from an accent. I
had come to this party. There's going to be a
special announcement about Australia. And basically it was the announcement
when Roun Antonio samarais on the organizing committee and now
(10:31):
that Sydney had won the Olympics and the.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
Winner is and the winner is.
Speaker 9 (10:37):
We were in the room with the Prime minister, free
booze party and it was amazing and the winner is Sydney.
Speaker 8 (10:47):
So that was pretty Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Who was prime Minister? Was it Howard Jenny?
Speaker 9 (10:52):
Oh no, I can't remember, so Jenny.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
And it continued into the night, did it.
Speaker 9 (11:00):
Yeah, it was that we saw the announcement on the
big screen and then that was the I love.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
That that that is such an iconic moment and the
winner and the winner reason with the big pause in there, Sydney, Sydney,
Deny Sydney.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
I love the idea that somebody at the event, You
Jenny went, oh my god, we need some assie. Go
get some damn OSSI's where we fil.
Speaker 9 (11:26):
The street.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
That is, so let's go to Susie in Mount Lewis
right place, right time, Sus.
Speaker 10 (11:34):
So we were I was traveling Sir Singapore on my own,
and basically there was two seats that needed to be
given to a family. They needed two extra seats on
the plane, and the flight attendants asked who would offer
up their seats. So I didn't know. But the next
flight that I got on, they actually bumped me up
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to first class because I'd given up my seat. I
was pretty lucky first class overall soon.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
So you had no idea at the time. You've just
done it out of the goodness of your heart. And
I wonder if that that was the only seat that
was free was first class. All they went, you know what,
she's such a legend. Yeah, let's bump her up.
Speaker 10 (12:17):
Yeah, right place and the right time, I think.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
So story, what a true? Can you tell us what
the meal was, sus Did you have a couple of
nice wines? Was it crazy?
Speaker 10 (12:26):
Yeah? Well I was on my own and it was
a long slide, so yeah, I got carried away.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
With the one, I think, Sands. What about you, Sandra,
what's your story?
Speaker 6 (12:39):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (12:39):
Hi guys. Yeah, I was in Italy a few years
ago and we did a big six week driving trip
and we started in Rome and ended in Rome, and
on the last day before we flew out, we thought
I would just go to the shops and see what's happening.
And it turns out it was all Saints stay, so
there's shops for shut for the morning. So I thought, oh, okay,
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here's another church. Why not just do one large church.
You know, we've been around it leave for six weeks
kind of over it. Anyway, we thought I would just
go in this little church and have a look around.
And we were just you know, taking all the beautiful
artworks and all that sort of stuff. And next thing
we hear these people going past Bar Francesca, part Bar Francesca,
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and my husband goes, oh, go to your Catholic singer
and see what all the fuss is about. Anyway, just
forced up the front of the church and in walks
Pope Francis with a small little entourage of people who
he has a load of people and stuff like that,
you know, people from the church, all the helpers there.
And there wouldn't have been maybe forty people is there's
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total because it was just a tiny little chapel. And
then he goes in the side chapel and they sing
a hymn, and we hear him sing with his with
his people, and he sings, and then he comes out
and he shakes the more hands and he just leaves,
and we're also looking a bit like dumbfounded and thinking
did we just hear and see what we thought we did?
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And it turned out that we were in You'll never
guess the chapel we were in Majora Basilica my drawer
for Mary, where he requested to be buried. Yeah, because
it was all Saints Day and that was his church.
Speaker 8 (14:20):
That's the Church of.
Speaker 11 (14:21):
Mary in Rome. It's a tiny little place and it's
just this most beautiful you know now we realize. And
then when we heard he died and was going to
be what requested to be buried there in that side
chapel where he'd gone in and sang, oh my het,
I just got foods starm So I said to my husband,
so pasted in the Catholic thing every now.
Speaker 4 (14:43):
And again you've been blessed?
Speaker 3 (14:47):
What about?
Speaker 8 (14:48):
What about arms reached in front of us.
Speaker 11 (14:51):
I've got an amazing photographs of him, and I was
just like, oh my God, and.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
Did you send them through?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
We want to see the five days actually to go
around and say for the rest of your life that
you saw Pope Francis perform in front of forty people.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
That's an unbelievable.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
Saying for me in a small church. Indian Sutherland, you've
got a story about the Pope as well, do you, Indy?
Speaker 6 (15:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (15:12):
I do.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (15:14):
So last week or the week before, we're in Rome
for a family trip and we decided to follow a
big line of people yep, and then we ended up
getting blessed by the Pope.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Wow. So they were lining up to meet him, honest?
Speaker 3 (15:31):
Is this before he passed Indy?
Speaker 6 (15:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (15:33):
On the Sunday, So you were one.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
Of the last to see the Pope before he passed away.
Speaker 8 (15:40):
Yep. We followed a big line and ended up at
the Pope.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
How did you feel when you found out that he
was gone, Indy? Was it a bit of a surreal experience?
Speaker 8 (15:50):
Yeah, because, especially because there was a big crowd in
the it was hard to leave Rome.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
It weren't responsible for him dying, were you, Indy?
Speaker 5 (15:57):
You didn't shake his hand with a dose of COVID
or anything, did you?
Speaker 4 (16:02):
When you get blessed? What does he do? Does he
does he shake your hand or does he just bow his.
Speaker 8 (16:06):
Head down or he just bound his head down?
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Fascinating, it's amazing. Well there was an indigenous woman as well.
Did you hear about that lady that was asked to.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Go to the Vatican Just before the night that he
passed that he'd met an indigenous woman from Australia who
had done amazing things here and they got a phone
call saying that he would like to see you tonight,
and she went and saw him the night that he
passed away.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
My gods, I noticed the top trending show over the
weekend was Conclave.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Does anyone seen that?
Speaker 3 (16:42):
I saw it on the weekend?
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Is it?
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (16:44):
I went to the old cremorn Orphium there.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
They've already commissioned conclave too. I don't think it could
do that conclave too. I'll be back.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
The Long, the Long Road to sainthood's really good.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
It's suspenseful. You will you'll love it because I wasn't
true about seeing it. But it's awesome right.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Here, right time. Is we've got some good calls here?
Tell me maybe we had that again?
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Well done to everyone else going to congratulations.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
This is the fits in with with Kate Richie podcast.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Guys, let's talk the Pope Leo and here is this
morning Ash.
Speaker 5 (17:26):
We were talking about the Prime Minister making his way
to Rome for the swearing in of the new Pope.
Speaker 4 (17:32):
Have I got Ash? There?
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Birch music, She got you with the mouse? Have wed?
When is it?
Speaker 4 (17:40):
When is the swearing in of the Pope the Pond?
Speaker 3 (17:42):
I believe it's next week, isn't Ash? And then Albow
is going to meet with some world leaders over there.
Speaker 13 (17:47):
Yeah, Albow will be making the most of that trip.
But he's had a busy few hours.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Pope Leo.
Speaker 13 (17:53):
He fronted about six thousand journalists overnight as well for
his first pressure with them, and he spoke about free
speech and how important he finds that. He also phoned
Voladimir Is Lensky in what was his first known phone
call with.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
A phone leader. So he's been really, really busy. I
wonder if you.
Speaker 5 (18:11):
Get a heads up if you're Vlenski, do you get
a heads up the Pope's about to call?
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Or do you look at it and go a new number?
Who is I'd heads up?
Speaker 6 (18:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (18:20):
Has he done his first TikTok or anything? Yeah? Yeah, Ash?
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Has he done anything sort of differently or no Tiktoks.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
I mean there's still time though.
Speaker 4 (18:31):
Yeah, I think he's on. Be real. Let's talk about
this because I love this audio.
Speaker 5 (18:36):
Now, whether this is real or not, I don't know,
but on TikTok there's ever three million people that have
viewed this.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
And it is a zoom call. I'm going to set
it up for you.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
It's a zoom call between a mother and a daughter
and they're waiting on the announcement of who the pope is.
And when they realize that Leo is chosen as the pope,
the penny drops for maybe some history that the mother
has had.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Org My mom.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
Hooked up with the pope what yep, before he was
the pope and before he was committed to the church.
Mom had had some couch time for her sins with
the pope.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Well that's who did we know, Sarah who worked you
her mom hooked up with Malcolm term But like I mean,
that would have been a something like that in the family.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
That's the story that you remember forever out.
Speaker 5 (19:37):
Of mine who had when it was Margot Robbie for
eight years it stack still in tears.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
That was amazing and he was shattered when her career
took off.
Speaker 3 (19:47):
He was absolutely shattered.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
Wasn't he the city and with a w Kate WHITCHI podcast?
Speaker 6 (19:52):
I like.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
Good? I liked him. D it's weted?
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Do you know what?
Speaker 5 (20:05):
It does have to be just the start of a relationship.
It might also be a relationship you've been in for
a while and it.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Mightn't be going that well. So you're going to make
a call. Am I going to stay with them? Or
am I going to dump them?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Caroline in Freshwater?
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Good morning, Caroline, How we're good?
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Carolina.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
If you've seen the derodis, the electric bikes around the
northern beaches, they out of.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
Control at the moment they are.
Speaker 6 (20:31):
I'm a big fan of them, but yes, they do
cause a lot of issues.
Speaker 4 (20:34):
True, Caroline. What's the name of the person you've been seeing?
Speaker 6 (20:37):
Dan?
Speaker 3 (20:38):
Dan the Man? Let's talk. How long have you been
seeing Dan the Man?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
For Carol, I'm thanking him for about six months or
so now.
Speaker 3 (20:49):
Daniel, She's it's fresh I can spill it's fresh water.
Fresh water. Yeah, all right. What are the good things about?
What's the good things about Dan?
Speaker 6 (20:59):
Okay, so we've got three pros. I've got one. He's
really handy, can fix anything. I ask always on it
really click loves loves cooking doing that yeah so much.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
Dream Yeah, very very good.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
The third one is always has time on the weekend
to do really fun things like goes to the beach
and whatever.
Speaker 4 (21:25):
Prioritize lifestyle, lifestyle.
Speaker 6 (21:27):
Lifestyle, yeah yeah yeah. And then the con so relates
to the cooking one. So every time I'm really good
at making dinner, but then when we're eating, he just
moans the whole time while he eats.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
What do you mean moans because he's enjoying food.
Speaker 6 (21:43):
Or like like everybody he takes.
Speaker 4 (21:47):
He like he's happy with his own cooking.
Speaker 6 (21:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but like doesn't realize it. And
then I'll just stare at him and he'll just be
and he'll I said, your moaning and he's like still going.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Can just quickly before you go onto another con.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
But if he's if he's the one that's cooking and
doing all the hard work, I think he deserves.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
A moan every now and then when he has.
Speaker 6 (22:12):
Yeah, that is a good point. I mean, it's very
fat like it's I mean, but it was also like
we're talking very plain food, so it doesn't it's I
would say, we're.
Speaker 4 (22:19):
Not happy with the cooking. Okay, you're not happy with
the cooking camera.
Speaker 6 (22:24):
No it's no, no, no, it's very good cooking. But
I'm like, it's not five star micht In restaurant.
Speaker 4 (22:29):
You know, we have some high expectations here.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
Any other any other cons carol?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
Umm?
Speaker 6 (22:35):
Or the other one was when he this is a
real weird one. He has like forty five minutes scoldering
hot showers, but like so hot to the point that
he sets the fire alarm off and then has to
like run out of the shower completely wet to like
turn the fire alarm off.
Speaker 4 (22:51):
And is he moaning when he does that?
Speaker 3 (22:54):
Yeah, he's doing something else. What else? Any other consumm?
Speaker 10 (22:59):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (22:59):
The other one? He has three phones and says.
Speaker 10 (23:02):
It's the.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Three phones are for work, are they yeah?
Speaker 4 (23:09):
And does he leave them out? Does he like does
he know that you know he has three phones?
Speaker 14 (23:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (23:14):
Yeah, yeah, he's has them like lined up perfectly next
to each other.
Speaker 5 (23:17):
Okay, I think that's he's he's open about his three phones.
So he's a handy man and he's cooking, like you
know what I mean, Sissy, you got yourself marriage material here?
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Yeah, I would stay with him as well. How old
are you, Caroline?
Speaker 3 (23:34):
Can I ask twenty four? Twenty four? Okay, so you're
young as well.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
I mean it's not very often you're going to find
a handy man on the on the northern beaches that
can cook as well.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
Caroline, I'd go with whip on that one.
Speaker 4 (23:46):
Yes, it's playing extra soup. You're going to be okay, Caroline,
hanging in there phone.
Speaker 6 (23:51):
I'll give him another six months maybe, Oh, call us back.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
In six months with a brand new list.
Speaker 12 (23:56):
We'll call.
Speaker 6 (23:57):
Yeah, we'll call back in six months of a new lit.
Speaker 12 (23:59):
I'll keep you guys.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Thank you, Carol.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Rebecca in Sydnam high back.
Speaker 15 (24:05):
Hi, how are you?
Speaker 4 (24:06):
Oh that sounds.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Nervous, Matt little bit. Let's talk about the old. Welcome Matt.
How long have you been with Matt?
Speaker 15 (24:14):
That eighteen months?
Speaker 2 (24:17):
He sounds like a dream boat to May. Why dreamboat back?
Speaker 15 (24:22):
He's really compassionately volunteers in the community.
Speaker 5 (24:26):
Except you know what a community member, a valued community
member is priceless.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
That's amazing.
Speaker 15 (24:33):
He loves to help.
Speaker 4 (24:34):
Oh, well, that's great. He's got a big heart.
Speaker 15 (24:36):
Anything else he helps you around the house. He always
brings the bins up and down the driveway.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yes, without effort by him, if he's prepared to do that.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
And what about him will recycle?
Speaker 3 (24:48):
What about his physical features? What do you love about him? Back?
Is it his guns? Is it his chest? What is it?
Speaker 15 (24:53):
Well, he's not going to go bold anytime too, because
he's got a great head of hair.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
Is a good head of hair? Is the overall a
hairy guy?
Speaker 15 (25:01):
No, he's not an overall hairy guys. Just body said.
Speaker 4 (25:03):
That's a shame because I know girls like overall hairy guys.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
He's not on hair dizzy.
Speaker 4 (25:07):
Doesn't matter if natural fine meds are fine, whatever. If
you don't like something, change.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
You wouldn't want to do that, that's for sure, all right.
Speaker 5 (25:16):
So he sounds like I've never dream boat and Beck,
I can only assume on the intimate side, things.
Speaker 4 (25:21):
Are on track.
Speaker 15 (25:24):
Yes, things are on track.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Good, Okay, so we need to know let's get onto
the cons They are welcome Matt.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
What what's wrong about Matt?
Speaker 10 (25:34):
At the dinner table?
Speaker 15 (25:35):
He likes to tap and shake his legs while he's
sitting there to get blood circulation.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Does he say it's for blood circulation or is it
just nervous about giving direct feedback about your cooking.
Speaker 15 (25:47):
I could be both.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
You know, do you do most of the cooking back?
Speaker 12 (25:50):
Or is it?
Speaker 4 (25:52):
Beck's the cook? Okay, so shaky leg. He's got shaky leg,
restless leg.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
Syndrome, cons any other cons.
Speaker 15 (26:00):
To send me a bill after we've been out for
dinner to pay half.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
No, he doesn't. He's joking though, isn't he.
Speaker 12 (26:05):
Beck?
Speaker 11 (26:06):
No?
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Oh, you've been going out for eighteen months. He's got
to step up as a man and take that over.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Beck.
Speaker 15 (26:14):
I know I keep telling him that, what about it?
Speaker 2 (26:18):
I mean we've spoke about physical features before. He has
great head of hair. Anything that you don't like about him.
Speaker 15 (26:24):
Beck, Unfortunately he's had too many chocolate bars. He's missing
a few teeth at the back of his mouth. To
kiss him, you can fill the holes with your tongue.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Is he going to do something about it? Beck? Oh?
Speaker 15 (26:44):
Yeah, I think he is.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
I mean, I.
Speaker 4 (26:47):
Can't have you for these.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
If he gets the ch.
Speaker 5 (26:52):
You can get a gold tooth here if he's if
your tongue is sliding between the gaps of his pigs
and then I don't know if that's the sort of
thing you want to be doing.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
That's so much of a turn on, is it, Beck?
Speaker 15 (27:06):
Not really.
Speaker 5 (27:06):
I mean people have weird things. I mean, if you're
into gums by all means, but I don't think many
people are.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
I don't mind having it. I don't mind having a
couple of teeth missing.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
I mean it's to.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Take him out every now and then and just do
the old stare down a kid, which is quite funny.
There's some party tricks involved with that as well. Look,
I disagree with me from this one. I'd say i'd
stick with him back.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
I would stick with.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
What so you're saying, you get home from a beautiful
night out, you're excited to go back, and maybe there's
a bit of love to make And first thing when
you walk in the door, he sends you a bill,
so you have to pay half the dinner, and then
you start making out and digging the leftover food out
of the gaps in his teeth.
Speaker 3 (27:52):
Do you know why he's doing it?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
They may because he's been volunteering all day and taking
the bins cut and also brushing his views.
Speaker 5 (28:01):
We go to the main that he has, we go
to the third party on this ash. You're listening to
the pros and cons list from Beck. You aren't going
to decide whether relationship is over or it continues, hang
under it or dumped ash you're on.
Speaker 13 (28:16):
I think if he gets the holes in his mouth sorted.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
He doesn't keep him. We can't do it.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
He's Gettinger's mate, he's getting inches.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
She never said he was getting denters?
Speaker 3 (28:26):
Is he getting to speak?
Speaker 15 (28:29):
He might use be the money that I don't pay
that I pay for for the bill for the dinner.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
You'll be paying for half the dents as well.
Speaker 5 (28:37):
All right, bet, good lads, that was a beautiful, gosh,
how hot a movie?
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Who would play Beck and who would play Matt? Well,
Matt Damon would probably be able to play Matt.
Speaker 3 (28:50):
I would say, Rebecca Black, did she play.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
That from the Friday Songs role? Yeah? Yeah, absolutely?
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Fred?
Speaker 2 (28:57):
It's Fred and are both friend doesn't have tea?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
I mean.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
Rolls off potang.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
This is the Fitting and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast
Tradees have a listen.
Speaker 5 (29:09):
Maybe you're out and about on the work site. What's
the first thing people do you reckon when they wake
up in the morning and they pick up their phone.
A little bit of social media? Maybe jump on Tinder, swipe, swipe, swipe, Well, just.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
See where you can get the cheapest can of V.
So true.
Speaker 5 (29:23):
If you're a trader, you're looking for your V this morning,
you might pick up the Traveler pie and then swipe, swipe, swipe, Tinder, swipe, swipe, swap.
A guy on social media has come out. He's an
expert on social behaviors, Ryan James, and he has come
out and said, we are creating a new breed of men.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
Have a listen to this.
Speaker 14 (29:43):
On tender amount of average attractiveness has to swipe right
two hundred times to get one coffee, and then four
of those five coffees will ghost him. They will decide
they don't want to meet him or they want to
show up. That means a guy of average attractive has
to swipe right a thousand times to get one coffee.
(30:04):
Now what does that tell that guy? Women don't value me,
women make me feel rejected. And then they go online.
They see these misogynists telling them it's not your fault.
And these men become much more prone to misogynistic content,
much more prone to nationalistic content blaming other people for
the lack of economic opportunity. They start sequestering from society.
(30:24):
I worry that we are literally evolving a new species
of asexual asocial mail. And if a man by the
age of thirty hasn't either lived with someone or married someone,
there's a one in three chance he's gonna have a
substance abuse problem.
Speaker 5 (30:39):
Wow, that's pretty full interesting theory, big big number and
big climate at the end there that if a man
by the age of thirty hasn't lived with somebody or
dated someone, that.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
They have a one in three chance of substance abuse.
Massive climb. Trying to you one tinder? Is this going on.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Thirteen twenty four ten and I was giving us kill
from Scyfields.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
Good morning, Now, what are your thoughts on that?
Speaker 12 (31:06):
Noah, Oh, we made bishop. He has a scroll for
his tinder. Every morning he's got the tinder gold and
he just swaped swaps. And then when you see him
at like Moco and he'd be looking at him gets
some rough one day.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
So Noah, on the way to the work side, he's swiping.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
So he's setting up his night that night. Is that correct?
Speaker 12 (31:29):
He's just getting ready to play out through them now, no.
Speaker 5 (31:33):
Sick witness, buddy keeping clean mate, Noah, Noah, I.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Need to ask, I need to ask, is he a
good looking blake?
Speaker 6 (31:41):
Like?
Speaker 3 (31:41):
Do you honestly think he's a good looking bike yourself?
Speaker 12 (31:43):
He's a good looking yeah, Noah.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
What's the difference between Tinder and Tinder gold? Like? If
you have the gold one, what do you get for that?
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Oh?
Speaker 12 (31:54):
He just unlimited low. He just swap swipe, swap and
then you can just keep going. Right? How old does
he know twenty fix?
Speaker 5 (32:03):
And how long has he been on tender four? I
mean does he normally line up one day to week
or how often is he dating?
Speaker 12 (32:10):
I don't know. He gets he gets a fuel week,
he gets a fuel week, Okay, he.
Speaker 3 (32:17):
Always concreds. No scaffolders on the scaffo, mate, speaking mate,
make sure I've got your ticket? Third and twenty four
ten fellas get involved because I The.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
Other thing is you're not going to ask what he
has for breakfast?
Speaker 3 (32:32):
What do you have for breakfast?
Speaker 4 (32:33):
Now?
Speaker 12 (32:34):
May I normally have a world on son world.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
On congratulations welcome to the club, so that some below
you can imagine when his stomach's turning around.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
So there's a thousand swipes.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Though I must admit I actually agree with the guy
that that must be pretty deflating.
Speaker 3 (32:57):
It would be if and if you're getting hoasted.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
Three or four times out of those two hundred swipes,
ghosting would have to be the ultimate kick in the face.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
Yeah, because you know what.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
You've gone all the effort, you've found, you finally found someone,
you've done yourself up.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
And then all of a sudden they haven't rocked up.
That must So then.
Speaker 2 (33:19):
You're watching so what they're saying, you're watching social media
whip and then all these absolute pigs of blokes like
Andrew Tata saying it's not your fould, it's not your fauld,
and they start listening to these male chauvinistic dicks.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
They feel like someone's you know, speaking their language. And
then you turn up for the date, the person's not
there and you're getting another canav and a smoke on
the way home. Pretty fuch ten and traders, if you're
out there and you want to comment, if you're swiping
hard and trying to get a date, so it is, that.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
Would be very deflating.
Speaker 2 (33:53):
Do you know what, though, when do you get to
an age where you go, I really I don't want
to swipe anymore.
Speaker 3 (33:57):
I really want to settle down well, if I think
you've got to get out of that's that's an addiction.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
If you're on Tinder and you're swapping two hundred times
on the way to the work side every morning, that's
an addition.
Speaker 5 (34:07):
Well, you would say that if dating apps worked, they
wouldn't exist.
Speaker 4 (34:11):
Wow, we'll hang on.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Ash. Just a beautiful Ash just got married and she
met her partner on a dating app.
Speaker 4 (34:17):
Oh sorry, ashwrichud was that on?
Speaker 13 (34:20):
That was on Tinder?
Speaker 6 (34:21):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (34:21):
Okay, so right on the spot? Here were you?
Speaker 3 (34:25):
Were you?
Speaker 1 (34:26):
Like?
Speaker 3 (34:27):
Were you swiping? Did you ever get ghosted? Ash?
Speaker 10 (34:30):
No?
Speaker 13 (34:31):
No, never ghosted?
Speaker 2 (34:33):
No?
Speaker 4 (34:33):
What about that footballer?
Speaker 3 (34:37):
Don't do this? Can I ask? Ash? How many dates
did you go on before you found your husband?
Speaker 1 (34:45):
You?
Speaker 13 (34:46):
Yeah, And I would say like a handful. Yeah, And
obviously you're chatting to a lot of people as well,
and a lot of those don't eventuate in dates.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 13 (34:55):
But I think this this mentality that if you get
reject to then it gives the green light to misogynistic behavior.
I think that's pretty problematic.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
You couldn't agree more.
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Well, but see, do you know what this is what
flicks up in their feed though? It's the algorithm and
do you know what? They get so deflated though.
Speaker 3 (35:15):
Yeah, the rejection is part of life.
Speaker 13 (35:18):
It is the people aren't always going to say yes,
like you don't have to be everyone's cup of tea.
Speaker 4 (35:22):
That is part of life. But I think it's the compound.
Speaker 5 (35:25):
If someone's gone for a year and they just continue
to get rejected, that's when it becomes a little bit
dangerous to what they're then looking at Michael's in Mount Druid.
Speaker 4 (35:32):
You're a bit older, are you me?
Speaker 6 (35:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (35:36):
Okay, a different one's carbon dating.
Speaker 4 (35:45):
That's how i'll you are. I've been able to date
you back to the fifties.
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